MANIFESTING & LAW OF ATTRACTION

49 Thoughts on Law of Attraction and Money (and Anything else!)

2010-08-28T13:02:06+01:00

This is a precursor to the content that will be at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event in a few weeks. Remember, we have preferential rates with the hotel, including them waiving a daily resort fee for our attendees. Do check out the "Excitement about the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas Event" post I wrote a few days ago about it.

From the following, take what you enjoy and what resonates for you at this moment. At another time, something else may resonate more with you or make more sense to you at that moment ;)

1 - You thought this would be about money, didn’t you? Well, it is, and a whole lot more. You attracting money, or anything else, isn’t just about what you are intending to attract, but about you and your flow, which is much more than just that 'thing'. When you are in that place, you attract money, and all sorts of other things.

We are talking about money, but abundance and your flow are really what it is about. Money is a part of that.

2 - Money is a by-product of your energy about the subject. We can very easily focus on the financial condition and not realise the cause – that it is an energetic cause.

3 - There is no limit to what can flow into your life, other than your beliefs.

4 - You can focus on abundance or lack, the Universe will magnify either.

5 - Money (or anything else) is a manifestation of your consciousness. It is a non-physical Universe, and it is also a physical world that you live in. What is around you is an energetic match to your thoughts and emotions.

6 - One of the key reasons people do not attract the wealth they would like is their attention to lack or on what they do not have or on what will happen because they do not have enough. Or they have associations to money which are negative and repell it.

7 - Take your attention away from the lack of it. Make a list of the thoughts you have on a daily basis which focus on the lack of money and work on letting them go. (More tips on this below)

8 - You may say "Well, the reality is I DON'T have enough, what am I supposed to do?"

Focus on aspects of money that feel good (or better, or less worse - something which is an improvement). Turn your attention away from 'reality'. Deal with what you need to in the real and action world, but don't dwell on the lack of it. Turn your attention towards what feels good about it. Whether something in the present moment, something you can fantasise in the future, or even a past memory. They key is the emotion you create in your now about it. You are attracting more that is a match to it.

9 - It's not just the thoughts about something, but the emotion/vibration behind it. That’s KEY.

10 - The feelings you have about something are from the combination of your beliefs about that subject.

Notice how all these thoughts FEEL. Do they uplift you and flow your natural spirit through you? Or are there implications around fear and lack?

11- All it takes is to find a pure thought - a thought that is of what you want, and build on it. This is what Law of Attraction is, on a very simple level.

Find a thought that feels good. Do not doubt it or contradict it. Focus on the enjoyment of it, and allow it to build and build. Most people do not get through a sentence without saying why they can't have it or contradicting what they want. Keep your focus on positive statements and build those statements. Add more and more. Build the vibration of what you want. The excitement will build and you will see manifestations.

12 - There is no conflict between money, or whatever else, and anything else in this Universe, other than your beliefs about it.

Just like anything and everything else in this Universe, money and abundance is as beautiful as you want to see it. It’s to do with the eyes you see it from, not what it is. Allow yourself to be fine about it. You don’t have to share it with others, especially if they have different views, but allow yourself to be fine about it.

Conflicts are “I can EITHER have this OR that”. Make it about “As I have this, I have that TOO”, or “In me having this, I get to have so much more of everything else too”. Money, like anything else, is a tool to your expansion. You can choose whichever tools you’d like in your life.

13 - Money, like anything else, does not make someone good or bad. It magnifies who they are. It is an enabler, a magnifier.

14 - You may feel that money is not consistent with service or spiritual development. Remember, despite it being intelligence, the Universe is energy and offers no judgement - you do through your beliefs. Money, literally, is as 'spiritual' as anything else is. It is all the same. You carve the Universe into distinctions through your beliefs.

If you believe that service or spiritual development and money are incompatible, then they will be for you. If you believe that you can thrive with them and money, you will thrive.

15 - There is nothing wrong with money or anything else. Your associations – your thoughts, especially your instinctive thoughts about it, are what influences how it is for you.

16 - You may be visualising or affirming more money, but how do you FEEL? It’s not about the thoughts, but more so about the EMOTIONS you experience.

