Marriage and Relationship Tips

Male Bashing or Men Bragging? - Michael Webb

2012-12-31T22:02:00.000-08:00

How many faults do I have? Too many!

When Athena and her friends get together and the conversation turns to complaining about things their husbands do or male bashing in general, Athena refuses to participate. It's not that she doesn't have things to contribute, but because she respects me and values our relationship far too much than to air my faults and foibles in front of friends.

Few things are more devastating to a man than to have his wife criticize him in front of friends. We might pretend that we are tough and can handle the intrusion into our privacy, but sharing our defects in front of family and friends really does hurt.

When the "gripe session" gets going, Athena makes it a point to start sharing with her friends some of my good qualities. Usually, it steers the conversation into a positive direction and it helps her friends to also praise their husbands -- which in turn helps them to respect and appreciate them more.

Knowing that Athena refuses to belittle me in front of friends makes me love and respect her even more.

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Ever Consider Taking a Sensual Cooking Class for Two

2012-06-30T06:35:00.000-07:00

To keep your love ones, begin with food when everything else seems to fail.....

Good food is seduction and that all luscious sexual inferences and allusions litter the bed-sheets of gastronomy. Yes we all know that it’s purportedly via the stomach that we aim for his or her heart – and as we are winning her back, the more delectable region of her anatomy.

So we are talking provocative cuisine – or even better yet, cooking classes just for two. In case you hadn’t heard, cookbooks have become the new erotica. We all know sex sells, but combining sex and food. Ooh la la! This is where you come in.

You extend an invitation to your kitchen goddess keeping in mind the image of her naked, wearing an apron only, licking that spoon. The fact that the spoon is Freudian metaphor is just the tip of the iceberg, or should I say, the “icing on the cake”.

A little imagination, a trip to the costume hire store or even the store that sells aprons and chef hats, a downloaded menu that is simple, seductive and easy to follow, a well orchestrated trip to the grocer to ensure you have all the ingredients, the accompanying wine, a pre-laid table, seductive music and soft lighting and you are ready.

Upon her arrival at the door, you hand her the apron and chef’s hat and you ensure that the entire “gastronomic” experience is a subtle blend of seductive fun. Flirt with her the entire time, maintain eye contact, drop subtle innuendos particularly if using phallic type foods such as carrots, cucumbers, sausages, bananas…etc. A few “French” names, for example “poisson en croute avec” thrown in for effect can be far more seductive than the English equivalent of “stodgy fish pie” or ”mash and peas” for that matter. If her fingers are dribbled in batter, sauce or anything edible, take her fingers and lovingly lick them, sucking gently whilst gazing into her eyes. She should feel the effect of this from head to toe.

When passing her, stretching for utensils, putting aside the dirty dishes, make sure you are constantly in contact with her body, occasionally kiss her ear, her neck, nibble her ear lobe, gently caress her buttocks, so that you entire physical being is seducing her whilst the two of you are standing apart. If you persist with this lavish attention, you’ll find her inner oven ready for baking long before the starters have been served and she is more than willing to nibble on your “banana surprise”.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of "Getting Her Back... for Good" and has taught 1000s of men all over the world how to recover their lost love. He details his steps and valuable advice at Getting Her Back.

Don't Get Mad -- Get Rewarded!

2012-06-30T02:19:00.000-07:00

If Athena has a fault, I would have to say it is that she doesn't have a built-in clock. She sometimes loses track of time.

I, on the other hand, tend to be very aware of the time and am quite punctual. This trait of hers would be frustrating some times. So we came up with a solution. Whenever Athena is significantly late, I get a present. She rewards me for my patience with a wrapped candy, a silly sticker, homemade cookies, a shoulder massage or some other treat. Now, I don't get too antsy when she is running late, I look forward to my prize instead.

What sort of things does your spouse do that irritates you? Do they (or you) curse, smack your chewing gum, leave wet towels on the bed or leave up the toilet seat?

Instead of getting mad, get rewarded!! The offending party might have to put a quarter or a dollar into the "date night" jar for every offense. The punishment might be relinquishing the remote control for a night or doing one of your chores like loading the dishwasher or taking out the trash. Just come up with a penalty that makes the situation fun for the both of you.

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