So I’m sorry to disappoint you guys, but unless you start reading this blog religiously, you are going to be stuck with your hands for the rest of your lives checking out naked pictures of women you are never going to bang!  So start paying attention and start banging hot chicks today!  Ok enough of the sales pitch… Here are a few tips on how you can get women to want you, and if you follow these steps I guarantee that she’ll want to do more then just talk at the end of the date

Adjust your game to fit the woman

You’re not going to behave, or rather you shouldn’t behave the same with a lawyer versus a waitress. They’re going to have different tastes and different expectations. When you’re about to hook up for a date, ask her what types of things she likes and DO THEM. Don’t let the profession scare you… high power chicks are wild in bed. 

Body Language, Posture, etc…

When you are out with a woman, stand up tall… yes that’s right your mom was right. Standing up tall will make you appear taller, more confidant and more fit. Your body language is a huge indicator of your intentions but you’ve got to be able to read hers. If she’s crossing her arms, turning away or backing away from you, chances are you’ve pissed her off or she’s not interested… move on. If she’s leaning into you touch her shoulder, and nod your head like you actually are interested in what she’s saying. This leads to my next point.

ASK QUESTIONS

I can’t tell you how important this is. If she asks you a question, ASK her the same one back. Honestly this is the easiest one to do and the one guys fuck up all the time! This takes the guess work out of what to say to her, clearly she’s interested in this particular thing about you… so you showing the same interest will make it look like you actually care what College she went to or if she has pets.

Compliment something about her

Guys, this is another simple one. Tell her how hot she looks in those boots. Don’t tell her you want to her to keep those on and lose the rest but women spend HOURS preparing to hook up with you. Tell her how hot she looks, and try to sound like you mean it.

Open the Damn door and grab the check

You know there was a big fad years back of chicks wanting to be independent by opening their own doors and paying for dinner. But honestly guys, those women aren’t going to jump you on the first day anyways. People say chivalry is dead, prove her otherwise. She’ll think she’s found the last nice guy, and be more open to letting you open her bedroom door. And for gods sake, don’t let her pay for dinner!

The bottom line is you need to assess the situation at hand. Paying for dinner and complimenting her seem like trivial things but trust me they work. Make sure you shower before a date (I shouldn’t have to say it but I did), get some gum and put on CLEAN clothes. And for god’s sake when you’re talking to her, bring up her favorite subject… herself, you’ll look like you’re interested in her and you won’t have to talk about yourself!

The number one exciting factor of sex is the fact that nobody can really be certain of how things work in order for both parties to get their ultimate orgasm! Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that this is all about you and your partner screwing up because you or her simply suck in bed, nobody does. The art of sex is a skill developed the more frequently you fuck hot naked girls.

You might be all used to reading stuff over the web and in magazines on how you can do things right so she ends up wanting more of you. Fact is she doing the the same thing. She is as anxious as you are when it comes to satisfying your every desire! She also has a lot of question marks in her mind on how to handle your cock, your balls in her mouth, and how to bend over for you.

Why not make things simpler for both of you?  Here I am going to bluntly answer some questions your beautiful woman might be asking you.  All you have to do send your hot babe to this site.

“While I enjoy sex, I get quite intimidated by it. I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing especially when I am face to face with his groin. When I am down there, I feel like I’m acting blind. I’ve read about what to do with his shaft— and I guess I’ve gotten the hang of it— but I am clueless about what to do with his balls. Help!”

No-Grip Girl

No-Grip Girl appears to be all up for some down there action and would like to be a master of it. Chances are— your own girl might be asking the same exact question. After all, it takes time to master the art of blow job and each guy will always have his own preference on how her girl is to go down there. Lend her a guiding hand by giving her a chance to apply these steps as she works her way through sucking and licking your penis— and your ever sensitive balls!

Your balls (in case you are not aware of it) are very sensitive— literally and figuratively. They are rich with nerves which make them vulnerable even to the lightest hand strokes.  Therefore, they are great tickle points when stimulated the right way. Make this right way achievable to your girl by giving her instructions (through moans and some few words) and a hand in her head that will push her to the limits.

Step #1 Ask your girl to make a detour from your shaft down to your crown jewels.

