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Writing Your Wedding Speech

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Tue, 16 Aug 2011 09:44:00 +0000

Could there be anything more terrifying? For many people speaking in public is the ultimate fear while others consider being in the spotlight their rightful place and crave any audience. However most guys fear having to write and deliver a wedding speech.

Traditionally the Father of the Bride gives the first speech, during which he ends by toasting the happy couple. It also seems to be tradition for the Brides father to give the longest and dullest speech possible and talk for longer than the ceremony lasted. This can be easily avoided with a few simple tips. Second comes the Groom who will publicly thank the bridesmaids, ushers and acknowledge both sets of parents. The Best Man’s speech is usually given 3^rd and there is an expectation that this is the main act of what can sometimes be a rather dull part of proceedings. This speech will either be celebrated as the high point of the wedding or he’ll be removed bodily from the building by the bride’s angry brothers while the bride’s mother looks on scowling. The best man should not only mention the bride but he also answers on behalf of the bridesmaids and ushers for the kind words of the Groom.

Timing

At many weddings the father of the bride’s has been known to drag out a bit, well it’s only fair, he is the one that laid out all the cash so that a load of relatives he doesn’t like and strangers he’s never met and will probably never meet again can have a free meal and party at his expense. However there is no need for him to be dull and there is help at hand (see below). Most Grooms don’t prepare their speech and try to rush through it as quickly as possible, seeing as its his party the Groom can get away with delivering his speech however he chooses. The perfect wedding speech should last around 7 minutes.

Language

Swearing is a big “no no”. Just don’t do it. Remember this will be a very mixed crowd.

Jokes

Most of the time the real fun stuff comes from the Best Man however although he is there to ensure the groom gets a comedy roast what might seem really funny to a the Groom and his friends down the pub on a Friday night might not be the kind of thing that’s going to amuse the bride’s grandparents. If you are undecided about whether something is too close to the knuckle then its best to err on the side of caution.

The Basic Phases

All three of the wedding speeches can be broken down into phases, stick with this basic rules and you can’t go wrong. Here is an example of the Best Man’s speech phases.

Introduction. Introduce yourself and your relationship to the groom. This is a good place to try your first joke to relax yourself and your audience.
The formal bit. Reply on behalf of the bridesmaids, ushers, etc. Compliment the bride’s parents on the great day and their hospitality. And compliment the bride.
The Roast. A few gags or a relevant story at the groom’s expense.
Words of wisdom. Offer some words of advice or insights into marriage, this is a good place to deliver some killer jokes or quotes.
Time to be nice. Before you wrap up and now that you have given the groom such a hard time its then time to offer some sincerity and best wishes for the future.
Postman. Read out any messages or cards from those who couldn’t make it on the day.
Toast. Finish your speech by asking everyone to stand and raise their glasses to the newlyweds. This might have been done by the father of the bride but no one will mind toasting the happy couple a second time and it’s a great way to bring your speech to a close.

Speech Writing Services

The internet has numerous companies that offer to write your speech for you and while this may seem an easy option it isn’t a great idea. Firstly these “writers” don’t know you, everyone has a particular way of speaking and so there’s no way they can write for your speech patterns. Also they have never met the happy couple so how can they be qualified to speak to them? No matter whether you are the Father of the Bride, the Groom or the Best Man your speech should come from you.

If need be there are plenty of sites that can help providing you with a bonanza of one liners and ice breakers that you can weave into your speech without losing your own important words. But don’t be afraid to mix good humour with a hint of romance, there are many great quotes on love and marriage which can give your speech a touch of class. Let’s face it most guys have never had to write a speech before let alone ensure that it is littered with a few laughs to keep the crowd entertained.

Using databases to help bring your speech to life is a useful tip and can certainly fill in the blanks and give you some humorous hand grenades to throw when needed but keep in mind that ultimately it must be YOUR speech and YOUR words, it’s a special celebration and your chance to pay tribute to a couple who hold you in such high esteem.

Most of all don’t let the nerves get to you. A famous English comedian once commented that giving a wedding speech is a bit like making love to the queen, it’s a great honour but nobody really wants to do it. People recognise how hard it is to have to give a wedding speech, everyone at the wedding wants you to do a great job and so is on your side willing you to do well. So relax, enjoy and don’t let it give you too many sleepless nights. Stick to the basic rules and you will be celebrated as the hero of the hour. The Father of the Bride will have the adoration of his wife and beautiful daughter and admiration of his friends and relatives. The Groom will show why his new wife chose so wisely and be welcomed into the arms of his new family. For the Best Man…. Well get it right and you could well wind up with your pick of the bridesmaids!

For more expert tips and advice go to;

www.simplythebestman.com

www.simplythefatherofthebride.com

www.simplythegroom.com

Choosing a Short Wedding Dress

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 16:33:00 +0000

A wedding dress is a symbol of the bride’s style and personality. Traditional gowns incorporate trains and quite a number of limiting layers. The modern bride does not have to have a style and design that does not fit into her lifestyle as she starts hermarriage. The full length and bulky traditional wedding dress is being replaced and fast, with shorter and less limiting versions. They are considered to be trendy and especially flattering for those with beautiful long legs to showcase. The beauty of this short gown is that it can be worn by anyone regardless of their figure or height. There are however several factors to consider when choosing a short dress as one gets married:

A person with a small frame or of short stature will do well to choose a short dress as they getmarried as it will flatter their frame and figure. A traditional dress with its layers tends to overburden the person with a small frame.
The versatility of a short gown is one thing that makes it attractive indeed. It can be worn comfortably for the wedding ceremony, the reception and later in the evening as the couple and their guests get down till the break of dawn.
This short version of the gown can be made in a variety of styles too. Some long dresses come with a detachable bottom part to reveal a shorter dress after the solemn church marriageceremony.
A variety of the short dress is the tea length that is halfway between the full length and the knee length dress.

