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		<title>Six Tips to Strengthen Your Relationships</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Relationships are valuable, but they aren&#8217;t always easy. It&#8217;s important to learn how to build strong and healthy relationships. There are a lot of different ways to strengthen a relationship. Whether the relationship you&#8217;re working on is romantic or platonic, you can do a lot of good by focusing on some common principles. Even if [...]<BR>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Relationships are valuable, but they aren&#8217;t always easy. It&#8217;s important to learn how to build strong and healthy relationships. There are a lot of different ways to strengthen a relationship.</p>
<p>Whether the relationship you&#8217;re working on is romantic or platonic, you can do a lot of good by focusing on some common principles. Even if your relationship seems strong and healthy, you can still bolster it and move it forward. </p>
<p><strong>Strengthen Your Relationships Mentally</strong></p>
<p>The way you interact with people really matters. If you want to strengthen your relationships on a mental level, consider how you&#8217;re treating the other person in the relationship.</p>
<p>To make your relationship stronger, consider:</p>
<p>1.	Honesty is still the best policy, but remember that words can hurt. Be gentle.<br />
2.	Really listen when someone is talking. Be fully engaged in the conversation.<br />
3.	A relationship is about both of you, not just about your own challenges. Pay attention to what others are going through and respond with a sincerely caring attitude.</p>
<p>Emotions play a large part in how we relate to other people. Naturally, we are less interested in being kind to someone we don&#8217;t care for. However, if your friends or family members like that person, you might want to take a closer look and re-evaluate. You don&#8217;t have to like everyone, but being kind is important.</p>
<p><strong>Strengthen Your Relationships With Physical Contact</strong></p>
<p>Mental and emotional connections aren&#8217;t the only way to enhance your interactions with others. You can also focus on making your relationships stronger through physical contact. For example, consider the way you treat your friends and family. Do you keep your distance or do you show them that they matter to you?</p>
<p>Try these actions to enhance your closest relationships:</p>
<p>1.	Hug, kiss, or touch the people you love. Show them that they matter in your life.<br />
2.	Do something physical together, like taking a walk or exercising.<br />
3.	Make crafts or work on projects together so you have something to remind you of the pleasant times you spend together.</p>
<p>Some people aren&#8217;t as physically affectionate as others, and that&#8217;s fine. You can still respect boundaries while reaching out as much as you can. When you focus on what others need from you, instead of only on your own wishes for the relationship, you&#8217;ll both enjoy more happiness and fulfillment from the relationship.</p>
<p>A lot of people sabotage their relationships without even meaning to. Avoid thinking that you&#8217;re not worthy of the affection of others. Make sure to manage your own insecurities instead of taking them out on people who care for you.</p>
<p>When people love you and want to be around you, they clearly find value in you. Even if you aren&#8217;t sure what they see, don&#8217;t let it worry you. You probably notice things about them that they don&#8217;t see, either. Agree to disagree and go on. </p>
<p>Stay focused on the positive in your relationship, instead of the negative. You and your loved ones will be much happier and feel more secure in your relationships.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 May 2012 17:22:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Laughter is free, fun, and good for your health. Here are some of the things laughter can do for you, and some ways to bring more joy into your life. Benefits of Laughter 1. Boost your immune system. Research on the connection between laughter and physical health is still ongoing, but some benefits are clear. [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Laughter is free, fun, and good for your health. Here are some of the things laughter can do for you, and some ways to bring more joy into your life.</p>
<p><strong>Benefits of Laughter</p>
<p>1.	Boost your immune system.</strong> Research on the connection between laughter and physical health is still ongoing, but some benefits are clear. Laughing helps to fight stress and may enhance your immune response. This may make you more resistant to colds and other illnesses.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Diminish pain.</strong> Laughing is an effective way to decrease pain. Many individuals living with chronic pain report that humor helps make their experiences more bearable. Some hospitals even offer laughter therapy to complement conventional treatments for cancer and other conditions.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Get a little workout.</strong> Every time you chuckle, you boost your heart rate and increase your circulation, which burns more calories than just sitting still. You still need to exercise, but every little bit helps.</p>
