Melina Bee

5 Things I Like: Essential Oil Brands

2013-06-14T07:31:00.000-07:00

#1 Snow Lotus

I was introduced to Snow Lotus by a highly respected acupuncturist and it is my absolute number one favorite brand. Snow Louts creates full-spectrum oils so they are as close to wearing the actual plant as possible. Their vetiver is especially aromatic and sedative.

Aura Caccia

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A relatively easy to find brand, Aura Caccia is reliable and high quality. This brand also sells larger bottles of widely-used oils like eucalyptus. I'm fond of their lavender harvest blend which combines different types of my favorite plant for an aromatherpeutic blast.

Desert Essence

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Desert Essence is my go-to brand for tea tree oil. They make a very handy roll-on as well as a lavender and tea tree blend.

Anoush

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Local to my hometown of Richmond, Va., Anoush makes a very sweet, mild lavender oil I like. The deco/psychedelic packaging is so charming. (Btw, "anoush" means "sweet" in a couple different languages, including Farsi and Armenian. Adorbs, no?!)

Uncle Harry's

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Native to the gorgeous Pacific Northwest, this brand makes very potent clove and grapefruit essential oils as well as a variety of natural care products.

Have you tried any of these brands? Are there other essential oil companies I left out?

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--m

The Zodiac Dresser: Gemini II

2013-06-12T20:11:00.002-07:00

It's time again for the Zodiac Dresser, my series of astrologically inspired outfits. Today's sign is Gemini, symbolized by twins.

90s dress: Luxor Vintage * Clyde's tote: gifted

Because gemini is fun, versatile, lively and youthful, I had a festival-type outfit in mind like I'd wear to Coachella (sadly couldn't get the background to match). Yellow is the color most associated with gemini so it the main color of this hippy party dress.

notice the twin giraffes on my tote?

Gemini is also known as a flighty and mercurial sign that struggles to make real commitments. After all, gemini is ruled by the planet Mercury. On a positive note, as an air sign, gemini is communicative, friendly and intellectual-- truly the life of the party.

70s shoes: thrifted * earrings by me

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I've been told that hoops are for party girls so these fun, youthful hoops seemed perfect for my gemini wild child.

I hope you've enjoyed my latest interpretation of a gemini outfit. Are any of you born under the sign of the twins?

--m

Outfit: 90s Botticelli-print Dress and Silver Spaceboots

2013-06-02T05:55:00.001-07:00

I got this dress from Rumours recently. I loved the print so much, I didn't even bother trying it on. I mean, fabric printed with a collage of Botticelli figures?! You make that dress work.

Luckily, it fit without any alterations.

got this backpack at the same time

I plan on styling this dress a few different ways but it's hard to top silver space boots. Though perhaps this outfit is too literally 90s?

--m

thrift scores and life lately

2013-05-24T10:27:00.000-07:00

Almost two weeks without blogging?! I'm not doing a very good job of reforming last year's bad habits, now am I? This past month has been not only busy, but also full of uncertainty and stress. Frankly, my creative endeavors and personal style have taken a backseat to staying afloat. I've also been avoiding thrift stores the past couple months in an attempt to have less stuff and more money. However, last weekend I went to Southwestern Virginia for a college graduation and splurged a little bit at the local Goodwills. Behold my bounty:

I found not one but TWO Jams World dresses from the 90s. Since it will be a long while before I take any tropical vacations, these dresses will have to substitute.

I'm hoping to get lots of wear out of this 90s dress featuring roses.

Normally I do not care for zebra print, but this skirt is the rare exception.

this zebra has kind of a shy expression, no?

I'm all about vintage flower power this spring/summer.

What thrifting trip would be complete with tchotchkes?

Though I'm not ready for it to get cold outside again, I am looking forwards to wearing this 70s corduroy jacket this fall.

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this pin was made in Western Germany and I think it's from the 40s or 50s.

this Lanz Originals vintage dress is too small on me so it will soon appear on Ebay. Email me if you're interested.

My biggest thriftscore is probably this silk nightgown from the late 20s or early 30s. It is in excellent condition and even appears handmade.

Well, that's all folks! Did any of these pieces strike a chord with you? Found any good thriftscores of your own recently?
--melina

Tea Tree Oil

2013-05-11T11:37:00.002-07:00

Tea tree oil is powerful remedy for a wide variety of skin ailments ranging from blemishes to bacterial and fungal infections. For the most part, tea tree oil is too strong used undiluted. Mix with lavender oil and water for a gentle solution.

