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<p><span style="color: #000000; font-family: Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;"><strong>Turn any situation into the best day of your life..</strong></span></p>
<p>Do you have difficulty with certain people in your life? Most everyone does. How you consciously DEAL with them determines whether you&#8217;re empowering or disempowering yourself and others.</p>
<p>I thought you might like this new book called <em>A Guide To Your Supreme Power</em>. It tells you all about Rational Optimism<sup>TM    </sup>which has created huge fortunes, initiated groundbreaking scientific discoveries, and has been responsible for the success of many famous (and wildly happy) people.</p>
<p>That’s probably why this book is considered the key to money, power, love, and success. <a href="http://www.theoneworldinitiative.com/AGuidetoYourSupremePower-specialgiftspromolaunch.html">Check it out here.</a></p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Best of all, reading this book you’ll discover:</span></p>
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<li>How to deal with difficult people at work, love, and life.</li>
<li>Common Myths that are likely holding you back from achieving the success you deserve.</li>
<li>The life-view that makes it impossible to be worried, anxious, depressed, or unhappy: Everything you need to know about Rational Optimism<sup>TM</sup>.</li>
<li>How to recapture your perfect figure and mental state with these simple steps once and for all!</li>
<li>The one thing you need to do to ensure your business, work and life investments are always solid, fruitful and flourishing.</li>
<li>How not to treat your romantic partner (for your own sake and your relationship’s sake).</li>
<li>Effective and proven ways unleash the creative leader in you.</li>
<li>The smartest ways to make more money, be happier, healthier, and grow your business if you have one. (hint: this can only be done with Rational Optimism<sup>TM</sup>).</li>
<li>&#8230;and much more!</li>
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<p>*Plus, if you get your copy <span style="text-decoration: underline;">today</span> you’ll receive over $1,000 in free gifts from some of the most knowledgeable thought leaders in business, love, spirituality, and health! Sounds like a great offer.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.theoneworldinitiative.com/AGuidetoYourSupremePower-specialgiftspromolaunch.html">Here it all is for you.</a></p>
<p>I’ll have to warn you though…this book gives it to you straight. No fluff. If you want lots of pretty fluff, you’re not going to get it here. This is straight content (i.e. not a lot of stories), so it may or may not be for everyone. That being said, if you check out the link and it resonates with you, then by all means get the book!</p>
<p>Blessings,</p>
<p>Dr. Karen</p>
<p>PS. It&#8217;s important that your friends and family have abundant money, happiness, love, power, and success too.  After reading this webpage, show five people that you care about their wealth, health, and happiness by forwarding this email to them.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are Your Chakras Blocking Wealth? Well, WE did it! If you were kind enough to watch the video I made that my coach Margaret M. Lynch challenged me to make, THANK YOU! Out of thirty plus contestants, my video won &#8230; <a href="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/374/chakras-blocking-your-wealth/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<h1>Are Your Chakras Blocking Wealth?</h1>
<p>Well, WE did it! If you were kind enough to watch the video I made that my coach Margaret M. Lynch challenged me to make, THANK YOU! Out of thirty plus contestants, <a href="http://youtu.be/jZqBATX5czI" target="_blank">my video</a> won for the most views. I was so excited to find out today that I won (even though I totally used the well-practiced Law of Attraction tools at my disposal), I could barely focus tonight for my African drum practice!</p>
<p>So what did I win? Well, I was vying for a great prize! It was the Ignite Your Power Manifest Your Wealth Program with six weeks of live teleclasses with Margaret M. Lynch. I knew that on some level, I was going to be &#8220;rewarded&#8221; by the Universe for sticking my neck out there doing the video&#8230;even if it was only the fact that I &#8220;discovered&#8221; that I really DO have a video recording software program that works already installed on my computer! (I was super excited about that)</p>
<p>So, in case you&#8217;re wondering why I&#8217;m so excited about being coached by Tapping Expert Margaret M. Lynch&#8230;read on</p>