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Desperate Housewives

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Mon, 23 May 2011 14:05:00 +0000

Many times I look at some marriages and wonder what in the world the women are thinking. I myself have been in abusive relationships and I am sure many were looking in on my situation asking “why doesn’t she just leave him?” When I used to watch desperate housewives, I was shocked and even ashamed at hour far we women could go to get and keep a man. Today I have to say my eyes have been open and i hope that as you read this yours will be too.

After the fall of man from grace in the Garden of Eden, God dished out the consequences of their disobedience. He said to the woman that her desire would be for her husband and he will rule over her. Initially God created the male to rule and have dominion over the earth, he also gave him a woman to do that with, his equal. But after what they did, things changed, now the woman would be running all over doing all manner of desperate things to get and keep her man, while her man would be running around trying to conquer and rule over all things including his woman who now was no longer his equal.

It is not once I have heard a man say with such force and even a hint of threat in his voice that “ I am a man” I am the man” it is also not once that a man has referred to me simply as “ woman!” if you think back to a time you have heard this you will find that it is often used when the man is trying to put the woman his her place, trying to show his authority and make a statement. These words mostly come as a finality, a nothing further to discuss and I have decided kind of way. The woman on the other had will find herself doing all manner of things to please her man because she cannot bear the thought of him leaving her. He could be battering her ( trying to rule her) and she will stay because she loves him and does not want to lose him. What makes this sad is that it is true.

God loved us so much that he sent his only son to redeem and return us to our original status and his original plan. Men in Christ do not feel the need to rule over their woman, they understand that they have been given the power to rule and have dominion once again over all the earth. Women in Christ know that they are a gem, that they are a suitable helper for the man God has given them, that it is in spirit that we catch and keep a man and not in flesh or in works. It is therefore important that as men and women we first be redeemed in Christ Jesus to our original selves and status before we then enter into a marriage. This way there will be the original harmony and way of life that Adam and Eve had. Their marriage was heaven on earth. It was mutual, equal not a competition and not a series of desperate measures brought about by competing with his work, boys, and other women for your man.

What to Wear on a Date

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Wed, 30 Mar 2011 10:00:00 +0000

What we wear generally conveys a message on the type of person we are and the impression we intend to make on the person(s) we come across. The people we meet will get a certain idea of how we are thinking by the way we dress. Whether we are dressing for the office, a picnic with family, a night out with friends, a wedding or a date with a loved one, what we choose to wear matters a lot. When going out for a date, it is important to convey the correct message with no mixed signals by the way we dress. The first thing to consider is where the date is going to be and the kind of activities to be engaged in. A picnic on the mountains will require one to dress differently from a dinner date. A couple planning their wedding will choose their outfits carefully so as to make the event special.

Going out on a date is an opportunity for the couple to get to know more about each other before they get married. They maximize on enjoying each other’s company and being at ease as they do this. It is therefore important to wear something comfortable that will not be a distraction to either party. Above all the clothes should fit well. Consider trying out the outfit before hand on a separate occasion. Nothing is more uncomfortable than having to deal with ill-fitting clothes while trying to appear calm. The colours chosen should also correspond to the venue and date activities. A day at the beach requires cheerful, bright clothing that is lightweight enough so as not to be overbearing in the heat, while an intimate dinner at a classy restaurant may call for more toned down colours and designs.

As far as impressions go it is important to wear something that portrays who you are. A very expensive one-time buy that is not characteristic of you may give the impression that you are high maintenance while you are not. One’s true colours will ultimately be revealed as soon as marriage begins. The outfit one gets married in must also be comfortable. When clothes should not be a distraction, they should be appealing and add to your total thought-out look. When one is comfortable in their outfit they exude confidence.

One’s style and taste should not be compromised when they go out on a date. When this happens the whole event may be strained. A jeans and sneakers person may feel a little imposed on when they have to wear a formal suit for a date. It is important to keep to your individuality, but at the same time the venue and occasion must be considered. Once the couple is hitched, their individuality will be perpetuated throughout their marriage. Jeans and sneakers will not do in a chic restaurant, maybe for a movie and fast food date. Also wearing clothes that are too revealing especially for gives the impression of cheapness and loose morals.

Lip Make-up and Lip care

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 10:00:00 +0000

The lips are a prominent feature on the face and should be made up appropriately for a complete and attractive look. On the wedding day the lips are a focal point at some point when the groom is asked to kiss his bride. It is therefore important for the bride to make sure that her lips are kissable as she gets married by preparing before hand. She should keep up the routine throughout the marriage to keep the flames burning. It is important to exfoliate the lips regularly and this is easily done using a toothbrush gently. This is because the skin on the lips is very delicate and may break easily when harshly handled. This delicate skin is also exposed and must be kept moisturized always as dry lips crack and can be quite unsightly and painful.

A well made-up face must include due attention to the lips. A good smile is hampered by unkempt, dry lips. After exfoliating, the lips must be moisturized using a suitable lip balm or just plain petroleum jelly which should keep the lips moist and not dry them out. Chemicals will dry out the lips, so the lip balm should be as free from these as possible. Make-up can be used to create different effects and for different occasions and these includes make-up for lips too. Bridal lips for the wedding day differ from lips made-up for the office or a party. Lip liner is the next basic lip make-up that is used to define the lips. This is applied at the edges of the lips to give them a more character. The colour of the liner should match the colour of lip gloss or lipstick to be worn over it.

Lip make-up can also be used to create the effect of fuller or thinner lips depending on the wearer. To achieve fuller lips, it is recommended to use a lighter shade of lip make-up and a darker shade for the effect of thinner lips. People with very thin lips opt for collagen enhanced or inducing lip make-up that gives them fuller lips. This is a much cheaper option than the painful collagen injections. Once the lip liner has been applied, lipstick in the desired colour that complements the skin colour is then applied. This is best applied using a brush for an even distribution. Sometimes two shades are applied for a classier look.

