Vince DeLisi Asks Now What Do I Really Think?

occupying y mind

2011-10-05T12:06:00.001-07:00

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Cabin Fever Forces My Mind To Work

2011-03-02T09:21:00.000-08:00

As I continue to heal from Charcot Foot, at least another 10 days in a cast, I have the opportunity to learn, observe and discover. There is a positive to every negative, and I have to say this to myself a number of times a day. It is easy to feel sorry for myself falling into the why me mindset. That simply is not an option. I say that countless times a day as well.

I decided to work on my diabetes during my recovery. It would be so easy to sit, eat and gain weight. I have the perfect excuse; I am on crutches, what else is there to do? Thanks to technology, I am making sure the above does not happen. An app on my new HTC Incredible Smartphone allows me to track my blood sugar. Wow, this is great. I am now aware of what I put in my mouth, and what is the most effective way to take my meds.

Here are some of the changes I have implemented in my battle with diabetes:

Portion control keeps my blood sugars in check. Six small meals a day works for me. My hba1c results were over 10. That is terrible, just dangerous. Since i have changed my eating habits, my projected results are 5.3 that is a miracle!!

While in the hospital in January with a pulmonary embolism, an angel was sent to me in the form of a night nurse. Despite taking proper meds my morning blood sugars were high, 185-250 range. Normal about 72-120. My nurse told me the lack of a snack with good carbs was raising my sugars. We tried adding two sticks of string cheese. Last week my morning sugars averaged 90.

So while I have very little mobility, the chance to look at patterns has helped me turn things around quickly. I feel the difference, my blood circulation is better, my stress level is so much better, I have taken a negative and turned it into a positive. Controlling diabetes is a mindset which I can control. Those of you with this horrible disease must admit you have it, and must learn how to control it. Make sure you test your blood numerous times a day, change your eating habits and learn about the advances in fighting diabetes, a fight only you can control.

Starting The Week “Running”

2011-02-28T12:03:00.000-08:00

As much as I can on crutches!!!

It does slow my body down, but not my mind. First of all, being handicapped for a while has allowed me to work on my blood sugar. It has been under control for the most part, and thanks to an app, I can track it and see the effects from food, pain and stress.

Pain can make one say things not really meant, it is like open mouth and insert that casted foot.

With that in mind…

The Oscar telecast was not one of their best. The hosts, Anne Hathaway and James Franco were out of their element. It was most evident when Billy Crystal took the stage to honor Bob Hope. Crystal was funny, quick witted and very much at home; please bring him back!!! Going young was not a great move by the academy.

The highlights of the broadcast, Kirk Douglas, Michelle Leo and the kids from Staten Island singing their hearts out. It was not necessary to hear from President Obama on the greatest song ever, it is so much better to keep politics out of this show.

The pre show was painful; I could not stay to the end. Host Robin Roberts looked great, but if she were more sugary, I would have had to use more insulin to keep my diabetes in check, she made Larry King look like a solid journalist.

I mentioned I tuned out of the pre show, for all who were posting and tweeting how much they did not like the broadcast, no one was making you watch. Change the channel next time. It really is that simple.

My mind now runs to baseball. It was great to watch a little bit of preseason baseball. Watching the Yankees first game, I really enjoyed the tribute to the late George Steinbrenner. It ended with the Boss’s granddaughter singing the National Anthem. It was not about her, but her lovely voice showed how it should be sung. Christina Aguilera, please take note.

Watching the Lakers and Thunder on Sunday reinforced my contention one needs only to watch the last five minutes of any NBA game.

I could go on and on this morning, but what will I talk about in my next blog? Enjoy your week!!

Rumblings In My Mind

2011-02-25T09:52:00.000-08:00

More than a week with a cast on my right leg, more than a week with my brain working in overdrive. It was one year ago the body of Chelsea King was discovered; her life taken by a low life sexual predator. My prayers to the family, and they have all of my support in getting Chelsea’s Law passed in the rest of the country; one strike and you are out for sexual predators. To learn more go to www.chelseaslight.org.

Bullies beware. I am not talking about kids, but a friend of mine has the neighbor from hell. She has gone from throwing garbage on my friends’ porch to vandalizing personal property. The police have spoken to her once; her bullying tactics will not be tolerated. She is like a train going towards a wall; she will crash, hopefully before she injures someone.