Notice the frequency/vibration you have about money by your emotions about it. You attract things within that vicinity. Whether things of a financial nature, or other things.

17 - When many others teach Law of Attraction, they may often hype it with promises of monetary gain and other material delights. That’s absolutely fine. I just want you to know it’s about that, and anything else you want it to be.

Law of Attraction is a universal law, it applies to EVERYTHING, and everywhere. You can attract whatever you want.

18 - It is not necessarily about believing you can attract money, it is about not resisting your flow of money. Energy, like a stream of water, flows, other than when it is blocked or misdirected.

If you can enjoy money (thus offering the vibration of it), and not doubt or fear it or anything else, you are on your way. Allow yourself to attract more thoughts that match that.

It is actually easier to focus on abundance because the Universe is pure positive energy, that is your natural birthright, and that is where your natural flow is. It's just that along the way you learned habits, behaviours and attitudes that prevented you from knowing who you are (the infinite vibrational pure positive being that you are that knows no limits, is connected to everything, and is full of and knows their possibilities).

19 - You have a relationship with everything in this Universe, that includes money, and everything else.

What happens in your relationship with that 'thing' is down to how YOU relate to it. It is a process you are doing in every moment.

When you are out of your flow in a relationship with a lover, they will sense it and it will feel uncomfortable for them. When you are not feeling very good, it will be picked up by your presence, not necessarily on a seen level, but an unseen level more-so. When you are joyous and feeling good, this will be attractive and will be felt on an unseen level. People and situations will be drawn to you.

Now, notice the relationship you have with money and how it feels. If you were money, would you want to deepen the relationship with you? Everything in the Universe is vibrating and has an intelligence. Would money want to seek you?

20 - Play games and imagine having more and more. You are an expansive, vibrational being. Allow yourself to daydream, imagine, visualise, and whatever other ways you have of seeing yourself with more. Pretend that you have greater and greater means if that enables you to imagine more.

Expand the vibrational range you allow yourself to experience. If you are used to focusing on ‘paying your bills’ and ‘getting by’, allow yourself, if it feels fun, to imagine what it would be like with immeasurable wealth. How would it be? What would you do? Where would you go? What would you do for the ones you love?

Expand your consciousness around money. Imagine more flowing in. Where your attention and energy goes, the Universe goes. Open up your ‘pores’ and allow it.

21-If time and money weren’t a factor, how would your life be?

Create the thought space for what is to come into your life.

22 - Consider the thoughts and emotions you have (such as about money, or anything else) in your day.

Many people visualise or do other processes but their money situation doesn’t change. Oftentimes, they are building a vibration when they do their processes, but they then contradict it with worries and fears during the day with their daily observations. Hence, not a lot changes. And in some cases they then doubt that Law of Attraction works. It’s not the Universe that’s at fault, it’s the signal you’re giving it :)

23 - How do you feel when you feel you do not have enough money?

- Lower self-esteem?
- Feeling down
- Feeling restricted?
- Disappointment?

Notice the emotional habits you are having on a daily basis, whether about money or anything else. Work on raising your ‘set-point’, so to speak. As you raise your vibration, what you experience in your life also changes.

24 - When you think about money, how does it feel? Is there a natural upliftment? or does it feel like something which is hard work or not possible? Allow yourself to feel good about the subject of money. Allow yourself to feel good in general.

If you can’t at the moment feel good about money, feel good about something else and don’t think about money, whilst it doesn’t feel good. In feeling good about something else, you are allowing yourself to build that vibration. Money and abundance can come to you via another avenue, another path of least resistance, if money directly is something you are not lined up with.

(Focus on what feels good and find your flow. That is better than working on something that is very difficult.)

25 - Initially, because of what they are going through, people may not find it easy to feel good about themselves and money. So, find pictures in brochures, online etc,and feel good about money as a subject, period. Then, once that feels good, you can start to imagine it and feel good about it in your life.

Let go of the ‘how’ and other details. Focus on the enjoyment. The Universe hears your vibration, it doesn’t need to know from your tiny finite conscious mind how you think it should do, it has unlimited, infinite resources that create worlds, and that synchronise nature and planets. It doesn’t need to know the ‘how’ from you.

