Wifedom, Military Style

Morning Music Madness

2010-12-19T02:51:00.000-08:00

Good morning kids!

It's day one of my infamous Morning Music Madness...

I've re-embraced my love for the VIVACIOUS and HIGHLY talented Christina.

Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkPxgUshpec

My new baby!

2010-12-18T16:01:00.000-08:00

So, my roommate found this little girl on my back patio. It was pouring down raining and so he took him in, gave her some food and well..... 1 week later she became mine! :-D

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Her name is Midnight.

Listen to darkravenrose2009s Playlist

2010-11-28T14:40:00.001-08:00

Society+Online schooling for high school students= TOILET

2010-10-24T12:12:00.000-07:00

Okay, so my friend just brought up this issue to me today, when she was driving back from one of her friends house. She was explaining to me how some schools are thinking about having high school students have the choice of either doing their classes online at thier own homes or going to their high school doing their classes the traditional way. I for one think that high school students are in NO way mature enough to make that type of decision. Mind you that yes, it could definately be beneficial to some students, for instance those who are being bullied at school, or in my case move all the time because their parents are affiliated with the military and move from base to base, students that have some type of disability, or even need something were they can work at their own pace. So, I'm totally not completely knocking the idea but I just don't think that we are ready for this one guys....

I think that more then anything it would hurt students more then help them. For example, children knowadays have no idea how to interact with people or talk to them. They are glued to their instant messengers, iphones, into sex texting and texting, more than calling people on their phones. Many high school sutdents that I have talked to or interacted with can not carry on a conversation with me, and just plain don't know how to talk. Or even write a decent paper for that matter.

We seriously need to think about this before we all let our teenagers sign up for online classes at home. This is what I think will happen if schools start intergrating this type of education in place or in additon to traditional education.

The Aftermath of online schooling for teens
- Higher Teen Pregnancy Rates
- Less, if any social interaction with their peers
- Lower testing scores
- Lower standards of education
- Teens will drop out and won't finish
- Low GPA's, which means many won't pursue higher education.

Now, you probably asking "But, Michelle what about home schooled children? Are you saying that they are damned also?" Well, class I'm going to say no. Because, you may not know this but MANY homeschooled children are actually schooled with their peers and those who aren't their parents usually have their children invovled in afterschool activities or organizations of that sort. There are also community groups for home schooled children also for them to have interaction with their peers and other students.

I think that my issue is with teens being able to take many or all classes online from their home is my fear that many of these teens will take these kind of course so they don't have to go to school and be lazy and not take it seriously.

Futhermore, to recount my statement since I'm a little on the fence as I keep writing this blog. I'm sure it will completely work for some students for sure, but might not work for others. I'm thinking that if teens are able to do this and school are integrating this kind of eduation like dual enrollment (where teens can take college classes at their local universities) that there should be a certaint standard to be able to take this certain classes. If I were on the school board for this decision these would be my requirements to be able to take online classes,courses ect...

REQUIREMENTS
A GPA of at least 3.5 or higher
Someone known as a leader
A Student who is already invovled in advanced placement classes, or taking dual enrollment at their local college.
Someone with a high attendance record.
A student who has no record of behavioral problems.

I know many of my requirements may seem little hardcore (I don't think so) but, I believe this is how it should be if our society wants to go through this kind of educational change.

So, now that I am done with my rantings, leave me a comment let me know what you think about this! I'm interested to know! Have a great week everybody!

XOXOXOXOXO

Things not to say to a Military spouse..

2010-10-21T20:44:00.000-07:00

Things not to say to a Military spouse...

Things NOT to say to a military spouse ...
Here is a list of things not to say to a military spouse....Please read and try to be a little more sensitive next time you are talking to one of us....Thanks

1. "Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?"
(This one ranks in at number one on the "duh" list. Of course we're
afraid. We're terrified. The thought always lingers at the backs of
our minds ---but thanks brilliant, you just brought it back to the front. Maybe next you can go ask someone with cancer if they're scared of dying.)

2. "I don't know how you manage. I don't think I could do it."
(This is intended to be a compliment. Though, its just a little annoying. Here's why: it's not like all of us military wives have been dreaming since childhood of the day we'd get to be anxious single moms or or lonely wife with no child who carry cell phones with us to the bathroom and in the shower. We're not made of some mysterious matter that makes us more capable, we just got asked to take on a challenging job. So we rose to the challenge and found the strength to make sacrifices.)

3. "At least he's not in Iraq."**OR FOR THOSE NAVY WIVES,PEOPLE OFTEN SAY WELL AT LEAST HE'S ON A SHIP/SUB..
(This is the number one most annoying comment for those whose
husbands are in Afghanistan. What do they think is happening in
Afghanistan? An international game of golf? Guys are fighting and
dying over there.)

