It is fascinating to study how certain women meet their millionaire or billionaire sugar daddies. In this series, we document the relationships women have had with famous millionaires, and this may shed some light on meeting a millionaire and marrying a sugar daddy.

Although Ivana was certainly a success in her own right as an Olympic athlete and Canadian model, she truly hit financial success when she met and married Donald Trump, son of a very wealthy real estate magnate Fred Trump.

How did Ivana chance upon meeting and eventually marrying Donald Trump? After her divorce from her first husband, Ivana happened to be in a swanky New York restaurant the same night Donald was. In fact, Donald Trump gave Ivana and her friend his table because all of the other reservations were completely full. It was from this chance meeting that Ivana became the famous and illustrious Mrs. Trump.

Unfortunately, in 1990, Ivana caught onto rumors regarding her husband’s affair with Marla Maples, leading her to petition for divorce in 1991. With the affair in her back pocket and contributions to the Trump business organization as negotiation tools, Ivana settled for $20 million from Donald Trump, in addition to a $14 million estate.

Though not a typical sugar daddy relationship (Ivana was actually a bit older than Donald), Ivana’s marriage into the Trump family brought her out of skiing obscurity into major financial fame. Interestingly, she is now playing the role of married sugar mommy to an Italian male model who is 23 years her junior.

Destiny usually only provides you with one opportunity, and if you stumble and mumble over your words, the fate of your sugar daddy relationship will pass you by. Practice your confidence and utilize surefire topics that charm a potential sugar daddy with your words:

· Use your sense of humor. Humor is the universal language, and you can win over a sugar daddy with your wit. Even if you are not naturally funny, a bit of practice goes a long way in making a potential sugar daddy laugh.

· Use open-ended questions. Nothing kills a conversation faster than “yes” or “no” questions, such as “are you having a nice time tonight?” Try instead, “what brought you to this charming evening function?”

· Do not talk money. Yes, sugar daddy and sugar baby relationships do contain a financial element, but this certainly should not be an initial topic. You should also stay away from questions that ask about his occupation. Rather, if you must know about his financial standing, ask him questions about his recent vacations or what other places he frequents around town.

· Ask about the week or weekend. Depending upon which day of the week you meet a potential sugar daddy, a great conversation opener is asking about how his week is going, or what plans he may have for the weekend. Not only is this neutral territory, but you can also garner a great deal of information from his responses, including the type of job he has. However, you avoid having to ask any financial questions!

· Current news. Sugar daddies appreciate a smart lady, and you can easily keep abreast of news in the international, financial, and business realms. Show off your savvy by speaking intelligently about a broad range of current news. For example, you can easily incorporate news about the stock market or Bernanke’s latest speech into any conversation with a sugar daddy; chances are, if he is a potential sugar daddy, he is in business, and he will appreciate your market savvy.

First impressions are the last impressions, and the initial conversation you spark up with a potential sugar daddy may make or break the future relationship. When you act smart and speak intelligently, you make a great first impression that leads to a first date, which can result in a myriad of great possibilities for you. Simply practice your conversation skills and humor, while staying abreast of the news, and you can spark up a memorable conversation with a sugar daddy anywhere!

We have all heard the stories of men posing to be sugar daddies, when they really have only debt to their name.  Not all sugar daddies are who they appear to be, and it is important to flush out the phonies from the real sugar daddies.  Here are a few ways to ensure that your potential sugar daddy is legitimate.   

• Actions speak louder than words:  It is easy for any man to talk big, but do his actions back it up?  If he only ever talks about all of his grand vacations in Italy, but he does not offer to take you there with him, chances are his only Italian experience is at the pizza parlor.  Yes, he may always talk about how he is friends with Governor Schwarzenegger, but why is he not invited to the fundraising dinners?  Make sure that all of his bold statements are backed up by actions. 

• Real estate really matters:  There are thousands of men who drive fancy Mercedes Benzes, yet they live in a studio apartment.  Do not let his shiny car lure you into thinking he’s a real sugar daddy.  Even the most expensive cars can be leased for a mere $1000 a month, but that is a long shot away from being a millionaire.  If the sugar daddy is not hitched, do your best to see his property.  Real estate is hard to fake, and that is a great indicator of his value as a sugar daddy.   

