My rambling of daily & nonsense stuff

1 tooth less

2021-02-05T00:16:00.000+08:00

Losing 1st molar tooth on 1 Feb 2021 (on public holiday). Feeling sad as always assuming all my teeth are in good and healthy. Older you get, things also getting wear and tear.

Now, enjoying eating food I enjoy will I can.

Life is unpredictable

2020-01-23T15:10:00.003+08:00

Facebook is a good way to contact your family members and friends. As years pass by, you still have them on your friends' contact list. You will get updates on what they are doing whenever they post something in their Facebook.

But last year, found 1 ex-colleague is passed away after a long fight with cancer and lost to it. Today, I got another notification where another ex-colleague who is in early 30s just passed away. Their future cut off abruptly and feeling down when knowing they leave too early.

Both of them have pure heart and I always enjoy talking to them as they do speak with their honesty and frankness. They always smile with sincere and treat others with kindness with anyone who wants to be their friends. I hope they are in a better place now.

Life is precious, don't waste your time over a meaningless grudge and venting anger.

Enjoy life to the full while we are alive. Don't dwell over a petty issue.

Make someone smile a day, it will make your day a joyous day too. I'm trying my best to do daily as it is worth it.

Happy Pill

2020-01-16T12:08:00.000+08:00

I never know a child can make an adult change a lot in mentally and emotionally.

Whatever I feel sad or stress, whenever I go home, you make me feel a lot better and things are fine with your love.

Each day, I see your big smiles and getting hugs from you every morning and night makes me happy and content. It is tiring and challenging to take care of you, but it is worth it. You are the most cheeky and naughtiest child I deal with but I will never think of replacing you. You are one of a kind.

Every evening, I found you at home smiling at me and hugging me once I'm back, you truly my happy pill.

Grow well and be happy and healthy always my happy pill.

Knowledge is Power. Ignorance is Bliss.

2019-11-06T17:57:00.003+08:00

Knowledge is Power. Ignorance is Bliss.

Focus on what is important in your life at all time. Do not need to bother about others' mind and thoughts onto you as it is really none of our business as we can only control our emotions and mindset.

Why do we need to care about others' idiotic, self-centred and narrow minded individuals. Focus on own happiness and what make you happy is more important than how to make other's happy.

Have inner happiness and peace is most important one self should have.

Maturity Imbalance

2019-07-12T17:11:00.001+08:00

Why do you mean to keep on reminding people of what they have done sth you dislike repeatedly? We are all human and we all do make mistake time to time, including you too unless you are NOT human at all!!

If the person has realized his/her mistake and already changed and also self improve themselves for 1.5 year period, and the person constantly trying to show the others that she/he has aware what happen and amended themselves on daily basis, but why you keep pinpoint the past bloody issue again and again?

It is not like she/he killed your entire family and you unable to forgive the person eternal? Why being so petty till such extend?

Maturity and forgiveness definitely not in your list at all.

Thank goodness my current circle of friends are not like this which help to balance up to human mentality and behaviour among people I know, or else I will definitely vomit blood and gone insane faster.

I'm just speechless and laughing inside as I will not understand such human being as I'm not their type and I'm thankful for that. I also believe in KARMA!

Sometimes walking away is the only option

2019-04-02T19:47:00.000+08:00

I have walked away several times based on different situation and from people but I have no regrets of doing so.

In the past, I should walk away sooner years ago some of the situation but I did not as I thought I tried to fix things due to relationship. Need to realise sometimes you cannot fix something when others do not realise what has gone wrong and not wanting to fix it at all.
Why always need to walk on egg shells like thing will go wrong anytime and argue over baseless accusation.

Walk away may hurt for all but it is only for short while. The yearning of being respected and have the inner peace in ourselves is the most important for daily basis is greater, that's why walk away as everyone deserve better.

If we do not have any self respect for ourselves, how do we expect others will not respect us?

Ignorance

2018-06-27T17:58:00.004+08:00

Ignorance can be a bliss when you face with complicated people which continue trying to make you feel incompetent.

