my little loves.

reading.

2013-05-21T07:00:00.000-05:00

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson
We have read just about all of Joh Gottman's books and now we are starting this one. She is touring with the Gottmans and they fully endorse what she has to say, so of course we had to read it.
What to do About Alice? by Barbara Kerley
A great, great little book. I am really loving reading children's biography books. I don't have the patience to fully immerse myself in much longer books (not much a of a fan of anything that doesn't have a practical application to my life) but Ocean and I have enjoyed reading biographies of women who were, at least, unconventional. We also got the book Eleanor (by Barbara Cooney) which is about Alice Roosevelt's cousin. I will warn you that Eleanor was a tad depressing and Ocean even commented saying "This is a really sad book and her Mama was really, really a mean Mom." Which is true, apparently Eleanor suffered a lot growing up. Not light bedtime reading, that's for sure.

Michelle Obama: First Mom by Carole Boston Weatherford
Very inspiring.
Me, Frida by David Diaz
This is the second book about Frida I have read and I have to say, I am a bit obsessed now. I have always loved her aesthetic but her story just adds to the beauty. Ocean loved the colors in this one too.

Marc is still working on these two:

A few others I am cracking back open (never finished them!)
Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive by Daniel Siegal and Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason by Alfie Kohn. I felt compelled to read this one again after reading this Amazon review. I liked a lot while reading, but most of it was only food for thought at the time. I hope maybe this time I will gain a deeper insight into my relationship with my girls.

I was compelled to write a review for the first time on Amazon after being so shocked to see the negative reviews for this marvelous book. Alphie Kohn is the first (that I know of) to put not only himself as a parent but also the whole body of parenting advice literature in a critical light. His own humble advice is simple and logical but, at the same time, nothing less than earth-shattering. It puts the whole concept of parenting under the microscope and makes us ask ourselves whether our ideas are ethical, or even practical. I have now seen my children blossom under the respect I have been able to give them after reading this book without fear of losing my "authority." I found that my children are even more able to show me the respect I need as a mother and a person, when they are being respected themselves. This means taking their needs and feelings seriously, as seriously as we take our friend's or spouse's needs. What a simple concept, but oh so threatening to most of us who are deeply afraid of those shopping-mall tantrums and bad reports from teachers. It takes a lot of courage for parents to shut out the rest of the world, with its judgements and expectations, and relate directly with the small, but equally valuable, person that is our child. What scares so many parents is the idea of losing control, and this fear comes through in negative reviews. What a sad reflection on us as "big people" and as a civilized society, where everyone, except of course the young, have equal rights for respect, dignity and freedom. By Leslie Rook

A few others to read:

Starting Small: Teaching Tolerance in Preschool and the Early Grades by the Teaching Tolerance Project
The American Girl Series: Kirsten by Janet Beeler Shaw I had the boxed set as a kid and Ocean and I have been reading at night together. Nostalgic.

life, lately.

2013-05-20T23:07:00.000-05:00

I feel like I neglect this blog so much. I often have thoughts come to me, or the urge to write about situations and never seem to make it happen. So, I am making it happen today.

Working from home has been such a blessing but it has also been challenging in that I feel as though I am on the computer 24/7. Plus, since I am doing so much writing, editing, etc. I feel a little mentally zapped when it comes to my blog. I applied to a few other jobs, no news there yet but honestly, I am very thankful. It pays the bills with a little leftover and that's all we need for now.

Our beautiful portrait from Arthur's Plaid Pants is finally framed.

All that being said, Marc will be starting a School Counseling Masters program here at Auburn this Fall. I am thrilled, he is thrilled. It took us a good while to find a program we both felt good about but I believe the payout will be worth it. It's in the same vein as the program he was going to pursue at Columbia. It was really hard for me to keep my mouth shut as we didn't want to say anything til' it had been finalized. I am proud too, they admitted him way after the deadline due to his excellent GPA and honors. His soon-to-be Professors were impressed with him and the research he has already done in this field and one told him that she saw him pursuing a Ph.D. When Marc told me I just grinned because I have been telling him that for YEARS. (Mark my words, he will eventually be getting that Ph.D) Thankfully the time spent at classes should be enough that I can continue my classes without it putting strain on us and the girls (another reason to be thankful to work from home, I can do it at my own pace!). If not though I'll wait to finish my degree once Marc is done and has a job. We are both really excited about working in education. The time off and benefits can't be beat and I know Marc will excel in that environment. The first time I have ever felt 100% on board with a Grad program, it feels good.

We fixed my old Kirsten doll (her arm was broken) for Ocean, who was SO excited. It was actually easy and basically free, we found the instructions here.

Still so in love with my screen door. Marc and I have spent a few nights out here just talking at the table.