• Generosity speaks volumes: There are two types of sugar daddies…the ones that got it, and the ones that don’t.  The ones who have the ability to be a sugar daddy will lavish you with real gifts, such as fancy dinners, rent checks, Gucci shopping sprees, and chauffeured dates.  The wannabe sugar daddies pretend to have the cash to spend, yet they frown when you order vintage wine, and they meticulously inspect the dinner bill.  Steer clear of the penny pinchers, but instead find the real sugar daddies that have generosity to spend on you. 

When you analyze the fundamentals of the situation, it is easy to sort the phonies from the real sugar daddies.  Tangibles count, but words are worth nothing.  Do not get swayed by a charismatic tongue that does not have the wallet to back it up.  With these evaluations in mind, go out there and get your legit sugar daddy! 

Psychology research reveals that people are attracted to others who are like themselves. This is why cliques are so prevalent, with people who look, talk, and act the same mingling with each other. Sugar daddies, as humans, also fall into the same psychology trap. They are inherently attracted to those who are similar. Although the looks and age may be completely different, there still are signs you can send that psychologically trigger millionaire sugar daddies to like you. It’s all about what you wear.

• Oversized sunglasses. No well-done sugar baby is complete without a pair of luxurious, oversized sunglasses. Not only are these shades glamorous, but they also create a sense of mystery that sugar daddies cannot resist. Whether round, square, aviator, or embedded with gemstones, there is a style to match your face shape….and bring a sugar daddy right to your café table for a chat.

• Classy and sexy polo shirt. A classy polo shirt (with its collar flipped up, of course) that is casually unbuttoned down to the décolleté area is incredibly sexy and attractive to a sugar daddy. The key to attracting a sugar daddy is ensuring that you look sophisticatedly sexy; the trashy look dispels quality sugar daddies faster than salt to a wound. Sporting a classic polo shirt with feminine appeal puts you in their league.

• French manicure. If you want to snag a sugar daddy, ditch those fake, red acrylic nails. A French manicure is polished, classy, and a great frame for those new jewels he will be buying you!

• Wearing white. If you live in a warm year round climate like California, wearing white compliments your skin tone and helps you stand out from the crowd. If you live in a four seasons region, then the rule remains steadfast: white between Memorial and Labor Day.

• Diamonds and pearls. Yes, the timeless accessories of diamonds and pearls. Even if you are on a budget, you can splurge on a pair of pearl earrings that frame your face and bring class to any outfit. Diamonds, harder to purchase, can be faked with a great set of CZs. Skip the hoop earrings and costume jewelry, but instead stick to pieces that have a shot at looking real.

Dress with class, and you will attract a league of sugar daddies. Opt for trashy attire, and that is the caliber of wannabe sugar daddies you will attract. In the world of sugar daddy dating, you are what you wear.

When you hear a jealous broad chirping about a sugar daddy relationship, remember that this type of relationship is extremely mutually beneficial. Although the sugar daddy may be providing the financial support, what a beautiful intelligent woman contributes to the relationship is equally, if not more important as his money.

• Money cannot buy a man’s confidence…but a sugar baby can give him the confidence boost to his low self-esteem! Your LV purse may have cost your sugar daddy $1000, with your rent racking up another $2000, but the confidence that you give him…that is PRICELESS! When a man who has been plagued with low self-esteem his entire life finds an attentive, confident, beautiful woman, all his confidence troubles fly out the window.

• Your companionship fills the lonely void in his life. Most sugar daddies are simply looking for a companion to share great life experiences with, such as traveling and going to theater outings. Even with millions of dollars, sugar daddies know that traveling is much more fun with a great companion. Most sugar daddies, who tend to be very busy with their careers, have a lonely personal life, and a sugar baby fills that void with great companionship.

• Fun and excitement! As a dynamic sugar baby, you bring zest to a sugar daddy’s normally mundane life. You make him feel younger and more energetic, with a greater zest for life. They say that the fountain of youth comes from feeling young, and thus, you are bringing him the elixir to life!

Money cannot buy happiness, but in a sugar daddy relationship, he gains priceless confidence, companionship, and an elixir for life. Pat yourself on the back! Doesn’t it feel great to light up someone’s life?

Studying pays off…in a really big way when it comes to marrying a millionaire or snagging a sugar daddy. Out of the list of Forbes’ most eligible billionaire bachelors, the vast majority of them attended prestigious universities, which are fertile grounds for meeting the millionaire of your dreams. For example, Larry Page ($16.6 billion), co-founder of Google, along with Hong Kong media tycoon Richard Li ($1.3 billion), both attended Stanford University.