Charlie Sheen needs help. He has more than crossed the line. I have had nothing but positive experiences with Charlie and his dad Martin. I feel for Martin and pray Charlie will realize how out of control he is. The bottom line, if he does not admit he needs help, he cannot be taken off this self destructive path.

I too have crossed the line, not taking care of my health after first being diagnosed with diabetes some 20 years ago. I would not accept the fact I was diabetic. I knew better, I would be just fine. This is not much different than the mindset of Charlie Sheen, until I accepted diabetes, nothing could help me. Without the encouragement and support of friends and loved ones, I would not be here today. It only took a by-pass, seven stents and now Charcot foot, the reason I am casted, to finally realize the severity of what this nasty illness has done for me. The power of prayer is getting me through this current setback.

I believe our President has crossed the line. When he told the justice department to stop defending the constitutionality of the defense of marriage act he has overstepped his office. A president cannot decide what is constitutional or not. There are three branches of our government. In case any of our political leaders were not paying attention in class, the three are the Executive, Legislative and Judicial. There is a process to declare a law unconstitutional, and it should be followed period! No one person or branch of government has the right to unilaterally make a decision of this magnitude.

Finally I would like to thank all who have offered encouragement, help and love during my latest medical problems. You are all wonderful.

One Year Later

2011-02-23T10:38:00.000-08:00

This is the headline of a post by Brent King, the father of the late Chelsea King who was brutally murdered by a low life sexual predator whose name I will not print, no more “fame” for him. In his post Mr. King makes some important points, here are a few:

• Why do we not prosecute people who are complicit in allowing violent sexual predators to live where they aren’t registered, go to a public park unsupervised and drink alcohol, and violate parole rules?

• How is it that the cost to incarcerate a criminal who has harmed society is higher than the cost to educate a college student with dreams and desires to better our world?

• Why do we provide a higher level of care for felons who steal our children’s freedoms than soldiers who protect our freedoms with their lives?

• Why is the criminal the only citizen in the United States guaranteed health care?

The King family is living through pain on a daily basis, one I cannot imagine. Through his organization “Chelsea’s Light”, a law was passed here in California, which makes this type of sexual attack a one strike offense, jail for life, off the streets so these lowlifes can never do this again. He was told a law like this would never pass, it did overwhelmingly. Mr. King now wants Chelsea’s Law passed in the other 49 states. I encourage all of you to go on to the Facebook page Chelsea’s Light or the website www.chelseaslight.org and support this cause and this family. There are a number of events we can easily get involved in to help reach their goal.

I am so tired of seeing how criminals are coddled in this country. We hear so much about their rights… what about the rights of innocent citizens. Losing a child is hard enough, losing a child to a sexual predator should never have to happen. We can all play a part in making sure a predator can never do this a second time.

My prayers go out to thing King family, I do not know them, however I think about them often. Let us all help in their fight, and please read Mr. King’s post.

Watching The World From A new Perspective

2011-02-21T17:45:00.000-08:00

It is easy to take things for granted, walking, driving, running, playing to name a few. With my right foot in a cast, no driving for me, and getting around with crutches is no easy task. I almost fell down stairs once, my cast must not have weight bearing pressure, and I cannot fend for myself. I am recovering from Charcot foot, a side effect from my diabetes. If you or your loved one is a diabetic make sure you take care and follow doctors advice, and get out of denial, a denial which has caused me numerous health problems

It is very interesting to see the world from this perspective. I have to rely on the kindness of people, those I know and perfect strangers. If it were not for friends I could not get around to visit my doctors or to get food from the grocery stores. I would be stuck at home watching television and reading and sleeping. I have some wonderful friends, who offer their help, and it is so appreciated, I cannot express how much in the length of a blog.

What has amazed me are the perfect strangers. It is great that stores I frequent for food, Von’s, Ralph’s and Fresh and Easy all have these cool motorized carts for me to get around. I was trying to do that at Von’s with my crutches with me and I almost wiped out half an isle of food. As this was happening, a man with his son ran over to help me out. What a great example for his little one to see, he is lucky to have a father who is such a role model.

As I was waiting for my ride after a Fresh and Easy visit to come and get me a man in his 80’s asked if I needed any help. A number of people have waited for me to get to a doorway to hold it open for me. At Von’s the Starbucks personnel went to find a motorized cart for me, well above their responsibilities.

