Meet Chaz

How Homeschooling is Working for My Aspergers Son

2012-01-27T22:10:00.000-08:00

I cannot update on here as often since I spend a better part of my day homeschooling and taking care of six little ones. :) However, I got a comment asking how my homeschooling with my Aspergers son is going and I'd love to answer here.

It's going great! No more having to deal with impatient teachers, upset calls from my son, a stressed out and tired one at that, or having to worry about him being overloaded with too much work. Chaz already had long days at school and for him that is just so much stimulation and concentration for one day. Plus, homework was usually sent home. That's where I put my foot down and told them no homework for Chaz. It's way too much. However, this year we decided to homeschool and see how that would work instead. I know that I'm treating Chaz the way he deserves and I know his strengths and weakness. I understand when he needs breaks and I can work around his emotional struggles. When Chaz can't take any more work, I know when it's time to quit and just hit the books again in the morning. The fun part is I've enjoyed learning right along with my kids! I may not have everything perfect and down pat but that's why I use a ready made curriculum so I don't miss anything. If I don't understand it, well, we work on it together till I understand and I can teach him.

My husband teaching Kyle (my 3rd son) chess

At first we tried K12 and it was just too much work for my Aspergers son. It was pushing him past his limits every single day. It didn't help that they required so many online meetings on top of the work he already had to do. Eventually he would be in tears. Unfortunately, K12 is not as flexible as they claim to be. I think if I were homeschooling Chaz and him alone it might have been okay. However, I also homeschool 3 other ones. I needed to find something that would work for Chaz and for the rest of us. I purchases Switched on Schoolhouse for Chaz and Ryan, and Compass Learning for my younger two homeschoolers. They are ready to go curriculums and Chaz can finish his work in about 2 hours. That's a long cry from 5 hours with K12.

Anyway, that's just my own personal thoughts on it and how it's been working out. Chaz is doing very well and he's not overwhelmed by any means. Chaz has been doing fantastic in so many ways since I pulled him from a brick and mortar school.

When Your Aspergers Child Finds That Perfect Friend....

2011-12-22T10:34:00.000-08:00

Today I wrote on my family blog about Finding a Friend and Saying Goodbye.

Chaz and Dexter playing puppets at Children's Museum

Well, Chaz had found that perfect friend that he could actually relate to. They found each other at school and didn't know that they both had Aspergers Syndrome. His mom and I met and turns out we both share the struggle of ADD. We share so many similarities that it was comforting to share stories and just encourage each other. I found out that they are moving out of town. It seems to be a pattern in my life where I finally finding someone I can relate to, or Chaz finds a friend that really is a good friend and they move away. I know life happens but it breaks my heart to see my son sad like that. I can handle it because I can easily call Melanee up or chat on Facebook. Of course it's better to see each other in person though. It's just different for kids. Chaz was broken hearted after leaving his house for the last time yesterday and he cried. My heart broke with him. I promised him that we could set up Skype and they could chat live or we could drive out to where they are (an hour and a half away) sometimes.

It's hard for people to say goodbye to a friend but it's on a different level for Aspergers kids. It's already hard enough for them to find friends and even harder to find one they can completely relate to.

Is a Good Life Too Much To Ask For?

2011-12-08T10:24:00.001-08:00

Chaz (right) playing on my phone

When I first found out Chaz had Aspergers at 6 years old I thought, "Well, maybe somehow he'll pull out of it." That was my deep hearts desire. I still had some denial. Not for selfish reasons because I didn't want my little boy to grow up with any struggles. 5 years later I see that it's just as prevalent and it just changes as he ages. His struggles are different as he has learned to contain some behaviors. About 2 months ago I just broke down crying. I see his OCD, Aspergers, and ADHD really strong at times. I see how he talks in long run-on sentences and can't change the subject. I see how he can't fall asleep at night because he can't turn his active mind off. I see how he's sad he has no friends. Still. I don't know. It just breaks a mommy's heart. I'm glad his body is healthy. He can run, play, ride a bike, kick a ball, play an instrument, walk, skip. I guess I just want to know that someday he will fall in love and she will love him back. That she'll love him even though he doesn't always listen well. That he might be hard to peel from the computer. I hope she knows how much he loves her even though it seems like he loves other things more. I know he really will care. I hope he won't tell her how big her butt is if she's putting on some weight. I hope he'll understand he doesn't have to say everything he thinks in his mind. I want to be a grandma to his kids, a mother-in-law to his wife, a mom that still is always there. I just want to see him enjoy all aspects of life. Is that too much to ask for?

