http://connections.afroromance.com/ http://connections.afroromance.com/images/connections-iTunes.jpg?v=1 http://connections.afroromance.com/ Miscellaneous Have you ever been in a multicultural relationship? Do you want to? Read stories from people who have found love, romance and more in Multicultural Connections. So, whether you are looking for other like minded singles, thinking about online dating or just looking for some dating advice then MultiCultural Connections webzine has it all for you. Connections can not only help you find the love of your life but keep them as well. Listen as our relationships experts chat about topics including "The Top 10 Online Dating Myths", "Sexual Addications and other vices" and "How to Set Goals to find your Mate". So if you need some dating advice, help with how to start an online relationship or even some sexual advice once you get to that level then Connections can help you. en-us © 2007 Chellaul Corporation Multicultural Connections - Because successful relationships are more than skin deep IDCdating.com Chellaul Corporation support@chellaul.com Have you ever been in a multicultural relationship? Do you want to? Read stories from people who have found love, romance and more in Multicultural Connections. So, whether you are looking for other like minded singles, thinking about online dating or just looking for some dating advice then MultiCultural Connections webzine has it all for you. Connections can not only help you find the love of your life but keep them as well. Listen as our relationships experts chat about topics including "The Top 10 Online Dating Myths", "Sexual Addications and other vices" and "How to Set Goals to find your Mate". So if you need some dating advice, help with how to start an online relationship or even some sexual advice once you get to that level then Connections can help you. multicultural dating,interracial dating,relationships,connections,multicultural,online dating,singles,dating advice,sexual advice,chat,romance Sat, 21 Nov 2009 05:15:24 -0500 60 http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/219/view/why-men-cheat-again/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/219/view/why-men-cheat-again/ Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Birds do it, bees do it and apparently 1 in 3 men do it. It's not even a shocking revelation any more. But why? Is there anything that we as women can do to prevent it? Are we destined to live our lives with cheatin' men? Not that women don't do their fair share of dirt...this just ain't about that. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/220/view/black-white-amp-read-in-america/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/220/view/black-white-amp-read-in-america/ Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Many of you may have heard of or seen the series "Black in America" hosed by Soledad O'Brien and aired this summer on CNN. It was broken down into categories like Black Women and Family, Black Men and the King assassination. The topic of interracial dating and marriage even came up. Do you think that we are making great strides with the mainstream media finally looking at this topic or is it the same old same old, because we're still talking about it? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/221/view/love-knows-no-color-or-age/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/221/view/love-knows-no-color-or-age/ Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Some would say that young love is just that; immature, uncertain, under-developed emotions that stir participants into blind and reckless behavior. This could be an taken as a generalization or stereotype, neither of which reflect one's ability for rational thought while in love. But when has love ever been rational or logical? How many times have we been told to listen to our hearts, even when every other body part is speaking a different language. Have you ever been in love and it made no sense at all? Did you stop? Why not? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/222/view/fear-of-intimacy-and-other-things-that-keep-us-awake-at-night/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/222/view/fear-of-intimacy-and-other-things-that-keep-us-awake-at-night/ Sat, 01 Nov 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Fear of intimacy is different than fear of commitment. You can be married and not know your partner emotionally, intellectually, or spiritually. In fact, loneliness in marriage is more difficult than being lonely as a single person or widow. Marital loneliness springs from fear of intimacy in one or both partners. What causes this phobia and what can be done to prevent or stop it? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/215/view/too-broke-to-date/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/215/view/too-broke-to-date/ Mon, 15 Sep 2008 22:00:00 -0400 No matter where you are the big news everywhere seems to be the economy. If it's not the housing crisis, it's gas prices. We wont even talk about the price of milk and bread these days. I can't begin to tell you how many people I know that say that not only can they "not" afford to go out on a date, they can't haven't even just hang out at the club or bar in hopes of meeting someone that they can't afford to date. So, what do you do? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/216/view/speed-dating-goes-green/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/216/view/speed-dating-goes-green/ Mon, 15 Sep 2008 22:00:00 -0400 There's nothing like an old thing with a new twist. Recently in California the very first proclaimed "green speed dating" event took place. So, in addition to dating 10-20 different people in one night and not have to buy one single drink. You also get to fill up your three minutes with stories about how "green" you are. Is niche dating the way of the future? Personally, I'd like to host an "interracial-green-pet-loving-tall guys who love short women with big butts" speed dating event...any takers? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/217/view/stay-with-your-own-kind/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/217/view/stay-with-your-own-kind/ Mon, 15 Sep 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Have you ever thought about what kind of dater you are? Are you purpose driven or passion driven? What's the difference? Well, some people date to have a good time, not be alone, meet new people and make new friends and acquaintances. Others date with the sole intent to find a mate, get married and start a family. Which are you and are you seeking other daters or mate'ers? Before you go out on your next date you must know the answer to this question... am I a dater or a mate'er. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/218/view/september-is-national-preparation-month/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/218/view/september-is-national-preparation-month/ Mon, 15 Sep 2008 22:00:00 -0400 It seems that whenever we turn on the television or radio we see and hear about another natural disaster that has plagued our world. It's either earthquakes, flooding or famine. September is National Preparedness Month the time of year where you prepare yourself and your families. Find out how being prepared for a disaster can get you ready for love too. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/211/view/-is-it-ok-to-lie-on-your-profile/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/211/view/-is-it-ok-to-lie-on-your-profile/ Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:00:00 -0400 You know that I'm a big fan for dating your preference. Even if that preference is limiting you. It's always your right to choose. It's easy for us hopeless romantics to say that everyone should be open to the possibility of love, no matter where it comes from. Would you lie to get the chance to meet someone or to go out on a date? Just how far are you willing to go to find what you're looking for? http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/212/view/living-life-on-the-dl--is-it-role-play-or-playing-god/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/212/view/living-life-on-the-dl--is-it-role-play-or-playing-god/ Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Some think it may be a cultural thing. For many races other than African American's, friends and families even communities have embraced or at least accepted the gay lifestyle. Black men on the other hard, are still having a very difficult time. At least that's what J.L. King, author of "On the Down Low: A Journey into the Lives of "Straight" Black Men Who Sleep with Men", seems to believe. Are the guys that are living this double life taking too big a risk with your life? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/213/view/when-cougars-attack/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/213/view/when-cougars-attack/ Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Depending on who is doing the prowling there has always been a name for it... "Lolita, Boy Toys, Jail bait and now Cougars". It really boils down to the coupling of two individuals where there is an considerable age difference. Cougars are the older women hooking up with hot young men for SEX! They even have a movie about them. Not a good movie, but it just tells you how popular this "coupling" has become for the older women that take on a younger man. Is it an option for you? I guess it all depends on how young you feel and what you're looking for. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/214/view/pleasure-vs-pain-principle/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/214/view/pleasure-vs-pain-principle/ Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:00:00 -0400 How many of us have stopped short of finding that right "whatever", because there was a small barrier that came between us and that "thing". SOMETIMES you have to be willing to go through a little discomfort to get rewards that even you didn't know were possible. What have you or would you do to get the attention of someone that you thought could be "the one"? Where do you draw the line? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/208/view/testing-one-two-and-three/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/208/view/testing-one-two-and-three/ Sat, 14 Jun 2008 22:00:00 -0400 The other day I came across a book called "The Way of the Superior Man". The title alone made me, as a woman a little uneasy. I admit had some pre-conceived ideas that it was going to be another one of "those" male ego boosting take control and dominate your woman type of books... http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/209/view/are-you-shy-or-just-lonely/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/209/view/are-you-shy-or-just-lonely/ Sat, 14 Jun 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Hey this is Leticia. Some time ago, I remember doing an article on the epidemic of loneliness in our country and actually all over the world... http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/210/view/what-do-you-do-for-you/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/210/view/what-do-you-do-for-you/ Sat, 14 Jun 2008 22:00:00 -0400 It's a beautiful Sunday afternoon. Weather man said it's going to get up to 78 degrees. Current temp is 79. The sun is shining and I want to go out and stand in the middle of the parking lot just to get out of the house. But, no can't do it... http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/207/view/for-the-love-or-money/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/207/view/for-the-love-or-money/ Fri, 13 Jun 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Hey, this is your girl Leticia fresh off a nice little vacation filled with things that I don't usually allow myself to...enjoy is not quite the word. Witness is probable a better choice. I took a few days to do absolutely nothing that required clothes, shoes or thought... http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/204/view/why-ain-t-you-married-are-you-standing-in-your-own-way/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/204/view/why-ain-t-you-married-are-you-standing-in-your-own-way/ Wed, 21 May 2008 22:00:00 -0400 If you want to get married but you're not even close to it...do you ever wonder if it's something that you did or are doing? How do you think that others see you or talk about you when you're not around? Are you sending off those "desperately seeking" signals or just a sign that reads "do not enter"? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/203/view/-they-say-men-want-sex-women-want-commitment/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/203/view/-they-say-men-want-sex-women-want-commitment/ Tue, 20 May 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Men lie about wanting sex...Women lie about not wanting sex who's really telling the truth? Are you playing the dating game or just watching from the side lines? Perhaps no one knows what they really want. Do you? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/205/view/social-sites-and--things-we-do-when-we-re-bored/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/205/view/social-sites-and--things-we-do-when-we-re-bored/ Tue, 20 May 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Remember when you were younger and you told your mom that you were bored and chances are she'd come back with something like "well, I can give you something to do". You immediately ran in the other direction because you knew that meant housework...not exactly what you had in mind. Well, sometimes adult boredom can be just as risky http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/206/view/-in--if-only-the-odds-of-winning-the-lottery-were-as-good/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/206/view/-in--if-only-the-odds-of-winning-the-lottery-were-as-good/ Tue, 20 May 2008 22:00:00 -0400 They grow up so fast. You may be surprised by the number of young people engaging in adult activities and the staggering consequences. It doesn't matter if you have children or not, we're all affected by the growing statistics and number of young people contracting STD's. Be aware of the signs that you have an std. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/199/view/what-is-your-love-language/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/199/view/what-is-your-love-language/ Fri, 25 Apr 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Greetings and happy what ever this is month. You know that it's always something being celebrated to sell a card or promote a store sale. Perhaps I'm a bit cynical, but it seems that we have allowed ourselves to be dummied down by the advertising world and we get so far away from the meaning of holidays and events and get caught up in the commercialization tied to it instead. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/200/view/my-race-and-ethnicity-issues--plus-other-stuff-we-don-t-talk-about/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/200/view/my-race-and-ethnicity-issues--plus-other-stuff-we-don-t-talk-about/ Fri, 25 Apr 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Does anyone admit to watching television anymore? I just happened to discover a great thing while the writers were on strike...Internet television. I did not know you could watch shows on the web...now I'm hooked. However, I'm still not sure what this has to do with my latest revelation about white girls. