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At 38 Weeks: Maternity Shoot

2012-02-11T20:30:00.000+08:00

As soon as we got home from the clinic for our now weekly check-up, I asked my husband to take my picture at the rice field pathway behind their house. I've always wanted to have a simple maternity shoot before I finally give birth, and today seem to be the perfect opportunity to do just that. It's a good thing I decided to wear the dress my mom-in-law gave me for Christmas. Armed with an old Sony digicam, my husband did his best to capture my huge belly and the beautiful surroundings..:-)

The rice field pathway behind the house where my husband and I take afternoon walks.

Just counting days to our baby's arrival.

Thank you, Lord, for this precious gift.

Mommy and Daddy loves you so much, Baby Euan.

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2012-02-08T13:35:00.001+08:00

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The Last One Standing

2012-01-10T10:00:00.000+08:00

It's been a little crazy for the past days. Hubby is sick, as well as four other people in the house...(almost five, because mom-in-law is already showing signs). I don't know what hit them...it's some kind of viral infection or something. They have on and off fever, cough, colds, and a terrible headache. Our nephew was already brought to the hospital because he just wouldn't eat and every time he does, he vomits. He's the first one who got really sick. The doctor has no diagnosis yet, but I'm sure it's not dengue fever because it's not suppose to be contagious.

This is the second day my husband is absent from work. Since he's not yet a regular employee, he won't get paid for his absences. :-( We also decided that it's best for us not to sleep in one room, so that I won't catch the virus. It's my 8th month of pregnancy and in case I get infected, this will be the first time I'll be really sick, and I don't want that to happen.

As of today, I'm the last healthy person in the house...yeah boy, the last one standing! I just kept on declaring that Jesus' blood is covering me and my baby, and that no virus can touch us. I am also thankful to have complete prenatal vitamins because it really boosted my immunity. And, do you know what else helped? Frequent hand washing! I also "quarantined" myself inside the room. Yeah, it should be the other way around...I mean, the sick ones should be quarantined...but, what the heck! It's too late for them to be quarantined because almost everyone in the family is already sick. Besides, I can feel the virus all over the place, except in our room. Haha!

I just hope and pray that they all get better soon, especially my husband. As much as I wanted to hold him and take care of him, I have to let him take care of himself to avoid risking my and our baby's health. Because of what's happening, I realized that my husband should have taken some multivitamins or Vitamin C at the same time I started taking prenatal vitamins. This is the second time he got sick during my pregnancy (the first time was last October), and it's very difficult because it makes me and the baby vulnerable to whatever sickness he has. I also thought that we should both be very careful not to get sick especially when the baby comes out. As soon as he gets better, I hope we can work on something to boost our strength and immunity, so that we're ready to face the challenges of being first-time parents.

How about you? Did you have the same experience? What did you do when your husband got sick during your pregnancy? How about after giving birth? What did you do as a couple to make sure that you're fit to take care of a newborn?

At 33-34 Weeks: Happy New Year!

2012-01-03T20:43:00.000+08:00

Hello there! Hope you had a great New Year celebration! I did and I have to say that in our neighborhood, not much people had fireworks or firecrackers, so there was less air pollution and accidents. :-)

This is my first post for 2012 and I'm looking forward to writing more about the good things God has in store for me and my family this New Year. Honestly, I still can't believe that it's already 2012! It's like, I'm having a hangover of 2011. The past year was filled with so many new experiences for me...getting pregnant, moving in with the in-laws, enjoying and sometimes hating being a bum, and starting this online baby journal. The year 2011 was a great year for us, filled with blessings, favor and God's continuous display of His love and provision.

For the year 2012, I believe, it is going to be even more exciting. In more or less than a month from now, we'll finally get to meet our baby, Euan Jedric. I'm sure that he will turn our world upside down, but in a good way! In about 6 to 8 weeks from now, we are going to be officially parents and technically, a family.

:-)

To start the year right, we went to visit the OB for my monthly prenatal check-up. Dra. Bendita based my AOG (Age of Gestation) on the latest ultrasound I had last month, making me 33-34 weeks pregnant today, as compared to the 32 weeks if based on my LMP (Last Menstrual Period). I gained a whopping 10 pounds from my December check-up, which makes me 138 lbs heavy. My blood pressure is 90/60 and the fundal height measures 30 cm. She strictly advised me to take daily walks as my exercise so that I won't have a hard time giving birth. There goes my first New Year's resolution! Haha! ;-)

The things is, I don't really believe in resolutions...hehe. But, I will definitely exercise regularly in preparation for delivery. We are also planning to buy some newborn baby essentials next week. We're not buying much for now because we're only gonna stay here for two months after Euan comes out. We're leaving out large items that we won't be able to carry back to Iloilo. We'll just purchase more baby stuff once we get back to Iloilo.

That's it for today. I have to sleep now for my early morning walk tomorrow. Good night everyone!

Shoe Fetish

2011-12-28T21:11:00.000+08:00

”Really and truly you can never have too many pairs; they are all different. You need a pair for every mood – and everyone knows that women have a lot of different moods.” – Anonymous

My small but hopefully, growing collection of flats and sandals!

(Top Row, L-R) Finickee sandals cream, purple and black/brown
(Bottom Row, L-R) POSH Basics Lt. Gray, Janeo Black cap-toe flats, POSH Basics Lt.Brown

I am slowly approaching the last days of my 7th month of pregnancy. One of the things I have noticed lately aside from the stretchmarks, are my feet! They seem to be getting wider and my finger toes are slightly getting fatter! I don't really have the thin, dainty, lady-like type of toes to begin with. This is why I've always had a hard time finding the right shoes. Over time, I've learned to accept and work around that flaw.

