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The famous statement made by Tom Cruise to Renee Zellweger in the movie Jerry Maguire has "messed women up!" according to Oprah.</P><br /><P>I agree.</P><br /><P>From my own personal experience and all the reading I have done on abuse as well as discussions and information I've been told I believe that statement is actually abusive, and this is why.</P><br /><P>"You complete me" is not romantic, it's controlling. How? Well, now that person has made you responsible for their feelings and their well-being. It's a form of manipulation.</P><br /><P>I remember my ex saying to me that he didn't like me talking to a business associate of his, someone he had introduced me to and whom he thought would help me in my career.</P><br /><P>"I know what you are doing and I'm going to be watching you."</P><br /><P>Watching me do what? I was doing nothing wrong but all of a sudden I started to question myself and his feelings became more important than my own. I wanted to make sure he felt safe, secure and loved in our relationship so I limited any other relationships that might cause him to feel otherwise. Well, there's really no end to that...soon it wasn't just business associates and co-workers, it was friends, family and students. Yes, even students. I remember one night I had dinner planned with one of my teenage students who was really struggling.</P><br /><P>My ex and I got in a huge fight over that dinner because he did not want me to go. He said I couldn't save her and he needed me and if I went then I was telling him that she was more important than he was blah blah blah. May I point out, he's an adult and she is a child. I still went because that was clearly the right thing to do, but I paid dearly for it. He made my life miserable for months to come and still brought it up, right to the day we parted ways. 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Well you deplete me.</P><br /><P>It's true, having to constantly worry about whether he was feeling secure in the relationship (there was never an end to that because his insecurities ran so deep), whether I was doing something 'wrong' in his eyes, always guessing his moods, continually having to adapt to his new set of rules...it depleted me all right. I was exhausted, chronically depressed and emotionally drained. His support was control in disguise and his actions never matched his words. He lied regularly but still I filled his cup instead of my own.</P><br /><P>Finally after years of this, years of trying to break free but always being too weak within myself to emotionally tear myself away, I finally built the strength to say...</P><br /><P>"You complete me? Huh, that's too bad, because I delete you."</P><br /><P>Are you sure you want to permanently delete this man? YES. 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If you let pride get in the way, you end up having a backlog of issues that will erupt at the wrong time and cause more damage to your relationship and your family than if you had dealt with them as they came up. Make the effort to realize when pride is getting in the way and overcome it to make your marriage a better experience.<br /> <b>Mistake #3 Getting revenge</b><br /> It is very likely that your partner will do something along the line that will hurt your feelings, perhaps they already have. And it might seem natural to want to get revenge but acting on this feeling will take you and your marriage down a road that will make recovery even more difficult. Getting revenge causes more issues in a marriage than there needs to be. You need to take control of your emotions and your actions and consciously prevent yourself from getting revenge. Hurting your partner in return will cause more pain and damage how you both see each other. Remember, you want your marriage to be a good experience. Work towards improving yourself and your relationships.<br /> <br /> <a href="http://ezinearticles.com/5205761" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">View the original article here</a><br /> <br /> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/60-Deadly-Marriage-Mistakes-ebook/dp/B00365F5YC?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=hfvisionscom-20&amp;link_code=bil&amp;camp=213689&amp;creative=392969" imageanchor="1" target="_blank"><img alt="The 60 Deadly Marriage Mistakes" src="http://ws.amazon.com/widgets/q?MarketPlace=US&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;WS=1&amp;Format=_SL160_&amp;ASIN=B00365F5YC&amp;tag=hfvisionscom-20" /></a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=hfvisionscom-20&amp;l=bil&amp;camp=213689&amp;creative=392969&amp;o=1&amp;a=B00365F5YC" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important; padding: 0px ! important;" width="1" />Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-75144288435823503792010-10-19T01:40:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:40:00.252-07:00 <P>"We are having communication problems," the caller lamented. "We have been fighting ever since our honeymoon one year ago. Neither of us feels heard or understood by the other. We love each other, but we just can not communicate." As a marital therapist, the most common complaint I hear from couples who contact me for help is communication problems. In the early years of my practice, I used to invite distressed couples to come in and let me teach them more effective communication skills. Now, I know better.