Lets face it, for 5000 years man and women have been working towards their goals and 99% never reach them. Always missing the target!

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WHY?

Let me see if I can share with you a thought process I have, these are my ideas, so they many not work for you. Here is why I feel so many never reach their goals.

They are to busy working towards them! This constant push, struggle and frustration to “reach” their goals, it can wear you out. So what if you were to, in the words of Dr Wayne Dyer: “Change The Way You Look At Things & The Things You Look At Change”.

Right now, take a few moments, and really start to look at a goal you have, one you have been working on for a while now, could be a month, maybe even a year or more.  Look at the activities that you have been doing to reach that goal. I mean really get clear on what actions you have been focused on to reach this end goal.  Got it?

Now here is what I want you to do. Take some time right now, and look at this goal as something you have already achieved. Something you have already acquired the skills or the experience to achieve this goal.

When you start to look at the actions you have performed in the past to move closer to this goal.. looking that them with this new understanding that you have already achieved your goal, here is the question.
Would You Do Things Differently When You See Yourself Having The Mindset Of Your Goal?

For the past 20 years that I have been speaking and training, the % of people who said they would do things differently… is 100%!  WHY?

Here are my thought on this.

• A. It’s impossible to see something you have not seen before.
  When you set a goal, its something you have not had before, otherwise it wouldn’t be a goal, right? So it’s not a something, it’s a feeling… it’s a concept. How can you show me a feeling, without it taking physical shape. If you wanted to show me sad, you would frown, or happy you would smile. It still has to show up in the physical world.
• You have to Be, Do than Have…
  There is nothing that you want, that you don’t first have the desire to want it first. You can’t get up for a drink of water, get the glass, fill it and the all of a sudden say.. WOW, I really wanted a glass of water.
  So to work towards your goals, is the same thing, and it’s why it’s so easy to get distracted from the process.
• Cheating is Bad
  We were taught in school that asking for help on a test was not allowed, and coping someone was cheating. So it’s no shock that when we look at the “Test” of life we are all in, and we see someone who is successful and has what we want, we are afraid to ask them for help.  If you are serious about your goals, and WORKING FROM THEM and not towards them, then you need a mentor or coach.
• It’s to easy
  If it’s easy to look at this article and see there you can fundamentally change the way you look at goal setting, then it’s easy not to do it as well. The choice is yours.

So 3 ideas to help you now work FROM your goals, it’s really quite simple when you do it the first time. Once you have done it… the sky is the limit.

Thanks for taking the time to read this and I hope you share it with at least 3 people you know that could benefit from this.

Please leave your comments below and share it across social media. Thanks in advance.

Hugs from Dallas
Sean

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I have been fortunate to mentor some great leaders around the globe in my life. I love their ability to make decision quickly and take action quickly. 

What I find most fascinating are those folks with a “middle class” mindset that tell me, “it’s so hard to get started”.

World Class Mindset says – “Choice Made, hard part done, now action”!

See you have to make the choice before you can get started you have to know that you know that you know and you can build and empire, if you want.

Action with out a clear purpose is a train wreck waiting to happen. So right here, right now, take the time to make the choice of a lifetime, will you or won’t you!

3 simple things you can to that will bring you success.

1. Decide what you DON’T want
This gives you the ability to clearly see what you do what. If you do not look at things like this, then you are bound to loose time and find yourself many times in places or feelings you did not want.

2. Check In
A plane is only on the exact course on is way to its destination just a few times during the course of the flight. The rest of the time, it is correcting and adjusting. It can arrive at its destination because the systems are always checking and adjusting based on the “outside” influence. The wind, the resistance of forward motion, gravity… all things have an effect on the plane. The systems on board, make all these adjustments to keep it on track. What will you do to “adjust” for all the outside influences on your life. Check in, journal, keep track of what works and what does not.

3. Take Lessons
No one would expect you to sit at a piano and play Beethoven’s Piano Concerto No.5 E-Flat Major. WHY? Because if you have not practiced, there is no chance you know how to do it. So you can learn 2 different ways.
a. Learn on your own
b. Take Lessons
I suggest you take option b. When you hire a coach, mentor, teacher, you are paying to avoid failure. They can help guide you over and thru the challenges. Its about getting to your destination soon rather then later.

Getting a Mentor is easy… its the Choice That’s Hard!

Life your life, get the most out of your life… know that to have more, YOU need to become more!

Get started NOW

Hugs from Dallas…

Sean

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There is no way it can work. Especially if you don’t work it. So the real question is… Do you know how to work Social Media? I can bet for the large majority, they think the answer is yes, when in reality its a big NO!

Perception is reality, so if you believe you know who to work Social Media, they you believe you do. Let me ask you a few questions, if I may.

1. What is your goal with your interactions in the cloud, with the different media outlets you use? I mean why do you do it? Okay so you probably have a solid answer about now for this question. On to #2

2. Does your answer to #1 move you closer to your primary goal?  Now is when the breaks start to get tapped, and possibly you are beginning to now like this line of questioning. Maybe your saying “I just do it for fun, there doesn’t always have to be a goal tied to what I do”…  the challenge is you are always working on a goal.

