I'm just a nobody...

When I was walking through the crowd the other day, the question below popped up in my mind all of a sudden:

Who am I? 我是谁? Sino ako?

Who cares to know my name? I’m just a nobody …

Life is always a matter of choice. As a matter of fact, all of us have different views in life. You might feel that life is just one damned thing after another. On the other hand, some might believe that life is worth living. Whatever it is, you are the one who decides your life…happy or sad, poor or rich, good or bad… The choice is in your hand. So, what is your choice?

Political Drama in Perak is just like another soap opera. Such a dramatic change is indeed out of our expectation. The “loss” of Pakatan government in Perak is not only a bitter lesson for the Pakatan Rakyat but also for Perak people. Those “fellas” never respect the spirit of democratic and Perak people who had elected them. And of course they put their self interests above party and Rakyat.

The people of Perak have been robbed!!!!!

This country is hopeless…

Lover Vs Husband

Before marriage, a man declares that he would lay down his life to serve you; after marriage, he won’t even lay down his newspaper to talk to you. It is because for them it is easier to be a lover than a husband for the simple reason that it is more difficult to be witty every day than to say pretty things from time to time.

A marriage joke to share…

A man was invited for dinner at a friend’s house.

Every time the host needed something, he preceded his request to his wife by calling her “My Love”, “Darling”, “Sweetheart”, etc., etc.

His friend looked at him and said, “That’s really nice after all of these years you’ve been married to keep saying those little pet names.”

The host said, “Well, honestly, I’ve forgotten her name.”

Happy New Year 2009!

Mmmm… This hot dog looks delicious, you can have it! Want some coffee? ROTFLMAO!

If you’ve got a significant other half, I believe you will always think of the way keeping the spark of your relationship alive. As a matter of fact, you will try to find ways to show you appreciate each other, every week and every day, every minute and every second if possible. That’s something what I call romantic! And for me, I will look for little, inexpensive ways to be romantic and wish it will pay off for my relationship in innumerable ways. Being a romantic person, I asked Donkey out for candle dinner last night. I rode motorcycle instead of using car. You might think that we had a sweet romantic ride in the moon light all the way to restaurant. Well, that’s what I hoped actually. However, thing never worked out according to my will! We ‘enjoyed’ a heavy downpour half way… Perhaps snuggling together on a rainy night is also a romantic moment… :haha:

My mood is not really good recently… The weather is horrible, never ending works… I have been drained of my passion, positive attitude and creativity… Irritable and stressed, I feel like wanting to kill the next person who says my name! I know I have been affected by workplace negativity! I know I shouldn’t listen to others too much… But I just can’t stop myself…

Negativity occurs in the attitude, outlook, and talk of one department member, or in a crescendo of voices responding to a workplace decision or event.

Workplace negativity may seem like an intangible problem, but it has very tangible consequences… It’s like a seemingly dormant volcano. It will boil beneath the surface, and bubble up and overflow to cause serious damage one day.

Hmmm… How to kick this “negativity virus” away? :thinking:

…I make a mistake!

Life it seems is a struggle between what we think and what we see or hear.

Too often in life we are facing the following situation:

Pig vs Bitch

A man is driving down a road. A woman is driving down the same road from the opposite direction. As they pass each other…
The woman leans out the window and yells ‘PIG!’
The man immediately leans out his window and yells, ‘BITCH!!’

They each continue on their way and as the man rounds the next bend he crashes into a huge pig in the middle of the road.

I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I’m not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.

Sometime what you hear or see is not what you think! Isn’t it?

:thinking:

As we all know, help is one of the most difficult things to get in the present day and age. All too often, people get stuck because they feel they do not know how to ask for help in their workplace. Inevitably, if you want to succeed in your career you will need the help of others. Getting help may have less to do with your authority and formal position. It is more to do with your strategy and approach, which can range from a simple favor to convincing others to accept a priority of yours as if it were their own. Read on to discover some of the most amazing facts on how to get anyone to help you.

To enlist the help of others, you need to ask for help. Most people are more than willing to give you a hand provided you must ask for their help at the very first place. However, you must define what needs to be done before asking for help. The more you can identify specifically the help you need and the tasks to be done, the better. Remember, fuzzy goals lead to fuzzy results. By defining all the tasks required, you increase the likelihood of success. So, swallow your pride, and just ask!

When you make a general request for volunteers perhaps during a meeting, never ever make it sounds like “Whoever doesn’t have much of anything to do can work on this.” Your chances of getting someone to volunteer thus tend to be slim. However, if you think about who might best be able to help with a task and then specifically ask that person for help, your odds of getting him or her to accept the task increase dramatically. For instance, “Max, I’m putting together a team to design a new product. Your expertise in marketing analysis for sure can help us to make the right decision. Can we count on you to join us?”

The important thing to remember is to always say Thank You for their assistance. Thank and acknowledge others for their help. You may send a personal note of thanks or perhaps a nice personal e-mail thank you is certainly a great choice in this information age. The person will feel that his or her time and energy were appreciated. In addition, you will likely be able to call on the person again in the future for assistance. People are glad to help those who appreciate their efforts.

Think about what your life would be like if nobody helps you at certain stage of your life when you need them? Your achievement will be limited if you limit yourself to only the things you can do without help from others. So, if you have a good idea in an area where you lack the necessary skills, knowledge or experiences, think it through and show others how they can help achieve the desired result. Ask, and you shall receive, the help you need to make your life a success!