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Although tea tree oil is about 100x stronger than carbolic acid, it is non-poisonous to humans when used topically (never ingest). Native to Australia, the tea tree has been used medicinally by native Aborigines for centuries. This plant is a member of the clove family and therefore similarly camphoric in smell.

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Tea tree oil protects against various infections due to its antiviral, antiseptic, antifungal and antibacterial properties. This oil is especially effective against types of ringworm (including athlete's foot) and candida. When used on such fungal infections, tea tree oil can be applied undiluted to the affected area a few times a day. To treat athlete's foot, add several teaspoons of tea tree oil to a daily foot bath of half white vinegar, half water. Dandruff is often caused by a fungus, so it can be ameliorated by adding tea tree oil to your shampoo and conditioner.

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Mixed with lavender, tea tree oil is very effective against zits, mosquito bites, boils, cold-sores and sunburn. Because of its antibacterial qualities, tea tree oil is deodorizing and can be used to prevent underarm and foot odor. To prevent bad breath and maintain healthy gums, add a couple drops of tea tree oil to a cup of water and gargle. (Do not swallow.)

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One of my favorite ways to use tea tree oil is to add it to coconut oil along with lavender oil. I use this concoction as a cuticle cream, body moisturizer and scalp treatment. Have you ever used tea tree oil? How did you like it?

--m

the Zodiac Dresser: Taurus II

2013-05-04T13:49:00.001-07:00

Welcome to another Taurus inspired outfit. Ruled by Venus, the planet named for the Roman godess of love and beauty, Taurus is truly a romantic sign. (Photos by Charles O'Donavan)

my favorite hashtag? #loveva

Symbolized by a bull, Taurus is loathe to change. This combination of sensuality and stubbornness brings to my mind a classic, 50s bombshell aesthetic.

1950s lace dress: thrifted

Mauve and pale blue are colors associated with Taurus.

I love the combination of these two necklaces.

Due to their colors and romantic associations, I felt amethyst and rose quartz were the perfect stones for Taurus-themed jewelry. As Taurus rules the neck, necklaces were an obvious choice.

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An earth sign, Taurus is pragmatic, resourceful and patient. However, this sign's materialistic and stubborn tendencies can result in a stingy, dogmatic attitude.

At Maymont, possibly the most romantic spot in Richmond

Overall, thought, this sign is a lover, not a fighter (unlike Aries which precedes it).

vintage bag: antique store * shoes: Pink

I hope you've enjoyed my take on Taurus this year. Is this your astrological sign? If so, what styles do you feel best exemplify Taurus?
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--m

5 things I like

2013-04-26T07:48:00.001-07:00

My Coffee Table

I keep meaning to post more shots of my interior.... This is how I style my coffee table (for now). I call the glass containers with stones "petrariums".

Daisies

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This might be a bit obvious since I've recently posted a daisy-themed Etsy treasury and outfit. But they're just so darn cheerful and springy!

70s Platforms

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I wish I could wear all of them, but instead I'll just drool over Etsy favorites and treasuries.

Blood Oranges

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Being an aries, I gravitate to the color red, these oranges being no exception. My favorite way to use these passionate fruits is in Sicilian blood orange salad.

Giotto's Starry Sky

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I love how Giotto paints stars against a deep blue sky, pictured here in the Scrovegni Chapel in Padua, Italy. I can only imagine how the original audience would have marveled at its celestial vibes.

links a la mode 4/25

2013-04-25T19:49:00.001-07:00

I'm so flattered to be included in this week's Links a la Mode by IFB.




Be Yourself
With summer fast approaching, we're all taking it easy when it comes to putting on a show. Summer is always more laid back, down to earth and relaxed... a perfect time to reflect on the madness that is everyday life. This week's roundup did a lot of reflecting, from the poses we put on for our blogs, the hamster wheel of personal style on the web, going modest when everyone else is baring it all, letting our hair be it's natural beautiful self, and even embracing your "eye bags." If you're wondering if fashion blogging is shallow or conscious or if Galliano deserves forgiveness this is the roundup for you this week! If you're just looking for some excellent DIYs for the weekend, we've even got a great floral crown, handstamped jewelry, and shirt dyeing project for you!

Links à la Mode: April 25th, 2013
    
 A LITTLE TOO MUCH:  What would Kate do? : The demise of personal style
    
An Old Story: 5 Ways To Wear: Red Jacquard Dress
    
Chelsea Tanisha: How to Declutter, Revamp, and Organize Your Closet
    
Couture crush: Under eye bags are cute ? 
    
