My World - ME

Recap and re-brand? New year resolution.

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Wed, 01 Jan 2014 05:16:00 +0000

Its been a very long while since I last update my space. Today is the first day of 2014 and I am sitting alone in my laboratory just for the sake to connect with internet. Lame huh? Yeah! My house lead moved out and cancelled the internet subscription which was registered under his name. Well, few days without internet won't ~~die~~ kill, no? Guess, this will be a great time for me to concentrate on my readings and writing. Year 2013 been tough for me with all sort of ill-luck events happening and to some point that I almost been thrown into the sea of despair. As said, I was forced to spend a lot more that I expected to repair and regain. I am lucky that I had great supporting friends and family that helps me to go through those saddening events. ~~Thank god I doesn't need to take antidepressant thereafter~~.

Since its 2014, I should list down some of my new year resolutions.
1) Uplifting my energy level (zombie look - prince charming?)
2) Regain optimum health (always a sick cat though)
3) Pray for NO MORE newly added allergies
4) Graduation
5) Somebody to shoulder burden and heavy thought side by side (one way or dual side)
6) Leaving the "birdcage"
7) Save more money
8) Become more cheerful

Friends and family that know me well would know that I'm actually an emo freak with narcissist trait. Since I'm still easily fooled, ~~gullible and ignorant~~ to the over-world, some part of me remains in my childhood memories (childish?) and from there branches out my characteristic. Another part of me was twisting and climbed much higher than I could possibly handle. The characteristic that shown to most of my friends was the latter with some stated me as cold-heart, poker face, cooled, scheming, weirdo and so on. Even though some does able to meet my cold-hilarious, crazy and emo (face-to-face), I am still lacking of comforts from the person that I could divulge my heartfelt. Not gonna going so far to mention who he/she is, please do not pursued on this or I will just simply ignore.

Leaving away the unhappiness in 2013, HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Have a great 2014 even when we are currently facing inflation rate as high as 30%. Stay healthy and cheerful. I would like to meet you guys since we were almost disconnected in real life while connected in virtual world.

Gracias et ciao! :)

Hokkien mee @ Seri Kembangan

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sat, 29 Jun 2013 14:03:00 +0000

Had been a long while since I last tasted hokkien mee. Today,I went to try out this shop which their speciality is hokkien mee. It was located beside South City Plaza and only open after 5pm.

The mee was quite disappointing for me as I still couldn't find any that can compared with what I had before. Still remember the taste of the mee hand-made by gramps. The taste could literally stay in your mouth for hours.

let's go back to the shop. As mentioned, I was disappointed as the mee was too salty and was too dry. I had forgotten how the taste of it already right after I done.

我是个脆弱的魔羯

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 05:58:00 +0000

我是个典型魔羯。很多人都说我有很多秘密，不愿分享。是的！我不容易与人们分享所有但如觉得能分享的决不会吝啬。自己有很多秘密但心底埋藏更多亲朋的秘密。凡事都想亲力亲为不想成为别人的负担。心软的我，很容易被影响而屈服。

当时你曾问我为什么不为你心动，我默默无言。有可能多年前的那句话深深的烙印在我心底。这句“祝你永远单身！不会有人会喜欢你的！” 如果是说给你听的话会让你有什么感觉呢？事过多年，但这句话仍然让我铭记疑心。人生这条路谁没有被伤害过呢？那就罢了。。

因为心软，被缠着又再次复合。但，大家都该明白已经没能回到过去了那样了。曾经会踏出第一步尽量每天都至少发封短讯但心已麻了。人与人之间最好的桥梁就是坦诚与了解。一开始“了解”就被那句给封杀了。心底也开始慢慢的建起高厚的墙。重新开始后又被挂上不信任的头衔也没则。可能当下已经不再拥有那颗心里了。。。

你问我为什从未关心但你心里应该有个底吧？有可能是累了，心也给关进了保险箱，对你开始觉得厌倦。你所说的话总是在我心底放炮。就连开玩笑都会让我很厌倦。孤僻的我选择了逃避和无视。越是敏感的话题我越是不想详谈。这样的我可能大家都会说很过分但我无所谓。

对不起！浪费了你的时间和口舌。

珍重再见！

February!!! Unlucky?

