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How To Make Friends

2010-06-06T07:00:00.002+05:00

People make friend to share some problems, to spend time, for entertainment and enjoyment. Friend making is not a bad habit but making more and more friends is not for us. Because every person is not same in nature, character, thinking.

   Some people make more friends but not show sincerity with anyone. That's not a good friend. A man who help you in every matter of your life and gave you advise in every problem that's like a good and sincere friend. Friend making is not a hobby for anyone.

   Mostly people like loneliness but in my point of view friendship is a best, great, trusted relation is friendship in the whole world.

   When we make friends ? ....

   We make friend when we dis heart and feel loneliness. First we see some things in his/her such as thinking, character, his/her school of thought, nature. If they are close to your nature then add his/her in friend list and also show sincerity in friendship.

   These are some characteristics of good friendship

=> If you make a good friend then spend some time daily with them and notice his/ her nature. Because if his / her nature near to you then may b he/she should be your good friend.

=> In friendship first u trust on his/her. If a single soul dwelling in a two bodies is known as a good friendship.

   Remember in friendship we not see the religions, casts and color.

   ** If u spend a happy life with lots of enjoyment, pleasures and happiness then u also want a partner. the good partner of your life is your good friend.**

   ** In friendship we share all the problems with friends. If the problem is negative or positive. Because they are also know your nature and gave you good advise.**

   If u impress your friend with your behavior, nature, characters and thinking at that time you think u cross the 2nd step of friendship.

   Friendship is not depend upon your's beauty, richness. It is also depend upon your sincerity, love, and school of thought.

Quotes

2010-06-03T14:32:00.001+05:00

   =>If you wanna be great, rich or leader then in your mind that

   " The bigger the vehicle the more if get trouble of rush"
   On the other side if you get trouble more then others you are great because a truck has to face more traffic then a sports car.

   => Emotional is a good one but too emotional is abnormal.

   Confuse is good one but too confuse is unsuitable.

   Intelligent is good one but too intelligent is psycho.

   Sensitive is good one but too sensitive is unfit.

   Confidence is good but overconfidence is unbearable.

   Tension free is good but irresponsible is failure.

     Genius is appreciated but too genius is degraded.

   Naughty can be hold but too naughty is out of order.

   Funny is liked but too funny is disturb.

   Serious is needed but too serious is unbearable.

   wise is good but clever becomes odd.

What is first impression? ( Philosophy Of first impression)

2010-06-02T13:55:00.002+05:00

   ** : First impression is that you know how to deal.

   ** : First impression is that you know how to meet.

   ** : Knowing of decent dressing is first impression includes your selection of wearing style according to the environment.

   ** : Good speaking, is a good impression. Bass and maturity in speaking is a positive first impression. It also includes speaking style, speed of speech, pauses makes a nice impression.

   ** : First impression is that how to control your feelings, confusion, suspense and emotions. How much you are effected by an event are how much not.

   ** : Power of management, skills of leadership, justice of feelings, strongroom of ideas and concepts are also include in first impression.

   ** : Manners matter a lot in impression. Your attitude to others the inside view of your personality. To deal well is first impression and to perform well is your last impression.

   ** : Polite speaking is good for the first impression, along with charming smile, glowing eyes, satisfied expression.

   ** : Major of all is a worm handshake, standing, getting confidence, showing wiseness and losing cleverness is first impression.

The Difference Between Human And Evil

2010-05-31T17:50:00.001+05:00

   Human and evil differ not only due to matter of creation, beside fire and clay. They had many difference and similarities.

   ** Proudhon in evil and bow down in human.

   ** Human has mercy but evil lack this.

   ** Feelings for others and understanding the feelings of others are all the properties of human.

   ** Evil always think of harm, hurt others but human has the nature to friendly and emotional

   ** Thinking of a evil.is to collect everything to it self and to destroy or capture others.

How To Mange Your Speaking Speed

2010-05-30T14:22:00.000+05:00

   Are you a fast speakers? People can't understand often, what are you saying? Friend make your fun on your speaking style? Are you losing confidence due to all of these happening?

   Here are some suggestion for you If you are trouble like this.

   ** Be clam, unworried, gave your lips a nice smile, stand, firmly or sit comfortably, give your body parts a slow motion. Don't let any part to vibrate and move to and fro.