As mentioned earlier, your balls are extremely sensitive and so you should have your girl start the foreplay gently and build intensity according to your reactions. Starting the thing, the usual way, will make her feel comfortable and will also help her achieve a slow-and-sure route towards pleasuring you through your balls.

Step #2 Ask your girl to swirl the tip of her tongue around your scrotum, or the loose sac skin around your balls.

There is no need for you to do anything from here. This is your time of enjoyment. Your own body will send her signals if she is doing everything correctly or not. In this phase, your balls will surely tense up in her tongue (I am speaking of firsthand experience) and your moans will already be a bit louder.

Step #3 Guide her to lick your balls with long sweeping strokes.

Ask her to think like as if she is savoring her favorite ice cream in a cone.

Step #4 Ask her to pucker up and suck lightly on the sac of your balls. She can also take one of your testicles (or both!) inside her mouth while sucking lightly.

This will be the ultimate pleasure amongst all. It is a complete let go that will have both of you driven out of your mind—you because of some near orgasmic-feeling and her because of the success she have just come to achieve.

Now, I am fairly aware that talking your way to have her do these things may be a little difficult. If you don’t have the guts to tell her how you wanted her to do her stuff down there, let me be of help by simply asking her to visit our page. After all, open communication is always healthy for a relationship. In fact, you might be even saving her from the hassle of googling her way for answers on her sex and relationship dilemmas over the web.

It is a sad fact that some of us last longer, some of us doesn’t. Premature ejaculation chooses no age but it is more common among younger men. Several factors like inexperience, anxiety, stress, illness, fear of failure and sexual orientation may also lead to this dysfunction. Whatever the reason maybe, there are some ways to help one get rid of this distressing and stressful situation. I have come across these psychological, mental and physical techniques that are sure to help you achieve a higher and better performance level during sex.

1. The first thing that you need to do is relax. Sex is supposed to be a pleasurable situation. One of the best ways to help you relax is to have a good massage or a hot bath. If you want, you can two share cozy times while sharing a hot bath together. This can even be a good way to kick off foreplay.
2. Another way to avoid Premature Ejaculation is by being confident about your body and your skills to please and touch your partner in all the right directions, imagine her screaming at the top of her lungs while you inject your meat upon her pussy. Imagine her screaming in delight as you lick her pussy up and down. This is a perfect ways to release tension, stress and anxiety as they are the main reason why Premature Ejaculation occurs.
3. Cut down on your drug and booze consumption. If you can’t stop it, try using it in moderation at least. Drugs are certainly out of the question. They are twin trouble that is sure to distract you from your concentration while making love. It can even make you incapable of erection.
4. Try “Distraction Technique” in order to help you overcome Premature Ejaculation. This technique is easy. Try thinking of something that is totally far from sex. Think of Paris, think of Thanksgiving, think of the Easter Bunny. If you think that it is safe to begin pumping and banging your partner again, go right back into the sack immediately.
5. Remember the famous adage, “Practice makes perfect?” I am so proud to let you know that this work. So go ahead, Masturbate! It is guaranteed to improve your performance in the bed.
6. Another method that you can try is called “The Squeeze Method”.  Tell your partner to put her hands in your penis with her thumb on the shaft’s base, the middle and index fingers are on the other side. Check if the index finger is above your penis’ head with her middle finger is below your penis’ ridge. Be sure to tell you partner that you are about to come so that she can then pinch your penis’ shaft firmly in between by the use of her thumb and two other fingers. This method will effectively stop the rush of blood into your penis as you come at the same time maintain erection.
7. Make your partner come quicker. A bit of hand here, a kiss there, finger here, oral there. Go ahead, be a scientist, explore the erogenous zones of her body.

With erection, earlier is never better. Sex is better when both partners enjoy the deed. They say sex is a need, and everyone needs to enjoy this sweet and carnal need as long as possible. After all, nobody wants to be a -1-2-3 kid.

You may think that your “Oh, baby” and “Oh, honey!” are enough to pay off her efforts of going down on your massive cock.  Or maybe “Oh ya that’s right hot stuff” is enough audio for her slamming her hot ass up and down on your balls while she rides the crap out of you?  Sure they love to hear shit like that, but going the extra mile won’t hurt and might even bring you the greatest sex of your life.

