Not-A-Guru - Self Help - Practical Wisdom

IT'S WHAT YOU SCATTER

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Thu, 9 Jun 2011 11:27:00 +0800

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes... I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner)and the ragged boy next to me.
'Hello Barry, how are you today ?'

'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good.'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma ?'
'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'
'Good. Anything I can help you with ?'
'No, Sir. Jus' admirin' them peas.'

'Would you like to take some home ?' Asked Mr. Miller.
'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'

'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas ?'

'All I got's my prize marble here.'
'Is that right ? Let me see it' said Miller.
'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'
'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home ?' the store owner asked.

'Not zackley but almost.'

'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble'.. Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'
Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me..

With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes, or whatever.
When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'
I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.
Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died.. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could.
Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket.
Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and
moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping hiseyes.
Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.

They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size....they came to pay their debt.'
'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho ..'
With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitelyshined red marbles.

The Moral:
We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.
Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~ A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself...
An unexpected phone call from an old friend.... Green stoplights on your way to work....
The fastest line at the grocery store....
A good sing-along song on the radio...
Your keys found right where you left them.

Send this to the people you'll never forget. I just did...

If you don't send it to anyone, it means you are in way too much of a hurry to even notice the ordinary miracles when they occur.

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER THAT TELLS WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED !
~anonymous~

A Miracle - The Operation Of A Higher Law

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Mon, 31 Jan 2011 10:56:00 +0800

This is another of the myriad of messages that reached my inbox.

SUBJECT: Miracle -- You Want It ASAP ...

I'D LIKE THIS BACK IF IT APPLIES

A little girl went
to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet..

She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three
times, even. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes.

Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she
slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with
the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.

She waited patiently for
the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment.
Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat
with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No
good. Finally she took a
quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

'And what do you want?' the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of
voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages,' he
said without waiting for a reply to his question.

'Well, I want to talk
to you about my brother,' Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. 'He's
really, really sick....and I want to buy a miracle.'

'I beg your pardon?'
said the pharmacist.

'His name is Andrew and he has something bad
growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how
much does a miracle cost?'

'We don't sell miracles here, little girl.
I'm sorry but I can't help you,' the pharmacist said, softening a little.

'Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get
the rest. Just tell me how much it costs.'

The pharmacist's brother was
a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, 'What kind of a
miracle does your brother need?'

' I don't know,' Tess replied with her
eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an
operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money.'

'How much do you have?' asked the man from Chicago ..

'One dollar
and eleven cents,' Tess answered barely audible.

'And it's all the money
I have, but I can get some more if I need to.'

'Well, what a
coincidence,' smiled the man. 'A dollar and eleven cents---the exact price of a
miracle for little brothers.'

He took her money in one hand and with
the other hand he grasped her mitten and said 'Take me to where you live. I want
to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need.'

That well-dressed man
was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon,
specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it
wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well.

Mom and Dad were
happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place..

'That surgery,' her Mom whispered. 'was a real miracle.. I wonder how
much it would have cost?'

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a
miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents...plus the faith of a little child.

In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need.

A
miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law.
I know you'll keep the ball moving!

Here it goes. Throw it back to
someone who means something to you!

A ball is a circle, no beginning, no
end. It keeps us together like our Circle of Friends. But the treasure inside
for you to see is
the treasure of friendship you've granted to me.

Today
I pass the friendship ball to you.

Pass it on to someone who is a friend
to you.

MY OATH TO YOU....

When you are sad.....I will dry your
tears.

When you are scared......I will comfort your fears.

When
you are worried......I will give you hope.

When you are confused......I
will help you cope.

And when you are lost.....and can't see the light, I
shall be your beacon...shining ever so bright.

This is my oath......I
pledge till the end.

Why you may ask?....Because you're my friend.

Signed: GOD

INSTANTLY WHEN YOU RECEIVE THIS LETTER, YOU ARE
REQUESTED TO SEND IT TO AT LEAST 10 PEOPLE, INCLUDING THE PERSON WHO SENT IT TO
YOU.