<p>In my many years of study, healing, transforming, teaching… I’ve come across many experts with much to say and share.</p>
<p>After awhile the messages start to sound an awful lot alike.  I mean really; how many ways can you hear “we are all one?”</p>
<p>Or “meditation, diet, and exercise is really good for you?”</p>
<p>Or “change your mind, heal your body?”</p>
<p>So when someone comes along and says something NEW; my ears prick up, my heart trips, my world tilts a bit…</p>
<p>Margaret Lynch’s <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4562399" target="_blank">7 Levels of Wealth Manifestation</a> video did that for me.</p>
<p>I’m been studying personal development, human awakening, and evolving consciousness for a lot of years.  I’ve even studied the chakras, the meridian system, and the aura for most of that.  And Margaret Lynch schooled me on the chakras and showed me some things I did NOT know.</p>
<p>Each of us make negative, or limiting VOWS about money, health, love, and sex.</p>
<p>Are you refusing to be rich?</p>
<p>We’ve all heard of limiting beliefs and fears but what she teaches is that there is a limiting vow in you that absolutely refuses money and wealth.</p>
<p>A lot of people talk about your unconscious blocks, but what if you’ve actually made a vow against money?</p>
<p>Each of these vows are stored in our chakras, they are like software programs with the energetic data bases of our bodies &#8211; storing unconscious commands that drive our lives.</p>
<p>I’ve heard all this about our unconscious minds…but never with the chakras.  Healing, true deep healing, has to include deleting those limiting vows from each of the chakras.</p>
<p>Margaret shows you how in this revolutionary (and free) training video I nabbed for you.</p>
<p>It’s a simple, ten minute Tapping exercise that will shatter your limiting money vows and your family money paradigms. And open a door for you to choose the vows and the money paradigm you want to live by.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4562399" target="_blank">7 Levels of Wealth Manifestation free training</a></p>
<p>Enjoy! I know you&#8217;re gonna love it!</p>
<p>Dr. Karen Kan<br />
PS Even if you’re not to keen on money, finances, and wealth; give this exercise a thorough viewing. Because I know that we all have limiting beliefs about sex, love, safety, health, and happiness stored in those chakra databases too.</p>
<p>Margaret is pointing the way, offering a roadmap, for clearing all those negative paradigms that are holding you back.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4562399" target="_blank">CLICK HERE</a> to get access.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I need your help. I have less than 24 hours to &#8220;win&#8221; this challenge that my EFT coach, Margaret Lynch, dared me to do. She asked me to make a video admitting to what I&#8217;m currently &#8220;battling&#8221; and how that &#8230; <a href="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/371/am-i-crazy-to-admit-this-in-public/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>I need your help. I have less than 24 hours to &#8220;win&#8221; this challenge that my EFT coach, Margaret Lynch, dared me to do. She asked me to make a video admitting to what I&#8217;m currently &#8220;battling&#8221; and how that is affecting my mission in life. Let&#8217;s just say that my &#8220;ah ha&#8221; wasn&#8217;t very pretty. It was downright vulnerable, as you&#8217;ll see from my short video. I can&#8217;t believe I made this video public!</p>
<p>But I did it because I knew that my &#8220;ah ha&#8217;s&#8221; and insights might help others. So here&#8217;s how you can help me. Watch the short video I made:</p>
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<p>and that&#8217;s it! If you think a friend might like it, please pass it along too. Whichever of Margaret&#8217;s students gets the most video views or has the best video, wins a fantastic prize that includes f&#8217;ree group coaching with her. I want to win. I intend to win. And I could REALLY use your help my friend!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;m brave enough to leave this video up for long&#8230;but if it is something that you think I should. If you think it would help people (or if it helped you in some way, shape or form), let me know by commenting below it. It might help me be more courageous. And if you think it is crazy for me to leave it up, let me know too!</p>
<p>Thanks a million for your help and support!<br />
