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		<title>Living proof of the benefits of practicing a mutuality mindest</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Oct 2021 16:10:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Via University of Oregon Alumni Association: Kare Anderson graduated from the School of Journalism and Communication in 1971. The speaker and writer now lives in the Bay Area, where she runs the Say it Better Center, her vehicle for promoting mutuality and connectivity. “I believe in paths,” said Anderson. “The path I had, I was [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Build a Community That Becomes the Go-to Place for Your Customers</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2021 15:27:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Contrary to that Groucho Marx line, “I wouldn’t join any club that would have me as a member,” smart companies are creating online “clubs” or communities where most anyone want to join and can. Take AARP, for example. Before hitting 50, practically everybody gets a mailed invitation. On their site you find considerable free information [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>17 Ways to Negotiate and Preserve Relationships</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2021 15:47:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[My early mentor, the legendary decision scientist and author of numerous books, Howard Raiffa once said, “It is often easier to deal with someone who is acting like a jerk who knows what he wants than a seemingly pleasant person who doesn’t.” 1. Anticipate What You Want Out Of A Situation Before You Go Into [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Deliver Presentations That Make Audiences Care</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2021 15:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In today&#8217;s time-starved, relationship-diminished world, audiences: &#8211; crave attention and connection with each other when they meet virtually or in person. And we continue to: &#8211; Want ready-to-use ideas &#8211; AND be entertained. These goals are often at odds when preparing a presentation that will make people rave about one&#8217;s program long afterwards. Consequently, successful [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Complex Times Call for Connective Leaders</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2021 18:13:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The higher the technology in our world, the higher the human touch needed. The most sought-after leaders today are, by nature, connective. They become the glue that holds diverse people together around strong sweet spots of shared interest where each person knows why they are involved and what they bring to the table. Looking back [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Like to Play A Better Role in Your Storytelling?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2021 19:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Are your most retold stories anchored by positively or negatively felt incidents? Those who are most resilient, energetic, caring, and involved with others tend to link their stories to redemptive themes. The role you most often play in the stories you tell reveals your view of the world, how friendly or hostile you are, and [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>6 Ways to Enjoy Your Life More</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2021 22:09:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some of our biggest inside battles involve changing habits to create a more meaningful, congenial life with others. Try six research-based tips for turning the page to the next chapter of the adventure story you are truly meant to live. &#8220;All of the significant battles are waged within the self,&#8221; wrote Sheldon Kopp. Some of [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Ten Ways To Become More Frequently Quoted</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2021 20:04:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Tell The Story That Tells The Story Dusk settled coolly over the misty emerald vineyards in Napa Valley one fall evening. Through the window, I gazed wistfully at a thin stream of bittersweet chocolate sauce a waiter was ladling high over a raspberry-colored cake a the table of a hand-holding couple, seated inside the big [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>How You Can Stay Sought-After</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2021 18:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There is widespread anxiety these days about technology taking away our jobs. There are several dire and comforting scenarios ahead points out Derek Thompson in a fascinating, in-depth article in The Atlantic: “A World Without Work.” Yet in his compelling book Humans Are Underrated, Geoff Colvin found that individuals with certain traits will always manage [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Make Stronger Friendships, Wiser Choices, and More Opportunity by Visualizing Your Circles of Connection</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kare Anderson]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2021 15:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When meeting Natasha, photographer Rick Smolan never imagined she’d be an emotional thread of continuity for his life. Human stories take unexpected turns, especially beginning in 2021 next year. I’ve got your back and you’ve got mine. That’s a mighty welcome feeling as we enter 2009. Why? Because, more than any of the last 25 [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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