Application of lip gloss is the next step. This may be clear or a colour that matches the lip liner and lipstick. It helps to add sheen to the lips, making the colour stand out and also to set the lipstick so that it does not run. Lip gloss can be applied on its own without the lipstick for a more toned-down effect. Clear lip gloss is ideal for the effect of fuller lips. Keeping to such a routine of lip care and make-up for the married keeps the lips kissable throughout, which is a plus for any marriage.

Essentials of a Gentleman’s Manicure

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Sun, 20 Mar 2011 10:00:00 +0000

It is not uncommon to see men with well kept nails in recent years. This is because they are realizing the importance of taking care of themselves and their grooming routines are now including having manicures. Shaking hands is inevitable and a good impression does not just include a firm handshake. Soft hands and clean nails go a long way in impressing a stranger, a prospective boss or even a date. A groom preparing to get married will find that such care of his hands will add confidence and complete his attire on the wedding day. The bride will also appreciate a man with soft hand and well kept nails as she looks forward for his caresses as they begin their marriage.

Well kept hands can be achieved from the luxurious manicure at a beauty salon which has to be supplemented with regular/daily care. Men who use their hands for heavy duty work are bound to develop calluses. These can be easily removed by gently scrubbing the area with a pumice stone. Care should be taken so that excessive skin is not removed as this may be painful, however as much of the build-up as possible must be removed. One step that is necessary whether one is getting married or not is exfoliating the hands. This can be done at home using sugar and a moisturizer. This is rubbed gently on the hands and rinsed off with clean water. A moisturizer is then applied to further soften the hands and to seal in the moisture.

Cuticles should be taken care of to avoid painful tears. These should be pushed back slightly using a special stick after the application of a cuticle softener. This process also gives the nails a nice oval shape. Buffering is a process of gently rubbing the top of the nail to give it a shine. This is done using a buffer stick which is available at stores selling beauty products. The effect is not as pronounced as using clear nail polish but it lasts longer without the chipping too. Men’s nails should be kept short and even. Using a good quality and sharp clipper will do this easily at home. A nail file is used on the edges to even them out. Even short nails have to be cleaned under the edges as dirt can still lodge there and become unsightly and unhygienic. A nail brush used daily will ensure that the nails are clean always.

Lemon with its disinfecting and cleaning properties can be used on the hands by cutting it into half and twisting the hand in it. It cleans both the nails and the cuticles and leaves a fragrantly fresh scent. A gentleman’s manicure weekly, does not reduce masculinity in any way but actually boosts it in these times when it pays to look good. An upcoming wedding may be incentive enough to step up home care for nails and hands for the groom but the routine should be continued throughout the marriage.

Planning a Romantic Easter Getaway

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Thu, 17 Mar 2011 09:40:00 +0000

The Easter weekend presents a great opportunity for a holiday getaway and for the married couple it could be the wonderful opportunity for a second honeymoon. This season is also characterized by weddings and the honeymoon taken at this time is quite memorable indeed. There are quite a number of Easter getaway destinations; it all depends on the couple’s choice of relaxation venue. The choice may be between places that have a marked Easter culture where this holiday is commemorated with pomp to quite toned-down locations that offer relaxing holidays. A first honeymoon destination may be an island or tropical location where the couple can enjoy their early marriage days in colourful places that actually specialize in this. Such locations may include islands like Hawaii, Seychelles or Zanzibar. This works for a second honeymoon too where the couple may get to enjoy a similar experience as their first honeymoon or a totally new one.

A religious married couple may opt to visit historical sites such as Israel or Greece which celebrate Passover or Easter on a whole new dimension. Such destinations offer a variety of activities in commemorating this feast, such as fireworks displays and parades around the cities. The couple is bound to catch an enactment of the days leading to the biblical Passover as well as the real sites that this happened, such as the Via Delarosa in Israel. Such an experience is quite moving for the religious and may kindle spiritual feelings for the not so religious. Apart from the spiritual bit, culturally these sites are rich in their practices which they have preserved for years. Some of the biblical sites are intact with most of the features remaining untouched, save the necessary upkeep. They also provide a perfect location for the wedding of a lifetime with the picturesque landscape.

For varied reasons, some couples may not be able to get away for a very long period of time and may have to find a location locally for the weekend only. In such a case they should shop for a quiet serene atmosphere such as a villa or cabin close to home so that they are not inconvenienced. The beauty of not travelling far is that the couple gets to spend more time together. In some cases it is not the beauty of the location but the quality time spent together that matters. Such a getaway allows the couple to bond on a whole new level which puts the spark back into their marriage.

The adventurous couple may opt to go for a cruise by taking advantage of the numerous offers available at this time for such holidays. These may be a bit pricey, but the magic of being out in the sea is always captivating. Luxury cruise ships have exciting activities for their guests on Easter holidays which include romantic dinners for couples on honeymoon or celebrating their anniversary. Special buffet dinners are also served which include all the traditional Easter delicacies like ham and potatoes.

Easter Décor for the Garden

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Wed, 09 Mar 2011 09:30:00 +0000

The Easter season holds a different significance to different people. Some look forward to the holiday because of the religious importance attached to it while others are eager for some free time to spend with family and friends. To others, this season heralds newness with the dawning of spring and it also most popular for weddings with many couples choosing this time to start their marriage and new life together. It is a season characterized with celebration with homes decked in signature Easter décor that is cheerful, heightening the celebratory mood. The inside of the house including the dinner table are given the most attention, however, the yard or garden can be done colourfully to depict the season

The front door is probably the first thing that guests to the home will see on arrival and hanging a themed wreath on it is a cheerful welcome. For a wedding theme, the wreath can be incorporated in the archway for more pomp. These can be bought ready made which is handy for one short of time to create one at home. However, with a little creativity a personalized Easter wreath can be made at home using several items that are reminiscent of the season. Ready made Easter eggs or even hand-painted ones are a great addition to a front door wreath. Eggs signify newness of life and a blessing when incorporated in the décor as a couple gets married in this season. Beautiful and colourful ribbons will give the wreath a cheerful look that is great welcome to the home. Alternatively, an Easter tree can be used in place of a garland or wreath. This is made up of branches, with colourful Easter eggs hanging from it. Bows and ribbons add pomp and colour to this striking décor item.