Throw her freaking name in their guys.  Hot chicks love hearing their names yelled out loud while they suck your cock or let you fuck them doggy style. The more you make it personal, the more she wants to fuck you. Throw her name in the air every now and then and stroke her ego. Stroking things on females is always a good thing!

Flatter Her Weak Spots

Here’s a fact, even Paris Hilton has insecurities in her smokin body. How does this affect you and your fucking and sex life? That girl your fucking right now probably feels insecure right now!  It can be anything from her flat boobs to her hair… who knows!  Even though you don’t care, she cares and these imperfections that you don’t mind might keep her from fully letting go and decreasing her enthusiasm towards letting you do her hot ass doggy style while you scream out her name.

Do this by flattering her weak spots. For example, if you are about to switch from missionary to doggie style and she is hesitant to allow her ass to come to you in full view, assure her of how fucking hot she is by telling her how you love how juicy her ass is so you can squeeze it as you cum in her tasty pussy.

Take Your Time

A lot of you guys get so damn excited that you are finally getting with a hot chick, that you just give it to her soo damn hard… and your done in like 3 minutes!  Where is the fun in that!?  For one you just wasted an opportunity to bang a beautiful hot chick for as long as you want.  Not only that, but she is going to think you are an idiot and useless for not making her cum!  Now every girl is different, some chicks will want more foreplay, while otherwise will want to just start fucking.  But where all girls are the same is that they do not want you to last less than 5 minutes!  That’s just crap!  Remember that geek in high school that everyone made fun of?  He could outlast you!  Make sure you make it count!  Bang her for at least 10 minutes in a position, then flip her over and do her doggy style or another 10… Then let her get on top and fuck you for a bit while you play with her massive tits.  Have some fun guys!

Give Details of Why She Rocks!

So once your done, if you’ve done everything right, you have made her feel comfortable, you took your time and fucked her like a champ, how do you close the deal and make sure she come back for more?  Make sure you praise her IN DETAIL for all the amazing things she did.  Don’t just say “That’ was great”!  You gota go into detail and tell her things like “When you sucked my cock and played with my balls in your mouth, that was the most ridiculous shit ever!  That was so damn amazing.. I can’t believe how amazing you are at that!”.  The best part about this, is she’s going to naturally want to do it more and more.  So make sure you freaking tell the truth!

Ok guys I gota run, one of my girl friends are coming over in an hour, and I have to go get ready to fuck the crap out of this hot beautiful lady.  Have a wicked night!

The first thing you have to realize about the internet is that everything on the internet is free.  Beautiful women like the one you see in the picture to your right are available within seconds, naked, and you don’t need to spend any money!  One of the easiest ways of course to find hot naked girls is to do a Google search for “Hot Naked Girls” and then clicking over to image search.  You will be pretty happy with your results!

But what if you want to see videos?  What if you want to see different categories of porn like Blondes, Brunettes, Red Heads, Big Tits, Thongs?  Believe it or not there are free sites out there that will find all this awesome content for you, and make it available free!  So look no further, we are about to reveal the top 2 porn web sites on the internet that will find the hot naked girls you have been looking for!

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If you haven’t heard of free6.com yet, you need to get your ass over there right now!  This site is by far one of the best free online porn sites out there.  If you are looking for the perfect hot naked girl, you will find her on this site.  They have a ridiculous list of categories that you can sort through, and you can even select if you want to see pictures only, or videos only, or both.  It’s super simple to use even a dummy could figure it out.  The question really is, how long can you last on the site before you need to re-charge your batteries.

The YouTube for Porn, RedTube

So if that wasn’t enough for you, you need to go check out RedTube.com.  This is freaking awesome. Want to watch a blonde with huge tits suck the crap out of your meat?  This is the site for you.  They have over 11,000 videos, and most of them are freaking amazing.  There are so many naked women on this site that I can’t even begin to describe the quality of porn you are going to find on here.  While you are there, you should feel free to upload some home videos of maybe your hot wife making some magic on camera!

Anyway my horny friends, these are just two sites that you should go check out right now if you’ve never seen them before.  Once you are done, you should prepare yourself to go fuck some hot naked girls!  This site is packed full of ways that you can improve your fucking skills, and get laid by only the most beautiful women that you deserve. Through Mr. X Dating, I will teach you how to find the right girls that will want sexually attack you, and other girls.  You will learn how to find girls that are insatiable in their lust for your cock, and won’t stop until they have you!