So not to go much farther down this path of possible frustration, let me see if I might give some ideas that could bring value.

The time you spend being Social, what is the good, the benefits you are getting? Its good if you can identify that, because it will help you to determine that where, what and how long you spend on the different activities. I’m not saying not to do it, I just know from experience that you can get lost real quick in the different environments that are out there.

Another question I might have for you, and this is aimed at “who you are” on Social Media. The question is, What are you know for? If I were to ask some of your Social Media friends, what you you say, (your name) is know for on FaceBook or twitter? What do you think they would say? See the reality of life is that what we think we are doing, and what others think we are doing are often times totally different. So look back, heck, ask your followers or friends how they would describe you and watch what they say.

Social Media will never work and if for sure will never work in your favor unless you know how to work it. So do your best to bring value, to be there for your friends with a smile and a like from time to time, and you can get as much out of Social Media as you want.

Follow me on Facebook, or Twitter, just click on the links here on the page, I’d love to share some laughs with you.

If you liked reading this, please share it with others, I’d be grateful if you did.

Hugs from Dallas,

Sean

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Give Up…

Now for those that have been to any of my trainings, or free conference calls, you know I don’t talk about “giving up”. I do talk about the title of this post. Let me see if I can explain to all the new members I have the pleasure of chatting with here.

Lets say that you just set a new goal. You wrote it down, you set the day, you put it on your mind map, your dream board and you think about it in the morning and just before bed. You are doing exactly the things we teach. So why should I tell you to “give up”?   

Its simple. When you start something you, you have to decide to give up something old. The challenge is that most people dont ever take the time to really decide to give up that “old” thing, thought, action, attitude so they can really replace it with the new thing they really want. So as you start down the path of success and you set yourself the course that you feel is critical to achieve your greatness. I would also like to remind you that you have to knowingly give up something or maybe a bunch of things.

Here are some thoughts you might follow:

Know why are going to do what you are going to do
Decide what you are going to give up, so you have time to do this new activity
Be aware of how you feel as you begin the process, the EGO can play some pretty good tricks to get you “back to your old self”
Journal, journal, journal. Write down the new ideas, feelings, thoughts that come to you. These are building blocks to get you to the next level.

So there are just a few ideas to help you give up on your old limited stinking thinking so you can reach the place you keep dreaming about. And its time for you to get there.

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For over 40 years, yes 40 years… I can’t believe it either, I have been speaking and teaching. From my first business of selling corn off a hay wagon on the farm, to more recently speaking in Beijing China to the world’s 24 largest MLM company.

You can not lead someone, most people ‘try’ to lead, you will be either pushing them or dragging them, and that’s just exhausting. So how do you lead? You first have to lead their thoughts..

Leadership of the masses demands that you speak to their hearts. You give the audience the chance to love themselves more and believe in themselves more. That is accomplished by helping them to focus on the “Main Thing”. You have probably heard the expression: Keep The Main Thing The Main Thing.

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So many times, if people are not used to being coached or even more being Mentored, they tend to let their thoughts control them, to guide them, to determine how they feel, what they eat the list could go on and on. All the showing that most people are already being lead by someone or something other then themselves.

To lead, you must be willing to speak up, speak out, stand up and stand out. You can only lead a particular group or mindset. So know what you want your audience to do, what is it going to take to reach the target you are leading them towards. If you can figure out the activities they need to do, then you can talk about that and paint the picture and people will be gin to understand what they will get in return for following you.

Some steps to follow:

Be the expert in your field
Create content that people can refer to as supporting documents/videos to give credibility
Find a Mentor
Speak on your topic as often as you can

Have some fun, share some smiles, and make a diference.

Hugs from Dallas,

Sean

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If you just learned this powerful concept, you could change so many things in your life for the better.

Let me see if I can explain it.

In conversations, and in media, people spend a significant amount of time in choosing the right words, making sure they all flow together, and that the spelling is correct, and the grammer is right. Well, they are focusing on 7% of succes. Now it’s an important part, don’t get me wrong. The difference between the “right” word and the “almost right” word is the difference between lighting and a lighting bug.

What I want to share is that, if you knew that you could increase your success of the words you choose simply by being aware of HOW you are saying them. Here are some thoughts, ideas and techniques I have used around the world in speaking with folks, just like you.

Look at yourself in the mirror. I know that seems like something very simple to do, and it is. I am teaching you a secret to success, and success is simple. So look at how you look in a mirror. When you, what is the feeling you see. Not what you feel. What feeling do you see. I want you to really look at that image you see, because that is what those around you see.

There is a phrase I teach my students: Who you are speaks so loud that I can’t hear what you are saying.  Emerson said this. It’s so very true, and when you really understand this, you will begin to realize why many of your conversations did not go as well as you planned, did not produce the outcome you wished for.

The words are important, I am not saying they are not. What I am saying is that if you use less words, and more of YOU, the words you need to use will be less.