26 - When you value yourself enough to be in your flow, allow the Universe to value you and do the same...

27 - The Universe is totally abundant. It is pure potential waiting for you to impress upon it with your intention and alignment. It WANTS you to do that, for in the process, it, and you, both expand and grow...

If there ever was a case there wasn't 'enough' (which would never be the case, there is always more than enough), the Universe would expand and create more. You have no worry of any shortage. The Universe is an infinite, abundant, unlimited intelligent being.

28 - Usually, people focus on money because they do not have enough of it - the lack of it, usually, but not always. The ones who have it, will tend to focus on other things such as their joy, passion, love, and money comes as a natural consequence. The ones who do not have it feel often feel they cannot afford to do that.

29 - How to identify the beliefs you have around money? I will cover other techniques at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, but one way is take a page and write “Money is...” and write and write. Don’t think, just write.

See what you have written on the page. Notice how it feels. Now, if you were money, would you be attracted to you?

30 - No matter how bad things are (if they are), they can turn around. All the possibilities available to you aren't visible. They become visible by your attention to them. You have to see them as possible before they appear.

31 - It's actually not just about money, it's about you being in your flow. Money is just a consequence or symptom of you being in tune with your flow. The quickest, easiest way to your flow is finding things that you enjoy. As you focus on those, and you feel better and better, you are more in harmony with the Universe and what you want.

32 - To be abundant, offer an abundant vibration.

There are various differences and consequences of you living from an abundant vibration versus a scarcity vibration. This will be covered in detail at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, but they affect the way you look at your world, the choices you make, how they affect you when they make decisions, and so on.

At the Vegas event I will cover these differences, how to be aware of them within yourself, and how to soften things so you live from a place of choice, than ‘need’ or ‘necessity’. You will also be aware of the linguistic ‘markers’ – in the words or phrases – that you or others use to notice them.

33 - Abundance and scarcity are frequencies. It is your choice which you want to tune into. You can focus on shortage and on what there isn't and on what is so terrible in the world, or you can focus on possibilities, use your imagination, and what is plentiful. Neither is right or wrong, they are both choices. You have total freewill what you focus upon. The Universe will deliver to you more of what you are vibrating.

34 - It doesn't matter what background, education or qualifications or geographically where you are. This whole Universe is a vibrational Universe. You change your vibration and either your environment changes to reflect that, or you are naturally drawn to an environment that resonates with you, depending on your path of least resistance.

35 - You may feel that there are situations and conditions in your life that prevent you from having money. Let go of your beliefs about how money can come to you.

The Universe can only bring you money based on how you believe it can come to you. Put your vibration on you having the money and let the Universe figure out the ‘how’. Let go of your beliefs about it.

Money can come to you in as many ways as you allow it to come to you. If you believe it must be a certain way, it can then only come to you that certain way.

36 - Remember, the Universe is energy and everything is vibration. The form is malleable based on your thoughts and beliefs. You are moulding and shaping the Universe, and your experiences within it, by your thoughts, emotions and beliefs.

37 - If you believe you have a genetic disease called 'poverty', it is time to get that belief out of your system. It is time to inject prosperity into your system by your attention to it.
It is not a genetic disease, it is an attention disease.

38 - You may be born in a certain place, amongst certain people, be living amongst certain people or have certain conditions that you believe are not conducive to you having abundance. Realise your story has a happy ending, and that was all part of the journey.

It’s not the conditions or the environment that will determine what happens, it’s what you focus upon. Start to play the story in your mind of the happy ending, despite the conditions you came from.

Withdraw your focus, internally, than to the conditions and environment on the external. Soon enough, you will get confirmation from your environment and the manifestations will start. First as a trickle, but as you allow, they will get quicker and bigger. They will then tell the story about you and how you ‘made it’, DESPITE the conditions.

39 - It doesn’t matter what anyone says about you and money, you have your own connection to everything in the Universe. You can allow yourself to be influenced and affected by others, but no one controls your flow other than you.

40 - When you assume that something outside of you needs to change for you to attract what you want, you tend not to look within as much and to your own powers of divinity.

41- When you feel scared and out of your flow, realise the signals are strongest and ‘loudest’ as to what to do. If everything is darkness, the light is even easier to see.