I discovered that flat shoes are my best friend. They're comfy and they don't make my feet look that wide. I particularly like POSH Pocket shoes, which is a proud Filipino brand of flat, foldable and comfortable women's footwear. The cut, especially that of the POSH Basics, fit my feet very well. They somehow make my wide feet look slimmer, which is what I'm aiming for.

This brand's owner, a young entrepreneur named Nadine de Guzman, is very nice and professional. She's easy to transact with and is very accommodating, even if I bug her with so many questions (haha!). She even helped me pick the right size the first time I ordered from her. Buying shoes online is not that easy you know, especially if you can't fit the shoes personally.

On our second transaction, I texted her if I can have the shoes my sister bought for me at one of the Christmas bazaars they joined, exchanged to one size bigger. She responded immediately and gave me instructions. And since the light gray reptile loafers are not available anymore on size 9, she also agreed to have it changed to a different style. I just got the POSH Basics in light gray instead. :-)

I wasn't expecting to receive the replacement before Christmas, since I sent her the shoes I was asking to be exchanged late afternoon of December 19. I also knew that they were busy with their last bazaar for the year, so I was surprised when the shoes arrived two days before Christmas. Yay!

POSH Brides (Light Pink)

POSH Pointy Bows (Red)

These are just some of the other styles I really like and hoping to purchase soon. I just wish they fit me as well as the Basics...hehehe. :-) If you want to see all of their fabulous flats, visit their website at http://www.poshpocketshoesonline.com or like them on Facebook.

Finickee Cream Flat Sandals from my husband

These flat sandals are my husband's Christmas present. Yeah, I was with him when he bought it. :-) It may not be the same item I posted on My Christmas Wish List, but I like this better! I realized that thong sandals don't really flatter my wide feet...they make 'em look like they're all over the place! Hahaha!

I'm not a fan of open-toe sandals to begin with, but, I'm thankful to have found this flip-flop style slingbacks. It's seldom I find footwear that look good on my big feet. The best thing about them is that, they're on sale! I love them so much that days later, my husband bought me the other colors, too! I'm one spoiled wife. ^_^ They're the perfect alternative to closed shoes, especially at times when I want to make my preggy feet breathe.

So, now that my pregnancy is almost over, it's not advisable to buy new maternity clothes. But, thank God for shoes! Splurging on these accessories is not a problem because I'm sure they'll still fit me post-pregnancy. My next project though is to find some good nursing bras and tops.

Stay tuned!

The Perfect Gift

2011-12-24T22:30:00.000+08:00

Before anything else,

I want to greet everyone...

It's Christmas eve and while the whole family is waiting for the clock to strike midnight, I took this time to write my Christmas post. I have so many things to be thankful about. :-)

This particular Christmas is a special one for the Estante's. It's because all the members of the family are here. Eejay's dad came home from abroad after years of not being able to spend Christmas with the family.

For Eejay and I, it is even more special because of the perfect gift God has given us - a baby boy who is well on his way in less than 2 months from now.

Indeed, if not for the birth of our Savior Jesus Christ, we won't have the life, grace and blessings that we are enjoying now. Because God loves the world so much, He chose to become like us. He was born as a human child in a manger, and eventually died on the cross for our sins. He became poor so that we might become rich. He became sin for us so that we might become righteous.

Christmas is not about material gifts, preparing a grand feast, and all commercialized meanings the world has invented to make money out of it. It's about remembering the Father's great LOVE for us through the birth of our Lord, Jesus Christ, and acknowledging that He was born to live and to die, so that we might live and enjoy an abundant life today.

May you have a meaningful and happy Christmas,

and a blessed New Year, too!

God bless us all!

My Christmas Package

2011-12-19T21:14:00.000+08:00

Look what arrived today?

The package is from Sarah, my younger sister who lives with our mom in Manila.

So, what's inside the box?

A box full of goodies and treats!

Gray Reptile Loafers from POSH Pocket Shoes that my sister bought at the St. James Bazaar in Alabang. Unfortunately, it doesn't fit me right and there's no bigger size available for the same color. :-( Anyway, I just sent it back to Nadine of POSH and had it replaced with light gray POSH Basics. Nadine was very nice and accommodating of my requests. Thanks again, Nadine!

I've been craving for Chef Tony's Gourmet Popcorn for how many weeks now. Yum!!! Can't wait to eat these!
I know what you're thinking...haha!
Don't worry, I'm not going to finish them all by myself! ;-)

Finally! Palmer's Stretch Marks Cream! I just posted last week that red and angry stretchmarks are already starting to show on my belly. I really hope this stuff can still save my skin! My sister even bought me some Palmer's Soothing Oil for my expanding tummy, which gets really itchy at times. :-)

Tommy Tippee baby bottles from my super-mom friend, Rach.
She said it's the next best thing to Avent bottles because
it also has an anti-colic feature. I even included this on the
top 12 baby gifts that we want to receive for Euan.

Thanks again, sis! Merry Christmas!

Baby Euan's Wish List (Part 2)

2011-12-09T09:16:00.000+08:00

7. Baby Clothes, Shoes and Accessories

Onesies, bodysuits, pants, shirt, bib, cap, mittens, socks and shoes! A baby can never have too many clothes, right? Just a tip in buying clothes and accessories for newborns - remember that they grow super fast! So, better purchase sets in bigger sizes so that baby can wear them longer.

8. Crib and Nursery Accessories

Beddings, sheets, mattress pads, pillows, receiving blankets, wall decor, night light...etc.! We want to make our little baby's room comfortable, colorful and simply awesome!

9. Baby Skincare Products
To keep baby's skin clean, soft and smooth, we need to stock up with daily care essentials such as baby wash and shampoo, lotion, diaper rash cream, baby oil, baby powder, etc. These products should be gentle and safe to use on a newborn's delicate skin like Aveeno.