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sat, 02 Feb 2013 05:59:00 +0000

It is just the beginning of the February 2013 and something is definitely wrong with me. Nothing seems to be going smoothly and as deem fit my needs. Just what is going on with me nowadays? Lady luck seems to got away from my side. First day of the month and I had lost my money and now again I mixed stuff up. Finger crossed that I could get the correct one.

Dinner at myburgerlab

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 27 Jan 2013 12:52:00 +0000

Had been a long while since I last start did food hunting. Well, today I found another feast. It is located at Seapark, Petaling Jaya. As good foods worth waiting, we waited for almost an hour including ordering. Staffs here were very energetic and helpful when comes to ordering. Politeness its one of their traits. The store opens from 5pm and the crowd had already building up fast.

今年的我

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sat, 26 Jan 2013 06:09:00 +0000

十八+七的我：
是个简单又复杂的个体，是个又善良及邪恶的个体。我失去的很多，也得到了很多。。。
感谢这一个月来亲朋的祝贺让我有个难忘的一年！

今年的生日也是多么的happening. Thanks :)

～～～低落～～～疲憊～～～

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 25 Nov 2012 07:52:00 +0000

最近，縂覺得做什麽都提不起勁。仿佛人生走到了盡頭，劇終人散的感覺。每每，都有一陣的我是處於低落狀態的。但要論原因就不祥一二了。可能我的人生有太多憂慮，凡是都愛提問自身反讓身心都處於疲憊狀態。

小時曾有過輕度憂鬱，現今那不喜歡的感覺好像又漸漸的接近和謀害我那脆弱的心靈。很多事對任何人都是無可奉告的。如在讀的各位想提問，小弟還是奉勸您把那提問收入心底。不想說的事，不管你是誰都一樣公平的保密。可能大多數人會說本是由很多小秘密勸分享但就算告訴了您能有所幫助？最終人還是得靠自己來走完必須的道路。

所以就讓我帶著已有的面具向前把。

ＰＳ：請別對號入座！我沒說任何人～

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noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sat, 24 Nov 2012 07:25:00 +0000

Somehow, I felt that my confidence is disappearing gradually without reasons. Why would that be? As day passes, I don't feel like doing anything anymore. Somebody please help!

Right now, I just felt like sleeping instead of working on what I should. Damn... I'm dying? Depression is coming to me again after some years of hibernating?

Something silly

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Mon, 05 Nov 2012 12:04:00 +0000

Obsession is a very dangerous word in the living world! Out of blues, I seem to obsess with something that wasn't even dreamed of. Being a little lofty boy with more silly thoughts that able to come true with a little tricks. Holly day and I am off... Ciao :)

Dreams?

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 28 Oct 2012 14:02:00 +0000

Would you felt to be in a totally different dimension of what you desired when in childhood? Sometimes I do think so. In adolescence, I was actually thinking of becoming an engineer rather than a biological researcher. The spark seems to return as I was attracted to a Japanese variety show on housing reconstructing. The mission of bringing others their dream house do make me feels marvelous. and happy at the same time. Their spirit and creativity amazed me.

Physic and biology were once a dilemma when comes to decision making. Adore in both but seems to have higher affinity towards physic that I did not study however I choose to stick to the field that I am walking on. Hope I can still see the future that I desired.

Happy convocation my friends!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 21 Oct 2012 12:38:00 +0000

Has been a tiring day. I went for my friends convocation at UKM today but empty handed :P
Sorry guys! I ran out of budget due to some constrain. Well guys, I am happy for u guys for graduating after 4 years of hardship.

Raining most of the time, it was quite dampening for those who graduate today as they couldn't have a good spot to snap with friends and fellow batch match. Most of us had an umbrella in the hand just in case of another downpour. Nevertheless, I snapped few pics with all my friends. Sorry for those I couldn't attend.

There is an interesting and embarrassing incident that happens to me though. While searching for my friends, an uncle asked me whether I could shade him over to another side of the hall since it was heavy downpour at that moment. I agreed and bring him over while need to make a big turn. Along the way, he kept ask me to be careful as I wore slippers. When we finally reach the destination, he suddenly fork out his wallet and gave me 10 bucks. I'm so embarrassing at that moment and decline his kind offer few times but he insisted. Anyway, really thanks for the "tips".

Inspiration. Phrase. Inner thought.

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sat, 06 Oct 2012 14:52:00 +0000

There were times when some inspiration pop out from blues. Some little analogy of life somehow does inspired and gave support on everyday work.