42 - When you have the abundance and money that you would like, what would it be like? Are you practising this more than your fears and attention on what you do not have?

How do you see yourself in your mind's eye?

43 - When you think of you and prosperity, what’s the first thought that comes to your mind? That can be a clue as to how you see yourself (in relation to prosperity), too.

44 - You will attract whatever your dominant attention is on something. If it on the side of prosperity and abundance, that will build and grow. If it’s on the side of lack, that’s what you will experience. The way you know is how you feel. Is it feeling worse? Or better?

45 - What is the worst that can happen? What are your greatest fears? Make peace with this.

By pushing against it and fearing/not wanting it, it has a ‘charge’. Make peace with it, whether in terms of things you can do, or how you feel about it, so you let go of the emotions and the ‘charge’ around it.

If you are bullet proof emotionally, if you do not fear (And that is down to your perspective. We will be going into it in detail at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event) something, or have let go of the negative emotions around it, you are creating space around you, vibrationally and physically, for it to come into your life. At the least you are not keeping your attention on what you don’t want. That energy you release, creates space for new things. It also feels better and is kinder on you and your body.

46 - Don’t worry about the past or look back with regret. Remember you have a fresh platform in your now and the Universe is listening to your vibration right now.

47 - Did we say it’s not just about the money. In fact, these thoughts apply anywhere and everywhere in your life :)

48 - Allow time and space for you and move towards enjoying your life. As you raise your vibration, all areas of your life can prosper.

49 - If you are able to join us at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event, do feel free to do so. We are going to have a very enjoyable couple of days on September 25th and 26th with a lot of special content and information being shared. You will get to make a lot of like-minded friends, too. We also have a Facebook Group created where you can meet each other right away.

Excitement about the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas Event

2010-08-25T22:49:11+01:00

Firstly, coming within the next day or so on this blog is a post on Attracting Money. It is a precursor to some of the content at the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event.

Below is a video that Terri Plewa has created on her experiences with me and her excitement about the forthcoming event. She is booked onto it as are many others now, including Hilory Walik whose company Diamond Media Solutions (their site will be live soon) created the video

Do remember, if you are about to register onto the event, or have already done so, to book your hotel room with the Trump International before the end of August so you can have it at $99 (excl tax) rather than their usual rate of $179.

For our attendees, they are also waiving the $20/per day resort fee which covers the fitness gym, WiFi, and other facilities - i.e. this will all be included FREE if you are attending the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event.

We have had a number of prominent people want to speak at this event (including movie producers, motivational speakers and best selling authors), whose attention and interest we value and appreciate. In general, we have found attendee preference for this event to be to spend more time with me in applying Law of Attraction in their lives.

Also, if you have registered for the event, or are about to, if you happen not to receive an invitation for some reason, do request to join this "Law of Attraction in Las Vegas - Confirmed attendees" group. It is a group created so attendees can connect, mingle, network, and also arrange to meet in Vegas if they would like to. We have people flying in from around the world, as well as the US, and many are looking to make like-minded friends too.

Ok, below is Terri's video. If you are reading this anywhere other than the blog, CLICK HERE TO ACCESS THE POST ON THE BLOG AND VIEW THE VIDEO

Remember, Vegas Hotel room rate is at HALF price until end of August

2010-08-17T19:05:07+01:00

REMEMBER, THE DISCOUNTED VEGAS HOTEL ROOM RATE, WHICH IS AT ALMOST HALF PRICE, IS UNTIL THE END OF AUGUST

I just wanted to remind you that if you are wanting to attend the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event next month (September 25th & 26th) that the discounted $99 rate (excl tax) that we have negotiated with the hotel for a studio suite at the Trump International is until August 31st. This is almost HALF their regular rate of $179 (excl tax).

It would be great to meet you there if you can make it! My intention is it will be a VERY special event with a lot of life changing, transformational, exhilirating, and fun, content.

Bring Your Intentions, Expect them to Progress

You may come with goals and outcomes that you would like to be working on in your life. As well as me covering content, there will be interaction also.

