<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Mark&#039;s Media Spotlight</title>
	<atom:link href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com</link>
	<description>Mark&#039;s views on what&#039;s happening in the media.</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 16:35:33 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>
	hourly	</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>
	1	</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.com/</generator>
<cloud domain='mediaspotlight.wordpress.com' port='80' path='/?rsscloud=notify' registerProcedure='' protocol='http-post' />
<image>
		<url>https://secure.gravatar.com/blavatar/c5ffa907871fc693df89f6b6a8e760556b282723b62da4aa9e2a4cb2c0a36b38?s=96&#038;d=https%3A%2F%2Fs0.wp.com%2Fi%2Fbuttonw-com.png</url>
		<title>Mark&#039;s Media Spotlight</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com</link>
	</image>
	<atom:link rel="search" type="application/opensearchdescription+xml" href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/osd.xml" title="Mark&#039;s Media Spotlight" />
	<atom:link rel='hub' href='https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?pushpress=hub'/>
	<item>
		<title>Big Brother 15 -Casting Analysis.. and advice for BB 16</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/big-brother-15-casting-analysis-and-advice-for-bb-16/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/big-brother-15-casting-analysis-and-advice-for-bb-16/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Sep 2013 14:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=388</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[My analysis of this year&#8217;s #BB15 casting .. I hope Big Brother will consider this below for #BB16. A lot of people have been mentioning that this has been one of the worst casting seasons to date. I do thinks that has more to do with who ended up staying to the end, than that [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="width: 259px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/bbcastimages.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image " id="i-391" title="Big Brother 15 Cast" alt="Image" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/bbcastimages.jpg?w=249&#038;h=187" width="249" height="187" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/bbcastimages.jpg?w=249 249w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/bbcastimages.jpg?w=150 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/bbcastimages.jpg 259w" sizes="(max-width: 249px) 100vw, 249px" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Was this the worst cast ever?</p></div>
<p style="text-align:left;">My analysis of this year&#8217;s #BB15 casting .. I hope Big Brother will consider this below for #BB16. A lot of people have been mentioning that this has been one of the worst casting seasons to date. I do thinks that has more to do with who ended up staying to the end, than that all were poor casting choices. The problem with Big Brother casting is that they continually want to cast a lot of wannabee actors (How the hell did David make the cut, he didn&#8217;t even want to be there) (labeled as bartenders, beauty queens, pageant coordinators etc&#8230;) They need to also stop with the token flaming Drama queen. It&#8217;s nice to see on Survivor and TAR, they have had many LGBT individuals that were not flaming Andy&#8217;s, Ragans, Marcellas&#8217; and from Canada, Gary Glitters&#8230; (Caleb this year on Survivor is a great example!)<br />
These people are usually filler and they add phony drama&#8230; But as a casting agent, I would indeed have casted Amanda (who has a lot of Evel Dick personality without the smart game play), Howard, who should have won America&#8217;s favorite and was fairly unique,<br />
Helen, who was interesting, flawed and ultimately ousted too early&#8230; Candice was a great casting choice &#8211; another one who said it like it was,<br />
Nick might have turned out to be another Dan Gheesling but again, left too early to tell, On the poor casting choice side, Jeremy was a clone of Season 6&#8217;s Cappy, GM was a stereotype of stereotypes, Spencer was dull, Elissa was dull (sorry, don&#8217;t see what she added to the storylines/drama except to be hated for being Rachael&#8217;s sister), Andy as mentioned we&#8217;ve seen before &#8211; Ragan, Marcellas&#8217;, etc&#8230;, Kaitlin was filler, McCrae, who they thought was another Ian, but was Amanda&#8217;s puppet instead and quite dull,<br />
Bottom line is to try and stop finding people like other popular players and try and find some original personalities as they do on the other CBS shows..<br />
Perhaps it&#8217;s easy to play hindsight, but it doesn&#8217;t take hindsight to figure out that a better mix of older and younger / more diversity would find a much more interesting new blend of drama..</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2013/09/19/big-brother-15-casting-analysis-and-advice-for-bb-16/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/bbcastimages.jpg?w=249" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Big Brother 15 Cast</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>Meet the Contestants of Amazing Race 21</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/20/meet-the-contestants-of-amazing-race-21/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/20/meet-the-contestants-of-amazing-race-21/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Aug 2012 15:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=384</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[For complete details  go to the Reality Fan Forum at http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.0.html  (the credit names are forum members)   Each picture clicks to details within the forum.     The Teams   Photos courtesy of Slowhatch, Chateau d If and reta! M/M  Gary Wojnar and Will Chiola (Friends)   Team identified by ovalorange! M/M Jaymes Vaughan &#38; James [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For complete details  go to the Reality Fan Forum at <a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.0.html">http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.0.html</a>  (the credit names are forum members)   Each picture clicks to details within the forum.  </p>
<table>
<tbody>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td>The Teams</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><em>Photos courtesy of Slowhatch, Chateau d If and reta!</em></p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/M  </strong></td>
<td><strong>Gary Wojnar and Will Chiola (Friends)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg771105.html#msg771105" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmtallandsmall.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by ovalorange!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/M</strong></td>
<td><strong>Jaymes Vaughan &amp; James Davis (Chippendales Dancers)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg758212.html#msg758212" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmchippendales.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by Slowhatch and Cocoa!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/M</strong></td>
<td><strong>Brent Ridge &amp; Josh Kilmer-Purcell (Fabulous Beekman Boys)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg758567.html#msg758567" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmbrentandjosh.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by georgiapeach and Chateau d If!</p>
<p></strong><em>I&#8217;m especially excited to see this team perform based on their performance on their Beekman Boys Series.<br />
</em></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>&nbsp;</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>p[M/M</strong></td>
<td><strong>James LoMenzo &amp; Mark &#8220;Abba&#8221; Abbatista (Metal Musician &amp; Manager)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg767538.html#msg767538" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmbearded.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by Macaroons!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Trey Wier &amp; Lexi Beerman (Dating)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg760138.html#msg760138" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfyoungcouple.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by north09 and boston_jen!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Rob Scheer &amp; Sheila Castle (Engaged Lumberjacks)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg786885.html#msg786885" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfoldercouple.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by georgiapeach!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>F/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Brittany Fletcher &amp; Caitlin King (Friends)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg766020.html#msg766020" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/ffblondes.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by Al!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>F/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Nadiya Anderson &amp; Natalie Anderson (Twins)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg758664.html#msg758664" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/ffnadineandnatalie.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by Chateau d If, amazinglatinoamericafan and Alenaveda!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Amy Purdy &amp; Daniel Gale (Couple)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg758875.html#msg758875" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfamyanddaniel.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by boston_jen!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Ryan Danz &amp; Abbie Ginsberg (Couple)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg767342.html#msg767342" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfblondegirl2.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by TARdevotee!</p>
<p></strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><strong>M/F</strong></td>
<td><strong>Rob French &amp; Kelly Carrington French (Married Monster Truck Drivers)<br />
</strong></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td> </td>
<td><strong><a href="http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php/topic,27200.msg763960.html#msg763960" target="_blank"><img src="https://i0.wp.com/i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfgreenbeard.png" alt="" /></a><br />
Team identified by georgiapeach!</strong></td>
</tr>
</tbody>
</table>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/20/meet-the-contestants-of-amazing-race-21/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmtallandsmall.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmchippendales.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmbrentandjosh.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mmbearded.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfyoungcouple.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfoldercouple.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/ffblondes.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/ffnadineandnatalie.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfamyanddaniel.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfblondegirl2.png" medium="image" />

		<media:content url="http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb40/domel9/mfgreenbeard.png" medium="image" />