Quotable Quotes

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Fri, 28 Jan 2011 15:38:00 +0800

"Luck? I don't know anything about luck. I've never banked on it and I'm afraid of people who do. Luck to me is something else: hard work — and realizing what is opportunity and what isn't."
– Lucille Ball

"Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it."
– Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Should Christians Celebrate Halloween? > Amazing Facts > Inside Report

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 22:20:00 +0800

Search Amazon.com for amazing factsShould Christians Celebrate Halloween? > Amazing Facts > Inside Report

Please check all that apply. This year for Halloween, I'll probably:

1) Dress the little ones up in costumes and escort them around our neighborhood to collect candy.

2) Check out the local haunted house.

3) Get together with some buddies to watch a scary movie.

4) Dress up in a devil suit and scare the neighborhood kids that knock on the front door.

5) Turn off the porch light and hope nobody finds me eating the three bags of Snickers bars I bought for trick-or-treaters.

Most people see nothing wrong with the activities listed above. They consider Halloween festivities to be a harmless way for their children to have an evening of "fantasy and fun."

But does this standard hold true for Christians? Is dressing up like ghosts, goblins, and witches really "no big deal"? Or is it glorifying and empowering Satan?

"The Whole Answer to the Problems of the Mind"

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 03:08:00 +0800

"But the point is, the knowledge is there, the knowledge isn't something I dreamed up, the knowledge is residual in you, or you wouldn't even be able to understand it. The knowledge is yours as much as mine. You should be able to know how to use that knowledge and you should be able to know all about that knowledge, and stop respecting it as something superspecial because it's just the woof and warp of which life is made.

"And if you don't understand all sides of it, you won't get anyplace."

— L. Ron Hubbard

Excerpted from the lecture The Whole Answer to the Problems of the Mind, delivered on 1 Jan 1961.

This can be found in the Anatomy of the Human Mind Congress lectures.

Life Transformation Now - Awareness - Abundance - Success

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 06:21:00 +0800

"Enlightening Video Reveals How to Transform Hidden Weaknesses, Lurking Negative Emotions, & Unconcious Mental Blockages into a Powerful Self-Awareness & Abundant Life Mentality That's Attractive, Successful, & Makes You Downright Capable of Creating ANYTHING You Want in Life..."

Man's Duty

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Tue, 7 Sep 2010 18:48:00 +0800

"The light of the body is the eye: therefore when thine eye is single, thy whole body also is full of light; but when thine eye is evil, thy body is full of darkness. Take heed therefore that the light which is in thee be not darkness. If thy whole body therefore be full of light, having no part dark, the whole shall be full of light, as when the bright shining of a candle doth give thee light." Luke 11:34-36.

This privilege is presented before every soul. Each may have heaven's light to guide him. If we discern the truth, and obey it, our whole course of action will be in accordance with the truth; for the truth sanctifies the receiver. But if men refuse to search for the truth as for hidden treasure, if the mind is pleased with the theories of error, the soul will remain in darkness. The course of the life, the development of the character, will be corrupted by false sentiments. Error never sanctifies. It can do no good. And how full of darkness is the soul that receives error as truth, and shapes his course of action in accordance with it.

By: Ellen White

August 23, 1898

Review & Herald

You Are The Captain...

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Fri, 3 Sep 2010 22:09:00 +0800

Everyone Creates Their Own Destiny!

Your Future Depends On The Decisions You Make Today and Each Day!

~You are the Captain of Your Flag Ship~

What's it gonna be today?

~Anon

INSANITY

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Fri, 3 Sep 2010 21:57:00 +0800

"Is Doing The Same Thing Over And Over Again And Expecting Different Results!"

~Albert Einstein

The Journey To Find the Absolute Truth

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 22:57:00 +0800

Truth. The ultimate, absolute truth, can not be explained. It can only be experienced. You can judge your spiritual experience by your emotions. By how you feel.

By probing with our emotions we become aware of certain things we either influence directly or indirectly.

What you believe true is true, though it may not be the absolute truth. And now realized that there is an absolute truth, that governs everything.

Today we come to know some of these things -- the natural laws: laws of gravity, electro-magnetics, light, sound, and more. And found that if we bend these laws certain adverse effects or conditions happen. So, we learn to abide by the laws and learn how to work with it in harmony, now we have electrical lights, electrical powered engines, ships, and the like. We have improve our probing process and call it science. We have science to help us find more of these laws. By probing with theories and hypothesis to established facts (consideration of truth, until proven otherwise) and used these facts to build our stable data (theorems and axioms and scientific theory or scientific method) to arrived at the absolute truth.