Dr. Karen</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Increase Personal Power to Attract Your Dreams &#160; There is a lot going in the world today about money…and a lot of people talking about it. Some people even ask me how they can manifest a rich husband. But here&#8217;s &#8230; <a href="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/368/more-personal-power-equals-more-money/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<h1>Increase Personal Power to Attract Your Dreams</h1>
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<p>There is a lot going in the world today about money…and a lot of people talking about it. Some people even ask me how they can manifest a rich husband. But here&#8217;s the thing. If you&#8217;re wanting abundance in all areas of your life, then you need to raise your personal power. And that includes dealing head-on with your money issues too.</p>
<p>But have you ever considered how the actual money in your life – your income, your savings account, your debt – is related to your level of “personal power”?  How about your programming about money?  Or your true life purpose?</p>
<p>My coach and rock star of the “tapping world” Margaret M. Lynch has some pretty interesting views on this that are changing the way I think about my power, my mission, life purpose AND my money.</p>
<p>Margaret is known worldwide for the very unique way she uses EFT/Tapping (it’s powerful, I have never seen anything like it!) AND for how much amazing content she shares totally for free.</p>
<p>Well she has just raised the bar. She is announcing a special totally free event packed full with transformational tapping for money, personal power and what she calls “being a rock star in your mission”.</p>
<p>Check it out here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1415829&amp;u=http://igniteyourpowerevent.com/livestreamclass1/" target="_blank">http://www.1shoppingcart.com/<wbr>app/?af=1415829&amp;u=http://<wbr>igniteyourpowerevent.com/<wbr>livestreamclass1/</wbr></wbr></wbr></a></p>
<p>Not only will you find out about this fabulous event, but in this video she also leads some power-tapping you don’t want to miss!<br />
If you envisioned your mission (and your money) to be bigger, bo lder and much more fulfilling than your current reality, then I recommend you check this out!  Tap away the blocks to money and personal power and tap INTO  the bigger, bolder, ROCK STAR in your mission that you know you were meant to be!</p>
<p>Try this tapping thing and see all the details here:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=1415829&amp;u=http://igniteyourpowerevent.com/livestreamclass1/" target="_blank">http://www.1shoppingcart.com/<wbr>app/?af=1415829&amp;u=http://<wbr>igniteyourpowerevent.com/<wbr>livestreamclass1/</wbr></wbr></wbr></a></p>
<p>Enjoy!</p>
<p>Dr. Karen<br />
PS I think this live replay class will be available through Thursday! Enjoy! Let me know how you liked it!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230;give up. Small Degrees of Separation Between Good and Great Watch this inspiring video and see why YOU can achieve greatness regardless of education, culture, or race. Find your passion. Find your light. I&#8217;d like to acknowledge my team member &#8230; <a href="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/364/small-degrees-of-separation-between-good-and-great/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>&#8230;give up.</p>
<h1>Small Degrees of Separation Between Good and Great</h1>
<p>Watch this inspiring video and see why YOU can achieve greatness regardless of education, culture, or race. Find your passion. Find your light.</p>
<p><iframe width="480" height="360" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/EHSeIiuvKt8" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to acknowledge my team member Tami Bushey for sharing this video with me. Hope you enjoy it as much as I did!</p>
<p>Dr. Karen</p>
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<h1>Chakra Blocks to Wealth</h1>
<p>While on the plane to visiting family for the Christmas holidays last week, I brought along the <a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4574783" target="_blank">7 Levels of Wealth Manifestation</a> program by Margaret Lynch. So here I am with my smartphone, watching and listening to Margaret&#8217;s video with earphones on, learning about how my second chakra may be limiting my wealth.</p>
<p>From the first few sentences describing my Life Purpose profile, Knowledgeable Achiever, it &#8220;clicked&#8221; why I&#8217;ve had difficulty receiving in my life. As a child, my mother was often ill, so instead of being a carefree kid, I took on the role of emotional &#8220;caregiver&#8221; for my mother. I became as perfect as I could be and I learned that it was better not to have NEEDS and to avoid ASKING FOR THINGS because I might not get it.</p>