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>The Salvation Army&#8217;s Practices Make Chick fil-A Seem Tame</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/01/the-salvation-armys-practices-make-chick-fil-a-seem-tame/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/01/the-salvation-armys-practices-make-chick-fil-a-seem-tame/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Aug 2012 17:51:23 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=373</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[With all the recent hoopla we&#8217;ve gotten over Chick fil-A (deservedly so), let&#8217;s not forget about a far worse organization in terms of practices to their own employees and open discrimination.  I received the following letter today and I thought I&#8217;d share&#8230;. Mark &#8211; I loved my job at the Salvation Army. I&#8217;ve spent much of [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_377" style="width: 330px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-377" data-attachment-id="377" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/01/the-salvation-armys-practices-make-chick-fil-a-seem-tame/nm_donate_101018_mn/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg" data-orig-size="320,240" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="nm_donate_101018_mn" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Salvation Army Should Not Receive Any Gay Dollars&#8230;&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg?w=320" class="size-full wp-image-377" title="nm_donate_101018_mn" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg?w=320&#038;h=240" alt="" width="320" height="240" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg 320w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg?w=150&amp;h=113 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225 300w" sizes="(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-377" class="wp-caption-text">Salvation Army Should Not Receive Any Gay Dollars&#8230;</p></div>
<p>With all the recent hoopla we&#8217;ve gotten over Chick fil-A (deservedly so), let&#8217;s not forget about a far worse organization in terms of practices to their own employees and open discrimination. </p>
<p>I received the following letter today and I thought I&#8217;d share&#8230;.</p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Mark &#8211;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I loved my job at the Salvation Army. I&#8217;ve spent much of my life working for Christian organizations, and it made me feel great to work to help poor people. <strong>But last week, I was fired because I revealed my sexual orientation.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">The Salvation Army has great social service programs that help so many people, but I was uneasy about the organization&#8217;s policies about sexual orientation. <em>My unease grew more serious when I heard about an Australian Salvation Army official who was forced to apologize after he said that gay people deserve to die.</em></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">So I went to my supervisor to express my concerns, and in the process, I came out as bisexual. That was a Friday afternoon. <strong>On Monday morning, I was fired &#8212; and I was told explicitly that I was losing my job not because of poor performance, but because my &#8220;personal beliefs and position do not 100% align with the values of the Salvation Army.&#8221;</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s right that an organization that does so much good should be so prejudiced against people who aren&#8217;t straight. <strong><a href="http://www.change.org/petitions/salvation-army-you-fired-me-for-being-bisexual-stop-discriminating-against-people-for-who-they-are?utm_source=action_alert&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=8617&amp;alert_id=AnpLsBMhVA_lVUTlJFmbu" target="_blank">So I started a petition on Change.org asking the Salvation Army to change its policies and not fire anyone else on the basis of sexual orientation &#8212; click here to add your name.</a></strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">After I was fired, I was so angry at the Salvation Army. But this past weekend, I walked by a homeless man who asked me for help. I went into a restaurant and bought him some pizza, and sat and talked with him for a while. He made me realize how much I miss my job, and how devastated I was to leave my clients.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><strong>The sad truth is that now, instead of worrying about my clients, I have to worry about whether I&#8217;ll be able to provide for my own daughter.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I know that petitions on Change.org have prompted major companies &#8212; like DynCorp, a giant military contractor &#8212; to offer employment protection to lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender employees. I hope that if enough people sign my petition, we can convince the Salvation Army to do the same. </span></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.change.org/petitions/salvation-army-you-fired-me-for-being-bisexual-stop-discriminating-against-people-for-who-they-are?utm_source=action_alert&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=8617&amp;alert_id=AnpLsBMhVA_lVUTlJFmbu" target="_blank"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Click here to sign my petition asking the Salvation Army to pledge never again to fire someone on the basis of sexual orientation. </span></a></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Thank you,<br />
Danielle Morantez</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Calibri;color:#000000;font-size:medium;"> </span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/08/01/the-salvation-armys-practices-make-chick-fil-a-seem-tame/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/nm_donate_101018_mn.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">nm_donate_101018_mn</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>Boycotting Chick Fil-A &#8211; Has The Gay Community Gone Too Far?</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/boycotting-chick-fil-a-has-the-gay-community-gone-too-far/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/boycotting-chick-fil-a-has-the-gay-community-gone-too-far/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jul 2012 15:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Chick Fil-A]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Boycott]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dan Cathy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gay Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mike Huckabee]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=361</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[OK.  So Chick-fil-A has been all over the media lately thanks to their President Dan Cathy’s “controversial” remarks about homosexual marriage.  Why is it that whenever someone expresses a personal belief, the gay community cannot have any tolerance for their position and seems to demand that they no longer be allowed to practice business.  The thing is, we [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_366" style="width: 638px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-366" data-attachment-id="366" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/boycotting-chick-fil-a-has-the-gay-community-gone-too-far/chick-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg" data-orig-size="628,426" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Chick Fil-A" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;The Chick Fil-A Boycott.  Has the gay community gone too far?&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg?w=628" class="size-full wp-image-366" title="Chick Fil-A" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg?w=628&#038;h=426" alt="" width="628" height="426" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg 628w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg?w=150&amp;h=102 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg?w=300&amp;h=204 300w" sizes="(max-width: 628px) 100vw, 628px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-366" class="wp-caption-text">The Chick Fil-A Boycott. Has the gay community gone too far?</p></div>
<p><span style="font-size:medium;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">OK.  So Chick-fil-A has been all over the media lately thanks to their President Dan Cathy’s “controversial” remarks about homosexual marriage.  Why is it that whenever someone expresses a personal belief, the gay community cannot have any tolerance for their position and seems to demand that they no longer be allowed to practice business.  The thing is, we <em>should be </em>encouraging and allowing people to express their beliefs.  </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:medium;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">Now, granted, when you run a major business of any sort, it would be in your best interest to keep your opinions to yourself, but when you are foolish enough to express an opinion that will hurt others, we should be thanking them.  So now “militant homosexuals” (as they are described by former GOP President hopeful Mike Huckabee) are gathering to demonstrate on August 3<sup>rd</sup> with same sex kissing inside Chick-fil-A stores.  Huh?  Really?  Is this going to accomplish anything positive?  Not only is that counterproductive, but it only provides more fuel to those who believe the gay community is one of intolerance for beliefs outside of their own.  </span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:medium;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">The gay community has every right to <span style="text-decoration:underline;">not</span> support the establishment and to spread the word to others who also wish to <span style="text-decoration:underline;">not </span>support them.  But what we should not be doing is forcing our beliefs on others and driving the anti-gay groups into the Chick-fil-A shops.  The gay community is not going to change any minds by attempting to force others to believe as you do, but if enough already do believe as you do, you will obtain your goal of loss revenue for the homophobic establishments by showing others that the gay dollar can be better spent on businesses that don’t donate to anti-gay causes.  And by the way, one of the biggest arguments that anti-gay people have against the gay community is that Chick-fil-A was not charged with discrimination in hiring or service, but simply the fact that its President and Chief Operating office supports traditional marriage.  But what they don&#8217;t remind you is that the money you are spending at these places is going towards stripping homosexuals of the same rights </span></span></span><span style="font-size:medium;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">as heterosexuals when it comes to Federal and State benefits.</span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:medium;"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Calibri;">If the gay community really wanted to make a difference, they should spend August 3<sup>rd</sup>, eating lunch at a gay friendly business and not kissing each other inside a homophobic eatery.  </span></span></span></p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/boycotting-chick-fil-a-has-the-gay-community-gone-too-far/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chick1.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Chick Fil-A</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>Meet Big Brother 14&#8217;s Token Gay &#8211; Wil Heuser</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/09/meet-big-brother-14s-token-gay-wil-heuser/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/09/meet-big-brother-14s-token-gay-wil-heuser/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2012 21:33:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BB14]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Big Brother 14]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Shane Meaney]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wil Heuser]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=352</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[So this year, Big Brother&#8217;s token gay male is hoping to break all those stereotypes that are out there about the gay community.  (His words, not mine.) He says he likes Whiskey and NOT Cosmo&#8217;s and he is a triathlete.  Rather than have me pass judgement, I invite you to take a look for yourself and see how many stereotypical [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_353" style="width: 311px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-353" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="353" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/09/meet-big-brother-14s-token-gay-wil-heuser/wil/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg" data-orig-size="301,167" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Wil" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Wil Heuser &#8211; Looking To &#8220;break the gay stereotypes&#8221; out there.&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg?w=301" class="size-full wp-image-353" title="Wil" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg?w=301&#038;h=167" alt="" width="301" height="167" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg 301w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg?w=150&amp;h=83 150w" sizes="(max-width: 301px) 100vw, 301px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-353" class="wp-caption-text">Wil Heuser &#8211; Looking To &#8220;break the gay stereotypes&#8221; out there.</p></div>