DIY Dyonne: DIY Metal Stamped Jewelry Tips
    
DressCode: Exhibition: Ala?a. Azzedine Ala?a in the 21st Century 
    
Incognito: Fighting black people's hair misconceptions
    
Lolieshopping: Surviving High Heels
    
Melina Bee: Interview with Wendy Brandes, Jewelry Designer, blogger
    
Nothing to Wear: Don't Be A Poser: on being yourself when blogging
    
once upon a time there was a girl: Galliano on the Mend?
    
Real Girl Glam: 3 Steps to Gorgeous Legs
    
Sophisticated Lace: Headphones for the Classy Girl
    
Style Bizzare: The Shallow and the Conscious: a Fashion Blog Debate
    
Style Curated: Fashion & Foraging = Food for Thought
    
STYLENYLON: DIY Tutorial - How To Make a Wildflower Crown
    
Tailor Spy: Boring shirt...no more!
    
That Sassy Girl: Hitting the beach? Find the perfect Swimsuit
    
Under a Veil: Your ultimate guide for a Modest Summer by farfetch.com
    
Wild Beauty World:  The Future is Now: 3 Predictions for Your Skincare Routine

Interview with Wendy Brandes

2013-04-22T11:00:00.000-07:00

Whether she's writing about Anne Boleyn or feline camouflage, jewelry designer and blogger Wendy Brandes is a dynamic force of beauty and intellect. Her luxurious designs are irreverent yet historically inspired. Not only stylish, Wendy is also very funny and approachable; she always has a smile and a response for her readers. I'm honored to be able to feature an interview with her. (all images used with permission courtesy of Wendy's store and blog.)

You worked in journalism and online communications for 15 years before designing jewelry professionally. How does your first career impact your blog now?

My journalism experience -- especially my online journalism experience at the Wall Street Journal and People magazine -- inspired me to start the blog in the first place. By 2007, when I'd been in the jewelry business for two years, I was missing the written word. I was commenting so much on a bunch of fashion blogs that the bloggers were saying, "Why don't you start your own blog?" I thought, "I guess I should!"

You're well known for being responsive to your readership. How do you remain so attentive and why is this important to you?

I've always enjoyed the interaction. I appreciate it when people take the time to read what I've written and look at my jewelry. It doesn't matter if people are customers or not. I like to let them know they matter to me.

Your first jewelry design was your own wedding bands in 2001. Did you ever craft or design prior to that? Are you generally a craft person?

I'm not really a DIY person. My rare craft projects tend to turn out badly. When I was a kid, I did successfully make a polar-bear hook rug. It was supposed to look like a bear skin lying on the floor, with the four paws and the head, but in white yarn. It took me forever. I still dream about it every once in a while.

What is your design process like? Do you sketch?

I do rough sketches for complicated pieces like my recent Frog and Prince Maneater ring. I then hire a specialist to carve the figures out of hard wax (which is used in the lost-wax casting process of jewelry making). I talk through the details with that person. One of the advantages of doing my manufacturing in New York is getting to monitor every step of the production process that closely. I'm always dropping in on people to check on the work in progress.

What is your zodiac sign? What is your opinion of astrology?

I'm a Capricorn. I totally believe in astrology … when it's promising me good things. When I read my Chinese horoscope for this year, it said something terrible, so I was like, "This is a bunch of malarkey!"

Anne Boleyn inspired necklace

Your work has many influences from history and nature. What is your academic background like? How do you manage to have so many different inspirations yet still have maintain a cohesive brand? I got a B.A. in English from Columbia University. I was also the arts and entertainment editor of the university's undergraduate newspaper, the Columbia Daily Spectator (now I'm the chairman of the board of alumni trustees for the paper). So history and design weren't significant parts of my studies, just outside interests. What I see as the consistent thread between my past and my present is my interest in story-telling, whether that's expressed through literature, newspaper articles or jewelry. [If] you read my blog so you know there's a big story for every piece of jewelry I make. The story is what guides my design. I appreciate a beautiful ocean or sky as much as anyone but I don't look at either and think, "I will do a collection with blue gems!" For my signature Wendy Brandes line, I'm always researching the biographies of interesting women. For my WENDYB by Wendy Brandes diffusion line, I'm looking at what the today's big story in social media is.

How do you bring historical influences to your work without creating reproductions?

I often like the concept of antique jewelry more than the reality. Many antiques are too lightweight for me, for instance. I like to use a lot of metal. We also have better gem-cutting and setting techniques now. When I look at an antique, I'm thinking, "How can I express that concept in a way that reflects my taste?" My Hathor ring and earrings are good examples. They were inspired by ancient Egyptian swivel rings, but look totally different because I wouldn't actually want to wear anything that looked like the ancient rings.