No Coincidence in You Being There

There will be no coincidence of the people attending and the questions asked, the answers and content you receive, and the connections you make. It will be beautifully orchestrated for you to receive the answers you are looking for to take you towards where you want to be heading.

Answers for You on Many Levels

This Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event will give you many answers, on many levels, for themes in your life, and where you want to be heading. The answers and content will be 'multi-layered' in that they will speak to you on many levels, and you will take information and ideas in the best ways that fit for you.

Finding 'You'

You will also find a better connection with yourself on many levels. When I work with clients, this happens right away and their perspectives change on everything, which in turn leads to them being more aligned to the scenarios that they want. This harmony is always there, I enable you to more easily find 'You'.

Connecting with Others before and during the Event

Whilst people have been booking onto the event, my intention is to create a way where attendees can connect before the event if they would like to. Most likely, this will be a private Facebook Group for attendees. We are also working on arranging optional buffet dinners on the evenings of the event so attendees can spend more time with each other and with me.

I know many of you that have booked, and know that there will be wonderful connections amongst you, as well as what you get from the event itself. There are 'light workers', intuits, practitioners, coaches, and more, amongst those attending.

Do remember, the $99 deal from the Trump International hotel is until the end of August

For more information and to book, go to Law of Attraction in Las Vegas

Dealing with the End of a Marriage or Relationship (or Anything!)

2010-08-13T00:35:51+01:00

When we have decided we will spend the rest of our lives with someone (or it feels that way), and it doesn't quite work out that way, we have to deal with the emotions about that, the dynamics of the relationship, as well as all the other emotions in play. It can be a time of upheaval. Remember what it was always about: you went into a marriage/relationship for happiness, love and joy. Let that be the light for you to head towards - these emotions, even if at the time they might appear in the distance. Remember also that perspectives and circumstances change very quickly in your changing attention - 'things' and solutions appear where they weren't appearing previously.

The marriage or relationship was meant to be a reflection of these emotions for you, not a replacement.

Avoid getting pulled into the dramas. They take you away from your true self and your true authenticity. You went into a relationship for two wholes to create something special together. It is still about something special (it always is) - You. And despite there being another, you could only have something special together, from your own specialness individually; that has not changed anyway.

When a relationship (or anything) ends it seems like the end of something. Consider that the ending of the relationship (or anything) was actually part of the process of something new beginning.

The relationship served it's purpose and all possibilities are open to you in your now, as they always have been. They are open to you from your true self and your true authenticity. Not from games, smoke and mirrors, and distortions. All those things hide the real you. And if you feel the need to be scared and not yourself, what is it that you are (vibrationally) communicating to the rest of the Universe?

Realise your power is within you, not on what happens outside of you (which is a reflection), and in your now. And despite what has happened with this other person, you are no less adored and loved.

The Universe totally adores you unconditionally, it always has, other than the doubts and conditions you filter that love and 'energy' through.

Remember to look for the indicators in your experience of how you are blessed and what you DO have, than what you don't. Sometimes we can look at something that has ended or is ending and feel regret and sadness, especially if we are not wanting it to end. It may seem like a loss of your whole world.

Realise that this relationship was something that you made your world, it was something that you expanded to make your world, by your attention to it. When something then turns not so pretty, it can be uncomfortable. Withdraw your attention from it, and balance it with the rest of your world that has always existed, that you had selectively filtered out whilst you focused on the relationship. You are just shifting your perspective from this person or situation to be in balance with everything else. Previously, when things were good, because they were good, you chose to shift the balance and make it your predominant focus. Now, as you move on for now, you are shifting the balance, and creating space for other things in your life. And of course, the Universe responds in kind with new energy.

There is an abundant and infinite stream of what can come into our lives. When we hold onto things due to our emotional attachments, we are not allowing the space and freedom and possibilities of what else may come into our lives. We can use fear to hold onto things, or trust and faith to allow this energetic stream. It's not really about the relationship with the other person, but the relationship with ourselves and our own divinity.

Discounted room rate for Law of Attraction in Vegas event until end of August

2010-07-28T14:33:56+01:00

I just wanted to remind you that if you are looking to attend the Law Of Attraction in Las Vegas event, we currently have a discounted suite rate for attendees at the Trump International Hotel of $99 (excl taxes). They have locked this price until the end of August for anyone booking before then. From then, they will make the rooms available to the rest of the market and at their regular price, which is around double the discounted price.