<p>So this year, Big Brother&#8217;s token gay male is hoping to break all those stereotypes that are out there about the gay community.  (His words, not mine.) He says he likes Whiskey and NOT Cosmo&#8217;s and he is a triathlete.  Rather than have me pass judgement, I invite you to take a look for yourself and see how many stereotypical qualities you think will be broken based on this interview clip&#8230;  I&#8217;m also confused by his profession.  In the picture above it says he&#8217;s a Marketing Consultant, but in his interview, he is a Creative Designer.</p>
<iframe class="youtube-player" width="640" height="360" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/rp1XpjXOpCo?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent" allowfullscreen="true" style="border:0;" sandbox="allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox"></iframe>
<p>Wil also hopes to have a showmance, but not with a woman, however, the odds that another gay contestant are in the mix are zero.  For a longer take on our token gay, check out his interview on the ZapToIt website <a title="here." href="http://blog.zap2it.com/frominsidethebox/2012/07/big-brother-14s-wil-heuser-im-open-to-fakin-a-showmance.html" target="_blank">here.</a></p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_356" style="width: 166px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shane-meaney-big-brother.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-356" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="356" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/09/meet-big-brother-14s-token-gay-wil-heuser/shane-meaney-big-brother/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shane-meaney-big-brother.jpg" data-orig-size="443,600" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="shane-meaney-big-brother" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Shane Meaney &#8211; Will there be surprises about his past in store for us?&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shane-meaney-big-brother.jpg?w=222" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shane-meaney-big-brother.jpg?w=443" class=" wp-image-356 " title="shane-meaney-big-brother" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shane-meaney-big-brother.jpg?w=156&#038;h=260" alt="" width="156" height="260" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-356" class="wp-caption-text">Shane Meaney &#8211; Will there be surprises about his past in store for us?</p></div>
<p>Although I have heard rumors that Big Brother Contestant Shane Meaney did Gay Porn. (I have absolutely no concrete evidence other than various rumblings on Twitter probably from guys with wishful thinking &#8211; but you never know.) Interestingly enough, in Shane&#8217;s interview, he went out of his way to mention that he one thing he wouldn&#8217;t do for a million dollars would be to sleep with a guy.  Also of note, another Hantz brother will be in the mix (Willie).  He most likely is another Jesus lover who won&#8217;t get the whole gay thing.</p>
<p>There are a few other interesting characters such as a possible Lesbian and someone who posed for Playboy.  The oldest female contestant is 42 (Jodi Rollins &#8211; Restaurant Server and Token Minority) and the oldest male contestant i s 41 (Joe Arvin &#8211; Personal Chef).</p>
<p>The twist this year borrows from the twist of &#8220;Food Network Star&#8221; where there will be 4 veteran players from the past &#8211;  Janelle Pierzina, Dan Gheesling, Mike Boogie, and fresh from losing the Amazing Race &#8211; Rachel Reilly who will serve as player mentors.  Each will have 3 players to mentor and the mentor who&#8217;s player wins the million dollars will receive $100,000.</p>
<p>This may be an interesting season, but the casting hasn&#8217;t seemed to break any new boundaries.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/09/meet-big-brother-14s-token-gay-wil-heuser/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/wil.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Wil</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shane-meaney-big-brother.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">shane-meaney-big-brother</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>TV Fall Preview Alert – Partners (CBS) &#8211; A First Look</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2012 18:06:14 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBT]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Partners]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Alec Mapa]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Brandon Routh]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bravo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[David Krumholtz]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kevin Smith]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marc Cherry]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Michael Urie]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Nina Tassler]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sophia Bush]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Mentalist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ugly Betty]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Will & Grace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Zach and Mira Make A Porno]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=339</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[The last time CBS featured a show with a gay character in a lead role was in the spring of 2001 when they were trying to ride the Will &#38; Grace gravy train on a flop show called Some Of My Best Friends.  In my opinion, that show was a flop only in that it [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_342" style="width: 232px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-342" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="342" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/partners_about_tn/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg" data-orig-size="222,165" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="partners_about_tn" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;David Krumholtz stars as Joe, and Michael Urie stars as Louis, in the new CBS show “Partners.”&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg?w=222" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg?w=222" class="size-full wp-image-342" title="partners_about_tn" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg?w=222&#038;h=165" alt="" width="222" height="165" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg 222w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg?w=150&amp;h=111 150w" sizes="(max-width: 222px) 100vw, 222px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-342" class="wp-caption-text">David Krumholtz stars as Joe, and Michael Urie stars as Louis, in the new CBS show “Partners.”</p></div>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_343" style="width: 277px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-343" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="343" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/some_of_my_best_friends/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg" data-orig-size="267,200" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;Joe Grivasi, Camille Saviola, Michael DeLuise, Alec Mapa and Jessica Lundy (top row, from left), and Danny Nucci and Jason Bateman (bottom row, from left)&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="some_of_my_best_friends" data-image-description="&lt;p&gt;Joe Grivasi, Camille Saviola, Michael DeLuise, Alec Mapa and Jessica Lundy (top row, from left), and Danny Nucci and Jason Bateman (bottom row, from left)&lt;/p&gt;
" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg?w=267" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg?w=267" class="size-full wp-image-343" title="some_of_my_best_friends" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg?w=267&#038;h=200" alt="" width="267" height="200" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg 267w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg?w=150&amp;h=112 150w" sizes="(max-width: 267px) 100vw, 267px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-343" class="wp-caption-text">From 2001, The Cast of Some Of My Best Friends &#8211; The last CBS Show to feature a gay lead.</p></div>
<p>The last time CBS featured a show with a gay character in a lead role was in the spring of 2001 when they were trying to ride the <strong>Will &amp; Grace</strong> gravy train on a flop show called <strong>Some Of My Best Friends</strong>.  In my opinion, that show was a flop only in that it didn’t attract a mainstream audience, but it was a fantastic show that was co-written by <strong>Marc Cherry</strong> (pre-Desperate Housewives) and co-starred <strong>Alec Mapa</strong> before he landed some more prominent roles on <strong>Desperate Housewives</strong> and <strong>Ugly Betty</strong>.  Only 7 episodes were produced and CBS only aired 5 of them before unceremoniously yanking the show from its line-up.   CBS never seemed to recover from the experience and has featured very few LGBT characters on their shows since then, unless they played someone who died at the beginning of a <strong>CSI</strong> or <strong>Mentalist</strong> episode.</p>
<p>This fall may open the door for the gay community as they will be featuring a series with 2 gay characters.  One is played by <strong>Michael Urie</strong> (<em>Ugly Betty</em>) and the other hunky <strong>Brandon Routh</strong> (<em>Chuck, Superman</em>).  And while Brandon doesn’t typically come across as someone you would peg for portraying gay, he’s done so a few times before, coincidentally on <strong>Will &amp; Grace</strong>, as well as in the <strong>Kevin Smith</strong> movie <strong>Zach and Mira Make A Porno</strong>.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_348" style="width: 430px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-348" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="348" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/partners2-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg" data-orig-size="420,315" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Partners2" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;You&#8217;ll learn to love Michael Urie&#8217;s over-the-top personality by the end of Episode 1.&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg?w=420" class="size-full wp-image-348 " style="border:1px solid black;" title="Partners2" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg?w=420&#038;h=315" alt="" width="420" height="315" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg 420w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg?w=150&amp;h=113 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225 300w" sizes="(max-width: 420px) 100vw, 420px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-348" class="wp-caption-text">You&#8217;ll learn to love Michael Urie&#8217;s over-the-top personality by the end of Episode 1.</p></div>
<p>The show itself emulates the lives of the show’s creaters <strong>Max Mutchnick</strong> and <strong>David Kohan</strong>.  In real life, these two were responsible for <strong>Will &amp; Grace</strong> with Mutchnick being openly gay while Kohan is openly straight.  As described by CBS president <strong>Nina Tassler</strong>,  Partners is “ a show about working with your best friend with whom you&#8217;ve grown up”  and &#8220;how do you find that balance between what you tell your partner and what you tell your best friend.&#8221;</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_344" style="width: 224px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-344" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="344" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/michaelurie/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg" data-orig-size="214,314" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="MichaelUrie" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Michael Urie&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg?w=204" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg?w=214" class=" wp-image-344" title="MichaelUrie" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg?w=214&#038;h=314" alt="" width="214" height="314" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg 214w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg?w=102&amp;h=150 102w" sizes="(max-width: 214px) 100vw, 214px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-344" class="wp-caption-text">Michael Urie in his &#8220;Ugly Betty&#8221; days.</p></div>
