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		<title>New York Times Reports &#8220;Haggling&#8221; and Negotiating Are In Vogue at MegaStores</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 15:22:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Janal, Your Chief Bastard Buster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bargaining, haggling and negotiating are acceptable at major computer and electronics stores, reports The New York Times on Sunday, March 23, 2008 in an article entitled: Even at Megastores, Hagglers Find No Price Is Set in Stone The article shows several savvy consumers who asked for better prices on TVs and computers &#8212; and got [...]]]></description>
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<p>Bargaining, haggling and negotiating are acceptable at major computer and electronics stores, reports The New York Times on Sunday, March 23, 2008 in an article entitled:</p>
<h1><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/23/business/23haggle.html"> Even at Megastores, Hagglers Find No Price Is Set in Stone</a></h1>
<p>The article shows several savvy consumers who asked for better prices on TVs and computers &#8212; and got them!</p>
<p>Two factors can help:</p>
<p>1. Have printed price reports from the Internet. Sales people at some stores are authorized to match or beat prices.</p>
<p>2. Walk out. Salespeople would rather make a bad deal than no deal at all.</p>
<p>I pointed these tips out in my e-book, <a href="http://www.negotiatingwithbastards.com/cardealers/">&#8220;Negotiating with Bastard Car Dealers&#8221;</a> along with 20 other tips that any consumer can use to get a good deal on any product or service.</p>
<p>You can read the rest of the tips and save a lot of money when you buy and read my e-book.</p>
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		<title>New book published: Negotiating with Bastard Car Dealers</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Mar 2008 19:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Janal, Your Chief Bastard Buster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are You Sick and Tired of Being Cheated Every Time You Buy or Lease a Car? Do you hate buying cars because you know you will be ripped off? Have you lost thousands of dollars buying cars at inflated prices from car dealers who won’t budge on their price and undercut the value of your [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 22pt">Are You Sick and Tired of Being Cheated <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 22pt">Every Time You Buy or Lease a Car?<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Do you hate buying cars because you know you will be ripped off?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Have you lost thousands of dollars buying cars at inflated prices from car dealers who won’t budge on their price and undercut the value of your trade-in car?</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">It’s not your fault. No one ever told you the right system for negotiating with bastard car dealers.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Now, there’s a simple system that can help you get the car of your dreams at the price you want to pay!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><!--[if gte vml 1]><v:shapetype id="_x0000_t75" coordsize="21600,21600"  o:spt="75" o:preferrelative="t" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" filled="f"  stroked="f">  <v:stroke joinstyle="miter"/>  <v:formulas>   <v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"/>   <v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"/>   <v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1"/>   <v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2"/>   <v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth"/>   <v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight"/>   <v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1"/>   <v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2"/>   <v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth"/>   <v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0"/>   <v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight"/>   <v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0"/>  </v:formulas>  <v:path o:extrusionok="f" gradientshapeok="t" o:connecttype="rect"/>  <o:lock v:ext="edit" aspectratio="t"/> </v:shapetype><v:shape id="_x0000_i1025" type="#_x0000_t75" style='width:129.75pt;  height:162pt'>  <v:imagedata src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\DANIEL~1\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtml1\01\clip_image001.png"   o:title="NegotiatingwithBastards_lg"/> </v:shape><![endif]--><!--[if !vml]--><!--[endif]--><a href="http://www.negotiatingwithbastards.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/negotiating_with_bastard_car_dealers1.jpg" title="New book: Negotiating with Bastard Car Dealers"><img src="http://www.negotiatingwithbastards.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/03/negotiating_with_bastard_car_dealers1.thumbnail.jpg" alt="negotiating with bastard car dealers1.thumbnail New book published: Negotiating with Bastard Car Dealers"  title="New book published: Negotiating with Bastard Car Dealers" /></a>When you purchase and read “Negotiating with Bastard Car Dealers,” you’ll learn how easy it is to:</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Boost your confidence as a negotiator</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Overcome limiting beliefs that hold you back on asking for what you deserve</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Recognize the dirty tricks car dealers play on you – and how to turn the tables to your advantage</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Kick the wind out of the salesperson’s inflated ego so you get what you want</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Research the true price of the new car and your trade in so you know exactly what the best financial deal is</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Use no-cost research tools you can use on the Internet to find out what your car is worth so dealers can’t haggle with you</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Determine the features you must have so you don’t get hoodwinked into buying options you don’t need</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Use the “law of timing” to your advantage to get the best deal you can</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Turn previous “failures” at negotiating to your advantage</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Use the salesperson’s ego against him</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Uncover the psychological triggers that motivate salespeople</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Counteract devious sales “closing techniques”</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Master the one tactic you must use to improve your negotiating ability</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Not to be conned into giving more money after you’ve bought the car and made the deal</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Find the worst salesperson in the showroom so you can spin your magic on an untrained salesperson</p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 0.5in; text-indent: -0.25in"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span>-<span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal">         </span></span><!