So that we can live in harmony and peacefully with our surroundings. And our progress will be smooth, fast and steady. And we can see today how science has helped us in many ways. It has help us improve our conditions for the better. And more importantly it has helped us realized that facts we consider to be true today may not yet be the absolute truth, no matter how we build and based these truths. (see scientific theory)

We can see many facts we consider may not be true. Such as the world is flat. Consider this public letter "Thoughts on Flash" of Steve Jobs of Apple, on facts about flash and why it is not supported in iPhones, iPods and iPads. Consider what you considered factual before and after reading it. Here's one article about Egg and Cholesterol - "Cholesterol and Eggs: How Many Eggs Can You Eat Per Day?". Here is more: "Top Ten Scientific Facts: Evolution is False and Impossible", "Top 10 Fascinating Facts That Are Wrong", "False Facts You Thought Were True", "Bad Science and False Facts". I believe there are more just by goolgling. My question is, how do you consider what is fact or what is truth?

Thanks to science we can continue probing our statements of facts (results from scientific studies and the like) till we arrived at the absolute truth. Or discard and continue if necessary; consider this "Science and Scientists".

And we realize that our interaction with other people around us is governed by certain laws or principles that science can not yet give us absolute answers, although we instinctively know the answers are just around us to perceive. And we come to know understand and realized these principles exists. So we keep on and found things we can appreciate. Our libraries today are filled with books in several viewpoints conveying some of these principles. Principles of communication, business, human relationships, about creating wealth and many more. About our origins? We are just beginning to comprehend.

At one point in time man had these principles already in his heart and mind. That whatever he does was always in accord and in harmony and prospers. Because these principles are in his heart and mind. Along the timeline man lost these principles and is no longer in the heart of man.

But the principles that governed us all are still there.

We live day by day blinded by our cares and worries. We consider valuable. We pursue these things by the wisdom we have gained. In the process we discover that somethings we do work and some things do not.

I did not care about such things myself, at one point in time, in my life.

And even if we do not care we always come at a crossroad at some point in our lives and come to a realization that interests, happiness, joy, love, health, peace, harmony, serenity, wealth, enthusiasm can be had or experience by doing certain things in certain ways.

This realization is just the beginning of what is now called spiritual awakening. For once we were blind but now we begin to see there is light. And our journey to finding the truth, the absolute truth now begins.

The scientific method is among the greatest achievements of man. And it has clearly served man well. Today we are in the chasm of material things and the spiritual realm and the scientific method is not against or biased method to find answers we can build upon.

Spiritual experience is hard to explain or can not be explained; only experienced. How do you consider what is spiritually true?

About Not-A-Guru

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Wed, 18 Aug 2010 16:31:00 +0800

Not-A-Guru is:

not a guru
not a pastor of any church
not a catholic priest
not a bishop
not a clergyman

Not-A-Guru just wants to share his Precious Gems of Thought, Knowledge, Wisdom, Understanding, Wins, Realizations and more that he picks up along his life's journey. From his own personal experience and what he had gained from other people's experience. Recommends some reading materials and also write some reviews.

To some people Not-A-Guru is:

a son
a brother
a friend
a life coach
a minister
an educator
a preacher
a speaker
a nobody

Not-A-Guru is just an ordinary individual with an extra-ordinary passion: sharing practical philosophy and coaching practical tools that can help anyone who would receive them. He respects every individual for what they believe in: their opinions, beliefs and faiths. He has dreams bigger than life: Making his world a little better one person at a time.

Not-A-Guru wants one to become aware that one has the power of choice. The power to choose Life or Death; that every single moment of everyday one make choices, whether one is conscious about it or not.

That what one is today is largely the result of one's choices made yesterday.

That what one will become tomorrow will be largely the result of one's choices today.

That one would choose Life and not Death.

He is he.

Not-A-Guru can be reach at not-a-guru.blogspot.com

Truth of the matter: Scientific Fact?

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 18:52:00 +0800

What one believed to be true is true. So, truth is relative. Like reality. It depends on who believes. And again, education and upbringing plays an important role in one's beliefs. It encompasses the material world and the spiritual realm. "True Lies".