<p><strong>4.	Improve your mood.</strong> Hilarity has a powerful effect on your emotional state. A good laugh instantly relaxes your whole body. Plus, those good feelings last, and may make you feel more positive for hours afterward.</p>
<p><strong>5.	Enhance resilience.</strong> Learning to see the humor in difficult events is an excellent coping mechanism. Having a flexible outlook will help you bounce back faster from disappointments.</p>
<p><strong>6.	Strengthen relationships.</strong> Taking pleasure in each other&#8217;s company draws people closer together. Laughing together helps us to connect, share happy memories, and appreciate the good things around us.</p>
<p><strong>7.	Spread joy to others.</strong> Laughing is almost as contagious as yawning. You&#8217;re bound to have a good effect on those around you if you use humor appropriately. Smiling and laughing also make you appear more approachable so you&#8217;ll get plenty of opportunities to cheer up others.</p>
<p><strong>Ways to Laugh More in Your Daily Life</p>
<p>1.	Smile.</strong> It&#8217;s easier to break out laughing when you&#8217;re already smiling. Make a habit of relaxing your face into a subtle smile. You&#8217;ll boost your mood and start to notice more things to smile about naturally.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Watch funny movies and other media.</strong> It&#8217;s always good to learn from the experts. Watch great comedy films, read cartoons, or visit a comedy club.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Look for the humor in ordinary situations.</strong> Cultivate a jovial outlook. Observe your surroundings so that you notice the unexpected and incongruous events of daily life. Practice exaggerating a typical conversation so that it becomes funny.</p>
<p><strong>4.	Take yourself less seriously.</strong> You can be conscientious and light-hearted. Learn to poke fun at yourself and your idiosyncrasies. Keep minor setbacks in perspective.</p>
<p><strong>5.	Practice being silly.</strong> If you have children or pets, join in their games or make up silly stories to tell them. Put a whimsical decoration like a funny calendar or wind-up toy in your office or study to amuse you.</p>
<p><strong>6.	Share laughter with the people around you.</strong> Seek out people whom you find funny. Take a break at work to join in with people who are obviously having a good time. Tell your spouse a funny story from your day when you get home.</p>
<p><strong>7.	Apply humor to challenging situations.</strong> Humor is even more important on tough days. You can recognize a serious situation and act responsibly while considering how your circumstances might appear funny in the future or if it was happening in a movie.</p>
<p>Improve your quality of life by laughing more. Laughter is good for your health and easy to share with everyone around you.</p>
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		<title>At Home Activities to Help You Relax After a Stressful Day at Work</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re like most people, you have some stressful days at work. Sometimes, when these build up, you may feel overwhelmed. But if you do just a few simple things, you can eliminate that stress at the end of each day and stay peaceful and calm all week long. If you&#8217;re on a mission to [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>If you&#8217;re like most people, you have some stressful days at work. Sometimes, when these build up, you may feel overwhelmed. But if you do just a few simple things, you can eliminate that stress at the end of each day and stay peaceful and calm all week long.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re on a mission to be able to relax into your evening, then you&#8217;ll likely find the following at-home activities very helpful.</p>
<p>Try these simple, effective methods to help your mind and body become calm after a tense day at work:</p>
<p><strong>1.	Soak your feet in warm water.</strong> This is a surprisingly easy way to encourage relaxation. Some therapists and spiritual teachers will tell you that the feet store a lot of energy. Soaking them in a bath of warm water will help positive energies start flowing into the feet and eventually throughout the rest of the body. Some tips:</p>
<p>•	Avoid making the water too hot; you want to soothe your feet, not scald them!<br />
•	Add some aromatherapy oils to the water for added relaxation.<br />