<p>I became a &#8220;little adult&#8221; at a tender age taking care of my mother&#8217;s emotional needs,  and have become a professional caregiver in the process! As I listened to Margaret&#8217;s instructions on using the Emotional Freedom Technique and I tapped my acupuncture points, tears began streaming down my face. I sobbed as quietly as I could so that I wouldn&#8217;t disturb the other 100 people on the plane, but it was clear that I had a second chakra vow that was preventing me from receiving abundance!</p>
<p>Everything started making more sense to me, including how I unconsciously sabotage money coming to me by finding creative ways of getting rid of it!</p>
<p>You might think this strange, but if you&#8217;re a high achiever like me, have worked hard all your life, and are still not raking in the dough with ease and grace, you might have a chakra vow that is not serving you either! And if you happen to be very &#8220;spiritual&#8221; or &#8220;conscious&#8221;, you&#8217;ll need it even more! Why? Because your upper chakras are well developed but your grounded lower chakras, the ones that control finances, security etc. may be disabled. If you&#8217;re brilliant at managing your money and you&#8217;re already wealthy, you probably don&#8217;t have money issues with your first and second chakra (although you may have issues with your upper chakras).</p>
<p>To find out, I highly suggest you check out Margaret Lynch&#8217;s 7 Levels of Wealth Manifestation. Here&#8217;s the link:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4574783"> 7 Levels of Wealth Manifestation</a></p>
<p>Blessings,</p>
<p>Dr. Karen Kan</p>
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<h1>Are your &#8220;Chakras&#8221; limiting your income?</h1>
<p>OK, this is for you if you&#8217;re into &#8220;new age&#8221; lingo,  so if you&#8217;re already asking, &#8220;What&#8217;s a Chakra?&#8221; this info might be too &#8220;far out&#8221; for you, but&#8230;</p>
<p>On the other hand, if you&#8217;ve worked your butt off like I have over the years, have helped a ton of people and are generous with your time and energy but don&#8217;t have a lot of green stuff in the bank to show for it, maybe you&#8217;ll want to know a little more.</p>
<p>All day long at my office, I&#8217;m helping my patients release negative energy and negative thoughts which might be preventing them from healing. One of the tools I use is EFT, Emotional Freedom Technique. It is quick and easy and is based on tapping acupuncture points to release stored or stuck negative energy.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been trained as an energy healer so I work with the energy centers of the body, called chakras. There are seven major energy centers in the body and they represent different aspects of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being. Having open, balanced and full chakras means that you&#8217;re happy, healthy and abundant.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/seven-chakras.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-353" title="seven-chakras" src="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/seven-chakras-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>It never dawned on me until I found out about Margaret Lynch&#8217;s work that I have chakra &#8220;vows&#8221; that are imprinted within my energy system, and that these vows can literally be sabotaging my prosperity, no matter how prosperity- conscious or abundantly-minded I try to be.</p>
<p>After I viewed Margaret&#8217;s first free EFT tapping video, I was hooked. It made so much sense to me WHY I&#8217;ve struggled financially all those years and what blocks I may still have to release to truly manifest wealth and abundance. I want to share this valuable information with you, so Margaret said I could share the free video series with you, my readers.</p>
<p>Just go <strong><a href="http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?Clk=4562400" target="_blank">HERE </a></strong>to register for the free tapping video training. If you&#8217;re into personal growth, this is perfect for you.</p>
<p>Margaret is such a fantastic teacher. I should know. I come from a family of fantastic teachers. Well, she&#8217;s now one of my new coaches! (I have several and you should too).</p>
<p>Happy Tapping and Happy Receiving (Abundance)!</p>
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<p><em>“Whether you think that you can, or that you can&#8217;t, you are usually right.”</em> ~Henry Ford</p>
<p>So true are the words of Henry Ford as he describes the power of the mind and the thoughts we think&#8230;</p>
<p>Whether you think you can &#8211; or you think you can&#8217;t &#8211; YOU&#8217;RE RIGHT!!!</p>
