Marriage, Social and Sports

PRINCE WILLIAM HAS A BABAY BOY

2013-07-24T14:25:00.003+03:00

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge emerged from a London hospital on Tuesday with their newborn baby boy, presenting the world with a first glimpse of the prince who is third in line to the British throne.

A smiling Kate, wearing a baby blue Jenny Packham polka dot dress, carried the future monarch outside St. Mary's Hospital in central London so that he could be photographed by the dozens of international press members waiting outside.

William and Kate, both 31, stood with their first child in front of the hospital's Lindo Wing, just as William's parents, Prince Charles and Princess Diana, did with him in 1982 and brother Prince Harry in 1984.

Kate, who said she felt "very emotional," passed the baby to her husband, who appeared relaxed and joked with reporters.

The future king met the current Queen this morning as the "thrilled" great grandmother dropped in at Kensington Palace.

Prince William and wife Kate Middleton took their baby son home from hospital yesterday after introducing him to the world.

But Prince William's first phone call after his as-yet-unnamed son's safe arrival at 4.24pm on Monday was to his gran.

And this morning the royal great-grandmother made the short journey from Buckingham Palace to meet the newest member of the royal family, arriving in the back seat of a dark green Bentley around 10.45am.

NDOA ZA WAKE WENGI KENYA NI MSUMARI

2013-07-17T06:58:00.001+03:00

Mswaada unaolenga kuoanisha sheria za ndoa nchini Kenya umewasilishwa bungeni.Baadhi ya mabadiliko yaliopendekezwa katika mswada huo ni pamoja na kuhalalisha ndoa za wake wengi mbali na kuziimarisha sheria zote saba za ndoa.

Mapendekezo mengine ambayo huenda yakazua hisia kali ni yale ya kugawa mali iliochumwa katika ndoa pamoja na adhabu ya wanaume ambao huvunja ahadi zao za kuwaoa akina dada.

Hatahivyo akina dada wana kibarua cha kuthibitisha mahakamani iwapo ahadi hiyo ilitolewa na kuvunjwa.

Licha ya kuwa ndoa za WAKE wengi hutekelezwa na jamii nyingi nchini kenya, bado hazijahalalishwa.lakini katika mswada huu mpya ,ndoa hizo zimependekezwa.Hatahivyo mwanamume ambaye angependa kuingia katika ndoa hizi ni sharti aweke wazi majina yote ya wake zake mbele ya msajili wa ndoa pamoja na rukhsa aliyopata kutoka kwa wake hao.

Vilevile wake hao pia watalazimika kutia sahihi makubaliano kwamba wako tayari kumruhusu mume wao kuongeza mke mwengine.Makubaliano hayo yatalazimika kumfikia msajili wa ndoa siku 21 kabla ya harusi hiyo.hatua hiyo inalenga kupunguza migogoro ya ndoa inayotokana na kifo cha mwanamume aliyeoa.

Hatahivyo mswada huo unashinikiza kwamba ni sharti mtu aingie katika ndoa hiyo kupitia dini ya kiislamu au sheria za ki-mila.Wale ambao wanataka kuoa au ambao wameoa kupitia sheria za ki-kristo,ki-hindu ama sheria za kawaida hawatakubaliwa kuongeza wake zaidi ya mmoja.

Mabadiliko mengine ni yale ya walio katika ndoa kugawanya mali waliochuma kwa usawa bila kujali ni nani aliyechangia pakubwa kupata mali hiyo.

licha ya mswada wa hapo awali kupendekeza kufutiliwa mbali kwa mahari ,mswada huu mpya uko wazi kuhusu hilo na kwamba mtu anaweza kulipa Mahari au la akizingatia desturi za jamii yake.Mswada huo pia unawalinda wahusika dhidi ya kulazimishwa kuoa.

Hii ina maana kwamba wapenzi walioachana wana uwezo wa kwenda mahakamani kutokana na ahadi za uwongo zilizotolewa na wapenzi wao.

Aidha wanaume au wanawake walio-ahidiwa kuolewa na ahadi hiyo kuvunjwa watahitaji kulipwa fidia.hatahivyo mwanamke atalazimika kudhihirisha mahakamani iwapo hatua hiyo ilimuathiri. Harakati za kuwasilisha mswada kama huo hapo awali zimegonga mwamba bungeni, huku wabunge wengi wa kiume wakisema kuwa unawapa wanawake uwezo mkubwa katika ndoa.

SAMAHANI SANA WAPENDWA

2013-04-20T12:41:00.001+03:00

Wapendwa wasomaji wangu. Samahani sana kuwa sikuweza kuchapisha makala kwenye mtandao huu kama ilivyo kawaida. Hali ya mambo haikuwa shwari sana. Hata hivyo tunaahidi kuwaletea tena makala moto moto. TUNAKUJA.

LOVE QUOTES

2013-04-20T12:40:00.002+03:00

Finding love

is like finding one answer

to all of your prayers.

You know you've found love

when you look in their eyes

and find yourself.

SPECIAL LOVE QUOTES

2013-04-20T12:40:00.001+03:00

If you have love, you don't need to have anything else. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have. With love "YATOSHA"

MWANAMKE KUCHA JAMANI!

2013-04-12T14:09:00.003+03:00

Jamani angalieni hizi kucha zilivyorembeshwa zikarembeka!