You use many beautiful gemstones in your pieces. Do you believe in any of the new age spiritual associations with various stones?

Me? Nah. But I'm happy for wearers of my jewelry to interpret my designs for themselves. If you want to wear my amethyst Queen Min ring because you think it protects you from witchcraft, that's fine with me.

You love a red lip! Do you have any favorite lipsticks?

What I like is a long-wearing liquid lipstick that doesn't feather or transfer. None of this "lipstick on the collar" shit for me! I've been wearing MAC’s Pro Longwear Lipcolor in Lasting Lust for about six years now. Earlier this year, I got Chanel’s Rouge Double Intensité Ultra Wear Lip Color in Ruby Lite. It's a deeper red. I don't love the texture quite as much as the MAC but the color is beautiful and it stays on forever. I can fall asleep with either one of those on and wake up eight hours later with perfect lips!

How would you describe your personal style? How has it evolved over various points in your life? Boldly feminine. I think my crazy, bright-blue, cropped, ruffled motorcycle jacket by Junya Watanabe personifies my style.

How has blogging affected your business?

When I started blogging in 2007, a lot of experts in luxury goods and/or public relations told me that social media would ruin my business. They said I was being too accessible and that high-end goods needed to seem out of reach or they'd lose their cachet. I ignored that, fortunately, because after the economic crash in 2008 put the brakes on people's spending at the private sales I used to rely on, it was the blog that kept me in business. And, of course, all the luxury-goods companies have since decided that relating to their customers is a good thing.

In 2012 you won the Fashion Group International Rising Star award. Some of your other proudest accomplishments?

I'm most proud of my persistence. I've kept going with my jewelry business despite the death of my original business partner, the global economic crash and the tripling of gold prices. Not to mention near-constant rejection from stores and media. My mother always says, "If you knew you were going to be rejected this much, you might as well have been an actress." You know how actors can hear in the same day that they're too short and too tall, or too beautiful or not beautiful enough? I've had stores tell me that my pieces are really different yet too similar to what they already have. With mainstream media, I've pitched trend stories about my jewelry or business only to be told that those "aren't stories." Then, later, the same writers will do that identical story but featuring other designers. My customers and blog readers will see the story and email me and say, "OMG! You've been doing that kind of design since 2008." The support of my customers and readers is a big part of what bolsters my confidence and keeps me going forward. I've come to believe that the reactions of "real" people -- their genuine, happy, emotional response to designs -- are so much more meaningful than the jaded responses of fashion-industry people who are often terrified of making a mistake. It's not just my jewelry I'm talking about. I can't go anywhere in my Stacy Lomman faux-ostrich-feather jacket without people running up to me and asking me about it. But was that design ever picked up by a store? No. The stores and media eventually do catch up to what the real people know but it takes a while. My trademarked blog motto is "Never Is the Next New Thing™." All of the ideas that are originally rejected catch on. I'm determined to stick around long enough to have my moment in the sun!

Any favorite beauty tricks or secrets?

Speaking of the sun … stay out of it! That's easy for me to say, of course. I'm not an outdoorsy person. I'm not even really a daytime person. I might be part vampire because I'm really at my best after about 10 p.m. I wouldn't actually tell anyone to give up gardening or tennis or jogging or any other sunshine-y activity she loves just to protect her skin. But if you're going to be outside for a long time, you should be reapplying that sunscreen every hour. Once in the morning doesn't count!

I'm really impressed by Wendy's intellect, wit, style and generosity of spirit. I hope you've all enjoyed her answers as much as I did.

--m

Jet

2013-04-22T10:00:00.000-07:00

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A type of coal famous for its rich black hue, jet has been used to make jewelry and protective talismans since the bronze age. Ancient greek worshippers of the goddess Cybelle wore this stone as they believed to be sacred to her. Romans used jet to make bangles, beads and rings. In mediterranean cultures today, jet is used as an amulet against the evil eye.

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Wives of viking sailors wore jet believing it could protect their husbands. Jet continues to be considered a protective stone, particularly for travelers for whom the stone represents safe returns. During the middle ages, people drank powdered jet for medicinal purposes. This stone was especially popular in Victorian mourning jewelry because Queen Victoria wore it after the death of Prince Albert.

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In modern spirituality, jet is said to attract old souls and can serve as a doorway into psychic dimensions, particularly through dreamwork. Jet guards against negative energy, anxiety and nightmares.