But there is an Absolute Truth. In the material world absolute truth is established in the principles known as Natural Laws. And the spiritual realm is governed with love, faith and hope.

And so about Fraud. What one believed to be fraud is fraud. Until proven otherwise. False Truth?.

Allow me to be your spiritual guide for a moment to imagine that you are innocent. You do not know fraud. Now, let's begin. As you continue to read, start to imagine. Everything about you, is just true and perfect and you begin to give them a name and call them one by one by name, as a master; the objects you perceive: touch, see, hear, smell, taste and you have established for yourself your own facts for the material world. You now call, reality, for yourself. And then you realize these things have their own certain peculiar characteristics and behave and responds to different stimulus in certain peculiar ways. You then make judgments, considerations, decisions and conclusions you simply call facts. These then you call some truths about the nature of these things and build your data.

First, you have established facts for yourself about these things in order to relate yourself with these things then you probe these facts and found out the true nature of these things and found how these things behave in certain ways, to finally found the natural laws about these things. The absolute truth. Thus, build your stable data.

You also conclude that there may be more to be gained and learned more from these things than what has already been found.

And you begin to realize that things behave in certain ways and in harmony about other things around them. And realize that there is a natural order of things. We now call natural laws.

Then, you begin to move further and explore yourself. And you come to know your desires. There are things you want. There are things you need. And things you can not live without. In the same way you probe on these things to find the natural behaviour of these things and how you respond to these things in certain ways. To find the absolute truth.

Continue to imagine, you are still innocent. You are made perfect. Everything you do is perfect, and in accord and in harmony around things about you.

You continue to look around you and you see different kinds of animals and you find yourself alone and you begin to gather that there is more to living than just having all these things around you though in harmony. You begin to enter the chasm between the material and spiritual realm. You begin to investigate your feelings. You recognized interest, cheerfulness, enthusiasm, love, joy, happiness, peace and serenity.

You look up to the sky, to the open space and you begin to wonder what is up there. You soar up there and you feel free. As a bird. You look and wonder around, and have this eerie feeling that some eyes are looking at you. You look around and do not see anything. You close your eyes and feel the presence of somebody bigger than you. Bigger than life and holding you up. And you just know He is in charge of everything.

You shed tears with these realization. You linger for a moment on this warm feeling of love, warmth and comfort. Wipe your tears and look at the world below. You see familiar faces and a warm tingly feeling warming you up.

As you continue to look at these faces you begin to understand some parts of yourself. You recognize the look of love, respect, need, warm friendship and brotherly love. And linger for a moment on these feeling. Before you return to the present time. You look around you to check and account your present surroundings. You listen and observe how you feel. Now you are satisfied you are back at present time.

What you have just envisioned in that brief moment could be facts or absolute truth. Depending on what kind of data you have -- facts. These are considerations -- things you consider. We make considerations in the absence of absolute truth from stable data. We use our stable data to make correct choices, decisions, judgments, conclusions and considerations we call facts and build more facts on it till we have stable data.

We realized for the most part we have build our facts on the material world. We call scientific fact. Which may or may not be absolute truth. And we have to, in order to move on. We have tamed gravity, electricity and now we are beginning to discover quantum physics and more. In the spiritual world we have not yet, though we try to use science to help us with. We call Psychology and Psychiatry and for the most part of it, we are successful in reducing man to a matter rather than a whole being, a living soul, a spiritual being. For the most part of it, though we do not intend to ignore them, they are ignored, so it seemed. By continuing to build on whatever facts we have gathered just so we can moved on. And we moved with the flow not knowing where it leads. Is it because it cannot be explained? As it is said, it can only be experienced. A few though, have awakened and strive to wake up others to see the light.

Action

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 23:08:00 +0800

"And a man is as sick as he will not act. That makes sense to you, doesn't it? He's as sick as he won't act, and he's as mediumly sick as he'll think about it.

"His feeling about action should be such that his computation is taken for granted and the action is sure, competent and certain. He says to himself, 'Act!' and he acts. And he acts with good sense, with a good estimation of effort, with good placement of his force and so on. He acts."