Huu ndiyo urembo. Siyo mwanamke kucha zinakuwa kama za mwanaume! Utapendwaje na kucha za kiume!

BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR BAD BEHAVIOUR: WAJIBIKA WA TABIA ZAKO MBAYA

2012-09-27T17:36:00.003+03:00

The success rate for making right a wrong in our lives - will soar, if you first will take responsibility for your own actions.
Stop looking to place blame on anyone else's actions - to justify a choice that you have made to act out!
Own your own decision to be dishonest and unfaithful in your relationship.
Recognize that you must tell your partner that you understand these principles in regards to the damage that you have inflicted upon your relationship.
Commit to yourself and to your partner - the deep desire that you have, to re-establish trust.
Understand, that you will not be trusted by your partner for sometime and rightfully so.
It is your responsibility to help re-establish trust in your relationship and this requires time and good communication. Do not resent her.
Be true from this day on and you will most likely accomplish bringing the love and trust back into your relationship that you both desire.
Tell your partner how much you love and appreciate them and their willingness to allow you back into their heart.
Forgive yourself for being dishonest with yourself and others, who once trusted you - knowing that they can trust again - if you never do it again!

MEN AND WOMEN ARE CHEATING: WOTE WAONGO

2012-09-27T14:40:00.001+03:00

Statistics are now telling us that the numbers are pretty close to being equal. Shocking, isn't it. We always assume that it is men that do the sneaking around, right?

Regardless. The one who cheats, must also be the one to fix things in the relationship. Ultimately, they are the one with the problem and they have personal work to do - if they desire things to get better in their relationship.

I don't know why men tend to blame the women in their lives, more so than the other way around. Perhaps, it is because women seem to feel more pressure in our society to live up to some kind of sex-kitten persona to maintain their relationships. This, is simply a lie!

I believe that this is the reason why, women may be much more susceptible to falling for these lies, which men seem to be really good at using.

I recently read an article, where the author was bragging about overcoming an early affair in his marriage. He went on to list all the things that his wife of over two decades now - had done to help him stay faithful. He gave his wife attribution, for basically keeping him honest all these long years, since "his" initial unfaithfulness. This, because of the many "things" that she was willing to do for him - to keep him from cheating!

Give me a break! All I could think of, was the fact that this poor woman probably needs counseling -- and desperately. What will happen "if" or more likely "when" this guy gets bored? How will this women then feel - after she has done "everything" possible to keep her man?

Ladies - these are the types of lies that you must never - ever, buy! If that man really believes that he is not cheating because his wife is willing to be "freaky" with him now - he is continuing to live a life of dishonesty with himself and his very loyal wife. Pathetic!

LOVE MAKING BEFORE MARRIAGE

2012-09-27T11:52:00.002+03:00

In recent days, young lovers are staying longer before they get engaged. Further, after engagement they make sure that the a woman is pregnant before the register a marriage. How to see "system?" Religious wise, it is not acceptable but in modern life it is almost accepted by the society. How do you see this in terms of morals?

Comment.

JEALOUS IN MARRIAGES

2012-04-24T15:01:00.000+03:00

Whether you are the jealous partner or whether your spouse is the jealous one, irrational jealousy can eventually destroy your marriage. Here are answers to frequent questions about jealousy and things you can do to overcome jealousy in your marriage.

What is Jealousy?

A. "Jealousy is a reaction to a perceived threat -- real or imagined -- to a valued relationship or to its quality. A nationwide survey of marriage counselors indicates that jealousy is a problem in one third of all couples coming for marital therapy."
Source: A.M. Pines, C.F. Bowes, "Romantic Jealousy: How to recognize where jealousy comes from and how to cope with it", Psychology Today, March 1992.

"A little jealousy is reassuring and may even be programmed into us. It’s very common. A lot of jealousy is scary, and has driven people to some very dangerous behavior. There’s no reason to believe that jealousy will improve with time or marriage ... Because jealousy goes right to the core of the self and its roots are deep, it is not something that can be banished by wishful thinking."
Source: Hara Estroff Marano, "Advice: A Jealous Fiance", Psychology Today, Feb. 2, 2004

Is Jealousy Natural?

A. "In relationships where feelings of jealousy are mild and occasional, it reminds the couple not to take each other for granted. It can encourage couples to appreciate each other and make a conscious effort to make sure the other person feels valued ... Jealousy heightens emotions, making love feel stronger and sex more passionate. In small, manageable doses, jealousy can be a positive force in a relationship. But when it's intense or irrational, the story is very different ... Occasional jealousy is natural and can keep a relationship alive, but when it becomes intense or irrational it can seriously damage a relationship."

What Do Jealous People Feel?

A. Jealous individuals experience a multitude of feelings including fear, anger, humiliation, sense of failure, feeling suspicious, threatened, rage, grief, worry, envy, sadness, doubt, pain, and self-pity.

"Jealousy keeps us under a sense of discouraging frustration and disappointment. It makes us gloomy. It is such a depressing feeling that we cannot tell about it to even our best friends nor can we contain it within ourselves. Consequently, it leaves us with an inconvenience of a peculiar misery and if allowed to grow unchecked beyond a limit, it works like a slow poison to our healthy nature."