10. Educational Baby Toys, Books and DVDs

Colorful blocks, shapes, rattles, baby gym, picture books and educational DVDs - these are great gifts every baby should have to satisfy their curiosity, stimulate their brains and senses, and encourage them to learn. I, myself can't wait to play with my son with these great toys!

11. TV and DVD Player
So that Euan can watch movies with Mommy and Daddy, listen to music, and enjoy Brainy Baby, Baby Einstein, and Barney DVDs. ;-)

12. Airconditioner
We live in a tropical country and the climate is usually hot and humid here. We want to keep our baby comfortable as possible. A good quality, energy saving, window-type air-conditioning unit is a good addition to Euan's room to keep him cool during hot days.

Baby Euan's Wish List (Part 1)

2011-12-08T21:03:00.000+08:00

Our baby, Euan Jedric, is expected to arrive on Feb. 14, 2012! Eejay and I, are so excited to see him. As first-time parents, we only want the best for our precious one and we would like everything to be prepared for his arrival.

We won't be having a baby shower, but just in time for the season of giving, I thought of creating a wishlist for our baby boy . So, I'm calling all family, friends and future godparents to take a look at my very own list of top 12 baby gifts that you can give to Euan this Christmas! :-)

1. IKEA Gulliver Crib

My older sister works at Ikea Abu Dhabi and she asked me to browse through the children's section of their website to see what I would want her to get for Euan. (Thanks, sis!) The Gulliver crib caught my attention because of its simplicity and versatility. Its bed base can be adjusted to 2 heights and it can also be converted into a toddler's bed. Euan can definitely grow up with this crib since he'll be able to use it from newborn and until he reaches two years and above.

2. Changing Table
This modern changing table from Badger Basket comes with three baskets and a hamper. All of which are removable to create open shelves or storage spaces. It's the perfect height to change baby's diapers and is sturdy enough to keep him in place. It also has safety rails on all sides to prevent baby from falling. And, even if Euan becomes too old for nappy changes, I can use this to store some of his things such as socks, clothes and toys.

3. Graco Urbanlite Stroller
We want our little boy to travel in style, of course! But, we don't want a stroller that is too bulky or heavy. From the baby stroller reviews I've read, I learned that the Graco Urbanlite model is the top choice among parents who are looking for a lightweight travel system. It's compact and weighs less than 20 lbs only. It is also easy to assemble and fold according to reviews. Final request is for a unisex color, so we can still use it in the future, just in case we conceive a girl. ;-)

4. Baby Bottle Starter Set
I'm torn between two brands - Philips Avent BPA-free feeding bottles and Tommy Tippee Closer to Nature. Both have anti-colic feature, but have mixed reviews in terms of effectiveness. Avent is the more popular name among "high-end" brands here in the Philippines. Tommy Tippee, on the other hand, is another choice I am considering because a friend from Macau already sent me a 3-bottle set of Tommy Tippee Closer To Nature. Nevertheless, to receive a newborn feeding bottle starter set from any of these brands will surely be appreciated!

5. Philips Avent Bottle Warmer & Sterilizer
These things are designed to make sterilizing and warming bottles quick and hassle-free! In short, it's gonna make my life easier! Haha! They say that taking care of a baby can be very exhausting. These nifty appliances can be a lifesaver when things need to be done fast.

6. Nursery Drawer Chest

This is another nursery essential aside from the crib. It's important to have a separate place to keep baby's clothes, blankets and other baby stuff organized.. This way, it won't get mixed up and buried under our clothes which are way bigger than Euan's. :-)

Click here to continue...

My Christmas Wish List (Part 2)

2011-12-07T13:00:00.000+08:00

Hi friends! Here is the second installment of my wish list for this year. If you haven't seen the first part yet, just click here.

So, have you made your own list of gifts that you want to receive this Christmas? If you're an expectant mom like me or a clueless husband or friend who is having a hard time thinking of a present to give your pregnant loved one, read on up to the last item to get some great gift ideas!

Happy browsing!

All I Want For Christmas, Are These...(Part 2)

6. Nursing Bra

Any breastfeeding mother would benefit from a comfortable and hassle-free nursing bra that are easy to unfasten and re-fasten, but still provide the support a breast full of milk requires. After giving birth, the breasts will continue to enlarge as the milk production comes to full operation. So, 1 cup size bigger than the current size should do the trick. No underwires please! Underwire bras, especially those that don't fit well, may block the flow of milk and can even be annoying to wear.

7. Stretch Mark Cream

One of the most dreaded changes pregnancy brings are stretch marks. They say that it's something that one cannot prevent, but should be a source of pride instead. One of my friends even refer to it as battle scars! Haha! But, a lot of stretch mark creams are available in the market today claiming that they can prevent or improve the appearance of stretch marks. For me, it's worth a try instead of doing nothing about it. At least, even if doesn't work in the end, I won't regret not being able to try it.

8. Jewelry (Heart Earrings and Necklace Set)

Any woman, pregnant or not, will definitely appreciate some sparkly bling as a Christmas gift! It's also one of the best reward a husband can give to his wife for going through the difficulties of pregnancy. I for one would like to get some dainty white gold jewelry as a present! I'm specifically nuts with heart-shaped pendants and earrings. A matching bracelet would also be a good addition. ;-)

9. Silver Ladies' Watch

My old silver watch is already broken, so, I badly need a new watch! Haha! I really like the square chain detail of this dress watch from Fossil. It's fun but still lady-like. I can wear this with any outfit!