At least now, I can focus more with less infomation.

Mode of Feeling

2018-06-20T11:09:00.002+08:00

After awhile, you feel not bothered at all with other people tend to make you feel small and frustrated.

As it is your feeling of choice of how you want to feel.

Why let others win when you are in control with your feeling.

Definitely it is hard, but it is a lot of training needed. However today I dont feel much as I dont really care as I prefer to focus on what is important in my life instead and how to make myself happy.

norm feeling

2018-05-14T11:42:00.001+08:00

Sometime you simply cannot avoid those people who have their own intention or motive on doing their way to make you feel upset, dissapointed and humiliate eventhough you may not done anything wrong.

It is just how they want you to do what they have decided but they just trying to make it like it is your own decision so that they will not become the bad person at all in the eye of others.

It is up to you on what should you do on the next move with their ill intention, I guess?

Craziness coming again

2018-03-26T14:06:00.001+08:00

It is the time of the year again where human start to pick all the dirt and try to put me to the lowest point. But this time, I will try feel nothing and I should know the drill and the pattern.

Self Reminder:

1] Do not care too much what they say even they try their very best to hurt you the most.
2] Be Calm and Collective
3] Stand firm and dont let them pull you down. They just want to see you in worse place so that they feel are in control.
4] Just say "Yes" you are right and just nod my head. Also smile like sincere eventhough I'm not. If not, hell will break loose.
5] Don't waste time in argument as they will shove crazy reason to make you are guilty party regardless what happen, eventhough you pointed facts and reasons.

I had the worst period and broke down so bad. After that I realised some people just want to hate and hurt you without any reason. That's bully and discrimation.

Well, some ppl are born natural leader and some are make to be boss.

Maxis free GB

2017-12-07T14:54:00.002+08:00

Maxis announced free 10GB upgrade for all their MaxisONE plna users effectively.

http://www.maxis.com.my/en/personal/plans/postpaid-plans/maxisone.html

Hopefully our data plan will not get even slower after even giving free gb to their users >,<

Customs rules might be a harm more than good sometimes

2017-07-26T15:43:00.001+08:00

Nanyang Siang Pau reported that a woman, who was in confinement after giving birth recently, suffered heatstroke and died while being treated in a hospital in Shandong province, China.

It was learnt that the woman, who was in her 20s, was not allowed to switch on the fan or air-conditioner although the weather was extremely hot.

Her family members also asked the woman to wear a long-sleeved blouse and pants, and to cover herself with a blanket.

Some Chinese believe that women who have given birth should not be exposed to cool air as it could lead to health problems in the future.

Too many rules and customs strictly given to pregnant ladies and does under confinement which required to obey. Sometimes you need to judge what is right and wrong and stand firm eventhough people might angry or hurt as you ignore their old custom rules.
We all need to adapt to current situation instead stuck to all the customs rules given by elders with "valid and practical reasons" which yourself must understand first before agree to it.

Yes, as if you will awesome health without any issue till you die. As you age, your health is unavoidable deteriote so do not use lame reason to make a woman suffer due to your belief.

Your body - your decision, not others.

In the end, the child is motherless as the mother just follow to old custom which even elders just follow previously.

Age changes one emotional in phases

2017-07-18T18:24:00.003+08:00

Being a mother is not easy, but it has taught me the newer and deeper level of patient.
Also to put what is priority in life and what should put aside as always put what is important in life.

When you are young, things feel so complicated as we are still learning to cope with reality of life. As we grow older, we learn to act more rational and wiser.

Dont you think so?

Repetitive "I should know" "I should know"

2017-07-18T11:41:00.000+08:00

Why some people thinking that I should know ALL, when they also don't know a lot of stuff.
Cannot just inform or guide if "I dont know about it?", but need to keep on saying " I should know?"

Crazy people....

You self also said everything keep on change all the time, when so many changes non-stop till my head also spinning including others also say the same thing. If you dont upkeep and well inform others including me, HOW SHOULD I KNOW???