In the agreement that we have with the hotel, attendees will also get a view of the Vegas Strip from their suite (Please confirm this with them when booking).

We are currently working on arranging optional buffet dinners for attendees on the Saturday and Sunday evenings of the event. The intention being that not only will attendees get to experience the very special content that I am working on for the event, but will be able to spend time with me and each other also.

There is a wonderful buzz and spirit around this event and I'm looking forward to you connecting and meeting each other too. I have the honour in having gotten to know many of you, and I'd be very open to, and love, you connecting with each other, if that is something that is of value to you.

We already have quite a few esteemed attendees at this event who have confirmed and more to confirm, including LOA coaches, 'lightworkers', and all with an excitement and buzz about this event.

You can confirm your place on this event at Law Of Attraction in Las Vegas. Upon booking, you will receive an email which will give you instructions on booking your hotel room.

As mentioned, there is a lot of very special material being prepared for this event, and special people attending it. We'd love you to join us!

If you have any questions, you are welcome to contact me via email at Hemal@LOAinVegas.com, or Stephanie Stringham at Steph@LOAinVegas.com.

The Secret to Your Light

2010-07-14T18:08:27+01:00

I was recently asked by Chantal Beaupré to contribute an article to a free ebook that she wanted to compile with content from 25 leading authors. This "The Secret to Your Light" is the article I submitted for it. You can download the free ebook from It's The Thought That Counts!

“The Secret to Your Light“

"When you are in alignment with who you are, you shine a light seen so brightly by the rest of the Universe."

Your true light has been with you for all time and you have seen it in glimpses. It is available to you to see more and more of in your life. Many are seeking something which is already here, now.

"The Universe provides an echo of your vibrational offering."

In truth, in a spiritual sense, you are the physical manifestation of your light or ‘spirit’ (or whatever words you use to describe it). This universal spirit which is in everything that you see, and in everything that you don’t see (which is so much more than what you do see), is inherently wellbeing. You are whole and complete. And so, if you are whole and complete, by definition, how can you not already be your ‘light’? (Clue: You are!)

But what happens is we are very used to seeing only what is in the physical world and do not realise our divinity, wholeness, and ‘completeness’. If we only looked at the head of something and not the body, we wouldn’t get a complete picture, would we? That is the same as looking at your physical body and not realising the much larger spiritual aspect of yourself that is so much more, and whole and complete.

You already are all that you want to be, other than when you deny and block yourself of it through your thoughts and beliefs (of which self esteem and self value can play a part). Even if the physical manifestations are not here yet, you can be the essence and embodiment of it. Then the physical manifestations and creations in your life are expressions of your wholeness, rather than from a place of incompleteness and an effort to make up for any perceived lack.

Whatever you think, you magnify. If you believe you are striving for something (such as to feel a certain way or have something), you will be striving for something. If instead you realise that everything is here, even if not fully in form yet, and you radiate THAT vibration, the Universe gives you the physical confirmation of it.

"Who you truly are on a deeper level is literally beyond words. All the words in the world couldn’t go close to defining you. The most beautiful sights and experiences on this planet pale in comparison to you."

What you want is not something you strive towards, it is something you accept and allow and be in your now. If it is a physical manifestation you are looking for, you become the emotional and vibrational embodiment of it in your now. It is about what you see and believe of your reality, rather than waiting for a reality for you to see it. It is here and now. And as you allow it, you see the manifestations of this vibrational offering in what happens around you.

What are you striving for? What has to be, so that you can feel ‘happy’ (or whatever you are seeking in your life) and complete? We are used to seeing things in the media that feel good. But that does not imply that you cannot feel good about where you are right now, regardless of the things portrayed (or advertised) in the media.

"Let it be that the ‘things’ are an expression and consequence (manifestation) of how you feel, than a requirement or condition for you to feel how you want to feel."

For many people, when they feel they need to have something to feel ‘whole’, by implication, it can mean that they are not feeling ‘whole’ right now. And so by focusing on lack and having that in their vibration – they are then not letting in the very thing they are wanting!

