My Virginia

Paxton

2011-06-10T16:01:00.000-07:00

Paxon House is located on Genito Road in Powhatan County. The farmhouse was built by my great great great great grandfather- Ennion Skelton. His son Dr. John Gifford Skelton, was a prominent physician in Virginia, during the War. He attended to wounded soliders on nearby plantations in the county. He moved in Richmond in 1866- and help to establish The Medical College of Virginia- otherwise known as MCV. Paxton Plantation is a good representation of Powhatan County and most everything is in tact and preserved as it was when it was built in 1819- including the outbuildings. Many plantations and historical houses have been lose due to fire which was much more common in those days. So for a structure like Paxton to remain untouched as it was is very unusual.

Here is some footage and pictures of Paxton.

Christmas In Virginia

2010-12-11T09:13:00.000-08:00

For many Virginians, a "White Christmas" is virtually unheard of, but that doesn't stop us from getting into the spirit. Christmas in Virginia can be a wonderful time as temperatures start to cool down to welcome Old Man Winter. Many areas in Virginia are still fairly mild in December, but a very strong cold spell can sweep through much of the area and so everyone should bring at least a light winter coat! The best destinations for The Christmas Season in Virginia include Colonial Williamsburg and their "Grand Illumination". This has many celebrations on the first Sunday in December with a large fireworks display at night. Many small towns in Virginia have their Christmas parades the first weekend of December, and from Middleburg to Danville, you can expect a celebration of great multitude.

The Richmond area has many things to do around Christmas- including carriage rides through Shockoe Slip during the month of December. The Dooley Mansion in Maymont Park is wonderfully decorated- as is The Jefferson Hotel with a stupendous Christmas tree that reaches the heights of the ceiling. Virginia also supplies many of our nations Christmas tree industry- most of which are grown in the Southwestern part of the state. They include Frasier furs, spruces, and southern pines. While outside of Virginia- the National Christmas Tree in Washington DC is also quite a sight to behold. Virginians also pride themselves on their hospitality during the Christmas Season. In tradition, wreaths are made of fruits such as pears and pineapple, which dates back to Colonial Times. Be sure and visit Virginia this Christmas. You may even see some snow in the mountains!

Our Virginia: Past and Present

2010-10-21T10:00:00.000-07:00

Bravo! Bravo! Finally a book that has some truth in it. For the past three decades, our Virginia school kids have been taught that the "Civil War" was fought solely over slavery- that their evil ancestors in grey were fighting to keep Negroes as slaves , where the egalitarian North fought to end it. Fiction, of course, but that's what our kids have been brainwashed for so long. If we learned anything in Sunday school, we know that Satan is the father of all lies. So its no wonder that when the Yankees won the war, they re-wrote our history as well. "Our Virginia Past and Present"- presents the truth about blacks and the Confederacy. Joy Masoff presents a beautifully written book about our wonderful Virginia history- people of all races should be proud. Virginia's soil was invaded, and her sons and daughters came to defend her. Would a lot of people still believe the lie that the "Civil War" was all about slavery? Well, some might. But to enlighten children is the first step.

My nephew actually stated that he hates the South because his teacher taught him in class that the South fought to keep blacks enslaved, while the North fought to free them. While its true that a few Southerners felt this way, a majority did not, nor did a majority of Southerners own slaves. The North was fighting to preserve the Union, and the South wanted their independence. That's the truth. So folks, let freedom ring! Why such a controversy? Because the truth hurts some times. No one wants to think that the Africans did sell their own into slavery. No one wants to think that perhaps the North really didn't care about freeing slaves. No one wants to view Abraham Lincoln for his skewed views on race during the that period. But its great to see a firmly different viewpoint for our children to understand. God Bless Joy Mastoff! Pick up a copy today and read it with Virginian pride.

Magnolia Grange Plantation And Weston Manor

2010-08-22T20:07:00.000-07:00

Located in Chester, VA, Magnolia Grange plantation is a prime example of the Federal Style Plantation home in Virginia and the Upper South region. Its large white columns and big winding veranda, harken back to those glorious days gone by, when people had lots of servants and you could enjoy a simpler way of life! Now that is all past , but its legend still remains. Built in 1822 by William Winfree, the plantation got its name from a circles of Magnolia Trees that one graced its front lawn. The Plantation is open year 'round to visitors who want to explore a great plantation home. Chester is located just 10 miles south of Richmond of 1-95

WESTON MANOR- HOPEWELL, VA

The main house was built in 1789 , overlooking the Appoomattox River. It was built by the Gilliam family. The Gilliam Family owned several plantations in the area. Weston manor is a prime example of the Georgian style architecture popular in many Virginia plantation homes during the 18th century. It boasts distinctive crown moldings and an illustrious stair case in the interior. Many weddings and parties are held here each year

Virginia Peanuts ,Cotton, And More !

2010-08-12T18:58:00.001-07:00

Another great destination during the summer time, is Wakefield, Virginia. Our "Plantation Peanuts" are known world wide over. We invented Mister Peanut! Planter's original- grown right here in the Commonwealth. Wakefield has a great diner and restaurant, where you can also pick up some nice Smithfield Hams. The Virginia Diner, located in Wakefield, is a must see tourist place. Virginia is famous for its peanuts- and they make great stocking stuffers at Christmas time. You may also see some cotton fields while you're out in that part of the state. Cotton is also one of Virginia's products, and its grown primarily in the region known as "Tidewater"- the area of Charles City County and Eastward. Cotton is not as a primary crop in Virginia as it is in the Deeper South states. However, Virginia grows its fair share each year- and is part of the cotton growing industry.