Keep being sacrastic to me, want to trigger my anger is it? Trying to make me fall into your stupid trap?

Tell me straight into my face if you are brave to do so, do not need to play dirty tricks.

Yes, I curse each time you say that word, but after cursing for 2 mins. I calm and forget about it as it is not worth to dwell over this repetitive episode as it will never stop. Cursing is to vent out and let go all the negative energy so that I can keep only the POSITIVE vibe in me.

Happy a good weekday.!

Yes, the main key is I "SHOULD KNOW" what is important and what is not important to dwell on. Not what you inform me what I should know thou. :P
💪

Car Accident @ 28 May 2017

2017-05-29T16:10:00.001+08:00

While waiting to pay the car park attendant in shopping mall, the behind car suddenly hit my car back bumper and got a slight dent where need to repair and paint.

The first thing the driver claim the dent and scratches are nothing and cannot be seen at all. then later, say the dent is previous one, not his fault in LOUD tone, to make us fear him and give in. That really trigger my anger, don't mess with my mood to this level at the wrong time, mister.

Seriously, dont be a PRICK and claim my car already got the scratches and dent before you hit my car. You are such a big bully and even scold your own wife who trying to help out the situation. Your motive was to bully us and try not to pay a single cent on the damage even I saw and show you which part of your car make my car dent and scratches.

Hearing your loud and authorize voice for 15 mins till my ears so painful, will not make me back down. Till I need to sternly tell you to "CALM DOWN",show my bitch look to you and point out the FACTS and EVIDENCE in DETAIL after I tell you to shut up. Even the policeman do not dare intervene but watching the whole scene.

Well, you are in losing case as firstly you hit my car, and tell me there is no dent nor scratches. BIG BULLY!!

Secondly there is CCTV recorded the whole incident, there is EVIDENCE siding me! MORON!!

Thirdly, the policeman even took photos and inform me to report within 24 hours if unable to solve ourselves.

If I report police, your NCB insurance will be revoke and need to pay higher premium as your car is high end. I also dont mind to report, STUPID ASS!!! hahaha.

Yes, I get bully time to time and I do given in as I dont want to be a bitch.
But I have limits and will retaliate when my mood is bad and not stable. Dont test me when I'm in the zone. Every woman can be bitch, just NOT every women will do that all time...especially those rational and simple minded ones.

JUST DONT PROVOKE ME especially on wrong time where my patient level is zero/negative.

Quote - Cry is not a weakness

2017-05-26T18:29:00.001+08:00

A strong person is not the one who doesn't cry.
A strong person is the one who cries & shed tears for a moment, then get up and fights again.

Random

2017-05-25T21:08:00.001+08:00

When one has dislike on you. They will find every aspect turn into negativity about you.
How much you try to your best to explain your side of story will be no "VALID" as you already sentence to be negative person regardless how much you tried to defend yourself.
You cannot do much except just listen with a smile and reflect back whether it is all true or not. If not all true, do not need to take so serious as it is just a person mindness so fix to 1 side already.

You cannot change nor force to like you. Just be yourself 🙏🏼

Put your effort and attention on those people worthy and love ones, not those assholes.... 💓💧☕👀

Your Choice your feeling

2017-05-23T15:32:00.002+08:00

When people attempt to make you unhappy or angry, you have a choice to let the person word affect your feeling for the day.

Ask yourself:
Why you let someone control your emotion?
Is it worth to be angry?
Why take some words seriously when there are more important to focus on?
Why not spread happiness instead of unhappiness?

It is a choice as no one control your emotion except yourself.

Mentality of different kind of MP on rape victims in Malaysia situation as solution

2017-04-05T15:44:00.000+08:00

KUALA LUMPUR: Rape victims can have an opportunity to lead a healthy and good life if they marry their rapists, Tasek Gelugor Member of Parliament Datuk Shabudin Yahya told the Dewan Rakyat today.