When the weather is good and bright with no rain in sight, some Easter bunnies can be placed in the garden to heighten the mood of the season as well as excite children. An Easter egg hunt is a great game to play in the garden in such lovely weather. Colourful signs and banners placed on trees in the garden or on the fence will indicate clues to the game. If the weather is not all that cheery, then a pair of Easter bunnies placed on the porch brightens up the holiday mood. This type of décor is especially significant for a newly married couple to herald fruitfulness.

Any celebration is never complete without sharing a meal. The garden is a lovely place to set up a picnic table for the Easter meal. This should be draped in linen with Easter depictions such as bunnies or eggs. If this is not available a plain white table cloth is ideal with a bunny and eggs basket centrepiece. Hand-painted eggs in bright colours in a gorgeous basket incorporating an Easter bunny in the middle makes for a most striking centrepiece. This is a most unique décor item for a marriage reception table during Easter.

Dancing for Fitness and Bonding

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Sun, 06 Mar 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Some married couples find it hard to commit to a fitness regime coming up with all sorts of excuses. This can be easily solved by creating an opportunity for the couple to have fun while at the same time improving their overall health. Before marriage most couples go out dancing and had fun doing this. Dance is an integral part of most wedding ceremonies too. Dance is a great way of having fun while keeping fit since it raises the heart rate. The next hurdle is to have coordinated moves so that the essential parts receive a much needed work out. Thankfully there are several fitness studios that incorporate dance as one of their programs. However, there are several forms of dancing such as hip hop, ballroom, salsa, jazzercise and even ballet. The main aim of the exercise is to enjoy and keep fit at the same time, so the favourite form of dancing has to be identified.

Once the dance style has been identified, it is important to assess the level of fitness to know the level of the program to enroll in. A basic beginner’s class will help in determining this. The other issue may that the married couple is at different levels of fitness. In such a case compromise has to be reached so that they can be at the same pace. The fitter one can help the other to attain to their level of fitness with patience. The beauty of dancing as a couple is that there is no age limit and what a way to add spice to a marriage with all that close dancing since dance involves contact.

The mode of the exercise routine has to be decided upon since there are many options such as a private instructor in the privacy of your home or group sessions. It is easy to commit to the option that one is most comfortable with rather than one that is imposing. It helps to know that the exercise routine is beneficial to the whole body. The heart benefits most since an increased heart rate helps in burning calories and this is great for reducing cholesterol levels and keeping the entire body whole and healthy. This type of exercise is recommended even for the ones who are advanced in age as it strengthens their body too. Dancing is done on ones feet so the leg from the hip to the toe is given a much needed toning and workout.

The lure of dancing is so great such that competitions are organized even for ballroom dancing. Any couple that loves to get down can take part in these and get fit while winning prizes and having fun at it too. Dance for exercise is a great way for the couple to relive their wedding day when they danced the night away till the morning light. The few extra pounds put on over the years can be shed as the couple gets back in shape in the most fun way.

Making Your Bathroom A Haven

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 15:00:00 +0000

The bathroom is a place where people retreat to when they need to clean up and relax. For married couples, putting together the right bathroom can prove very challenging. Different tastes and preferences must come together and agree to form a haven that will be pleasing to the couples. There are several ways to achieve the perfect bathroom and people in marriage need not look further. The following tips are designed to guide and allow people to make the most of what they have. Communication is crucial because it will hold the key to creating a bathroom to behold.

Couples will certainly want to create something personal and customized for their bathroom. The first step for people is to consider what they like and what they don’t like as well. Bringing together ideas on design, color, textures and so on is the right start. All people will find this very helpful. Come together and reason together and consider what an ideal bathroom décor would be. Many women tend to hijack the process of transforming or creating the ideal bathroom but consultations are a must if everyone is to be happy.

Planning for the bathroom is just like having a wedding planned and all elements have to come together perfectly for people to enjoy the space. Couples should consider whether they want to build a bathroom from scratch or renovate it. It really does not matter whether it is small or elaborate renovation because the bathroom can be the desired haven. Consider whether hiring a professional to do the work is better. When it comes to making improvements in the home, couples can join forces and work together. This can further strengthen their bond and train them on this vital philosophy of unity.

Married couples can therefore choose to get their hands dirty and have a wonderful time together as they embark to create a dream bathroom. It can be a romantic escape from the usual. The cost of materials that will go into creating the bathroom needs to be discussed. Couples in marriage will certainly save a whole lot when they choose to do it instead of hiring professionals. Getting hands on the best DIY guides is a good step and this will guide even the most inexperienced people in the right direction.

Browse through the variety of galleries in bathroom models online and get some inspiration. Many are the detailed guides that will enable couples go step by step to achieve the ideal look for their dream bathroom. There are several aspects that couples will consider regarding the kind of bathroom they want. After a wedding, people will want a place where they can cherish, a place of comfort and style; the list goes on and on. It really all depends on what people want. Use of marbles and all manner of stone to garnish the bathroom decor is common. Bright colors such as awesome orange shades are also prevalent as the bathroom is made welcoming at all times.

Wedding Customs and Traditions

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 07:30:00 +0000

Wedding customs and traditions around the world are as diverse as the cultures that embrace and perpetuate them. They are considered a sign of identity and as such they are highly respected and adhered to religiously. It is also interesting to note how these diverse customs and traditions are getting increasingly intertwined as the world becomes a global village and intermarriages are on the rise. This necessitates at least a basic knowledge in these diverse matrimonial traditions as one is bound to be in an intercultural nuptial celebration even if as a guest. In most cultures, however, the marriage union is highly revered and a wedded couple is regarded well in society. Traditionally it is considered a rite of passage that most young people aspire to by a certain age.