<p>The pilot episode opens up with showing the two leads in quick flashbacks from their early childhood until present so that you immediately have a sense that they’ve been life long friends who, like in our real life, have grown into very different individuals.  And yet, they still have managed to keep a tremendous bond with one another as best friends and business partners.  For those who remember <strong>Michael  Urie</strong> from his Snarky Assistant role on <strong>Ugly Betty</strong>, you may not immediately recognize him as he is a bit different individual this time around who proves to have some great comedic timing.  (Kind of reminded me of a gay “Jack Tripper”..)</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_346" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-346" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="346" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore1.jpg" data-orig-size="250,305" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Brandon_Routh_by_Gage_Skidmore" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Brandon Routh&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore1.jpg?w=246" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore1.jpg?w=250" class=" wp-image-346 " title="Brandon_Routh_by_Gage_Skidmore" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore1.jpg?w=200&#038;h=250" alt="" width="200" height="250" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-346" class="wp-caption-text">Brandon Routh</p></div>
<p>I’ll confess in the first 10 minutes of the version I received, I wasn’t sure this was going to fly.  Urie (Louis)  made me a bit uncomfortable with his over the top personality.  But by the last half of the episode, we seem to get a better sense as to what he’s all about and settle in with his character.  <strong>Brandon Routh</strong> (Wyatt), who&#8217;s character plays a registered nurse, is a perfect partner for Urie in that he seems to have a laid back persona that compliments the Louis character’s type A persona.  You also have his business partner <strong>David Krumholtz</strong> (Joe) who begins with his dilemma about whether or not to propose to his girlfriend, played by <strong>Sophia Bush</strong> (Ali).  Both had great timing as well and you had a sense that these people had chemistry together.</p>
<p>It’s always difficult to catch up the audience with the character setup while keeping things interesting, but the first episode managed to do so by the end.  But again, I’d give this one a chance if you aren’t fully invested in the first 10 minutes.</p>
<p>I don’t want to spoil too much here, but had to share my favorite joke thrown to <strong>Brandon Routh’s</strong> character acknowledging proof that he is gay by his obsessively recording all of the shows on <strong>Bravo</strong>.  (Interesting how they picked <strong>Bravo</strong> instead of <strong>LOGO</strong>, don’t ya think?)</p>
<p>Anyhow, the characters, both gay and straight seem to have some dimension to them, but there is definitely room for some growth.  <strong>Will and Grace</strong> took some time to catch on as well.  Let’s just hope that CBS allows this show more time to catch on than they did for <strong>Some Of My Best Friends</strong>. Fingers crossed.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/03/tv-fall-preview-alert-partners-cbs-a-first-look/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners_about_tn.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">partners_about_tn</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/some_of_my_best_friends.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">some_of_my_best_friends</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/partners21.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Partners2</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/michaelurie.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">MichaelUrie</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/brandon_routh_by_gage_skidmore1.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Brandon_Routh_by_Gage_Skidmore</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>Backlash of the Gay Male Comedians</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2012 17:16:43 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBT]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Alec Mapa]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Brad Loekle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Carson Kressley]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Dave Rubin]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Derek and Romaine]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Doria Bidlle]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Frank DeCaro]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gay Comedians]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Here TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Hot Gay Comics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Jeanine Garofalo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kathy Griffin]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Larry Flick]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Madonna]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Out Q]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Outfest]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Paul from Massachusetts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Shawn Hollenbach]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Sirius Satellite Radio]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Some Of My Best Friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Six Pack]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Wanda Sykes]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Who Wants To Be A Millionaire]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[World's Dumbest Criminals]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=317</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Part 2 in my unintentional series on Gay backlash… My last blog regarding LOGO-TV’s change of direction seemed to inadvertently touch upon another important issue for the Gay community that turned into a bit of a Twitter war.  It all started when “sarcastic Mark” came out to respond to LOGO’s twitter advertisement for their latest [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Part 2 in my unintentional series on Gay backlash…</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_318" style="width: 218px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-318" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="318" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/garofalo/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg" data-orig-size="208,302" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="garofalo" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Jeanine Garofalo Inadvertently Starts Twitter War &lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg?w=207" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg?w=208" class="size-full wp-image-318" title="garofalo" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg?w=208&#038;h=302" alt="" width="208" height="302" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg 208w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg?w=103&amp;h=150 103w" sizes="(max-width: 208px) 100vw, 208px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-318" class="wp-caption-text">Jeanine Garofalo Inadvertently Starts Twitter War</p></div>
<p>My last blog regarding <strong>LOGO-TV’</strong>s change of direction seemed to inadvertently touch upon another important issue for the Gay community that turned into a bit of a Twitter war.  It all started when “sarcastic Mark” came out to respond to <strong>LOGO’s</strong> twitter advertisement for their latest <strong>Jeanine Garofolo</strong> comedy special.  <strong></strong></p>
<p>I basically stated that it was a good idea to air the <strong>Jeanine Garofolo</strong> special and promote the heck out of it, because we all know that gay comedians aren’t funny (hence, the sarcasm).  Somehow, this touched a real bad nerve with one gay comedian I never heard of named <strong>Shawn Hollenbach</strong>, but not in a way I was expecting.  Here’s how it all went down (remember it’s Twitter and we are limited on letters so no grammar police – thank you):</p>
<p><strong>Shawn:</strong> <em>Tell the gay world to stop buying Kathy Griffin tickets and support gay comedians.</em></p>
<p><strong>Mark:</strong>  <em>Thank god Wanda Sykes came out. I just got tickets &amp; wouldn&#8217;t want to piss u off.</em></p>
<p><strong>Shawn:</strong>  <em>Of course you don’t support gay male comics. Why would a gay man do that? </em></p>
<p><strong>Mark:</strong>  <em>Wow now I can&#8217;t even c a lesbian w/out getting yur rath? Any more conditions Hitler?</em></p>
<p><strong>Shawn:</strong> <em>Yes, condition is don’t ask a network to play something you wouldn’t watch.  </em></p>
<p><strong>Mark:</strong> <em>cool &#8211; I won&#8217;t request you then. -:) </em></p>
<p><strong>Shawn</strong><em><strong>:</strong> I’m retired.</em></p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_319" style="width: 269px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-319" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="319" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/bradloekle/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg" data-orig-size="259,194" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="bradloekle" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg?w=259" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg?w=259" class="size-full wp-image-319" title="bradloekle" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg?w=259&#038;h=194" alt="" width="259" height="194" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg 259w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg?w=150&amp;h=112 150w" sizes="(max-width: 259px) 100vw, 259px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-319" class="wp-caption-text">Brad Loekle: Gay Male Comedians need more support from Gay males.</p></div>
<p>The conversation goes on but it doesn’t get any prettier.   So in between all this rigamarole,  I was corresponding with another comedian I actually have heard of (and follow on Twitter) named <strong>Brad Loekle</strong>.  He was fairly annoyed with me as well because he felt that I was making light of the fact that I was one of many gay men out there who Brad believed only supported females – whether it be comedians like Wanda and<strong> Kathy Griffin</strong> or singers like <strong>Cher, Lady Gaga</strong> and <strong>Madonna</strong> who get scores of gay men idolizing them.   Note: he has a point – I immediately flashed to my best friend who wore a <strong>Cher</strong> T-Shirt for good luck when he was a contestant on <strong>Who Wants To Be A Millionaire</strong>&#8230;</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_321" style="width: 300px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-321" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="321" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/chertshirt-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg" data-orig-size="605,624" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="CherTShirt" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Some gays believe a Cher T-Shirt will bring good luck.&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=291" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=605" class="size-medium wp-image-321" title="CherTShirt" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=290&#038;h=300" alt="" width="290" height="300" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=290 290w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=580 580w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=145 145w" sizes="(max-width: 290px) 100vw, 290px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-321" class="wp-caption-text">Some gays believe a Cher T-Shirt will bring good luck.</p></div>