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Jet is linked to the base chakra and can be used to cleanse it as well as stimulate kundalini energy. Capricorn is jet's associated zodiac sign while Saturn is its planet and earth its element.

I love jet's velvet luster and striking black color. Due to my fascination with the 19th century , I especially love jet Victorian mourning pieces.

--m

DIY No Maintenance Terrarium

2013-04-15T06:35:00.000-07:00

from my Etsy shop (sold)

One simple way to bring nature into your home is through darling terrariums. By using preserved moss, you can make a terrarium that requires absolutely no care yet still imparts an organic sensibility to your space. In addition to home decor, these terrariums make wonderful party favors, centerpieces and gifts. If you can put objects into a jar, then you can craft a beautiful, no fuss terrarium.

Terrarium DIY by melinabee on Polyvore

Ingredients:

*pretty glass jar with or without a lid

*sand

*pebbles (or beach glass or marbles)

*preserved moss (available in craft stores)

*decorations like pretty pods and/or figurines

Now All You Have to Do Is:

Layer the ingredients! Start with the sand, then the pebbles, then moss and lastly the decorations. You can skip the sand and/or pebbles. Because the moss is preserved (aka not alive) you do not need to worry about proportions. Is this seriously not the easiest DIY?

with echinacea pods

Do you like terrariums or plan to make one?
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white boots before labor day + a chicken

2013-04-14T08:06:00.005-07:00

Tis the season for cookouts. Here's what I wore to one yesterday:

dress and shirt: thrifted * 70s boots: Red Light, PDX

earrings and ring made by yours truly * Indian belt: Porta Portese, Rome

And then I tried to hold a chicken...

Which was fine until she started pecking at my ring.

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How is springtime treating everyone? Spring and summer are my absolute favorite seasons. Lately, I am really feeling re-inspired by clothes, blogging, life, etc. after having been in a bit of a slump for a while.

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--m

the marriage of my two blogs

2013-04-14T05:31:00.003-07:00

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Per one of my longtime readers' suggestion, I've decided to combine my new age blog (Amethyst Honey) with my longtime personal style blog (Melina Bee). I find this rather ironic since it took me a good while to start actually researching and writing material for Amethyst Honey only to now move on.

I've realized that my stylish side and my interest in new age spirituality are not two completely different parts of myself but both an extension of my curious, creative personality. I'd rather maintain and promote just one blog with many posts per week. So basically, I'm bringing more writing and more of my personal self to melinab.com which I hope only makes this a better blog overall.

All items imported from Amethyst Honey have been tagged with the label "new age" in case you missed out. I'm also considering changing the name of this blog (but not url) to Amethyst Honey. Your thoughts?

Sincerely,

Melina

Etsy Roundup

2013-04-13T11:38:00.001-07:00

Items I've listed on my Etsy shop, Amethyst Honey, in the past two weeks mix metal, stone and vintage components.

This vintage hula girl necklace is perfect for summer.

bohemian and chunky moss agate statement necklace

dyed green agate necklace

adorable vintage owl statement necklace

amethyst and chain

a personal favorite: minimalist pyrite cube and amethyst crystal necklace

Please take a moment to stop by my Etsy shop and tell me what you think. If you see something you must have, remember to use coupon code "blogreader" at checkout to save 10%. I'll have a booth set up at the RRFP flea market next Saturday in Oregon Hill if you want to shop in person. (I'll be donating a portion of profits to RRFP.)

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--m

5 Things I Like: Favorite Lipsticks Edition

2013-04-12T10:01:00.000-07:00

Dior: Red Muse, #444

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Red Muse #444 makes me feel like Sophia Loren + Bettie Page + Monica Bellucci. So lightweight and smooth, the texture is wonderful but it's the color that's truly glorious. A mixture of red and coral pink, this lipstick is the color of a perfectly ripe Pink Lady apple, which happens to be my favorite kind. Just saying the words "red muse number four four four" makes me feel so giddy, I've focused haiku on the phrase.

MAC: Russian Red

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Versatile and stunning, if you only buy one bright lipstick, this is it. Before she became a L'Oreal spokesperson, this was Gwen Stefani's go-to shade. I've seen Russian Red look flattering on women of all different skintones and ethnicities. The matte texture makes this lipstick photograph beautifully.

Hourglass: Fresco

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Really, the perfect name for this nude lipstick would be toasted almond. The creamy yet matte texture makes lips look fuller while the color creates a neutral, earthy mouth.