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/201/view/not-your-mother-s-workout--how-to-get-sexy-for-the-summer/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/201/view/not-your-mother-s-workout--how-to-get-sexy-for-the-summer/ Fri, 25 Apr 2008 22:00:00 -0400 So, here we are 4-months into the New Year and already I've started hanging clothes on my tread-mill and putting on my tennis shoes to go for a quick jog... to my car to go and check the mail. When will this madness end? I know that there are plenty of fun workouts that I can do that won't get boring after the second month...why oh why can't I just do it? http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/202/view/where-would-you-stand--if-all-they-could-do-was-sit/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/202/view/where-would-you-stand--if-all-they-could-do-was-sit/ Fri, 25 Apr 2008 22:00:00 -0400 If you had the chance to be with anyone in the world, the only catch was they could have only one-quality brains or beauty, which would you choose? If you or your loved-one were suddenly injured, could your love stand the test of time when it comes to disabled personals dating? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/196/view/can-a-black-man-live-in-a-white-house/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/196/view/can-a-black-man-live-in-a-white-house/ Wed, 12 Mar 2008 22:00:00 -0400 If I've said it once, I've said it over and over again. You can't talk to everyone about politics. However, if you are involved or considering a serious relationship with someone you damn well better know where they stand on important issues before you take the big step. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/197/view/sex-with-a-stranger/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/197/view/sex-with-a-stranger/ Wed, 12 Mar 2008 22:00:00 -0400 First, I must tell you that I am not the one that picks the photos that go with the articles. If I were, I would have picked that hot steamy one from last month to go with this article. I'm a little scarred to see what picture will go with this one. However, I'm not at all fearful of using my imagination to engage in what the article suggests. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/198/view/when-did-stress-become-a-disease/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/198/view/when-did-stress-become-a-disease/ Wed, 12 Mar 2008 22:00:00 -0400 Is it me or does every doctor you go to...eye, teeth, back, etc., ask the question "are you under any stress"? Who isn't under some kind of stress at some point in time? Even my little 8-year old niece has stress. We know what it is, its effects of stress on the body,...the question is how do you deal with it? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/194/view/is-it-to-early-to-celebrate/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/194/view/is-it-to-early-to-celebrate/ Mon, 04 Feb 2008 22:00:00 -0500 Loving Day? In my travels through the wonderful World Wide Web, I've come upon a great MySpace page and made some new friends. You always hear about the dangers of some of the internet social clubs but rarely about the feel good messages and lessons that are shared and learned. Check it out for yourself and tell me what you think...www.myspace.com/lovingday. We don't have to wait until June, every day should be a loving day! http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/193/view/take-a-deep-breath-this-ll-only-hurt-for-a-moment/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/193/view/take-a-deep-breath-this-ll-only-hurt-for-a-moment/ Sun, 03 Feb 2008 22:00:00 -0500 Love Stats...and other myths I've found a sex expert, she's written a book. I'm going to share with you all the juicy little popular myths about men and their bodies that your high school health teacher forgot to share with you. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/192/view/what-is-the-song-of-your-life/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/192/view/what-is-the-song-of-your-life/ Sat, 02 Feb 2008 22:00:00 -0500 "Cause it was wearing my new pair of shoes"! It's happened to the best of us. Somebody somewhere out there is going through it right now. They've even written songs about it over and over, remember "I'll never love this way again"? Or, "Love don't live here anymore"? If your love life were a soundtrack, what would the titles be? How do you learn from your mistakes and survive to sing a happier tune? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/191/view/how-much-does-love-cost/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/191/view/how-much-does-love-cost/ Fri, 01 Feb 2008 22:00:00 -0500 You must sing this to the melody of Crosby, Stills and Nash's "Love the one you're with"... If you're down and confused And you're tired of satisfying you hornyness is here to stay And your baby is so far away. Well, pack your coat and a glove Take a plane that flies above Cause if you can't be with the one you love Pay someone to have sex with Love the one you're with Okay, so it needs a little work, you get the idea right? Have you ever had the notion to pay for play? It's the oldest known profession, somebody is out there doing it, would you? http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/185/view/can-you-stand-the--weight/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/185/view/can-you-stand-the--weight/ Mon, 14 Jan 2008 22:00:00 -0500 Being a size 18 in a size 8 world. First...happy New Year to all. Leticia is back and I have a few things to get off my chest, stomach, thighs and where...back there too! Let me be very honest with you, I did not realize that this was as big a problem until I started to write about it. The truth is I was always this chunky cute little kid, (that is after I got back from Philadelphia for the summer...another long emotional story from my childhood, and an entirely different article). Now when I say chunky I wore a size 11, 12, 13 for as long as I remember. By no means was I the original Star Jones but I certainly was not her new bobble head skinny post-surgery twin either. http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/186/view/back-to-basics-in-the-new-year/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/186/view/back-to-basics-in-the-new-year/ Mon, 14 Jan 2008 22:00:00 -0500 Happy New Year...it is that time...time to change the batteries in your smoke alarms and vibrators and update your profile on the site. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/187/view/i-m-no-expert-but--i-ll-dish-out-advice-all-the-same/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/187/view/i-m-no-expert-but--i-ll-dish-out-advice-all-the-same/ Mon, 14 Jan 2008 22:00:00 -0500 It is funny that I have never really considered my self an expert at much. I have always known that I had an amazing talent, several actually. I knew that I was a great communicator, mentor, teacher and even writer. It just never crossed my mind that I would be considered an expert. But... I am! http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/188/view/blah-blah-blah-enough-talk--can-we-just-f/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/188/view/blah-blah-blah-enough-talk--can-we-just-f/ Mon, 14 Jan 2008 22:00:00 -0500 Not all relationships are fair or equal...when it comes to sex that is. Every relationship is different because every couple is different. We all have different sex drives, different erogenous zones and even different turn-offs. Some of us want it and could have sex every single day. Others are happy with once or twice a week, month or on a yearly basis...Parrish the thought. It's orgasmic bliss when both partners are on the same page. It's frustration and pure hell when they are not. http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/190/view/success-story-coffeeeyes-and-the-chief/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/190/view/success-story-coffeeeyes-and-the-chief/ Mon, 14 Jan 2008 22:00:00 -0500 Some people say Love takes time and nothing could be truer