•	Soak your feet while you&#8217;re doing something else that can help you unwind, like watching your favorite program on television or listening to calming music.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Settle into a lavender bath.</strong> This is one of the best ways to relieve stress after a tough day at work! Lavender essence is known to instantly soothe ones&#8217; senses and completely calm the nerves. All you need to do is fill your tub with water, add a few drops of lavender essential oil and jump in. You&#8217;ll instantly feel the stress slipping away!</p>
<p><strong>3.	Turn on some soothing music.</strong> The peaceful sounds of instrumentals or nature can easily release tension from your body or your busy mind. Here are some ideas for soothing music that can help you create peace after a stressful day at work:</p>
<p>•	Classical selections from Mozart or a symphonic orchestra<br />
•	Nature sounds: ocean waves breaking against the rocks or the sound of birds chirping<br />
•	Gentle spiritual music: Benedictine monks chanting or perhaps an African or Native American chant</p>
<p><strong>4.	Try cucumber slices.</strong> After you&#8217;ve had your shower or bath, you can relax in bed with cool slices of cucumber placed on your closed eyes. Sometimes the entire body ends up feeling stressed when certain parts have been overworked. If you happen to spend a lot of time on the computer, soothing the eyes could easily bring relaxation to your whole body!</p>
<p><strong>5.	Drink chamomile tea.</strong> Chamomile is an herb that you can rely on to calm and relax your senses and muscles. Try drinking a cup of chamomile before going to bed so you can get a good night&#8217;s sleep and feel rested in the morning.</p>
<p>After a few days of applying these at-home activities, you might even find that the stressors at work don&#8217;t impact you as easily. Because of this, your days will end up being less stressful overall. Eventually, you may find yourself needing these anti-stress activities less and less.</p>
<p>Remember that your body needs nurturing. Intentional relaxation is one way of taking care of your body. Stress can really take its toll, but if you try some techniques to relieve tension, you&#8217;ll soon find yourself healthier and happier than ever before.</p>
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		<title>How to Deal with the Anxiety Caused by Change</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Guest Post by Sam Marquit Change Human beings tend to embrace everyday routines.  I own several Long Island apartments, which I also tend to as landlord, and I run into people daily that refuse to deviate from their routine.  In fact, they are afraid of any change whatsoever. I’ve had tenants that have lasted nearly [...]<BR>
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<p><strong><em>Change</em></strong></p>
<p>Human beings tend to embrace everyday routines.  I own several <a href="http://www.elliman.com/long-island">Long Island apartments</a>, which I also tend to as landlord, and I run into people daily that refuse to deviate from their routine.  In fact, they are afraid of any change whatsoever. I’ve had tenants that have lasted nearly a week, and sacrificed their entire deposit so that they could move back home into the world of dependency. This is normal human behavior. People are afraid of change.</p>
<p><strong><em>Loss of Security</em></strong></p>
<p>One of the reasons change is looked down upon by many people is because of the security a normal routine offers them. Change tends to take people out of their comfort zones, which is where they feel most secure.</p>
<p><strong><em>Anxiety</em></strong></p>
<p>Anxiety is a direct cause of change. Fear of change leads to a general sense of worry. Although anxiety is a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stressor">stressor</a> that most people do not enjoy having, it helps people to react to the situation at hand. Although it does motivate you to react, an overbearing amount of stress can have a negative influence.  When anxiety becomes a long-term problem, the person affected should seek special attention.</p>
<p><strong><em>Long-Term Anxiety</em></strong></p>
<p>The first time I had a true episode of anxiety was when I was dealing with a recent change in my life.  I had moved away from home and was feeling homesick and unhappy. These were feelings of anxiety that led to a small panic attack. <a href="http://www.webmd.com/anxiety-panic/guide/coping-with-anxiety">Learning to deal</a> with emotions like these is important. If the mental stress of such a change cannot be overcome, it could lead to physical harm. There are studies that have shown that the heart can be negatively affected by stress.</p>
<p><strong><em>Dealing with Anxiety</em></strong></p>