As a family it has been such a good thing being back in Auburn. We have visited my family a few times, visited Marc's Mom, resumed our usual dinner night with Marc's Dad and got back into our routine. We have been going on Family walks every evening and they are everyone's favorite part of the day. Marc has encouraged us to walk mindfully and slowly, we both struggle not rushing, it's been so good to have him putting this into practice and reminding me. We have been enjoying the girls picking flowers on our walks and usually have a good bouquet once we get back home. Also, our back/front yard! God, I am SO thankful. Clothes on the line everyday, Ocean helps me hang them usually while telling me lots of her made-up stories. We also got her a scooter at an estate sale for $2 and she has loved riding in our driveway, which is huge! Last night we played freeze-tag and Marco Polo in the backyard, Luna was hilarious as she is not quite old enough to play by the rules.

We have been enjoying Chewacla State Park too, swimming, swinging and picnics. Oh, and hiking to the waterfall. Which is beautiful. Library story times have been attended in full throttle, we are a short walk away so Ocean and I have gone to every story time over the past few weeks, she is signing up for the Summer Reading Program too! I am so excited to see her enjoying things I loved as a child.

I never in my wildest dreams saw us back in Auburn, but sometimes you go with the most practical option. For us, it was moving back and what a good thing it has been. Relieving to see how much baggage has disappeared and is being replaced with re-affirmations that we (finally!) made the right choice.

P.S You have to watch this video made about Auburn and Chewacla ages ago.

acceptance.

2013-05-20T07:00:00.000-05:00

source.

baby steps.

2013-05-16T20:21:00.000-05:00

Today I took a small step.
With support and encouragement from my hubby, I officially enrolled in college. I'll be attending my local community college to get my core classes out of the way and then I'll (tentatively) attend Auburn. I am hoping to take the maximum load so that I can be done and transferred by next Fall (2014).

I'm not really sure what I want to major in but I am really feeling the visual arts field. (Thoughts?)

I am really proud. This is something that I was never thought would be possible for purely practical reasons, but it's happening. I am so happy to have Marc's encouragement. He took initiative, called for my transcripts to be sent, contacted the community college about enrollment and told me to go for it. (Thanks babe)

So here we go!

lately.

2013-05-13T22:43:00.001-05:00

Our room. I love how calm and relaxed it feels. Exactly what I was aiming for.

Mini-triangle wall stickers from Walls by MUR. So excited to use these, removable so great for rentals.

Simple to put up, I used a leveler because I knew if I didn't I would be peeling and re-sticking.

Top is from Mountain Girl Clothing.

One of the designs. I got this all done in about 30 minutes. I really love the novelty they bring to the room.

I plan on doing a few more, just not sure exactly what/where.

The best.

Ocean. I thought she looked so cute sitting there with her chin resting on her hand and then these...

Marc and I both want to get her involved in community theatre because she loves the spotlight (and does well in it)!

How to hang those cardboard letters from Hobby Lobby.

The girls room is done. Room/house tour coming very soon.

Goodnight y'all.

(Kristen Wiig hosted SNL last Saturday night so Marc and I have a date with Hulu.com)

what happens after you wean?

2013-05-11T13:17:00.001-05:00

Moms, I have a question.

What happens after you wean?

I haven't actually had the weaning experience because when Ocean weaned I was around 5 months pregnant with Luna. I know the end is drawing near for Luna, I am assuming by November she will be done or in the process of weaning.

It made me wonder what I might expect.

So tell me, what has your experience been?

Specific questions? What happened to your boobs? Shrink, stay the same, return to pre-preg size? Did you gain weight? Notice a jump in energy? What about libido changes?

If you have a question, ask in the comments. I'll update this post sometime in a few days when I get a lot of answers. I noticed there isn't much online about this topic and I'd love to have a go-to page for other moms.

Oh, and what are some things I should do before this time is over? I keep thinking I need to have more photos. I have a ton from when Luna was really little but not many from recent. I have some of Ocean right before she weaned. I look back on them with pride.

I am really looking forward to being done nursing but at the same time, I know I am doing right by my little ones.

So basically, tips, advice, and stories. Please share! xoxo

throwback, buddhist book recommendations and other fun links.

2013-05-09T10:50:00.000-05:00

LONGEST TITLE EVER Y'ALL.

A little throwback. Remember when Luna was this ~~little~~ big?

And I consumed tons of milkshakes and root beer floats?

And ended up pregnant for like a month longer than expected?

So I took a lot of baths with this angel...

And waited, a bit too impatiently until finally this moment? (totally blissed out here)

And then we compared fresh-from-the-womb photos that totally confirmed that Ocean and Luna are sisters:

(Luna Celeste)

(Oceana Mercy)

And now I am super emotional and want to have another.

So many requests for books on Buddhism, here are some from both of us:
- Buddha's Brain by Rick Hanson Focuses on the practical and scientific truth of buddhist principles, minus any mythical stuff.
- If the Buddha Married by Charlotte Kasl Ph.D I highly recommend this for any couple, I truly believe it started us on a path that completely changed our marriage
- Present Moment, Wonderful Moment by Thich Nhat Hanh Marc is currently reading this one
- If the Buddha had Kids by Charlotte Kasl Ph.D I just started this one, loving it.

And other links...
American Girl, get back to your roots!

10 ways to nurture creativity.

Strawberry vanilla bean soda!? Yes.

10 essential skills for couples coping with stress.

