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We’re having a BBQ with about 50 people up at my house in a few weeks. It’ll be in August, which weirdly enough, is when about a full third of my family and friends are born. So it’s always a big party, featuring crowd favs like ribs, beer and cake.  What could be bad? Nothing [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-606" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="IKEAMonsoon[1]" src="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IKEAMonsoon1.JPG" alt="IKEAMonsoon[1]" width="107" height="143" />We’re having a BBQ with about 50 people up at my house in a few weeks. It’ll be in August, which weirdly enough, is when about a full third of my family and friends are born. So it’s always a big party, featuring crowd favs like ribs, beer and cake.  What could be bad? Nothing if I survive my drive to entertain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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Country western music makes me cry – in part because it’s my daughter’s favorite genre (which is a mom-thing, stuff that reminds your mom of you makes her cry, too). I also cry because they tell such poignant stories about heartache, ambition and simple living.
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-606" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="IKEAMonsoon[1]" src="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IKEAMonsoon1.JPG" alt="IKEAMonsoon[1]" width="107" height="143" />We’re having a BBQ with about 50 people up at my house in a few weeks. It’ll be in August, which weirdly enough, is when about a full third of my family and friends are born. So it’s always a big party, featuring crowd favs like ribs, beer and cake.  What could be bad? Nothing if I survive my drive to entertain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=594">Personal Brands: Do Ask. Don&#8217;t Tell.</a></li>
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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How are you doing amidst the piles you’ve created? You know, the piles of old bills, dirty clothes and detritus of your hobbies (like your carnival stuffed animal collection or unusable swag from less than stellar events)?
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=599">Personal Brands: Thoughts and Tears</a></li>
<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=594">Personal Brands: Do Ask. Don&#8217;t Tell.</a></li>
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From the time you leave your home, consider that you are being auditioned for the job you are seeking.  Your personal brand starts to get its early morning workout when you cross the threshold of your door.
How coherent is your personal brand promise, given what you actually deliver?
The person you brushed by without apology, your [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<ul>
<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=599">Personal Brands: Thoughts and Tears</a></li>
<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=594">Personal Brands: Do Ask. Don&#8217;t Tell.</a></li>
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Why do job coaches tell you to EVADE a straightforward answer when a recruiter asks you this simple question?
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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I imagine there’s some lunatic that we’re calling a “thought-leader,” who is passing out some horrific job-interview ending advice, including:
“Never answer a question about compensation.”
 I did not hire five people in the last week because they would not answer this question:
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=594">Personal Brands: Do Ask. Don&#8217;t Tell.</a></li>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 21:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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If you were a bumper sticker, what would you say for all the world to see, as we drive by you stuck on a fender?
Would you tell us to give peace a chance? 
Would you tell us you’re a fan of mixed martial arts?
Would you boast your kid made honor roll?
Would you boast your kid beat [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=594">Personal Brands: Do Ask. Don&#8217;t Tell.</a></li>
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What should a psychologist do when a client discloses an intention to harm himself or others? If these statements are just potentially criminal with no guarantee that they will be enacted – are they truly dangerous thoughts?
Yes.
 
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-606" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" title="IKEAMonsoon[1]" src="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IKEAMonsoon1.JPG" alt="IKEAMonsoon[1]" width="107" height="143" />We’re having a BBQ with about 50 people up at my house in a few weeks. It’ll be in August, which weirdly enough, is when about a full third of my family and friends are born. So it’s always a big party, featuring crowd favs like ribs, beer and cake.  What could be bad? Nothing if I survive my drive to entertain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Among the characteristics of my personal brand is “entertaining” and not just for guests at home. I speak, train and teach at venues where audiences are no longer satisfied by being educated or enlightened. “Adult learners” must be simultaneously entertained as they graze on facts and analysis.  Someone coined a word for what we do now in the knowledge transfer business: “edutainment.” I don&#8217;t have a casual relationship with this concept, because I believe it the single most important factor in moving people forward. With all my might, I relentlessly edu-tain.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Personal brands aren’t something you can turn off and on at will. Qualities that are authentically you will come through in most every venue.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">For example, I am known for throwing really great parties because I believe that you must entertain guests. I see it as part of the job when you host a party. I have developed a formula. I like to splurge on a real bartender. He makes signature drinks and margaritas with that tiny shaved ice, like Slurpees (I bought the machine). We have live music (I live in LA where musicians are desperate for an audience much less a pay check). And I always add in something novel to up the cool factor and kind of make it a scene.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This summer my cool factor is futons instead of chaise lounges. It’s got that Beverly Hills Hotel cabana, Hollywood’s Hotel Roosevelt bottle service cum Vegas Rehab with beautiful people lounging vibe.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where it gets ugly.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">The best place to buy cheap futons is IKEA. If there’s a store that’s more grueling to move through, filled with more screaming children and surly customer no-service people at the checkout, then it must be in hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Other than hell, which I can only imagine is IKEA without air-conditioning, there could be no other place where you are trapped with hundreds of other lost souls, as your brain is assaulted with the smell of damp Swedish meatballs and you try to find your way out from the moment you get in. On the floors you see arrows, but they return you to the same places you came from.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Okay, it gets worse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We persevere, gripping our soiled list of product numbers, plus awkwardly juggling a tower of assorted doo-dads we picked up on the way down.  How could you resist? They force you to pass every single item ever made in Sweden on the way, three stories down, to the self-serve warehouse.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We arrive at the beginning of the end. We make our way through a maze of towering aisles and pull hundreds of pounds of futon assemblage and mattresses off the shelves, only to push them around in a side-less steel cart that hits you right in the curve between your leg and ankle.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">It’s still not as bad as it’s going to get.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">We pay after fumbling with what looks like a taser, and is actually an optical scanner that only works at a very specific distance and angle. We wobble our way out to pick-up zone.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Therein lies the difference between IKEA and hell.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Above our heads – like lettuce in a supermarket – is a power shower of wet mist pouring out of a cable strung all across the overhang between the store and the curb.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">This is where you must wait with your cardboard and plastic covered, yet to be assembled furniture. Now we know it’s not hell, because we&#8217;re wet and freezing. We are literally standing in a monsoon with our cardboard shack and plastic tarp wrapped mattresses, all soaking wet.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">“It’s to keep you cool,” says the lone attendant. Now if you don’t know, Los Angeles is about 78 degrees by day and 65 degrees by evening during most of the summer, with no drag of humidity. This is not Phoenix, Orlando, Houston or anyplace where having buckets of water thrown at you is really the only way to manage your body temperature outdoors.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">Blame it on my personal brand. I endured because I must entertain. The show must go on. The mantra doesn’t waver when you are authentically what you are, no matter where you are.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.1pt 0in;">In case you are navel gazing about your own personal brand, ask yourself this. What do you endure that tells you who you are?</p>
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<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=599">Personal Brands: Thoughts and Tears</a></li>
<li class="apf_footer"><a href="http://www.nancerosenblog.com/?p=594">Personal Brands: Do Ask. Don&#8217;t Tell.</a></li>
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