of our latest success story, CoffeeEyes and The_Chief. http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/189/view/babies-rings-and-tying-the-knot-our-year-in-review/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/189/view/babies-rings-and-tying-the-knot-our-year-in-review/ Sat, 12 Jan 2008 22:00:00 -0500 For many, 2007 was a wonderful year. I thought it would be a good time to remind us all why we are here and give a shout out to those who found love. We had more success stories in 2007 than every before and we hope that 2008 will see even more! So, if you're not already talking to someone, make a New Years Resolution to yourself that 2008 will be the year of the Success Story! Yours! http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/181/view/merry-christ-chanukah-kwanzaa-mas/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/181/view/merry-christ-chanukah-kwanzaa-mas/ Sun, 16 Dec 2007 22:00:00 -0500 When what you believe comes between you and the one you love... You love the way they look, act, walk, talk and dream. They love all the things that the kids use to tease you about in grade school. His friends are your friends and your friends are her friends and your families couldn't have ordered a better partner from any catalog. So, why is it that around the holidays "you just can't be together"? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/180/view/can-you-deal-with-holiday-stress/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/180/view/can-you-deal-with-holiday-stress/ Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:00:00 -0500 "It's everyone's favorite time of the year...NOT!" Got the holiday blues, dealing with holiday stress? And the seasons not close to being over? How do you handle all the merry and cheer when all you want to do is stay in bed with the covers over your head; while you have pleasant dreams of every holiday caroler suddenly coming down with a case of laryngitis? http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/182/view/how-to-eat-what-you-want-and-still-zip-your-pants/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/182/view/how-to-eat-what-you-want-and-still-zip-your-pants/ Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Avoiding the holiday bulge... without weight watchers... With so many fad diets, quickie procedures and surgeries what's a person to do about not picking up the holiday 10? Here are a few tips on how you can make the holiday rounds without getting round for the holidays. http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/183/view/a-reflective-look-back-at/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/183/view/a-reflective-look-back-at/ Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:00:00 -0500 I don't know about you, but the end of the year always gives me reason to pause and take stock in the lessons that I've not only learned, but the ones that I missed. The best part of the New Year is the hope of a better tomorrow. Another chance to do something better, a chance to get more, give more...be more. What did you learn and are you passing that knowledge along to others? http://connections.afroromance.com/FeaturedMembers/184/view/featured-member-laugh-sailor/ http://connections.afroromance.com/FeaturedMembers/184/view/featured-member-laugh-sailor/ Sat, 15 Dec 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Hi and thanks for your interest in me. If you really love outdoor adventures you'll think I've got the greatest life... But if you don't... You're probably having trouble understanding why I live on my sailboat... Think Jacques Cousteau. I sail with friends and not by myself, because for me... sharing beautiful experiences is what its all about. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/174/view/how-to-deal-with--ism-s/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/174/view/how-to-deal-with--ism-s/ Wed, 14 Nov 2007 22:00:00 -0500 "Nope not talking Sex, Social or Race, but..." Before you start forming your nasty little comments let me say this, opinions are like booties...everybody's got one. Some we like more than others, some we don't ever want to see and others we can't get enough of...you get the idea. How do you give and take criticism says a lot about who you are, where you are and what you believe. The only question is "who's really cares?" http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/175/view/just-because-it-s-not-bad-for-you-doesn-t-mean-it-s-good-for-you/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/175/view/just-because-it-s-not-bad-for-you-doesn-t-mean-it-s-good-for-you/ Wed, 14 Nov 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Breaking habits... before they break you... Addictions come in all shapes, sizes and categories. For some it's drugs, alcohol, sex or shopping. For others it could be driving the same way to work every single day, buying the same type of shoes, clothes, cars or dated the same kind of person. How do we break habits that may not be "technically" hurting us, but they aren't helping us either? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/176/view/forget-what-s-your-sign-how-about-what-s-your-score/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/176/view/forget-what-s-your-sign-how-about-what-s-your-score/ Wed, 14 Nov 2007 22:00:00 -0500 The most important numbers to get from a new love We've always heard how vital it is to discuss your sexual history with a new partner. No one ever tells you to swap credit history too. Who knew that three little numbers could have such a big effect and influence on your life? If you did, tell your friends because there are a lot of us walking around without a clue as to how important our credit score is to our personal and professional futures. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/177/view/who-you-calling-a-cow/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/177/view/who-you-calling-a-cow/ Wed, 14 Nov 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Women who love too much! Do you or any women you know, love way too much? They just give and give and can't ever seem to get a fraction of that back in return? Remember the saying, "Men won't buy the cow if they can get the milk for free"? Perhaps this article is just what we all need as a refresher course on how in 2007, milk is not only not free...it isn't cheap. http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/179/view/success-story-carolyn-and-dave/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/179/view/success-story-carolyn-and-dave/ Wed, 14 Nov 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Sometimes, persistence pays off! Just ask Dave1423! He spent nearly 2 years wooing Fitcocoa before she finally succumbed to his good intentions! Way to go Carolyn and Dave! Here's Carolyn's story... http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/178/view/evoyne-and-grapjas-tie-the-knot/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/178/view/evoyne-and-grapjas-tie-the-knot/ Mon, 05 Nov 2007 22:00:00 -0500 We know many of our members often wonder how things work out when they see a success story posted on our site. For those of you who don't know Evoyne and Grapjas then here's a fresh look, for those who do then we are happy to share with you the photos of their wonderful wedding. But first, here's a personal update from Evone. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/171/view/when-interracial-dating-hits-home/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/171/view/when-interracial-dating-hits-home/ Sun, 14 Oct 2007 22:00:00 -0400 "My Son is dating a white girl!!" "I'm so torn. I've always thought that people should be with who ever they love, no matter what color, religion or regardless of what other people think or say, but..." This is what I heard after I answered a phone call. If it was anyone else I would have to wonder if there was some prejudice in their heart that they just haven't come to grips with. But, we're talking about my oldest dearest friend. Her comments and my reaction was an eye opener for us both. http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/169/view/how-to-get-back-on-that-colorless-horse-and-ride-off-into-the-sunset/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/169/view/how-to-get-back-on-that-colorless-horse-and-ride-off-into-the-sunset/ Sat, 13 Oct 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Dating after Divorce! I realize that after a divorce for some of us the last thing on our mind was dating...ever! However, with all things, timing is everything. How do you know when it's time for you to get back in the dating pool? Do you jump off the diving board or just dip your feet in the shallow end? Ever thought about swimming in different waters, say a lake, river or maybe even an ocean? Not only are there other fish in the sea, there's turtles, whales, crab, etc., the choices are endless. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/170/view/head-to-toe-how-to-take-better-care-of-your-body/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/170/view/head-to-toe-how-to-take-better-care-of-your-body/ Sat, 13 Oct 2007 22:00:00 -0400 I'm not a real hypochondriac, but I some times play one in real life (so, I'm told). Actually, I remember back in high school learning for the first time about narcolepsy. I was convinced that I suffered from it. Literally, from my head to my toes, I've thought that I've had everything from a brain tumor to gangrene in my right leg. Here are a few tips on how to take better care of your body...from head to toe. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/172/view/are-we-just-too-damn-sensitive/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/172/view/are-we-just-too-damn-sensitive/ Sat, 13 Oct 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Another story about racism in America A homecoming display at a High School was suppose to rally school spirit for the night's homecoming game, what it did was upset students and parents and caused the principal to call a town meeting. The display depicted a Viking football player in the claws of a falcon. Parents and students thought that it looked like someone being hanged. Have we become so damn sensitive that every action must be held under a racial microscope? Or are we not sensitive enough to those that still suffer the pains of their forefathers? http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/173/view/success-story-christa-and-arthur-wright/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/173/view/success-story-christa-and-arthur-wright/ Sat, 13 Oct 2007 22:00:00 -0400 We have meant for months to write to you because we found such an extraordinary love via your site! http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/164/view/get-a-great-new-body-and-love-interest-all-in-one/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/164/view/get-a-great-new-body-and-love-interest-all-in-one/ Sat, 15 Sep 2007 22:00:00 -0400 What's new at the gym? This is for all my folks out there that recently realized that the year is almost over and they've been paying for a membership at the local health club. However, the closes they've come to going in, is the time they went to Smoothie King next door. Here are a few last minutes tips and ideas on how to get in shape before the end of the year and before it's time to make a New Year's resolution. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/165/view/multicultural-topics-hit-the-big-screen-again/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/165/view/multicultural-topics-hit-the-big-screen-again/ Sat, 15 Sep 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Hairspray Trailer The film is an adaptation of the Tony award -winning 2002 Broadway musical. The story takes place in 1962 Baltimore; the film follows a "plus sized" girl named Tracy Turnblad as she simultaneously pursues stardom as a dancer on a local TV show and rallies against racial segregation. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/166/view/some-things-i-don-t-talk-about-with-just-anybody/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/166/view/some-things-i-don-t-talk-about-with-just-anybody/ Sat, 15 Sep 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Religion and Politics!! Everyone has their own "rules to live by" right? It's not that I have my rules etched on scroll or cinderblock, however, they are well preserved in that safe private and safe place called...my head. One of my rules is that I do not discuss religion or politics with just anybody. Try having a discussion about Interracial dating and religion. http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/168/view/success-story-eddie-ziv-amp-opal-walker-ziv/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/168/view/success-story-eddie-ziv-amp-opal-walker-ziv/ Sat, 15 Sep 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Opal who is 38, mother of three and never been married and I, 53 Father of one and a widower, met on your site in April 2007. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/167/view/back-to-school-isn-t-for-kids-only/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/167/view/back-to-school-isn-t-for-kids-only/ Fri, 14 Sep 2007 22:00:00 -0400 It's never too late to learn something new? As the kids head back to school for another year of reading, writing and arithmetic what will you do to keep your mind young, active and alive? Have you been thinking about doing something new? Taking up a hobby or brushing up on an old skill? Well, the time could be now. http://connections.afroromance.com/RelationshipExperts/90/view/it-s-all-about-the-c-word/ http://connections.afroromance.com/RelationshipExperts/90/view/it-s-all-about-the-c-word/ Wed, 15 Aug 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Learn the secret to every successful relationship....the C word! Today we talk to Todd Creager, from the Todd Creager Center of Successful Relationships, to get to the bottom of this vital relationship ingredient. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/161/view/can-you-afford-to-get-sick/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/161/view/can-you-afford-to-get-sick/ Tue, 14 Aug 2007 22:00:00 -0400 With the release of Michael Moore's new documentary Sicko, we are once again reminded that the health care system in America is severely under the weather. It seems that you're only as healthy as your coverage. The thing that really made me go "WTF?" wasn't how many American's are without insurance, but how many that do have it are still being under-serviced or over charged or just being sold an umbrella with a hole in it. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/163/view/what-color-is-your-fantasy/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/163/view/what-color-is-your-fantasy/ Tue, 14 Aug 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Recently I received a copy of this clip from a friend that does a late night show on a Chicago radio station. The topic hit close to home so I thought that I'd share it with you all. What are your thoughts on black "male" celebrities that choose to only date women outside of their race? Do you think that there's a group of women out there that "train" their daughters to snatch grab and marry a black athlete? Do people really believe this stuff? Don't think that it's ONLY black men that do it either. Is it really a matter of choice or SOCIAL conditioning? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/160/view/white-man-seeks-nubian-queen-baby-mama-for-his-sons/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/160/view/white-man-seeks-nubian-queen-baby-mama-for-his-sons/ Mon, 13 Aug 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Is the World Ready for another Reality TV Show? There's a switch for you. A reality dating show where you already know that the white man will pick the black woman. I'm sure you've checked out "The Bachelor", "The Bachelorette", "Flavor of Love", or maybe the new one I stumbled upon with the singer from poison, "Rock of Love" on VH1. They all have their token person of "another" ethnicity in the crowd. They never get picked, but they are certainly there representing the possibilities of interracial love. Well, here we go with a new show, whose title says it all... "Interracial Love A Search for a Black Queen". Will you watch? Would you compete? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/157/view/the-thin-line-between-preference-and-prejudice/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/157/view/the-thin-line-between-preference-and-prejudice/ Mon, 16 Jul 2007 22:00:00 -0400 After reading one of our blog posts I felt compelled to do my own internal investigation. The reality is that I'm still coming down off of last month's discovery of me possibly being a racist. I'm not sure how much more I can take. It is certainly only my opinion, but it seems that we still do a lot of comparing and complaining ourselves when it comes to the different shades of bigotry. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/155/view/some-things-are-not-as-they-appear/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/155/view/some-things-are-not-as-they-appear/ Sun, 15 Jul 2007 22:00:00 -0400 A friend sent me a link to this performance of a guy named Paul Potts, a tenor, who was the winner of "Britain's Got Talent". At first I wasn't sure what was going to come out of that mouth. Then when I heard him sing his first note, I wondered, how many times have I judged someone based on appearance and never gave them a chance to open their mouth before just writing them off?! http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/156/view/the-real-goal-is-to-delete-your-profile-right/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/156/view/the-real-goal-is-to-delete-your-profile-right/ Sun, 15 Jul 2007 22:00:00 -0400 So, you're in the mood for love and something or someone has brought you to the World Wide Web...now what? It doesn't matter if you've been dating on-line five years or five minutes. We all need a little help refreshing ourselves and putting our best features forward in an attempt to make it to that big day when we can...delete our profile and enjoy the love we've found. The following 4 tips are designed to help you improve the way you reveal your "true purpose" when looking for love. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/158/view/dealing-with-the-dirty-d-word/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/158/view/dealing-with-the-dirty-d-word/ Sun, 15 Jul 2007 22:00:00 -0400 How many times have you heard or said "man I'm so depressed"? At some point in time we all feel the "feelings" of depression. For many; about 19 million, depression is a day to day battle. Anyone can experience this illness. Even though women are twice as likely to suffer from it, men are three times more likely to commit suicide. http://connections.afroromance.com/TheSexChef/112/view/sexy-summertime-fruit-to-share/ http://connections.afroromance.com/TheSexChef/112/view/sexy-summertime-fruit-to-share/ Wed, 20 Jun 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Create a very elegant, very sensual, taste sensation in this medley of sexy summertime fruit! You're sure to capture your mate's attention! http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/151/view/the-new-birth-control-pill-for-men/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/151/view/the-new-birth-control-pill-for-men/ Wed, 20 Jun 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Hey honey, could you take out the trash, wash the car, change the oil and don't forget to take your birth control pill. Scientist have finally gotten around to developing a contraceptive "pill" for men. However, before you throw away all the latex in the house, let's talk about how the "pill" works. http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/152/view/are-you-stuck-on-single/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/152/view/are-you-stuck-on-single/ Wed, 20 Jun 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Have you ever met someone and instantly you knew that they had to be single, married, gay? Do you send off a vibe that says the right things about you? Here are seven clues to the single man/woman's lifestyle that could be the very reason why you're home alone...reading this article. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/154/view/how-to-tell-if-you-re-a-racist/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/154/view/how-to-tell-if-you-re-a-racist/ Wed, 20 Jun 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Last year Paula Zahn did a report called "Skin-Deep: racism in America". In the show there were several interviews with "race experts" and political figures. A test was given that told you if you had the penchant towards a particular race. Well, I found the test on-line and took it. The results surprised me at first, then it made me wonder if... I could be a racist? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/153/view/a-fabulous-man/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/153/view/a-fabulous-man/ Fri, 15 Jun 2007 22:00:00 -0400 This is my personal salute to all the "real" men out there. We know you exist. You been seen, smelt, heard and felt around the world and it's high time we pay some homage to you! For those guys that fall a little short of their fabulousness...here's a list, just check off the qualities as you work your way to your greatness. http://connections.afroromance.com/RelationshipExperts/32/view/how-to-stop-dead-end-relationships-before-they-begin/ http://connections.afroromance.com/RelationshipExperts/32/view/how-to-stop-dead-end-relationships-before-they-begin/ Tue, 15 May 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Listen in as the secret to identifying dead end relationships - before they begin - is revealed as Dr. Wright interviews David Steele, the author of the book "Conscious Dating: Finding The Love Of Your Life In Today's World". http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/147/view/five-tips-on-how-to-date-on-a-dime/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/147/view/five-tips-on-how-to-date-on-a-dime/ Tue, 15 May 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Have you ever thought that internet dating is so popular because dating in the real world is just too expensive? It's not like it use to be in our grand-parents time, when dating included dinner, dancing and a movie and you could do it a few nights a week. Here are five great dating ideas that won't break the bank. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/148/view/want-less-junk-in-yo-trunk/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/148/view/want-less-junk-in-yo-trunk/ Tue, 15 May 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Everyone here has probably heard of cirrhosis of the liver. A disease usually caused by excessive drinking. Well did you know there are some doctors that believe that liver dysfunction can also be the cause of a sluggish metabolism and possibly obesity? What you know or don't know about your body parts can play a very important role in your health. If you've been struggling with your weight, and all the diets in the world haven't helped, perhaps a look-see at the liver is all you need. http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/149/view/why-the-race-card-is-still-being-played/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/149/view/why-the-race-card-is-still-being-played/ Tue, 15 May 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Now you know that I couldn't resist. There's no way that I could go off on poor little Kramer (Michael what's his face), and not talk about the old misunderstood radio icon Don I-MUS (be a racist). There's been so much coverage, that I'd be negligent to not mention and give you a chance to give your opinions on the topic. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/150/view/why-are-you-still-looking-for-love/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/150/view/why-are-you-still-looking-for-love/ Tue, 15 May 2007 22:00:00 -0400 So, what is the big "secret" to getting the relationship that you REALLY want? Is there a magical tool that anyone - regardless of looks, or bank balance - can use to attract their perfect partner? Listen in as Leticia reveals the secret... http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/142/view/what-does-this-have-to-do-with-dating/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/142/view/what-does-this-have-to-do-with-dating/ Sun, 15 Apr 2007 22:00:00 -0400 The Story of Shaquanda Cotton And you thought the doll test was hard to watch... One girl burns down a house, one shoves a teacher's aid. They were both 14 in a small Texas town and sat before the same Texas judge. One goes free, the other to jail. One was white and the other was black...the year 2006. But what does this have to do with dating? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/143/view/when-is-it-time-to-take-it-to-the-next-level/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/143/view/when-is-it-time-to-take-it-to-the-next-level/ Sun, 15 Apr 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Moving In or Moving On! All relationships have stages. The movement from one stage to another is determined by the people in that relationship. How do you know if it's time for you to take the "next step" or keep on stepping...out of your relationship? What are the signs that mark the beginning of the end? How do you determine your next move? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/144/view/dating-someone-with-children--are-you-ready/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/144/view/dating-someone-with-children--are-you-ready/ Sun, 15 Apr 2007 22:00:00 -0400 With statistics being what they are these days, many people are single with children...men and women. Even If you have children of your own, dating someone else with children comes with a certain amount of challenges, pressures and obstacles that require patience, understanding and lots of love. Are you ready to unpack the bags and build a strong viable relationship with parent and child? http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/145/view/human-papillomavirus/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/145/view/human-papillomavirus/ Sun, 15 Apr 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Last year an estimated 10,000 women in the United States were diagnosed with this type of cancer and nearly 4,000 were estimated to have died from it. According to a Health Information National Trends survey, put out by the National Cancer Institute in 2005, only 40% of American women surveyed had heard of human papillomavirus (HPV) infection and only 20% had heard of its link to cervical cancer. So, how about we increase the number of people that are aware in an attempt to decrease the number of victims? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/137/view/sex-with-an-ex-good-idea-or-recipe-for-heartache/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/137/view/sex-with-an-ex-good-idea-or-recipe-for-heartache/ Sun, 18 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Now I know that I'm not the only one on this ...'cause I was not alone when it happened. There is something to be said about the old and familiar. You KNOW that they are not MR or Ms. Right...but, is it alright to go back for "just one night"? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/141/view/a-favorite-yes-no--or-maybe/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/141/view/a-favorite-yes-no--or-maybe/ Sat, 17 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0400 We recently launched a new site feature to help you find your favorite members faster than ever before. By using the "Find By Photo" option you can quickly check out all the members on our site and sort them onto your 'Yes', 'No' or 'Maybe' list. http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/140/view/how-to-contact-a-woman-divagal--s-take/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/140/view/how-to-contact-a-woman-divagal--s-take/ Fri, 16 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Our Connections Webzine is full of great articles and now it's even better because it's going to contain articles from YOU, our members. So if you want to give us a movie review, tell us about a get-together you might have on, have a beef you want to get off your chest then here's your chance. Just send your article to articles at chellaul dot com and we will review it and if accepted it will appear in our Connections Webzine....just like this one from divagal926. http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/136/view/dating-in-your-prime--is-love-better-the-second-or-third-time-around/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/136/view/dating-in-your-prime--is-love-better-the-second-or-third-time-around/ Thu, 15 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0400 If more than 50% of marriages end in divorce, than there's a lot of single folks that apparently aren't afraid of commitment. How easy is to get back up on the saddle after you've fallen off that horse or donkey? What are your chances of finding love after 30 or more? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/138/view/making-room-for-something-or-someone-new/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/138/view/making-room-for-something-or-someone-new/ Thu, 15 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Maybe that something old is "ideas" of what is your ideal mate. If you are new to this inter racial "thing" or perhaps you're keeping your options open for a totally different dating experience all together, let discuss what "old ideas" you must first get rid of before you can move on and find the love you deserve. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/139/view/the-law-of-attraction-how-to-get-what-you-want/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/139/view/the-law-of-attraction-how-to-get-what-you-want/ Thu, 15 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0400 Okay now, it's me your feisty little goal reminding conscience here to check on you and see how it's going with those 2007 goals? I'm noticing that not many people are making comments about the Goal Setting articles. Is this because you're too busy writing down your goals or you've already given up? This would be a good time to "share" with all your potential "friends, lovers and whatevers", what you do to stay spiritually in-tuned. Not every one believes in the same things, but most of us believe in something. What are your beliefs? Is it difficult to stay focused when the world provides so many distractions? http://connections.afroromance.com/TheSexChef/109/view/after-a-great-overnight-date-try-this-to-kick-off-your-morning/ http://connections.afroromance.com/TheSexChef/109/view/after-a-great-overnight-date-try-this-to-kick-off-your-morning/ Mon, 05 Mar 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Rocky will let you in on a quick and easy breakfast or brunch dish you can make in minutes. Serve it up in bed to make an extra good impression! He calls it "Eggs and the Other White Meat"...you'll call it