Great men are hard to find. So when you find one, don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly mistakes. Remember, attractive men have dated a lot of women so they know what’s going on. The result? They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve done anything wrong.

Here are 5 things that many women do that blow
their chances with their boyfriend, and how to avoid them.

• Mistake #1:
  Sharing your feelings with him too early

Men love their freedom and independence ­ no mysteries there! So when you announce that you love him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be
one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the early stages of dating should always remain casual.

Only after you get to know each other really well should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth mentioning that you can’t logically convince someone to fall in love with you. Falling in love is a process that happens outside the conscious mind ­ remember that. Which brings me to…

• Mistake #2:
  Trying to push it too far too soon

It’s natural to wonder about the nature of your relationship, “Does he want more? Or is this just a fling?” But remember, if you start talking about
marriage after only 12 months, you could ruin your chances to take things further. And if you don’t live together, cooking dinner or doing his laundry
isn’t a good idea.

A nice meal once in a while is okay, but don’t make it a regular thing. Yes, it’s true, many men are scared of commitment; but just because they don’t want it now, doesn’t mean they don’t want to settle down. They just need time.

• Mistake #3:
  Being too available

You might think this is playing a mind game or being manipulative, but putting your best side forward is also manipulative.

Why? Because it’s done to get a desirable outcome. This is simply a reminder to be who you were before you met the man and continue to be that person,
rather than use trickery.

Remember that your busy, interesting and fun life only has so much time for him, no matter how much you like him. And remember, men love a challenge, so this actually works in your favor.

• Mistake #4:
  Not being yourself

Men love confident women with a strong sense of self-worth. Unfortunately, women often try to guess how the man wants them to act and try to
accommodate his mold, which leaves very little room for your own personality to shine. (And yes, men do this too.) In other words, they love her strength. It’s very attractive.

• Mistake #5:
  Appealing to his sexual side too much

Believe it or not, it’s NOT make-up, dyed hair, pretty clothes or even nice shoes that attract men, not into a successful long-term relationships
anyway! While “looks” is the obvious factor that seems to get an instant response from men, long-term success comes with finding a man who
admires and respects you regardless of your exterior. If your man only likes you for your looks, then he doesn’t really love you.

So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that women make while they’re dating men. Avoid these mistakes and you’ll dramatically increase the chances of succeeding with him.

Have you made 1 of these mistakes and want him back? Then I think Michael Webbs book Getting Him Back can help. Give it a try.

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5 Dating Mistakes That Women Make With Men

I know some people think it’s not polite to talk about things like bacterial vaginosis but we have to have that talk. Don’t feel embarrassed.

Do you have any of these symptoms?

• A vaginal odor
• Burning vaginal itch
• A white vaginal discharge

Those symptoms are an indication that you have a bacterial vaginosis. But never fear, I’m here to tell you the causes. If you know the cause then it’s easy to get the cure.

• Sex
  Having sex at a young age
  Having more than one sexual partner
  Having sex with more than one partner at once ie a three some.By having sex foreign bacteria can move into the vagina.  The foreign bacteria is out to invade the good, clean healthy bacteria. The good bacteria can’t deal with the onslaught of  foreign bacteria and pretty quickly bacterial vaginosis sets in.
• Douching
  Douching and washing the vagina because you want it to be squeaky clean is not a good idea. The reason being that all the washing and douching is rinsing the vaginal flora out of the system therby making space for all the bad bacteria. The bad bacteria has no resistance and can live happily ever after.I’m not saying never wash, just be reasonable. Rinsing with warm water on the outside is good enough. You don’t need to get in there and rinse!
• Underwear
  Get your self some sexy cotton under wear. This gives the good bacteria a chance to breath so it can continue to provide immunities to the bad bacteria.  So think about it next time you want to swaddle your bod into skin tight jeans. Your nunu needs to breathe.
  
• Food
  Ah food is one of my next favorite subjects besides men, love and sex. What you eat contributes a lot to whether you will have bacterial vaginosis or not. (I have another blog where I’ve written the truth about nutrition, feel free to read it.)
  Diary products can play a big role in contributing to Bacterial Vaginosis.

Get a cure for bacterial vaginosis once and for all by reading Bacterial Vaginosis Freedom . Every thing you need to know is explained in easy terms. You don’ need to be a medical doctor to understand what’s going on with your vagina. This book offers a natural cure for bacteria vaginosis.

