QDRO

Mon, 28 Apr 2014 11:12:27 -0500

with a fidelity 401K QDRO does the receiver of the money need to have an IRA or 401K set up as well or do they just

receive the monies from the other party?

Keeping the house means keeping the ex

Wed, 30 Apr 2014 12:14:37 -0500

Hi,I need to decide whether to keep our marital home or not after the divorce. I can not get a loan on my own (i have tried so many times with different lender). An option is to keep my stbx on the mortgage for a few years until the kids are 18. Alittle background on the house. It has been in my family for 64 years. My mother grow up here. my stbx built a detached nice garage on the side yard. If "we" keep the house, he will stay in the mortgage note but not be responsible for mortgage payments, utilities or repairs. I do not want him to have a key or access the house whenever he wants. He will have access to the detached garage whenever he wants though. His friends randomly show up to borrow stuff in the garage so I never know when someone is dropping by or if he is dropping by randomly to check up on me. I have no privacy at all. I get nervous when I know he is done with work because he may show up without calling for one reason or another. My question is: can I legally change the locks and tell him not to drop in whenever he wants to even though he is on the mortgage? I am leaning towards selling the house. Even though it will be extremely difficult for me because of the history. Any advice would be appreciated.