Homefront in the Future Part 1

2011-11-14T15:28:00.001-08:00

-This post is written by Chaz on his plans for a future game.

I want to make a new Homefront game when I grow up. This is my idea. I will make new guns and in the game a soldier finds a secret time machine. The general and his army have complaints about them losing the war, so when the soldier found the secret time machine the general decided to go in the future and beat the enemy in the future.

Busy Moms Schooling Aspergers Kids

2011-11-08T19:33:00.000-08:00

I am sorry that I have not updated much on this blog. I can't even begin to tell you how busy it's been around here. Well, let me try.....

First of all, I've had some major morning sickness with baby number 7 in my tummy. I am 12 weeks along and they think it's possibly a girl but we are not sure.

Secondly, since being so sick I have greatly gotten behind on my house chores and I feel like with my house out of order, so are my thoughts. :) You know how that is? A cluttered house comes with a cluttered mind?

Thirdly, we are smack dab in the middle of some serious homeschooling and that comes first above anything else. My children's education is important and we will spend whatever time is needed to learn and stay on top of it. This is our top priority.

Chaz on Halloween 2011

Homeschooling Chaz has it's good days and it's bad days. Some days he's crying and crying and it's a miracle when we finally do finish. Other days he is so focused we just fly right through it. On he bad days I literally have to peel him off the floor and calm him down for up to an hour before we can even start. His addiction to anything video (gaming or computer) takes first in his mind. All he talks about is games and it's hard to shift his focus. This is why we allow no games until all homeschool and chores are finished. For him, that's a great goal to have.

I have started him back on his one cup of coffee a day to help him and it does seem to calm him down. I need to remember to do this every day. Does anyone else homeschool their Aspergers child? Do you do your own or use a program?

Being a Mom to an Aspergers Kid

2011-09-14T23:37:00.000-07:00

I cried a lot today. Anytime I tried to talk about why I was sad it just sent me back into sobbing again. I hadn't cried this hard in a really long time.

I started K12 for three out of four of my kids schooling at home. Chaz doesn't do so well in a large classroom setting. Well, it was so great over the summer but when we started K12, Chaz regressed quickly. Today he was on the floor rolling around, screaming and crying. He is 11 years old but was acting more like a young child would. Maybe like a 5 year old. He cried till he passed out on the chair. I didn't have the heart to wake him up and force him to keep schooling when he was just at his limit. When I say limit I mean LIMIT. He had been doing so well but since using K12, he regressed and was getting violent again. Because it took so long to use that program, we were hardly having time to school my daughter Ivy in Kindergarten.

I was just sad because it broke my heart to see Chaz like this. To see him regressing and going backwards when he was doing so well. I was just hoping that as Chaz got older he would.... I don't know... maybe grow out of the Aspergers issues. Do you know what I mean? Like maybe it's been my imagination. Maybe we were wrong. But then we have days like this and it just lays me flat emotionally. I don't want to see my son struggle like this. I long to see him have friends, be able to talk normal with other kids, not have looks from people. Sigh. I just want to see my boy grow up and do normal things.

Sigh. I know I'm sighing a lot. I hope someone understands what I mean. I LOVE Chaz for who he is. I just want to know that he's gonna be okay when he's grown up and out of my house. I will never, ever push Chaz out of my house when he's 18. He's my son and I'll make sure he takes care of himself and will continue to be there for him as long as I can.

Fun Incentives for Schooling Kids with #Aspergers

2011-08-09T01:03:00.000-07:00

These last few days I've been talking with K12 and they do have a program for your special needs child. They will be assigned a teacher than specifically works with your child's IEP plan and will modify the work around what he can handle. That is VERY good news. What only his teachers know about him, is it's hard to keep him on task and he will try to give up before he even really begins. He tends to assume he can't do it as soon as he sees the first question on the assignment.