   ** Use comfortable dresses, try to get rid of so many ideas and thinking in your mind. Don't mind on what ever is going around, Don't be so sensitive.

   These things as thinking normal are ineffective to speed of speaking of a person but research and surveys fells us have great results of speech of a person, style of feeling, asking, question and exclaiming by a person.

   Just practice these habits three or four days and lead it to one week, you will greatly found it use full for manging your speed of speaking, peace of mind, feelings of satisfaction, calmness of heart.

   Getting these points in your mind:-

   => Be comfortable ( sit or stand )

   => As you feel well and easy.

   => give your self a smile.

   => Lightly try to control your ideas and thinking.

   => strongly try to manage your emotions, feelings, confidence, happiness, and others features those dis heart you.

   => get control over motions style of motions of your body part.

   => Be confident, charming, cool and forceful.

   After practicing all this you get a great effect of these on your style of speech and speed of speaking.

   Now come to original matter and focus on your speech get notice of your tongue what others understand from you. Now give attention of your speech, your style of speech, your speed of speech, your way of talking.

   I'm asking some points to the way of talk.

   => Be polite in talking.

   => give sweet smile and pause in speaking.

   => Don`t let your voice volume too loud or too low just let it according to the requirement of the solution.

   =>Have confidence and calmness in your voice.

7 Tips To Be Prominent Student In The Class

2010-05-30T11:53:00.001+05:00

   Every student want to be prominent in their class but few of them get to target and many lose their way to success.

   Here are some tips or techniques to be a prominent student in a class.

   ** Be well dressed, dress should be neat and clean. Main thing about dressing is color combination and fitting. To be a prominent quality and look matters greatly for a student.

   ** Speeching style give student a very appreciative look, talking voice, properly, giving pause, bass in sound gives a prominent look of a student.

   ** languages usages, combination of words, selection of most suitable sentences gives one style of speech which elaborate the personality of a student. To be a prominent language and speech greatly matters for a student.

   ** Attitude like friendly and participative, social when occur in positive style in a student give him a prominent, appreciative look.

   ** Manner of dealing, discussing, questioning, answering give shine to a student personality. Laughing so much should be avoided and every moment should be handled with a sweet, stable and confident smile.

   ** Bold attitude, courage in task and projects, confident in studding steps, getting believe of teachers makes a student prominent in the class.

   ** All the things I have mentioned in above six points need one by one practice to gradually become a prominent student.

The Value of Loneliness

2010-05-24T14:45:00.001+05:00

To be alone satisfied with loneliness, determines us value of loneliness. loneliness is much valuable when its grow in suitable conditions and environment, it gives human those powers and abilities which makes one a human in real sense.

The great minds know the value of loneliness because wisdom, piousness wiseness, leadership, qualities, decision making, solution of depression, overconfidence and many more comes from the results and effects of loneliness.

Many of the average minds in this world thinkings the these no value of loneliness but that loneliness beside gathering and society gives many positive result.

Feelings Of Loneliness

2010-05-20T13:50:00.001+05:00

   Feelings of loneliness are sometime very painful and harsh, In loneliness one feel to be helpless, alone, he thinks that its the ending ending of everything his life, love, soul, and heart.

   Loneliness feels different to different persons and different to one person at different times, Feelings of loneliness, their effects and results depend upon the factor mentioned above.

   By thinking of loneliness negative effects are more significant that its cause dis hearting, depression, tension and unhappiness. These are due to that the person wants to be social and like gathering, so that in absence of his beloved ones and friends he fell in the fear of loneliness.

   And if we focus to the advantages and benefits of feelings of loneliness. If happens when we are alone with us mentally, hearting, we enjoy our soul, ideology, concepts of life. In this type of loneliness we are able to know about us.

   In my view many of great mind given to this world is by this type of feelings of loneliness. This situation give wisdom of heart openness of mind, brighting of souls.

   So loneliness, if manage properly, gives a delightful feelings.

Loneliness And Depression

2010-05-20T12:17:00.001+05:00

   Yes you find me correct, that i am talking about depression due to loneliness. How does loneliness results a situation of depression ?