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Bacterial Vaginosis eating up your Love Pot?

I know a lot of ladies desire to get a man they can make a deep connection with. (And I don’t mean that sexually, although that is an added advantage. And just by the way what is wrong with wanting a man that fulfills you emotionally and sexually?)

But how do you go about finding that special man?

Via an online meeting place. Now before you start rolling your eyes and shaking your head, may I ask you why not?

I mean these days people spend a good amount of their time online, so it stands to reason that you may as well meet somebody online. Sure there are jerks online, but there are jerks every where. You have to choose unjerky ones.

Emily McKay is a great example of having met her dream man online.  By the way Emily is totally fun and cute. I’ve interviewed her twice you can listen here.

Emily knows a thing or 2 about how to choose the man that is right for you. Her methods may even seem cold blooded, especially when she suggests the spread sheet thing. Seriously she says you should evluate the men from 1 to 100.  The guy who has the hundred points after you’ve evaluated him for all his traits – (each trait has it’s own amount of points) is the man for you. For example you draw up a spread sheet that goes something like this:

• Telling the truth – now you know he has lied to you before so you give him 50 points out of a hundred.

• Punctual – so although he’s lied to you, up until now he was always on time so you give him a 100 points.

• Attraction -  you feel a bit attracted but it’s not like, oh my God, get moist between the legs  just thinking about him, so you give him 60 points.

She has a whole list of very important things you should be looking out for.

Besides knowing what you should be looking out for, she knows how to write a good online profile which will attract men.

Here’s some vids of her, giving her coy advice. She is too cute – no wonder Scott adores her.  Scott by the way is the kind of man you want: masculine, respectful, intelligent and good looking.  I also have one of those in my house. (Okay he is getting a bit plump but he’s still adorable & I wouldn’t change him for Brad Pitt. He says his spare tyre is a sign of  happiness & contentment to be with skinny old me.)

>>>>>> Click with Him

>>>>>> Click with Him

>>>>>> Click with Him

Honestly you gotta trust me when I tell you Click with Him is the best program on the entire internet for meeting a man online.  I have a lot of so called dating coaches asking me to promote their drivel.  Click with Him is a no bull shit, honest to goodness serious program that will teach you how to focus on getting a the full blooded, decent male that you dream about. Hello, settling for any man is not what the game is about. Oh and I did mention all the other juicy information that comes with the package?

Gotta love MiaFarrow for saying, ” a man in the house is worth 2 on the street”!

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How to get a Man that you Click with

Are you wondering whether men want naked or hairy fannys?

Well according to my research men do like a hair free zone, especially for kissing and licking your honey pot. But not all men want a nunu that is completely naked. I’ve had men tell me a totally bare cookie is like looking at a very young cookie and they want to know and feel like they are with somebody that is legal.

Then on the other hand there are guys that love big hair. If it wasn’t so there wouldn’t be a whole niche in the porno industry for those that like it hairy.

As for me I keep it bare around the anus and actual cookie part with a racing stripe above. I find it is hygenic. But God gave us hair for a reason and that is to protect our intimate part. Considering wer’e highly civilised and not living our lives naked we don’t really need that hair. After all we’ve got Victoria’s Secret to cover up with.  My friend who loves going to nudist places keeps her natural bush, just trimmed neatly at the sides so those hairs don’t peek out onto her thighs when she is in a bathing suit.

So then let’s take a look at the different methods for keeping the hair styled down there.

Shaving

1. Before you get out the razor – stop. Get a pair of scissors and cut off the hair first. cut as close to the skin as you can. Other wise shaving will take a long time and cause you suffering. First cut hair with scissors.
2. Now that you’ve cut off as much hair as possible get ready to shave. You need to get your skin soft and free of irritants before you proceed to shave. The best way is to immerse yourself into a nice warm bath. The warm water will soften the hairs and your skin. You could also take a warm shower, spraying the warm water onto the are which you want to have hair free. Afterwards you should dry yourself and then begin the shaving ritual.  But I’ll admit I shave whilst I’m still in the bath.
3. You need to generously apply shaving cream to the genital area. Don’t use your mans shaving cream. If you must use his razor use one which he has already used or the blade will be to sharp. Use a shaving cream that is free of perfume. A  porno star told me that vaseline works wonderfully. I tried it out and it really did prevent rashes.  Take your time to shave your genitals. Shave in the direction of your hair. You may have to shave over the are more than once to get a completely smooth skin.
4. Rinse thoroughly with warm water.
5. Give your pubic area some loving attention with a good natural skin oil. Aloe Vera and vitamin E are wonderful for sensitive skins. If you are planning on a love making session after shaving then wash away all oils and lotions if you are using condoms to prevent pregnancy.  The reason being that latex is affected by lotions and oils, thereby becoming more porous.