How do you know if your relationship will last?

50 ways to be brave today.

Guys, soul-mates do exist. I'm married to mine.

The importance of night nursing

Me too: A letter to Steubenville's Jane Doe

This tedtalk, A Call to Men by Tony Porter, is one of the most moving talks I have ever witnessed. Please watch and share with all the men (fathers, husbands and sons) in your life. For that matter, women should see this as well.

10 best houseplants to de-stress your home.

Design*Sponge's "best of indoor plants."

Top fragrant houseplants. I really want some of these, especially a citrus.

These sarcastic photoshops are great.

Yes! magazine is the best. Ever.

6 ways to stop worrying and find the work you love. (this kind of article is why I adore Yes!)

I just deleted "ghost followers" on instagram using this site, so if I am no longer in your feed, this may be the reason. You can resend a request if you'd like!

Brooke is having a HUGE spring sale in her shop clementine and nellie:

***HUGE SPRING SALE!!*** enter code DIRTCHEAP50 at checkout for 50% OFF EVERYTHING IN THE SHOP!! $20 MINIMUM PURCHASE! ***

p.s Have you thought about buying an ad from my little loves? Use the code twentyoff for 20% off any size ad!

facing a fear.

2013-05-07T19:54:00.001-05:00

“There are two kinds of fears: rational and irrational- or in simpler terms, fears that make sense and fears that don't.” - Lemony Snicket

*Just to be clear: I did not take this photo while I was driving, I was a passenger. :)

Confession: I have a most unnerving fear of driving. I avoid it whenever possible. 98% of the time Marc drives. I drove when we lived in Auburn a year or so back, but not often and mostly only to work which was a short drive from our duplex. When I first started driving I spun out on a dirt road and the fear from that experience has paralyzed me. According to Wikipedia it's actually pretty common to experience post-tramutic stress disorder after a car accident but I am determined to beat it. It's been such a hinderance in my daily life. Obviously nothing too complicated, but still. It's kinda weird, I just found the article on Wikipedia today about Driving Phobia (yes, phobia) and I could relate to all the symptoms: People with a fear of driving may experience trembling, sweating, accelerated pulse, loss of sense of reality, and thoughts of losing control while driving, even in situations that are reasonably safe...

All that being said...
When we moved back to Auburn, a place that I feel comfortable driving in, I realized it was time to get serious about overcoming this fear. Marc tells me over and over that there is nothing wrong with my driving and encourages me every time I take the wheel. I know this is an irrational fear, I've gotta conquer it. I am resolved to be confident in my driving ability by the end of the year. I am blogging to state that intention so that this year I will really overcome this fear. So, there it is. Let's see how this year goes.

Any words of advice or wisdom? A fear to confide?

calm.

2013-05-05T23:01:00.000-05:00

It's so good to be home.
Today was wonderful. Ocean spent the night at Mimi's last night, it's so weird how one child being gone can leave your home so quiet. Marc and I went to Home Depot to get a few things we needed for the house (mostly, a shelf for the girls closet). We scored some more roadside treasures. It really amazes me what people throw out. We found a beautiful wooden twin bed we are planning on sanding down and painting white. A few good chairs were found as well. Insane that we throw this stuff away.

The girl's room is coming together.

My fairy queen.

Beauty.

Luna prefers dirt.

I introduced Ocean to cartwheels and we have been practicing a lot!

Luna found a beetle.

I must explain this shirt. It was a gift to Ocean from Marc's oldest brother two Christmases ago, given because Ocean has never been very fond of Marc's second older brother and has always cried when we went to hold her, etc. It's a little weird without the explanation. haha.

Bumper stickers.

This location was genius for the mirror since it reflects lights from the three windows.

My beautiful orchid that has continued to bloom. It gives me so much joy.

Our room: BEFORE.

And AFTER! Marc built that bed frame y'all. Damn good job too. It was his first real, big project (other than the fence) and I am so proud.
It feels so cozy.

Luna hopped up and grabbed that iPhone in a split second. Sneaky kid.

Morning light.

This gorgeous print is from Leslie Sabella on Etsy. I got it for Marc and apparently it was spot on. He loves it. I was so happy to have found her art, it is rare that Marc gets as excited about prints and such but he really loves her work. We are both growing more and more fond of Buddhism. I am so happy to have it as a mutual interest. This print was sort of representative of that for me...for us.

I feel so much more peaceful here in Auburn. Really, it's a bit surprising but I am seeing more and more that I had a lot of good memories here too. I heard the train today and it made my heart flip. It may sound strange but I have such positive associations with that sound. When Marc and I first moved to Auburn together it was our first time to have a place all to ourselves. Before that we had lived with his older brother and another farmhand since Marc was working at the Pecan Farm. So, when we got moved into our new little apartment that was all ours, it was a slice of heaven. Since we had only our bedroom to ourselves previously we didn't have a mattress or bed, we had a futon that we folded down at night and folded back up during the day. So when we first moved in we put the futon in the living room and continued to sleep on it in there until we got a mattress. Anyways, We'd be all cuddled up, asleep and then woken up by the train in the middle of the night. It wasn't a bad disturbance though because we would wake up and still be so high on the fact that we were in our place that we would just smile, kiss and go back to sleep. It was a pleasant disturbance. It got to the point that I would anticipate it and I can remember lying awake, looking around at our place, streetlight streaming through the blinds, my eyes would well up with tears and I would snuggle up to Marc and fall back asleep once the train had passed. Over time I think we got so used to it that we slept through it. The good feelings remain though and I smile hearing it today. It just feels so good.

on my mind: progress and minimalism.