   If you have question you must have to search for the answer. These are many views and ideas about this but I think matter is just one that.

   " Loneliness cause depression when depression cause loneliness "

   I think you got the answer, its just a difference in behavior, thinking and attitude, but solution is that you should not afraid from depression when you are alone stand and try to feel happy in loneliness then you will get rid of this problem just don't take if as a problem it doesn't becomes a problem for you.

   Don't be so afraid and sensitive, be simple get advantages of every thing weather its gathering or loneliness, depression or fear. You will get all.

Knowledge is the Study of Business of Everything ( Quotes )

2010-05-19T11:48:00.001+05:00

* Knowledge is the study of business of everything, by which we can know how to get profit and avoid loss, get success and avoid failure, get satisfaction and avoid disturbance, get peace and avoid clash, get something but avoid nothing.

* If you believe that no one comes to this world like you then ......... Do that which no one do in this world !

* Everyone is similar because all are human but ........... Everyone is different because all are different human.

* Its isn't necessary that everyones way is similar may be one has a different goal.

* If procedure is understandable just by theory no one in this world need practical experience.

* Words of one may be a silent ....... and ....... Silent of one may be more then a speech.

* Everything you do is love and everything done by you is love.

Fear of Loneliness

2010-05-19T11:28:00.001+05:00

Why people afraid to be alone ?

Why loneliness is hasted by some people ?

Why do people have fear of loneliness ?

   When we think about all these questions we are thinking to save us but in my point of view loneliness is beautiful thing, It has many advantages, many beautiful effects, many precious results.

   I want to ask those who personally afraid from loneliness, that if you have it your are lucky but its just a loneliness of mind, of soul, of thinks, the loneliness from relations, beloved once is so harsh and fearful.

   To be alone is the great factor of life because many the people are in search of loneliness when they become scared from their busy social life.

   So don't afraid to be alone, to give some fine, to just your self.

What is Loneliness ?

2010-05-17T17:25:00.001+05:00

   Loneliness a fear for every sensitive person, why people are afraid from loneliness? what is loneliness ? Why some like to be alone ? What the hell is to be alone ? And many more questions but everyone cannot be assure by this.

   Loneliness is of many types :

   1 : Physical loneliness:

   Physical loneliness is common, every can see, understand that one is alone at this time, no one is near him, no one close to him, to him to talk, enjoy or share.

   2 : Mental loneliness:

   Mental loneliness is fearful that one cannot share his feeling, emotions nothing around him to enjoy play laugh and hug.

   In this type of loneliness one may have gathering in loneliness.
   Its very complex to understand it, its effects, and results.

Benefits Of Gathering

2010-05-15T17:43:00.001+05:00

   Gathering a word of making smiles, a tool to get heart, closed, an event for which everyone tried to free from his business, job or studies.

   Nature of human is social so automatically human like society, family and friends to enjoy his life time. Gathering benefits are endless. What we get when we met others in at classroom, office, club, playground, park, home or a commercial place? The answer of benefits of gathering is so long as long as infinity.

   People shares ideas with each others.

  1 : We earn experience others natures, habits, interest, quantities and likes and dislikes.

  2 : In gathering we can share experience of professional life, social life, residential problems.

  3 : We can discuss other peoples, concepts, revolutions, problems, solutions.

   As such benefits of gathering are unable for a pen to write, for a book to describe. for a man to search.

   But gathering still gives much more to us actually the word experience is greatly related to gathering. So we can get wisdom of life solutions of problems, confidence in complexion.

   Its a universal truth that gathering gives us the concept:

  1 : How to live ?

  2 : How to get aim of life ?

  3: How to serve others ?

  4 : How to carry out the relations ?

  5 :How to be successful ?

Benefits Of Loneliness

2010-05-15T16:40:00.001+05:00

A general concept about loneliness is that its hunt, its painful, when I was a child I heard that "Everything in this world has advantages and disadvantages".

   If I think normally loneliness has its disadvantages more and may be one or two beneficial thing it. I have also heard a quote "loneliness is the the place where great minds grow up". In case to be to be alone is the great factor for make up of mind, idea, concepts, emotions, answers.

   You had seen in your life many people who like to spend their spare time alone. Many of them like nature, beauty, poetry, fiction etc.I can say that loneliness give you time to get close your interests. If you have artistic or spiritual nature, there is a great chance that you like to be alone.