Oriental and African Wedding Traditions

In many cultures especially in the orient and Muslim cultures, planned marriages are the norm. This is usually an agreement between the two families involved and it can be done as early as when the couple are infants. It is a respected custom by all such that the entire community knows that the two are betrothed and may not be approached by another for a marriage proposal. A breach in such an agreement attracts a hefty fine paid by the offender and the family. The bride and groom are usually of the same class socially and they grow up being groomed to be a spouse to each other in the customary way. Divorce is not acceptable in most cultures except in extreme cases and polygamy is only accepted with consent from the first wife or wives.

Bride price, dowry or a gift is usually paid from one family to another. In African society this is paid by the groom and his family to the bride’s family. This is an intricate and sensitive matter that elders in society are consulted to give a reasonable figure. A couple is considered married only after this figure is paid up. When this is insurmountable, it is paid in installments on agreement from both families. In Hindu culture, the dowry is paid by the bride’s family to the groom’s family. In the Jewish culture gifts are given to the bride’s family and the bride also receives gifts from the groom as a sign of love and honour.

In some cultures such as the Muslims and even in some traditional African societies, the bridal ceremony goes on for several days each significant in its intricate detail. In most communities including the Muslim and Philippines the bride and groom do not meet a day before they are married. Infact for the Muslims the bride and groom are in separate rooms when they say their vows and only meet after this! Colour is also symbolic in certain cultures such as the Chinese who have a soft spot for red. It signifies love and joy. Most brides choose this colour for their wedding garments and it is also used to wrap gifts couple with gold for wealth and happiness.

Gym Selection before Marriage

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 11:27:00 +0000

They say that one loses weight automatically in the few months leading up to their wedding. This is attributed to the anxiety and the many preparations to be made before the big day. However, weight lose is not an indication of fitness and so exercising to keep fit and for optimum health should be embraced by the couple even before their marriage. Enrolling in a gym for working out is the most common and practical way of keeping fit. This is mostly due to convenience and also for accountability as starting a fitness regimen and sticking to it is usually a hurdle for most people. Gyms also offer expertise advice and training that will push the member to their goal, be it keeping fit or weight loss.

Getting Fit for the Wedding

The choice of gym to attend is dependent on one’s goals as outlined above and some gyms specialize in more of resistance training than others and so a careful choice must be made. As a first step, a list of all the expectations one requires in a gym should be made. This will help in narrowing down the choices and should be just as easy as making a list of expectations for the marriage’s future. Working out in a gym is also a great way to socialize and the bride and groom can start working out before they are married for bonding purposes. For this reason they must select a gym that will enable them to work out together both in terms of the facilities, accessibility and timing.

Most people prefer to work out either in the early morning or late evening, it is therefore important to check with the gym management if they will be open at the time that is most convenient for you. Once the couple is married, their time may not be as flexible and if necessary gym times may have to be adjusted. Find out from the gym if they make provisions for such changes. The gym staff has to be skilled and trained professionally for them to be of any help to the members. This will avoid accidents due to misguided instructions and in case of accidents they should be able to offer basic first aid without further injuring the member. The gym equipment should also be in good working condition at all times and available.

The cost of the gym membership is a crucial factor to consider for the wedding couple as they have important budgetary considerations for their life together. Find a gym that offers special rates for couples to counter any financial constraints against working out. Apart from the gym membership, the cost of travelling to and from the gym has to be considered so that the gym is as close as possible to either the home or the work place for convenience. Cleanliness is a must for a gym to be attractive and worth the membership fee so as to prevent unnecessary infections. Ultimately, the couple should consider investing in a home gym.

Holidays For A Big Family

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 10:00:00 +0000

After a wedding, a marriage will bring forth families that form the core of society. Marriage can be a lot of work and getting away occasionally to change environment with the family can ease the burden and provide the much needed break. Married couples will organize holidays for their families to different locations. Those traveling locally will experience different challenges compared to those traveling longer distances. For a big family, it will take meticulous planning just like a wedding, to ensure that the ultimate experience is pleasurable. The following tips are enough to guide you on various aspects involved.

First, married couples travel with their big families on holidays all the time. It is nothing new and it is possible to keep sane and maintain clam. The first consideration is the destination desired for the holiday. The longer the distance, the more demanding it might be. However, even long distances can be covered hassle-free with correct planning. Therefore, the key is to plan. Choosing a destination will depend on several aspects including the type of holiday and so on. When big families travel during the Valentines season, couples will be looking for an escape to be enjoyed by their children as well.

Choose locations that are sure to entertain even as couples celebrate love. Anniversaries are other causes that can warrant traveling or holidaying to enjoy the time. Romantic destinations are many both locally and internationally no matter where people are. Make early reservations and know what to expect. Those looking to go on safari need to get their jungle-gear ready while those heading to sandy beaches will look for the proper attire. Dressing for the season and occasion for families is a vital aspect. After considering location, reservations and attire, look at the budget and the money you are willing to spend.

To ease on the burden, compare various destinations and get offers as well as discounts. Big families can get holiday accommodation discounts and it will require the right search. Work with tour vendors who know the business and location well. Their experience and guide on destination will save many travelers time and money. All the paperwork must be in check. Big families will need to have all the proper documentation required if traveling abroad. Permits that might be required should be prioritized accordingly. The families must be entertained at all times.

Therefore, consider the needs of all ages. If there are little children, teens or even young adults, tailor their experiences and look for places that will cater to their needs in this regard. Start early as mentioned above to get all the right opportunities and to make sure that nothing goes wrong. Above all, couples should not lose focus and must be considerate of each other. Family holidays are meant to strengthen bonds and to bring all people close together. Close knit-families make for excellent societies. Do not forget to take advantage of all packages availed by tour operators; research online to access information no matter where the destination is.