Waxing
Is a method for removing the hair with warm wax. The procedure can be painful but when executed by a pro is over quickly. Also you are hair free for a couple of weeks and the new hair grows out less bristly than from a shaved job.

1. Brazialian
   This term was invented in Brazil where beauty salons offered to do a bikini wax removing hair around the anus and labia so that there was nothing sprouting out of the tanga.
2. Full Brazialian
   All the hair is removed, the genitals are completely naked – like the day you were born.

Bushy Cut

Tear Drop Cut

Flame Cut

Heart Cut

Did you know that naked vaginas first appeared in the 70’s in Britain? It was penthouse that first showed them.

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Hair Styling your Nunu

A lot can be said for making eye contact with a man you’re after. It’s a simple flirting technique – look and then look away. Demurely.

But a lot more can be read into a gaze than meets the eye. I’m also learning a lot in life and discovered this video today about eye contact which I’m delighted to be able to share with you.

Now you’ll be able to tell whether a man is listening and paying attention to you or not.

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Analysing Eye Contact

This is a rather short post where i just want to inform you that I have a website specially dedicated to love making techniques.

Of course I’ll also be posting love making tips for women that want to surprise their men and have fun.

Sex is not about just lying there like a wet dish rag but having fun and enjoying yourself.

For too long women have been told sex is dirty, degrading, cheap, and an assortment of other middle aged beliefs.

I’m in no way implying that you need to bed every Tom; Dick and Harry. But hey if you want to why not? Just remember the reason why you’re doing it. Too many women confuse sex with love and land up feeling hurt and rejected. I’ve written about this on numerous occasions so I won’t go into it again.

If you feel badly about your self get help, not laid. In the same sense not having sex due to guilt etc is just as bad.

So for those of you ready to fullfill your life with some new love making techniques then head on to Love Making Techniques for Her. I’ll be posting at regular intervals.

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Love Making Techniques

Something which makes me cringe is when I see young girls or even grown women chasing the opposite sex.  (Not to say that I haven’t been guilty of this behaviour myself!)

In all my years of observing men and women I’ve noticed that men need to be the pursuers. I Know this concept seems so old fashioned as we are living in a liberated age, we as women have voting rights, earn money and pretty much get to do what we want – well at least here in the west.

My observations have led me to believe that men are hunters and when women lay down at their feet they’ll just toy with them. Much like a cat with her killed mouse – throwing it up in the air and then walking away to never look at the thing again.

Now I know that men can be shy, which doesn’t surprise me – they’ve been told not to come across as a pervert. So it can make communication difficult. And yes I know you have the right to like a man and to even to pursue him. But how will you feel if he rejects you?

My main reason for being hard to get is firstly to protect yourself from rejection and secondly if he’s into you he won’t just give up like that. Obviously show that you’re interested. Flirt with him, enjoy the converstaion but don’t hope and expect that now you’ll be married for ever. Cause chances are he won’t ask you for your phone number or if he does he might not call you. He may call you and even go out with you and you’ll be feeling over the moon and then he may never call you again.

Don’t make excuses as to why he never called you – it’s not like he’s too busy or lost your number – he’s just not that into you. Accept it and move on. Don’t call with a lame excuse you just look silly in his eyes and are making your self vulnerable for feeling hurt.

In  fact in my observations I’ve even noticed that in long standing happy relatonships the men were the pursuers of the woman. And even after x amount of years the woman is not a doormat and the man still is chasing her in a more subtle way. It’s not game playing – it’s just the way we as humans seem to be wired.

So my advice is play hard to get.

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Hard to Get

It’s come to my attention that many women have no idea how a penis functions. Yeah we all know it’s a genital that is used for urinating and having sex. But do you know what to do with a penis so that he is putty in your hands?

There is an art to handling a penis!