   Actually loneliness gives you to you, u can give time to yourself, your ideas, thinkings, some your problems, plan about your future. When your alone tried from your normal, crowded life you come close to yourself and start thinking about you, the most complex machine in the universe.

   If you have read about many great names in the history, that they are alone maximum time, they wanna loneliness to fulfill their soul and mind to get peace and wisdom.

   Survey reports tells that loneliness is a way to get rid of most tensions because we think deeply and whole heartedly in the matter which we are facing . To be alone for sometime regularly, daily or weekly, and giving yourself a few minutes greatly reduced depression.

   So in my suggestion give yourself time along with your works, activities, games, hanging out, and what ever u like to do in your loneliness spare time just try you will really get that what your searching for..........

How to Improve Your Walking Style

2010-05-12T12:28:00.000+05:00

   A way of attraction walking style whether you are a male or female walking style matters to your attraction. Models and actors practice theirs walking styles according to their needs.

   A common human looks good to walk in a certain passion. Those who have attractive decent and appreciative walking style are ideal for those who wanna copy them and to walk like them.

   Some general suggestions to improve your walking styles are :

   1 : First get control on your walking speed neither too fast nor too slow, but walk in a standard manner. Walking style greatly depend upon the speed to walk.

     A good standard in speed can be maintain by the practice of three to four days.

   2 : posture while walking is in an effective manner commonly a calm, peaceful, satisfied posture is good looking.

  3 : walking style does not just depends upon the movement of legs,hand also matter. The movement of hand should not be so fast or slow in too or fro manner but in an equilibrium style.

   Many looks good to walk just due to their movement of hands.

  4 : Movement of other body parts like head also matters, good walking style needs very slow movement of head.

First Impression

2010-05-11T18:15:00.000+05:00

   Research reports falls us that people largely made up their ming about a person with in the first five minutes of meeting him or her.

   How can I define first impression? A firm hand shake, sustained eye contact, a warm smile, good posture and inferencing yourself in a relaxed and confident manner.

   To learn about a five impression, you should observe other roll models around you, about them you can say that they are ideal to me for this.

   First impression not only depends upon what you had wear? Whats your hairstyle? How types of shoes, sandals you have? All these things matters a lot, you have to take great care of it, but along with this you must have :

  1 : peace in your mind,

  2 : fresh mode,

  3 : a charming expression,

  4 : calmness in your body (stability of your hands, legs, etc),

  5 : your eye contact,

  6 : straight head position,

  7 : your style to sit and stand.....

   Beside all these your style of dressing, hairs and some other things like bands, watch, ribbons etc, effect due to your current, if you are in an office all this goes to fine, conservative, decent, simple and if you are in a get together or park your first impression goes more satisfied in a cool, smart and easy passion.

   First impression greatly depends upon your age,its phase in different ages are different. first impression look and its needs changes from a kid to a teenager, from teenager to a young, from young to a mature and to old.

   So keeps these generals things in your mind and search and observe the things thats suits you, your sex, environment, your age and other things that you can recognize to improve your impression especially first impression.

Seven Ways to Get Respect

2010-05-06T17:04:00.007+05:00

Respect is a desire, a need, a matter for which a man can do what ever he earn. Many times the hunger of richness is to get respect.

Q : How can we get respect?

Q :How can desire me?

Q :How can my personality become respectable?

As for as i'm concern i observe this matter as following:

1 : "Give Respect and Love Respect"

Respect others, respect your company, respect your relation, respect your colleagues, companions, relatives, beloved ones and close ones.

2 : "Respect Due to Attitude"

Try to make your attitude operative, social. Be calm at harsh movements, try to control your anger as much as you can. Resolve the problem and patience. Face the difficulties and openness always scan your attitude just like one mirror in yourself.

3 : "Respect Due to Personality"

Give your personality a good look. Elaborate finely your dressing, makeup, hairstyles. Give leadership shape to your style to standing, walking and sitting.

* Think about your perfection from every angle of your personality.

* Make yourself attractive as much as you can and remember "simplicity is maturity".

* Decent in your style make your look a respectable.