Smithfield Hams are also a staple of Virginia food products. Smithfield hams are cured in tons of salt- for a very special taste. Like the name says, they are raised in the area of Smithfield, Virginia. They are done the way they did them years ago- back before the days of refrigeration, where salt was a way of keeping food from spoiling. You can pick up Smithfield Hams in many areas of Eastern Virginia- including shops in Colonial Williamsburg. There's nothing like ham n' peanuts on your plate for that special family get-together.

Virginia Summer Fun Part II

2010-06-28T13:06:00.001-07:00

The James River Plantations (Charles City County)

Nestled between Williamsburg and Richmond is a hot bed of Virginia plantation homes along the James River. These certainly aren't the only in Virginia, for Virginia is loaded with these illustrious mansions of the bygone Era statewide. However, these are the most historically known and best preserved. Its pretty hard to do all these in one day. I recommend you make accommodations in Richmond or Williamsburg first, and then explore . All along Rt 5, you'll find these treasures. Most are all open to the public- with the exception of Carter's Grove, which is undergoing extensive restoration and at the mercy of the Colonial Williamsburg Foundation. The most famous along this route include Shirley, Westover, Berkley (site of the First Thanksgiving), and Sherwood Forest. A guided tour is included for each mansion- Westover is open only on the grounds, but a picnic by the lovely old house is a must! Charles City County is also part of Virginia's Cotton industry. Virginia has some of the oldest and longest running plantations in the South.

Northern Virginia:DC

Northern Virginia is best described as the Gateway to the "Romantic South". Cobblestone streets in Old Town Alexandria lead to George Washington's home on the Potomac called

"Mount Vernon". Also in the region include Oatlands Plantation in Loudoun County- and Virginia's "Hunt Country". Little towns such as Middleburg, Leesburg, and Warrenton are the seat for the horse industry of Virginia, and many estates and rolling hills dot the countryside. Northern Virginia also includes Lee's Mansion in Arlington- and Arlington National Cemetery. Many parks are open for recreation in Northern Virginia. Go for a bike ride along the C&O trail. Many areas to the west are still very rural and unchanged. Bed and Breakfasts are abundant here. Northern Virginia includes the counties of Loudoun, Prince William, Fairfax, as well as the cities of Arlington and Alexandria. However, the region extends as far south as the city of Fredericksburg, and as far west as the Blue Ridge Mountains.

Lake Anna, Virginia

Lake Anna offers Log Cabin homes along the lake. People can enjoy swimming, fishing, and boating here- and you're within and hour's drive to Richmond or Northern Virginia. The attractive Lake also is close to Fredericksburg, Virginia , a historic city at the base of Northern and Central Virginia with shops, dining, and Kenmore Plantation home, as well as Mary Washington College.

Virginia National Battlefield Parks

Virginia has hundreds of Battlefield Parks associated with The War Between The States. The three most famous are probably The Battle of Mannassas (First And Second), Fredericksburg, and Petersburg. These were pivotal battles during that Era. The Shenandoah Valley has many battlefield parks including- New Market, and Cedar Creek (near Winchester)- as Winchester changed 72 times during the entire war. Just about every area of Virginia was touched by the War, with the exception of Charlottesville , which never saw a major battle or skirmish there.

Charlottesville/Monticello

Thomas Jefferson lived in many areas of Virginia during his life time, but no other part of the Commonwealth is deemed "Jefferson's Country" as is the Charlottesville area. Thomas Jefferson found peace and quiet and relaxation at Monticello- which took several years to complete. Architecturally, it was right different from the typical Virginia Plantation home. T.J. shunned opulence for practicality. People enter Monticello to a very humble entry hall and side staircase- as Jefferson believed to take up less space. Jefferson being the inventor and designer, also helped complete The University of Virginia- which he found repulsive later due to the excessive gambling and carousing by the students. Monticello today showcases how it might have been when Jefferson was living there. Around Charlottesville are lots of wineries and horse farms. You will really want to check out Charlottesville the city- as well as University of Virginia (despite the uppity students, the architecture is superb)- the Downtown Mall in Charlottesville boasts nightlive and music hot spots. Charlottesville is located right at the foot of the blue ridge mountains and is within an hour's drive from Richmond and less than two hours from Washington, D.C.

Virginia's Southwest

A whole book could be written on the big "toe" of Virginia". This area is just to the west and South of Roanoke, and borders on Kentucky, West Virginia, and Tennessee.
Virginia's Southwest is where you will run into the land that sparked the Legendary Carter Family- and the area known as the "Birthplace of Country Music". Visit Macy's Springs, Virginia and you will see how it all began. Long before Nashville had a hand in it. Also, explore the Appalachian trails. Bristol Virginia is a town that runs the line of Virginia and Tennessee (Tennessee Ernie actually grew up on the Virginia side). Also visit Abington's "Barter Theater" for great live entertainment. This is truly God's Country.

Virginia Summer Fun Part I

2010-06-17T14:36:00.000-07:00

Virginia is a wonderful destination for any family during the summer months. From June through October, you can expect nice hot and sticky weather to put you in the mood for the beach, pool, or the mountains. Virginia has so much to do and see, I'm making this a two-part post. Virginia is so steeped in history and cultural events as well, making it much more enjoyable for those with intellectual pursuits.