10.Nursing Top

I found this nursing tank top from Undercover Mama and I think it's a very useful addition to a breastfeeding mommy's wardrobe. It's actually an undershirt or regular cami to cover your back, sides and tummy while you nurse. It can also be worn in the house as lounge wear or sleep wear. How does it work? Its strapless but has links to attach directly to the outer flaps of a nursing bra. When you unfasten the bra, the Undercover Mama nursing tank opens with it.

My Christmas Wish List (Part 1)

2011-12-06T21:02:00.000+08:00

Holidays are coming and my Christmas wish list is here! Haha! ^_^

Being pregnant during the holiday season has its highs and lows. The most obvious downside are the delicious foods (specially desserts!) that I can't eat. But, the definite high are the gifts, since I can ask for things that I've been dying to have while I'm pregnant or stuff that are going to be very useful after I give birth. This is what my wishlist is all about. I'm sure that many expecting moms out there are secretly wishing for the same gifts this Christmas.

All I Want For Christmas, Are These...(Part 1)

1. Olay Total Effects Daily Moisturizer

I've been using this product for how many years now and it really keeps my face moisturized, clear, glowing, young-looking and protected from harmful UV rays since it contains SPF 15. It's also safe to use during pregnancy. I'm just a little pissed off lately because I can't find it in malls here. So, if someone can give this to me on Christmas, I'll surely appreciate it! :-)

2. Electric Breast Pump

I believe that breastmilk is best for babies. That's why I'm planning to feed my baby exclusively on his first year. An electric breast pump will surely come in handy when we travel or when I need to rest and let my husband do the feeding. According to most moms, the most efficient way to express milk is to use an electric pump. From the reviews I've read, Avent and Medela breast pumps are the best.

3. Black Flat Sandals
I'm already on my 7th month and I don't think it's practical to buy more maternity clothes at this point. So, what's a pregnant girl to do if she can't have more clothes? Splurge on accessories instead, like shoes! My feet are getting wider and it's time I let them breathe by wearing sexy and comfy flat sandals.

4. Stylish Diaper Bag
A diaper bag is going to be useful when baby arrives, especially when we go out. Thanks to fashion forward people, diaper bags are now made stylish to look like the usual ladies' bags. Gone are the flowers and cartoon designs! I can even use it before I give birth. No one will know that I'm actually sporting a diaper bag without diapers in it. Haha! This is also the perfect accessory to match the new shoes.

5. Breastfeeding Poncho
This is a must-have for every mom who wants to have the freedom and comfort to breastfeed her baby anytime and anywhere, but in a modest and discrete way. This breastfeeding accessory is versatile enough to be worn in many ways such as a shawl, a scarf, turban or a simple cover-up even after baby starts to eat solid food on his own.

See Part 2 of My Christmas Wish List on the next post.

Ultrasound Results

2011-12-03T21:01:00.000+08:00

I had a pelvic ultrasound done today by Dr. Tumbocon at the Exalt Emmanuel Medical and Diagnostic Clinic along Gen. Santos Drive, Koronadal City. We arrived 10 minutes early (excited much?!) so we had to wait for him. As soon as he arrived, the assistant led us inside the clinic and I was instructed to lie down.

Dr. Tumbocon began by showing us the head of the baby. He was pointing and describing something on the screen but I really couldn't figure it out. Haha! Anyway, he said that the head size is normal and the brain development is normal, too.

He then moved the device to show us the baby's abdomen. He made some measurements and stuff that I didn't understand. He also turned on the volume and allowed us to hear our baby's heartbeat again. He inspected the placenta and the umbilical cord which are both ok, and said something about the little one having enough food. He also pointed at the baby's feet which I wasn't able to see clearly, again! Honestly, I just couldn't absorb everything that he's saying because I was so excited to know if we're having a girl or boy. Haha!

Then, he paused and started clicking on a captured image. He said that it's the baby's organ and that we're having...(drumroll, please!)....

...a BOY!

Our reaction:

EEJAY: Talaga, doc? Lalaki gale? (Really, doc? It's a boy?)

JOEY: Hahaha! Sabi ko sa'yo boy eh. (I told you, it's a boy!)

We were happy and surprised because Eejay's mom and almost all our friends are saying that I could be having a baby girl, because I was blooming and all, and the shape of my belly is so rounded. All of which are indications of a baby girl according to old people. So, all the while, we thought we're having Zoey Grace! Our little boy, Euan Jedric, definitely surprised us! The time I spent searching for a baby boy's name surely paid off. ;-)

In addition to the above observations, Dr. Tumbocon also said that the previous EDD on the 24th of February is changed to February 14, 2012. He said that this date is more accurate. He also said that the baby's size is a bit bigger than normal but not at all critical. All in all, he said that the baby is looking good and healthy.

Upon finding out that we're having a baby boy and that his development is right on track, we can't help but be more excited. Now, we just can't wait to meet him!

At 28-29 Weeks: Miracles

2011-12-02T20:59:00.000+08:00

I am now on my 28th week, which is the beginning of the last trimester! Yehey!

Dra. Bendita said something today that made me think that my pregnancy is indeed blessed and a miracle from God. She said that she was trying to remember who among her patients had a sub-chorionic tear early in her pregnancy and miraculously continued with a healthy one. Then, she finally remembered that it was me. Remember the bleeding episode during my first trimester? I was advised complete bed rest back then and not to push through with our return travel to Iloilo. That's the reason why we decided to stay here in Koronadal until I give birth on February.

Even though sub-chorionic hemorrhage or tear is quite common among pregnant women, still, it's a condition that one should be careful to address. According to Dra. Bendita, not everyone is lucky enough to continue with their pregnancy up to full term. But for me, I don't consider it luck. I know that God healed me and He is the one who keeps me and my child safe and healthy. God has already seen our future and I believe that we are meant to have this baby.