So have you always wanted to experience a threesome with your wife another beautiful woman, but now you’re married and you think it’s never going to happen now!  You are dead wrong!  You have the best chance of your life now that you’re married!  Remember your wife is just as horny as you are, so chances are she has thought about it at least a few times, and just needs you to get her primed and ready to explore a little.  So let’s put together an awesome plan to make sure that you have a threesome with your wife sooner than you think!

The first thing you need to do is get her into the mood.  It’s good to start with some good threesome porn.  Once you get her watching threesome porn with you, it will be pretty easy to get her on board with a threesome.  She will start to fantasize about having a threesome with a beautiful woman.  The nice thing about having the internet these days is that you can find pretty much any porn you want online.  If you are not the shy type

Ok now that you have her thinking about it, it’s time to slowly start hinting that you might actually be into having a threesome.  While you’re watching some porn, just mention that you might actually be into doing what you’re watching on the television.  Chances are she will be turned on by the thought of being so naughty.  Next, you should try and have a nice night without porn, and just have a good time having some wine, playing cards by a candle, and just chatting.  Your goal here is to set a nice relaxing mood where you can chat about your secret desire.

As the night goes on, mention that you were serious the other day, and are wondering if it’s something she would consider trying.  Tell her that you really want to experience something new together, and that this might be an awesome experience you both can share. You will be shocked at how the beautiful woman across the table from you starts to open up to the idea of having a threesome with you and another woman.

Now for all the benefits of convincing your woman to have sex with another beautiful and sexy lady.  You will see your sex life totally skyrocket into the stratosphere!  She is going to be horny all the time and want to have sex pretty much every day, if not many times a day.  She will go to work and have nothing but sex on her mind.  Now you think I’m full of shit, but it’s true.

It sounds simple, but any moron can follow these steps and get their wife to beg them to let another woman join in on the action and have a threesome with another beautiful woman.  The question really is, can you handle the crazy amount of sex you are about to have with all sorts of beautiful women?

It was pretty easy.  Your goal should be to find the hottest girl you can find, and get her to scream your name out by the end of the night.  There is no reason you should be settling for any chick who comes along.  In order to get that hot girl in the next few weeks, get out a piece of paper and get ready to write down everything that comes to mind when you think of that perfect female that you would love to fuck like a champ!

There are three key things you need to do in order to bag that hot chick you want to take home.

1. Remember that she is probably so hot that most guys stay away.
2. The guys that talk to her are probably full of themselves.
3. She wants to meet a nice guy that she can fuck tonight!

See now it doesn’t seem as bad does it!  Ok, now it’s time to take out that piece of paper and write down every detail you can about the hot girl you want to find tonight!  What color is her hair, what size are her breasts, what color is her skin, what does she smell like, what color are her eyes.  Ok now that you have all that written down, you are ready to go dude!  Your brain should be fired up and ready to find that chick.  You should remember the things we just talked about, she wants you to find her.  And you should have nothing to worry about when it comes to finding her.

See your brain is like a heat seeking missile.  Once it has exactly what you want it to find, and it knows what to do when it finds it, you are going to find that hot girl no matter how stupid you are!  Science is brilliant boys.  Enjoy the sex tonight!

1. Get ready for dating. If you really want to pound away in the dating game, decide what kind of woman you want, research the woman, and commit to getting the woman you want!  Seriously, I have some awesome tips here if you want to know what to do before you get ready for the date.

2. Get your act together. Begin a plan of looking your best all the time. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your long shaggy hair cut or styled and begin a new plan of looking awesome!  Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself.

3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don’t go overboard and look like someone you are not but maybe its time to throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. People appreciate appearance.

4. Have a good think about what your dating goals are and timescales. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don’t take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.

5. Sort out your confidence levels in advance. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Do all the things that will boost your confidence from avoiding negative friends (often the married ones) to attending the right kind of social functions. Couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.

6. Choose those you have a good chance of dating, don’t aim low but do aim realistically. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous then good for you, but be prepared and be realistic about your chances.

7. Work out in advance where in your neighborhood you are likely to meet people and join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners. The kind of partners you are looking for. I know its a cliché but you will not meet people by staying indoors.