MAC: Deepest Wish

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Doesn't wearing dark, vampy lipstick make you feel sexy? This midnight berry lipstick has all the drama of black lipstick without the harshness. (Jetblack lips amplify skin imperfections on me, you?) I like to wear this with 90s summer dresses. I'd love to see this lipstick on a very fair platinum blonde with light eyes. Can you make this wish come true for me?

Nars: Carthage

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Sometimes I need hot pink lips to feel 100% myself, ya know? This formula is very matte which somehow subdues the color. The slender design makes this lipstick very easy to apply precisely. I like to pair Carthage with saccharin-sweet 50s styles.

What are your favorite lipsticks of all time? Keep an eye out for the haiku-themed version of this post coming by the end of the month.

--m

Minimalist Outfit with Amethyst Crystals

2013-04-10T10:16:00.001-07:00

Despite being a maximalist, lately I've been getting into minimalism because of its focus on geometry and my general desire to have a less cluttered life. But of course, I do love ornament, so I can't pare down but so much.

shirt: thrifted, Gap * pants: target * 70s boots: thrifted *bag: thrifted

Maybe I can start adopting a maximilist inspired approach to minimalism?

glasses: vintage Nina Ricci. Fancy, right?

Some of my recent jewelry pieces have been minimalist, including the ones I'm wearing here. I like how these kinds of pieces layer with chunkier, more bohemian pieces as well as how they look worn with vintage clothing.

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Amethyst crystals seem perfect for any occasion.

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Your feelings on minimalism?

--m

Lavender: Benefits and Uses

2013-04-09T05:51:00.000-07:00

Lavender is a multitasking powerhouse which is antibiotic, antiseptic, antidepressant, sedative and detoxifying. Its fragrant, beautifying and cleansing properties make lavender an extremely useful and healing plant.

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The word lavender stems from latin "lavo" meaning "to wash" because it was so widely used in antiquity for soaps and toiletries A member of the mint family, lavender is a flowering shrub native to the mediterranean and England.

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Lavender oil works wonderfully when used topically for a wide variety of skin issues including bug bites, burns, rashes, eczema fungal infections, acne and small cuts. The oil promotes healing of wounds and irritations by stimulating cells to regenerate while also inhibiting hormonal reactions that cause inflammation and pain.

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Interestingly, lavender essential oil can be both stimulating and soothing. When used sparingly, lavender oil tends to calm, but used in greater quantities, it perks you up. To help heal bronchitis, add lavender oil to vapor steam and inhale deeply. Another way to take advantage of lavender's wonderful fragrance is to mix it with water or alcohol to use as an eau-de-cologne and house spray.

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The scent of lavender is well-known for its effects on the nervous system. Victorians mixed camphor oil with lavender buds to create special swooning pillows used to revive fainting women. To encourage restful sleep, add a few drops of lavender oil to your pillow case or even add flower buds to the pillow stuffing itself.

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One of the best ways to take advantage of both the aromatherapeutic and topical benefits of lavender is through baths and lotions. Homemade bath salts using lavender oil and even lavender buds are soothing to the mind and the skin. To use lavender flowers without getting them in the tub, fill a muslin bag and tie it around a running faucet with a rubber band. You can add the essential oil to unscented lotions or oils (like coconut, jojoba or almond) to create fragrant and antiseptic moisturizers.

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Lavender oil can be used undiluted directly on the skin to help with bug bites, acne, rash, burns and mild infections. Applied to the temples, a couple drops of the oil can diminish headaches. Mixed with tea trea oil and water, it is an all-natural hand sanitizer. Added to witch hazel, lavender oil creates a wonderful, astringent toner for oily skin. Add lavender oil to liquid soaps to benefit from its traditional use as a cleanser.

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Lavender tea made by steeping the buds in boiling water helps ease both emotional stress and digestive issues. (Note: never ingest the essential oil, it is for topical use only.) Mixed with honey and milk, lavender tea is comforting and relaxing (though maybe a bit floral for some). However, my favorite use for lavender flowers is in fragrant sachets used liberally throughout my drawers and closets.

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I hope you have enjoyed my first essential oil/plant focused post. Lavender really is one of my five favorite things ever because of its multitude of uses and clean smell. Do you use lavender at home? Are you even lucky enough to be growing it in your yard?

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--m

Bibliography:

Balch, Phyllis A.. Prescription for Herbal Healing. New York: Avery, 2002.

Guyton, Anita. The Book of Natural Beauty. London: Stanley Paul & Co. Ltd., 1981.

Worwood, Valerie Ann. The Complete Book of Essential Oils and Aromatherapy. San Rafael, CA: New World Library, 1991.