<p>Anyone who is being severely affected by anxiety should contact a professional counselor.  Speaking about any anxieties you may have with friends or family can be helpful as well. Some people are able to deal with short term anxiety by themselves, but just talking about it with someone will help reduce the stress, if only by a little.</p>
<p>In order to overcome stress by yourself, the first thing you must to do is to recognize your own fear and to accept that you are afraid of the changes that you are dealing with. Even if you know the change that you have made is a positive one, it is still normal to feel anxiety about it.</p>
<p>Add exercise to your daily routine. If you are dealing with a big change in your life, jogging twenty minutes every morning will help establish a new routine to help you balance out the changes you are dealing with. Not only does it help in establishing a routine, it’s also a good way get rid of some stress by becoming more healthy. A more healthy person tends to feel less stressed out, at least physically. Any kind of house chores can help deal with stress as well.  It allows you to focus at the task at hand while keeping your body busy as well.</p>
<p>These are, of course, not lasting solutions to feelings of anxiety. They are temporary ones, although ones that will help reduce your stress level at that time. Try to have a positive outlook on life. Negativity only adds to anxiety, being positive will help you deal with this new change.  One of the best ways to overcome your anxiety and learn to deal with changes in your life is to be positive. Accept your fear of change and it will help you get over your anxiety.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>It&#8217;s perfectly understandable if your recent break up is really taking an emotional toll on you. So much negative energy takes center stage in our lives after a break up and it can be very difficult to overcome it.</p>
<p>However, the good news is there are ways to use your inner strength to help in the healing process so you can move on. Of course, it sounds much easier than it is, but what&#8217;s important is taking the healing process in stages and only move on to the next stage when you&#8217;re absolutely ready.</p>
<p>Try these helpful strategies to reconnect with your inner self and identify the path that will lead you to full recovery and closure:</p>
<p><strong>1.	Find a spiritual connection.</strong> One of the most effective ways to develop the strength to heal after a break up is to develop your spirituality. Being spiritual involves becoming in tune with the true desires and needs of your soul. Once you&#8217;ve made that connection, you&#8217;ll likely realize that the relationship was hurting you instead of helping you.</p>
<p>•	Turn to your church to help you find the true meaning of your existence.<br />
•	Read books that help you get in touch with your inner self.<br />
•	Spend time meditating on what&#8217;s really important to you.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Get motivated.</strong> A really bad break up can make anybody feel down in the dumps, and that&#8217;s probably how you feel right now. However, you must do what you can to motivate yourself to move on. What really motivates you?</p>
<p>•	Do you feel motivated when you achieve goals that are important to you?<br />
•	Will successful completions of projects at work or school get your enthusiasm going?<br />
•	Are you inspired by the success of those closest to you?</p>
<p><strong>3.	Don&#8217;t compromise your happiness.</strong> If any aspects of your past relationship compromised your happiness, then it wasn&#8217;t the right relationship for you. Remember that you&#8217;re a beautiful creation and you&#8217;re supposed to be happy. Strive for relationships that fill you with joy. </p>
<p><strong>4.	Accept support from your friends and family.</strong> Relying on those who are most important to you is a great way to gain the strength to heal. They can bring you words and deeds of comfort and kind reassurance. And that reassurance will help to convince you that you deserve the chance to move on from this break up and find happiness.</p>
<p><strong>5.	Review what went wrong.</strong> Often times, both parties in a relationship are just not compatible. If you spend some time reviewing what went wrong in your relationship, such insights may help you in future relationships. Plus, identifying the flaws will definitely motivate you to move on to something and someone better!</p>
<p>Searching within yourself for the strength to move on after a break up essentially means identifying what you stand for and what makes you truly happy. It also means getting to know yourself better so nobody else can tell you who to be.</p>
<p>Admittedly, break ups are very hard to deal with, but coming to terms with the fact that the relationship is over is the first hurdle to clear. After that, gathering your inner strength and reflecting on your true desires can make it possible to confidently take the next step of moving on.</p>