4 : "Respect Due to language"

Tongue is the device which shape your personality in others mind. Talking, conversation and speech of a person show '90%' of what he is, language style represent you more then anything in you.

* So be polite, be patient, be bold, have courage, have dignity, have confidence in your voice, your speech, your conversation, your meetings .

* Give your voice a power that others respect you, accept your ideas, your feelings, your thinking.

* If u want to make you a successful man than first of all you improve your tongue power. The tongue power is a GOD gifted thing but if you have tongue power then you have world in your hand.

* Learn the voice at successful persons around you, observe their style of speech, style to talk etc.

5 : " Get Respect With Love"

   When I talk about the love, I talk about the most powerful force.If you have love for everything, every person ultimately you got attraction to then and similarly they to you.

6 : "laugh and smile"

     There is no doubt that laughing is like gold for life but smile has many more advantages then a laugh.

* You had observe the great, ideal, respectable persons that smile often but laugh rare. why do they do this?
  copy them you observe changes in few days.

7 : "use you mind"

* Also observe other ways that you think necessary for getting respect according to your culture, society, economics and other situations.

* By this you will final '60%' of useful points that leads you t a respectable person.

Love with Friends

2010-05-05T19:19:00.007+05:00

=> Everyone love his friends because they are the only relation which a man made himself so these persons are two close to one.

=> If ceiling falls .......... run out if sky falls ........... pause.

=> If you are charming ......then become the charm of others.

=> To love someone is to idealize someone.

=> Student is one who wants to study.

=> To study yourself is not to study a man body.........its to study the universe.

=> The greatest hope is achieved after greatest hopeless thing.

=> The honor in the society is to be great but great has no honor in the society.

=> Make yourself such neat and clean that mirror can see itself in you.

=> Why we make life a harsh dream? ......... we can make it a pretty prediction.

=> The aim of human completed when he is able to recognize his status his God's status.

=> The top most blessing is to be a human.

=> The beauty speech is given by speech beauty.

=> Who is God?

* Who creates by destroying and destroy by creation?

* Who give up by? who give growth?

* Who manage every thing

Remedy and Time

2010-05-05T17:09:00.014+05:00

Recovery or remedy is most charming happening in the life. It makes the life in continuous mode after the problems, Dis hearts.

Remedies make us able to stand and face the life again because life is full of troubles and worries, man struggles throughout his life to get rid of there to find the satisfaction, smoothness and happiness.

According to me the time is the best recovery of any harm, disease, and problem. A time is universal bandage to every matter, its a natural treatment to every quarrel.

Its a remedy to all type of diseases, harms, complete worries and hard times. So hard time is leveled by the good time.

There is a bad property of good time its never be good till last and there is a good property in bad time its never be bad till last.

So there good after every bad and Therese bad after every good. So don't worry, time is like an alternating current its alternate from time to time.

Researching Yourself

2010-05-05T15:27:00.007+05:00

Many people incorrectly assume that they know themselves well enough and that they don't need to spend time thinking about themselves.

It is important to think your self and to reflect on how your experiences have prepared you. It is also important be able to articulate to a stranger what he or she is interested about you. It may awkward at first to talk about yourself if you are not accustomed to it.

To think about yourself, consider the followings:

=> Long-standing as well as brand-new interests and hobbies.

=> Talents and ability that you have.

=> Skills that you would like to develop or improve.

=> Activities and tasks that you would like to avoid.

=> Lifestyle, earnings , location.

=> Kinds of people and environments that you prefer.

=> Current career and educational goals.

=> Past experiences that you would like to highlight and what you have learned from them.

=> These could be ANY kind of experiences including work, volunteer, academic, artistic and travel.

Think broadly.....

A mirror

2010-05-04T15:28:00.001+05:00

   World most beautiful thing because its help us to take care of us more and more.Everyone, many times in a day use mirror to look himself either he is looking good or not. A aha! what a thing , what a miracle, in front of which i can see me and me can see i.

   If i think of absence of mirror in the world then i think of everyone looking harsh and harsh and love, likeness start destroying just as ozone in the upper atmosphere.

   Everyone of us know that world's second largest industry is of cosmetic, which totally depend upon mirror , if we are removing mirror from the world we are removing the second largest industry of the world.