2013-04-29T23:33:00.001-05:00

Dining room is practically finished.

As promised, our backyard.

Marc hanging the cable for the clothesline.

Luna and Ocean finding roly-polys.

For now...

One of my favorite views.

Junk. Seriously. I am getting rid of so much and it feels so good.

More stuff to be rid of, excepting the plants.

Picked up a canvas at a thrift store for .69 awhile back and just now got around to this little project. I have always loved this quote.

Our bathroom.

Simple.

Because we have chosen to live with less, we have found more opportunity to invest in relationships, grow spiritually, experience gratitude, express generosity, discover truth, and findcontentment. With our newfound time, money, and energy, we are free to pursue our greatest passions.
An important realization quickly followed. Minimalism is less about the things you remove and more about the things you add. The joy of minimalism lies in what you choose to pursue with your life rather than material possessions. And in that way, minimalism is far more about addition than it is about subtraction.- Joshua Becker from Becoming Minimalist

There are certain pernicious aspects at the fringe of any important movement, and minimalism is no different. If you obsess over counting your things or about getting rid of all of your stuff or about living an extreme nomadic lifestyle, then you’re missing the point of minimalism altogether. Not that it’s wrong to count your stuff or to travel the world, it’s just that minimalism isn’t about that stuff, it’s not about counting or “leaving it all behind,” and it’s certainly not about obsession. Minimalism is simply a tool to get of life’s excess so you can focus on life’s important things, things like relationships and pursuing your passions and personal growth and contributing to others in a meaningful way. -Joshua from The Minimalists

Advertising has us chasing cars and clothes, working jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need.- Fight Club

Reflecting today, looking around my home at all our stuff. It is insane how much we acquired in the last year. I have two huge boxes of stuff to thrift. I went through my clothes again, honestly and realized that I still don't even wear half of it. I have been reading my favorite minimalist posts again and I am feeling so inspired to get back on track. Minimalism is about so much more than how much stuff you own though, in fact minimalism isn't about what you own at all so much as what you do with your time. For me, minimalism is appealing because I am most at ease and therefore my happiest in a clutter free home. Even just sitting aside the boxes to go to Goodwill makes me feel lighter. I am picking my favorite pieces of art to keep, like my Klimt piece and gifts from friends and family, but this time I want my walls to be a bit bare. Lately mirrors and plants have been my favorite decor pieces. Less is more. I talked with Marc about what we envision for our life and I know that simplicity is the key. I stated that I wanted to feel less compelled to be cleaning or straightening up the house. I want to feel FREE. Free to go play with the girls, free to lay outside in the sun. Free to work on art projects without feeling a need to rush through because I have another chore awaiting me. The only way that is possible is to downsize (and that means more than just things, which is part of the reason I blog less). All that being said, your home's beauty is so important. I've been reading a lot about Feng Shui and aside from the more mythical aspects of it there is a lot of truth being stated. For example, If your home is cluttered you won't have as much energy and clutter reportedly blocks energy. Right? I loved these articles on Feng Shui. Feng Shui highlights how important aesthetic appeal is as well. What you keep needs to have a "good energy" or in other words, you gotta like it. I am keeping things that make my home mine and getting rid of things that are just there. Tomorrow, I am working on creating a Feng Shui bedroom. Marc and I are finally getting around to building our bedframe. A friend gave us some slats from their old Ikea bed that busted (thanks!) so we get to up-cycle and save some green.

I think I may sell our dresser set in our room as well and opt for a shared, smaller one. I just want more open-ness and light. I just want our bedroom to be a retreat.

So my goals for this week:

go to each room and figure out it's purpose, decorate/declutter accordingly
start with our room
get rid of at least 5 things everyday this week
hang curtains
go on another walk (we walked to kroger the other night and to the library tonight)

What are your goals for the week?

And what are y'alls thoughts on minimalism?

p.s If you sent me an email/fb message recently, I promise I am getting back to you this week!

new home: before.

2013-04-27T12:00:00.000-05:00

Just a quick post. I am not going to be a perfectionist this time and only show you the house when I feel like it's done (cause it's never really done, right?), so here it is!

One grumpy baby and one happy baby.

Living room view.

So happy to have a screen door. It's one of our favorite things here.

Selling this dresser to make room in our new place. Thankful we sized down a bit, I am ready to get back to my minimalist roots. After packing up our last place I realized just how much we had accumulated...wayyyy too much junk y'all. Feels so good to get rid of stuff and have open space.

Dining room.