Today he was working on his Spanish lesson and he flew through it in no time flat. You know why? Because they made it fun and he got rewards as he worked. In the beginning you have an avatar that you get to create. As you complete your lessons you earn "money". This money can buy you items for your avatar. He so much wanted to make his avatar look cool that he did about 3 days worth of lessons and did them very well. OHHHH, if only they could do this with every lesson. Chaz LOVES having positive reinforcement like this. This was right down Chaz's alley. Really, this idea works fantastic for lots of kids. :D

HINT, HINT to K12

Trying to Find Cause of Pain

2011-08-05T13:16:00.001-07:00

Chaz is still having pain in his abdomen after his surgery so we are back again for an ultrasound. Its been hard for him because the pain is so random. Oddly, the doctor mentioned that his pain is pretty common for kids with Aspergers. He gets a lot of Aspergers kids in his office. He said he would give Chaz some medicine for him but the side effect is a possible stroke. Eek! I said no thank you. However, he is still unsure because of the type of pain. Have any of your children experienced this?

Hesitantly... K12 It Is

2011-08-04T15:04:00.000-07:00

I will need my fix of Diet Dr Pepper daily. Haha

Chaz is 11 and I'd love to share my letter written to him! Click HERE to visit our family blog.

Also, I have some news. Chaz will be schooling at home through K12! I didn't originally want to use that program because of how much work they put on kids but had no choice since the other program I use is too costly. HOWEVER, he would be assigned a special ed teacher that will modify things for him according to what he can handle. That is a HUGE blessing. I am schooling my other 3 kids at home also along with taking care of the two younger babies. So my hands will be incredibly full with six kids, caring for my household and schooling. I might not be able to post every day but I will always try to answer any questions. :D

I Will be Back!

2011-07-27T11:35:00.000-07:00

Hi! I had to take a break for a bit from my Aspergers blogging but when school starts next week I'll have a lot more time on my hands. Right now caring for 9 little ones! :D

Please Help My Son to Quit Screeching!

2011-07-07T03:00:00.000-07:00

Question:
Hi, I have a 3 1/2 year old son and hes recently been diagnosed by 2 different doctors. And we are now working on getting him some help. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me to help my son to quit his constant screaming/screeching.

Thoughts from a mom:

Hope today is going better for you. Autism isn't an easy fix problem. There are so many triggers, so many solutions. Some help with some, but not others. I have trained my autistic daughter to go to her room and cry it out. I try to work with her as much as possible, but sometimes I don't think they know what is setting them off. I think once they are in a "rage" it just needs to run it's course, as long as they aren't hurting themselves or someone else. Sometimes my daughter wants to be held tightly... other times I can't touch her at all. She will come out of her room and say, "I'm happy now!"

The best solution is trying to find out what causes most breakdowns and prevent it. Watch diet, Cod Liver Oil (vitacost has best price on Carlson which is good ... want 500mg of DHA a day) helps with moods, check stimuli.

Get yourself some support and try and get a break every now and then if possible. A great board for autism support http://www.autism-pdd.net/forum/default.…

Hang in there!!

From a Mother of 5, mom to one of PPDNOS and one autistic

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Can You See Signs of Autism in Newborns?

2011-07-02T08:37:00.000-07:00

I found this really, really interesting short clip and wanted to share with you. What do you think? I think it's worth a shot and early intervention is so important.

IF you can't see video go HERE.

The Difficulties in Diagnosing #Autism in Girls

2011-07-01T14:28:00.001-07:00

I have a friend that so desperately needs her daughter to be able to have therapy. However, to get the help she needs, her daughter needs an official diagnosis. I do know that it's harder to diagnose in the toddler stages because it's not as obvious. However, her daughter is now 5 and still is very limited in her speech. She also has the classic signs of Autism. My heart goes out to her because a diagnosis is needs to start getting the help you need. Especially through insurance. Seeing her get the run around year after year is frustrating to watch.

If anyone has any advice, I'm open to it and I will pass along to her.

In the meantime I happen to run into this article about the difficulties in Diagnosing Autism in Girls.

The symptoms of Asperger syndrome look slightly different in girls than in boys, according to a study published earlier this month in Research in Developmental Disabilities. This study and a spate of other recent ones suggest that with available diagnostic tests, higher-functioning girls with autism are being diagnosed either later than boys, or are altogether missed.

Go HERE to read full article!

My Journey in Learning about Aspergers

2011-06-30T09:07:00.000-07:00

Looking back.....