Making Your Bathroom A Haven

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 15:00:00 +0000

How To Choose The Best Restaurant For You

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Fri, 11 Feb 2011 07:00:00 +0000

Just like their on wedding day, married couples should keep the fire burning. What better way to do it than to go to fancy dinners on special days and normal ones alike? Valentine’s Day is a sure day in which all couples in marriage can escape to have an intimate time. Choosing the perfect restaurant can be a bit tricky for those special dinners like Valentines Dinner. Therefore, it is critical to have the rules of thumb when it comes to choosing an ideal restaurant for that special time out. First, those making reservations need to keep abreast with information necessary on various venues.

One of the most important pieces of information is to know which restaurants are having Valentine’s Day specials if going out on this day. These specials are designed to allow couples to enjoy the most without having to spend all their money. With this in mind, research on the top specials and the kind of menus they will offer for dinner and so on. Offers and discounts are important and can make all the difference to couples who do not have much to spend. Partners might have certain sentimental connections to different restaurants. It may be the music or past events that took place in that particular place.

Such aspects will work perfectly and a man or woman can be surprised by the person they are married to with dinner reservations. It is also important to learn the preferences of marriage partners for success to be attained when choosing a restaurant. Choose one that will please your partner. The mood and the environment must be right and as well. An intimate place where couples can escape from the world even just for a few moments is ideal. Regarding locations, convenience is the key word. Some people might decide to drive across town or just choose a restaurant nearby.

One of the most helpful elements when choosing a restaurant is the food itself. If the service is excellent and the food sucks, the special dinner or meal might not be as impressive. Therefore, be sure that the food in restaurant chosen will not disappoint. Do this by visiting prior to the day to sample or just to get a picture of what to expect. Some might choose to go to places they are familiar with while others might opt to try out a new place. There is great danger in visiting a restaurant that is new because you don’t know what to expect. The ambiance and feel of place will make all the difference.

A classy place that boasts of beauty will appeal to all and this will work well to impress your wedding partner. Overall cost should be considered and people need to be prepared to bear the cost. Make early reservations to avoid last minute heartaches. Confirm the reservations as well to be totally sure. The kind of parking and provisions made by the establishment will come to play. Comfort above all things must be present. Start planning early on the restaurant to go to on the special day for a wonderful meal with your better half. The pivotal thing is to enjoy the place together and create memories to cherish.

The Man Bag

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 07:15:00 +0000

The man bag has been viewed widely as a strong fashion statement that is fairly finding its footing in society. Many men have reported enjoying various elements of these bags which have also earned the name ‘man purse’. Consequently, not all men are keen on trying them out. For the busy family-man however, the bags have brought relief. In marriage, a man has to be on toes and organize accordingly to keep his wife sane. All manner of stuff can be safely transported inside these bags to every desired location in the course of the day. A married man can do so much with this fashion accessory.

First, these bags come in a variety of styles, makes, colors and so on. It is possible for a single or married man to make statements and achieve success with their overall look. Busy men in marriage life will be happy to have a bag that can hold among others the following items. There are bags that will comfortably hold cell phones, chargers, laptops, colognes, books, pens and the list is endless. These personal effects will facilitate organization and this is quite positive. The bags are not just suitable for the busy office life; they are a casual accessory that can enhance overall appearance like bring out spark.

Men can actually carry snacks, balls, cards and other items when headed to different casual destinations. After a wedding, life can be very demanding and these bags can also carry picnicking items or flowers to impress the lady. Those who employ creativity and make the most out of these bags can really see the merits. However, there are downsides as well. First, men are not used to carrying bags no matter the type of fashion statement they stand to make. Many find it awkward to carry around the bags because they are not used to it.

The man bag is not a purse and certainly comes with amazing male features that are tailored to deliver service. Those in colleges can find the ultimate answer to their problems regarding organization. It is a great way to keep all items mentioned above also including extra clothes, shoes and virtually anything that can fit. The sizes of these bags are quite impressive and are made with storage in mind. Carrying the bags is also convenient and comfortable. Many manufacturers have thrown their weight into such products and the variety is immense; men can get what they require easily.

The man bag will ease the burden and provide the option to carry all important stuff required. Many men have been observed to stuff too much in their pocked with things like cell phones, wallets and many more. Decongesting the pockets can make a whole lot of difference and many have seen this work to their advantage. The bags can make excellent wedding gifts to get the males into the right direction. Fashion sense, excellent usability, style variety and availability are some of the top merits that can be said about the products.

Nails: Colour or None

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 08:00:00 +0000

Among the many preparations and decisions that a bride has to make before the wedding day is the choice of make-up including nail embellishments. Nail colour choice is probably the most crucial of these decisions considering the variety of designs and styles available. Most bridal nail colours are neutral but imagine what a splash of nail colour will do to the entire bridal ensemble. Neutral colours are safe and for the most part complement the gown which is traditionally white, cream or off-white. The choice of nail colour will for the most part be dependent on the bride’s taste and style. A bride who is used to wearing colour on her nails will in most cases want to do the same as she gets married.

Recently, gowns are shifting from the traditional neutral colours to full pastels or a hint of some colour. For the daring bride, this is an opportunity to add more colour to the nails using the same additional colours. When considering nail colour for the wedding, choose complementary colours to the gown for the sake of variety. A red gown will be greatly enhanced by full red nails or a lighter variation such as pink. For the same gown, the nails can be done in the traditional neutral colours or a French manicure with some red or pink nail art. Red and black nail art will also be great for a red gown or one with red detail. To tone down a busy and colourful gown, neutral nail colour options are the best.

Most traditional religious or customary weddings are glamorous heralding a marriage union that is just as detailed. Here, the use of nail colour is inevitably easy since they are colourful events as compared to the traditional Christian weddings. Oriental and Islamic brides are usually decorated using bright orange to dark brown henna which also includes the nails. This goes very well with the day’s décor, colour scheme and dress code, an interesting and colourful combination. The traditional Christian weddings are however getting more and more liberal with the use of bright colour schemes which gives room for a variety in the choice of nail colour. A bride may opt to use one or a combination of the colours in the colour scheme to highlight a neutral nail colour.