<p>So while Brad may have a point here given the bitterness of my ex-friend Shawn, who as Brad put it “HATES me” now,    (Damn Shawn, our friendship was so short-lived and I was hoping we could do a sale at Barney’s together), but the truth is, I would happily support any comedian, male or female, gay or straight, that I can relate to.  We laugh at truth and sometimes this truth might be gay related, but often times it’s another aspect of our lives that hits our funny bone.</p>
<p>And like in dating or friendship, just because you are gay, doesn’t mean I’m going to like you or you are going to like me.</p>
<p>People, gay or straight, naturally tend to gravitate to people that we can relate to and also, are exposed to.  I stumbled upon my love for <strong>Wanda Sykes</strong> because she was in a really awful <strong>Chris Rock</strong> movie (pick one, any one) and I remember hating the movie but loving her. So from that point on, I’ve always kept an eye out for her.  I didn’t know or care at the time if she was gay or straight, but when she actually did come out, I was thrilled.</p>
<p>Gay male comedians such as <strong>Shawn Hollenbach</strong> have a point that we may have not supported their career, but is it fair for them to ask us to seek them out so that their living can be supported?    I remember my first exposure to <strong>Brad Loekle</strong> years ago from Out Q, a station for the LGBT community on Satellite Radio, as a regular weekly guest on Larry Flicks morning show, but I honestly hadn’t heard from or about him much except for an occasional <strong>Outfest</strong> special back when <strong>LOGO-TV</strong> actually featured gay comedians.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_323" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-323" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="323" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/worldsdumbest-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg" data-orig-size="200,136" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="WorldsDumbest" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;TRU TV Presents The World&#8217;s Dumbest Criminals every Thursday Night&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg?w=200" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg?w=200" class="size-full wp-image-323" title="WorldsDumbest" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg?w=200&#038;h=136" alt="" width="200" height="136" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg 200w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg?w=150&amp;h=102 150w" sizes="(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-323" class="wp-caption-text">TRU TV Presents The World&#8217;s Dumbest Criminals every Thursday Night</p></div>
<p>Since then, I hadn’t heard anything new about Brad, but his career managed to survive without my knowledge thanks to the <strong>TRU</strong> cable channel, who hired him to host the popular <strong>World’s Dumbest Criminals</strong> show on Thursdays nights.  (Ironically, it’s now on against and has more viewers than Kathy Griffin’s highly promoted talk show.)  I also explained that I’m new to Twitter and now I that I am a resident in Twitter country, I can follow my favorite comedians and support them easier by knowing when they are in Chicago.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_324" style="width: 215px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-324" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="324" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/kathygriffin/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg" data-orig-size="298,435" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="KathyGriffin" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Kathy Griffin: Helping or hurting our cause through her humor&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg?w=206" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg?w=298" class="size-medium wp-image-324" title="KathyGriffin" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg?w=205&#038;h=300" alt="" width="205" height="300" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg?w=205 205w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg?w=103 103w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg 298w" sizes="(max-width: 205px) 100vw, 205px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-324" class="wp-caption-text">Kathy Griffin: Helping or hurting our cause through her humor</p></div>
<p>As for Kathy, I always have had mixed feelings for her.  I have gone to her shows and have been a loyal viewer.  But here is where the “mixed” part comes in.  Kathy continuously refers to us has her “gays” and jokes around that every one of us has perfect taste in how to dress, hates sports and a “fierce” attitude.  Do I know that she is just throwing a “wink” at us and knows that we know that she knows we really aren’t all the same?  Of course I do and it’s fun to say we are all this slightly different variation of <strong>Carson Kressley </strong>and throw out some jokes about it to one another.  But with Kathy throwing out the “one size fits all&#8221; gay jokes she does,  I laugh and I get it, but does the Tennessee mom with 3 kids who is  afraid they will learn about homosexuality in school get it?</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_325" style="width: 230px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-325" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="325" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/carson_kressley/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg" data-orig-size="220,293" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Carson_Kressley" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Everyone knows that all gays are not just a variation of Carson Kressley.  Or do they?&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg?w=220" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg?w=220" class="size-full wp-image-325" title="Carson_Kressley" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg?w=220&#038;h=293" alt="" width="220" height="293" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg 220w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg?w=113&amp;h=150 113w" sizes="(max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-325" class="wp-caption-text">Everyone knows that all gays are not just a variation of Carson Kressley. Or do they?</p></div>
<p>Or will she go out and sign a petition to keep her state free of Gay marriage? Again, feelings are mixed.  I don’t have the answer – maybe you do.  Is it possible to for us to educate the general public without losing our sense of humor?</p>
<p>So back to <strong>Brad Loekle</strong>.  Brad, thank you for reaching out and taking the time to explain your concerns.  It is evident that he has a passion about this as I’m sure other gay male comedians do so I don’t want to make light of it.  I want to also note that Brad mentioned that he no way harbors any resentment to the female comedians out there and as stated in his final tweet to me:</p>
<p><em>“I ADORE all the “ladies”… but we can still love them while we put our money &amp; love behind ourselves too”</em></p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_326" style="width: 230px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-326" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="326" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/daveinblackrubin/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg" data-orig-size="220,280" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="DaveinblackRubin" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Dave Rubin &#8211; Helping the cause to promote the Hot Gay Comics out there.&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg?w=220" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg?w=220" class="size-full wp-image-326" title="DaveinblackRubin" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg?w=220&#038;h=280" alt="" width="220" height="280" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg 220w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg?w=118&amp;h=150 118w" sizes="(max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-326" class="wp-caption-text">Dave Rubin: Helping the cause to promote the Hot Gay Comics out there.</p></div>
<p>And for what it’s worth, I have several male comedians out there who I’d love to see in action on stage based on my experiences with seeing them on TV, Brad, <strong>Alec Mapa, </strong>and Andre Kelley immediately come to mind.  Alec, probably the most successful in terms of recognition, has been a favorite of mine since the very short-lived and under appreciated CBS flop, <strong>Some Of My Best Friends.</strong></p>
<p>You also have <strong>Dave Rubin</strong>, who probably has done the most to promote other gay comedians as he used to have a fantastic podcast that I subscribed to and listened to religiously called <strong>Hot Gay Comics</strong>. (Which was also a series on the &#8220;hard to find anywhere&#8221; <strong>HERE TV</strong> network).   I guess he ran out of <strong>Hot Gay Comics</strong> and had to move on to something different.  So now he’s the host of <strong>The Six Pack</strong> on Sirius/XM, which is also a podcast you can subscribe to at <a href="http://sixpackradio.com/">http://sixpackradio.com/</a>.   I highly recommend following him on Twitter @therubinreport as his tweets can be highly entertaining.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_327" style="width: 243px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-327" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="327" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/frankdoria/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg" data-orig-size="233,216" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="FrankDoria" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg?w=233" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg?w=233" class="size-full wp-image-327" title="FrankDoria" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg?w=233&#038;h=216" alt="" width="233" height="216" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg 233w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg?w=150&amp;h=139 150w" sizes="(max-width: 233px) 100vw, 233px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-327" class="wp-caption-text">Frank DeCaro and <del>Jeanine Garofalo</del> Doria Biddle from Sirius Out Q radio</p></div>
<p>As for other gay comedians, I listen to former Daily Show comedian <strong>Frank DeCaro</strong> on Sirius Out Q radio and believe him to have a great following of gays, but perhaps not as much for his humor as for his lesbian sidekick, <strong>Doria Biddle</strong>, who manages to keep the show balanced from becoming a 3 hour discussion on classic TV. She also looks eerily like <strong>Jeanine Garofalo</strong>. And one of Frank’s fans, who has his own fan base thanks to his heckling style of sarcasm with Frank on the phone, “Paul From Massachusetts”, continually promotes male comedian <strong>Adam Sank</strong> on his blog and on Facebook.   The<strong> Derek and Romaine</strong> show on <strong>Sirius Out Q</strong> also has featured a plethora of gay comedians.  I assume these people also go to their shows so we can eliminate that there is no support from the Gay males out there, but is there enough?</p>
<p>I don’t make any excuses though as to whom I like or don’t like and don’t feel the need to support people who don’t warrant it.  But there is support out there for “the gays” as Kathy would say.  Maybe there is enough support for male comedians out there, or maybe there is not enough &#8230;.. or maybe you just aren’t funny.  Incidentally, <strong>Shawn</strong> <strong>Hollenbach, </strong>has since retired from Standup at the age of 31.</p>