I went and did some clothing shopping at the Stein Mart in Santa Clarita California, and a worker there went and got me a wheel chair so I did not have to hobble around with my crutches. Wow, given the chance the majority of people are so kind and helpful.

What would this blog be without some interesting stories other than of kindness? The entitled generation could care less if I was having a problem or struggling, especially in the liquor isles. One such young man backed right into my path, lucky for him I knew how to stop the cart, he was annoyed at me being in his way, how dare I drive my cart when he decided he needed to step back.

My favorite story though had a woman with her shopping cart blocking everyone being in the middle of the isle while talking to a man. When he saw me he suggested the lady move her cart. She looked at me with a disgusted expression and asked me what were the magic words? I looked at her only as I can and said, “One drives on the right in America, not in the middle.”

A huge THANK YOU to all of these perfect strangers and close friends who have offered their help. It feels so good to know people really do care whether they know you or not.

A Dog’s Purpose

2011-02-18T08:57:00.000-08:00

If you have not read this book, it is a must read. It is all about the lives of a dog, when he passes and comes back as another dog with a new master. This book will touch all of your emotions. I laughed, was concerned and even had tears reading this book (I actually listened to the book while driving).

I have a story of two dogs, Mia and Ruby. These two angels actually alerted me to some health issues. In December I began not feeling well. I thought it was just a cold, or stress, or both. Ruby and her human came to visit Mia and her human. Ruby is a great dog as is Mia, and Ruby is very attached to her human, however Ruby would not leave my side, I was visiting Mia and her human.

It was almost like Ruby was trying to mother me. Mia, much smaller than Ruby was covering me with her body, almost like she was trying to protect me. As my symptoms became worse, the reaction of these two dogs made me get myself to the doctor much sooner than I usually would. It took the doctors a few days, but they found a pulmonary embolism in my lung, and are treating it. My two dog friends knew something was going on and since their behavior was so different than normal, I was much more aware of what was going on inside of me.

I now am more aware changes in my diabetes. This is all thanks to my best friends, Mia and Ruby. So why are people so nasty to dogs, why are there puppy mills where dogs are abused, and why do the Michael Vicks’ of the world find joy in making dogs fight each other to the death?

I cannot start to answer these questions; I can only point them out and be part of the fight to end puppy mills and dog fighting. Do I think Michael Vick has paid his debt to society, maybe but to the dogs, not even close. I find it hard to believe he has had such a turn around.

If you know a store is selling dogs from puppy mills, most stores do, do not support that store. If you know about puppy mills, let the authorities know. These poor defenseless pups cannot fend for themselves; we need to fend for them.

I urge all of you if you want a pet, adopt one. Mia, a Boston Terrier, was rescued from an organization called Boston Buddies. They find the pups, young and old, care for them, and find forever homes for them. This is one of thousands of dog rescues. Visit them and you can find your forever dog, your new best friend.

Time Is On My Side

2011-02-15T09:09:00.000-08:00

Yes it is, or is it? I discovered this week I have another attack to my system thanks to diabetes. I have been diagnosed with Charcot foot. Here is a brief description from drfoot.co.uk:

“In Charcot foot, pain perception and the ability to sense the position of the joints in the foot are severely impaired or lost, and muscles lose their ability to support the joint(s) properly. Loss of these motor and sensory nerve functions allow minor traumas such as sprains and stress fractures to go undetected and untreated, leading to ligament laxity (slackness), joint dislocation, bone erosion, cartilage damage, and deformity of the foot. The bones most often affected are the metatarsals and the tarsals, located in the forefoot and mid foot,”

So here I am with a boot on my foot and on crutches. After a MRI tonight I will have a full cast placed on my foot for a few weeks. This is affecting my right foot so no driving for me.

Wow no driving! What am I going to do? How do I get to the doctors’, how do I get to the grocery store and how to I get to Starbucks for my daily iced coffee or iced tea?

I have to do something which I find very hard to do, ask for help. No choice here, my kids live back east so no family help, so I am reaching out, and I am finding people are wonderful. I have offers for rides, visits, and even suggestions. I needed to get crutches on Monday, and instead of paying full price, a friend told me to check out Goodwill Stores. Many people donate their used crutches, I found a pair “like new” for a substantial savings, very important with my added medical expenses. Getting help from friends is the easy part I am finding out. The tough part, is dealing with yet another diabetic problem. After spending 10 days in the hospital with a pulmonary embolism, I was hoping my health issues would stabilize. When my foot became swollen I went to see my doctor who sent me to my foot doctor. All of the classic symptoms were there, very strong pulse, my foot was warm, my bones were cracking, and my x-ray showed numerous cracks on it. I cannot afford to become depressed because of my latest setback.