</P><P>What have I learned?</P><P>Insight: Most distressed couples are too distressed to make good use of communication skills training. Yet that's where many therapists start with distressed couples: trying to teach them how to communicate better. It's a mistake. The partners are so angry that they just use their new communication skills to beat up on each other all the more. Their fights get worse! Later on after their distress has been alleviated and anger has abated, learning to communicate better may help, but not at the start. Numerous research studies show a high failure rate for communication skills training when use to treat distressed couples, yet this continues to be the treatment of choice for many therapists. Tip: If you're in relationship distress and a therapist you call wants to teach you communication skills, find another therapist.</P><P>2. For most distressed couples, communication skills training misses the mark.</P><P>It doesn't address the real issue. It's kind of like putting a band aid on an infected wound. The band aid won't cure the underlying infection. Couple communication problems, though real, are usually a symptom of something deeper: a breakdown in the bond, or emotional connectedness, between two spouses. Because of this loss of closeness, the sense of safety and security in the relationship has gone out the window. Neither partner trusts the other to be genuinely concerned about his or her welfare. If neither partner trusts the other, then what good are communication skills? No wonder many distressed couples who are taught communication skills go home and keep right on fighting. Until the broken bond is repaired and trust is restored, communication skills training probably won't help. Tip: If your relationship is in distress and you're having communication problems, start by focusing on repairing your broken bond, not on learning new communication skills. Ask: "What's happened to our closeness? What's happened to our trust? What can we do?"</P><P>3. Insight: When it comes to repairing broken bonds, many relationship experts agree that the most effective therapy approach is Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT).</P><P>This is a revolutionary approach that helps distressed couples get back their closeness and trust. When they do, distress is alleviated, anger decreases, and communication automatically improves. More than 25 years of research shows that with EFT, 75% of distressed couples recover completely and another 15% improve significantly. In other words, 90% get better! At two years follow up, almost all have retained their gains. I'm the first therapist in our seven-state Rocky Mountain Region to become fully trained and certified in EFT. I've had more experience using this approach to help distressed couples than any other therapist in our part of the country. Tip: If your marriage is in distress and you're experiencing communication problems, find an EFT therapist.</P><P>With EFT, you'll repair your broken bond and regain your closeness and trust. Then, you'll communicate a lot better and fight a lot less.</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5156549" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-35765507293854530262010-10-19T01:35:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:35:00.107-07:00 <P>Every husband had few break through moments in his married life. The beginning of those moments almost starts from his marriage. He cares for his wife, do thoughtful things and enjoy his harmonious life but still he gets fail to sustain the magic of his love in long term marriage. He also tries to get back his sexual appeal by learning the characteristics of husband from fake gurus, who push him towards romance or cheesy pick up lines. But eventually, these things only make him desperate, not attractive.</P><P>"You can not create the extreme attraction by being romantic or pickup artist. " Without attractive characteristics, these things will make you a suicide bomber in your relationship/dating life.</P><P><B>What are the real Characteristics of Husband?</B></P><P>If you want to know about the characteristics of husband in one line then it is all about being a "Centurion Man", not soldier. Unfortunately, most of the times, husbands change themselves into soldier and brutally get fail in their marriage. They get pretty sure that there is something wrong with their wives rather than unleashing their own selves. So, at some point, husbands think that it is important to have experts' advices for breaking the barriers of boredom.</P><P>Experts always tell you about pickup lines, body language and humor. Although, these things make you an attractive person for a very limited time but never make you a desirable person for entire life. There are some hidden secrets which even pickup artists do not know because they focus only on one night stand.</P><P>Here are few in-depth hidden characteristics of husband that will make your wife worship you like a god. These secrets are not only very essential for your long term marriage but also very helpful for your dating and social life.</P><P><B>BE A REBELLIOUS MAN.