<p>However, if any of the above mentioned are ever in town (except for my ex-friend Shawn), please let me know and I’ll even try to bring a few more gay males with me.  I hope you don&#8217;t mind if one of them is wearing a <strong>Cher</strong> T-Shirt.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/07/02/backlash-of-the-gay-male-comedians/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>1</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/garofalo.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">garofalo</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/bradloekle.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">bradloekle</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/chertshirt1.jpg?w=290" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">CherTShirt</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/worldsdumbest1.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">WorldsDumbest</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/kathygriffin.jpg?w=205" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">KathyGriffin</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/carson_kressley.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Carson_Kressley</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/daveinblackrubin.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">DaveinblackRubin</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/frankdoria.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">FrankDoria</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>Backlash Of The Gay Stereotypes</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jun 2012 14:24:11 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBT]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BET]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bravo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bravo TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Derek Hartley]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Eden's World]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kathy Griffin]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO sucks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Long Beach]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Queer As Folk]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reichen Lehmkuhl]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ripples]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[RuPaul's Drag Race]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Spin City]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tabitha Coffey]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tabitha Takes Over]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Game]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=294</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Well based on the response from my “Open Letter To LOGO” post, one thing 99.2% of the responders agreed on &#8230;.. LOGO is on the road to bankruptcy.  But it seemed that a few took exception to my views and at the same time, gave me insight into all of the self-loathing gay stereotypes out [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_305" style="width: 394px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-305" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="306" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/outrageous-21-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg" data-orig-size="384,600" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="outrageous-21" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg?w=192" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg?w=384" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-306" title="outrageous-21" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg?w=384&#038;h=600" alt="" width="384" height="600" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg 384w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg?w=96&amp;h=150 96w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg?w=192&amp;h=300 192w" sizes="(max-width: 384px) 100vw, 384px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-305" class="wp-caption-text">Gay People Come in All Shapes and Sizes &#8211; One Representation Does Not Fit All</p></div>
<p>Well based on the response from my “Open Letter To <strong>LOGO</strong>” post, one thing 99.2% of the responders agreed on &#8230;.. <strong>LOGO</strong> is on the road to bankruptcy.  But it seemed that a few took exception to my views and at the same time, gave me insight into all of the self-loathing gay stereotypes out there that must have had some horrific experiences reading through the gay want-ads that said &#8220;NO FATS, NO FEMMS&#8221;.  One guy actually asked me if I wanted him to commit suicide.  Based on what?  My yearning for some non-stereotypical gay programming for the <strong>LOGO</strong> Channel?  Aren’t we being a bit of a drama queen?</p>
<p>And thanks to Michael Musto’s <a title="Village Voice" href="http://blogs.villagevoice.com/dailymusto/2012/06/an_open_letter.php" target="_blank">Village Voice </a>posting, I viewed other responses from “Ick” (how appropriate) – “<em>Some of the guy&#8217;s statements are illiterate and some of his suggestions for shows would get no ratings. does he not realize Logo is a business, not a charity operation?</em>”  And Jessica answered brilliantly “<em>Only someone with a narrow and illiterate mind would think the only way to attract an audience would be to find flashy flamboyant drag queens.</em>”  But in actuality, I would have to take more exception with someone posting I have illiterate thoughts without an explanation.  Are you too illiterate to ellaborate?</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_295" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-295" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="295" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/tabathatopofbar/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg" data-orig-size="540,360" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;5.6&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS 5D Mark II&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1315933110&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;40&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;3200&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.008&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="tabathatopofbar" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Tabitha Coffey Takes Over Ripples Gay Bar in Long Beach&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg?w=540" class="size-medium wp-image-295" title="tabathatopofbar" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg?w=300&#038;h=200" alt="" width="300" height="200" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg?w=300 300w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg?w=150 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg 540w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-295" class="wp-caption-text">Tabitha Coffey Takes Over Ripples Gay Bar in Long Beach</p></div>
<p>As for the shows I suggested that would get no ratings, well, I can tell you that the Bar Takeover idea did quite well as a stand alone episode on <strong>Bravo</strong> on a little show called “<strong>Tabitha Takes Over</strong>”.  While Tabitha typically takes over hair salons, here, she stepped out of her comfort zone to take over a gay bar in Long Beach, CA., renovate it and put it back on the map.  And the show attracted over a million viewers, which is quite good for Bravo and I’m sure 10 times what <strong>LOGO&#8217;s</strong> kiddie pageant series &#8220;<strong>Eden’s World</strong>&#8221; drew.</p>
<p>My favorite comment was from Slimjim, who said <em>“What next&#8211;BET will show white shows because they&#8217;ll say we found out that&#8217;s what black people want???”  </em>Exactly Slimjim (except for the grammar issue I had).  <strong>BET</strong> actually is quite popular with their niche audience and a show that failed on the CW called <strong>The Game</strong> drew over 5 million viewers on <strong>BET</strong> because they know their audience.  Some of you out there would have suggested the <strong>LOGO-TV</strong> type approach of putting on reruns of <em>Spin City</em> on the channel because there was a black character on there.  (Shhh, I forgot, the character was gay too, don&#8217;t give <strong>LOGO</strong> any ideas.)</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_303" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-303" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="303" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/game89-3/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg" data-orig-size="495,358" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="game89" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;BET&#8217;s The Game has drawn over 5 million viewers per episode.&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg?w=495" class="size-medium wp-image-303" title="game89" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg?w=300&#038;h=216" alt="" width="300" height="216" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg?w=300 300w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg?w=150 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg 495w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-303" class="wp-caption-text">BET&#8217;s The Game has drawn over 5 million viewers per episode.</p></div>
<p>This also answers JDolphy’s question posed earlier <em>“How does one cater to a community that has no identity?”</em></p>
<p>Great discussions out there people, but what I found frightful was JDolphy’s later comment that said:</p>
<p><em>“No one was watching and this forced Logo to rethink how they would reach out to our community.  You know what they found out?  Gay men, in particular, care more about straight artists with a strong and independent persona than they do about gay ones.  So if Logo wants to make a 24-hour Madonna/GaGa/Kathy Griffin/Campy movies/Circuit Party Music-type channel, I would have to agree that it might actually get more people to care.  Look at Drag Race.  It&#8217;s about the only thing on the channel that actually gets good viewership.&#8221; </em></p>
<p><em> </em>This sounds like someone working inside the LOGO network.  Yikes!</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_304" style="width: 281px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-304" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="304" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/picture-610/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png" data-orig-size="463,512" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Picture-610" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;JDolphy&#8217;s Vision of What Gay Men Want To See on LOGO&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png?w=271" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png?w=463" class="size-medium wp-image-304" title="Picture-610" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png?w=271&#038;h=300" alt="" width="271" height="300" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png?w=271 271w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png?w=136 136w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png 463w" sizes="(max-width: 271px) 100vw, 271px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-304" class="wp-caption-text">JDolphy&#8217;s Vision of What Gay Men Want To See on LOGO</p></div>
<p>So in response.. First of all, I disagree – get new researchers.  <strong>The A List</strong> also had good viewership, but <strong>LOGO</strong> wanted to “<em>go in a different direction</em>” as per one of the stars of the show, <strong>Reichen Lehmkul’s</strong> tweet.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_299" style="width: 210px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-299" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="299" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/derek-hartley/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg" data-orig-size="200,200" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="Derek Hartley" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Denounced LOGO&#8217;s &#8220;A-List&#8221; series as heinous&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg?w=200" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg?w=200" class="size-full wp-image-299 " title="Derek Hartley" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg?w=200&#038;h=200" alt="" width="200" height="200" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg 200w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg?w=150&amp;h=150 150w" sizes="(max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-299" class="wp-caption-text">Derek Hartley &#8211; Denounced LOGO&#8217;s &#8220;A-List&#8221; series as heinous</p></div>
