I now have about a year and a half to complete everything on my list. Unfortunately, I’ve only completed about 25% of my list. I still have 77 things left to complete.

Know what that means? It’s time to get to business.

Some Things I’ve Completed So Far

• Write and publish another ebook. Completed 08/25/2010
• Relax in a hot spring. Completed 03-26-2010
• Spend the day at a water park. Completed 08-20-2009

Some Things I Still Have to Do

• Sing Karaoke
• Learn basic breakdancing floor moves
• Start a poetry book

I have my work cut out for me, but I’m still optimistic. Yes, it’s a lot to do in a year and a half, but I’m a strong woman. I can do it.

How is your 101 things going? Have you completed a lot of it? How much time do you have left?

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“The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack in will.”
- Vince Lombardi

Will is the biggest thing stopping you. Or, rather, a lack of it. If you aren’t actually trying to reach your goals, to have a better life, to get to the next chapter of your career, to improve your health, you’ll never get there.

Because a truly amazing life doesn’t happen when you just sit there, waiting for it to come.

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There are good reasons to change and achieve goals. And then there are bad reasons.

But how do you identify a bad reason for having a goal?

It all boils down to whether you actually want to change.

So ask yourself these questions…

• Did I come up with this goal on my own?
• Was this goal suggested to me by others?
• Did I choose this goal because I felt pressured?
• Does thinking about the end result make me happy?
• Did I choose this goal because it’s what I think I’m supposed to be?
• Do I know, deep down, that this goal/change is good for me?
• Do I actually want this change?

After answering these questions, you’ll have a better understanding of why you want to change.

Healthy Reasons to Reach a Goal

• To improve as a person.
• To have a better life.
• It’s something I always wanted to do/be.
• It will make me healthier and live longer.
• I want to.

Unhealthy Reasons to Reach a Goal

• Someone told me to do it.
• I feel peer pressure.
• Only to make others happy.
• I’ve been given an ultimatum.
• I feel it’s how society wants me to be.

Now, there are two things you can do if you are trying to change for the wrong reasons: You can stop trying to achieve the goal, or you can come up with your own, healthier reasons for doing it.

Because, really, you need to achieve your dreams and become a better you because you want to, and not because of other people.

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Then you might want to try The 30 Day Ultimate Beauty Makeover, a new ebook by me, Trisha Bartle. While it gives real tips for improving your wardrobe, hair and makeup, it also helps you achieve higher self esteem and a better life.

I wrote this book because so many women only worry about what’s on the outside. Though how you present yourself on the outside is important, so is how you feel on the inside. This book covers both aspects.

The 30 Day Ultimate Beauty Makeover provides over 40 pages of top content. Each day, read an informational chapter teaching you how to improve, plus both an assignment and extra credit to help you apply what you’ve learned. Here are some example days from the book:

• Day 2: Finding the Right Foundation for Your Face
• Day 8: Find Out Your Season
• Day 11: Sculpt the Perfect Eyebrows
• Day 15: Get Rid of Negative Things in Your Life
• Day 27: Surround Yourself With People You Love

Praise for The 30 Day Ultimate Beauty Makeover:

“This is not a boring how-to book but an essential guide to be a better you in a month. A lot of things can happen in a month but sometimes you don’t see changes. However, with a wonderful guide like this, I hope you will see some differences in your life.”
- Dao Lam of My Makeup Blog

You can buy The 30 Day Ultimate Beauty Makeover today for $4.99 as a PDF, EPUB, LRF, PDB or Kindle book.

Why did I have high blood pressure? I was overweight and inactive.

My doctor suggested I start exercising and losing weight. If you’ve struggled with weight, then you know how tough that really is. But after 2 years of taking blood pressure medicine every morning, my doctor took me off my medicine last July.

*Cue the celebration!*

She was so impressed that I’d lost 25 pounds, exercised every day and lowered my blood pressure. Let me tell you: it feels really good to have your doctor be proud of you and say things like “You look smaller! I can really tell!”

How did I do it? Well, the specifics will come on another day.

I just wanted to say that motivation can really change your life. I was finally motivated to improve my health. To stop taking medicine every day. To be a “normal” 20-something.

And with that motivation, I achieved my goal of fixing my blood pressure. And I continue to lose weight and feel great.

What have you done to reach your goals today?

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The goal to the 10 Days to Ultimate Beauty is to improve your beauty both inside and out. And since this has to do with goals and motivation (though beauty-related), I thought I’d tell all of my Motivation Files readers as well.

So go check out the 10 Days to Ultimate Beauty over at Makeup Files.

“How am I going to live today in order to create the tomorrow I’m committed to?”

- Anthony Robbins

Anthony Robbins is one of the most famous motivational speakers in the world. I’ll admit, I have one of his books: Awaken the Giant Within.

Like Robbins says, you can do something every day that will slowly work toward the life you want. Even if it’s something small, each little thing will help you reach your goals.