Even though men are tough on the outside they love special attention to their tool box.

The glans is  sensitive and especially the frenulum.

Most men born in Europe are uncircumsized. It is common for men in the USA and other countries to be circumsized.

Jewish men are circumsized due to religious reasons. If you read the old testament you’ll learn that men were required to get circumsized as a bonding act to God.

Diagram showing the difference between a circumsized penis and non circumsized penis

As you can see in this diagram a circumzised penis has had the foreskin removed.  In western countries this is done after birth. In some other countries circumsicion is a ritual that is done when boys become men. It is very painful.

Uncircumsized men are a lot more sensitive in the frenulum and glans area than uncircumsized men.

But all men love attention to their private part.

Michael Webb has written a great book ccalled blow by blow which explains to you how to give a man a great sexual experience with your mouth. Plus you get some great bonuses on how to give him a good hand job. These are wonderful techniques because firstly you can surprise him any where and you can’t get pregnant!

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Anatomy of a Penis

1. Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen , which makes hair shine and skin smooth.
2. Gentle , relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis , skin rashes and blemishes. The sweat produced cleanses the pores and makes your skin glow.
3. Lovemaking can burn up those calories you piled on during that romantic dinner.
4. Sex is one of the safest sports you can take up. It stretches and tones up just about every muscle in the body. It’s more enjoyable than swimming 20 laps , and you don’t need special sneakers!
5. Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream , producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being.
6. The more sex you have , the more you will be offered. The sexually active body gives off greater quantities of chemicals called pheromones. These subtle sex perfumes drive the opposite sex crazy!
7. Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world. IT IS 10 TIMES MORE EFFECTIVE THAN VALIUM.
8. Kissing each day will keep the dentist away. Kissing encourages saliva to wash food from the teeth and lowers the level of the acid that causes decay , preventing plaque build-up.
9. Sex actually relieves headaches. A lovemaking session can release the tension that restricts blood vessels in the brain.
10. A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.

Now you have no excuses – especially the one about the headache. (Seriously I’m astounded that women use the headache as an excuse.)

This was sent to me by cousin Bets.

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10 Good Reasons to Have Sex

When you’re in the midst of passion, anything can come out of your mouth. If you and your partner are into dirty talk, you might hear fantasies and desires that surprise or even shock you. How do you handle a dirty talk scenario that makes you wildly uncomfortable?

When the passion is over and your mind is clear, think about what was said. Why did it make you so uncomfortable? Did it bring to mind a bad memory? Did it make you wonder what your partner really wanted to be doing in bed at that moment? Did his desires make you feel bad about yourself? Whatever the reason, pinpoint it and write it down. Putting it on paper in black and white will help you work through the details of why you feel the way you do.

Consider how you will bring it up with your lover. If this is something that you feel you need to discuss, plan your approach. Make sure you present your concerns in a loving, non-judgmental way. If you are accusing at all, your partner will likely retreat into a self-conscious shell, and won’t bother telling you any more of those fantasies. That is a breakdown in communication, and that is not good!

Once you’ve chosen a way to approach the subject, do it when you are both relaxed and open to discussion. Don’t attempt to start the talk immediately after you’ve had sex – talk about killing the afterglow! Don’t do it when you are busy with other things, or when stress seems to have taken over your day. Approach your partner at a time when you know he will be open to what you have to say. Allow plenty of time for the discussion.

Keep in mind that your partner might not think anything is bothering you. His dirty talk could well have been completely spur of the moment, and he might not even remember what he said! If it was just something thrown out in the heat of the moment when he was experimenting with a few fantasies, you can chalk it up to nothing more than that and move on. If he admits the scenario he suggested is one that he wants to try, however, you’ve opened the door for discussing it.

Always be loving toward your partner as you discuss those fantasies. Remember that it took a lot of trust to get to this point, and the dirty talk between the two of you is so much hotter for it. You aren’t the only one who has heard things that might be shocking – consider that you might have dropped a few stunners along the way, and your lover has accepted them. Doesn’t he deserve the same consideration from you?

Finally, remember – the hottest dirty talk just might involve things you would never really do if the opportunity arose. Keep it all in perspective, and remember that your partner is the one in bed with you – the one who is focusing all his attention and dirty talk skills on you. You lucky little vixen!

More dirty talk examples

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When Dirty Talk With Your Lover is Over the Top…