Finally, we were able to secure an ultrasound referral to the same radiologist who diagnosed me with uterine tear last July. We're going to see him tomorrow and we're going to find out our baby's gender! Finally! :-)

Here are the details of my prenatal check-up:

AGE OF GESTATION: 28-29 weeks
BP: 110/80
WEIGHT: 128 lbs. (I gained 2 lbs! The baby is definitely starting to pack some weight!)
OTHERS: Received 2nd shot of Tetanus Toxoid
VITAMINS: VitaZinc OB (in the morning) and Sorbifer (1 hour before evening meal)

From the clinic, we went to the SSS (Social Security System) office with the only intention of updating my membership status (including my husband's), for us to finally get an ID and continue voluntary contributions for future use (like another pregnancy or for retirement). I was already convinced that I won't be able to get any maternity benefits since I was not able to update it after I resigned from my previous employment. Little did I expect to receive another miracle today. The nice gentleman who advised me did a good job finding a way to make me eligible to claim my maternity benefits. Thank you, Jesus! He surely has His ways of blessing us.

Preggy Day-Out

2011-11-30T20:58:00.000+08:00

Ready for my preggy day-out!

It's Bonifacio Day and the whole Philippines is enjoying a non-working holiday. Me, Eejay, together with Mama Daday and the kids (Eejay's younger brother and nephew) drove to General Santos City earlier today. We're also going to meet Eejay's older sister who works in one of the hospitals there.

On our way to GenSan

It was almost lunch time when we reached Polomolok, so we decided to stop over at Durian Garden. It was my first time to go there and I've always wanted to try their durian shake.

The Giant Durian at Durian Garden, Polomolok, South Cotabato

The restaurant is surrounded by a spacious garden. They also keep birds and other animals. We saw a talking parrot, lots of love birds, and rabbits. The kids had fun running around and looking at the animals. Eejay and I, on the other hand, enjoyed taking pictures while Mama Daday ordered our food.

Picture, picture!

Unfortunately, their blender broke so I didn't get to try their durian shake. But, I enjoyed the simple lunch we had which was native chicken tinola and lechon kawali, served with steamed rice. Busog! Now, off we go to GenSan. We really like going there because they have bigger and better malls than the ones in Koronadal.

Me and my husband

It's not everyday that I get to go out of the house, so I really enjoy simple trips like this, especially with my husband.

Breaking Dawn and French Fries Cravings

2011-11-21T19:45:00.000+08:00

During the first trimester, I was so strict about what I eat because I wanted to have a steady pregnancy weight gain. Experts say that eating the right foods during pregnancy can prevent excessive weight gain and will ensure the health of the mom and the baby. Having a normal and gradual addition of pounds can also help prevent the appearance of stretch marks and make it easier to get back in shape after giving birth.

But, now, it's just so difficult to fight cravings, specially the unhealthy ones. Haha! Just in time for the screening of Breaking Dawn, my pregnant mind already knows the perfect snack to satisfy my pregnancy cravings...and these are french fries from NY Fries and Dip (NYFD). Gaaah!

Hubby and I were supposed to watch Breaking Dawn last Saturday and I already told him that I really, really, really want to eat french fries for our movie snack. He didn't want to approve at first because it's bad for my health and the baby's. It's ok because we had to cancel our movie date anyway. He suddenly had to go home to Iloilo to fix some things in our apartment. We recently found out that there's been another termite attack and it's worse than before. Also, there's a couple from church who are arriving from Saipan and they'll be renting one of the rooms for two months. Hubby stayed there 3 days to clean, pack our things in boxes and instruct our friends staying there to take care of our house and to watch out for any signs of termites.

So, hubby got back today and we picked him up at General Santos City which is an hour-drive away from Koronadal. He arrived at 2:00 pm and we were just in time for the 2:45 pm screening at Robinson's Movieworld GenSan. Yay! As his way of making up to me for being away for 4 days, he bought me some NYFD french fries and I ate happily while watching Bella and Edward get married, go on a honeymoon, and have a baby. Good thing NYFD only uses trans-fat free canola oil to fry their potatoes. Cravings satisfied without the guilt! :-)

At 24-25 Weeks: The Pencil Test

2011-11-03T20:11:00.000+08:00

Just got back from the long weekend. I'm not really used to going to the cemetery during the All Saint's day season because our relatives live far from Manila and also because my grandparents are still alive..oh, except for my grandfather (father side) who died only a couple of years ago. However, when I'm with my husband's family, I get to experience a trip to the cemetery.

Honestly, I just couldn't wait for the holiday to end and for the OB clinic to open again. It's because this is the month that we're suppose to have an ultrasound to find out the baby's sex. Unfortunately, my OB suggested that we reschedule it on my 7th month. She said that at that time, the doctor will be able to see more, like what will come out first- the baby or the placenta and of course, we'll know the baby's gender.

Today, we just went on with the usual prenatal check-up. I am now 24-25 weeks. My blood pressure is 90/70 and I weigh 126 lbs. Fundal height measures 20 cm and the fetal heart rate is RLQ. I also had my first dose of Tetanus Toxoid. The doctor also gave me new set of vitamins called Iberet Folic (500 g).

When we got home, we received a message saying that our friend from church, Klaris already gave birth to a healthy baby girl and that she didn't have a hard time bringing her out. She did it with only 2 pushes! Isn't that amazing? I pray the same for me, too! Haha!

Because of the news, my husband and I felt envious and the more we wanted to know if we're having a boy or a girl. So, we did the pencil test to make up for not having the ultrasound. We know that it's just an old wives tale and doesn't have any scientific proof for accuracy. However, our Chinese friend swear by it because her mom used it on their family and got accurate results. Just for fun, we tried it and the pencil predicted that we're gonna have a baby girl. Hahaha!