— L. Ron Hubbard

Excerpted from the lecture Illusion Processing and Therapy delivered in November 1952.

This lecture can be found in Volume 12 of the Research & Discovery Series on page 281.

Spiritual Awakening

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 22:03:00 +0800

The World is experiencing a massive, collective spiritual awakening. Evidenced by changes in laws & governments to be more open and friendly towards global integration. Encouraging personal empowerment.

Governments that continue to be restrictive tends to become stagnant and risk falling behind in all areas of human progress: In economics (the more obvious), education, information technology, wellness, entrepreneurship, group dynamics and social networking and social media, spirituality and spiritual awareness or consciousness.

Never in the history of man was information readily available in one's finger tips at a push of several buttons and keys in a computer keyboard, than today and is freely and readily available.

Man's hunger and thirst for truth has set the momentum at a growing and increasing pace. To find the truth and set man free. As it has been said: "The truth shall set you free."

The collective consciousness of humankind is awakening to the absolute truth.

Will man embrace the truth?

Luck

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Sun, 8 Aug 2010 22:39:00 +0800

Are there people who are lucky? Do you believe in luck? I ask a handful of friends these questions including myself.

It seems luck is happening to certain people. If so, wouldn't it be nice if we know what kind of people? Is it a certain race? Creed or religion? And why would I be interested?

I do not know what is luck. I mean, I do not have an immediate answer when I ask myself this question. So I look into myself and ask what have I learned from my past experiences about luck.

From my experience, I gathered luck is a favor to the undeserved. Then, I came across few more words: mercy, grace and favor. I continue this line of inquiry about myself--couldn't be mercy, grace and favor for these can come from someone. Can luck come from someone? Grace can come from someone, but there is also someone bigger than life who can give us grace. Can luck be a result of that grace from someone bigger than life?

Does luck happen to certain people? Are certain people favored? And I'm back to the question: Why would I be interested in what it is? And What is luck?

My friends' answers were:

You won the lottery.

You found 500 bucks on the way.

You won the game.

You got the most beautiful girl on the block.

You got the favorable situation.

Do you believe in luck?

And these are the answers I got:

Yes. Of course, I do.

It depends on the situation.

I closed my eyes and ponder upon the questions: How do I came to understand luck as I understood it now? Am I right in my understanding? What beliefs have I formed from my understanding of the word? How is it shaping my world?

By this simple inquiry I came to conclude that the belief or unbelief of luck plays an important part in our consciousness, and so are the words grace, mercy and favor. And for the most part we carry it from the past experiences and bring it forward automatically--unconsciously. And formed our new beliefs on top of existing beliefs we have already formed by it.

Now, I'm back to square one. And I realize I didn't have clear understanding of what luck really is. Everything I have learned about it are based from the past experience with the assumptions that it is true. I have never really questioned the integrity of my sources until now and I have arrived at square one again. So I decided to consult google.

This is what I got:

fortune: your overall circumstances or condition in life (including everything that happens to you); "whatever my fortune may be"; "deserved a better fate"; "has a happy lot"; "the luck of the Irish"; "a victim of circumstances"; "success that was her portion"

an unknown and unpredictable phenomenon that causes an event to result one way rather than another; "bad luck caused his downfall"; "we ran into each other by pure chance"

an unknown and unpredictable phenomenon that leads to a favorable outcome; "it was my good luck to be there"; "they say luck is a lady"; "it was as if fortune guided his hand"
wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

Luck or fortuity is a belief in good or bad fortune in life caused by accident or chance, and attributed by some to reasons of faith or superstition, which happens beyond a person's control.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Luck

Now, if you ask me again. Do I believe in luck? My answer is a definite Yes. I believe in luck. I believe I am lucky. I created luck.

An Arab student's email

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Sun, 8 Aug 2010 21:55:00 +0800

An Arab student sends an e-mail to his dad, saying:

Dear Dad

Berlin is wonderful, people are nice and I really
like it here, but Dad, I am a bit ashamed to arrive
at my college with my pure-gold Ferrari 599GTB
when all my teachers and many fellow students
travel by train.

Your son, Nasser

The next day, Nasser gets a reply to his e-mail
from his dad:

My dear loving son

Twenty million US Dollar has just been transferred
to your account. Please stop embarrassing us.