<p>But, let&#8217;s be honest. We&#8217;ve been brought up to believe that the world isn&#8217;t an easy place to navigate&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;and we&#8217;ve been taught that it&#8217;s down right HARD to manifest wealth, health, and happiness. We think we CAN&#8217;T the majority of the time because&#8230; the biggest blockade to manifesting our desires is, well&#8230; the BLOCKADE of limiting beliefs we&#8217;ve downloaded from parents, schools, the media, etc.</p>
<p>We&#8217;re our own worst enemies when it comes to deliberately using the Law of Attraction to create what we want! These unconscious blocks run almost like a software VIRUS in the background of our computer-like brains constantly.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s funny&#8230; people know there&#8217;s SOMETHING blocking their desires, but they can&#8217;t seem to put their finger on it.</p>
<p>Maybe they&#8217;ve tried psychotherapy, hypnosis, EFT, self-help books, workshops &#8211; you  name it &#8211; anything to help&#8230; to make a clean slate&#8230; to have a fresh start&#8230;</p>
<p>But unfortunately, they have little or no success.</p>
<p>But there&#8217;s good news! I&#8217;ve discovered something so unique &#8211; so cutting-edge &#8211; I can&#8217;t wait to introduce you to it!</p>
<p>Amazingly, it is GUARANTEED to remove the software virus running in your head&#8230;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a revolutionary product &#8211; no, downright EXTRAORDINARY &#8211; and you&#8217;ll be amazed at what it can do, and how &#8211; just by following some simple steps &#8211; you CAN be successful attracting what you desire.</p>
<p>Take a moment to watch the short video at the following link:</p>
<p>Look at this:</p>
<p><a href="https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2860620&#038;referrer=861136" target="_blank">https://www.plimus.com/jsp/redirect.jsp?contractId=2860620&#038;referrer=861136</a></p>
<p>I was pleasantly surprised by the answer. I think you will be too!</p>
<p>Blessings,</p>
<p>Dr. Karen Kan<br />
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<h1>When it&#8217;s Time to Fire Your Downline</h1>
<p>OK, today I got mad.</p>
<p>Granted, I usually don&#8217;t get angry very often, but I know it is human to get angry once in a while and that&#8217;s OK, as long as one doesn&#8217;t stay angry or take it out on anyone. Hence, I&#8217;m writing a blog.</p>
<p>Keep in mind that I tend to get fired up when there is a big earthquake or storm coming, so maybe that&#8217;s why I got angry. We won&#8217;t know for sure until tomorrow. Nevertheless, I actually got angry at someone today and it was a member of my downline.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/codependency.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-341" title="codependency" src="http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/codependency-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>Sheila, (not her real name), signed up with me at pretty much the lowest level of our company. She gave the product a good try and got results although in her case, not as stellar as she had hoped. She never stuck to the training schedule we had so after two sessions, she just stopped showing up. I wasn&#8217;t expecting much from her because over the years I learned that anyone who signs up at the lowest level of a company and never upgrades isn&#8217;t really serious about doing the business.</p>
<p>Seeing that she was no longer purchasing product from our company, I asked her if I could take her off my email list so she isn&#8217;t inundated with email, and surprisingly she said &#8220;no&#8221;. Months pass and every once in a while I get an email from her asking me to check out another product or MLM opportunity.</p>
<p>Usually if the product was health related, I&#8217;d courteously check it out. Once I even did a three-way call and bought several months worth to try out for myself. I always responded to Sheila whenever she had a question and I felt I could be helpful.</p>
<p>Sheila often hints in her emails about how much money &#8220;we&#8221; could be making with her new opportunities and I usually end up gently counseling her to try focusing on one that she&#8217;s passionate about and not spread herself so thin. I&#8217;m still working on doing that myself so the adage, &#8220;We teach what we have to learn&#8221; would be appropriate here&#8230;</p>
<p>So this week, Sheila emails me questions about my marketing strategies and how much it costs, how I created it, etc. Intending to be helpful to her, I took the time to ask some more questions of her and answered her as best I could, giving her references, names and contact information for consultants I use.</p>
