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I wanted to make sure to keep you in the loop with all the exciting things happening right now:)

In addition to the events below that I am organizing, I wanted to share a couple more:

These first 2 are the most time sensitive:

The First Ever New Orleans Tantra Festival – 25% off right now!  CLICK HERE for the direct link to the early bird tickets:)

April 17-20,3026

My dear friend and mentor Monique Darling is putting this together, and it’s going to be a blast!  I’ll be there leading workshops.  If you love NOLA or always wanted to visit, there is no better way than with a group of likeminded tantra people.

New Years Eve Upscale Lifestyle Party in Vegas CLICK HERE for details

A member of my tantric community here in Vegas is one of the co-organizers for Unleashed Seduction.  I’ve gotten to know her personally and feel good about recommending her event.  Plus – if you come we can ring in the new year together:)

She is also looking for volunteers so if you are interested in helping out let me know and I will send you her way.

Tulum Tantra Festival CLICK HERE for all the details

February 22-26

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How to Bring More Presence and Pleasure Into Everyday Life

It feels so good to be getting back into my rhythms and routines here at home after several weeks of traveling!

I’ve been focusing on being present in everyday life, and it’s making such a difference.

A Simple Practice for Finding Presence

One thing that is really helping me right now, so I wanted to share it with you in case it can help you too, is practicing being in the present moment.

One book that I use, which is a classic, is How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. Even though it was written in 1948, I find the principles to be practical and applicable today. I highly recommend it if you are feeling stuck, depressed, or having a hard time getting sh!t done.

Living in Airtight Compartments

One of the ideas he discusses is the practice of living your life in air-tight compartments. On a submarine, there are airtight compartments that, if sealed, prevent water from entering.

If we break our day and activities down into distinct compartments, where we don’t let regrets from the past or worries about the future intrude, we can be fully present in the moment. We can turn our full energy toward whatever it is we want to focus on. We can relax and be present in the moment.

Putting Presence Into Practice

Today I am practicing that with my email system. Earlier this year, I had to switch to a new platform. I encountered several obstacles while setting it up. I finally got it set up, but I still haven’t sent out an email. Some of what has been holding me back has been the feelings I’ve had about it (frustration, overwhelm, etc.).

So for today’s practice, I will set a timer (so I remember to move and stretch in case I do get in flow). I will put out of my mind all the past obstacles and future concerns, and take it one step at a time until either I get it done or run out of time to work on it.

What do you think about this strategy? Is it something you do, or would like to do? Do you think you could use this technique for more presence and pleasure in your intimate life?

If you would like to incorporate this type of practice in your life (or in your bed) and are finding it challenging, feel free to reach out for some support. I offer a 30-minute complimentary phone call for support and to explore if we might be a good fit to work together.

You can find out more about my offerings at https://www.nikkilundberg.com/erotic-life-coaching-for-couples-and-singles/.

Please visit www.NikkiLundberg.com to join my email community.

Prepping for the 2026 Las Vegas Tantra Festival!!!

Click here to see all the details:)

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What to Expect When Working with Sex Coach Nikki

If you’re considering working with a sex coach, you might be wondering what the experience will be like. Many people come to me feeling nervous, excited, or simply curious. Whether you’re looking to release shame, explore your desires, or deepen your connection to yourself, my coaching offers a safe, supportive space for self-discovery and growth.

A Personalized Approach to Your Journey

Before we dive into the work, we start with a conversation. This allows us to explore your history, past experiences, and what you hope to achieve through coaching. Some of this might have been discussed in our initial phone call, but sitting down in person gives us the opportunity to go deeper. Together, we’ll set clear intentions for our work, ensuring each session is tailored to your unique needs and goals.

Releasing Shame Through Witnessing

One of the core aspects of my coaching is helping people release shame. Shame is that deep-seated feeling of “I am bad,” which can hold you back from fully embracing pleasure. Unlike guilt, which is about feeling bad for something you’ve done, shame can be more pervasive and limiting.

The fastest and most effective way to release shame is to be witnessed with presence and compassion. In our sessions, I hold space for you to explore your pleasure without judgment. By being seen and supported, those internalized feelings of shame start to dissolve, opening up new pathways for pleasure and self-acceptance.

Session Flow: What Happens in a Coaching Session?

Once we’ve established our goals, we move into practices designed to help you connect more deeply with yourself and your desires. I draw from a variety of techniques and exercises, selecting the ones that align best with your needs. Each practice starts with an explanation—what we’re doing and why—so you feel informed and comfortable every step of the way.

After each practice, we take time to discuss and integrate the experience. The pace is always deliberate, ensuring you stay connected to yourself and the present moment. We start with gentle practices and gradually build intensity, always checking in to make sure you’re feeling safe and empowered.

Attunement and Sensitivity: Connecting to Your Energy

A key skill we work on is attunement—learning to feel your own energy and differentiate it from others’. This clarity helps you set boundaries, recognize projections, and feel more grounded in your own body. Without attunement, it’s easy to take on emotions that don’t belong to you, leading to feelings of guilt, pressure, or insecurity.