Here's what I come up with tonight from listening to some musics and watching dramas and variety shows which I think worth sharing.

1) Life is indeed not a competition. We live to pave our own path even with hurdles. The so called "competition" with others can only be considered as the hurdles that we need to get over with and not fight until both party are hurts and drop silent.

2) Sometimes we're just not honest enough with what we express. Irrational thought when commute via phone calls or others approach is just immature thought. Meeting face to face and spread things out is the only way to solve a problem rationally by brainstorming for the best solution. This could be one of many ways to salvage a broken ties.

3) Never hold on something strongly and stubbornly without realizing that they do need to breath fresh air as well.

4) Forcing others to follow your own footstep will only worsen the ties between both. Everyone have their own freedom to do what they like to and not obediently following a path that others pave for you without feeling at least some love to it.

5) Those who always smile at others and does not complain much on their unhappy events are the one who needs more attention as they are hiding their fragile side in the dark.

Above are few that inspired me enough as I could really felt as if I'm in the same shoes. Being overly stubborn and obstinate over some possession, personality difference with others and being alone and so on making me realize something important. Although whats there will always be there untorn, somehow, somewhere we will face our life bravely with grace!

Busy October

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Fri, 05 Oct 2012 17:11:00 +0000

What is October meant to you?

For me, its an extreme month! Timetable is a mess and biological clock messed up. Hardly believe that I lived to suffer October blues. October is a month of hardwork as I got limited budget to spend with in first place. Compensating the time spend for leisure, I filled it with more workloads. You may say I am crazy to stay overnight for most of the night in this month but whose not crazy when something is need to be done in short notice? Believing that suffer now and enjoy in the future, what sow now is what harvested later. I am building my own bridge to the future where in between, hurdles need to be passed and rerouting have to be done. I am lucky on this path of life as I was bestowed with a lots of passionate and helpful peoples. Some even helps me in making great leap of life.

The tired body of mine soon need to have a good rest. Been noticing abnormality in my body due to disturbance of biological clock. Migraine and gastritis seems to be frequent visitors nowadays. This must be a sign of distress from body seeking for help but was ignored ever since by indulging into heavy workloads. Maybe its time to have a companion to lookout for me on this minute matter. Empty thought seeping off. Au revoir tout le monde!

Scholarship!!! Shortlisted!!! Secured!!

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 30 Sep 2012 00:46:00 +0000

Travelling home does brings me luck! I just received an email from the scholarship that I applied earlier on.

The same place where I obtained good news regarding my education. Few years back, I was jumping with joy when I got a seat to UKM for biochemistry degree. That time I did share my joy with bff. It was over the moon moment by then.

Now, I am furthering for my second degree and its the whole different story compared with previous. In order to survive, scholarship is required to cover my expenses in term of fees. Since enrolled, I had been applying for several scholarship. Well, some does disappointed as I'm not shortlisted. Life still goes on though. Right after I reach home, lady luck seem to like shinning on me. Received an email to check on application status and the word "Tahniah" got into my eyes. Shocked momentary an jumping with joy again. Haha... I'm nuts, ain't I?

Since I am at home, everything seems easy. I process those paperwork faster as my parents are here. I don't have to travel back home again to settle the same tedious paper work.

Time wasted is now time saved! Coincidence just happens to me once again.

Travelling home again!!!

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Fri, 28 Sep 2012 16:20:00 +0000

Guess what, I am going back hometown to celebrate Mid Autumn Festival aka Mooncake Festival on this weekend. However, it will be a very rush trip for me. Would be tiring of course as I'm rushing back and forth just for the sake of travelling. Meanwhile, this also means that I will be attending my cousin's wedding dinner. Haha..

Happy Mid Autumn Festival to all friends!!! :D

Its the end of September and I am actually quite nervous.

1) No replies from scholarship application side

2) Need to prepare for presentation

~ External SV

~ Proposal

3) My experiment progress still very slow.

Dammit! Who can help me to solve the first problem? Sigh...

I guess I need to do something about it. Curse my result of my bachelor degree!!! On the margin of acceptance and rejection for all the scholarship that opened for application. What am I suppose to correct it? It was so saddening if I still couldn't obtained any by the end of the year. God bless I could at least secured one. Finger crossed!!!