8. Take time off from dating occasionally if its not going well or causing dating fatigue. Dating is an ongoing process and so recharging the batteries and keeping the confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. So date in phases if necessary.

9. Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The fact is, most people are interesting and whilst you may not be out there looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.

10. Never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. Peak too early and you have little left to offer and emotions may never have had the time to develop.

At a bar, most beautiful women have their defences up like there is no tomorrow.  Your chances of scoring with a woman you don’t know, that has her guard up to crazy levels, is very slim.  If you want to know where to meet women, listen up!

Top 10 Places to Meet Women

Where To Meet Women 10: Hardware Stores

Meet women at supply hardware stores.  This is one of the best places to meet women.  Simply walk around the store, and wait until you see an attractive woman that you like.  When you spot her looking for something, you can take one of two approaches.  If she looks lost and needing help, offer your services.  This is a great in because with a lot of skill, you could be helping her install a new light fixture later that same evening.  The other approach is to walk up to her, and act as if you are buying the same thing.  This leads very nicely into a conversation with the woman you want to meet.

Where to Meet Women 9: Hair Salon’s

Hair Salon’s are also a great place to meet women.  However, not how you would think, there are a few simple ways to do it.  One method is the obvious one of talking to the lady that is cutting your hair.  Nothing new here.  However the best way to meet women at a Hair Salon is to have a friend that cuts hair.  When he meets beautiful women, he can easily ask questions and get to know his clients.  Once he or she knows a few, they can easily put in a few good words for you, and setup the date for you!

Where To Meet Women 8:  Classes

Any kind of classes are great places to meet women, simply because they give you a fantastic excuse to meet up with women after classes to practice your skills.  For example, do yourself a favor, and sign up for a cooking class right now.  Mr. X can pretty much guarantee you that if you do, you will be sipping wine with your favorite beautiful girl in class within a week of signing up.

Where to Meet Women 7: Grocery Store

You probably go shopping all the time, but usually go to get lemons.  What about getting some real life watermelons instead?  It may seem like the place to get food, but you should keep your eye out for the hotties. Everyone has to eat!  Next time you spot a beautiful woman you want to meet, try and make some small talk.  Buying groceries can be pretty boring, so why don’t you try and spice things up and make a few stupid jokes.  You might be walking out of the grocery store with more than your lemons.

Where to Meet Women 6: The Art Gallery

Not my first choice, but a great place to meet women regardless.  The art gallery is full of beautiful, educated, sexy single women.  However be for warned, you should make sure that you study up on your art before stepping foot into the gallery.  It’s really not as hard as you might think.  You can easily hit the gallery’s web site, and find out what they are showing.  Next use Google and wikipedia to learn all you can about the art that is being shown.  Now head over the to the art gallery, and be ready to walk up to women confidently and ask them what they think of the art.  If they know their stuff, you can have a conversation.  And if they don’t, you can educate them and make yourself look really good.

Where to Meet Women 5: The Airport and Airplanes

Everyone is usually in such a terrible mood at the airports and airplanes these days, that you have a great chance of scoring a great catch!  In order to meet women at the airport, simply be in a good mood, and be cheery!  Small talk is super easy in the airport since there are so many chances to ask questions.  Where are you headed?  Where are you coming from?  What do you do?  All these questions lead into so much more. On the plane, you can easily talk to women if you’re lucky enough to be sitting beside one.  They are stuck sitting with you whether they like it or not.  Make the best of it.

Where to Meet Woman 4: Women’s Clothing Store

Sounds dumb right?  It’s so easy to meet women at clothing stores it’s not even funny.  You wanted to know where to meet women, this is a gold mine.  Just pretend you are shopping for your sister.  Women love to give advice, so when one of the beautiful ladies comes up to you and offers to help, take it.  She will talk to you forever, as you’re a customer, and you will be able to have a good conversation going.  She will probably assume it’s for your girlfriend, but you can break the news to her that it’s for your sister, and tell her a sob story about your ex-girlfriend that moved away.  You’re in!

Where to Meet Woman 3: Coffee Shop

Coffee shop’ are full of book worm women that are just waiting for men to come spice up their lives.  Order yourself a nice cup of coffee and have a seat.  When you see an opening, ask her what book she is reading.  Hopefully it’s a book you have read before, or an author that you are familiar with.  Simply being polite and chipper will get you a long way in a Coffee Shop.