By helping you become more attuned to your energy and your partner’s, you’ll gain confidence in your ability to navigate intimacy with clarity and authenticity.

Exploring Mutual Pleasure and Intimacy

One thing that sets my coaching apart from traditional therapy is the ability to engage in practices that involve mutual nudity, masturbation, and pleasure—when it aligns with our goals. These sessions are designed to help you focus on your own experience without the distractions of relationship dynamics or performance pressure. I act as a mirror, reflecting your desires and responses in a neutral and supportive way, helping you gain insight and confidence in your intimate life.

Hands-On and In Work: A Collaborative Experience

Our sessions are a partnership focused on your pleasure and self-exploration. Whether we’re working on consent, expressing desires, pleasure mapping, or experiencing full-body orgasms, the goal is always about learning and growth. Unlike a traditional massage where something is “done for you,” in these sessions, we work together—it’s “done with you.” You’ll leave with tools and techniques to continue your journey long after our sessions end.

Taking the Next Step

If you’re ready to explore your desires in a safe and supportive space, I’d love to guide you on this journey. Whether you’re overcoming shame, seeking deeper connection, or simply curious about what’s possible, I’m here to support you every step of the way.

Ready to take the first step? Book a free consultation today!

I offer a free phone call (up to 30 minutes) to see if we would be a good fit to work together.

Text me to set it up:)  7026746606

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Las Vegas Events:

October

Friday 10/18/24 – Snugglefest https://events.humanitix.com/october-snugglefest-and-communication-workshop-kbd6lxtw

November

Friday 11/29/24 – Snugglefest https://events.humanitix.com/november-snugglefest-and-communication-workshop-ant82dp6

Saturday 11/30/24 – Save the date (events not yet posted)

Afternoon – 5 Elements Massage Workshop

Evening – Tantric Gratitude Practices Temple Experience

December – Save the dates (events not yet posted)

Friday 12/27/24 – Snugglefest

Saturday 12/28/24 – Tantra Day!

Afternoon – Guided Vision Workshop And Ritual

Afternoon – Magical Manifesting (Sex Magic) Workshop

Evening – Sex Magic Practices and Temple Party

January – I’m super excited to be hosting these extraordinary facilitators and dear friends in January – Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling!

Thursday 1/30/25 – Awaken As Love Taster Conscious Evolution with Nikki and Monique 

Friday 1/31/25 thru Sunday 2/2/24 – Into to Awaken As Eros Taster with Reid and Monique

February

Saturday 2/1/24 – Speed Flirting & Temple Party with Reid, Monique and Peter

I have a lot more good stuff on the horizon!  I am looking to travel and teach more so if you know of a festival or conference that I would be a good fit for -or- if you would like me to come facilitate events in your community, please let me know.

Feel free to text or email if you have any questions.

Warmly,
Nikki

7026746606

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Going through all of that and recovery has been consuming much of my energy and focus.  Luckily, I’ve been able to stay mostly on track with school since that is all online and I’ve had very understanding teachers.

I’ve been missing working on my business and I’m finally feeling ready to start planning things and putting myself out there so YAY here I am

So, that’s what had been up with me.  I’ll be planning out some live events in July here in Las Vegas that I’ll share soon.  I’m also putting together some new juicy coaching packages and I’ll be sharing more about those as they come together.

If you are interested in working together (as a single or a couple) let me know and we can talk about it more.

Hope your summer has gotten off to a great start!

Warmly,
Nikki
Text me at 702-674-6606 if you are interested in private coaching.

P.S.  If you would like to see more frequent updates about my personal and professional life, connect with me on facebook Nikki Lundberg | Facebook

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When I first started providing sensual and erotic massage 13 years ago, I learned to follow a person’s pleasure with my touch. My clientele was 99% men.

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“Seeing you is so much better than seeing that psychiatrist” she to me as we left my office tonight.

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It is very expensive for us.

And we are not sure the price is worth it.

It means we have to change, to take care of ourselves, to put ourselves first, will the price be too high?

All the healing we need to do – healing our hearts, our minds, and our bodies. The price we pay to heal is expensive.

Shame, grief, trauma, negative belief systems, fears… so much running in our system that we need to navigate to be better, to be okay, to experience freedom and joy.

Especially if we are sensitive, empathic, and caring. The state of the world can be heartbreaking. How can we come into ourselves and feel good when there is so much pain in the world and in our own selves?

Breath.

Be here now.

Be in the present moment.

Connect with your body. Relax and release, over and over.

Connect with Source, Inner Being, Universe – whatever is true and eternal for you.

Connect and be with yourself right now. Notice without judgment.

Take pleasure in the Now. See where the pain ends. See if there is any nuance to the pain that you might be able to enjoy.

Touching the edge of a bruise can feel good in a way…

These are some of the ways I work with my mind when up-leveling. It is how I work with my clients when they are experiencing growing pains. It is how I show up as a facilitator, walking the path with a class for a new experience.

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