In every moment you are giving off a vibration and frequency from your thoughts. You attract experiences, ideas, situations, people, and everything else, which is a match to that frequency.

"Being happy, being in love and being loved are states of being. You can BE anything you like in any moment. The Universe responds to your state of being, and you get to have what is commensurate with that."

People talk about relationships and ‘you complete me’. In truth, you are always complete. Although it is a lovely expression to say to the one you love, and of course mean it. What actually happens in love (or anywhere else) is when we are with someone and feeling so divine, they are reminding us of the beautiful aspects of who WE are on a deeper level. They are reflecting that back to us. And that is why we are appreciating them so much! And vice versa!

The lives we live are reflections of us, whatever we may experience. When we are with someone and it feels so good, it is because they are very purely reflecting who we are on a deeper level. The better you feel, the closer you are experiencing alignment with who you are as a spiritual being. And the closer that alignment is, the more ‘fulfilled’ your life will be. The physical manifestations will occur as a reflection of that also.

"Your emotions are an indication of your vibrational alignment. Follow your emotions, that is what they are there for."

Your alignment is about your congruency and match of your thoughts and emotions with your desires. If you are wanting something but your thoughts are in contradiction to it, you are, more or less, misaligned to it, and you will feel it emotionally. It is like wanting prosperity and visualizing it but talking daily about your fears about money and it running out and your worries about it. The stronger the misalignment, the more severely you will feel it emotionally. The more aligned you are in your thoughts and beliefs with what you want, the better it feels. Love, joy, happiness and the best emotions are synonymous with you being in your now and aligned to what you want.

Ways to support your alignment:

- Don’t doubt yourself. If you can’t have total faith, step back, let go, and have faith in the bigger scheme of things or in the Universe, or God or whatever it is you believe in. By doubting yourself, you are just stopping your natural flow and putting the brakes on it. If you can’t believe initially, don’t doubt at least. Allow it to flow.

- Start to see yourself with what you want. Practice it in your reality. Make that vibration familiar. Make it so familiar, that you come to know that reality more than the one that has been your reality, even though what you want hasn’t manifested yet, but will happen as a result of you allowing it in.

- Realise that on a deeper level (even on an atomic level), you are connected to everything else. Remove the illusion of separation and realise your inherent connectedness to everything in this Universe. This can be liberating. And by affirming this connection and remembering that you are connected to all that you want, and by your expectation of it, you bring it closer into your reality.

"You live in an abundant Universe where there are no limits to the wellbeing you can experience; within yourself, and as physical manifestations in your life."

- It is not about giving yourself a hard time. That is just like doubting yourself. Your alignment and your flow are from a place of faith and trust in yourself and in the workings of the Universe, than on doubt, fear or mistrust.

"Your flow is far more important than any situation. From your flow, you have access to all possibilities."

I'll be on VividLife radio show with Hayhouse Author Sharon Quirt

2010-07-14T16:14:00+01:00

Later today (Wednesday 14th July) at 2pm EST/7pm UK time I will be appearing on a VividLife radio show with Shayne Traviss and Hayhouse author and international best seller Sharon Quirt, amongst other speakers, in an open forum. The topic is "Is self-love selfish?"

It is likely that by the time you read this, it will be after the show. To access it live or to download the audio of it, click here: Open Mic with Sharon Quirt on Life with Direction

Jealousy, Control & Fear are Denials of Who You TRULY Are

2010-07-07T16:42:13+01:00

"Hi Hemal, I was wondering what your thoughts were on jealousy?

I have been hurt so badly in the past by someone and struggle to move on from that.

I stayed alone for sometime and thought I had dealt with it - via reiki and positive thoughts and law of attraction etc - now I am with my new man I on occasion feel it in my stomach and find it hard to keep under control.Dont get me wrong its not a possessive thing, just the odd occasion where I feel sick to the stomach. I know deep down its my own mind and self esteem and I work with this daily but wondered what your view on it was or any advice from your way....thanks for your time to read ..have a great day

Em x"

When we are going into a relationship, we are feeling wonderful things and the beautiful emotions build and build - an example of Law of Attraction! And then what happens is we may experience fears and insecurities and other things may come up. It may be that we are fearful of losing what we have, or that we have a bit of moment to reflect and absorb what has been happening and start to 'think' (and the fears and 'patterning' come up) rather than continue 'being' in that wonderful feel-good place.