KIFO NA MAZISHI YA KANUMBA

2012-04-11T07:26:00.000+03:00

KIFO CHA KANUMBA

Kanumba enzi za uhai wake.

Naanza na kutoa Pole kwa watanzania wote, hasa ndugu jamaa na marafiki wa karibu wa Kanumba The Great (R.I.P) kabla sijatoa mchango wangu kuhusu hili jambo zito na nyeti ambalo limetawala maongezi katika kipindi hiki cha Sikukuu ya Pasaka. Mengi yamesemwa na pia kuna mengi pia hayajasemwa, moja wapo likiwa "ujinai" wa Lulu katika kifo cha Kanumba.

Kanumba enzi za uhai wake.

Katika mukatadha wa sheria, tunaona kwamba Tanzania ni moja ya nchi zenye kuuweka uwajibikaji kijinai kuwa chini ya UMRI wa miaka 18 kwa kuweka miaka 10 kama umri ambapo mtu anaweza kushtakiwa kwa kosa la jinai. (Linganisha na Kenya miaka 8, Zimbabwe -7,Zambia 8,Africa Kusini 10) n.k. Ina maana kwamba mtu (mtoto) aliye chini ya umri huu hawezi kushtakiwa labda ithibitishwe kuwa alikua anajua kabisa anachokifanya. Lulu hafit kwenye kundi hili hata kama ana umri wa miaka 17 kama ambavyo Mh Halima Mdee ame tweet leo baada ya kumtembelea LuLU Oysterbay Polisi.

Tukiacha sheria na matakwa yake, kwa kuzingatia yale yanayosemwa kuhusu mkasa huu wa kifo cha Kanumba (R.I.P), inatupasa tuone kuwa kila hadithi ina pande mbili. Hadithi ya Kanumba ambaye kwa sasa hayupo kuelezea, na hadithi ya Lulu aliye mahabusu. Inasikitisha sana kwamba kifo kimetokea katika mazingira ya kutatanisha. Kifo hiki kimesikitisha watu wengi na kufanya udadisi wa kutaka kujua ukweli ulio objective iwe vigumu. Watu wamebakia kushusha lawama ZOTE kwa Lulu tu bila kutaka kujua haswa ilitokea nini hadi kifo hicho kikatokea.

Kama watanzania wengine napenda niseme kwamba , nahuzunika kama wengine kumpoteza Kanumba na pia kuona ndoto zake kama msanii zikizimwa ghafla. Aidha wapenzi wake wamekatishwa ile raha ya kuendelea kuburidika na filamu zake. Pamoja kuwa na huzuni kuu, pia najaribu kuangalia upande wa pili – Lulu! Huyu binti wa miaka 17/18 kijamii bado ni msichana mdogo japo kisheria hasamehewi kuwajibishwa kijinai. Lakini uwajibishwaji huo utakuja pale upelelezi utakapokamilika. Kufuatana na waliobahatika kumuona huyu binti, ana majeraha kuashiria kuwa alipigwa na kuumizwa na marehemu. Ingekuwa marehemu hakufa, basi nadhani kesi hii ingekuwa ya aina yake kama ingefika kunakohusika. Wote walijeruhiana. Lakini mazingira ya kujeruhi huko ni yepi?

Tumeambiwa na hata kusoma kwamba:

1. Lulu alienda kwa Kanumba usiku mkali mishale ya saa 6, kusudi watoke kwenda kucheza muziki kwa msanii Chaz baba – Mashujaa band ( Kanumba alishapiga simu kutaka andaliwe viti na sehemu maalum ya kukaa yeye na marafiki zake na pia akiomba hata wimbo maalum atakapofika)

2. Lulu alitoka nje kusikiliza simu – Kanumba akamfuata na kumrudisha ndani ili aeleze anaongea na nani.( Hapa tunaona kabisa Kanumba akianzisha shari yeye mwenyewe badala ya kuepuka shari)

3. Kanumba alimfungia Lulu ndani wakawa wanagombana. Aggressor hapa ni Kanumba na siyo Lulu.Kelele za ugomvi ziliashiria vurugu na kwa vile mlango ulifungwa na ufunguo, ilikuwa vigumu Lulu kukimbia tena au hata watu nje kuja kutoa msaada.

4. Lulu alitoka nje kwenda kumwita Seth na kumwambia Kanumba kaanguka.Lulu alikimbia akiwa na majeraha.Hii haionyeshi kuwa Lulu aliua vinginevyo angetoka kimya kimya akatokomea.

Sasa ndugu zanguni, kwanini Lulu anaonekana alifanya mauaji ya kukusudia? Ikiwa Kanumba alianguka katika purukushani na kuponda kichwa na kufa, Lulu kaua vipi? Kukamatwa na polisi na kushikiliwa ili kusaidia uchunguzi ni utaratibu wa kawaida sana. Nimewahi kushuhudia mtu kajiua, ndugu yake na mkewe waliomgundua kajining’iniza walikamatwa wakakaa ndani ili wasaidie uchunguzi Ilahali mtu kajiua mwenyewe. Ilisikitisha sana kwa maana wafiwa walitiwa misukosuko kwa kifo ambacho marehemu alijiletea kwa kujitundika. Walikaa masaa kadhaa kabla ya ndugu kwenda kuwatetea na kushinikiza waachiwe!