Often I forget the past and how far Chaz has come so I'll look back on old post that are in my family blog before I created this one. I tagged some posts "Aspergers Syndrome" so I could link it here. Forgive me if some of my writing is not accurate in information. I was very new to the term Aspergers and knew very little about it. I would love to share my journey with you.

Click HERE to read posts tagged with Aspergers Syndrome from Chaz's early days of being diagnosed.

When Aspergers Kids Long for Friendship

2011-06-29T10:59:00.000-07:00

Saying goodbye to his friends in the special needs classroom.
This was the last time he truly ever felt accepted by his peers.

Some days I think my son's High Functioning Aspergers is my imagination. That's thing about it. It's not always super obvious. There will be really great days where I think "Are people right? Have I just ruined my son's life by pinning this on him?" Then there will be really, really bad days where I'm shocked by his immaturity, screaming, tantrums, and his emotional breakdowns. He's 10 years old and my 9 year old son acts waaaaay older than him. Even my 7 year old acts older. Sometimes I wake up to him crying about a video game and pacing. I will have to take the controllers and put them up till he calms down. It usually takes about an hour.

I'm in the middle of reading Lonely Girl, Gracious God and it makes me tear up almost every single chapter. It's about a mother's journey of raising a daughter with Autism but not finding out exactly what was going on till years later. The feelings fear, doubt, disbelief, loneliness, sadness. Although what she has went through is 100 times harder than what I've experienced, I guess I've cried so much reading it because on some level I can understand. You JUST want the best for your kid. A normal life with good possibilities and stability. Is that too much to ask for?

In one chapter of the book she talks about her daughter's loneliness and wanting friends. That part made me cry because I know that's how Chaz feels at times. Thank God he has siblings to play with him and they are all around his age because I had them pretty close together. Recently Chaz told me that he doesn't want to be in a mainstream classroom anymore. He wants to be in a special needs classroom. "What??" was my reply. WHY? Chaz went on to tell me that he wants friends. He has NO friends at all. Every time he passes by the special needs classroom all the kids know him and shout out his name. Chaz LOVES it. That's what he longs for is just acceptance and friendship. I'm going to tell him yes even though I was so happy my son was in a mainstream classroom the last few years. I guess my heart breaks a little (a lot) because I know that it's one thing to be in special needs when you're in Kindergarten. It's another in 5th grade. Kids are more aware of the differences.

Chaz wants friendship so special needs classroom it'll be. Thankfully it's with the higher functioning so Chaz won't regress. He tends to copy behavior so it's important that he's with kids at his level.

The Problem with Video Game Obsession

2011-06-25T11:38:00.000-07:00

Since getting the Xbox 360 Kinect, Chaz has been really struggling again with his obsession. The good thing is that he has to share it with his other siblings. But when it's not his turn, he walks in circles till he plays again. H's back to being reduced to tears within seconds. He's having trouble sleeping again at night and wakesup with the light to get a chance to see his game again.

Sigh.

Watching that is hard for me. I encourage him constantly to play with his siblings but all he can talk about is his game when he is with them. Video games is his one obsession and to the point that he won't eat. I know it's summer time and his schedule is out of wack. Once school starts he'll have to be physically away from it.

Don't get me wrong, I don't keep the games on all day but he does have other siblings that want a turn if they can pry it from his tight hands. Or I'll make everyone get out of the house. Like walk the mall. But then when we're there I can see Chaz's hands wringing and the only thing he can talk about is games. Sometimes we have to tell him that we need a break from talking about games and so it's hard for him to make conversation.

Stuff like this makes me sad. It's SO hot here in the summer time so I can't tell them to all go play outside. We stay indoors when the heat gets unsafe. Gosh, when I was little I could ride my bike all over the neighborhood and even ride over to the community pool. These days I can't do that so my kids are stuck inside more often. I love having my kids home with me but something they get so incredibly bored and games help relieve the boredom.

Do video games affect your Aspergers or Adhd child in this way?

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Do Video Games Worsen Symptoms of Aspergers Syndrome?

2011-06-22T13:13:00.000-07:00

I know video games in general can be an obsession with kids. I was doing a little research on the subject. One site said there wasn't a link with Aspergers. Another site did mention something really interesting. This is what they said.