Have you done something today to reach your goals tomorrow? If not, you’d best start now.

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I had that problem.

I had such lofty goals, that I never seemed to get to the finish line. I was afraid that I just wasn’t able to do it. In short, I needed proof that I could reach a goal.

To prove to myself that I can reach my goals, I made an easy, fun goal to do each day for a month.

Halloween Movie Month: A Case Study

I love movies. I watch one about every other day. I also love horror movies. In September of 2009 I decided to start a Halloween Movie Month for the month of October to celebrate Halloween. I vowed to watch a Halloween movie (horror, scary-themed comedy, or a movie with Halloween in it) every day of October.

For added incentive, I also vowed to post what movie I watched on my personal Facebook account, along with a short synopsis/review, for all my friends and family to see.

Fun Results

Not only did I achieve my goal of watching a Halloween movie every day, I had fun! It was exciting to watch each movie and post about it. I expected my Facebook friends to ignore my updates about it every day, but most of them really enjoyed it. Some even said they looked forward to it every day.

Afterward, I felt really good about myself that I accomplished this goal. Even though it was something that I liked to do and wasn’t too big of a stretch to complete, the completion motivated me to do more. Since then, I’ve done other 30 day challenges, including counting calories and exercising every day.

Not only that, I plan to do another Halloween Movie Month for October 2010, this time with a completely new list of Halloween-themed movies.

Now It’s Your Turn

If you’re having trouble reaching your goals, make your own fun 30-day challenge. Here’s how:

1. Pick something you like to do, whether it’s reading books, going for hikes or drawing pictures.
2. Make a vow to do that thing every single day for a month. If you like reading, vow to read 50 pages of a book each day (you’ll finish a few books in a months time). If you like drawing, you could vow to draw a different self portrait every day. Or, if you like hiking, you could vow to go for a half-hour hike each day.
3. Update social media with your daily results. Whether from Facebook, Twitter or your personal blog, update your readers and friends every day once you’ve done what you promised. Even if it’s a simple, “I walked today!”, the accountability will help you stay motivated.
4. Celebrate once the month is over. Reaching your goals, even if they’re simple and fun, is something you should celebrate. Have a party or buy yourself something nice.
5. Make a new goal. Now that you have the momentum created from reaching your goal, don’t stop. Make a brand new goal. This time, try something a bit harder. If you could reach the other goal, you can reach this one, too.

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I’ve tried so many different methods, it’s hard to count. I’ve found, through my travels, that some methods work a lot better than others. Not only that, what may work for one person may not for another.

If you’ve found a good method for tracking and achieving your goals for yourself, I (and my readers) would like to hear it.

How often do you use this method? How long did you take to find it? What have you achieved in your life using this method?

Let us know in the comments!

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I found some things difficult (the cardio in Level One, all of those darn planks in Level Two) and some things easy (most upper body strength moves). Overall, I really did feel a change not just in the way that I looked, but the way I felt, too.

First, let’s get the cold hard facts out of the way.

Following the Numbers

Sure, I could tell you how much I weighed then and how much I weighed now, but it isn’t about the actual weight. It’s about how much I’ve changed.

• Weight: –8.8 lb.
• Bicep: –0.5 in.
• Forearm: –0.5 in.
• Chest: No Change
• Upper Waist: –1.5 in.
• Waist: –0.75 in.
• Hips: –2.25 in.
• Thigh: –1 in.
• Calf: –1 in.

That means I’ve lost a total of 8.8 pounds and 7.5 inches overall.

Other Changes

While I look better overall, I’ve noticed the most changes in my shoulders, back and ankles. I’m not surprised about the shoulders and back. The 30 Day Shred has a lot of moves for these areas in all three levels of difficulty. A change in my ankles/calves is the surprising thing. I’ve lost weight before and I’ve never noticed the lower portion of my legs getting skinnier. I’m very pleased with that.

I also feel better in general. That was one of the first things I noticed after starting The Shred. While the workout may have been tough at the time, I always felt amazing afterward and for the rest of the day. I feel like I could handle a lot more activity than I used to.

Future Plans

Although my 30 days are over, that doesn’t mean I’m done with working out, or even The Shred. I plan to vary things up now by alternating every day between all three levels. This way, my muscles won’t get used to the exercise and perhaps I’ll gain more muscle and lose more weight.

I’ve also added yoga in to my night routine. It’s a relaxing thing to do before bed.

So no, I’m not done working out or losing weight. Perhaps I’ll update Motivation Files with my progress as time goes by. You may even see a before-and-after picture or two!

If you’ve done the 30 Day Shred, how were your end results?

30 Day Shred Synopsis

Want to read how my progress was as I went along? Here are all of my 30 Day Shred posts:

• Starting the 30 Day Shred
• 30 Day Shred – Day 5
• 30 Day Shred – Day 9
• 30 Day Shred – Day 14
• 30 Day Shred – Day 19
• 30 Day Shred – Day 25
• 30 Day Shred – Day 29