Kwenye hii kesi ya Lulu, bahati mbaya sana Lulu ana sifa mbaya kwenye jamii kiasi kwamba hakuna mtu anathubutu kumtetea na kumsaidia angalau aweze kujipanga kukabiliana na siku za kusubiri hatma baada ya upelelezi. Kibaya zaidi kuna statements za watu wazito ndani ya jamii, statements ambazo zenyewe tu zimeshapasisha kwamba Lulu ndio muuaji. Kibaya zaidi, unyeti wa hali inayozunguka msanii maarufu kipenzi cha wengi utaathiri hata mwenendo mzima wa upelelezi na kitakachojiri to the detriment of Lulu.

Nadhani kwa vile hii haijawa kesi ya kimahakama, na kwa vile jamii inazungumzia hiki kifo, hakuna ubaya tukawa na scenario zote.

Sijaandika haya kwa vile nataka kumsemea Lulu asiwajibike kama anahusika kijinai bali najaribu kupanua mjadala.

Nawasilisha.

MAELEZO YA LULU POLISI

Baada ya kugoma kutoa maelezo kwa takribani siku nzima ya jana, mwanadada Lulu hatimaye amezungumza na polisi na kuelezea kilichotokea baina yake na marehemu Steven Kanumba. Kamanda wa Polisi Mkoa wa Kinondoni, Charles Kenyela, alisema Kanumba alikufa kutokana na ugomvi uliotokea kati yake na rafiki yake wa kike Lulu. "Kanumba amefariki usiku wa kuamkia leo (jana) majira ya saa tisa usiku, kwa kile kilichoelezwa kuwa ni ugomvi kati yake na rafiki yake wa kike anayejulikana kwa jina la Elizabeth Michael 'Lulu' mwenye umri wa miaka 18. Alisema kabla ya ugomvi huo kutokea kati yao wakiwa chumbani, simu ya Lulu iliita na akaamua kutoka nje kupokea kitendo kilichomuudhi Kanumba.

Kamanda Kenyela alisema Kanumba aliamua kumfuata Lulu nje huku akifoka kwa sauti akitaka aelezwe kwanini alitoka nje kupokea simu huku akimtuhumu kuwa huenda alikuwa akizungumza na mwanaume mwingine. Aliongeza baada ya Lulu kuona Kanumba akimfuata aliamua kukimbia kutoka nje ya geti , lakini kabla hajafanikiwa kufungua geti,

Kanumba alimkamata na kumrudishwa ndani. Kamanda Kenyela, alisema Kanumba akiwa amemshikilia waliingia wote chumbani na kufunga mlango. Hata hivyo, alisema haijulikani nani aliyefunga mlango, ingawa maelezo ya Lulu anadi kuwa aliyefunga mlango ni Kanumba. Kamanda huyo alisema Lulu anaeleza kuwa baada ya Kanumba kufunga mlango, alimuona akilegea na kujigonga kisogo chake kwenye ukuta wa chumba hicho kabla ya kuanguka chini.

Alibainisha kuwa uchunguzi wa awali unaonyesha kuwa Kanumba alikuwa amekunywa Whisky (pombe kali) aina ya Jacky Daniel, hata hivyo, bado wanachunguza zaidi kujua kama kweli Kanumba alilegea tu na kuanguka, ama alipigwa na kitu kizito kichwani au alisukumwa kwa nguvu na kumfanya aangukie kisogo. “Uchunguzi ukikamilika tutampeleka mahakamani kwa tuhuma za mauaji,” aliongeza Kamanda Kenyela. Chanzo: http://mwananchi.co.tz/ ( Habari hii iliripotiwa jana. Imerudiwa hapa kwa manufaa ya walio na kiu ya kujua kilichotokea.)

MAZISHI YA KANUMBA

Jeneza la mwili wa Kanumba

Mwili wa Kanumba ukiwa unaagwa

Watu mbalimbali wakitaka kuhuhudia mazishi ya Kanumba.

Wananchi wengi walizimia kwenye mazishi ya Kanumba.

Kaburi la Kanumba.

Mambo mengi yamesemwa kuhusu Kanumba, Mengi yanaendelea kusemwa na mengi zaidi tunategemea kuyasikia kuhusu KIFO CHAKE, ZABABU ZA KIFO, NA HATIMA YA LULU MICHAEL. Safari ni ndefu sana tusubiri.

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2012-04-03T08:12:00.000+03:00

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2012-03-31T11:00:00.000+03:00

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TRUST IN MARRIAGES: UAMINIFU KATIKA NDOA

2012-03-30T19:06:00.000+03:00

Trust In A Marriage

The degree of trust that we have for one another is essential to the way we live. There are several variations and degrees of trust that are manifested in our surrounding, starting from the day we are born and lasting throughout our lifetimes.

Some people never learn to trust anyone, not even themselves, while there are those who trust others with all their heart and soul without giving it a second thought.

Patterns of trust begin during early childhood. A child learns to trust his mother, father, siblings, and others who may have a long or short term presence in their lives. This determines, in large part, who you trust and how much you trust others later on in life.

Love and trust are two decidedly different emotional bonds. You can love someone very much and not trust them at all. On the other hand, you may trust someone with your life, and not love them in any way whatsoever. You may start out loving someone dearly and then, over a period of time, for whatever reason, stop trusting them. The same can happen with trust. You can trust someone very much, but quit loving them.