Psychedelic Frog Skirt

2013-04-05T13:47:00.000-07:00

Hypnotoad commands you to appreciate this outfit:

shirt: target * 60s skirt: thrifted *necklace: gift

What is it with amazing polyester prints forcing themselves into my life lately? This skirt could be made from poison ivy and I'd still wear it.

PSYCHEDELIC FROGS!!! WHAT??!!!

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There are shorts built in, but they sorta annoy me.

vintage ring: thrifted

If you find these frogs mind-warping, prepare to be blown away by these very nsfw frog tattoos by Dave Lum (seriously, don't click if easily offended).

70s boots by Dexter: thrifted

While I feel I do live in exactly the right era (so far), I do wish I could travel back in time to the 60s and 70s just for the shopping. You?

nails: Sally Hansen salon effects

April is proving to be a busy, productive and positive month already. Maybe because we're in Aries? How is the start of spring treating you? Happy Weekend!

--m

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Rose Quartz

2013-04-03T10:30:00.000-07:00

Rose quartz has long been associated with romantic love and reconciliation.

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The ancient greeks believed it was turned pink by the blood of the godess Aphrodite and her lover Adonis. Gifts made of rose quartz were popular amongst courting roman youths.

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In modern new age spirituality, rose quartz heals the heart and heart chakra. It is used to bring love and peace while also strengthening one's empathy and self-acceptance. Rose quartz reduces tension and grief while enhancing sobriety, especially when used with amethyst.

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Rose quartz is also said to promote one's receptivity to beauty and this rings most true for me. My personal reaction to stones stems from my sensitivity to color. The semi-translucent, gentle pink is somewhat of a "palette cleanser" for my eyes. In my jewelry, I often like to pair rose quartz with iridescent glass.

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Style Star: Rihanna

2013-04-02T10:00:00.000-07:00

I just love Ri-Ri. She's gorgeous, talented and stylish. I admire her bold, fearless approach to fashion.

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Sometimes Rihanna has a sultry 50s bad-girl vibe going.

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Other time she is more contemporary.

Awesome nail art and rings. (via)

That tattoo is epic and her lipstick rocks. (via)

Sporty and silver, I'd wear this dress nonstop. (via)

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Some people complained about her Jessica Rabbit red hair but I thought it was smoking hot. I love how many different hairstyles and colors Rihanna pulls off.

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Rihanna embraces bold colors and patterns.

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Everything about this outfit is perfect to me. (via)

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What's your opinion of Rihanna's style?
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Lapis Lazuli

2013-03-30T22:43:00.000-07:00

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Deep blue often mixed with golden specks, lapis lazuli has a natural association with the sky. The word stems from "lazaward", Arabic for "heaven" or "sky".

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Lapis was widely used by ancient egyptians who used it it for scarabs, Tutankhamun's mask and even powdered as eyeshadow. They believed lapis helped the soul gain immortality and would bury lapis amulets with the dead.

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Lapis has also been used to make buddha statues in the far east as it is believed to bring peace of mind and dispel evil thoughts. Lapis is also associated with the third eye chakra.

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In modern new age spirituality, lapis is said to bring contentment and meaningful, maybe even prophetic, dreams. Lapis is a protective stone which enhances creativity and inner peace. Astrologically, lapis is associated with the sign libra, the element air and planet Jupiter.

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Personally, I love to pair lapis with gold because it reminds me of Giotto's starry sky from the Arena Chapel.

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Bibliography:
Borowitz, Ronald Luis. Rock and Gem. New York: DK Publishing, Inc., 2005.

Eason, Cassandra. The Illustrated Directory of Healing Crystals: A Comprehensive Guide to 150 Crystals and Gemstones. London: Collins and Brown, 2003.

Hall, Judy. Crystal User's Handbook: An Illustrated Guidebook. New York: Sterling Publishing Co. Inc., 2002.

Hall, Judy. The Encyclopedia of Crystals. Beverley, MA: Fair Winds Press, 2006.

Shop Update

2013-03-30T10:00:00.000-07:00

Happy to say that I've been quite disciplined about posting a new piece of jewelry every day to my Etsy shop, Amethyst Honey.

Amethyst paired with the world's smallest pocket knives

The overlapping stones in this necklace remind me of a handshake.

This girly necklace combines rose quartz, iridescent glas and sliced agate.

Made from jasper, tiger's eye and evil eye glass beads, I love how this piece drapes.

This leopard jasper and turquoise necklace was inspired by my time in the southwest.

I hope everyone is having a great weekend and a nice Easter if you celebrate. Hop on over to my shop and use coupon code "blogreader" for 10% off.