Here's a List of Places To Go and See This Summer in Virginia

VIRGINIA BEACH

Fun in the Sun !The obvious first choice, of course, but in no order. Virginia Beach has everything. Its a mix of Southern hospitality and Las Vegas excitement. You can do it all- stroll the boardwalk, swim in the ocean with the hungry man eating sharks, or fish on the pier. The restaurants have excellent local seafood- I highly recommend the soft shelled crab sandwich- fried and battered to perfection. The best places to eat are Rudee's (On The Lynnhaven Inlet), The Jewish Mother, and Rockefeller's. But there are so many other wonderful area hotel resorts that have great food choices as well. Virginia Beach has lots of live music events as well, including the "Neptune Festival", funhouses for the kids, go karts, and their own local Aquarium. Virginia Beach is centrally located so its within a day's drive from any part of the East Coast. Also, visit the famous "Cavalier Hotel"- one has an Oceanfront, and the more historic one lies behind it. Pat Robertson and the 700 Club call Virginia Beach home, as well as Regent University.

COLONIAL WILLIAMSBURG

Step back in time to Colonial Williamsburg- Virginia's Amusement Park for History buffs! See Mildred churn butter, learn about life in the 18th Century, and visit the historic College of William and Mary. Duke Of Gloucester Street has somewhat authentic replicas of the Colonial period- and there are lots of neat Taverns to eat in- including The King's Arms, and Christiana Campbell's. Merchant's Square has many places to shop and explore, and you can catch a horse drawn carriage down the street to the Capital or the Governer's Palace. Just beware of the manure if you travel on foot! Also near Colonial Williamsburg is Bush Gardens- an amazing theme park with several different countries, thrill rides, and live shows and events for the whole family. Its somewhat of a tourist trap, but Colonial Williamsburg offers a little something for everyone, and its a wonderful place to get stuck in a time warp. Travel down the Colonial Parkway and visit nearby historic Yorktown and Jamestown settlement- the oldest thriving settlement in the Southern United States.

Luray Caverns

Luray Caverns (Loo-ray) is a neat place that offers a glimpse of an underground cave. You can really see an interesting throng of things sticking down at you that were formed many years ago. In the center of the cave is an organ that plays "A Might Fortress Is Our God". After you finish your exploration under the earth, you can stop at the gift shop, and chat with the locals a bit. Luray is at the foot of skyline Drive and nearby Front Royal opens up to the long stretch of parkway that runs down through Virginia and into North Carolina.

Natural Bridge

Considered one of the 8 wonders of the world, Natural Bridge, located near Roanoke, is a really nifty place to visit. The place is really that- a natural formation of rock that resembles a bridge. They also have a wax museum inside for visitors. Natural Bridge has a natural beauty all of its own. There is a legend of the Indian that leaped to her death here. You probably should avoid doing that. Luckily they have security to keep folks from doing crazy things like that

The Shenandoah Valley

The Valley is really too immense to describe in one sitting. The Valley runs from the Eastern Panhandle of what is now West Virginia South towards Winchester and then down to the end at Roanoke where the Valley meets the Appalachian mountain chain. The valley is fertile crescent of rich farm land, and was called "The Breadbasket of the Confederacy". The illustrious blue ridge mountains lie to the east, and to the west is the Appalachian chain. If you plan to visit the Valley, you may not be able to see it all in one trip. Of course the major towns you can always find accommodations in, and you'll have a wonderful time. Your best bet is to start at the bottom of the valley and work your way up. That means the Northern Shenandoah Valley and move South. This is because the valley goes up in elevation as you travel South through it. Winchester- birthplace of Country Legend Patsy Cline is a good place to start. Also check out Harrisonburg (a thriving hippie college town), Staunton- home to Mary Baldwin College and Woodrow Wilson, Lexington- Washington and Lee College, and Stonewall Jackson's home, and the major city of Roanoke. The valley stops at Roanoke, as Roanoke is considered the gateway to Virginia's Southwest country. Which is again- another treasure to behold. The valley offers lots of biking and hiking trails, as well as opportunities to catch some good country and bluegrass music.

Yankee Author Attacks Richmond's statues...

2010-05-01T12:41:00.000-07:00

The high and mighty Mr. Phillip Kennicott gave a very interesting- almost readable review of the re-opening of Virginia's Fine Art Museum. In the process, he felt it necessary to attack the statues along the way. In his article Mister Kennicott writes "The museum sits in a lovely part of Richmond, marred only by the 'unfortunate' presence of Confederate generals on plinths nearby" I think the fellow is referring to Stonewall Jackson- here. Well, Mr. Phillip Kennicott, I'm sure you would be happier had a great big ugly state of "Honest" Abraham Lincoln be erected in the former Capital of the Confederacy? Perhaps that would be more to your liking. Its one thing to scrutinize the Lost Cause, but was it really necessary? It seemed so out of place, and very snide. No, it was not necessary. It was sneaky Underhanded. RUDE. I don't understand what Mr. Kennicott is getting at here. The statues are beautiful. And a wonderful reminder that Richmond is not some bland vanilla milk shake of a town, but a unique place in which it became historically relevant as the Capital of the Second American Revolution

Suppose I wrote an article that the Metropolitan Museum of Fine Art in New York was lovely- but it was marred by the Statue Of Liberty? That certainly wouldn't be very nice to the folks of New York City. Richmond is a wonderful city, and the statues of Lee, Jackson, and the rest are noble reminders of the past, not marring images of hostility. Its fine and dandy that he believes Richmond has some "culture" in it. Perhaps he should take another look at the statues which were so well designed and as elegant as they are- they rival the streets of London and Paris. I challenge Mr. Kennicott to come back to Richmond and say anything disparaging again about those heroes, for which my ancestors so bravely fought- for so which Richmond truly loved. If New York can have its Statue of Liberty, and Washington D.C. can have its Mister Lincoln, Richmond can have its, Lee, Jackson, Stuart, Murray- and yes its Arthur Ashe if it wants to. Because this is Richmond- the Former Capital of the Confederacy, and if thats a problem for some people, maybe they can find another place that has less to be proud of, like Buffalo.