Unhealthy Addiction?
The more time a person spends playing video games, researchers found, the more likely they are to show three specific traits usually associated with Asperger's syndrome: neuroticism and a lack of extraversion and agreeableness. Read more....

How much is too much for any kid? Aspergers kids? I do notice Chaz is extremely emotional when he plays too much video games. It is hard in the summer here because it gets so incredibly hot that it's unsafe to play outside. That means we get stuck indoors quite a lot. My kids tend to drift towards the video game rooms more than anything else.

2 questions I have:

Do you think video games worsen the symptoms of Aspergers Syndrome?

Have you created any sort of schedule for you child on how often he/she plays? Do you let them just play whenever?

Starting Sensory Therapy Book Review

2011-06-17T08:30:00.000-07:00

Can order at Future Horizons.

Starting Sensory Therapy

By Bonnie Arnwine

Binding: Paperback
Pages: 132

$19.95

Over 140 fun activities for kids with sensory issues. This can be used for the home and for the classroom. The activities in this book exercise a child's seven sensory "muscles" -the visual, auditory, tactile, olfactory, oral, vestibular, and proprioceptive senses.

What a GREAT book with so many fun activities. What is neat about it is that kids are having fun WHILE exercising their senses.

The first chapter explains what Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD) is. We have five senses:

*Vision

*Hearing

*Touch

*Smell

*Taste

Two Senses we may not be familiar with are:

*Vestibular

*Proprioceptive

Example: What is a Sensory Modulation Disorder?

It causes a person's body to misinterpret the nature and intensity of sensory information he or she receives from the environment. One or more of a person's senses may be over- or underresponsive to sensory information. This can also cause a person to crave or seek our sensory stimulation.

The first chapter is dedicated to helping you understand the disorder and even includes a list of codes to take to your insurance to see what they cover for therapy! How simple is that? It also lets you know what some common sensory IEP services include. I can't tell you though. You'll have to get the book. :D

The rest of the book is dedicated to providing your own therapy right at home with simple and everyday items we have right here.

Exercises are: Tactile Activities, No-Cook Cooking, Fun Feely Stuff, Gross-Motor Activities, Movement Songs, Activities for Bilateral Motor Coordination, Visual Activities, Oral-Motor Activities, and more!

Temple Grandin: The Movie

2011-06-16T23:36:00.000-07:00

I finally got a chance to see the movie about Temple Grandin. All I can say is WOW!!! I'm impressed! Sure there are tough things with having Aspergers but this movie helped me see what a gift it can be! I truly loved the movie and if you get a chance, definitely see it. I'll include a trailer if you haven't heard anything about it.

I'm just so impressed with not only her mom but in the fact that Temple Grandin just kept opening new doors. Allowing herself to be uncomfortable to open another door, and another, and another. Instead of letting Aspergers keep her in the comforts of her home, she went out and gave a gift to the world.

Celebrating 32 Years

2011-06-14T18:47:00.000-07:00

... of still living and breathing. Still loving each and every day.

Even the ones that had tears.

The ones with the mop in my hands.

Even the days where my sweat drips doing loads of laundry

The ones in the counselors office

The days I scratch my head with no answers

Even the ones where no one calls

Even on birthdays forgotten

I love each and every day

because I'm still breathing

and that means I get to touch a flower

watch a butterfly flitter about

I still get to kiss my kids goodnight

and repeat each and every morning

I get to celebrate each step forward

whether or not it came after two steps back

I love each and every day

Because someday there will be no tomorrow

I'll take the tears, the sobs, the pain, the hard work

if it means I can have the laughter, pitter patter of little feet

and a kiss from my husband each day.

Thank you, Lord, for each and every day

of the 32 years you have given me

You gave me the gift of Life

and I'll take each and every day with a smile

How Can I Help My Aspergers Stepson?