4. "Do you think he'll get to come home for Christmas/anniversary/birthday/ birth of a child/wedding/ family
reunion, etc?"
(Don't you watch the news? No! They don't get to come home for any of
these things. Please don't ask again.)

5. "What are you going to do to keep yourself busy while he's gone?"
(Short answer: Try to keep my sanity. Maybe there's a military wife
out there who gets bored when her husband leaves, but I have yet to
meet her. For the rest of us, those with and without children, we find ourselves having to be two people. That keeps us plenty busy. We do get lonely, but we don't get bored, and drinking massive amounts of wine always helps keep me busy.)

6. "How much longer does he have until he can get out?"
(This one is annoying to many of us whether our husbands are deployed
or not. Many of our husbands aren't counting down the days until they "can" get out. Many of them keep signing back up again and again
because they actually love what they do or they VOLUNTEER AGAIN and AGAIN to go back to Iraq b/c there is work that needs to be done.)

7. "This deployment shouldn't be so bad, now that you're used to it."
(Sure, we do learn coping skills and its true the more deployments
you've gone through, the easier dealing with it becomes. And we figure out ways to make life go smoother while the guys are gone. But it never gets "easy" and the bullets and bombs don't skip over our guys just because they've been there before. The worry never goes away.)

8. "My husband had to go to Europe for business once for three weeks.
I totally know what you're going through."
(This one is similar to number two. Do not equate your husband's three week trip to London/Omaha/ Tokyo/etc. with a 12-15 month or more
deployment to a war zone. Aside from the obvious time difference,
nobody shot at your husband or tried to blow him up with an I.E.D.,
your husband could call home pretty much any time he wanted to, he
flew comfortably on a commercial plane, slept between crisp white
sheets and ate well, paying for everything with an expense account.
There is no comparison. We do not feel bonded to you in the slightest
because of this comment and, if anything, we probably resent you a
bit for it. Comparing a 12 month combat deployment to a few weeks
business trip is like comparing a shitty ford taurus with mercedes
convertible. )

9. "Wow you must miss him?"
(This one also gets antoher big "duh". Of course we miss our men.
There are some wives who do not and they're now divorced.)

10. "Where is he exactly? Where is that?"
(I don't expect non-military folks to be able to find Anbar Province
on a map, but they should know by now that it's in Iraq. Likewise, know that Kabul and Kandahar are in Afghanistan. Know that Muqtada al Sadr is the insurgent leader of the Mahdi Army in Iraq and that Sadr
City is his home area. Know that Iran is a major threat to our country and that it is located between Afghanistan and Iraq. Our country has been at war in Afghanistan for seven years and at war in Iraq for five years. These basic facts are not secrets, they're on the news every night and in the papers every day ---and on maps everywhere.)

11. "Well, he signed up for it, so it's his own fault whatever
happens over there.
(Yes, ignorant, he did sign up. Each and every day he protects your
right to make stupid comments like that. He didn't sign up and ask to
be hit by anything, he signed up to protect his country. Oh, and by
the way, he asked me to tell you that "You're welcome." He's still
fighting for your freedom.)

12. "Don't you miss sex! I couldn't do it!"
(hmmm, no i don't miss sex. i'm a robot. seriously... military spouses
learn quickly that our relationships must be founded on something greater than sex. We learn to appreciate the important things, like simply hearing their voices, seeing their faces, being able to have
dinner together every night. And the hard truth is, most relationships probably couldn't withstand 12 months of sex deprivation.our relationships are stronger and after all during deployments we sleep with the telephone )

13. "Well in my opinion..... "
(Stop right there. Yo, I didn't ask for you your personal political
opinions. Hey, I love a heated political debate, but not in the grocery store, not in Jamba Juice, not at Nordstrom, not in a bar when I'm out with my girls trying to forget the war, and CERTAINLY NOT AT WORK. We tell co-workers about deployments so when we have to spend lunch hours running our asses off doing errands and taking care of the house, dog, and kids, they have an understanding. We do not tell co-workers and colleagues because we are giving an invitation to ramble about politics or because we so eagerly want to hear how much they hate the President, esp. while we're trying to heat up our lean cuisines in the crappy office microwaves.)

last but not least....

14. "OH, that's horrible...I' m so sorry!"
(He's doing his job and he's a badass. Don't be sorry. Be appreciative and please take a moment out of your comfortable American lives to realize that our soldiers fight the wars abroad so those wars stay abroad.)

If you want to say anything, say thank you. After all, we are
sexually deprived for your freedom.

My NEW JOB!

2010-07-11T19:57:00.000-07:00

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