Are you wondering if she actually orgasms during intercourse?

This spring, Carla is teaching a new class for men-only.

You will learn:

How to talk to a woman and be heard
How the feminine approach to lovemaking is different from the male approach, and especially from the approach that you see in porn movies
How to get her into a very ecstatic place with minimal movement and lots of energy flow guided by breath and intention
How to pleasure her clitoris waking up all 8,000 nerve endings
How to approach the G spot and bring her to her highest bliss

Class sizes will be kept very small to make sure you have the most personal attention.

For more info, and upcoming dates, check out the workshop page »

Don’t be afraid to own the powerful female energy of your inner goddess!
This workshop will take women in the deep psyche of the men in their life.

You will learn:

* How you can “train” him to see you as special and desirable no matter how many years you’ve been together;
* How he will be happy to give you the connection and nurturing you want as a basis for your highest orgasm you ever had;
* Letting go of suppressed anger, fear or guilt that would impede the desired outcome of deep pleasurable, loving merging.
* If you are not with a man now, you will learn how to treat yourself how you would like your future man to treat you.

Classes will be intimate and small in size to make sure you get the most personal attention.

Read more about this 4-hour class »

Topics included handling the differences in women’s and men’s sexuality, when is a woman a nymphomaniac, how to use sexual energy to pump you up throughout the day, and Carla lead the audience in a quick, fun, and easy exercise to instantly raise your Kundalini energy.

Enjoy the video!

Have any comments on the video? We’d love to hear them! Just write them below, or email carla at carla@carlatara.com.

COURSE SCHEDULE:  Thurs – 6-9 p, Fri-Sun 9 am-6 pm

Many people today are incorporating more spirituality into their everyday lives. Some have found a calling as a healer, or just always seem to be the one other people come to when they need information or advice. These people tend to be informed on what’s going on in the world and have a fount of new and ancient theories on hand to help those around them. Is this you? Or who you’d like to be?

Spirituality can be used in a myriad of ways to assist in healing other and in gaining our own enlightenment. In addition to more traditional healing modalities, there is also a whole world of sexual/spiritual healing that is rarely discussed because of social stigmas and fears about sex.

But open-minded people realize that sex is as much a part of life as eating, breathing and growing. In this era where sex is over-exposed and under-valued, many individuals feel victimized, alone and permanently damaged. There’s never been a greater need for properly trained, empathetic sexual healers – tantric healers who help others remove their emotional, spiritual and mental blocks to freedom and their ability to reclaim their body as their own.

Obviously, beyond the ability you gain to help others in the world around you, when you follow the path to becoming a tantric healer you experience benefits in your personal life as well. You learn to heal your own wounds and continue your own journey to enlightenment. You gain the expertise to improve your own connection to your lover and your love life. And the work you do to help others moves you closer to your own transformation.

If you feel you have the interest to become a certified tantric healer, send an email to Carla@carlatara.com or click here for more information.

Marianne Williamson is a New York Times best-selling author, and she is brilliantly bringing this knowledge to you in 21 spiritual lessons that will inspire you  to surrender your excess weight forever.

She addresses the spiritual, emotional, and psychological elements involved in what Marianne refers to as “conscious weight loss.”

Whether you are a food addict or a compulsive eater, or if you have loved ones who are, you will treasure this book.  I think it would be a perfect Holiday gift  for someone you really care about.

A Course in Weight Loss: 21 Spiritual Lessons for Surrendering Your Weight Forever will take you to the root causes of your addiction to food and brings back the natural intelligence both of the mind and of the body.  A lesson at the time, you will be guided to integrate body, mind and spirit into the truth that as you let go of fear, love, the true essence of who you are, brings in sanity, healing, and real beauty.

Here’s the special offer I just found out about:

If you order today, you will receive FREE gifts from Hay House, including a video seminar on A Course in Miracles, meditations from the Meditations for a Miraculous Life CD, and audio downloads of the Age of Miracles audio book and Being in the Light CD set. You can also enter to win a 4-day Retreat with Marianne!

CLICK HERE to go to the website and order now!