It will be October soon. There are lots more to plan and carry out in this lonely month. Hope Mr Emo will not appear as often. Tuning in soon... Au revoir!

Life ain't easy

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Wed, 26 Sep 2012 03:59:00 +0000

Life ain't easy! You have to go through a lot of hurdles and face tremors as you growing up. The inter-phase between stages is what drives us to grow even stronger and becoming a real adult.

Did you ever wonder why your born to this world and realizing the difference between others and yourself? Well, I believe everyone does so. We would eventually compare with peoples whose are more superior in term of quality or ability than ourselves. This in turns resulting in pessimistic mindset and eventually hurt your weak and fragile soul. The wonder of human is that one soul could heal tremendously fast with the suitable approach of course.

Been noticing few friends get set down recently. However, I couldn't do a thing to help out as they should have their own personal time for the healing process to proceed. I could only give my support verbally or via words. For all whom still in dilemma, please buck up! Your friends will still be around you and once you approach them, I believe they will help out if that's within their limit.

Well, its easy to say this but I myself did the same earlier on. Shutting up my heart and is unreachable by others. Even till now, I am still forging on a fake smile with hidden mask. I might have get used to this as since young, the hidden mask had been with me and had never teared down. Should I meet with a shrink to solve this? Hmm... I might someday!

Cousin getting married!!!!! :)

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Tue, 25 Sep 2012 09:49:00 +0000

Its red happening at hometown by the end of the month! Hurray!!!

I just got notice that my cousin will have his wedding ceremony on this Saturday while wedding dinner on Sunday, which is also the exact day of Mooncake Festival. I am sending my greatest regards from here. Wish you both having a blissful life yea :)

Sadly, I might not be able to attend due to such short notice. Still have lots of labwork to be done... If they told me earlier, I might as well plan and attend their wedding ceremony. Too bad... Let see how I rearrange my schedule. Hope everything turns out fine and I could spent a day or two back home.

PS: ~~Felt excited for nothing.~~ Am I also desired to get married much? Who will be my partner then? XD

Plan crumbles!!! :(

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 23 Sep 2012 04:01:00 +0000

What a let down!!! I had been experiencing the same exact problem twice for now. What sadden is when everything is ready and this happens. I couldn't verbally express myself now, just pure disappointment. So hoping to have midas touch by turns to boost my luck to get rip of this issue.

This could be a good reason for me to stay moody throughout the day which was already a let down. Could I just let it be? Somehow, I have been wasting my time due to this issue. I couldn't even proceed to the next stage of what I should be doing.

Right now, I just wanna shout:

I HATE PLAN AHEAD NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whichever that I plan crumbles. Whenever I don't plan ahead and do as I like, nothing happens though. DAMN!!!! Muther fcuker!!!!

Well, heres the end of my frustration moment.

A lesson taken is a lesson learnt. We have to learn to take everything as if its not as granted. Nobody is perfect and able to achieve success in the first tried. Hard-worker will eventually be awarded with what they really desired. Complaining will only makes the route towards success blur and misty. Accept the failure and buck up. Get back to the one with the initial confidence and race towards what planned.

Words for myself: Mourn for the failure today and get back to the usual self again after 0000hr. Adius!

Solemness

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sat, 01 Sep 2012 13:44:00 +0000

Been a long time since I last visit. Sorry for abandoning my blog for such a long time.

I was toooooooo lazy when comes to blogging nowadays but this is just a lame excuses to start with. Never say never!

Is it good to not leave another opportunity open while seeking for another? Shutting down one's path seems to be the common habits of teens nowadays. This ain't just applied to opportunity but also daily choices. For me, I just simply shut everything off and this is very dangerous. Though I do not wish to have another opportunity flying pass me, I am aiming for higher resolution. The meaning of path is too deep to be understand whilst to be explained its another hefty work. Seeking for easy way out might be fast for most but the progress of learning never stop just here. The hard way teaches us how to live life to the fullest. However the flicker minded me choose to switch between both road from time to time making life so miserable. Well, human won't be happy with what they had now. That's the desire that drives us further but for me its another story. I seem to neglect more people's feeling than before and this might be the cruelest part in my life. As a Capri born, I am covered with solemness but desired for more close friends. However, as time passed, my friend circle does not expand but shrinking instead. The attitude of shut oneself off seems to have its side effect. My social network was small and in the nearby zone. Friends who lost contact were once best with and that the bitterness experienced till now. What should I do to remake the scenario where I do have more friends nearby?