The day’s colour scheme, venue and decor should be a guideline on the best nail colour to avoid clashing. An elaborate and glitzy start for a marriage union, with bright and exotic flowers screams summer especially on a sunny day necessitating use of colourful nail art. In most cases just a subtle hint of colour will do the trick. It is always advisable for the bride to be simple but elegant but this should not rule out the use of nail colour to brighten up the day. A bride should try out different nail colours to establish the best option; she may actually discover new trends that she can continue using even after getting married.

Cosmetic Contact Lenses

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Sat, 05 Feb 2011 08:00:00 +0000

Cosmetic contact lenses are quickly becoming commonplace in society. Their main reason for existence is to add beauty and colour to the eyes. Beauty has gone a notch higher and people are looking for a look that is out of the ordinary to compliment their features or simply to add zest to their life. At a wedding, ladies, even grooms, can opt to go with cosmetics lenses. They make sure that a striking look is achieved, delivering perfection to many. Those who are getting married will actively look for excellent contacts to go with their look for the big day.

Cosmetic contact lenses for your wedding are certainly ventures that can turn heads. Many who have been married this way have reported them to be fun and excellent beauty tools. Other ceremonies will also record people showing up in stunning tints and shades of blue, hazel, violet, green and even grey coloured contacts. The variety in the market is incredible. It is becoming a great way to mark a marriage ceremony when it comes to aesthetics. Enhancement tints are what many of these contacts will be referred to. Apart from them being a marriage ceremony trend, they are pretty common with actors, singers and the list is endless.

Cosmetic contact lenses will come with the beauty advantage but will also come with demerits. Those wearing them can blink and have lenses finding their way to the pupils and hurt sensitive parts. This slide may be caused by poor fitting as well as blinking. When buying them, many sellers might not define the size or have the options for different wearer. However, there are people who can have the lenses tailored to achieve the desired sizes. This will greatly reduce the risk of slipping which (slipping) might work to the detriment of the eye.

Some contacts have been observed to affect vision in people especially at night. Therefore keep in mind these vital aspects to make sure the cosmetic tints are safe. Sharing the contacts is certainly not advised and many people tend to take the cosmetic models casually trying them out even if they don’t belong to them. Contacts are highly personal items which can transmit infections and for this reason, sharing is certainly a bad idea. When looking for the ideal cosmetic fits, consult with an expert in the field or even a doctor. They are able to give detailed pointers that will hold the key to maximizing the experience with cosmetic contacts.

Cosmetic contact lenses are more popular with women because they can achieve the baby blue eyes as well as hazel or green shades. Many women will also change the contacts to match their dresses or outfits and this is a source of enormous beauty for women. Men are also not left behind because they can also enhance their features and bring out bold looks to their face facilitating an overall attractive and better look in male facial features. To access these products, search online and get different quotes on prices. Do not ignore all the cautions that ride along the products to maximize the experience. For coloured contact lenses a prescription is required.

Short Hair On The Bride

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 10:00:00 +0000

A wedding is always a pleasant delight. The intricacies of the planning process can however take a toll on people especially if they do not have the needed guidelines. Brides are specially stressed while planning, among others, the hair aspect. As the crown of every woman, the hair is always a very important part in making a wedding successful. It must make the statement intended and present the bride as a flawless beauty for the particular day. So many things can go wrong where this element is concerned. In light on of this, it is good to know what you want and work towards achieving the look for the big day.

To get married, many ladies will prefer to do short hair. Many brides are not keen on long hair and in many ways, short can prove more manageable. The following is a look at some of the elements that will ride along having or doing short hair. Apart from the first merit of being manageable, short hair can also be stylish. Many brides will have shorter hair bring out their beauty more compared to longer hair. Working with a hair stylist will reveal some of the dynamics that go into shapes and perfect fits regarding hair.

Bride heading to marriage might also have a signature look which involves short hair. Many personalities are best defined when the hair is short. Therefore, the highlight of it all is that when brides choose short, they will be working with what they are most comfortable with or what defines them best. There is no rule that brides should have long hair as they make the marriage vows. To this effect, you should not apologize for your choice. Short hair can be styled in a variety ways to bring out the beauty of the bride. Exploring these styles will unearth great ideas.

For example, there are brides getting married who will go with flowers on short hair while others will stick to hair pins and tiaras. Some short styles can be braided then topped with accessories like beads and jewelry to create a masterpiece to behold. It is very helpful to work with a hair stylist who understands hair as well as the principles of styling. They will be the guides who will advise accordingly to achieve the look you want on your big day. Flowers on short hair are always in. They can be located on the side of the head in a subtle manner to achieve a desired look. Short hair can also take different colors and textures.

Wavy hair or curly are the top options brides will go with. Straight short hair is always on the menu as well. Many times, brides will experiment with different styles as advised by the experts. In most cases, people will settle with what suits their head and hair best. Invest in good experts as well as hair products that will keep the short hair radiant for the big day. Go through different galleries both online and off line to get ideas on different things that are possible with short hair.

Gym Selection before Marriage

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Getting Fit for the Wedding

dating for married couples

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Mon, 31 Jan 2011 15:00:00 +0000

Dating for married couples has been found to be very effective. Many experts on marriage will state that dating can be a marriage saver. Couples who actively go for date nights with their spouses will have the opportunity to get closer to each other, further cementing their union. However, to achieve successful date nights it is critical to have excellent ideas on the venue and what to do. Keeping it interesting and edgy can keep the fun going. Most people will not mind heading out with their spouses in a bid to get the most out of each other. The following are top aspects.

Food and wine will make a date night pleasurable for couples. It is not just any food or wine but that which is prepared with the clients in mind. Therefore, taking time to make reservations at an excellent venue will not hurt; it can only improve your relationship. There are numerous restaurants that serve awesome food and wine in style and this is what many must access. However, there are other ideas that couples can consider. For example, wine tasting workshops. These can be 3 day activities where wine tasting takes centre stage and couples get to share the experience.