FABULOUS! http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/135/view/the-black-white-doll-test-have-we-come-that-far/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/135/view/the-black-white-doll-test-have-we-come-that-far/ Thu, 15 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 I'm not really sure why this particular email caught my attention, but it did. The title was "A Sobering Video". I opened it, watched the video and cried. Now there have been splice of life pieces that have moved me and photo's that made me go "awww". But nothing that made me forward the email to everyone in my contact list, until this... http://connections.afroromance.com/FeaturedMembers/134/view/featured-member-coco/ http://connections.afroromance.com/FeaturedMembers/134/view/featured-member-coco/ Mon, 12 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 This month's featured member is coco809. She describes herself as Outgoing and fun. Loving and family oriented. She's looking for someone who is loyal, faithful, outgoing, and fun person that loves kids. He must also love the outdoors and to travel. She wants a man that can keep her stimulated mentally about anything. So listen into Wanda and contact her if you think you have what she's looking for! http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/129/view/every-day-could-be-valentines-day/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/129/view/every-day-could-be-valentines-day/ Sat, 10 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 According to Hallmark Research, 192 million Valentine's Day cards are exchanged every year, making it the second-most greeting card giving occasion (behind Christmas). Not to knock tradition, but, if you are still ONLY doing cards and flowers, you should know that "we've come a long way baby". Here are some sure fire ways to get the attention of that potential love interest. http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/130/view/sexual-hang-ups-and-other-mood-killers/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/130/view/sexual-hang-ups-and-other-mood-killers/ Sat, 10 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 In a world that is driven by sex, we sell cars, vacation packages and even medicine to cure STD's with sex; how do you cope when your drive is somewhere between reverse and park? Throughout our lives, our sexual desires change. Sometimes and with some folks, there is a loss of desire. What are some of the common causes and possible cures for sexual dysfunction? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/131/view/-separate-but-equal--the-racial-divide/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/131/view/-separate-but-equal--the-racial-divide/ Sat, 10 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 For the longest time when we talked about racism it was about black and white. The word discrimination comes from the Latin "discriminare", which means to "distinguish between". To discriminate generally is to make a distinction between people on the basis of class, age, sex and of course race, without regard to individual merit. Have we really improved in the category of race relations or just found another group to "pick on"? http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/132/view/goal-setting-how-to-get-what-you-want/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/132/view/goal-setting-how-to-get-what-you-want/ Sat, 10 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 We've made it to the second month of the year. How are those goals and resolutions holding up? I recently touched base with a former co-worker from 10 years ago. Her email stated "still here...hopefully that won't change for me. Don't have the smarts or the ambition for anything else. I live in a cubicle eight hours a day with more layers of bosses than most onions...but, it pays the bills"! Does this sound like you or someone you know? Let's talk about goals in regards to your finances and career. Are you living your dream or a reoccurring nightmare? http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/133/view/success-story-jenn-and-matthew/ http://connections.afroromance.com/SuccessStories/133/view/success-story-jenn-and-matthew/ Sat, 10 Feb 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Our site was responsible for at least 12 marriages that we know of this past year and this month's success story features a couple who were married on the 18th of December. Jenn and Matty! Now, Jenn had a kinda unusual nickname on our site and when you type it out it a little hmmm how can I say...blue but it starts with "STILAFK...." for those of you who know her from our chat rooms. Thanks Jenn for sharing your wonderful story with us and I know Matt is shortly off to serve his country overseas so I hope every member reading this will add an extra prayer in there for Matt to return home safely to the one and only Mrs. McQuary http://connections.afroromance.com/RelationshipExperts/91/view/new-year-new-profile-new-photo-new-love/ http://connections.afroromance.com/RelationshipExperts/91/view/new-year-new-profile-new-photo-new-love/ Thu, 25 Jan 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Whether you are new or been on the site for a while, when was the last time you checked out your own profile? How old is the photo you have? It's a New Year so time to review and renew! Internet Dating Coach Melanie Dodson tells us why having a great photo and interesting profile is the path to your New Love! http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/125/view/getting-fit-amp-fabulous-for-the-new-year/ http://connections.afroromance.com/HealthWellness/125/view/getting-fit-amp-fabulous-for-the-new-year/ Sun, 14 Jan 2007 22:00:00 -0500 When was the last time you looked at your self in the mirror and REALLY loved what you saw? I don't mean you've "come to grips" with your body, I mean you really LOVE it for all the right reasons. Let's start off the New Year, looking and feeling sexy INSIDE and OUT! http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/126/view/there-s-no-romance-without-finance/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/126/view/there-s-no-romance-without-finance/ Sun, 14 Jan 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Maybe the bill collectors aren't calling every day, but somehow you still can't manage to save any money. Need some help getting started in the New Year? Help is on the way. You know what they say... "No Romance without Finance"... http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/127/view/-black-white--the-dvd/ http://connections.afroromance.com/Articles/127/view/-black-white--the-dvd/ Sun, 14 Jan 2007 22:00:00 -0500 Do you really think that the movie touched upon the real racial issues that we continue to experience in our society? Are these types of "controlled" experiments the real deal? What did the film really say about the never ending issue of Black and White? http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/128/view/goal-setting-how-to-get-what-you-want/ http://connections.afroromance.com/DatingAdvice/128/view/goal-setting-how-to-get-what-you-want/ Sun, 14 Jan 2007 22:00:00 -0500 We always hear about people setting their career goals or educational goals. What about goals for your family. It could be spending more time with your aging parents. Perhaps you're considering starting a family of your own. Are you prepared for that emotionally and financially? What systems must you put in place in order to be ready and GET WHAT YOU WANT in 2007? http://connections.afroromance.com/TheSexChef/110/view/let-s-go-to-kokomo-with-some-cocktails-for-two/ http://connections.afroromance.com/TheSexChef/110/view/let-s-go-to-kokomo-with-some-cocktails-for-two/ Fri, 05 Jan 2007 22:00:00 -0500 How could anyone forget Tom Cruise in the movie Cocktail! This latest contribution from our resident Sex Chef, Rocky Fino gives you some simple cocktails to make for that special date in...or out!