Those who seek for truth will eventually found an answer for what they sought for. That should be what I hold on to for now. Buck up Ben!!!!

Demotivation of blogger

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Wed, 23 May 2012 04:50:00 +0000

What demotivated me from writing more in my blog?

The ultimate reason is due to the appearance of spam message and comments. By using certain software of bugs, some website are able to post comments and messages automatically to all available website that they are able to view. This is quite distracting and irritating as most of the personal blogger (non-business based) shares their thought with their friends. However, if you have notice, any messages in the message box are quickly buried below. Deleting all those messages is added task for some and demotivates people from posting more and more.

I used to be blog enthusiastic but no longer for this moment. I can hardly imagine the lost6 of my private space. Should I just private my account so only selected few can view? Nada..... I rather leave it as it is and thats it. PERIOD!

Share your view

Yet another hills conquering missions

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Mon, 21 May 2012 16:13:00 +0000

When was I last updated my blogs? Nada..been month I abandon my venting space. Lolz

Today, I had another wonderful experiences with my fellow lab mates. Its fun to hang around together and have meaningful activities. Almost everyone sacrifices their sleep time in order for us to have fun together. Setting off at 4 a.m. ain't easy. Staying awake and lethargy for this high energy consumed activity is even harder but we prove that we conquered it all. The whole trips comes with a "slogan" which is "WOW!!! Fantastic Baby!!!"

Can you get the coherency of this? Haha...
Never belittle the power of nature as I believe we are blessed enough to still safe to hike to the peak of the hill. Why do I say so? It was raining sometimes 12 hours before we reach the hills and start climbing. However, I was quite despondent with the scenery of the hills. Its no longer that beautiful and majestic as compared to previous trips. It was filled with RUBBISH and VANDALIZED. Why we human are so damn self-fish??? Can't anybody just make sure whatever activities that to be carried on does not destroy the natural beauty of what mother earth gave birth to? Its good if you would like to have something to prove your appearance to certain place but when you did so, have you thought of the consequences? I believe that every living beings can think and act accordingly. Anyhow, that's my feeling after went for the second times.

I did feel happy and excited but on the other hand, I was moody and despondent. Can you describe this feeling?

M.A.L.E

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 14:21:00 +0000

Recently I heard of a common thought of most of the parents in the world. I suppose every parents would like your child to be success in the future and thus imply them with your path. Yes, most of the parents in this world do only hope their child venture into certain field of profession.

Have you heard of M.A.L.E. pathway of career? You didn't heard wrongly. It is MALE!!!

This has really made my day.

Ok, let me decipher what it meant by that.

M- Medicine

A- Architectural;

A- Auditor

L- Lawyer

E- Engineer

What is the similarity of all the profession stated above? Well, if you notice, all these are high income career which would need you to have certain knowledge or professional skills.

Correct me if I'm wrong :)

Sentimental age

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Sun, 08 Apr 2012 02:42:00 +0000

Have you heard of sentimental age before? The age where teardrops came down easily without realizing over something very minute. Somehow, we do have the moments when we were still a newborn but as we grow up, the environment force us to be strong and tough, hence forgotten the once we had treasure.

For me, I seem to be getting to the sentimental age now as what I remember since young, I never actually cried for most of the touching stories that aired. However in these recent months, I was crying on almost every touching moments in dramas or variety show. Initially I thought I am going crazy but then only realizing that this is the moment where we start to appreciate every single thing in the world so we would not leave the world with much regret. Memories are created in every second of our life but its just up to us to choose the path where we are going to live on. The scenes will be different but the progress would still be the same no matter what scenarios you are going through.