2011-06-12T19:33:00.000-07:00

Question:
My stepson is 26 yrs old, he still lives at home with me and his dad.He is very odd, and I have been looking lots of things up and Ive come to conclusion he has aspergers. His father said at the age of 3, he became very withdrawn, he took him to drs and not one could diagnose him. His son did go to college, and did get a degree in programing computers. He has a good job. But socially and other ways he is like a child. He is very pleasant and seems to have a good sense of humor, smiling at jokes etc. I cant see him ever moving out on his own, although he makes and has plenty of money. He rarely talks except when asked a question, and is very unmotivated at home. His Dad just lets it all go, I think he has given up on him. What happens to people like him? What can I do help? Can we tell his son what he has? Please help-Cindy

My thoughts:

Oh Cindy, I love your question and I want to answer with a book. John Elder Robinson wrote a book about his experience. He grew up with Aspergers and to this day it affects him but he's learned how to work around it. It think it would really help. I read it for my own son to see what life will be like for him as he gets older and what I can do to help him. You can literally get this book for $2 if you just want to buy a used one.

I hope this helps. This book answers so many of your questions. Questions I asked too and it's great to hear from someone with Aspergers Syndrome. John did well but he also really tried to work on his communication skills. He even found a job he is very good at. He is married to a woman that truly understands him and has really been there for him.

Thank you for writing me and I hope this helps. He is so lucky to have you in his life. :)

Mom Confesses 'Why I Don't Like My Child' in Magazine

2011-06-09T10:25:00.000-07:00

Every now and then I run into an interesting article and want to share to get your thoughts on it. Experiences? I'm not trying to judge this lady. Is it possible she suffered Post Partum Depression?

It might be the most damning thing a mother can utter: "I've never liked my child."

But in a column in the current issue of Redbook magazine, a woman, writing under the assumed name of Jennifer Rabiner, says she was "basically repelled by my own child."

A mother of two girls, Rabiner, 41, continued to keep her identity hidden in an interview with "Today."

"I thought that she would be vivacious and smart and loving and make intense eye contact," she tells the show of her first daughter, called "Sophie" in the magazine. "That was just not what happened."

Rabiner tells "Today" Sophie was a difficult baby.

"She slept very poorly. She ate very poorly. She did not make eye contact," she tells the show. "She did not meet the milestones that all the books that I read indicated that she should be making at the various ages."

Not every baby develops at the same rate, but Rabiner tells "Today" she doesn't think her expectations were too high.

"I don't think it's too high an expectation to expect your child to meet your milestones -- her developmental milestones," she tells the show. "It's not too high an expectation to expect her to sleep, to expect her to eat, to expect her to interact." (Full article HERE)

I'm not sure what to think about this article. I mean, I understand the frustration. A kid not meeting milestones, not sleeping well, causing me a lot more work than I ever thought parenting required.

Chaz did not potty train till 4 years old, didn't look me in the eye, didn't sleep well and still doesn't, had tummy issues, major eczema, etc.

However, I loved him like crazy and he was still bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh. He's my boy. He's still hard work for me 10 years later but I never favored any of my other kids over him. Could it have been a pride issue? I know moms tend to compare their kids to others and love to boast milestones. That can be hard and I got moms harassing me about Chaz too. I've had to learn that each kid is different and some even wildly different. I guess I worry that some day that little girl will read this article about what her mom said. What will she think?

Summer Routine for Aspergers

2011-06-08T12:04:00.000-07:00

So far so good with Chaz in the summer time with a minimal routine. Compared to school our routine is simpler. We only have:

Lunch at noon
Chores at 1pm
Dinner at 6pm
Chores at 7pm
Bedtime 9pm

Chaz has a mommy like me who is not a schedule type person so for me, having any schedule is a huge deal. That's actually a huge improvement. It's mostly playtime in between all that for them. We do plan to visit water parks at least once a week so that'll help shake up any boredom kids can get.

Chores per kid are color coded

I know routines are very important to Aspergers kids and that of course depends on the kid. Chaz absolutely loved her teacher for her down to the minute routine. As much as I would love to be like that, I'd probably panic. However, I have established a minimal routine. The routine I showed you is for my kids, not for myself. I have my own cleaning schedule that goes in between all that. So, I shouldn't be so had on myself about it. Ha!

Heck, most people think homemakers are just watching TV and eating Bon Bons. Not me! I absolutely love hanging out with my kids, cooking, and having adventures together, homeschooling my daughter. Chaz has 5 siblings so it's not usually quiet around here. When the noise gets to be a bit much, Chaz just puts on his earmuffs and he's good. Chaz is pacing to get my computer so I'd better hand it over before he burns a line in the rug. :D

Before I leave, what kind of summer routine do you guys have? How does the summer and no school affect your Aspergers child?