Get better at You, and you will get better for everyone else.

3 Simple Steps for 93% Success

1. Record yourself
If your not comfortable in front of a camera, or you thing you “look funny” or “sound funny”, then that is what the audience is thinking as well. Get good at being in front of a camera and the results you get will dramatically improve.

2. Watch Comedians
Comedy is so much about timing. So you will begin to see how hard they rehearse to get the punchlines delivered just right. Also watch their expressions. You will see what they are NOT saying makes the joke.

3. Practice, Practice, Practice….
The key is make it natural, and the only way for that to happen is to make it a part of you. Know your topics as well as you know your phone number, your name ect.

Have fun.

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Sean

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We create our own delay, when we fail to monitor our selves.

I hope I can explain, let me see if I can get the point I want to make across, let me know if I did. 

If you ever said the words, “I knew I should have done “that”…” or “I know better then that”.
These are signs that the part of “you” that wants to reach your goals, that inner you that dreams and wishes… its evidence that it has been working, on guiding you. The “you” that is on your Dream Boards, on the sticky notes around your house, the notes you carry in your wallet or day planner. This “YOU” knows how to get you there.
Its the Ego You…, the one you are now, the one that fears change, the one that fears success. Its this “you” that  does all it can to keep you in the station of life your in now… that is the You that you are listening to when you say things like, “why does this always happen to me?”

Its time to change that! Stop Delaying Yourself!

How do you do that? Here are some ideas, they are just that ideas. Take from them what you want.

Step 1
Pay attention. Know what your doing right now, why are you doing it, and then pay attention to that little voice inside of you that is looking to guide you.

Step 2
Do things different everyday. What I mean by that is simply do things different. Walk around your house in a different pattern… park your car different at work and at home. Dry yourself off in the shower differently.. anything that you can do different.. DO IT!
Here is the reason why I share this. We are such creatures of habit, that when we set a goal, we are usually setting a goal that is going to require many things in the universe to change. There is no challenge with these big changes taking place. The problem is that the big ones can’t happen till the little ones happen. Therefore.. change all the little things that you can around you.

See when you start to implement these little changes in your life, you will all of a sudden begin to see things differently and you will create great openings for bigger changes to happen.

Step 3
Keep track… journal your feelings, your changes, your success.
If you don’t do this, you will miss out on 80% of the clues that life, the universe, that God is bringing to you.. where ever you believe the world to be… if you don’t keep track of your progress and challenges, then the mind can trick you so easily to think nothing is changing.

Stop Delaying Yourself, and live a new life in every moment. After all, isn’t that whats happening anyway.

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The new year is coming, not a single one of us can stop it… so now what?

What are you going to do different, what are you going to do better, what are you going to stop doing? I bet its more of the last one, the stop doing that would make the most impact in your life. I know it will in mine.

Here are some things that I am going to stop doing.

1. Giving away space in my mind for things that I know are not growing good results for me.
2. I am going to stop eating things that are not an 8 or above in my “I love this” book of food.
3. Stop watching TV at 2am cause I had an 18 hour day and I want to just see whats going on.. Nope.. I’m going to bed.

So there are a few things that I am going to stop doing immediately.

See its the 80/20 rule. See if this holds true for you. The rule states about 80% of your efforts get you 20% of your results, and that 20% of your efforts get you about 80% of your results.

So as you enter into the new year, make sure that you look at the “RESULTS” you are wanting, and then look at the activities that it takes to make that happen. You will be surprised how much of your time is spent on things that will never produce those results.

Make your list of things you will and things you will not do, so at least you have a starting point for your succes..

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In the past day, I just connected with an incredible woman Nairobi, Kenya. She was in the audience at an event I spoke at in China.

She voluenteered to be a part of demonstration I do. It is one to show how fast you will change your beliefs in your own self. Joyce played her part perfectly. Let me see if you can get the picture, the feel for how this all played out.

The concept is, I can prove that I can get anyone to produce the more results in 2 days then they have in the past 2 weeks, even 2 years. It’s really simple, the challenge is that you have to see this done live to grasp the significance of it. 

What is real no matter if you attend my event or not, is that your clock is ticking. Joyce knew that, and knows it even better today. See in our conversation, I gave her a deadline… and at the end of that deadline, lets say when the CLOCK would stop ticking. Something very dear to her would be taken away. She did not much like the thought of that, and with out much coaching on my part, she realized the ultimate control she had over her own future. Not just for the next 2 day, also for the next 2 months, 2 years… ect.

So I ask you now, the person reading this… maybe this was shared with you. The Question to you is this.

What would you do to if you only had 1 day left? One week left to take put things in place to take care of your family… what would you do?

See it’s what we leave behind that we need to look at for our family. Not just what we have now, its what they will have when we are gone. If you know you can do more, then do it.. if you know you can create more, then do it… if you know you can be more then do THAT too!

Make a difference each and every day. Joyce reminded me of that today, and for that I’m grateful.

The Clock Is Ticking… Who Will Fall? Make sure you reach for your goals each and every day.

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