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		<title>Short, Medium and Long-Term Goal Setting Strategies</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The most effective way to achieve important goals in your life is to break big goals up into smaller ones. Long-term, medium-term, and short-term goals are all necessary in a successful goal setting strategy. Using enabling goals, or supporting goals, will ensure that you&#8217;re consistently taking steps toward achieving the life you desire. Enabling Goals [...]<BR>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>The most effective way to achieve important goals in your life is to break big goals up into smaller ones. Long-term, medium-term, and short-term goals are all necessary in a successful goal setting strategy.</p>
<p>Using enabling goals, or supporting goals, will ensure that you&#8217;re consistently taking steps toward achieving the life you desire.</p>
<p><strong>Enabling Goals</strong></p>
<p>The best way to get where you want to go is with a mix of short, medium, and long-term goals. Each has different benefits and can launch you forward toward the end result that you seek. What ties it all together is enabling goals. These are goals that are formulated as stepping-stones for medium and long-term goals.</p>
<p><strong>Use this step-by-step goal setting strategy to bring your dreams to life:</p>
<p>1.	Set your long-term goals first.</strong> What do you want to achieve in the next few years? These are broad goals that will take some time to achieve, like buying a home, graduating from college, or starting your own business. Your long-term goals are the foundation for goal setting as they define where you want to be in the future.</p>
<p>•	Long-term goals should be obtainable within a set number of years. Try to give your goals a time frame, such as buying a home in five years or graduating from college with a PhD degree in eight. </p>
<p><strong>2.	Set your medium term goals next.</strong> Let these act as large stepping-stones to help you achieve your goals. For example, if your goal is to obtain a doctorate degree in medicine, let a medium-term goal be to achieve your Bachelor&#8217;s degree in the subject, since this is a reasonable goal between where you stand now and the ultimate goal you hope to achieve.</p>
<p>•	Medium term goals should also have specific time frames in mind. These will keep you moving forward, ensuring that you&#8217;re always working toward your long-term goals and aspirations. </p>
<p><strong>3.	Finally, focus on your short-term goals.</strong> These are goals that you can achieve more readily. Set short-term goals for each semester, for example. Or start with setting a goal to apply for financial aid, a goal to enroll in classes, and a goal to meet with an academic counselor so that you can outline your education plan. These goals guide you toward your ultimate goal.</p>
<p>•	Short-term goals can be anything you want them to be, but they should be enabling goals. This means that they should be small, but definite, steps toward your desired end result.</p>
<p>•	Follow the SMART goal setting strategy for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely short-term goals that you know you can achieve.</p>
<p>Long-term goals tend to be the most meaningful and important, which is why they take so much time to achieve. But we should not only focus our attention on the big picture goals, when it is medium and short-term goals that allow us to get there. Focus on all three types of goals when planning for your future. </p>
<p>The more time you take to plan out your goals, the better the results are likely to be. Planning and forethought can go a long way in helping you achieve what you really desire in your life.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Improving your powers of concentration will help you get more done in less time. Below are some of the major benefits of developing your ability to focus as well as some practical steps for achieving extreme concentration.</p>
<p><strong>The Benefits of Improved Concentration:</p>
<p>1.	Be more productive.</strong> By devoting your full attention to whatever you&#8217;re doing at the moment, you&#8217;ll produce better quality work in less time. It really is this simple!</p>
<p><strong>2.	Be a better friend.</strong> Conversations are more pleasant if you feel like others are really listening to you. Paying attention to others will help you appreciate your family and friends, and understand how to support them when they need it.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Feel more peaceful.</strong> Many studies have found that multitasking makes people slower and less effective at performing various tasks. Trying to do too many things at once can cause stress and make you feel less alert. By contrast, focusing on one thing helps to calm your mind.</p>
<p><strong>Training Your Mind To Concentrate:</p>