<p>Others however, such as Sirius Out Q’s<strong> Derek Hartley</strong>, publicly denounced the <strong>A- List</strong> show as heinous in its poor portrayal of the gay community.  At the same time, this doesn’t mean we don’t have an interest in watching men being men.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_300" style="width: 288px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-300" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="300" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/gale-harold/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg" data-orig-size="320,345" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="gale-harold" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Gale Harold didn&#8217;t have to camp-it-up to play gay on Queer As Folk.&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg?w=278" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg?w=320" class="size-medium wp-image-300" title="gale-harold" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg?w=278&#038;h=300" alt="" width="278" height="300" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg?w=278 278w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg?w=139 139w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg 320w" sizes="(max-width: 278px) 100vw, 278px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-300" class="wp-caption-text">Gale Harold didn&#8217;t have to camp-it-up to play gay on Queer As Folk.</p></div>
<p>I remember there was also outcry over one of my favorite shows Queer As Folk (the US version).  Say what you want about the sexual storylines, but they hit home with the gay world I witnessed and the variety of gay people that touched most aspects of the gay community during its run.  And yet please take note JDolphy,  people watched!  Go figure.  And without everyone dressing up in their best boa and shouting for Kathy Griffin.</p>
<p>I think Michael Musto’s <a title="Village Voice" href="http://blogs.villagevoice.com/dailymusto/2012/06/an_open_letter.php">Village Voice </a>synopsis showed he was the most spot-on when it came to understanding the message I conveyed.  And despite his discomfort with my remarks about <strong>LOGO-TV</strong> just catering to the Drag side of the gay community, I was pretty clear in stating that I enjoyed the <strong>Drag Race</strong> series and have no issues with TV shows that highlight the flamboyant side of our community, however, isn’t it about time we showed that we can be funny without being flamboyant?</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_298" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-298" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="298" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/ericstonestreet-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg" data-orig-size="624,351" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="EricStonestreet" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Eric Stonestreet &#8211; Straight Actor Camping it up To Play Gay&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=624" class="size-medium wp-image-298" title="EricStonestreet" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=300&#038;h=168" alt="" width="300" height="168" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=300 300w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=600 600w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=150 150w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-298" class="wp-caption-text">Eric Stonestreet &#8211; Straight Actor Camping it up To Play Gay</p></div>
<p>OK, maybe because I’m partnered with a very funny gay cop who doesn’t exude any of the stereotypical traits found in<strong> Modern Family’s</strong> Cameron character, I’m a bit biased, but again, speak from experience.  I’m also not like some of my militant gay com-padre&#8217;s who won’t watch anything gay that has a hint of effeminate mannerisms.  I don’t care, I want to be entertained and there are a lot of &#8220;Cameron&#8217;s&#8221; out there who possess them in real life so yeah, I watch and laugh with the rest of America.  BUT, I’d like someone to convey the side of gay life seldom scene.  Interesting gay people doing interesting things without camping it up. <strong>LOGO-TV</strong> has the power to do something about this and create quite a niche for themselves, but they choose not to.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/30/backlash-of-the-gay-stereotypes/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/outrageous-211.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">outrageous-21</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tabathatopofbar.jpg?w=300" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">tabathatopofbar</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/game892.jpg?w=300" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">game89</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/picture-610.png?w=271" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Picture-610</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/derek-hartley.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">Derek Hartley</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gale-harold.jpg?w=278" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">gale-harold</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/ericstonestreet1.jpg?w=300" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">EricStonestreet</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>An Open Letter To LOGO-TV</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/an-open-letter-to-logo-tv/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/an-open-letter-to-logo-tv/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 17:21:54 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[LGBT]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Bravo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Drag Queen]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Gay Cops]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[In The Big House]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Latrice Royale]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Logo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[LOGO TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[RuPaul's Drag Race]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Watch What Happens Live]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=274</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Dear LOGO, It&#8217;s unfortunate that you never catered to the LGBT community in the past very well, but now you seem to have abandoned them all together, with the exception of your Drag Race fans.  Your latest offering &#8211; &#8220;In The Big House&#8221; looks to be another travesty.  And while you are touting this as [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear <strong>LOGO</strong>,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s unfortunate that you never catered to the LGBT community in the past very well, but now you seem to have abandoned them all together, with the exception of your Drag Race fans.  Your latest offering &#8211; &#8220;In The Big House&#8221; looks to be another travesty.  And while you are touting this as the &#8220;real life&#8221; Modern Family, the truth is, this is anything but a bunch of straight mobsters who happen to clash with another gay stereotype.  Even your &#8220;about <strong>LOGO</strong>&#8221; shows that you no longer want to cater to LGBT.</p>
<p><strong>ABOUT LOGO</strong></p>
<p><em><strong>Logo</strong> celebrates one-of-a-kind personalities, unconventional stories and discovering what&#8217;s next-all through a mix of original and acquired entertainment that&#8217;s outrageous, smart and inclusive.  Entertaining a social, savvy audience of gay trendsetters, <strong>Logo also attracts a straight audience that wants to be ahead of the curve. </strong></em></p>
<p><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg"><img loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="278" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/an-open-letter-to-logo-tv/rupaul-2/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg" data-orig-size="275,183" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="RuPaul" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg?w=275" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg?w=275" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-278" title="RuPaul" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg?w=275&#038;h=183" alt="" width="275" height="183" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg 275w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg?w=150&amp;h=100 150w" sizes="(max-width: 275px) 100vw, 275px" /></a>Come on now LOGO, who are these social and savvy gay trendsetters you speak of?  Latrice Royale fans?  Please also note, I watched every season of RuPaul&#8217;s Drag Race so I&#8217;m not anti&#8211;Drag, but I&#8217;d love it if you offered some other representation.</p>
<p>The Gay Community understands that it is difficult to create something fresh and modern that may have a cross appeal on a limited budget, however, <strong>BRAVO</strong> seemed to figure it out just fine.  <strong>Watch What Happens Live</strong> is probably the cheapest produced show I ever saw, yet it&#8217;s continuously fresh, innovative, entertaining and routinely attracts over 1 Million Viewers nightly and many of which are both straight and gay.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_279" style="width: 310px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/pride.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-279" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="279" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/an-open-letter-to-logo-tv/pride/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/pride.jpg" data-orig-size="984,649" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="pride" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;There is more to the Gay Community than this..&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/pride.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/pride.jpg?w=984" class=" wp-image-279 " title="pride" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/pride.jpg?w=300&#038;h=200" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-279" class="wp-caption-text">There is more to the Gay Community than this..</p></div>
<p>They know their audience and they know how to be creative in bringing in viewers.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great you found 1 hit show in all these years thanks to the cross-appeal of Drag Queens, but it would be nice to show the rest of the world that you can also attract a more mainstream audience by showing a more original facet of gay culture.  Perhaps showing a gay version of Real Housewives was not the answer.  Perhaps the answer is finding an element in the gay community that doesn&#8217;t present us as a &#8220;Girls Just Want To Have Fun&#8221; video would be a bit more captivating.</p>
<p>There are a lot of lower budget ways to find an audience.   <strong>LOGO</strong> should be the first network that can show the rest of the world that the gay community can be interesting without having to put on a dress or camp it up.  Here are a few rough ideas</p>
<ul>
<ul>
<li>A dating and/or cooking competition show that features all sorts of representatives from the gay community.</li>
<li>A Gay Bar Rescue type of show where someone saves another poorly run Gay Bar from failing&#8230;</li>
<li>A talent / variety show that features all from the LGBT community?</li>
<li>The life and times of Gay Cops and Firemen.</li>
</ul>
</ul>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_280" style="width: 410px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-280" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="280" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/an-open-letter-to-logo-tv/gaycops/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg" data-orig-size="1021,766" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="gaycops" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Gay Cops? &#8211; Not on LOGO&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=1021" class=" wp-image-280  " title="gaycops" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=400&#038;h=300" alt="" width="400" height="300" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=400&amp;h=300 400w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=800&amp;h=600 800w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=150&amp;h=113 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=300&amp;h=225 300w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg?w=768&amp;h=576 768w" sizes="(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-280" class="wp-caption-text">Gay Cops? &#8211; Not on LOGO</p></div>