It makes sense – smart men know how to make money, which turns them into millionaires and sugar daddies. If you are young, you always have an opportunity to do well in community college and transfer into a prestigious university. If you already have your bachelor’s degree, consider obtaining your master’s degree at a great university, keeping your eye out for your millionaire sugar daddy.

In addition, statistics show that sugar daddies are much more inclined to support a college student sugar baby. I suppose the rationality behind this is that sugar daddies feel that “poor” college sugar babies have a more legitimate reason to need financial support than women with other occupations. Plus, it makes a sugar daddy feel great to support a “good” cause. So crack open your books and study your way to a sugar daddy millionaire!

Ready…set…volunteer! One of the best places to meet a millionaire sugar daddy is at high-profile charity events. Unlike meeting a sugar daddy at an exclusive restaurant or yacht club, meeting the sugar daddy of your dreams costs nothing when you volunteer at a charity event. Get into the exclusive charity events by volunteering; you do not need to “invest” in the event, but simply by donating your time, you can network with the sugar daddies and millionaires.

Meet your millionaire sugar daddy by volunteering at one of many charity events:

• Charity golf or tennis tournaments featuring celebrities
• Celebrity fundraisers for charities such as the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation
• Fundraisers sponsored by the local rotary club or chamber of commerce
• Charity galas
• Fundraisers for local museums and theater groups

Your opportunities for volunteering are endless, as non-profit organizations are constantly seeking manpower to assist with the production of their events. For example, you can volunteer to be a greeter, which will allow you to view the guest list and expose you to every potential sugar daddy coming through the door. Or, you can request to be the raffle organizer, allowing you to speak with each sugar daddy about his donation. There are many ways that volunteering at a charity event can help you meet the sugar daddy of your dreams!

As an additional perk, the millionaires that attend these functions will most likely have a humanitarian heart (or at least are very business savvy for tax benefits)!

Sugar daddies are easily found through specialized online dating sites – the difficult part is nabbing them and moving into a real relationship.  Now that you have read our October 31^st post on how to attract a sugar daddy with your online profile, the responses from potential sugar daddies are pouring into your inbox.  What’s a girl to do next?

You must remember that most sugar daddies are wealthy because they have devoted a large portion of their time to successful business endeavors.  They are not like traditional boyfriends, who have the time to pick you up after work or spend hours on the phone daily.  Rather, sugar daddies are busy men who will spoil you monetarily to make up for their lack of available time.    

With that said, you will need to quickly engage the attention of a potential sugar daddy. Though you can certainly expect chivalry and courting, you must act quickly to develop the relationship.  Instead of drawing out email correspondence, you should speak on the phone with the potential sugar daddy, and if all goes well, meet him for your first date in a public place.  Remember, there usually are many other beautiful, intelligent women out there who would love an opportunity to date a sugar daddy.  Act quickly and you can close the deal with your sugar daddy. 

Because sugar daddies are accustomed to busy schedules and fast-paced business relationships, you should expect that the development of your relationship with him will bear the same characteristics.  Do not be surprised if the sugar daddy asks you on the first or second date regarding your expectations of the relationship.  In fact, if you prepare yourself for the timeliness of sugar daddies, they will certainly appreciate your understanding and perspective.      

If you understand the psychology and behavioral patterns of sugar daddies, you will be prepared to move that online profile into a full-blown relationship within a week!     

Sugar daddies like well-rounded, beautiful, intelligent, and interesting women.  They are not attracted to dumb lookers who solely like to shop and talk.  A great way to snag and potentially marry a sugar daddy or millionaire is to learn how to play the sports of golf and tennis.

While it may appear like a cliché that golf and tennis are for the wealthy, the vast majority of individuals in the top 5% income brackets play and enjoy both games.  You can hone your sugar daddy game by increasing your skill in both sports.

Although golf does take practice, you can take lessons at your local municipal golf course inexpensively.  These lessons will surely pay off when you are able to keep up with a sugar daddy on the golf course.  Sugar daddies find it attractive when you can play the game with him – plus, you look so cute in your innocent, argyle golf outfit!

Tennis is another great sport that sparks the flames in a sugar daddy relationship.  Tennis lessons can also be garnered for low costs at your local recreation center.  As a great past time for the wealthy, you increase your classiness with a good tennis match with our sugar daddy.  In addition, with your short pleated white tennis skirt, your legs look dashingly long when you are leaping across the court. 

So get out your racket and clubs, pick out your cutest outfits, and you will have the eyes of sugar daddies across both greens!  Cheers!