<p>1.	Focus on one thing at a time.</strong> Place your mind on whatever you&#8217;re doing in the present moment. Think about how you act when you&#8217;re engrossed in a thrilling movie or a new romance and try to duplicate that experience. If you don&#8217;t feel passionate about a particular task, look for some meaningful aspect or motivate yourself with the desire to complete it in less time.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Abandon distracting thoughts.</strong> Your mind will wander. Remain aware of your thoughts. When you notice a distracting thought, decline to pursue it. Return your attention to your chosen object. Repeat this as often as necessary. With practice, it will get easier.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Meditate.</strong> To enhance your progress, try meditating. Sit and focus on your breath or spiritual attainments. You can extend that mindfulness to all your daily activities from eating lunch to playing with your children.</p>
<p><strong>Other Steps to Improve Concentration:</p>
<p>1.	Minimize external distractions.</strong> Your restless mind is probably the greatest distraction, but a controlled environment can help too. Turn off your phone and wait until later to check your email. Clear off your desk. If you can&#8217;t find a quiet spot, consider using white noise recordings, instrumental music, or earplugs.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Get fully engaged in what you&#8217;re doing.</strong> It&#8217;s easier to focus when you&#8217;re actively involved. Take notes in class. Highlight passages while you read. Think about questions you want to ask a speaker. Invent ways to improve a routine household chore.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Vary your activities.</strong> While you&#8217;re increasing your attention span, it may be helpful to switch from one activity to another to remain alert. So if you feel stuck writing a report, go return some phone calls for a while &#8211; you&#8217;ll feel rejuvenated when you come back to the report.</p>
<p><strong>4.	Plan regular breaks.</strong> Taking breaks can improve your performance. Chat with your co-workers or walk around the block. Reward yourself with an activity you enjoy after completing a difficult project. Just standing up from time to time is refreshing because it helps your brain get more oxygen.</p>
<p><strong>5.	Avoid overloading your schedule.</strong> Budgeting your time realistically can make it easier to concentrate. You&#8217;ll be less likely to get distracted by worries about getting everything done. If you&#8217;re chronically overloaded, you may need to adjust your priorities.</p>
<p><strong>6.	Take care of your health.</strong> Your physical health affects all your mental functioning. Get adequate sleep and rest. Maintain a healthy weight by eating a nutritious diet and getting daily exercise.</p>
<p>Your ability to focus will improve with practice. As you learn to concentrate more fully, you&#8217;ll enjoy greater peace of mind and productivity.</p>
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<p>Throughout life&#8217;s daily crises, stresses, and distractions, visual reminders can help you remember the big picture. They can help you overcome challenges and move forward each day toward achieving the life you truly desire.</p>
<p>Knowing that you&#8217;re always moving forward brings a confident, peaceful feeling. You&#8217;re sure that, no matter what life brings your way, you will achieve the success you crave. This feeling is an awesome motivator to keep you going even when the chips are down, and visuals can help you get it.</p>
<p>Try these ways to use visuals as a means of achieving the goals in your life:</p>
<p><strong>1.	Post-it note reminders.</strong> This simple method puts your goals and motivators at the forefront. Buy colorful sticky notes and fun colored pens and commit your goals to paper. Stick these notes in the places where they matter most so you can see them and think about them often. </p>
<p>•	Place notes on your bathroom mirror, your headboard, the refrigerator door, on your favorite coffee mug or right on the bottom of your computer monitor. Any place that you&#8217;re likely to glance throughout the day is a good destination for a motivating, goal-setting note. </p>
<p>•	Make your notes specific, &#8220;I want to eat right this week to lose 2 lbs by the 1st,&#8221; or broad but motivating, &#8220;Today will be a productive and motivating day. You can do it!&#8221; These sticky notes will encourage productivity throughout the day with simple, basic visuals.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Note cards.</strong> Buy a stack of white note cards and commit a goal or aspiration to each one. Decorate them, write notes on them, and otherwise customize them to suit your needs. Keep them in your pocket, purse or brief case and refer to them daily as a means of motivating yourself to achieve your goals and dreams.</p>