Virginia's "Sweet Tea Line"

2010-04-16T10:28:00.000-07:00

Does a "Sweet Tea" line in Virginia really exist? I'm afraid so. It didn't used to be this way, but when you get north of Richmond, its harder and harder to find places that will serve you sweet tea- or even give you a choice. In Northern Virginia and close to the District, you may get blank stares when asking for that sweet goodness- even if you're a native like myself who was raised on it. 50 years ago you could get sweet tea state wide. From Leesburg to Danville from Winchester to Virginia Beach- it was the drink of choice among Southerners, and Virginia was no exception. However, because of a major recent influx of Northerners and Midwesterners, Sweet Tea is almost extinct in many places of the Commonwealth. Even in Richmond- you will be offered "sweet" or "unsweet tea" but only if asked. The problem lies in a gradual homogenization of Virgina into a more Mid-Atlantic state, rather than a Southern one. A litmus test as to whether you are truly in Dixie was done- and it was tested in Virginia. Why they didn't do Kentucky (our neighbor state) is beyond me, but I suppose because of Virginia's Eastern seaboard location, we have had a lot more northerners into our state.

As Northerners increased into Northern Virginia and other areas, the demand for "sweet tea" has declined. So a new un-Virginian culture has emerged. In Northern Virginia the only places you may get sweet tea are roadside diners that have BBQ, and fast food "Southern" chain places such as "Red, Hot, and Blue". You will rarely find anywhere in the D.C. area that may serve sweet tea, outside of Chic-Fil-A or a Cracker Barrell. In Central Virginia, while the effect is not as devastating, it remains similar. Richmond offers both sweet and unsweet tea, but some places even in Richmond- that quintessentially Southern town, don't even serve sweet tea. In Charlottesville which as also become Yankeefied, sweet tea is harder to find than in other areas of Central Virginia. Southside Virginia, however, has remained largely unaffected with at least 98% of establishments carrying sweet tea. This is sad thing for Virginia, as many are no longer considering it a truly Southern state but now a more Hodge podge of Mid-Atlantic, Northeastern, and Southern, with a lightly buttered Southern way of life as opposed to its past. However, people should take heart. You can get sweet tea here still -even though you may have to look for it more and more, as Virginia, (and even North Carolina) merge into the Mid-Atlantic region. For more information about the study of sweet tea (or lack thereof) in Virginia, visit The Sweet Tea Mason Dixon Line

Confederate History Month

2010-04-09T10:06:00.000-07:00

Governor Bob McDonnell proudly has declared that April is Confederate History Month. We Virginians are glad! Virginia played a most significant role in the War-Between-The-States. On April 17th, 1861, Virginia seceded from the Union, and not long after, Richmond became the new Confederate Capital. Because of Virginia's more central location, it was a pivotal point in the War. More than 90% of the War for Southern Independence was fought right on Virginia soil. There are countless battlefields in the commonwealth- many steeped in historical moments on both sides. While some ignorant people may argue this move celebrates enslavement, the proud lads in grey were fighting for the sovereignty of their home state, and for truth and freedom and independence! In their eyes, they were fighting the Second American Revolution. As Jefferson Davis himself said: "We fight not for slavery , but for Independence!"

How proud we should be as Virginians , that Virginia played such a monumental role in history! Lee, Jackson, Stuart- all brave men of valor and considerable honour. They were notable Gentlemen. This month Virginia celebrates her proud heritage as one of the 11 States of the Confederacy. While we may have been defeated, the spirit of these brave men lives on. Many not owned one single slave. They fought for their homes and their land- which ultimately was burned and destroyed at the hands of their evil foe. But as Lee said, North and South must reconcile their differences, and become a nation again. Many people black and white fought for the Confederate States of America, and its with great pride that we celebrate their cause. Richmond celebrates the lads in grey on Monument Ave- a beautifully tree lined street with dogwoods and magnolias and the statues of Lee, Stuart, Jackson, and Murray. Richmond serves as a Mecca for history in this regard. So wave the Stars and Bars high this month in honor of those men who gave their lives for such an honorable cause.

Washington DC: The South's True Gateway

2010-02-27T12:38:00.000-08:00

Chances are when people list typical Southern cities they rarely, if ever think of our Nation's Capital. However, Washington D.C. has always been a Southern city at heart, and despite her awkward crowning as the Union Capital during the ill-fated War, the city itself and her people were Southern. Washington, now considered by most to be part of the Northeast corridor, has a pace of life that is slower than its sister cities to the North, and the layout and structure of Washington is very different than the densely populated Northeastern cities. Baltimore is often considered a Southern city as well- yet to me, that is where the North ends. As Baltimore much leans more towards Northern culture than Southern, Washington is the opposite. Washingtonians like to sometimes drawl, and they like their BBQ and the city is a sweltering mess during the summer time. While being hot in the summer doesn't make a place particularly "Southern" (New York can be hot as heck too), its just the way people in D.C. react. Washingtonians freak out at the very mention of the word "snow". They don't call her "Foggy Bottom" for nothing. Why do I include Washington D.C.- a city in Maryland in a blog about Virginia? Well, because at one time, Virginia was part of Washington D.C.- and let's face it- Northern Virginia pretty much is Washington D.C. for the most part. Arlington sits right across the river. Lee's beautiful mansion now surrounded by graves of Union Soldiers, was once the pinnacle of Southern hospitality and grace. In the old days, Northern Virginia often looked towards Richmond, not D.C. as its cultural reference point. However, D.C. related more to Richmond than to Baltimore. And Baltimore more to D.C. than to Philadelphia. This becomes the conundrum of border towns such as Washington.