</B></P><P>A rebellious man always flies like a golden eagle. Quite frankly, women are so deathly afraid of loosing this kind of men. They know that average men are like crows and even thousands of crows can not fly high like an eagle. So, can a husband be a rebellious man in his relationship? Yes, OF COURSE.</P><P>A woman loves being a wife of a successful rebellious man. It is because she thinks that life only for the sake of sexual pleasure is wrong. It would be great for her if she deals with hugs, kisses, excitement, passion, goals, sex and unpredictability. Unfortunately, today millions of men lack these important things. The fact is, we only focus on one single thing and become an average crow instead of being a golden eagle. You will be surprised to know that a successful rebellious man projects all these things with authority. Although for other men he is a wild lion but for women, he is the best sexual deal that makes their toes curl with excitement and pleasure.</P><P><B>So, how to be a successful "REBELLIOUS MAN"?</B></P><P>Let me emphasize that you need to master many important characteristics of husbands in order to enjoy cleavage carnivals in your relationship. No, I am not going to tell you about pick up lines. The things I am going to teach you right now are all about being a sexual rebellious man with small things.</P><P><B>1. Rebellious Man Personality:</B></P><P>? Use the power of certainty in your speaking. Try to avoid fumble words as much as you can because fumbles like thinking something while talking or uncertainty make you stand in the category of amateur. In the very simplest term, adopt positive words with certainty in your conversation. Also, use sexual words in your conversations because sexual words make women think about you as a sexual person. For example,</P><P>"Do not trick me with your 'SEXY' smile."</P><P>"You can go to jail because of your 'NAUGHTY' acts."</P><P>In relationships, wives badly need their husbands to do this type of sexual conversation. Sexual words turn on women and bring out their playful naughty girl side.</P><P>? "Standing up for what you think is highly attractive for women." This is one of the greatest characteristics of a husband because most of the men obey the orders. They do not have courage to do a physical act against pressure. So, standing up for what you think should definitely be your nature. This act puts you on the leader position and makes women see you as a desirable rebellious man.</P><P><B>2. Rebellious Man Seduction:</B></P><P>? Timing is everything in seduction. Watching your wife/girl across the room is extremely seductive. Your eyes only can do the magic and you will notice the seductive shift in your woman's body language. Open your eyes 75 percent because it makes your seductive gaze sexy.</P><P>? Rub back of her skull softly, with your fingers, inside her hairs in order to stimulate her biggest sexual organ 'BRAIN'. Rubbing back of her skull while kissing is like sexual trance for her that turns her on instantly. Try this tip tonight and make her putty in your hands.</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5173027" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-5300892048420162222010-10-19T01:28:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:28:00.161-07:00 <P>Families are one of the most powerful forces in our lives. For a married person, a spouse and kids can be like the glue that holds it all together. At the same time, however, a married person's extended family - such as parents, siblings, grandparents, cousins, and others - can also factor in heavily to their life.</P><P>When one or both spouses in a marriage have particularly strong ties with their extended families - especially with their own parents - those ties can exert a strong influence on the marriage itself.</P><P>And, when the couple is going through marital troubles of some sort, the family's influence could potentially create enough instability that the marriage itself is threatened. But, ultimately, it is up to the couple themselves as to how much they allow their families to influence their lives or the course of their marriage.</P><P>If you are wondering, "Can families break up a marriage?", here are 5 insights that can help you understand your situation better:</P><P><STRONG>1. Families can have a powerful influence on each other:</STRONG></P><P>There is no question that a person's own parents and siblings - among other extended family members - can exert a powerful influence on the way the person thinks and acts. This influence can easily extend well into the person's life once they are married.</P><P><STRONG>2. Some people are more susceptible to their family's influence than others:</STRONG></P><P>Each individual is different, as is each married couple. For some couples, one spouse may be more susceptible to the influence of their family than is the other spouse. When things are not going well in a marriage, the easily-influenced spouse may be particularly vulnerable to what outside family members say about the marriage or the other spouse.</P><P><STRONG>3. In psychological terms, this is an issue of boundary problems:</STRONG></P><P>Psychologists call this situation an issue of boundary problems. Ideally, a married person knows how to establish strong enough boundaries in their lives that he or she receives little substantial influence from their families when it comes to making decisions about the marriage.</P><P>Still, some people have boundary issues and have a harder time putting up a barrier against that influence.