Where to Meet Women 2: Yoga Classes

Ever done some hot yoga?  Once the women find out you are not gay, they will be fairly impressed with your flexibility and other skills.  Unfortunately it tends to smell a little in Yoga classes, but the benefits out way the cons from my perspective.

Where to Meet Women 1: Dance Schools

You are probably thinking you are not a very good dancer, but that’s why you go to dance school!  Dance schools are crawling with beautiful women that usually are fairly single!  Apart from all the time you will get to spend with women, you will also have the opportunity to go to some fantastic after dance parties.  Besides being great dancers, these women are usually fantastic in other areas!  Even if you don’t find a beautiful woman at the dance school, you will walk away with some great dance skills, that can help you in other places outside of the school.

You wanted to know where to meet women, and now you have an arsenal at your disposal.  Dating can be a lot of fun, and now that you know what a lot of men wish they only knew, you are going to be having a great time over the next few weeks.  The question is, which place will you go to first to try and meet the woman of your dreams!

Watch the Woman and Learn

You wouldn’t go into battle without analyzing your opponent first would you?  Pay attention to the lady you are eyeing.  See what she likes.  If you are in a bar for example, see what kind of drink she is drinking, and what kind of music she has been hitting the dance floor to.

Making the Initial Connection

Possibly one of the most powerful expressions of sexual passion for someone is eye contact.  Direct eye contact, staring right into her eyes, creates sexual tension between you and the beautiful woman that cannot be ignored.  Her pupils will start to dilate, her heart will start pounding harder and harder, and her body will start to prepare to give off her sexual pheromones. This is quite possibly the most important tip I can give you to up your chances in getting a date with the woman of your dreams.  Notice how people that are insecure can’t look into women’s eyes, they quickly look away and shy away.  It’s the confident men that are able to look into women’s eyes.

If you are the one starting the eye contact, just keep staring into her eyes, until she notices you.  She will feel that someone is looking at her.  At some point, she will look in your direction, see you, and look at your eyes.  This is a critical point.  Whatever you do, do not look away.  This is the number one mistake many men make.  This will tell the women

“What a creep, why does he keep looking at me when I am not watching.” or

“Wow that guys is shy and insecure”

Instead, once you get “caught”, move into a mode of pretending that you didn’t even notice she noticed you.  Act as if you are lost in her eyes.  Next, smile at her when you do “notice” that she has noticed you.  Maintain eye contact for a few more seconds, and then look away slowly.

Walking up to the Woman

Now the fun begins!  A bout a minute or two after connecting with your eyes, start walking over to the woman.  A great opening line will be revealed in an upcoming post entitled “The Greatest Opening Lines to Get Any Woman”.  Once you have started the conversation, make sure you have your best smiles ready to go, and that you keep the eye contact on her about 80% of the time.  Give her some time without you looking so she can look at you while she thinks your not watching.  It will actually make her body want you to look at her even more.  This switching back and forth, 80/20 rule is amazingly powerful as it keeps building the relationship and her bodies feelings towards you.

Keep the Conversation Going

Make sure during the conversation that you ask a lot of open ended questions.  In contrast to popular belief, your goal is to get the woman to talk as much as possible, not for you to do all the talking.  Ask her questions that start with “Have you ever been too…”  “What was it like to experience…”.  Once she is done talking, confirm that you were listening by saying things like “I totally get that, I remember a similar time when I…”.  The key is not to talk to much, just enough to affirm to her that you are listening to her, and enough for you to tell her small bits about yourself that relate to her.

Know when to hold em, Know when to fold em

At this point you should be thrilled.  You have walked up to a beautiful woman, started a conversation, and it’s gone very well!  If you have followed all the steps, you should now have a beautiful woman on your hands that is genuinely interested in you.  Do you continue and ask her to dance, buy her a drink, or do you walk away while you’re ahead.  As the song says, you gota know when to hold em, know when to fold em.  If you are extremely skilled, you should know exactly what to do, and could possibly score tonight!  However, if you are new to the while dating game, this is a great time to walk away.  Make an excuse and say you have to get going.  This is the best possible way to ensure that she stays interested in you.