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Zodiac Dresser: Aries Again

2013-03-29T10:55:00.000-07:00

My astrologically-themed series The Zodiac Dresser is back after a year's hiatus. This time around, I'll have less info (don't like repeating myself) and more jewelry. Today's post celebrates my own sign Aries. It was inspired by my birthday twin, Asa.

kaftan: thrifted, I couldn't style it how I wanted due to the weather

Given Aries's passionate, fiery nature, being associated with the color red makes perfect sense. Aries are direct, trend-setting and upbeat but also argumentative and impulsive.

jewelry: vintage Kuchi

Each astrological sign is associated with a different part of the body starting from the top and moving down the body. First in the zodiac's calendar, Aries is associated with the head hence my head-dress.

necklaces made by me using vintage 70s charms

Because it's represented by the ram, I've always associated Aries with big, hoop style earrings alluding to curved horns.

photo by Ann Thompson * makeup by Alyssa, the beautiful redhead in my Etsy photos

Fashion-wise, Aries tend to be trend-setters because they like to be first, are confident and love novelty.

Any Aries readers out there? What is your personal style like?

heart,

--m

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7 Tips on How to Make Friends as an Adult

2013-03-28T10:00:00.000-07:00

For most of us, it seems harder to make friends as we get older. We get busier and don't have an institution like school forcing us in regular contact with a large number of peers. But no matter your age, it's never too late to start making new friends.I've moved several times in the past decade and have had to make several whole new groups of friends as a result. After reading this article and the ensuing comments, I thought I would share how I've made friends throughout the years.

*Be Friendly

If you want people to love you, start by having lots of love to give. Be open, kind and personable. This is obviously rather difficult if you're shy but remember: most everyone loves to talk about themselves so being a good listener is the key to great conversation. Always have a smile on your face. You're not attracting any potential friends if you seem stand-offish.

*Value Yourself

Some of the commenters lament their inability to make friends because they're a "bitch." If you're so terrible, then please don't sic your company on innocent bystanders. Friendship is a two-way street, so remember and highlight what are you bringing to the equation. Maybe you are difficult/blunt/moody (we all have faults), but focus on your qualities that make you a friend worth having. Confidence is the most attractive trait in the world.

*Keep an Open Mind

Many people I know struggle to make friends because they are simply too picky and/or judgmental. It's really hard to meet compatible people if you're super critical. You may have to lower your expectations of people and give them a chance. I'm not saying befriend everyone regardless of character, but don't expect every potential friend to immediately impress you or have all your same interests.

*Get Involved

The best way to meet friends with similar interests is, obviously enough, to pursue those interests. You'll meet people with common passions if you join a circle/club/group, attend classes and volunteer with interesting organizations.

*Hang Out

Find an establishment you like and patronize it regularly. Maybe this is a dive bar, a cafe or a music venue. The more often you go there, the more likely you are to start being recognized by other locals. (One serious drawback, though, is that this will require you to spend money.)

*Network/Branch Out

Utilize the connections you already have in order to foster more. Does your college have an alumni network you can use? Can you meet the friends of someone you already know and like? Try to get invited as a guest to a party or throw your own and ask everyone to bring a pal.

*Use the Internet

It's easier and less sketchy than ever to meet people online. Some sites are devoted especially to this like meetup.com but I've also made delightful friends through okcupid, facebook and even craiglist (remember Malin?) Just practice common sense and safety.

*Not a Tip but Worth Remembering (#8)

You just can't make new old friends. Firstly, treasure and maintain the friendships you do have. Secondly, be willing to put in the time and energy with new ones if you want to create lasting bonds.

I hope these tips will prove to be helpful. Have any of you found any particularly effective ways of making friends as an adult?

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--m

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Goldenrod Sweater, Stripes and Peacock Feather Print Tights

2013-03-24T15:30:00.000-07:00

Here's a more colorful interpretation of my goldenrod sweater.

sweater: Cotton Emporium *dress (worn as skirt): thrifted, by Lush

Interestingly enough, my sweater, boots and dress (worn as skirt) are made in the USA. How often does that happen?

vintage belt: thrifted * tights: London Look * earrings: street vendor, Italy

These earrings are some of my favorite because they are so bright and summery. Ever since I was a girl, I've felt that that shoulder-dusters instantly convey glamour.

70s boots: thrifted, by Dexter * necklace: secondhand

Right now I am really over butterflies and hearts but somehow I am really charmed by this necklace which has 4 hearts and a butterfly. It's so wrong, it's right. Does that ever happen to you?

um, heart, I guess
--m

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