In your marriage, where does this leave you? Once the trust is gone, it's hard to get back.

A person may spend there whole marriage deeply in love with their spouse, but with little or no trust. They spend their time worrying, thinking about where their spouse is, who their spouse is with, and what their spouse is doing. Not being able to trust a spouse is nothing less than emotional torture. It may scar a person psychologically for the rest of their life.

The reason why so many marriages end up in divorce is because of a lack of trust. Trust, along with love, is the bedrock of any marriage. Without trust, there is usually nothing outside of misery and foreboding for either one or both spouses.

If you don't trust your spouse, what are your options? There aren't very many!

You can live with things the way they are or you can separate or divorce, both of which are not good options if you want to stay in your marriage.
You can confront the lack of trust issue head on by talking to your spouse about your concerns and try to work out a solution between the two of you.
You can seek advice from a professional marriage counseling service or from a church based marriage counselor.

These options are there if you are already married, but if you are engaged, or thinking about getting married, your next best option is to take a long, hard look at the person you are going to marry. If there is a hint of mistrust, ask yourself why you feel the way you do. Before taking wedding vows, make sure that you are certain that love will conquer all other marital debits if you do go ahead with the marriage.

What people take into a marriage is crucial to the outcome. Both love and trust is needed if the marriage is to be successful. Without saying, you can learn to love and trust someone after marrying them, but if the love and trust doesn't manifest itself from the very beginning, in most cases, the time will come when insurmountable obstacles are going to present themselves and you may have a problem saving your marriage.

If you don't trust the person that you are going to marry, or if there is the slightest doubt about trustworthiness or honesty, you may do yourself a big favor by taking a moment to resolve your anxieties. You should try to repair any problems before starting on your journey because marriage is a very serious undertaking and it may cost you more to get out of it than what it costs you to get in.

DIVORCE QUOTES

2012-03-30T18:53:00.000+03:00

A divorce is like an amputation; you survive, but there’s less of you.

No matter how you slice it, divorce is expensive and time-consuming. The most important variable is how well you and your spouse are able to put aside your anger and grief and cooperate on the big issues of money and children. The better you are at working together to make decisions for your changing family structure, the better for your bank account and for your chances of emerging from the divorce with a decent relationship with your ex.

Asking the legal system to resolve divorce is like asking a boxing coach to be our marriage counselor.

When two people decide to get a divorce, it isn’t a sign that they “don’t understand” one another, but a sign that they have, at last, begun to.

Marriage problems are relationship problems, they are the result of how two people interact with each other. You may abandon a troubled marriage, but you will still bring the way you interact with others along with you.

MASS MARRIAGES

2012-03-30T18:37:00.000+03:00

Mass marriages in India have been used by communities to help parents with inadequate resources to manage the colossal expenses demanded by cultural norms incurred in hosting a wedding, especially since the bride’s parents are the ones who bear the costs of the ceremony. Added to this is the omnipresence of the social custom of dowry, paid by the bride’s parents pay for the alliance to the groom’s family.

Hence, social organizations have over the years engaged in this practice of community marriages where young couples solemnize their wedding at communal functions which not only reduce the cost of the wedding but often are also free.

The success of such events has meant that state governments and political groups have also joined the fray. As a consequence mass marriages in recent years have constantly courted controversy like instances of minor girls being married off at such functions.

The latest in a series of such controversies was generated at a mass wedding in the central Indian state of Madhya Pradesh where hundreds of would-be brides reportedly underwent virginity tests, tests they were informed of only when they reached the venue. Many were apparently bullied into the ‘medical examination’ as they were told that their refusal would mean that they would be denied their wedding gifts worth 6,500 rupees (approximately $132) and even the wedding ceremony. Under the state-run scheme marriages are solemnized free of cost, all arrangements are made by the district administration and every couple is also provided assistance in the form of household articles.

Each woman underwent an extensive physical examination before being given a special badge which allowed them to participate in the ceremony. Almost all of the prospective brides who were from poor, tribal families complained of the shame and humiliation they felt following the exercise.

watch video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-oxJ35RrcU

MASS KISSING: UTAPENDA!

2012-03-30T18:28:00.000+03:00

In an impressive display of interlocked facial sphincter muscles, Mexico City set a new record on Valentine's Day as nearly 40,000 people puckered up in the city center for the world's largest group kiss.

Just view and have funny.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DoK6wZXUh8

VALENTINE DAY 2012

2012-02-14T06:44:00.000+03:00

Siku ya wapendanao ni sikukuu ambayo huadhimishwa kila ifikapo tarehe 14 Februari ya kila mwaka (Valentine Day).

Historia yake imeanzia karne ya 3 huko Roma ambapo alikuwapo mtakatifu valentine au Valentinus. Kaisari wakati huo alikuwa Claudius II yeye aliona kuwa askari mkakamavu na bora zaidi ni yule asiyeoa wala kuwa na familia (kapera). Hivyo alipiga marufuku ndoa kwa askari. Mtakatifu Valentinus alipinga jambo hili hivyo kuendelea kufungisha ndoa kwa siri. Mfalme Claudius alipopata habari hizi aliamuru kukamatwa kwa Valentinus na kuuwawa.