Go and get yourself a train too.

Love, your Dad

Love At First Sight

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Fri, 6 Aug 2010 19:34:00 +0800

Yes. I believe in love at first sight. We were created to love. We are capable to love.

But love doesn't just happen by chance. Love is a decision, a choice that we all make. That decision is either auto or otherwise. Conscious or not. And basically influenced by our belief system. Love at first sight is basically an auto-decision.

We have created an ideal situation based on what we have experienced in the past, we do additions and subtractions, multiplications and divisions to visualize that ideal. As time goes by we pile up beliefs, conclusions, decisions and judgements. These influence the choice we make every single moment, that includes Love. To love or not to love.

We make automatic choices every moment and most of these choices we are not aware of. And one of these is "Love At First Sight".

Yes. Love at first sight Can happen. And when two people at an instant decides to create a relationship, and keep at it, it will flourish.

The keywords here are "create", "decides" and "keep on creating it". A relationship cannot exist with just one person.

And any relationship for this matter will flourish for as long as they both continue to "create" it.

One person Can Love At First Sight without the other. But for the relationship to flourish it needs two to tango. If one person do not agree, there can be no relationship.

What is Love?

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Thu, 5 Aug 2010 22:57:00 +0800

Love is a deep emotional feeling. And that feeling originates from one's decision, one's choice. That choice is influence from one's past. Whether one is conscious about it (which is ideal) or not.

We are capable of loving. "Falling in love" is a term we use for luck of a better definition of the chemistry which resulted from the unconscious automatic decision of one based on a stimuli or trigger. And "falling out of love" is a term we use when one is disillusioned and one then "chooses to stop creating" the love relationship anymore.

Yes, Love is a feeling, a deep emotional feeling. That feeling doesn't just fall from the sky, or just happen by chance. It is created, by ones will. It is the result of one's decision to love, governed by the power of choice, influenced and triggered by ones beliefs.

Nobody falls out of love, but that term is very handy to use to justify that one has stopped creating it. It is more acceptable to use because it frees one from being responsible of creating it--falling in and falling out. But it also starts a vicious cycle of falling in and falling out, because of that simple justification. Until one realizes that this feeling is a creation.

Does Love Hurt?

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Thu, 5 Aug 2010 22:33:00 +0800

My short answer is Love Cannot Hurt.

When one loves someone, one creates happiness for the one being loved.

When one is in a relationship and stops loving it follows also that happiness is not created anymore. So it hurts. It hurts because Love is not there anymore.

One person already stops loving.

When two people *create" a relationship, there is affinity in love there, there is understanding and love is reciprocated.

The absence of understanding makes it hurt.

It's like when you ask someone or talk to someone and you don't get an answer or a reply, a space is created. In the relationship this space becomes bigger and bigger and separates a relationship, till one cannot occupy the same space with the same person any longer. and one just leave and go on to ask someone else so that one's question get an answer, and one don't get a big hurt by this.

In a relationship there is a couple of sticky elements: commitment & responsibility. This is what makes it hurt. Because this two elements get in the way when two people cannot come into agreement.

Disagreement is basically the result of not understanding in common terms of what commitment is and what responsibility is. there must be a common understanding of what these are before two can agree.

It is simple but it is not easy.

What makes it difficult? This word assume "ass-u-me".

Two people have wonderful feelings towards each other and so "assume" (in the back of there minds, unconsciously, automatically, based on past experiences) that each of there ideas of commitment & responsibility is understood except that the question of "do we really have the same understanding?" is not really answered matter-of-fact yet, so an answer is "assumed".

It does seem harmless but when two people just assume, there actions will speak louder and soon enough they will see their differences in their understanding about "commitment & responsibility" louder. And soon find themselves making an "ass of each other" -- ass of u and me -- ass-u-me.

Love cannot hurt. When one is in a relationship and got hurt. Perhaps, it was not love at all. It was something else.

But on the other hand, love has become a meaningless word. Meaningless in a sense that not everyone know what love really is.

Language today has evolved so fast especially the english language. It is successfully exported to a number of countries and also picks up words from these countries. Not only that, from which it originates, the meaning, the usage, the context, also evolved and continues to evolve. And in any language it could mean a lot of different things.