During the 1950's- D.C. was also a mecca of Country and Western Music- at a time when Country Music (then known as "Hillbilly), was a strictly Southern art form, and the performers- most notably Patsy Cline- were from small southern towns. Patsy Cline came to Washington D.C. in the 1950s, and got her start on Jimmy Dean's "Town and Country Time"-which aired just in the D.C. area. D.C. had many honky tonks and bars which played Country. Later on, Mary Chapin Carpenter- a New Jersey Native, came down to D.C. to get her start here. The police force in D.C. was also Southern- people from neighboring states such as Virginia, Southern Maryland, West Virginia, and North Carolina came to D.C. to work and get jobs. Washington,D.C. also has a Southern accent. Its not as graceful or as elegant as Virginia Tidewater found in Richmond- yet it is still distinct. Radio show host Diane Rehm has a classic Washingtonian accent. As does John Warner- a Virginian who spent most of his boyhood in D.C.

When I see cherry blossoms, Greek Revival architecture, and the Potomac River, it certainly doesn't strike me as a "Northeast Corridor" city. I see the gateway to the South in Washington D.C. I suppose this has always long been a debate for many people. As D.C. sits well below the Mason-Dixon line, its also a very transient place with folks from all over the globe. Ex-President John F. Kennedy so famously said "Washington is a city of Southern Efficiency and Northern Charm". He meant that all the Northern politicians came down to Washington, and the city itself, under siege, could not keep up with the demand. Washington is a global city now. But if you watch old movies- you'll see a sleepy little Southern country town that just oozes a simpler, slower way of life.

You're Very Southern If...

2009-12-31T13:57:00.000-08:00

Proper Southerners know how to say and do things a certain way. Many Northerners are puzzled by some of our customs. Being from Northern Virginia (which is technically, indeed, the South), I am aware of many of the nuances that Southern folk know and, frankly, unless you grow up South of the Mason Dixon line, many will seem foreign to you!

A Proper Southerner Knows:

-How To Address A Group of People. Acceptable greetings are: Y'all, You-All, You Folks. But never say "You Guys", unless it is actually a group of "guys". Northerners bemoan our use of y'all and how provincial it sounds, never stopping to think how absurd we think it is when they call a female group of people "You Guys" and never blink an eye! Y'all is always plural, unless you are speaking to one person who is representing a group. For example you ask the store clerk "Where do y'all keep the butter beans?" You mean not just the store clerk, but the store in general. That's where yankees get confused.

- How to pronounce that favorite nut of ours that grows here and is made in pies. We know that its a "Puh-Cahn" , not a Pee-Can! Heaven forbid you would actually call it something that you use to relief yourself in.

Sweet Tea is something that is brewed with the sugar in it! You don't make "sweet tea" by taking regular tea and dumping "sweet n' low" in the glass. That is sweetened tea, not sweet tea, and it won't fly with us.

You can cure anything with Bisquick. Have an upset stomach? A Cold? The Ebola Virus? Just a little bisquick and you'll be sittin' pretty in no time !

To save the bacon grease. You just never know for what occassion you'll need it again

Funerals can be fun! Southrons like to keep our emotions in tack at the funerals by celebrating at the wake! Southern women know that funerals will call for their famous green bean casserole, tomato aspic, (a jello which very few people eat), deviled eggs, and sally lunn bread. Southerners know that funeral food will help wipe those blues away for whoever died. Nothing drowns the grief better than stuffing your face full of fried food.

How To Smile People in the South smile more than anywhere else in the country. This is for men, women, and children equally. But when a Southern belle smiles- watch out! There could be pure poison behind that smile.

How To Give Respect: In the South we open doors for people, address anyone who appears over the age of 16 as "M'aam" or "Sir", and help older people cross the street. We make sure that we give them plenty of time too. Northerners like to rush things. We stop and get out of our car for funeral processions. In the South, we know that rushing things could lead to disaster. You may not get time to exchange that lemon chess pie recipe- or found out who won the Gator Bowl!

Turn Signals are forever: If you're in the South and someone ahead of you uses their turns signals, don't expect them to give it up right away. Given our drawling, slower nature, we love to make the most out of things. Leaving our turn signals on make them linger on the palette a little bit longer. Don't honk at us, we'll turn it off at the next intersection... perhaps

The only things we need: The three things any Southerner can't live without are Jesus, Coke, and Elvis. Those three things we keep dear to our hearts. We also hold dear Robert E. Lee, Patsy Cline, The Grand 'Ol Opry, Sweet Tea, Grits, and fried chicken. If you insult anything on this list, prepare for a duel!

Sundays are meant for church: Sundays you can find us in church praisin' our Lord. Don't expect us to be washing our BMW or Lexus (unless you live some place tacky like Charlotte or At-lanta) on a Sunday morning. We also enjoy all day dinners at church, complete with chicken, mashed potatoes, and iced tea. If you are in a small town in the South on a Sunday morning and you're not an honest person, you can have yourself a field day.

We know our Social and Regional Differences: One of the things in the South that make us more like England is how we are aware of our social standings. Even as many different accents as we have here, we can tell you if it is low class , middle, or upper crust Southern; if its country, suburban, or urban Southern. If it is Virginian, Georgian, or Texan, and even what part. We also know the difference between a redneck, a hick, a hillbilly, a good 'ol boy, a southern belle, a southern lady, a southern gentleman, and a Bubba. We know how to spot one from a mile away. Northerners think every middle class white Southern boy is a card carrying member of the KKK. We know better. Bubba means no harm.

How To Insult People: Southerners like to say "bless his/her heart" before an insult. It always helps soften the blow. Example: That Johnny, bless his heart. He doesn't have the sense that God gave a slug. Or "Bless your heart! How did you know I wanted a Barack Obama calendar for Christmas?"