<p>•	When you refer to the same note cards on a daily basis, a habit forms. It is said that 21 days of repeating a task will ingrain it in you. Check your note cards daily until it becomes a habit, and it will become a vital tool in helping you achieve your goals. </p>
<p><strong>3.	Visual mind maps.</strong> This tool will help you organize your goals in a highly visual way. Create a mind map on a large sheet of poster board. Designate an area for each long-term goal, and add an image and a small amount of text. Create a cloud of medium and long-term goals around each long-term goal, with lines connecting them to the long-term focus. </p>
<p>•	Use images, colors, words, and other meaningful visuals to decorate your poster. Draw your own graphics, clip pictures from magazines, or download images from the internet to create a colorful &#8211; and visually appealing &#8211; goal-oriented mind map. </p>
<p>•	Put time and effort into the creation of your visual mind map, and then put it in a place where you&#8217;ll see it daily. This visual will help you keep your short, medium, and long term goals in mind and will consistently remind you of what you want to be focusing on. </p>
<p>Visual reminders of your goals are extremely beneficial in helping you achieve your dreams and aspirations. These reminders are easy to see on a daily basis, helping you recall your most important goals early on and throughout the day. If there are specific goals you want to focus on, visual reminders are a great way to help you achieve them. </p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learning to sit comfortably while meditating will help you welcome more relaxation and peace of mind into your life. If you&#8217;d like to start meditating but feel too uncomfortable to sit for long, these steps will help. Steps to Take Between Your Meditation Sessions: 1. Keep limber. It&#8217;s easier to sit comfortably if you work [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>Learning to sit comfortably while meditating will help you welcome more relaxation and peace of mind into your life. If you&#8217;d like to start meditating but feel too uncomfortable to sit for long, these steps will help.</p>
<p><strong>Steps to Take Between Your Meditation Sessions:</p>
<p>1.	Keep limber.</strong> It&#8217;s easier to sit comfortably if you work on improving your flexibility in advance. Many people use yoga to accomplish this, but any program of gentle stretching will help. Just remember to warm up first to prevent injury.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Maintain a healthy body weight.</strong> Meditating can give you one more good reason to shed any excess pounds. You may feel more comfortable while meditating if you keep physically fit.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Breathe deeply.</strong> Breathing correctly plays a major role in meditating. Make it a habit to breathe from your diaphragm so your abdomen falls and rises rather than your chest. Let the air flow through your nostrils instead of your mouth.</p>
<p><strong>4.	Practice good posture.</strong> You&#8217;re more likely to practice good posture on the cushion if you keep track of it even when you&#8217;re not meditating. Try to always be aware of keeping your back straight and your shoulders relaxed. Imagine you&#8217;re pushing your abdomen gently toward your back so you hold it slightly tucked.</p>
<p><strong>5.	Cultivate a calm mind.</strong> You&#8217;ll get more out of meditating if you try to hold onto a calm mind all day. If you start your meditation session in a peaceful state of mind, it will be easier to get into position faster and spend more time focused on your objectives.</p>
<p><strong>Steps to Take During Your Meditation Sessions:</p>
<p>1.	Start gradually.</strong> It&#8217;s great if you&#8217;re all ready for the full lotus position, but there&#8217;s nothing wrong with making a more gradual start. Sit in a chair if it&#8217;s painful to sit on the floor. Sit for a few minutes at a time to begin with, and then increase the time in steady increments.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Position your body correctly.</strong> No matter how you sit, keep your back straight and your abdomen tucked under. Pretend your head is being gently lifted by a balloon so you hold it high without straining your neck. If you use a chair, keep both feet flat on the floor. If you use a cushion, cross your legs and bring your feet toward your waist.</p>
<p><strong>3.	Shift positions when you need to.</strong> Your ability to sit still for longer periods will naturally increase with time but it&#8217;s always okay to shift positions if you feel pain or stiffness. Stand up and stretch or just re-cross your legs placing the other leg on top for a while. Roll your shoulders or gently bend your head toward one shoulder at a time.</p>