That when we ask what love is, we would get different answers, and some of these answers would conflict accross different groups, age, gender, race, creed, and the like.

I love your picture, I love ice cream, I love you--whatever that means.

Meaningless in a sense that even though we know what love means our actions doesn't show what love really is. Because love is now camouflage.

I love you, too.

Good Relationships Are Created

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Thu, 5 Aug 2010 21:42:00 +0800

Cover of Making Love

Relationships are created by all parties involved, let's say a man and woman relationship -- is created by the man and the woman.

That relationship started by a thought which defines how the relationship is going to be. That thought is defined by our wants, desires, likes and the likes... and been tainted with bad experiences firsthand, secondhand and thirdhand. That influenced our judgments, conclusions, considerations and decisions about how our relationship is going to be.

My definition of Firsthand, Secondhand and Thirdhand:
Firsthand experiences are what we went thru in life personally, that involves us directly. Secondhand is what we learned, felt and influenced thru our friends and neighbors and relatives, that we draw our own decisions, judgments, considerations and conclusions from for lack of a better one. Thirdhand is what we come to agree on what we see from all media surrounding us--TV, Internet, Radio, Magazines, The Papers, including this article without doing much computation whether this is in fact truthful or not.

That first thought however is pure--meaning--all the perfect ideals that we want it to be. Untainted. But we come to this world by a relationship between a man and a woman, without which it would be impossible. This two people have formed an agreement (whether this is verbal, public, whatever, but the fact is, there is an agreement (consensus), otherwise they could not have been in a relationship) This agreement, however, is based on their judgments, conclusions, considerations and decisions. And this could be tainted. (I'm not saying it is right or wrong, because right or wrong is relative to what we agree.)

So we evolved because what we agree and accept evolves and become the norm of society. And the majority leads and dictates. It is not uncommon to see fragments of society today. For example, we now have four genders; people who are politically neutral; and many more.

The experience of one so expressed in any discussion may well represent a fraction of a segment in our society--meaning--there are a few people if not several who shares and agree with the same experience because they can relate to such experience. Man or woman their agreement to one's experience equates to their own reality. And so, thru this the experience is confirmed and will be recreated again, not necessarily by the same person but other people perceiving this experience and somehow triggers a desire, a want to experience the same, so the thought sparks, if it catches fire it will soon happen.

Given that, our definition of a relationship determines the outcome. Because the definition is the sum total of what we desire, want, believe, judge, conclude, consider and decide.

Therefore, if we can examine our desires, wants, beliefs, judgments, conclusions, considerations and decisions about relationships, we will become aware of what is ideal and we would always calculate to choose what is ideal. Because man and woman are basically good and will always do good for the betterment of the relationship.

By examination, we can weed out what is not ideal and we hold on to what is ideal and pure.

May our relationships be what we truly want and build conciously. Cheers!

Thank you for indulging me.

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Valuable Time Lost

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Wed, 4 Aug 2010 21:48:00 +0800

Just lost valuable time. The thoughts I have written down lost. All in an instant that the computer crashed. I'm taking a deep breath now and trying to calm down and relax into a meditative state to ease up the stressed that now I felt surged up my veins.

I'm a lot better now. The work is gone. Till next time again.

Oh, I'm working on an internet cafe for now.

The Strangest Secret

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Mon, 2 Aug 2010 19:57:00 +0800

The Best Way to Earn Money is by providing people with services or products which are needed and useful in exchange for money. Therefore. Financial return will be in direct proportion to our SERVICE ~Dr. Earl Nightingale.

Share Another's Burden

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Mon, 2 Aug 2010 17:18:00 +0800

When we share another's burden, we display God's love and care, offering relief and comfort when life seems too much to bear. True compassion puts love to action. The Lord is gracious and full of compassion.

~Ps. 111:4; Luke 10:30-37
~from a friend~

The Mystery of God's Grace

noreply@blogger.com (Henri Ligsay) — Mon, 2 Aug 2010 17:02:00 +0800

This is the mystery of God's grace -- it never comes too late. Expect God to meet your offer today. Expect your prayers to be answered today. Believe in the God who believes in you.

Do you work as if everything depends on you?

But pray to God as if everything depends on Him.

~from a friend~

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