Kuna hadithi ya kuwa akiwa gerezani mtakatifu Valentinus aliandika barua ambayo ilikuwa na salamu za kwanza za valentine kwa binti aliyekuja kumsalimia gerezani, mwisho wa barua alihitimisha kwa maneno haya (From your Valentine). Toka hapa valentine anakumbukwa kama mtetezi wawapendanao na siku hii kuadhimishwa kote duniani.

To the one who owns this heart of mine
Comes this lovely wish dear valentine
That you'll feel special all day through
Because I think the world of you!

It's Valentines Day,
The day about love.
The angels are singing,
Loud up above.

Will you be my angel,
Want to be mine?
I love you so much,
You're my Valentine!

You're the syrup on my pancakes
You're the sugar in my tea
You're the icing on my cupcakes
You're the sweets in life for me

You're the chocolate on my ice cream
You're the sweet grapes in my wine
You're everything I love in life
Will you be my Valentine?

WEEKEND HOT FOOTBALL NEWS AND VIDEO

2012-01-30T14:12:00.000+03:00

ASERNAL LAUNCH QUICK MISSLES

Robin van Persie scored twice from the penalty spot as Arsenal staged a remarkable comeback to knock Aston Villa out of the FA Cup.

Villa led 2-0 at the break through a Richard Dunne header and a finish from an acute angle by Darren Bent. But three goals in seven minutes turned the tie upside down, Van Persie making it 2-1 after Dunne fouled Aaron Ramsey. Theo Walcott levelled before Van Persie sealed victory with a second spotkick after Bent's foul on Laurent Koscielny.

view video; http://www.goalsarena.org/video/england-english-cups/29-01-2012-arsenal-aston-villa-fa-cup_en.html.

SUNDLAND 1-1 BORO

Fraizer Campbell made a goalscoring return after 18 months out injured to earn Sunderland an FA Cup fourth-round replay with Middlesbrough.

After coming on at half-time, Campbell scored on the break to cancel out Barry Robson's superb first-half strike. Sunderland's Craig Gardner saw an effort controversially ruled out for offside late in the first half.

VIEW VIDEO: http://www.goalsarena.org/video/england-english-cups/29-01-2012-sunderland-middlesbrough-fa-cup_en.html

LIBYA DEMOLISH SENEGAL

Libya exited the Africa Cup of Nations with a 2-1 consolation win over Senegal, who finished without a point. Ihab Albusaifi struck in each half for the Libyans, the second a wonderful volley and worthy match winner.Deme Ndiaye scored for Senegal but it was of little consolation as the Senegalese go home after three losses.

VIEW VIDEO: http://www.goalsarena.org/video/africa-cup-of-nations/29-01-2012-libya-senegal-can-group-a_en.html

ZAMBIA ARE THE WINNERS

Zambia booked their place in the quarter-finals of the Africa Cup of Nations by beating co-hosts Equatorial Guinea 1-0 to top Group A. Captain Chris Katongo fired home from the edge of the box after 67 minutes to settle a game of few chances. The win means they may avoid Ivory Coast in the quarter-finals, with the favourites set to win Group B.

VIEW VIDEO: http://www.goalsarena.org/video/africa-cup-of-nations/29-01-2012-equatorial-guinea-zambia-can-group-a_en.html

WHAT IS LOVE?

2012-01-14T18:11:00.000+03:00

love is defined as (in dictionaries)

a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

sexual passion or desire.

a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

(used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

Love is the readiness to sacrifice everything, the ability to surmount all obstacles, and the acceptance of one another as they are.
—Guest cristal

Love is a feeling that can be defined by the mind but cannot be described by the heart.
—Guest angellyka

"I sit by the window feeling cold and blue, knowing that I can't be with you. All I see is the starless sky and hopeless dreams to get on by. But even though we're worlds apart, you'll stay forever in my heart."♥
—Guest kagome higurashi

Love is a mobile phone. Without its charger, it cant live.
—Guest Anonymous

UTAFIT MPYA: SAUSAGE ZINALETA CANCER?

2012-01-14T17:49:00.000+03:00

Saturday, January 14th 2012 - 06:01 UTC

Link between eating processed meat and pancreatic cancer in Swedish research

A link between eating processed meat, such as bacon or sausages, and pancreatic cancer has been suggested by researchers in Sweden. They said eating an extra 50g of processed meat, approximately one sausage, every day would increase a person's risk by 19%.

Bacon and sausages in excess of 70 grams per day allegedly could increase the risk

But the chance of developing the rare cancer remains low. The World Cancer Research Fund suggested the link may be down to obesity.

Eating red and processed meat has already been linked to bowel cancer. As a result the UK government recommended in 2011 that people eat no more than 70g a day.

Prof Susanna Larsson, who conducted the study at the Karolinska Institute, told the BBC that links to other cancers were “quite controversial”.

She added: “It is known that eating meat increases the risk of colorectal cancer, it's not so much known about other cancers.”

The study, published in the British Journal of Cancer, analysed data from 11 trials and 6,643 patients with pancreatic cancer. It found that eating processed meat increased the risk of pancreatic cancer. The risk increased by 19% for every 50g someone added to their daily diet. Having an extra 100g would increase the risk by 38%.

Prof Larsson said: “Pancreatic cancer has poor survival rates. So as well as diagnosing it early, it's important to understand what can increase the risk of this disease.”