<p><strong>4.	Figure out what to do with your hands.</strong> There are two options that work well: rest your hands on your knees or rest them in your lap. Any arrangement that keeps your hands supported and out of the way is fine.</p>
<p><strong>5.	Hold your tongue.</strong> As you move your focus inwards and stop talking, you may experience discomfort as you become more aware of the saliva in your mouth. One easy solution is to touch the roof of your mouth with your tongue. This naturally inhibits the flow of saliva.</p>
<p><strong>6.	Lower your eyes.</strong> If visual images distract you, try lowering your eyelids so there&#8217;s just a small sliver of light before you. Keep your eyes softly focused without targeting any single object. You can even close your eyes as long as it doesn&#8217;t encourage you to fall asleep.</p>
<p>Meditation can transform your life with spiritual insights and greater peace. Learning to sit comfortably will help you focus on your objectives without any aches and pains getting in the way.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you first wake up in the morning, do you find your mind rushed with worries of the upcoming day? Do you immediately feel like you’re on the verge of panicking and don&#8217;t understand why? Morning anxiety is a problem that affects a lot of people and that number only seems to be growing. Our [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>When you first wake up in the morning, do you find your mind rushed with worries of the upcoming day? Do you immediately feel like you’re on the verge of panicking and don&#8217;t understand why?</p>
<p>Morning anxiety is a problem that affects a lot of people and that number only seems to be growing. Our schedules continue to get more and more packed but the amount of time in each day remains the same. This feeling of not having enough time in the day to get everything done, that we think we need to, can cause us to feel like every moment has to be used to the fullest, multitasking whenever possible. However, this can lead to us feeling increasingly stressed and overwhelmed. </p>
<p>This post is meant to provide some tips that can help reduce the anxiety you feel in the morning, so let&#8217;s get started. </p>
<p><strong>Prepare the night before</strong></p>
<p>Try to get as much ready as you can the night before. You can do things like laying out the clothes that you are going to wear the next day and making sure they are already pressed. Prepare a lunch for yourself and your kids. Put anything you are taking with you in an assigned spot near the door (nothing is more frustrating than not knowing where you left your keys). </p>
<p>You can also prepare for the next day before you leave the office. Try to organize and put away any papers you are going to need later. Respond to any emails you are able to. And just see if there is anything else you can take care of before you leave.</p>
<p><strong>Do some stretching and meditation</strong></p>
<p>Even if you have to wake up a little bit earlier in order to accomplish this, it is well worth it. Stretching and meditating helps decrease the production of stress hormones and increase the production of endorphins or &#8220;feel good&#8221; hormones. It will also get the blood flowing and make you feel more alert.</p>
<p><strong>Plan something fun</strong></p>
<p>You want to give yourself a reason to get out of bed and to get through work. It doesn&#8217;t have to be anything complicated. It can be just renting that movie you have been wanting to see or inviting the guys/gals over for some pizza. The important thing is just to have something you can look forward to at the end of the day.</p>
<p><strong>Put a time limit</strong></p>
<p>If you have to check your email and social network sites as soon as you wake up, then you want to put a time limit on these before you go on them, do this while at work also. These activities can sap up all the free time you have if you let them.</p>
<p><strong>Put it on paper</strong></p>
<p>This you can do the night before. If you have something nagging at you before you go to bed or even after you’re in bed and you just can&#8217;t get it off your mind, it can be helpful to write it down on paper. This can help put it in perspective and help you to not be too concerned about it anymore.</p>
<p><strong>Spend time with family</strong></p>
<p>Studies show that feeling lonely in the morning can increase morning anxiety. So try to sit down and have breakfast with the family or, if you live alone, it can help just calling up a friend or family member to say good morning.</p>
<p>Article by Nathan Johnson. Hope you found these tips helpful in relieving your morning stress. For more tips on stress management check out his blog at <a href="http://stressdemolisher.com">http://stressdemolisher.com</a></p>
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