Muppets have been the soundtrack here. Luna asks for "Puppets, pleasssse?"

One bathroom in this place, so thankful. That means only one to clean.

Beginnings of Ocean and Luna's room.

Hallway view of the kitchen.

Found my favorite magnet (The Russian doll). Also, I love Ocean's drawings!

Iced coffee for pep this AM.

Had just the right amount of knobs from a previous project and replaced the icky brassy-gold ones.

Stacked washer/dryer in the kitchen. I am loving how small it is. It helps me keep clutter at bay because I just get rid of non-nessecities. Plus, everything is within reach and having the washing machine right there makes it easier to drop wash cloths/diapers/whatever when I walk by. Also, we have a dryer again (!!!). It's nice to have just so every once-in-awhile I can dry our jeans and shirts to get the shape back. We have an actual line in the backyard (which is huge) so we are really loving using it.

Screen door open, windows open...no ac, so perfect.

Living room starting...once we sell the dresser we are rearranging.

A full-size fridge. Marc and I were so thrilled, it's the little things. We both high-fived each other for not every buying a fridge at our home in Tuscaloosa. Now, this fridge...there is a real gratitude in both of us. SO glad we had that time so that now we can look around and see just how blessed we are.

Picking up Kroger specials like crazy. Our food budget has already dropped a ton.

Ocean woke up grumpy and after awhile stomped off to her room, Luna turns to me and says "Ocea' maa" (Ocean mad). Yes, she was.

Talenti is buy one, get one at Publix this week! We got the new Southern Butter Pecan. Highly recommend it.

Kroger closeouts. We don't usually buy frozen stuff but if it's natural/organic and on closeout we pick them up for "date nights" at home. :)

Marc helped me reuse the crate as a spice rack, he hung it for me with his new drill (which he loves using).

Planning on painting this kitchen white. I am so excited to see the transformation.

See, it's tiny y'all.

And there it is! Most of it anyway. I'll be back soon with some updated photos as we get more settled in and I become brave enough to hang some art (essh).

Got any tips for arrangement or decor? Let me know!

a fence and a new home.

2013-04-23T11:17:00.000-05:00

Just a few images of what we've been up to lately.

-We built a fence for our new renters (and friends!). Wishing we had done it sooner.
-We cleaned our new place and it is awaiting us in AU all clean and shiny, ready for all kinds of good things to happen.

I'll be back to share photos over the weekend as we are packing up and moving this Thursday.

etsy love.

2013-04-17T09:50:00.001-05:00

A few of my favorite finds...

these gorgeous earrings.

child's pose print.

felted constellation soap.

wood pendants.

Luna bows. ( free shipping code for my readers! Use BOWLOVE at checkout!)

lakota earrings.

these yoga pants.

this beautiful living wall of succulents.

Leave me a link to something you are loving on Etsy!

lately.

2013-04-16T22:45:00.000-05:00

- Lake days have been happening again.
- Nurnee at the lake, also, postpartum tummy. Internet, I am being vulnerable again.

Please note: I still nurse Luna for several reasons included here in this article and I highlighted some things below.

The American Academy of Pediatrics currently recommends that "Breastfeeding should be continued for at least the first year of life and beyond for as long as mutually desired by mother and child.." * The World Health Organization and UNICEF recommend that babies be breastfed for at least two years.
Breastfeeding a toddler helps with the child's ability to mature. Although some experts say a toddler who is not weaned will have difficulty becoming independent, it's usually the fearful, clingy children that have been pushed into situations requiring too much independence too soon. A breastfeeding toddler is having his dependency needs met. The closeness and availability of the mother through breastfeeding is one of the best ways to help toddlers grow emotionally.

- Luna at the lake.

- Southern dinner by Marc. Fried catfish, hushpuppies and slaw.

- This flower smells heavenly. I am not sure what it is, but I am going to find out and plant them everywhere as a random act of kindness (I'm sort of serious)

- Lover

- Conversations

- Exploring

- Finally, my gift. Thanks baby.

bedtime and other fun things.

2013-04-14T22:39:00.001-05:00

Luna just went down. FINALLY. Finally. Y'all, I love my kids but we all know bedtime makes us all think why in the world we ever thought this whole parenting thing was a good idea. I will say, Ocean usually goes down like an angel. We bathe, brush teeth, pajamas, read a story and then she is in bed and normally doesn't make a peep til' morning. She's getting quite mature.

Anyways, It's been a long week.
Plans have changed and now, last minute, we are on the hunt for a rental. We have a few potentials but I haven't set foot in one yet that felt right. Auburn is a tough market, period, but an even tougher market to rent in. I am hoping we can find a place that is within walking distance to downtown, like we used to have.

Auburn is becoming a much less trigger happy place for me. Marc commented he felt the same. It's nice to be able to feel at rest again here.

We are both really looking forward to enjoying some of the things we have in the past. Especially the grocery stores here. Two Kroger's, Dayspring and Earth Fare. In Tuscaloosa we really only have Publix and they are the worst (in my opinion). Also, thrifting...we have a Goodwill in Auburn along with 4 other local thrift stores and a Habitat for Humanity: Restore. In Tuscaloosa, there are three thrift stores and none are really worth the excursion. Never thought I'd say it but man, I can't wait to be back.