She recommended that people eat less red meat.

Cancer Research UK said the risk of developing pancreatic cancer in a lifetime was “comparatively small” - one in 77 for men and one in 79 for women.

Sara Hiom, the charity's information director, said: “The jury is still out as to whether meat is a definite risk factor for pancreatic cancer and more large studies are needed to confirm this, but this new analysis suggests processed meat may be playing a role.”

However, she pointed out that smoking was a much greater risk factor.

The World Cancer Research Fund has advised people to completely avoid processed meat.

Dr Rachel Thompson, the fund's deputy head of science, said: “We will be re-examining the factors behind pancreatic cancer later this year as part of our Continuous Update Project, which should tell us more about the relationship between cancer of the pancreas and processed meat.

”There is strong evidence that being overweight or obese increases the risk of pancreatic cancer and this study may be an early indication of another factor behind the disease.

“Regardless of this latest research, we have already established a strong link between eating red and processed meat and your chances of developing bowel cancer, which is why WCRF recommends limiting intake of red meat to 500g cooked weight a week and avoid processed meat altogether.” (BBC).-

HERI YA MWAKA MPYA: HAPPY NEW YEAR 2012

2011-12-30T08:30:00.000+03:00

NDUGU, NAWATAKIENI WOTE HERI
YA MWAKA MPYA

Najua mtafurahi

Mtajua mtasherehekea

Najua watoto pia watafurahi

Wote furahini

Furahini kwa kuingia mwaka mpya wa 2012.
Shengilieni wote.

SAMOA LOOSES FRIDAY 30TH OF DECEMBER 2011

2011-12-30T06:39:00.000+03:00

THE tiny South Pacific nation of Samoa will jump forward in time this week - all in the name of trade.

At the stroke of midnight on December 29, time in Samoa will leap forward to December 31 - New Year's Eve.

For Samoa's 186,000 citizens, Friday, December 30, 2011, will simply cease to exist.

The time jump back to the future comes 119 years after some US traders persuaded local Samoan authorities to align their islands' time with nearby US-controlled American Samoa and the US to assist trade with California.

But the time zone has proved problematic in recent years, putting Samoa nearly a full day behind neighbouring Australia and New Zealand, increasingly important trading partners with the island nation.

In a bid to remedy that, the Government passed a law in June that will move Samoa west of the international dateline, which separates one calendar day from the next and runs roughly north-to-south through the middle of the Pacific Ocean.

Under a government decree, all those scheduled to work on the non-existent Friday will be given full pay for the missed day of labour.

Initially strongly opposed by Samoa's opposition Tautua Samoa Party, the law to make the dateline switch won support after leader A'eau Peniamina told the nation's Parliament: "It's a change that benefits the people."

Prime Minister Tuila'epa Sailele Malielegaoi earlier said it would strengthen trade and economic links with Australia, New Zealand and Asia.

Being a day behind the region has meant that when it's dawn Sunday in Samoa, it's already dawn Monday in adjacent Tonga and nearly dawn Monday in nearby New Zealand, Australia and increasingly prominent east Asian trade partners such as China.

"In doing business with New Zealand and Australia, we're losing out on two working days a week," the PM said.

"While it's Friday here, it's Saturday in New Zealand and when we're at church on Sunday, they're already conducting business in Sydney and Brisbane.

"Today we do a lot more business with New Zealand and Australia, China and Pacific Rim countries such as Singapore."

It's the second big economic modernising move by the governing Human Rights Protection Party in recent years, following its switch to driving on the left side of the country's roads in 2009, another move to align it with the two regional powers.

Supporters said at the time the change made it easier for Samoans in Australia and New Zealand to send used cars home to their relatives. Opponents predicted major traffic problems, but they never happened.

So far, only Samoa's small Seventh Day Adventist Church has indicated a major problem for its congregation, which traditionally begins celebrations for the Sabbath on Friday night and continues through Saturday.

The Seventh Day Adventist parish in Samoa's Samatau village has decided it will continue to observe the Sabbath day on Saturdays despite changes forced on the church by the westward switch of the dateline.

The original shift to the east side of the line was conducted in 1892 when Samoa celebrated July 4 twice, giving a nod to Independence Day in the US

The date line drawn by mapmakers is not mandated by any international body. By tradition, it runs roughly through the 180-degree line of longitude, but it zigzags to accommodate the choices of Pacific nations.

STUBORN WIFE CREATES AN ANGRY HUSBAND: INAKERA

2011-12-08T14:27:00.001+03:00

In real life there are both stuborn husbands and stuborn wives. In our topic today we will concentrate on stuborn wives. It is true that a stuborn wife can make a very quite husband to change and become VERY ANGRY HUSBAND. This is why we are saying a stuborn wife can create an angly husband. This is true and the below example gives you the crue.

I am married to a man whom I sometimes refer to as "My Diva Man." He is a person who likes things a certain way. He can be quite demanding at times. However, he is also a wonderful husband who works very hard so that I can be home with our two beautiful daughters every day.

Unfortunately, this stubborn wife sometimes forgets that and stomps her foot and refuses to give in to him and what he needs.

Let me share an example that happened recently...

We just started doing the South Beach Diet together. So, I need to make his lunch more often than I used to...now it's every day.