<p>Then, unexpectedly, I get an email from Shiela trying to sell ME on a marketing strategy that she feels will make us lots of money&#8230;. and <em>immediately I feel used</em>. I was being sold to and it didn&#8217;t feel good!</p>
<p>Had I known that she was going to trounce in to try to get me to join another MLM opportunity (this time selling a marketing strategy) instead of honestly wanting advice on her marketing strategy, I would not have wasted my time in answer her marketing questions. Very sneaky. Not cool.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong. Sheila is good person and her heart is in the right place. I just didn&#8217;t appreciate being offered yet another opportunity to give money to her for something I neither need nor want.</p>
<p>So since she is not an active member of my team, I&#8217;m taking her off my email list and I told her that I didn&#8217;t want her to sell me on anything else from now on. We&#8217;re done. I&#8217;m not wasting my time any longer. There are plenty of other people out there willing to take my advice and DO something with it.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s a list of Downline-Member Red Flags that you may wish to check out so that you don&#8217;t fall into the same trap I did.</p>
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<li>Has he/she committed to the trainings you/your upline have offered and followed through on them?</li>
<li>Is she/he a chronic opportunity seeker but not a do-er, going from opportunity after opportunity looking for the Holy Grail (or has the &#8220;grass is greener&#8221; mentally)?</li>
<li>How much energy is she/he putting forth in relation to what you are contributing to your relationship and is it balanced?</li>
<li>How much, if any, of the advice or counsel you or an upline has suggested has she/he followed through on?</li>
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<p>Sometimes, I&#8217;m &#8220;too nice&#8221; and then I pay for it. My very successful upline, George H., says that he&#8217;s open to joining other MLM companies if he likes the product and would like to get it wholesale as long as the other person also joins HIS company. Hmmm, what a novel idea. Sounds good to me just about now!</p>
<p>Just a caveat, though, about doing this&#8230;check with your company&#8217;s policies about joining other MLM opportunities. Many companies do not allow this. So just double check before you &#8220;exchange&#8221; opportunities with someone else.</p>
<p>You know, I&#8217;m still amazed at how many people automatically think that I&#8217;m going to just jump on the bandwagon because they think their company is the greatest thing since apple pie. News Flash! I&#8217;m known world-wide for my contributions to my company (humble way of saying &#8220;famous&#8221;) and I love my company, so why would I jump ship and start all over again?</p>
<p>Sometimes people aren&#8217;t thinking straight. But I hope you are!</p>
<p>So be willing to get rid of your downline members who aren&#8217;t contributing, aren&#8217;t buying product, and who are zapping your time and energy. You&#8217;ll make room (we call it the <em style="font-size: small;">Void</em> in Law of Attraction terminology) for new people to come in!</p>
<p>Dr. Karen<br />
P.S. It isn&#8217;t &#8220;mean&#8221; to fire your downline. It does them a heck of a lot of good too. I teaches them to respect other people&#8217;s time and energy. Being &#8220;too nice&#8221; means being co-dependent and that&#8217;s the LAST thing you want to be with your downline!</p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s a great article by Teresa Romain that I just love. It&#8217;s it true that if we don&#8217;t think we can do something &#8220;perfectly&#8221; or &#8220;ideally&#8221; in our business, we often end up doing nothing? I&#8217;ve been victim to that kind of habit, and little did I recognize it as a form of SCARCITY thinking.</p>
<p>So read Teresa&#8217;s awesome article and tell me what you think in the comment section. Can you relate?</p>
<h1>&#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; &#8211; In Its Many Disguises&#8230;</h1>
<p>The &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; pattern is a pattern that I&#8217;ve recognized in myself and most of the people I&#8217;ve worked with over the years. It&#8217;s also one that I see throughout our society. In many ways, our culture feeds &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; thinking and behavior.</p>