How To Predict Baby's Gender Using The Pencil Test

The pencil test is believed to have originated from Hungary during the time when ultrasounds haven't been invented yet. It eventually became one of the most popular gender prediction methods used by women today. It's not accurate of course, but anyone can try it just for fun!

First, you'll need a pencil, a piece of thread, and a needle. Make sure that the pencil is sharp to help you see the movement easily.
Thread the needle. Allow the thread to be long enough for you to hold on to something while dangling the pencil above your wrist.
Pin the needle through the pencil eraser.
Position your hand on a flat surface with your palm facing upward. Be still and stay away from any source of wind that could affect the movement of the pencil.
Hold the pencil by the thread over your wrist, with the sharpened tip facing downward and touching your skin.
Observe closely as the pencil starts to move. If it moves vertically, it means that you're having a baby boy. A horizontal movement indicates that you're having a girl.

Baby Swaddling

2011-10-13T09:30:00.000+08:00

Lora, my friend from college is also expecting. She's 3 months ahead of me and expected to deliver on the last week of November. She's been practicing how to swaddle a teddy bear...I mean, a baby. :-)

So, I asked myself, do I have to learn how to do that, too? So, I searched baby swaddling videos on YouTube. I found out that there are several ways of wrapping a baby and that swaddling is really effective in calming a fussy infant. This is because it mimics the warm, tight and secure feeling they used to have in the womb.

Here's a funny baby swaddling video. I think it's funny because the baby's wrapped twice. One comment even said that the infant looked like he's ready to be sent to the courier..haha! But, the amazing thing is, the baby calmed down after. I think, this style of swaddling is best used if you're living in a country with extremely cold climate.

Here is another video of a father swaddling his adorable baby girl. Here, he used a much simpler technique and made use of just one swaddling blanket.

Swaddling, however, should be done properly and with care to prevent baby from developing hip dysplasia. This is a condition wherein the joints are loosened and the hip sockets' soft cartilage are damaged by wrapping the baby's legs too tightly in a straight down position. To avoid this from happening, one should make sure that the legs are able to move and bend up and down by leaving enough space at the bottom of the blanket.

Here is a final video on how to correctly swaddle a baby in a hip-healthy way.

Now, that I have an idea on how to correctly swaddle a baby and how effective it is in calming and helping him sleep through the night, it's time to practice! But first, gotta shop for cute swaddling blankets. :-)

My Friend's Baby Shower

2011-10-10T10:30:00.000+08:00

Lora with her female guests

Lora, my friend from college, had a blast with her baby shower last October 8 at Eastwood City. Her best friend, Bai, and sister, Lei, organized the event and it was well-attended by both Lora's and her husband Patrick's friends and family.

Cute and yummy cake; Lora and the giant pizza

There were enough food and drinks to fill everyone's tummies. They needed it for the whole night's fun games and activities.

Baby shower games

The organizers prepared baby shower games, which called for the participation of both the parents-to-be and all their guests. One of which had the guys drink beer from a small feeding bottle. The fastest drinker wins. The next one was a couples' game where the ladies race against each other in putting on a newspaper diaper to their partner. This one's hilarious!

Of course, they also played "Guess Mommy's Tummy Size", which is a baby shower classic. This game is easy. Female guests are asked to cut a string to the size they think would fit perfectly around the center of mom-to-be's belly. The one who has the closest guess to the actual tummy size wins a prize.

Diaper Cake from Lora's bestfriend, Bai

Last but not least is the opening of gifts! Now, this is the most fun part. Did you notice that most of the gifts are wrapped in blue? Obviously, Lora and Patrick are having a baby boy.

And, to make gift-shopping hassle-free for their guests and for them to get items that they really need, Lora created an SM gift registry for the baby shower. I even used it to pick out my gift for them. :-)

Congratulations, Lora and Patrick!

I can't help but be envious because I won't have a baby shower like this here in Koronadal. That's because my friends are all in Manila and Iloilo.:-( But, who knows? Maybe I can get them to organize a baby welcome party for me when we go to Manila next year...hehehe...^_^

Someone Broke Into Our House!

2011-10-08T09:00:00.000+08:00

I received a call last night at around 8:30 pm. It was my friend from Manila who was temporarily staying at our apartment in Iloilo. She said someone broke into our house. I thought she was just mistaken. She didn't go inside the rooms yet because she was a bit scared. But, from where she was standing, she said that she could see some of our things already scattered on the floor, and that the window screen from the next room was already open. I tried not to panic but my stomach was already hardening as we spoke.

(Top Row L-R) 1. Small gate leading to the second room window,
2. Damaged window screen
(Bottom Row L-R) 3. Rummaged things from the cabinet,
4. Scattered things on the floor

What is happening?! Last month, the apartment got infested by termites, and now, this?! Is this what we get for deciding to stay here for our baby and leave the house unoccupied for months? Could this have happened if we never left or just decided to go back as scheduled? Will I still be carrying our baby if we went back last month?

These were just some of the many questions running through my head last night. And, just the thought that someone with a dark motive got inside our house really scared me. What if we were there? What if my friend was there? The guy even went through the window of the room that we were planning to put together for the baby!!! All the while, we thought that that particular apartment is safe and secure.

Because of the stress and mixed emotions, it was the first time I felt my stomach tighten and it felt a bit painful. I also had a hard time sleeping. Poor baby! :-(

Nevertheless, we are still thankful because nobody got hurt and the burglar didn't really get much from the house. That's because we brought all our valuables (which is not really that much) with us here in Koronadal and we don't have expensive appliances in the apartment yet like DVD player or television. We have a refrigerator, but I guess it was too big for him to carry out of our apartment. Haha! The one staying there also brings her phone, laptop and money everyday to work. In fact, the only stuff the thief got was my external DVD and my friend's perfume. Good thing he didn't decide to burn down the apartment because he wasn't able to get anything more than that despite of his efforts. Haha!