On a sweet note:
Saturday morning we had an appointment to go and look at a rental at 10 am, the girls were up at 7 though so we decided to make a morning out of it and go yard-saling (and scope out rental signs). At one. I spotted a gorgeous leather backpack and nearly freaked out thinking the tag read $3. On second glance I realized it was a little more than I felt like spending on myself. I asked the lady about it and she told me that she had bought it in Florence, Italy...sort of an impulse buy and she never really used it. However, she wasn't willing to haggle on the price so, reluctantly, I set it down and wished her luck selling it. Marc and I loaded the girls back up and I tell him the story behind the little bag and we both gush about how gorgeous it was. Marc does a u-turn in the road and then pulls up to the stoplight and we just sit there, I finally asked Marc if he is okay and he just hands me cash and says "Go get the bag, babe". I refused for awhile but he insisted. I feel completely loved when Marc reaches out to me like that. I had been on the hunt for a quality bag like that for awhile, he knew this and didn't want me to regret passing it up. The fact that he cared is what matters so much, that he took delight in brightening my morning. I really, really love being married to him.
Makes me think of these words:

“To be fully seen by somebody, then, and be loved anyhow - this is a human offering that can border on miraculous.” -Elizabeth Gilbert, Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

“Seize the moments of happiness, love and be loved! That is the only reality in the world, all else is folly. It is the one thing we are interested in here.” -Leo Tolstoy

Hope you are all having a fantastic start to this week. We have a few appointments tomorrow to view some places so wish us luck!

xoxo

a little q&a and vodka with lisa and ben.

2013-04-10T08:45:00.003-05:00

Meet Lisa. I love reading her blog. She and her boyfriend Ben recently moved to Moscow. You should go and read the story of how her and Ben met and then you should watch this video they made together.

xoxo

lately.

2013-04-09T15:41:00.005-05:00

- The most beautiful home in Auburn. If we get to own it, I'll tell you the story behind it.
- Windows.
- Brusters after discovering unused gift cards in my purse. Lucky.
- Luna Celeste.

- Oceana Mercy.

- Sisters (I am going to frame this).

- Hippy Baby.

- Daddy.

- Again.

- Playing with flowers...

- ...

- and sunshine.

- NURNEE! ;)

xoxo

p.s I am selling my Sakura Bloom essential linen sling in organic maple/raven. (Pictured below)

It is in perfect condition. I am only selling because I prefer my silk sling and really have no use for two. It retails for $160+shipping. I am asking $125 shipped. You can email me or leave your email in the comments and I will invoice you. Thanks!

how I feel when...

2013-04-08T18:23:00.006-05:00

(Because I am still recovering from being sick and needed to laugh)

Luna demands to listen Yo Gabba Gabba, I comply and then she complains about the song selection.

After making the three hour drive back to Tuscaloosa from Auburn.

When Marc and I have been tag-teaming trying to get Luna down since 7:30 and it's 10 pm and she is still wide awake.

When Luna wakes up at 6 am.

When Ocean won't stop trying to persuade me to allow her to __________________.

When it's only 8 am and the kitchen is a wreck and the girls are already whiny.

When it's 8 am and the kitchen is clean, the girls are fed and playing together and I have laundry going and coffee in hand.

When people who don't have kids try to give me parenting tips.

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today.

2013-04-03T22:53:00.002-05:00

Such a long day.

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Marc and I are beat. I still need to do my yoga. We looked at three homes today and drove around looking through all the neighborhoods we love to see what's up.

Auburn is a much tougher market than Tuscaloosa when you are in the 5-digit price range. Another thing I realized, there is no shortage of rentals here. Another, Auburn has the coolest architecture, as far as homes go. Especially for an area that isn't so artsy...or at least isn't anymore...but is getting there.
Anyways.

This blog post was kinda an attempt to pick up my mood. I've been whiny today and not grateful. I realized this after pulling out at Bruster's. I remembered I had some old giftcards in my wallet so Marc, Ocean and I enjoyed some ice cream after a long day of frustration. After sitting there with coconut cream pie ice cream melting in my mouth I felt my face go red at how whiny I had been most of the day. God, here I am with a sleeping baby, a beautiful hub's and a four year old who has tried her best to be patient through all this car riding and general boring stuff (for her). We have opportunities waiting for us here, a new home waiting to be discovered and friends and family to come home to. The opportunity to rent out our home and sign our name onto a new one is such a gift...and here I am pouting we can't afford some more to my liking. I suppose this is a practice in vulnerability. Here I am all human and shit, I have more than enough but I think I deserve even more. Ugh. I can't be alone in these moments. We have all been there, right? Still, I want to be better and grateful.

Going to look at homes all day tomorrow and I have already determined my highest priorities are:
1- Be patient and kind with the girls, they are bored and I should find ways to make this more fun for them.
2- Be patient and kind to Marc, he is just as stressed as I am.
3- Be optimistic, don't fret or feel anxious. Trust that everything will work out. Que sera sera?