"After people attract something (such as a relationship), they can sometimes get busy trying not to lose it, which is a very different vibration to what attracted it to them in the first place..."

Jealousy is a response to thinking that something is yours when in fact, like everything else in the Universe, it isn't, and you are no ones either. Other than the fact that you are two souls meeting along your journey.

The discomfort that exists is because you are thinking thoughts that are taking you out of your flow and from what you want. And what you want isn't just this physical being in your life, but the essences of what you are experiencing. Whilst your physical body and mind experiences this person, your soul and essences are experiencing so much more and that is what led to the physical meeting.

You can't be jealous if you are on your path and know that you will be ok. You cannot base your own wellbeing on another's presence and feelings for you, but on your own connection to wellbeing and flow (which in itself is attractive for others to be around you).

You love them and adore them because, as a free being, you are chosing to be with them, and vice versa. There is no attachment or holding, especially emotionally. Allow them to be free, they will appreciate and love you even more for it. Otherwise, energetically, they will feel constricted too. And when someone feels constriction or pressure, little things can start to come in (such as disagreements, arguments etc) which can build. It is far better to have the space within ourselves and allow the other, and ourselves, to be who we are. To be fearless in all eventualities and being at peace with them, so we can enjoy our now.

"Anytime we build a strong momentum about something, and we experience strong emotions or fears to the contrary, it can get pretty uncomfortable."

You cannot carve out and separate a bit of the Universe (such as a person) and hold it in statis forever and say it is yours. Everything is interconnected and interrelated, as are you. You wouldn't want it any other way. You wouldn't want to be disconnected from your flow. It is more important to you than this relationship or anything else, because it is to do with your relationship with who YOU are as the spiritual being that is living this physical life.

We fear losing what we have but remember we cannot 'hold' or 'force' something. What we can do is deal with the fears about it. What would happen if this person left? Be at peace with that. Have it so that does not scare you and you can focus your emotional energy on appreciating what you two have together.

Anytime a limiting thought comes up, identify the underlying what fear behind it, and let it go. All fears are limited perspectives of the Universe. They imply that you will not be ok as a result of something happening or not happening. When in fact the Universe is wellbeing and does not place conditions on it, only you do.

"You came together to love and adore each other, not to be scared of what the future may hold."

Any jealousy or element of control is about one's fear or lack of security or certainty about having or keeping something that they want, or how they want it. It is an illusion because you can never truly 'have' something and keep it static forever and how you want it. That's the illusion. And that can be scary itself the first time someone realises that. But that's only fear, it is not reality. The reality is you have no need to be scared because you are safe.

The 'truth' is your flow and connection to all that you want, including through this person or thing that you want. Take your attention away from the noises and distractions from fear, and put them on your truth which is your ever-abundant and ever-infinite flow and adulation from the Universe.

How can you ever be without when you realise how much you mean to this Universe? There was no coincidence in your creation, and nothing would be withheld from you. You just needed to know how to ask for it - vibrationally. In realising your connection, you have nothing to fear being without. It's like having fears in looking at a blade of grass, and not seeing the whole field.

New Updated One-to-One Page

2010-07-07T08:57:00+01:00

Recently I updated the One-to-One page with more information and client testimonials.

Do feel free to check it out at Work One-to-One with Hemal Radia

FREE "The Means to Your Dreams" July - Sept 2010 Wallpaper

2010-06-28T18:52:37+01:00

With the Law of Attraction in Las Vegas event coming up soon, this FREE wallpaper reflects the theme of the manifestation of your dreams.

The quotes are:

"No Dream is Given to You Without the Means to Attain it"

"People, resources and synchronicities will all be organized in perfect harmony by the Universe in matching your vibration"

and

"There is no coincidence for the emotions you feel. On a deeper level they are telling you the way to what you want"

To download the wallpaper, right click on the appropriate link below and "Save Target/Link As" and save it to your computer.

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