We know what these food items are: Cheer Wine, Collard Greens, Fried Okra, Ring Tum Diddy, Spoonbread, Brunswick Stew, and hoppin' john.

Finally, we know that : Virginia is the Birthplace of Country Music and Nashvegas is modern Pop music. We know that Robert E. Lee is the finest gentleman who ever drew breath, and Abe "honest" Lincoln, was an evil dictator. We know that the "Civil War" is a misnomer, and is properly known as "The War Between The States". And it wasn't about slavery. We also know that we will rise again!

God Bless the South!

Virginia Is Not The Northeast !

2009-10-25T19:16:00.000-07:00

Above: A Virginia cotton field

The dolts on the Weather Channel are either bonkers, insane, or just plain stupid. Calling Virginia a Northeast or Mid-Atlantic state is like calling France part of Russia. Virginia might be the furthest north of the Southern states, but it is still the South, and has much more in common with the lower South than it does even Maryland, its close neighbor. Virginia like Kentucky, lies in the Upper South. It does have a more central location, but its not part of the Northeastern United States. Not in climate, culture, or anything else. Virginia is Old South- and it was one of the 11 states of the Confederacy. But even by sheer geography, it does not fit into the Mid-Atlantic or Northeast region. Weather reports that try to include Virginia in the Northeast and Mid-Atlantic areas make this even more obvious. Usually in the Fall Season, something to the effect that the temperatures will be very cool in New York and New England into Pennsylvania and New Jersey, but warm upper 70s in Virginia. Well, duh! That's because its the South. Virginia is not a Mid-Atlantic state either. This topic is a long one to discuss, but there are several reasons why. First of all, Virginia's climate and culture is more akin to the Carolinas than to New Jersey. Even Northern Virgina is part of the Humid-Subtropic Climate which extends as far north as Baltimore, Maryland. This climate is not Mid-Atlantic but more characteristic of the Southeastern states. Virginia has more in common with Georgia than New York.

Virginia's culture: Its Southern! In fact, Virginia was where the Southern culture began at Jamestown in 1607. Sorry Alabamians, but we were Southern long before y'all were even on the map. Virginia's Tobacco farming, religious beliefs, way of life, attitudes, and adaptation to climate , were all Southern in nature. The oldest plantation homes are in Virginia . Virginia grows not only tobacco- but cotton- a staple crop that needs at least 150 frost free days to survive. If Virginia were Mid-Atlantic or Northeastern, this would not be the case. Northern Virginia today is a melting pot. So is Hampton Roads. But even such ambiguous areas as Northern Virginia and Hampton Roads, are still more Southern in nature in comparison to the true Mid-Atlantic states and the Northeast. The flavor might be more subtle, but Northern Virginia's hunt country and old estates , along with Hampton Roads traditions such as Smithfield Ham, and BBQ, echo a much more Southern flair. There are plenty of good BBQ joints in rural Northern Virginia. There is also still a hint of that Virginia accent in places that aren't as transient there. Hampton Roads has a feel all of its own, but its still Southern, rather than Mid-Atlantic. Virgina is also the Birthplace of Country Music, Brunswick Stew, Peanuts, Spoonbread, Patsy Cline, Robert E. Lee, and many things are iconically Southern. We also even have Kudzu in Virginia. That pest that is all over Southern highways and byways and clinging to old tombstones. Virginia is the South, and like it or not, it always will be .

What It Means To Be A Virginian...

2009-10-16T15:30:00.000-07:00

This is framed and hangs on our parlor wall:

"To be a Virginian, whether by birth or adoption, and especially on one's mother's side, is a passport to any state in the Union, and a benediction from above".

My mother's family has been in Virginia since the 1600s. They came to the Richmond area soon as it was discovered. I also have ancestors in other southern states, but Virginia by far, is my most beloved. I have traveled to many places, but there's no other place that can compare to the Commonwealth. Ironically, the Virginia we know of today, is not how it has always been. Our brothers in West Virginia , Kentucky, and Tennessee, were part of us. As was Ohio, and the whole western half of the country above the Louisiana Purchase. What an incredible history we have here.

Historic Shenandoah Valley

2009-09-26T16:31:00.000-07:00

If you ever want to take a trip to God's Country, this is the place !
The Shenandoah is an Indian name meaning "Daughter of the Stars". The Valley is situated on a level and fertile ground and lies in between two mountain ranges. The Blue Ridge Mountains to the East, and the Appalachian Mountains to the West. The Shenandoah Valley was noted as "The Breadbasket Of The Confederacy" because of its market towns and many farms that dotted the landscape. It stretches approximately 180 miles going Southwest from Winchester to Roanoke, but the valley actually starts in the Eastern Panhandle of West Virginia at the crevice of the Potomac and Shenandoah River. The Shenandoah Valley's elevation climbs upward as you move South, so the Northern Shenandoah Valley is actually referred to as the lower part of the valley, and the Southern end is the Upper Part of the Valley. The Shenandoah Valley was a prime location during the War Between The States, and places such as Winchester, changed hands between armies over 72 times. The valley lies on the western neck of Virginia, bordered by West Virginia, and was settled predominantly by Scotch-Irish as well as some Hessian and Germans who came down through Pennsylvania, moving south and west. These settlers would eventually wind up in Tennessee and the back of North and South Carolina.

The best time to visit the valley is between October and December when the leaves are at their peak.