</P><P><STRONG>4. You and your spouse need to make your boundaries with your families strong and clear:</STRONG></P><P>The bottom line is that it is up to you and your spouse to allow or not allow your families to exert inappropriate influence over your lives.</P><P><STRONG>5. To reduce your families' influence, work together to strengthen your relationship:</STRONG></P><P>A smart way to start regaining control over your marriage is to agree to present a united front vis-a-vis your families. This means, for example, that each spouse needs to avoid having secret conversations with their families about the marriage. Both spouses need to work on focusing on the issues at hand for themselves, bringing in outside help when needed.</P><P>Can families break up a marriage? Not if the spouses decide to resist the influence of their families and instead focus on fixing the marriage.</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5195069" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-19526985655208110312010-10-19T01:22:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:22:00.117-07:00 <P>"She's like a baby, I'm like a cat. When we are happy we both get fat."</EM> "Life in a Nutshell" by the Barenaked Ladies.</P><P>People talk about the "freshman spread," that unfortunate 10 to 15 pound average college students gain in the first year of their studies away from home. Less well known is the "newlywed spread" which affects couples in the first year of marital bliss.</P><P>If being happy means gaining weight, you certainly don't want to have some tragic event happen to make you lose it. But what can you do when you are obviously happy, enjoying cooking and eating with your new husband, and generally loving the new life you're creating together?</P><P>Temptation is hard to resist, and there are so many books and weight control programs out there. I'm not a weight expert. I can only give you some recommendations to keep that beautiful figure he fell in love with...of course he fell in love with your personality, girl! But he loves your figure too, so keep that in mind while you read this article!</P><P>If you did some fun, physical-type activities while you were dating, now that you are married, remember to keep it up. If you didn't, it's time to incorporate them into your new marriage routine.</P><P>The trick to keeping up the physical activity you enjoyed during your courtship is to schedule it. Find a time that works for both of you. A few ideas: dancing, hiking, river-rafting, tennis, you get the idea.</P><P>Sign up for some dance lessons that you can attend weekly, even if you already know the moves. This keeps you dancing and on a schedule. Otherwise, if you just say you'll go dancing, it may or may not happen. The same holds with sports. Join a co-ed team, a Meetup group, take tennis lessons, or train for a half-marathon.</P><P>During your first year of marital bliss, you are probably experiencing a sexual peak, and that burns plenty of calories. Of course, you're not thinking about calories while you're in the middle of passion, but you may want to rethink the melted chocolate and other stuff that may be fun (and messy) but may add to your waistline. I'm just saying...</P><P>You may want to do some active things with just the girls. Zumba is a lot of fun. There are many variations and styles of Zumba, so check out a few different classes before you check it off your list. Yoga and Pilates work also. The important thing is that when you exercise with your husband or with a group of women, you are more likely to enjoy it and to keep it up.</P><P>You will avoid the "newlywed spread" and feel in great shape at the same time. Have fun!</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5186977" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-71574119120181175912010-10-19T01:15:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:15:00.088-07:00 <P>If you find yourself saying "Could anyone please help me Save My Marriage Today?" then you are in luck: because one of the most reliable guides for this kind of issue is available today. You would no longer have to worry about the problems you have been having regarding you marriage, and you can even turn it into one that is truly filled with passion.</P><P>Most people say that the most common and definitely the worst thing that a couple would go through is that which involves the issues of infidelity. A lot of marriages are said to have been ruined by this, and as much as you try to avoid it from happening in your relationship, you would still find out that it is not that easy to avoid. In the Save My Marriage Today e-book, this topic is discussed thoroughly so you could be able to understand the issue better and have a clearer perspective on how to deal with it.</P><P>Some users of the reference guide have admitted that they have also gone through that issue themselves, and with the help of the guide, they were able to make it through. The e-book makes its users more aware of human relationships and the idea of marriage as a whole. This way, you will become well-informed so that you will know what to do when this happens in your relationship, and become as happily married as the others who have been helped by the guide.