Keep abreast with information on such events to keep your partner on edge. Couples can also decide to experiment with various foods and wines. Randomly choosing venues and have spontaneous fun while out on a date night. Wine and food will facilitate the formation of a stronger bond. However, it will boil down to the willingness of partners to make their relationships strong. This is to say that food and wine can be flawless and still fail to unite people in their marriages. Therefore, do not lose the focus which is to continually create an environment for the marriage to thrive.

Travel plan for 2011

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Fri, 28 Jan 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Travel is at the core of many enthusiasts all around the globe. Grand Safaris can lead many to their ultimate experiences as they traverse different landscapes and destinations. World popular Safari locations in Africa include Kenya and Tanzania. These lands are rich in virgin sceneries and wildlife that have the potential to entertain, amaze and please many visitors. Planning a Safari effectively to such destinations will be paramount. It is this planning that ushers the needed success and here are top pointers that should be considered while heading to such places on tour.

The first thing is to plan in advance. Early planning is important in almost anything done. In this case, making reservations can be done and in places like Kenya and Tanzania, visitors can actually book hotels and accommodations up to one year in advance. This provides the right atmosphere to travel without worry. Get in touch with experts or guides who have experience in the area. Working with professionals will never disappoint. Take time to go through the fine print and consider experienced tour operators in the destinations.

Traveling in groups of familiar people into such destinations can be worthwhile. This will help overcome personality contrasts and so on. However, those looking to spend their private time on Safari like couples can do so. Another thing to consider is the season of travel. For example, those headed to the Masai Mara of Kenya can miss the grand annual migration of wildebeests if they do not come around the July month. Know the landmark spectacles and get detailed information to this effect. This allows visitors to reach at peak seasons that make the travel all the more worthwhile. People traveling in 2011 require to take full advantage of time available; to start making plans to this effect for success.

Short or long nails for my wedding?

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Wed, 26 Jan 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Nails on fingers and toes should be presentable if not perfect on the wedding day. There is great importance in nail care that is pedicure and manicure, because glamour can be tapped in this regard. The pictures will certainly look to capture all major aspects of beauty and nails are certainly one of those areas. Looking elegant and glamorous through nails is very much possible. Some people will struggle to decide on short or long nails for the wedding. Many experts have agreed that the shorter the nails, the more manageable they are.

However, it will all boil down to personal preference and taste. Long nails can be optimized for the wedding and look exceptionally elegant. The same goes for short nails. Probably a few rules of thumb that need to be observed with this regard are mentioned here. To have excellent wedding day nails, steer clear of cutting cuticles or any other rough skin around the nails. The work of hand moisturizers is exactly this. Allow for softening through creams instead of interfering with natural nail growth. This will also prevent breakage and split of nails.

Before considering the nail art for the wedding, start early on with moisturizing to condition the nails to their full potential. The other thing to do is to have a pallet that is suitable. Let it blend or match with gowns or chosen accessories. Some people will opt for light shades while others are not shy to go all out in bright. Skin tones will play a critical role to determine whether the colors are ideal. Experiment and see which pallets suit best for the nail art for the big day. Whether the nails are short or long, French manicure will also deliver excellence. Give extra attention to the toes so as to have a uniformly attractive look with nails.

Should i get a professional to do my wedding make up?

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Wedding make up should be nothing less than perfect. To achieve this, many people will choose to hire a professional makeup artist. There are both merits and demerits that come with hiring a professional. The obvious downside is the cost implication. However, brides and the bridal party can be assured of a professional do which will be captured on film for years to come. When you decide to do your make up personally, you save a lot of money. Additionally, doing it can be perfected and done almost as well as a professional thanks to guides and tips.

Therefore, the choice to hire a wedding make up professional solely lies on individuals and can serve others while be a burden to some. Having said this, there are general pointers that people should keep in mind about make up for weddings. With these elements in mind, you can avoid common pitfalls and look incredibly beautiful on the big day. First, skin care has to start a month before that big day. Skin can present with many challenges and take up a regiment that will enhance the skin months before the wedding is beneficial.

Some people will employ tans while others will go for facials. However, there is a simple way to do it at home. Start by eating all vital nutrients and taking in plenty of water. Then, consider cleansing the skin daily and applying moisture constantly. Use facial scrubs and cleansers to achieve a better face without spending much. On the big day, avoid make up that is horrific in many aspects. Screaming make up can be said to be horrific. Make up for a wedding should enhance and flatter the face and features thereof not to override the same. Use friendly make up products that will not harm the skin. Ask the opinion of others to achieve an ideal look with makeup.

Kitchens

noreply@blogger.com (Thitu Kariba) — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 10:00:00 +0000

Long gone are the days when kitchens were just functional. These days, design and general aesthetics of the kitchen for married couples is of utmost importance. The kitchen is probably one of the most important rooms of the house. It is a place for rejuvenation and life. It provides taste and spice to life and for these and other reasons; kitchens have been enhanced to reach their full potential and retain their functionality. Couples might have small or large kitchens and the size relay doesn’t matter; a suitable decorating plan can be devised.

First, there are all manner of modern kitchen appliances in the market that are affordable. When considering kitchen décor, look at new advanced styles in appliances and kitchen furniture that can dramatically improve the room. An upgrade does not have to cost an arm or a leg. In this case, look for excellent discounts and offers on kitchen equipment that will enhance the overall decor. Colors and textures play a key role as well. A vibrant kitchen that is warm and inviting will do for most. However, use colors that are pleasing. Couples can blend their tastes to achieve a desired look. The right décor can be achieved by hiring a professional. However, this might cost a lot.

Many couples will benefit by coming together and working to get the kitchen they want. Consider repairs while upgrading because the change has to be wholesome. Look for materials that are easy to work with and follow detailed steps that guide on different installations. The style and theme for the kitchen will require lots of creativity to achieve the ideal look. In this respect, take time to search the right information on how to really revamp and improve décor. Couples starting out with kitchens can choose to make constant deliberate moves that will reflect on overall style of the kitchen in the years to come.