Here's a sampling of the towns:

Winchester: Known as "The Top Of Virginia" and also "The Honeymoon Capital Of The World", Winchester boasts a large history, as the oldest town West Of The Blue Ridge. Home Of the Apple Blosom Festival and Country Music Legend Patsy Cline, this sleepy little town is a world away from the suburbs of Washington, D.C. -yet a relatively easy drive. If you plan to visit, make you sure you see Stonewall Jackson's Headqauarters (the house owned by Mary Tyler Moore's great grandfather), The Old Post Office, The Handley Library, and Patsy Cline's home on 608 S. Kent St. It also boasts Shenandoah University- which has a great music department

Harrisonburg: James Madison University is here, and this is truly a great college town. Harrisonburg is home to a lot of neo-hippies, and that along with its old traditions as a Southern college town, make it an interesting place to visit. There are many places to hear live music as well- including the famous "Little Grill" on N. Main St.

Staunton: Thats properly called "Stan-ton"- is the heart of the Shenandoah Valley and the second oldest city in the valley next to Winchester. It has Mary Baldwin College- one of the very first colleges for women, established in the 1840s. Staunton is also home to The Statler Brothers and one our presidents, Woodrow Wilson.

Lexington: There is a gracious statue of Robert E. Lee at repose here in the Lee Chapel at Washington and Lee college. Stonewall Jackson resided here for a time as well. Of all the towns in the Valley, Lexington is the least commercial. Its like stepping back in time. I don't even think they have any fast food to speak of in historic Lexington. There are nice shops and restaurants, however. Virgina Military Institute is also right in Lexington.

Roanoke: Dubbed "Star City Of The South", Roanoke is the largest city in the Shenandoah Valley, and the gateway to Virginia's Southwest region. Roanoke has a large farmer's market, and connected to the greater Roanoke Valley.

A Taste Of Richmond

2009-09-01T18:53:00.000-07:00

Here's a little taste of Richmond.

Richmond Pride

2009-08-03T11:11:00.000-07:00

Anove: Me at the Jeff Davis statue in Hollywood Cemetery, 1984.

I was not born in Richmond, but I remember my early visits as a very young child going to see my grandmother in her apartment on Park Ave in The Fan. When we'd visit, she'd make us all some Ring Tum Diddy and we'd have Custard ice cream for dessert made by "Richfood". I remember the sights and smells of Richmond. Mostly magnolias and crepe myrtle drenched in heat and humidity, and large statues of heroes from the past with large white columned mansions on an elegant thoroughfare. The vibe of Richmond was that you were so immersed in the Confederacy. No other city was like it. It was so distinctive, so very Richmond. You can't really put your finger on what makes Richmond so Richmond. You can go to Charleston, Savannah, or newer cities such as Nashville , Charlotte, and Atlanta. None of them has such a a distinctiveness as Richmond does. I don't think any other Southern city has such a mystique. And the fact that its relatively North within the South, makes it even more magnetic and unique. Twelve generations of my family called Richmond and her land, home. Its in my blood. So whether or not born here , I feel I can claim Richmond as much as any native can. And in some ways more, as in so many are born here today with little ties to it at all. Style Weekly, a local Richmond rag used to run an excerpt every year called "You're Very Richmond If". I found it really interesting to read. Because its so true!

Here are some of the submissions taken from that text, and others are just simply from personal experience.

YOU'RE VERY RICHMOND IF:

-You live in the West End

-Your first name sounds like a last name

-Your idea of multiculturalism is inviting someone from Chesterfield county to your dinner party

-You remember when the Landmark Theater was "The Mosque"

-When you're in a room with other Richmonders you discover you're all somehow related

-You claim to be related to Pocohantas

-The very mention of the word "snow" and you rush to Ukrop's to buy bread and milk

-You refer to things as before the War and after the War

-You know that Shockoe Slip has nothing to do with women's underwear

-You know that the real Richmond is north of the "Rivah"

-You know at least one girl named Fontaine

-You reccommend all the wonderful local museums to out of towners that you never visit yourself.

-You have a pastor that ran off with the church collection plate

-You include NYC on your list of travel to "foreign countries"

-You think U. Of Richmond is the equivalent of Harvard

-When people ask you where you're from you simply say "Richmond"- as if there's only one

-You know that you should never tip the box boys at Ukrop's

-You once worked at Ukrop's a few summers during or after high school

-Whenever you change a light bulb, you pause a few moments to reflect on how great that old light bulb was

-You rarely swim in the James anymore, because you know its full of filth!

-When someone asks you about "Good Theater" in town, you refer them to the Byrd..

-You tend to avoid the following places: Jeff Davis Highway after dark, Gilpin Court (any time of day!), Eastern Chesterfield County, Petersburg, and Colonial Heights

-You pick up a copy of "Style Weekly" just to appear to be informed , but never read it anyway

-The Richmond Times Dispatch usually ends up on the bottom of your bird's cage

Heritage of Honour, Not Hate...

2009-06-14T19:21:00.001-07:00

When I joined the Sons of Confederate Veterans, it was hard to choose which ancestor to use, for I have so many. But I chose John Campbell Hagan of Richmond, who owned a grocery store on Venable Street. He was moved by a speech at St. Paul's Church that the Reverend gave in favor of Virginia and the South defending their homes. So, just a little after April 1861, he joined the Confederate Army and served in the 10th Battalion. While many of my ancestors did have servants and slaves, I think they were not even considering that when defending their right for States of Independence. The War of Northern Aggression left a mark on all of Southern Soil, but most notably Virginia. For it was in Virginia where most all the battles during the entire campaign took place. It is so very much a part of our history and pride. The flag to me is not a symbol of hate, but to honor our ancestors who so bravely fought for their noble cause. And justly doing so, as it is part of our American Constitution. The Confederate Flag no more represents slavery than the American Flag, and while this is not saying much, it is saying that simply because some hate groups use their flags for that purpose, it does not mean the same thing. For the Confederacy flags are the Cross of St. Andrew.