</P><P>Some people believe that once their partner commits adultery, he should no longer be given the chance to make it up to his partner. But then, experts say that before anything else, both sides should first establish the validity of the claims that such a mistake has been committed by the other, so that there would be no gray areas between the two.</P><P>There are counselors who would agree that the best way to get over and move on with their married lives is to continuously work for its improvement. Even by only one side of the couple doing most of the job in making things work out for both of them, it still is a significant factor that keeps most relationships going.</P><P>So if you think that you really need some help with your marital condition, then you would find Save My Marriage Today a truly helpful guide that would walk you through a happy marriage.</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5200539" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-82988920305106221972010-10-19T01:09:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:09:00.133-07:00 <P>In order to spark a flame in a marriage once again, you must start from the very beginning. You must pretend to go back and start dating the woman or man you once met many years ago. It does not matter if you have been married for 20 years or 20 weeks, the process is still the same. Take it back to the very beginning and find out what worked. We are going to go over three things you can do instantly to bring back the flame and spark in your marriage. <BR>? <BR>The first thing you're going to do is take a chore or task that you can do for your significant other each and every day. This has to be something they can do for themselves. For example, you may find making your husband's breakfast in the morning is something you would enjoy doing for him. If you are the husband, you may find it appealing to open the car door for your wife each and every time from now on while you two are out together. Decide what it is you are going to do and start doing it immediately. <BR>? <BR>The second thing you can start doing right away is to show affection to your spouse. The best way to show affection is to give them frequent hugs and tell them you love them. Give your undivided attention to your significant other while you hug them. Hugging someone is very beneficial for many reasons. Make sure you do not wait on the other party to give a big and warm welcoming of each time you see one another. Taking initiative into your own hands and do it without any expectation of anything in return. <BR>? <BR>The third thing you can do right away is to start playing games with each other. In a marriage, there has to be fun time involved. Taking things seriously all the time will only lead to more stress in your marriage. You and your wife may enjoy playing a game of Monopoly. The two of you may also enjoy an evening out for putt-putt. No matter where that is, find a way to share some fun and excitement with your spouse. The two of you may enjoy go kart racing at your local fun Park. You may enjoy watching your favorite comedy movie on Saturday evening with a Hershey bar, a bag of popcorn, and your favorite soda. Whatever it is, make plans to do it right away.</P>This article has been viewed 12 time(s). <BR>Article Submitted On: October 11, 2010 <BR></P> <IMG height=1 src="C:\Program Files (x86)\ABS\Auto Blog Samurai\data\Marriage Fitness Secrets\ezinearticlesrss\img.gif" width=1> <br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5186285" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-43654209862912445632010-10-19T01:03:00.000-07:002010-10-19T01:03:00.294-07:00 <P>Prenuptial agreements are becoming more common. Here we show what to take into account when drawing one up.</P><P>Preparing for marriage is a very happy time for any couple. They obviously are looking towards a long, joyful and fruitful life together, so the thought that anything might go wrong is the furthest from their minds. But with up to half of marriages in the UK ending in divorce nowadays, a sensible couple should give serious consideration about what should happen should their forthcoming marriage suffer that unfortunate fate. In short, they shouldn't go into marriage without first having made a prenuptial agreement.</P><P>While the rocketing number of divorces have made prenups more common, a lot of people are not exactly sure what they are or how they could have one drawn up. A prenuptial agreement is a contract made between the couple before they actually marry. In this they agree how any assets should be divided should they get divorced. The prenup may also stipulate how the assets will be split if one of the couple dies. This means that provision can be made for any children brought into the marriage by one of parties.</P><P>So why is it so important to decide how any assets might be split, should the marriage end in divorce? Splitting up property when divorcing is virtually always a contentious time. This is particularly so if one of the spouses takes the larger percentage of assets into the marriage,and faces losing them at a divorce hearing. By taking out a prenup, he/she could protect themselves from losing their personal assets as well as having to pay potentially crippling maintenance to their former spouse.</P><P>Both parties signing the prenuptial agreement should understand that current UK law does not require British courts to accept the agreement when making a ruling. But if a prenup has been drawn up, it might well be taken into account.