<p>Quite simply, &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; thinking is another version of &#8220;Not Enough&#8221; thinking. Anything less than ALL is &#8220;not enough&#8221; so what happens is that we do NOTHING. And then, if we ever get around to doing it ALL, we do NOTHING else and fall behind in all other areas of life. Or we exhaust ourselves in the process and have NOTHING left after doing it ALL. We create a chain reaction of excess and collapse, all or nothing &#8212; all of which leads to scarcity.</p>
<p>The key to breaking out of this pattern is to EMBRACE a little word that usually never occurs to us while we&#8217;re in the grips of it. That word is &#8220;something&#8221;. The way to break out of the scarcity spiral of &#8220;all or nothing&#8221; is to do SOMETHING.</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re caught on the &#8220;nothing&#8221; end of the spectrum, do ONE thing. Take a SMALL step.</p>
<p>When you&#8217;re caught in the &#8220;All&#8221; end of the spectrum, do a SMALLER number of things or spend a LIMITED (and smaller) amount of time and then STOP. Come back to it again later and do SOME more.</p>
<p>Like I said, I&#8217;ve taught this principle for years. Unfortunately, I don&#8217;t always remember to practice it myself. Thus, the present (and chaotic) state of our &#8220;garage/storage room&#8221; area.</p>
<p>During the rainy and wet Spring we had this year, water seeped in along two walls of this storage room. As soon as we noticed it, we quickly worked to get things off the floor. We just started putting boxes and other things any place we could where they would stay dry. And we planned to clean it up once the weather got warmer.</p>
<p>I also keep my workshop supplies in that room&#8230; so in April I had to sort through my boxes to find the things I needed for my April workshop. When it was over, I just piled them in amidst the other piles &#8211; telling myself &#8220;We&#8217;re going to have to organize things later &#8211; so I won&#8217;t bother organizing this stuff now.&#8221;</p>
<p>(BIG mistake!)</p>
<p>As time went by, the project of &#8220;cleaning out this storage room&#8221; loomed larger and larger. My workshop in July created more of a mess. Then I had one in September. And now we&#8217;ve had a frost &#8211; so now we&#8217;ve thrown apples and squash and tomatoes into the mess too. And we need more room for the things we haven&#8217;t harvested yet.</p>
<p>So &#8211; guess what?</p>
<p>This weekend &#8211; when the weather is going to be dry and sunny and warm &#8211; I&#8217;m going to be spending ALL (or most of) Saturday working with my husband getting this area organized and straightened out. I&#8217;m not looking forward to it. But I know it must be done and I know it will be done.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the thing. It won&#8217;t be done in the way either Dan or I had originally wanted or intended. This spring, we planned on taking everything out so we could clean up the carpet better where it got wet. And we were going to go through the boxes and get rid of things we no longer needed. Ultimately, we were going to have less in that room &#8211; and have what was left be more organized and easily accessible.</p>
<p>And it was that picture of HOW we wanted to do it that made it seem an even more overwhelming project. So we did nothing (other than to make the mess even bigger).</p>
<p>This weekend, what&#8217;s probably going to happen is that we are going to move out the boxes&#8230; vacuum the carpet&#8230; and then put the same boxes back in &#8211; just in a more organized manner and OFF the floor (in case of future water). We may throw out some things&#8230; but it won&#8217;t be to the degree we had planned. That&#8217;s all the time we have to give to it this weekend.</p>
<p>But we set it up that way &#8211; because we&#8217;ve been doing &#8220;nothing&#8221; all summer. Had I gone through one box each week all summer, this weekend we&#8217;d only need to spend a couple of hours doing some final organizing. Had I even taken the time after each of my workshops to organize or re-organize my supplies, we&#8217;d be in better shape.</p>
<p>(But, of course, I thought I didn&#8217;t have enough time to do that. So now I have to spend a whole day instead of 30 minutes! &lt;sad face&gt;)</p>
<p>This is a classic example of &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221;. Which is one of the reasons I chose to share it in today&#8217;s letter. But as I was thinking about it, I also realized it was important that I expose some of the different &#8220;disguises&#8221; this pattern can take.</p>