This is just one of the pearls you will receive from Marianne:

“The spiritual theme of my book is this: the realization that while an addictive impulse can trump your better knowing and conscious will, the power of God will trump your addiction. While we often intellectually understand this principle, it can be difficult to actually apply to our lives. And that is why I wrote this book. It provides simple lessons in restoring your mind to its highest, most loving functioning. And in the presence of that love, all dysfunction disappears.”

It’s my book about my revolutionary breathing technique, The Ocean Breath. I talked about the Ocean Breath in my last video post, and now you can get step-by-step instructions on how to use this amazing technique in your own life.

The value of this book is clearly seen by awakened people like Joe Vitale, author of Zero Limits and many other enlightening books, Joe Sugarman, famous conscious copy writer, David Riklan, founder of Self-Growth.com and Mark Victor Hansen, a giant in the human potential movement.

But what’s more important, it works, whether you use it to stir up more energy, direct it to your lover or empowering someone. The Ocean Breath brings the soul-gazing ritual to a higher dimension of connection and the touching becomes a deeply conscious communion with your lover.

It definitely works to ground you into your heart before you make a difficult communication, or have to solve a difficult problem in your life.

It’s uplifting, heart-centered and very powerful!

Find out more!

I teach The Ocean Breath in my workshops, and to my one-on-one clients.

Now, you can get instant access to this amazing breathing technique – find out more about the Secrets of the Ocean Breath.

The  secret to creating physical and emotional connection and deepening love is very natural and very simple: pay attention to your lover.

In this post, I’m going to concentrate on the men. Not because men are worse at intimacy than women. (Some men are very gifted connectors, and some women are very distant.)  The reason I’m talking to you men today is because men are usually faster than women at reaching a point in their lovemaking where they are tempted to orgasm and/or ejaculate. If you are a woman who get sexually turned on faster than your man, then consider I am writing this to you too!

So, gentlemen, listen closely!

When you want to know whether your woman is aroused or not, follow her breath. Her breath is the most important sign you have to guide you.It will tell you where she is in her process of getting turned. You don’t have to be a mind reader! Her breath will tell you where she is.

She will hopefully be using the Ocean Breath, a fluid natural breath. When her breathing deepens, and she starts to make sounds of pleasure, you will know she’s is getting turned on with you. Until then, you need to match her breathing and feel where she is.

If she’s holding her breath –so that she is inhaling and exhaling at an irregular pace– that could mean she is in her thoughts, and they are taking her away from the sensations that your touch is stimulating. It might be too much for her in that moment, so you can slow down. Try to breathe in rhythm with her, but keeping your breath regular.

When her breath does not harmonize with your breath, then take a moment to invite her attention back to your presence by saying something nice to her. For example: “Honey, you are so sexy! When you look at me you transfer all that beautiful energy into me … When you look at me I get so… turned on.”

Or if your wife is older, perhaps in her menopausal or post menopausal years, she may be feeling low self-esteem as her body changes. In this case, you might say to her: “Your skin is so soft and glowing right now. I love you so much I would not exchange you even for 2 eighteen year olds!”

Loving and appreciative comments like this will definitely get her attention back. Then you can return to whatever you are doing to her body, whether you touch her, kiss her or perform oral loving on her. Also, while you are being the giver, keep consciously sending your love energy to her.  A touch without loving intention remains superficial, no matter how good it is. When you add your love to it, it can go directly into her heart.

As you know, it is when the woman feels loved that she can fully open up sexually. The key to her sexuality is her heart. You can also make loving commitments loudly. The 3 most important words in the dictionary of love are still: “I love you!”

Tell her, ” You are the most important person in my life… “ and she will respond with her heart and her body.

Intimacy in sex is not about reaching the point of no return and ejaculating. It’s about going beyond the point of no return, surfing the waves of pleasure together, and creating the most exquisite loving connection you can experience with another human being. Enjoy!

Photo by Kait Curran Palmer.

I’m Carla Tara, and I’ve spent 20 years helping people like you transform their sexual relationships into sources of great pleasure, boundless energy, and deep intimate connection.