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links to love.

2013-04-01T22:34:00.001-05:00

I have been diligent about my yoga practice for the past few weeks now. Then, waiting to pick my sister up from the airport, girls are ready for bed, flight gets delayed...do yoga. haha.

8 ways to spring clean your marriage.

I married young. What are the rest of you waiting for?

I've been wearing this red lipstick from mineral fusion. I LOVE.

Arrested Development and philosophy.

Open your doors to strangers and let them sleep over!

"Whenever I find myself saying, “I don’t have time,” I mentally re-word the phrase into “That’s just not a high priority for me right now.” Because I have the same 24 hours as you do and your neighbor does and the uncle who took you to your first movie growing up had. But our priorities are different. My priority right now, this very second, is to maintain a healthy relationship with my husband, care for (and find enjoyment in) the early months of my daughter’s life and end the day feeling fulfilled, restful and at peace. (I have a theory that I, personally, can only juggle three priorities at once, but I know many folks who have plates that overfloweth and feel content in that state. I am not one of those folks.)"

(this quote from this post has been changing my life)

An easy jar-to-lamp tutorial.

How cute is this little home tour?

Marc has been making grilled cheeses with bacon and sourdough and...this southern pimento cheese. SO GOOD.

So fun to find this on Pinterest, Marc and I remind each other constantly to assume the best.

It's been a great day. First official sunburn of the season! We spent all day at the lake, it was relaxing and refreshing. Luna and Ocean had a blast playing in the sand (and water!). House hunting in AU tomorrow. Can't believe it. So thankful that we will no longer be driving down every weekend (6 hours roundtrip!) since we will be living there soon. Traveling so much messes with everyone's internal clocks, especially the girls. Soon!

xoxo

beauty: magic carpet yoga mats.

2013-03-29T10:39:00.003-05:00

I am head over heels with these Yoga mats. I stumbled across them a little while back when searching for a beautiful, toxin-free mat. This interview with the creator/artist makes me even more excited to own one.

From Sophie:
Hi! My name is Sophie Leininger; I'm the Founder and Designer of Magic Carpet Yoga Mats.
Magic Carpet Yoga Mats heighten the yoga experience with high-quality features and juicy textile-inspired aesthetics. What better way to connect with your body and soul than through the pleasures of the heart?
Please visit my website! http://magiccarpetym.com/
Video created by Kimi Milo
Music by Walking In Sunlight
Special thanks to Barefoot Movement and Trisha Grover

I love how she talks about beauty and aesthetic and it's relevance to yoga. I think we should always strive to make things around us pleasing to the eye. I do think there is value in that, I think we find meaning in it. +Paige Maitland and I have had many long talks about beauty and it's importance.

I found this article and I feel like it touches on our fascination with beauty well:

There’s a beauty that makes the heart ache. A beauty that transforms and inspires, that brings us closer and closer… to what? To a lover, to our selves, to nature, to the whole of life, to the divine – does it matter? To some degree it is the “closeness” that matters – the sense of expansiveness, vulnerability, intimacy and tender belong that is so often awakened by a genuine encounter with beauty.

(p.s you should read the entire article)

So, share...are there any beautiful products or things that have touched you?

A pair of earrings? A blanket? Book? Art? I'd love to see what moves you.

xoxo

p.s Thank you for all the kind comments regarding my last blog. Everyone is thrilled, especially Grandparents. ;)

good things.

2013-03-28T23:55:00.000-05:00

Some really good things have happened this week:

1 This Pimento Cheese from Whole Foods.

2 60+ weather which means park trips, everyday. Also, how beautiful is Ocean? Her smile kills me in these photos. And duh, Luna too.

3 Fantastic thrift shoppin' in Hot'lanta this past Monday. Marc found these bad boys at a Goodwill there and I scored a Free People sweater.

4 This Frankie magazine Marc picked up for me at Goodwill and this Free People catalog. Endless inspiration.

5 We made a decision official today.
We signed a lease and officially rented our home in Tuscaloosa to a super cool couple.
Yeah, we are moving back to Auburn this May.

EEEEE! Something we have been toying with ever since we got our job based in Auburn back in Jan. We put our house up for rent on Craigslist and had an offer 3 days later, everything checked out and here we are with a signed contract.

Auburn, we are ready for a re-do. So happy to be close to family again, to be able to get a better work flow with our job and to find our niche in the growing art scene. So thankful for the way everything fell into place. It's a sign. A few other opportunities have come our way and for the first time, we really see ourselves staying in Auburn for a good while. Ocean is thrilled to be moving back, she is so excited to see her Mimi (Marc's mom) often and of course, be close to my family again. (We are currently 2:15 hrs from my family and 3:00 hrs from AU/his Mom/Dad) We are so happy to go back.

So thankful for this time. We resifted, grew closer and are united.
So now, onto the next step...
xoxo

loving ourselves.

2013-03-23T17:02:00.002-05:00

Here we go! It is so easy to find beauty in each of these women, wouldn't it be great if we taught our children to seek beauty in others instead of flaws?