          Actually a mirror is your friend, a friend that tells you what suits you or not , what should you adopt or not, how your friends and beloved ones impressed by you. You stand in front of it in a different pose, dressing, styles, situations and it tells you finely at at every spot whats good, whats better and whats best. On the other side it tells you what looks bad, what worse and whats worst.

   In case, a human` is a very complex plant, very sensitive industry, very vast market, very crowded street, very busy interchange.

   Thats why you are yourself a mirror to you, i m my self a mirror to me, we are ourselves mirror to us. We can get many things in life by this , many experiences, many success stories, many of achievements , so keep studying your self as in a mirror in a different pose, styles, don;t criticize on others until you are satisfied with you. Watch yourself throughly ...... observe yourself purely ...... scan your self deeply....

The world biggest slogan "My Wright"

2010-05-04T13:05:00.000+05:00

   'Where is my wright' everyone is demanding, asking, fighting,crying. A matter which born with the born of society, from the start when one turns two.

   The matter of duties and wright is a great topic of discussion for the hundred of years  but no one is satisfied, everyone is asking for more and everyone is disturbed by non accuracy of wrights. A slogan which has many forms, many conditions, many views but have nothing to satisfied.

   In case, duties and devotions gives peace of mind to human. Don't live for others live for yourself , then you can live for others.Greatness is just to love humanity, serve humanity.

   Its complex to admire that ' die for humanity ' because its an end so just try to ' do for humanity '.

Whats the most precious thing you have in your life ?

2010-05-02T15:34:00.000+05:00

Do you ever think about it .... whats the best in my life ?

a question thats looks crazy but makes one wise who get the answer.

Is money is precious or relations are most valuable ?
Is peace of mind is golden or wisdom of heart is best ?
Is time is most important or matter is wonderful ?
Is knowledge is of most benefit or ignorance is the useful ?
Is soul is the main thing or your body got all the credit ?
Is life is necessary or death gives everything ? .......

So many question so many answers, as questions vary from person to person answers are not same for all.

I think the only super thing in you is you, in me in me !

So go get know about the most precious thing you have......

Don't destroy others peace ....you will get the peace.

2010-05-02T13:52:00.000+05:00

* The difference between your will and God will is called .... worry or tension.

* Lucky is who is satisfied with his luck, happy with his luck.

* Lucky is one who is satisfied with himself, with his condition, with his status, with his thinking, with his present and satisfied with his God.

* Get the company of wise ....... you will get peace.
Give similarity between interests and duty ... you will get peace.
Don't destroy others peace ....you will get the peace.

* Just do what you can , don't worry about what you to do, but you can't ..... so be calm every happening happen in this world and nothing happened in this world too.

* Till you don't respect anyone don't expect him to respect you.

* Human is by birth cute .... and .... God wants him back in similar state .... its a business of God .... so He don't wanna loss in this ... so try to b cute !

* Hide the truth ..... if there is a truth .... hide it .... it becomes apparent ... if you wanna tell , it hides ... so be careful... may its become a lie just at your tongue .... or.... a truth in your mind .

Life is just like a public transport

2010-04-30T13:41:00.001+05:00

* Simple is always best and best is always simple.

* We can walk everywhere but travel is just on roads.

* Nose is must to smell ...... similarly ..... awareness is must to judge.

* People ask me what is the solution of all the problems ...... i think ... problems are its self solutions, solutions are everywhere, every time, every moment..... but .... solution is that there is no solution.

* Some times hesitation is due to proud.

* Something something due to love ...... and ...... nothing is nothing due to effort.

* Life is just like a public transport ..... every vehicle ,every moment is unknown, unbelievable, unexpected
and more is that you have to change your convince many more times. some times you are so relax but sometime everything go difficult , sometime you are worried about everything, sometime you puzzle to chose the next vehicle sometime you lost hope, some how you got good passion, sometime you say that you are lucky then everyone, ups and downs are there, failures and success are there, panic and picnic are there..... so life is full of colors , see them, watch them, enjoy them.

* Some say, life is just in heaven and this world is just a fake ..... i say, life is just in you in yourself.

* Don't search for the correct ...... be-correct.

* Pain always exist in loneliness .... and .... loneliness is must for pain.