History tells us that Confederate General Nathan Bedford Forrest, commenced the Klu Klux Klan. But in that Era, its purpose had little to do with race. But rather defending Southern women from being raped from the Northern troops. That's the only reason why the flag has ties to that particular affiliation. It is up to us Virginians and Southrons to protect the flag for what it stands for, and honour those that came before us. I don't display it in a tacky manner flying off the hood of my car. No, I have a small but delicate embroidery on my polo shirts, or placed gently near the graves of the Confederate Brave. Heritage of Honor, not hate is what it means to me.

The REAL Virginia State Song..

2009-05-17T10:56:00.000-07:00

In 1997, politically correct politics got into one of the finest tunes ever written. Written by a black man himself, the song was considered "racist", and "inappropriate" for Virginia. However, to me, it is and ALWAYS WILL BE her state song. Its a beautiful tune , sung in the old Southern folk tradition- a song mostly heard at minstrel shows.
I have heard many songs pitched about Virginia in recent years. Frankly, they all fall short. Only Tom T. Hall's song can come close to the original spirit of this song.

Here it is:

Carry me back to old Virginny.
There's where the cotton and corn and taters grow.
There's where the birds warble sweet in the spring-time.
There's where this old darkey's heart am long'd to go.

There's where I labored so hard for old Massa,
Day after day in the field of yellow corn;
No place on earth do I love more sincerely
Than old Virginny, the state where I was born.

Carry me back to old Virginny.
There's where the cotton and the corn and taters grow;
There's where the birds warble sweet in the spring-time.
There's where this old darkey's heart am long'd to go.

Carry me back to old Virginny,
There let me live till I wither and decay.
Long by the old Dismal Swamp have I wandered,
There's where this old darkey's life will pass away.

Massa and Missis have long since gone before me,
Soon we will meet on that bright and golden shore.
There we'll be happy and free from all sorrow,
There's where we'll meet and we'll never part no more.

Carry me back to old Virginny.
There's where the cotton and the corn and taters grow;
There's where the birds warble sweet in the spring-time.
There's where this old darkey's heart am long'd to go.

Virginia Beach - A Great Place to Visit

2009-03-10T15:20:00.000-07:00

Virginia Beach is a wonderful destination. Centrally located on the East Coast- and just far enough South to get those wonderful Palm trees! Its one of my favorite "get away" spots, and whenever I go, there's always lots of great seafood and fun. Some of the best seafood you can get is at Virginia Beach. My personal favorite restaurant is Rudee's on the Inlet. Their soft shelled crab sandwiches are delicious. The Cavalier Hotel is a great place visit as well. It has the grand feeling of the 1920s Era. You may want to do the Charleston right on the beach!

Old Plantation Homes Of Loudoun County..

2009-02-25T15:40:00.000-08:00

Loudoun County situated at the Northern tip of Virginia, has been almost fully engulfed by the premises of Washington, D.C. However, there still remains pockets of its "Old South" history- and rolling hills, and beautiful landscapes, and "hunt country" towns, still dominate the area. I grew up in Loudoun County, and being so close to the DC suburban region, was mostly unaware that all these beautiful Manor homes still existed. I was aware of Oatlands, near where I went to church, and a few other places, but that was about it. I have over time, discovered a treasure trove of these wonderful places. Granted, its just a smattering, but I am truly grateful these old Plantations have been preserved and restored to their former glory. For many in search of the Old South, Loudoun County, is truly the gateway. Loudoun County is the Northern Edge of Virginia, and the Northern edge of Dixie, but it has some of the most quintessentially Southern homes one could ever find today.

Here are a few that I have discovered.

Oatlands Plantation- On RT 15 Just 6 mi South of Leesburg. Perhaps the most famous plantation in all of Northern Virginia

Oak Hill- Just down the road on Rt. 15 is Oak Hill. Owned by James Monroe. We almosted rented one of the tenant houses on Oak Hill when I was a teenager

Chesnut Hill- Also located on Rt 15- known as "Old Carolina Rd". Rt 15 was the passage taken from Northern Virginia on into the Carolinas

WhiteHall Manor-Bluemont

Movern Park- It boasts a large Equestrian Center, and hosts the annual Polo Cup

Raspberry Plain-Leesburg . A popular place to get married

These old places are architectural gems, and but a smattering of the old plantations that once thrived in Northern Virginia and Loudoun County. Most of the rest have been torn down or converted into Suburbia- such as "Belmont Manor" in Ashburn Farms.

Virginia: The Gateway To The South....

2009-02-25T15:33:00.000-08:00

INTRODUCTION:

My Virginia. The Oldest state in Dixie. The true Gateway to the South. Virginia is situated at the very Southern tip of the Mid-Atlantic region. However, it is culturally, historically, econonmically, and temperately, a Southern state. Perhaps the most coveted of all Southern states. The Deep South envies Virginia. Our fine old families, and genteel way of living, that many try to emulate. Yet it also welcomes Virginia to her bosom as well. Virginia is the mother of presidents. Home to Patsy Cline, Robert E. Lee, JEB Stuart, The Carter Family, and many more. Virginia, (Not Tennessee), is also the birthplace of Country Music. Virginia to me is graceful, endearing, and full of wonder. On the 8th day God created Virginia- and He discovered Paradise!

I am proud to be a Virginian. I realize so much that the state I call home, is a state of flux. Virginia is changing. And not necessarily for the good. Northern Virginia- an area once full of Southern charm, now belongs to Washington, DC. And as people keep moving in and demanding land, the history of it all, is in jeapordy.
Richmond a truly Southern city to the 10th degree, is now becoming "Southern-Lite", as more and more, it has become a hub for those who encroach from further North. Still , Virginia was and always will be the South, to me, and more importantly, it is Virginia.