</P><P>Because the status of prenuptial agreements in the UK is uncertain, if you are thinking about drawing one up then you should take cautious steps. Make sure it is signed no less than 21 days before the date of the wedding. Any later and it could be ruled that one of the couple had signed it under duress, thereby making it almost certain the agreement would be discounted at any divorce hearing. You should also make sure that you consult a specialist prenuptial solicitor when drawing up your agreement - this might make it more likely that the courts will take the agreement into account should you end up divorcing.</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5187241" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-83402602674026737162010-10-19T00:54:00.000-07:002010-10-19T00:54:00.187-07:00 <P>If you know what you are looking for you can catch the signs that he may be cheating on you. When a couple has been together for any length of time, each will develop a certain sense that they can tell when something different is going on. You may be seeing signs that your partner is doing something suspicious but you better be careful before you accuse them of cheating.</P><P>An indicator you may notice is how he says he is very busy at work and needs time to catch up. If you were to call his office phone he should answer if he is there. If there is no answer you have a right to ask him why he did not pick it up. Of course he will have an excuse so you should call more than once in case he was out of the room.</P><P>If you notice that your husband has been paying more attention to his looks, this could be a clue to watch out for. He may be trying to impress someone by improving his looks by losing weight of dressing nicer than he normally does. Under normal circumstances your husband may have had a discussion with you about trying to slim down for his health or wanting to try some new cloths.</P><P>If you see his phone habits change, such as longer times per call or he talks in lower voice than normal take note. Does he leave the room to answer calls on his cell phone? You can generally see something on the phone bill that may be out of the ordinary.</P><P>Be careful for what you may see as clues of him cheating on you. It is possible the clues you are picking up are really nothing, so be absolutely sure of it before you confront your husband. If you desire more information on how to handle a cheating husband check out Life After An Affair.</P><P>Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Sophia_Rynn </P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5213562" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3267868685038907422.post-71683920283339445612010-10-19T00:48:00.000-07:002010-10-19T00:48:00.156-07:00 <P>Recently I posted a link to a webinar that focused on how to deal with in-laws and I was very amused by the array of remarks that I received, both on Facebook and through email. Most of the responses that I received were either reflective of a defeatist attitude, or a nonchalant one, declaring that one does not need a webinar to be told how to live a practical life. My question is, "When can you actually tell that it is time to brush up on your relationship skills?"</P><P>As a relationship coach, I get my fair share of justifications from women, ranging from, "My situation is different," to "It is easier said than done." I disagree with both statements.</P><P>I have learnt that the first step towards improving your state of being is admitting that countless other individuals have not only gone through a similar situation, but also emerged triumphant. Singling yourself out usually ends all possibilities of learning from others' accounts and experiences. Of all the women that have walked on this earth until this very moment, do you actually believe that no one has felt what you are going through right now?</P><P>To the second statement that I want to refute, it is always easily done once you have said it is so, to yourself. Call marriage easy and it will be easy. Call it a chore and it will most certainly tire you out. It is fashionable to complain about marriage life, the in-laws, and generally how life changes after you tie the knot.</P><P>Everyone remembers the straight-A student in school, the one who swore she did not study enough for an exam, and then aced it. You can call her brainy, intelligent, lazy or lucky. The truth remains, she put in a lot more effort than she admits to you, and even herself. For her, studying for the exam was easy since she kept telling herself that it would be. Marriage has the same approach, tell yourself you can do it, remain committed to it, and you will believe it is easy and that attainable for all.</P><P>There is no wisdom in calling for a repair-man for a job that could be fixed through maintenance. Similarly, developing and discovering yourself as a woman will help you save your relationship in ways that are easy and within your control. Finding ways to dedicate more towards your marriage will eliminate the need for repair.</P><br /><p><a href="http://EzineArticles.com/5202958" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">View the original article here</a></p>Tim R Wallshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00158232658075945851noreply@blogger.com0