All About Temple Grandin

2011-06-06T13:04:00.000-07:00

All about Temple Grandin and what she does

This is a neat video. I'm really curious about Temple Grandin because she's helped so many people understand Asperger Syndrome. I can't wait to see that movie that was made about her life.

Phoenix Autism/Asperger's Syndrome SuperConference

2011-06-02T14:16:00.000-07:00

POSTPONED: Till November 10th and 11th

Guess what? I will be traveling to attend the Phoenix Autism/Asperger's Syndrome SuperConference July 7-8, 2011. I'm super excited and I can't wait to share my experience with you. Better yet, if you live somewhat the proximity of the conference, feel free to register to attend! If not, find which city and dates are closest to your area.

Visit Future Horizons to find out more! Conference information is at the top of the website.

Speakers and topics will be:

"UNWRITTEN RULES OF SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS"

Sean Barron is a very interesting and intelligent young man who has faced the challenge of autism. He and his mother wrote an insightful book on their lives together. There’s a Boy in Herehas won many accolades for offering the unique perspectives of two people who look at the same world, but see and feel entirely different things.
Mr. Barron has progressed to the point that it is difficult to even realize that he once was truly impacted by autism /Asperger’s Syndrome. He is now a freelance writer, lives independently, and co-authored Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships with Dr. Temple Grandin. Sean is a graduate of Youngstown State University, and works as a reporter for the Youngstown Vindicator. He’s pursuing a second degree in journalism.

By attending, participants can:

How autism affects social awareness, social thinking and social understanding

The 10 unwritten rules of social relationships

The difference between situation-based and people-based social rules

Behavior and self-control strategies

Effective strategies his parents and educators taught him about social conventions such as honesty, manners, and dealing with making mistakes

The social challenges of friendships and relationships

"THE NEXT GENERATION OF SOCIAL STORIESTM"

Carol Gray wrote the first Social StoryTM in the fall of 1990, and by early 1991 introduced the first guidelines of this fascinating educational intervention. Since then, Social StoriesTMhave earned widespread international popularity and interest. Increasingly they are the focus of formal research. In their short history, Social StoriesTM have earned the respect of professionals and the affection of parents of those on the autism spectrum. This presentation looks at Social StoriesTM from a variety of perspectives. Using lecture, demonstration, and activities, participants will enjoy a first-hand exploration of Social StoriesTM and the ever-increasing research that supports their use.

By attending participants can:

How Social StoriesTM can improve behavioral and social skills

The history of the approach

The formal research and surprising discoveries that help us understand how Social StoriesTM work so well

Seven ideas to tailor Social StoriesTM to systematically address the core deficits in autism spectrum disorders

"THE OUT-OF-SYNC CHILD"

Carol Kranowitz offers sensory strategies and activities that are applauded not only in the United States but around the world; over 500,000 copies of her book, The Out-of-Sync Child, have been sold. Ms. Kranowitz holds an M.A. in Education and Human Development and until recently was a music and drama teacher. She has developed a purposeful curriculum that integrates sensory-motor activities into the school day.

By attending, participants can:

Identify and describe the six types of SPD and how they can affect the daily lives of children

Recognize co-existing problems (e.g., visual, auditory, eating, sleeping, and emotional difficulties)

Discuss several research studies by the world's top investigators

Demonstrate "In-Sync" activities, specifically designed to engage various sensory systems and thereby improve learning and regulate behavior

And more!

"NO MORE MELTDOWNS"

Having earned his MA and Ph.D. in clinical psychology from the University of Albany, Dr. Jed Baker is a behavioral consultant for several New Jersey school districts where, nearly two decades ago, he organized a group to help children with social communication problems. Dr. Baker’s dynamic and comprehensive presentation is extremely valuable to all family members and professionals working with individuals with autism spectrum disorders, attention deficit disorders, learning disabilities, mood and anxiety disorders, and other issues that impact social-emotional functioning. His work has been featured on ABC News and Nightline!
By attending, participants can:

Build an individual's social skills in crucial areas such as conversation, conflict resolution, emotion management, employment, dating, etc.

Develop an effective behavior plan

Manage and prevent meltdowns

Help create peer acceptance

Assess social skills of individuals or groups

And more!