--[endif]-->Turn the salesperson into your best friend who wants to look out for your best interests!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">This isn’t an e-book filled with fancy theories and hundreds of pages to wade through. In just 25 pages, you’ll become the master of a system that can save you hundreds or thousands of dollars when you buy or lease your next car.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">In just a few hours, you can read the book, absorb its key principles and do battle with unscrupulous car dealers anywhere!</p>
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		<title>Could Networks Be the Biggest Loser in Strike?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:42:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Janal, Your Chief Bastard Buster</dc:creator>
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<p>Networks could be the biggest loser in the writer&#8217;s strike.</p>
<p>They might find that people are bored with endless reruns. Instead, people might go to alternative entertainment sources &#8212; and find they like those sources better!</p>
<p>For example:</p>
<p>1. You Tube</p>
<p>2. Surfing the Net</p>
<p>3. Watch movies via NetFlix and other low-priced rental services</p>
<p>4. Participate in community events and politics</p>
<p>5. Participate in local sports</p>
<p>6. Go to sporting events, concerts and other live entertainment events</p>
<p>7. Family time</p>
<p>After experiencing alternative entertainment, people might find they&#8217;ve weaned themselves from TV.  Don&#8217;t laugh. Daily newspapers are  losing readers to online news sources. It could happen to networks as well.</p>
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		<title>Writer&#8217;s Strike is first lose-lose-lose-lose negotiation</title>
		<link>http://www.negotiatingwithbastards.com/2008/01/17/writers-strike-is-first-lose-lose-lose-lose-negotiation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jan 2008 23:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Janal, Your Chief Bastard Buster</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most people look for a win-win settlement. Some people want a win-lose settlement. The writer&#8217;s strike threatens to be the first strike in which not only the principles lose, but so do lots of of other groups. For example: 1. Writers lose money in lost wages. It could take years for them to recover the [...]]]></description>
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<p>Most people look for a win-win settlement. Some people want a win-lose settlement. The writer&#8217;s strike threatens to be the first strike in which not only the principles lose, but so do lots of of other groups.</p>
<p>For example:</p>
<p>1. Writers lose money in lost wages. It could take years for them to recover the money they haven&#8217;t been paid over the last few months.</p>
<p>2. Actors lose money because episodes are not shot.</p>
<p>3. Businesses that support actors lose money as they services are not needed. Think of caterers, make up artists, etc.</p>
<p>4. Networks lose revenue as fewer people tune in to watch reruns. They can&#8217;t charge advertisers the original rates.</p>
<p>The ripple effects of the strike point to the &#8220;Law of Unintended Consequences.&#8221; More about that tomorrow.</p>
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		<title>Negotiate and Win: Proven Strategies from the NYPD&#8217;s Top Hostage Negotiator</title>
		<link>http://www.negotiatingwithbastards.com/2007/11/18/negotiate-and-win-proven-strategies-from-the-nypds-top-hostage-negotiator/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Nov 2007 02:26:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dan Janal, Your Chief Bastard Buster</dc:creator>
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<p>Chances are you aren&#8217;t negotiating a life-and-death decision like Dominick J. Misino, a negotiator with the New York City Police Department, but there are many things you can learn from him that can save your financial life!</p>
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<p>This book has a number of good tips and interesting anecdotes.</p>
<p>The one point I&#8217;ll highlight here is to realize that it is better to negotiate as a team, comprised of the commander who makes the decisions, the negotiator who handles the negotiations and a scribe who take notes.</p>
<p>The beauty of this plan is that the negotiator is apt to get personally involved or emotionally involved in the process and might lose sight of the goals. That&#8217;s the commander&#8217;s job: To make sure the objective is reached.</p>
<p>The scribe is essential (and probably overlooked by small businesses and entrepreneurs used to doing deals on a handshake) because he records what was discussed and agreed to. That record will be essential when you write the final contract to ensure that all the terms you wanted are listed properly.</p>
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		<title>Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher, Bruce M. Patton, and William L. Ury</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Janal, Your Chief Bastard Buster</dc:creator>
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<p><em>Getting to Yes</em> is one of the most influential negotiation books of all time. I read it, underlined it, highlighted it and dog-eared it like mad. There&#8217;s a lot of great material here for beginning negotiators. It is essential reading for people who negotiate.</p>
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<p>One of the key points of this book is to remove the emotion from negotiation. Instead, use facts and figures from impartial outside sources to set realistic numbers. In other words, you might say your property is worth X and your opponent might say it is worth Y. In that case, you should get outside experts to evaluate the property to get a fair assessment. In fact, you might want 3 opinions and settle on the average so it is even more realistic, or fair to all concerned.</p>
<p>This is a wonderful way to let bastards know that their opinion doesn&#8217;t makes something right or valued at a certain level.</p>
<p>Try this in your negotiations and see if it helps!</p>
<p>Let me know if you think this is helpful!</p>
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