This is the first installment of the series. Be sure and visit these beautiful women at their blogs. If you'd like to participate, send your photos and a few words to me here.

Thank you to all of you who participated!

I like to think of my body as a work of art. Not because it is perfect by any means. (What is perfect anyway?) Rather because it is an outer manifestation of something so much greater and more meaningful. I guess there are always the people that may judge me by my skin color, body size, or outer beauty. Sure it may affect me in some undesirable ways, but to be honest they are the ones missing out because they are the ones missing who I really am. -Bhrett

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Swimsuit season is a very touchy subject for many women. A few years ago (before my son) I weighed 120 lbs and thrived in flaunting around in little bikinis as soon as it was warm enough. After giving birth, watching my skin stretch and shrink again, I realized that my once bikini ready body was no more. My body is not considered pretty by most. I am overweight, short, and I have stretch marks on more than just my stomach. But I LOVE my body. I am beautiful. And I am considering rocking a 50's style high waisted (dare I say it?) Bikini this summer! - Kristina

Of course, not every day is perfect. I am not as positive as I could be about my body. It's a process. But damn, I've come a long way. - Savannah

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real bodies. they begin clear, youthful, and unscathed before slowly giving way to dimples, extra pounds, and stretch marks - thanks to good meals, late night drinks with friends, and a few too many days spent on the couch instead of out in the world. they reveal our story, our experiences, our adventures. they display our strengths and weaknesses, much to our delight and horror.

my body can give bear hugs to my nieces and nephews and chase them around the yard, but it can't fit into pants that are less than a size 12. my wrists are still skinny like when I was a kid but the purple stripes on my stomach and breasts show my age, my lacking relationship with exercise, and a huge love of dessert + pasta. but despite my hang ups, my insecurities and not so great choices - this is my body. my one body for my one life. so sometimes, you've just got to take it. take it for what it is, love it, and don't look back. sure, i'm not thrilled to wear a swimsuit and tend to suffer from "what will other people think!"-syndrome, but i cannot and will not let that stop me from enjoying the sun 'n surf, enjoying life! - Megan

blog// twitter//

I'm a thin, non-curvy woman. So sometimes when people talk about feeling "fat" I think the reverse and think it's wrong for me to be so tiny. We all have our own journey, don't we? -Taylor

lately.

2013-03-20T23:45:00.003-05:00

Luna patiently waiting for breakfast... ( At the time, Ocean was still with Grandparents)

Homemade Whipped Cream

Our "napkins"

Coffee with whipped cream, because duh.

Maple Syrup with Whipped Cream....ohhhh la la!

Baby Legs

His hands are perfect. I love the details that make his hands so...his. I love his hands, really. The more I fall in love with him, the more each body part is so perfect to me.

KIDDING. Just had to take it for a test run! Whatcha think?

Quiche.

Rearranged the living room to perfection.

What have y'all been up to?

plant based meal plan giveaway + spinach artichoke mac n' cheese recipe

2013-03-15T07:00:00.000-05:00

(keep reading for recipe...)

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Spinach Artichoke Macaroni and Cheese
from Gluten-free Whole Food Meal Plans ©2013 Kristin Rugg Dovbniak

This macaroni and cheese recipe is a delicious and nutritious variation on the original. I suggest organic dairy to avoid any added hormones or antibiotics, and the brown-rice rotini makes It whole-grain and totally gluten-free. The spinach and artichokes add an interesting twist; not to mention a few extra vitamins! Who needs Kraft?

Serves 4

1 package brown rice rotini
2 cups sliced organic baby spinach
¼ cup organic butter or ghee
1 small onion, diced
1 clove garlic, minced
¼ cup rice flour
2 cups organic whole milk
1 tbsp Dijon mustard
2 cups grated organic cheddar cheese
1/8 tsp paprika (hot or mild)
sea salt, to taste
½ cup water-packed artichokes, well- drained and chopped
1 cup gluten-free breadcrumbs (optional)
¼ cup fresh grated parmesan cheese (optional)

1. Cook pasta according to package directions. Drain, and toss hot pasta with baby spinach to wilt.

2. Preheat oven to 350. In a medium saucepan, heat butter until just bubbling. Add onion and garlic and cook until translucent, taking care to not brown.

3. Whisk in rice flour until mixture resembles a paste. Whisk in milk and mustard. Bring to a boil.

4. Reduce heat and stir in cheddar cheese until melted. Add artichokes to cheese mixture and continue to simmer for 5 minutes. Stir in paprika and season to taste with sea salt.

5. Toss artichoke sauce with hot pasta and spinach until well-combined. Pour into four small oven-safe dishes (like ramekins, or petit casseroles- as picture above), or into one medium casserole dish. Top with breadcrumbs, if using and grate fresh parmesan on top.

6. Cook for 20-25 minutes, until cheese is bubbling. You may wish to broil the top for a minute or two to brown. Let cool slightly before serving. (Cool completely if using ramekins/casseroles and serving to children- they can get quite hot!). Enjoy!

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