<p>For example, in terms of cleaning our garage, the disguised &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; pattern I sabotaged myself with sounded like &#8220;It-has-to-be-done-THIS-particular-way or Nothing&#8221;. So we did nothing. And now we&#8217;re not even going to do it &#8220;THIS particular way&#8221;.</p>
<p>Here are some of the other disguises I&#8217;ve learned to recognize are just variations of the same &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; pattern. Do you recognize any of them?</p>
<p>&#8220;I-have-to-do-it-RIGHT or nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It-has-to-be-PERFECT or nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It-has-to-be-done-MY-WAY or nothing/not at all&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It-has-to-be-BIG or nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It-has-to-happen-FAST/TODAY/NOW or nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I-have-to-see-some-RESULTS or nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It-has-to-look-like-THIS or nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I-have-to-know-it-all or I-know-nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It-has-to-be-done-once-and-for-all or nothing/I-won&#8217;t-even-start&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure there are many other variations and disguises to this pattern I&#8217;ve yet to discover. (If you think of any &#8211; I&#8217;d love to hear them!) But I&#8217;m hoping this gives you the awareness you need to be able to (1) recognize this pattern for the scarcity pattern it is and (2) break free of the pattern by doing SOMETHING (then stopping) and then doing SOMETHING (then stopping) and so on.</p>
<p>Looking at my garage, I am keenly aware of the consequences of acting in this manner all summer and how, in fact, doing NOTHING actually makes what we need to do BIGGER. I keep thinking of the quote by the great UCLA basketball coach, John Wooden&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;If you don&#8217;t have time to do it right,</p>
<p>when will you have time to do it over?&#8221;</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t have enough time all summer to go through one or two boxes or to re-organize my workshop supplies as I used them. (Well &#8211; that&#8217;s the lie I told myself.) So now I&#8217;m going to spend a large amount of time this weekend on it &#8211; time that I would much rather be using doing something else.</p>
<p>And we won&#8217;t be doing it the way we wanted to last Spring. It won&#8217;t look like what I wanted. I&#8217;ve been FORCED to let go of that ideal by the approach of winter. If I had been WILLING to let go of that ideal four months ago, our garage would probably already be done and I&#8217;d be able to go on a picnic on Saturday instead.</p>
<p>Which, I hope, will serve as a reminder to me going forward. To practice something. To keep it simple. And to take the little chunks of time I need to do so along the way &#8211; so I won&#8217;t need as many BIG chunks in the future.</p>
<p>And my garage will give me a great opportunity for practice &#8211; and a catalyst for learning. We&#8217;ll see next Spring how I&#8217;m doing&#8230; <img src='http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>So, there you have it, Karen &#8211; my latest reminder of the importance of reclaiming my power from the &#8220;All or Nothing&#8221; pattern. And some of the disguises and variations it can take.</p>
<p>Could you relate to anything I shared? Did me sharing my own story give you any AHAs or insights? Do you have a &#8220;garage-like&#8221; project that you&#8217;ve been doing NOTHING around like me?</p>
<p>Are you in a &#8220;RIGHT or nothing&#8221; or &#8220;PERFECT or nothing&#8221; or &#8220;MY WAY or not-at-all&#8221; pattern in some area of your life? How can you use the &#8220;something&#8221; principle (and then STOPPING) to break out of that pattern?</p>
<p>As always, Karen, I&#8217;d love to hear your responses and reactions. And know that I WILL personally reply to you if you do email me &#8211; although it probably won&#8217;t be on Saturday! As you know, I have other plans for that day! <img src='http://www.mlmbusinessleaders.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p><em>Teresa Romain is the President &amp; Founder of <a href="http://www.AccessAbundance.com" target="_blank">www.AccessAbundance.com</a> and has trained and coached thousands of individuals around the world access and experience greater freedom, fulfillment, well-being and abundance in their businesses and their lives. Unique in her approach and dynamic and passionate in her style, Teresa is known for making the transformational process of accessing abundance challenging, fun and powerful in its results.</em></p>
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