I am blessed with great friends, doctors who care, and an outlet to write about my feelings. For the next few weeks I will be able to do a great deal of thinking and learning about Charcot foot and diabetes. I will figure out how to change my lifestyle even more to slow any diabetic problems in the future. I will have time on my side to talk with and visit with all of the wonderful people who send out prayers and offers of help. A big THANK YOU, to all of you who let me lean on you.

Here I Go Again

2011-02-11T14:52:00.000-08:00

So much has gotten my attention. The first thing, as I watch gas prices rise on an average of two cents a day, I wonder why this is not headline news like it was let us say three years ago. Then I was told big oil controlled the government. There was a change at the top; did big oil just change where they sent their checks?

If we needed an investigation then, we need one now. A coincidence? I think not, to quote one of my favorite characters Leroy Jethro Gibbs, I don’t believe in coincidences.

Next up, puppy mills. 20 Golden Retriever pups were rescued at a mill, emaciated. We all need to speak out for our little friends who cannot speak for themselves. If you want a puppy or older dog rescue one. There are so many out there who are crying for our help and love. I have experience with a rescue group called Boston Buddies. They will go to any length to rescue Boston Terriers, and get them well before they are adopted. Speak out about puppy mills and any stores who sell puppy mill dogs, please.

Another one of our politicians has just resigned after being caught lying about his marital status, and posted shirtless pictures of himself on Craig’s List. Good riddance to him. Why is anyone surprised? He lied; politicians lie every day, a fact admitted by Governor Jerry Brown of California. He said this prior to his election and was still voted in. I implore both sides of the isle to do a better job in checking out their candidates, and we should do a better job at picking the person who wants to earn our vote.

Finally on a personal note, I am again dealing with medical issues, which I want to keep private, but any good thoughts will be much appreciated.

It Is Heart Month

2011-02-09T09:40:00.000-08:00

It is getting closer to Valentine’s Day. Will Cupid finally hit you with his arrow? That arrow has more than love in it; it has information in it as well. Valentine’s month is also Heart month.

Cardiovascular disease is a leading cause of death among diabetics. Chronic high blood sugar readings can cause a narrowing of the arteries. Couple that with high cholesterol which adds fatty deposits to the arteries and that is a formula for disaster. A heart attack may be just around the corner. Coronary Artery Disease restricts blood flow to the heart,

Many with diabetes deny they have this disease for years. I was one living in denial, and I have been rewarded with a by-pass, seven stents, depression, minor strokes and high blood pressure to name a few. I am one of the lucky ones so far. My medical team has worked very hard with me to understand that all my denial was doing was sending me to an early grave.

I need to keep on working to improve my health. I watch my diet, I need to exercise more, keep my weight down, I lost 63 pounds last year and am keeping it off.

If you have been told you are diabetic, stop the denial. If you stay on top of this nasty disease you can have a much easier time keeping it in check. You will not beat diabetes if you ignore it. It will not go away, and you cannot cure yourself by wishing it away. You need to get a team together to work on your diabetes. They cannot do it for you, they can work with you, however if you are not willing to become involved you will pay for it in the future. It is never too late to accept the fact you are diabetic. You are fighting for your life.

There are so many tools to help you fight diabetes and prevent heart disease, or stop any further damage. Websites like the American Diabetes Association, American Heart Association, dLife and others have a wealth of information to help you and your medical teams formulate a plan for you.

So come on Cupid, hit us with that information arrow now!!

From A Super Game to a Super Flub

2011-02-07T09:13:00.000-08:00

I enjoyed the Super Bowl. It was not the outcome I wanted. But the game was good. My Steelers had two things going against them. They made too many mistakes, and had the curse. I am talking about the curse of Fox Sports sideline reporter Chris Meyers. Anytime my old friend reports on a team from a sideline, they lose. NFL teams take notice.

Congratulations to Packer fans. If anyone had to win the Lombardi Trophy, other than my Steelers, going to Green Bay the home of the great Italian American coach Vince Lombardi is something I can deal with. Packer fans showed all of us how to celebrate a win with class, no looting, no overturned cars, no fires, take note Laker fans.