<p>While the concepts may not be all that original, the casting, execution and presentation of these can be.</p>
<p>Perhaps if one of these clicks, you&#8217;d have a budget for scripted entertainment &#8211; a sitcom that shows a more realistic version of a gay couple raising a kid, or a group of gay singles trying to find their way in the world of love.  Or better yet, a Soap Opera that takes place in West Hollywood or someplace not often publicized much by the gay community, like Chicago -:).</p>
<p>There, now I&#8217;ve put together your 3 year blue print for success.</p>
<p>With many of these ideas, you could actually put together shows that encompasses LGBTQ all in one half hour!  Not even the mainstream networks have accomplished that yet.  (Sorry Modern Family, sorry Will &amp; Grace)</p>
<p>I always thought that the Gay Community was one of the most creative groups of individuals out there, but apparently that must be another stereotype I was unaware of.</p>
<p>Yours Truly,</p>
<p>Mark</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/an-open-letter-to-logo-tv/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>5</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/rupaul1.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">RuPaul</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/pride.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">pride</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/gaycops.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">gaycops</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
		<item>
		<title>Reality TV: The Aftermath We Seldom See</title>
		<link>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/23/reality-tv-the-aftermath/</link>
					<comments>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/23/reality-tv-the-aftermath/#respond</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[xwiseguyx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2012 15:45:50 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Reality TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TV]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Big Brother]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Biggest Loser]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Matty McDonald]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tonya Paoni]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/?p=258</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[We currently remain inundated with multiple reality show concepts on both network and cable.    On the shows that take off, these contestants have their 3 or 4 months in the spotlight and then are never heard from again.  On talent shows like American Idol or The Voice, many have the easiest option for extending their [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_264" style="width: 495px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-264" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="264" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/23/reality-tv-the-aftermath/04_features-september/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg" data-orig-size="485,367" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;nbc photo chris haston&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;biggest loser winner from last season helen   Original Filename: loser2.bmp&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;04_Features - SEPTEMBER&quot;}" data-image-title="04_Features &#8211; SEPTEMBER" data-image-description="&lt;p&gt;biggest loser winner &#8211; helen   Original Filename: loser2.bmp&lt;/p&gt;
" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;It&#8217;s all smiles while your still in the Spotlight&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg?w=300" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg?w=485" class="size-full wp-image-264" title="04_Features - SEPTEMBER" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg?w=485&#038;h=367" alt="Biggest Loser" width="485" height="367" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg 485w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg?w=150&amp;h=114 150w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg?w=300&amp;h=227 300w" sizes="(max-width: 485px) 100vw, 485px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-264" class="wp-caption-text">It&#8217;s all smiles while your still in the Spotlight</p></div>
<p>We currently remain inundated with multiple reality show concepts on both network and cable.    On the shows that take off, these contestants have their 3 or 4 months in the spotlight and then are never heard from again.  On talent shows like <strong>American Idol</strong> or <strong>The Voice</strong>, many have the easiest option for extending their brief flirt with nationwide popularity because they have a discernible talent, but for shows like <strong>The Biggest Loser</strong> or <strong>Big Brother</strong>, it is much more challenging.  For those not looking for an acting career, it may not be such a big deal, but if you ever looked at the roster of Big Brother contestants each year, the vast majority appears to be actor wannabees.  No matter how many claim to be “cocktail waitresses”, “bartenders” or “advertising executives”, it’s quite evident, they are looking for a quick, but delusional path to stardom.   Let’s face it, the majority of these people we don’t remember a month after the season has concluded let alone a year or two.</p>
<p>Reality show producers are missing out on a golden opportunity to feature a show that focuses on contestants years after their season’s have ended.  Just like <strong>Biggest Loser</strong> contestants, some cope well and others don’t and while fading back into obscurity, return to being the people they were before they were thrust into the spotlight.  On <strong>Big Brother</strong>, in many cases it was even worse.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_259" style="width: 228px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-259" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="259" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/23/reality-tv-the-aftermath/tonya-paoni-big-brother/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg" data-orig-size="291,400" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="tonya-paoni-big-brother" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Tonya Paoni &#8211; Arrested for Reckless Homicide&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg?w=218" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg?w=291" class="size-medium wp-image-259" title="tonya-paoni-big-brother" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg?w=218&#038;h=300" alt="tonya paoni" width="218" height="300" srcset="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg?w=218 218w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg?w=109 109w, https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg 291w" sizes="(max-width: 218px) 100vw, 218px" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-259" class="wp-caption-text">Tonya Paoni &#8211; Arrested for Reckless Homicide</p></div>
<p>If you do a quick search on some of the media stories involving former contestants, you’d find out that Season 3’s <em>Tonya Paoni</em> was arrested for reckless homicide from a drunk driving incident and Season 9’s <em>Adam Jasinski</em> and <em>Matty McDonald</em> both were arrested and are currently serving sentences for distributing Oxycontin.  As readers and former viewers of these individuals, we read this kind of thing, dismiss as a bunch of idiots and move on with our lives.  But the real story (or “the pitch” as I call it) would be to delve into why these things ever happened to these people.</p>
<div data-shortcode="caption" id="attachment_260" style="width: 148px" class="wp-caption alignright"><a href="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/matty1.jpg"><img aria-describedby="caption-attachment-260" loading="lazy" data-attachment-id="260" data-permalink="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/23/reality-tv-the-aftermath/matty1/" data-orig-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/matty1.jpg" data-orig-size="138,206" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}" data-image-title="matty1" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;Matty McDonald&lt;br /&gt;
From Big Brother &#8220;Celebrity&#8221; to&lt;br /&gt;
Jailhouse &#8220;Nobody&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;
" data-medium-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/matty1.jpg?w=138" data-large-file="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/matty1.jpg?w=138" class="size-full wp-image-260" title="matty1" src="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/matty1.jpg?w=138&#038;h=206" alt="Matty McDonald" width="138" height="206" /></a><p id="caption-attachment-260" class="wp-caption-text">Matty McDonald<br />From Big Brother &#8220;Celebrity&#8221; to<br />Jailhouse &#8220;Nobody&#8221;</p></div>
<p>In the case of <em>Matty McDonald,</em> a former construction worker from Boston, I got not only a glimpse of why, but an amazing recount as to the events that led up to his current incarceration.  I must say, for someone with marginal talent on the show, he sure showed a penchant for telling a story through his monthly (when possible) blog posts.  Like many new series, Matty wasn’t exactly sure where he was going with this whole blogging thing.  It started off a bit sketchy with his jailhouse surroundings and how bad they were – boo hoo boo hoo.  But things started to really perk up as he recounted the events that turned him from Big Brother “Celebrity” to Jailhouse “Nobody”.  Like a good book he slowly recounted how he always thought he had control of his surroundings and he had difficulty letting go of his 3 months of fame, leading to the details as to the first moment he realized that he no longer was able to have control of his drug usage, to his double life as a drug courier/construction worker, non-celebrity rehab and eventual prison.  As a fan of the fictional show, <strong>The Cleaner</strong>, a short-lived<em> Benjamin Bratt</em> series about people trying to kick a drug habit, this story ranks up there with the best of those scripts.  I highly recommend you check out <a title="Matty's Blog" href="http://mattymcdonald.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">http://mattymcdonald.wordpress.com/</a> and be sure to hit the archive back to the first post.  You don’t have to be a Big Brother or even a Reality Show fan to appreciate this. Note, that like a good novel, each chapter ends on a cliff hanger and it also makes you reflect on yourself.  Most of us have a dark side we dare not share, but not all of us choose to act on it.  And his story isn’t over yet folks.</p>
<p>I have to imagine there are other great stories out there. Probably for every well-adjusted returnee to the real world, there are 3 or 4 not so well adjusted.  So what do you say Reality Show producers, get moving on this idea!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
					
					<wfw:commentRss>https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/2012/06/23/reality-tv-the-aftermath/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		
		
		
		<media:content url="https://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e7ffc1df5bf18a27e1aef0ff5eebfa011522be180a9f705be52248281f6749c?s=96&#38;d=identicon&#38;r=G" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">xwiseguyx</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/biggestloser.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">04_Features - SEPTEMBER</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/tonya-paoni-big-brother.jpg?w=218" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">tonya-paoni-big-brother</media:title>
		</media:content>

		<media:content url="https://mediaspotlight.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/matty1.jpg" medium="image">
			<media:title type="html">matty1</media:title>
		</media:content>
	</item>
	</channel>
</rss>