My friend continued to update me later that night such as when she reported the theft and the police arrived to "investigate" the crime scene. As expected, they weren't able to do much even if we have a primary suspect (who is the only garbage guy we allow to enter the apartment compound every morning and knew very well that we've been away for a while). Our neighbors, who happen to be our church pastors and friends also experienced getting their apartment (in a different village) robbed a few years ago. The criminals were never identified and the stolen valuables were never traced or retrieved. Sadly, that's how it is in the Philippines. If this happens to you, don't expect justice to be served. :-(

Anyway, the owner of the apartment building had the broken gate and window screen fixed today. He also put up window grills in the room where the theft got in, as it was the only window in the house that didn't have metal grills on. (Just that guy's luck!)

Last night, before finally going to sleep, my husband and I prayed and cast all our fears to Jesus. We also declared Jesus' peace and protection over our family and the people and possessions we left in Iloilo. We also prayed for the person who got inside the house.

At times like this, the best thing to do is to hold on to God's promises and never stop believing that He makes all things work together for our good.

"Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you…"

- John 14:27

"And because Christ, our mercy seat, covers us with His blood, we are under God’s protection. We are in the secret place of the Most High, abiding under the shadow of the Almighty. Here, no evil will befall us, nor will any plague come near our dwelling. (Psalm 91:9–10) In the secret place of the Most High, we are favored and kept safe from all harm!"

- Pastor Joseph Prince, Daily Devotional

When We Were Still Young

2011-10-05T14:15:00.000+08:00

Can you spot me in this picture?

If you guessed I'm the girl in the middle, then you're wrong. That's my older sister, Diane.

I'm actually the one with bangs near the Coke bottle.

Can you guess who else is in this picture?

If you don't know me personally, you might be surprised.

:-)

Yup! Those cute little kids in the first picture have grown up

into good-looking adults...haha!

And the only boy in the photo is now my husband.

Technically, Eejay and I have known each other since birth. His Papa is actually my ninong (godfather) when I got baptized. Both our engineer fathers worked in the same oil company in Batangas, and both eventually moved abroad, and again, worked in the same company.

Our mothers are friends, too and we, the kids, were playmates. We alternately visit one another's house just to play and to celebrate one another's birthdays. Well, you know kids and the "walang kamatayang tuksuhan" (teasing). Since Eejay and I are the closest in age, him being a year older than me, his mom and sisters tease him and say that he has a crush on me. So, I guess their teasing resulted to something good..haha!

From Las Pinas, they moved down south to Koronadal City and my family continued to reside in Muntinlupa City. Eejay eventually moved to Iloilo City to study in college and later on became a born-again Christian and pursued the life of a young pastor-in-the-making. Thanks to Friendster and YM, Eejay and I got in touch with each other again after more than 15 years. Our friendship was rekindled and eventually blossomed into romance, which then led into marriage. It was a love story that God has written even before we were born.

I'm looking at these pictures and can't help but wonder how our baby will look like. I'm kinda hoping that if she's a girl, that she'll look like me. If he's going to be a boy, then I wish that he'll look just like his dad, Eejay.

Nevertheless, I'm excited to meet my baby.

:-)

The Halfway Mark: At 20-21 Weeks

2011-10-03T14:03:00.000+08:00

Now sporting side bangs, I just hit the halfway mark
of my pregnancy at 20-21 weeks!

It's OB time again and I can't believe that another month just flew. I am now on my 20th going to my 21st week of pregnancy. Babycenter sent an e-mail today reminding me that I'm already at the halfway mark of my pregnancy and it's definitely a reason to celebrate. Thank you, Lord!

"You're halfway there. Hooray! The first trimester is over, the second is well under way, and you've probably got your energy back. Celebrate by splurging on a pedicure, a prenatal massage, or a new outfit that shows off your baby bump. Now's also the time to hang out with friends, go on a baby moon, and live it up before the baby arrives about 20 weeks from now." - www.babycenter.com

For the past month, I actually noticed that my energy and appetite did increase (I think I'm eating 5 times a day!) and I feel hungry more often. However, I'm still suffering from constipation even if I drink lots of water and eat lots of fruits.

I can also feel my baby move now and while I was lying down at the OB's examination bed, I felt the little one kick. It's really amazing and I can't help but laugh everytime I feel tiny movements inside my tummy. It assures me even more that my baby is alive, healthy and growing inside me! :-)

But, because of the sudden change in climate (from too hot and humid to rainy and damp), almost everyone in the family is down with the flu. My husband has it and I'm already feeling the symptoms as well...itchy throat, clogged nose and headache. But, I guess my immune system is still fighting it because the symptoms are still manageable. Nevertheless, Dra. Bendita gave me a nasal spray with 0.65% saline solution for my semi-clogged nose and prescribed Forvexine to fight the flu.

Here is a summary of my prenatal check-up today:

AGE OF GESTATION: 20-21 weeks

BP: 100/70

WEIGHT: 125 lbs. (Maintained!)

FUNDAL HEIGHT: 18 cm

VITAMINS: VitaZinc OB

Amazing Facts On How Babies Develop In The Womb

2011-09-30T13:54:00.000+08:00

At times, when I'm just lying down and feeling baby move, I can't help but be amazed at how another life can be miraculously formed and grow inside my womb. Indeed, carrying a precious little being inside me is one of the best blessings I have ever received from God. It is also one of the most humbling experiences as I take part with our Creator as He form a new human being and chose me to be that person's mother.