The other day, I could not find a container large enough to hold what I made AND small enough to fit in his lunch box without having to be at an angle. Well, I didn't think twice, I just put it on an angle.

Hata ng'ombe ukimuuzi huwa anakasirik san.

The next day I did the same thing. This time, however, he looked in his lunch box and got annoyed. He told me that the dressing from the salad got all over the container lid last time. He asked me what he was supposed to do. I told him to scrape it off. BOOM! He got angry. He said I did not care about him and that he had to go work all night and so on. I got annoyed and basically told him he was a jerk. He went to work.

The next morning I got up to make him breakfast and some food for his second job. I made a tuna salad. What I did not do was drain the tuna as well as he would have liked it and again he noticed BEFORE he even left. He was angry and annoyed and again said that I did not care about him and that I just threw his lunch together with no thought.

I got VERY angry and told him he was self centered and unthankful for the fact that I woke up and was nice enough to make him something.

We went back and forth for a few and he left for work.

Now, of course, my Dear and Wonderful Daddy in Heaven convicted me that day while my husband was working. He made me realize that I was the one who was wrong. I needed to be a help to my husband NOT a stubborn wife. I needed to love and CARE about what I was doing for him, not just throw something together and have a "It's better than nothing" attitude.

So, I apologized to my husband when he got home from work. And, he apologized for not expressing himself nicer.

My STUBBORNNESS and "whatever" attitude was a hindrance to my husband. It made him angry and upset. Thankfully I got past myself fairly quickly.

Unfortunately, many times, us wives remain stubborn for a LONG time and it causes our men to stumble .

The Word tells us VERY clearly to adapt ourselves to our husbands. Not always an easy task for this fallen woman! LOL!

Helpful and Cooperative Wife = Happy and Fulfilled Husband.

Hata hivyo hujachelewa bado una nafasi ya kuifanya familia yako iwe na furaha siku zote kwa kujizuia na kutofanya mambo yote mabaya ambayo mwenzako yanamfanya achue. Anza sasa, anza leo, bado hujachelewa.

Na mnaweza kuishi maisha marefu sana katika ndoa na uhai pia. Happy marriage creates ages and ages

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com

HOW TO DEAL WITH STUBON HUSBAND

2011-12-07T08:06:00.000+03:00

Question: I do not know how to deal with my husband. He is extremely introverted and very stubborn. When he gets stuck with his ideas he forces me to follow them, and I am unable to get my way at all. What do I do?

Basically, when he gets stubborn, I feel powerless to even explain my viewpoint. I feel frustrated and give up.

Response: There are a number of approaches you can take. In the worst case analysis you can accept that the situation is extraordinarily difficult. Then, rather than thinking of yourself as 'winning' by maximizing your gains, perhaps the best thing is to satisfy yourself by aiming to minimize your losses.

It is possible to take a more positive approach, however. You should examine your interests, prioritizing the interests that are most important to you. For example, perhaps you are more concerned about decisions about dealing with children, money, or issues relating to your personal independence. The issues that are most important to you deserve the greatest effort. You might want to be prepared to trade 'losses' on other interests or issues for 'wins' on the more important ones.

You also need to take a look at your BATNA on the various things that concern you. BATNA is your Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement. For example, you need to ask yourself whether your husband is the most helpful decision-making partner on a given issue. Perhaps a friend or relative can offer you better help or resources for dealing with a particular problem.

Again, taking a pessimistic view, perhaps what you need to do is consider marginalizing your husband when it comes to certain issues. Simply go your own way, to the extent you are able, and don't include him in the decision-making process. The troublesome element of this is that in some countries, there is great inequality between men and women -- and this may mean that your freedom of decision and action is extremely limited. But even in that case, being able to discuss things with friends and relatives, creating a personal 'support group', may ease your burden.

If your husband is threatened by interaction with other people, would he feel relieved if you were to become the spokesperson for the two of you in certain kinds of activities? If he says, for example, "The telephone company is impossible to deal with." perhaps you can offer to be the person who deals with the telephone company.

You also have to ask yourself a very hard question: is the relationship so damaging to you that it is bad for you to continue it. If that is the case, you need to examine your alternatives. If it brings you stress or health problems, even undertaking a regular program of meditation or exercise could contribute to a more rewarding inner life for you. I am not recommending divorce, but rather taking a look at how you can create a situation where you take power over elements of life that really only involve you and in which your husband has little or no interest.

When you do deal with him, listen closely to what he says. If what he says is not clear, keep asking questions to find out what underlies his approach. If what he says is unacceptable to him, respond with what Americans call a 'poker face' -- keep silent, don't respond, threaten him with your silence so he will know that you are not happy. Don't simply wait for him to stop talking and then let loose with a barrage of arguments. When he finishes talking you can say, "I want to make sure I understood you properly. Did you say 'x, y. & z'?" Let him know you are listening, make it clear the rules of discussion involve reciprocity: "I listened to you, now it is your turn to pay attention to me."

Ask your husband about the short and long term consequences of his decisions. How will this approach work in six months, one year, ten year? What results will it bring. Again, pay close attention to the things he finds most significant and try to design your responses to show that you are listening closely and understand his interests.

It sounds as if your life is extremely stressful. Rather than trying to change your husband, your first priority must be to build up your personal psychological, relationship, and even material resources.

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