According to him, girls aged between nine to 12 years old are "physically and spiritually" ready for marriage.

“They reach puberty at the age of nine or 12 and at that time, the physical state of their body is already akin to those 18 years of age.

"For a wife who was raped, if she can marry (the rapist) she would not go through such a bleak future.

"At least she has someone who can become her husband. So, this will be a remedy to social problems," he said while debating the Child Sexual Offences Bill here today.

He said this when objecting an amendment to the bill which was proposed by DAP's Kulai MP Teo Nie Ching who wanted the bill to be amended to also spell out the invalidity of child marriages.

The proposed amendment was voted down and the bill was subsequently passed with no major changes.

In explaining further the reason for his opinion, Shabudin pointed out that it is also not fair to assume that a person who committed a sexual offence will continue being a bad person.

“Maybe he repents, or regrets. It is better to have people who regret rather than people who do not regret.

"So in this case, let us not put an assumption that the person will remain bad. (Marriage) can be an exit clause for this problem,” he said.

The former Syariah court judge was defending existing law which allows minors to be married off as long as their parents or guardians seek permission from the Syariah Courts.

http://www.nst.com.my/news/2017/04/227239/rape-victims-can-have-good-life-if-they-marry-their-rapists-tasek-gelugor-mp#cxrecs_s

I cannot believe such MP can suggest such thing! Are you for real? Have you been rape before? How can a child been raped and will be happy married to the rapist the rest of her life? Are you NUTS!! You suggesting force her to live in hell when she think someone who is adult will protect her and harming her further after been raped.

She is a minor, need to be love and learn to think to know what is right and wrong, learn to be strong woman with guidance.

Malaysia Electricity Usage 2017 Calculation

2017-02-14T11:29:00.001+08:00

http://www.star2.com/living/living-environment/2017/02/14/how-to-cut-your-monthly-electric-bill/

Or Chien (Oyster and Egg)

2016-03-08T13:30:00.000+08:00

One of the famous food in Muar town, last time the stall open only during evening till night. But opening hours has change drastically and open during afternoon time only and it is quite fast sold out especially weekends.

As he mentioned fewer customers during evening time and most of the people sleep early in the town now compared to older days.

Toll Fares for CAR starting on 15 Oct 2015

2015-10-13T16:43:00.001+08:00

This is a drastic increase of toll fare imposed recently eventhough less manpower manning to toll as users need to have a touch 'n go card to use most of the tolls now. Now the cost living hiking up drastically, now the govt pushing more cost for the public to bear.

PETALING JAYA: The Works Ministry has defended the toll hike, saying that the Government has already subsidised a large amount of toll so as to not burden the people.

In a statement, the ministry said the move was in line with the gradual increment of toll rates during the concession period.

It said the total compensation paid by the Government from 2008 to 2013 was RM1.1bil, and RM402.9mil for last year.

The ministry said the Government had also deferred the increase in eligible highways since 2008 in its efforts to reduce the people’s burden.

“The amount saved can be utilised to implement development projects that will have a multiplier effect on the economy,” it said.

The ministry said the money can be used to finance the resurfacing of existing roads, build more hospitals as well as schools.

It also defended the move by saying that the hikes were only for intra-city highways and not inter-city highways.

“The toll rate for buses will remain so as to encourage the use of public transport.

“This could potentially reduce traffic and road congestion,” the statement said

http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Nation/2015/10/13/Move-in-line-with-gradual-increment-of-toll-rates/

Will this work?

2015-10-07T18:00:00.001+08:00

Eventually the royal families of Malaysia voicing out their concern directly to the government after the government been ignoring their own citizen voice of worries.

http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Nation/2015/10/07/Rulers-Settle-1MDB-issue-fast-Matter-could-jeopardise-our-economy/

KUALA LUMPUR: The Malay Rulers want the Government to complete the investigation into the 1Malaysia Development Berhad controversy as soon as possible and take “the appropriate stern action” against all found to be implicated.