Through the course of my pregnancy, I slowly found myself being protective and wanting good things not for myself, but for my child. Sometimes, I worry and become anxious, but God is faithful to remind me that He is always with us and will provide for us no matter what. True enough, we never lack and His provision is always on time.

I've also learned to be more careful, not just with what I eat, but with the things I do, think about and feel, because I know that these things may have an effect on my baby. My husband and I have become more prayerful, more patient, and more expressive of our love not just for one another, but for our baby as well.

I have just read an article about babies in the womb saying that even before infants are born, their five senses are already working so well, hence, giving them the ability to feel what their moms feel, taste and smell, and create visions in their mind who they think they are and what their life would be outside the womb. Ever since I've read this, I became more determined to let my baby know that he/she is loved, because for me, this is the first and only thing that our baby should know...then, everything else will follow.

Here are the other interesting facts from the Babies In The Womb article on how babies develop and use their senses even while inside the womb:

A baby can distinguish between the voice of Mom and that of a stranger at the time of birth
Babies dream about their life, experiences, and sensations while they are in the womb.
Research has shown babies to be startled at loud noises while within the womb.
Babies savor their mother’s meals, picking up the food tastes of a culture before they are born.
Babies can remember and respond to a familiar story or song that was repeated to them while in the womb.
Babies have been known to react to the experience of amniocentesis by shrinking away from the needle, or, if a needle nicks them, they may turn and attack it.
Babies react to pain, stress and the emotions of the mother.

Read the whole article by clicking HERE.

"You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed."

Psalm 139:13-16

Happy Birthday, Honey!

2011-09-21T08:00:00.000+08:00

It's my husband Eejay's birthday today and he just turned 28. I never had any problem finding gifts for my husband, probably because I am his wife and I always know what he needs, especially what's lacking in his wardrobe. ;-p I also know the things that interest him like his pet fishies (fighting fish and flowerhorn), aquascaping, computer games, books and basketball.

There are several things that I wanted to buy for him for his birthday, but since I don't have a job right now and I can't afford to buy really expensive gifts, I just got him a red shirt from Penshoppe. It's the thought that counts, di ba?

I also thought of making a birthday wishlist for him. Hehehe. Hopefully, in the coming years, I'll be able to give him more extravagant gifts. He really is the best husband in the world and I want to give him the best, too.

Without further ado, here are the top 7 birthday gifts for men that I want to give my husband.

To my Honey, Happy Birthday! May God reveal more of His love for you everyday and may He grant you with long, satisfied, healthy and successful life. Baby and I love you so much!

Simple Joys

2011-09-18T10:30:00.000+08:00

I found this video on YouTube of a cute little girl singing and I can't help but watch it over and over again. Her facial expressions, hand gestures, and body language are really funny, and the way she sang that song was really adorable (even if I don't understand what the song is about)! Hahaha! Go and watch it! She's super cute!

Here's another video of a baby boy who laughs hysterically while his dad rips a piece of paper. Haha! This is awesome! I'll try this with my baby and see if I get the same result..hehe.

If you liked these, you'll find more videos of cute babies on YouTube. It feels great to enjoy simple things in life that watching a child laugh about silly things. :-)

Count Your Blessings

2011-09-16T13:41:00.000+08:00

Now that I'm not working and staying at home most of the time, I get easily bored with my life and I have a tendency to feel down and anxious about a lot of things. I also can't help but miss my family in Manila and our life back in Iloilo. I know that these feelings are not healthy for the baby, especially that I am fully aware about the risks of prenatal depression being another emotional health concern for every 1 out of 10 pregnant women, aside from postpartum depression. I refuse to be a part of that statistic!

So, one sure way to drive the blues away is to see beyond my lack and start counting the blessings God has given me. I just want to take this opportunity to share what I am thankful for. :-)

Family and Friends

The support we are getting from our family and friends is very overwhelming, even from the beginning. Thank you for celebrating our victories, for lending us a hand whenever we need help, and for lavishing us with prayers, love, words of encouragement, and also for blessing us financially and with other material things without asking for anything in return.

Hubby's New Job

When we decided to stay here in Koronadal, my husband also started looking for a more stable online job. In a just a few weeks, he was able to land a full-time article writing job for a big SEO company that does not only pay well, but also cover our internet bills. My husband is even more blessed because he finds the job very easy and only works 5 to 6 hours maximum per day instead of 8 hours. This is because he is simply fast and good at what he does. Haha! Thank you, Lord, for your favor and for giving us the strength and wisdom to produce wealth.

Unexpected Blessings

As I've mentioned in my previous post, even if we're staying at my in-laws' house here in Koronadal, we are still maintaining an apartment in Iloilo where we plan to go back to on April next year. That means, we are still paying for the rent and utility bills. Surprisingly, a friend from Manila asked me the other day if she can stay there for an indefinite period of time, since she will be temporarily assigned by her company to work in Iloilo. She agreed to share half of the rent payment, and as a result, we'll have extra money to put in the bank for our baby. Indeed, God is commanding blessings to fill our storehouses! Thank you, Jesus!

Daily Provisions

Ever since we stayed here at Mama Daday's (my mother-in-law), we have been enjoying God's daily provision of our basic needs, such as a home to live in, food and water, free OB check-ups, and a supply of prenatal vitamins and milk, and even occasional treats (trip somewhere, new clothes, etc.).

Loving Husband

I am just happy and thankful to God for giving me a husband who is always there to cheer me up and show how much he loves and cares for me. He just knows what to do or say whenever I'm feeling down...whether it be a kiss, a hug, or bringing me to the mall to eat pizza or whatever I'm craving for. He is simply the best! He is not just my husband, but my best friend too. I love you, Honey!

How about you, what are you thankful for?