Never belittle the power of tears! So, have you get to the sentimental age now? Share with me if you like to... :)

【摩羯座】 (12月23日 - 1月22日) (轉）

noreply@blogger.com (Benjamin Bon) — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:28:00 +0000

覺得太像我了！！你們同意嗎？

【摩羯座】 (12月23日 - 1月22日)

摩羯座的他们是一个很难理解的星座，因为他们的性格太多元化。他可以幽默，可以冷漠，可以柔弱，可以坚强，可以成熟，可以天真，可以精明，可以傻气，说话往往口是心非，你们永远猜不透他们在想什麼。不要说他们是在装，其实，这才是真正的摩羯，一个千变万化的他。

不要对摩羯座撒谎，其实他心裡很清楚，只是不说；他们习惯了默默承受一切，就算生气了也会为对方找各种理由；原谅对於摩羯座来说并不难，因为他们只会让自己受伤，而不会去伤害别人。所以不要欺负摩羯座，对他们而言，最好的报復不是沉默而是离开。他们的放弃，通常都在一念之间。

摩羯座的人本能的排斥虚偽和做作的人。摩羯座的人不会真的发火，就算生气，也很快忘记！摩羯座的人只对真正懂自己的人，展示他的创造性，他的情绪变得冷淡就证明他开始对你重新审视，当他越是沉默，就代表他越是生气。

摩羯座的字典裡永远没有「利用」两个字，他们不懂得什麼叫阿諛奉承，什麼叫阳奉阴违；摩羯座脾气急，易冲动，很真很瀟洒；摩羯座喜怒哀乐都表现在脸上，不懂得什麼是偽装；摩羯座胆大，喜欢挑战不能完成的事。

摩羯的反击力很强，吵架的时候、他可能会说一些很伤人的话，其实、他不是故意的，那是摩羯的直觉反应、吵架就是要赢嘛！摩羯可能一说出口就后悔了，可是经常很难拉下脸来道歉，不要跟他慪气、放他一马他心裡会很感谢、对你加倍的好。

摩羯座的人：
最不能接受朋友的不信任、出卖、背叛。
现在的生活很迷惘、找不到出口、但对未来坚定而充满希望。
生气的小事很快就会忘记、不记仇。
别人对自己的好会铭记於心、有恩必报。
不善於表达自己的情感、所以常常用沉默取代表达。
深思谨慎、冷静而準确的判断力。
予人沉稳而严肃的印象。
有强烈的责任感和企图心、时时鞭策自己努力实现理想。
但是凡事都太过认真、乃至拘泥。
而显得过於刚强、冥顽不灵。

摩羯座很温柔、喜欢热闹。
执著、哭点很低、其实胆小却偽装勇敢。
不喜欢选择、不喜欢做决定、害怕伤害、牵掛太多。
明明知道自己要改变却无力改变。
想要骄傲、想要自信、相信幸福、容易认真。
不记仇、太随和所以没有深交。

如果你伤害了摩羯，放心吧、他不会报復、只会对你避而远之，如果你污衊了摩羯，放心吧、他不会解释、只会与你从此不相往来，因为摩羯们相信沉默是最大的报復、时间是最好的证明，骄傲的摩羯、内心强大的难以置信。

摩羯座低调，内向忧鬱，常常装出一副严厉的姿态，给人感觉很冷漠，其实内心是火热的，很善良，不容易拒绝别人，尤其是自己看重的人，受伤了就会想要逃避，多数是吃软不吃硬！脾气很大，但是对事不对人！他们凡事都想靠自己完成，不想周围的人为他操心，他们很重视面子。很少有人真正瞭解摩羯座。

摩羯座不会耍心机；摩羯座讲义气够朋友；摩羯座对待感情认真专一；摩羯座最要面子，摩羯座最重要的是尊严，摩羯座很顾家；摩羯座脾气不好但心地善良；摩羯座喜欢逞强；摩羯座害怕孤单；摩羯座的优点不是外貌而是气质；摩羯座很阳光又开朗；摩羯座不兇很好相处。

一个充满浪漫，梦想的星座、温柔的星座。
一个坚强且自卑，顽固且软弱，骄傲且自怜的星座。
一个一直扮演好孩子的角色，却一直拥有坏孩子的心态的星座。
一个有时乖巧，有时疯狂，有时坚强，有时脆弱的星座。
有时候不温柔、脾气不好、容易生气、容易吃醋、容易心痛、很任性、生气时不想说话、开心了会傻笑、受委屈会放在心裡、在乎了就会想让你知道、喜欢在伤心的时候听伤心的歌。

天生善良、感情脆弱、很没有安全感。
喜欢装傻、外表沉默内心想得比较多。
逻辑性强、有条理且敏锐、讨厌背叛和撒谎。
做事不喜欢拖泥带水。

摩羯座倔强！但永远都是刀子嘴豆腐心，也是个无趣到死的木头人。