In a statement, their royal highnesses stressed that all concerned should extend “real and sincere” cooperation for the investigation to achieve its objectives.

“The findings of the investigation must be reported comprehensively and in a transparent manner so the people will be convinced of the sincerity of the Government which shall not at all conceal facts and the truth,” they said.

The statement was released by the Keeper of the Rulers’ Seal, Datuk Seri Syed Danial Syed Ahmad, after the pre-council meeting of the Conference of Rulers at Istana Negara yesterday.

The 239th meeting of the Conference of Rulers is scheduled for today and tomorrow.

The statement said: “The failure to give convincing clarifications and answers is feared to have resulted in a crisis of confidence.

“As a consequence, the people believe, whether basing on reality or perception, that this is among the causes for the plunge in the value of the Malaysian Ringgit, impacting the country’s financial market and economic climate negatively and at the same time adversely affecting the world’s view of Malaysia.”

According to the statement, the Malay Rulers were worried that if the issue was not wisely handled, and was allowed to drag on, it could jeopardise the country’s economy and the livelihood of the people.

“To ensure that the Government enjoys the people’s trust, that leaders are respected, that political stability is guaranteed and that the economy continues to grow, all leaders must constantly ensure that justice is meted out equitably and transparently based on the law,” they said.

For this, the statement said, enforcement agencies and regulatory institutions such as the police, Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission, Bank Negara, Attorney-General’s Chambers and the Judiciary, as well as related government bodies, should be worthy of God’s trust and the people’s faith in transparency, credibility and integrity.

The Malay Rulers also wanted the leaders to give priority to factors of security, tranquillity, peace and harmony and place national and the people’s concerns above their personal interests.

“The Malay Rulers take seriously issues affecting race and religion and would like to remind leaders of political parties and non-governmental organisations not to sensationalise racial and religious issues to garner support,” the statement said.

Their royal highnesses said the long-prevailing inter-racial and inter-religious harmony and solidarity had been the main pillar for the stability of an independent, peaceful, progressive and prosperous Malaysia.

As such, they said, the harmony and solidarity of the people should be safeguarded at all times and never be sacrificed for shallow political aims. — Bernama

A joke of the day

2015-10-06T14:59:00.001+08:00

Mind is confuse when someone say sth confusing

2015-08-21T14:50:00.001+08:00

http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Nation/2015/08/20/Tengku-Adnan-Bersih-Naked/

KUALA LUMPUR: The organisers of Bersih 4.0 can do whatever they like - shout and even go naked - if they hold their rally in a 'closed area,' said Federal Territories Minister Datuk Seri Tengku Adnan Tengku Mansor.

But they will not be allowed to hold the rally "in public," he said. The Bersih 4.0 rally is planned for Aug 29 and 30.

"We don’t want them to come out in the open, if they want to do it (the rally), they can go to any stadium they want.

"You want to shout, you want to be naked you can do whatever you want," Tengku Adnan told reporters after officiating the Laman@Eco Sky park upgraded here on Thursday.

"We are not giving them permission to do it at Dataran Merdeka or Padang Merbok.

"They asked us for a place for their demonstration and the government has allowed them to tunjuk rasa (show their feelings) in a contained place, not a public place.

“You must always remember Malaysia is multi-racial, multicultural, multi-ethnic and multi-religion.

“What happens if someone crazy does something untoward; what would happen to this country? Do we want to take that risk?” he said.

Tengku Adnan added that Kuala Lumpur mayor Datuk Mohd Amin Nordin Abd Aziz had issued a statement on the Bersih 4.0 rally.

“So we will leave it to the police; we have already said no because the Dataran Merdeka has historic value, used for National Day and we are not going to allow them," he said.

City police have also not allowed the rally to go on now that Kuala Lumpur City Hall (DBKL) has not allowed the gathering to be held at Dataran Merdeka and Padang Merbok.

Sir, Are you sure it is not against the law to be naked in the public regardless even it is stadium as it is still public area? Confuse citizen. :P