Now to our National Anthem. Shame on you Christina Aguilera!!! There is no need to make the anthem all about you.  Yes you did issue an apology statement.  In the future, just go out there and honor your country by signing it and getting the words right! You interpretation is not important here.  And for those interviewed saying they did not care about our anthem, they just wanted to see the game, I suggest two things 1) question the  education you received, 2 ) go back in history and read The Fall of the Roman Empire. We should all take pride and know our national anthem, and be thankful when we have a change in government leaders we do not have to experience a situation like Egypt is experiencing.  If we continue in this country to care just about “me”, if we continue to be entitled, The Fall of the Roman Empire will eventually repeat itself in the United States of America. Today it would be called a remake, putting in movies terms.

Back to the game, I am proud of myself. Statistics show an increase in heart attacks when your team loses in the Super Bowl. Dealing with my pulmonary embolism kept me from getting too emotional making sure I did not aggravate my condition.  (Note: it will take about two months for my body to absorb the blood clot).   My friends watching the game with me saw a calm, but vocal, Vince, I did not rant and rave like I normally do.   After the game all I could think, ok it is time for pitchers and catchers!! I did not pay much attention to the commercials, all of the pre game hype about them took the surprise away, and I don’t see a VW for me in the future.

My favorite food this year; a tie between homemade chicken soup and a Fresh and Easy “pizza” made with chicken, spices and blue cheese. I don’t call it a “pizza” because the grease floating on top was missing, SIGH!   This pizza was much healthier and really tasty.  The good news, there was no spike to my blood sugar later in the evening.

OK football is over, Let’s Go Yankees!!!

Thoughts To Wrap Up A Super Week

2011-02-04T09:18:00.000-08:00

Sunday is the day; the Super Bowl will finally be played in Dallas, where the fans will not see part of the pre game show, a military flyover. The roof will be closed!!! Who thought Dallas would be more like Pittsburgh or Green Bay weather-wise?

The media trying to make a big deal of Steelers quarterback Big Ben taking his teammates out to a gentleman’s bar. I guess when the Steelers sang the Billy Joel song “The Piano Man,” it brought fear into the eyes of everyone there. As much as these guys need to work in preparation for the game, they deserve a night out at the beginning of the week.

I believe this will be a great Super Bowl. When the playoffs began I was hoping the Steelers would get there, but I also thought the AFC would prevail whoever got in.

Also on Sunday we celebrate the 100^th anniversary of Ronald Reagan. Most American’s believe he was the best president of our times, and such an anniversary should be honored by all of us. Let us put politics aside and honor him, read about him, and though recordings listen to him. I actually think it is great when both sides of the isle try to compare what they are doing to him.

The unemployment rate dropped to 9%. I do not think we need to celebrate this fact, I wish the numbers would tell us how many people have just dropped out of the job market and have just given up and are no longer part of the statistics. Only 36,000 jobs were created last month, and the spin doctors are blaming the weather.

A tip of the hat to Mark Kelly the husband of representative Gabrielle Giffords. He will man the last space station mission. We should listen to what this man says about his decision

Finally, back to the Super Bowl. If you are throwing a party here is a diabetic friendly recipe thanks to the website dlife, and one of my favorites:

Apple-Goat Cheese Bruschetta

Source: dLife

Sweet apples combined with tart goat cheese served on top of French bread make for a delicious appetizer.

Rating:
Prep Time:	15 minutes
Cook Time:	5 minutes
Difficulty:	EASY

Nutrition Facts

Makes 8 servings
Serving Size: 1 piece
Amount Per Serving

Calories	202.9

Total Carbs	39.1 g

Dietary Fiber	2.2 g

Sugars	3.7 g

Total Fat	1.8 g

Saturated Fat	0.7 g

Unsaturated Fat	1 g

Potassium	87.4 mg

Protein	8 g

Sodium	426.4 mg

Dietary Exchanges 2 1/4 Starch

See the Detailed Nutritional Analysis
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Ingredients

16 piece Bread, French, small slice
1 medium apples , chopped (Fuji preferred)
2 oz goat cheese , crumbled
3/4 tsp fresh thyme , minced
1/2 tsp ground oregano
1/4 tsp black pepper , coarsely ground

Directions

1 Preheat broiler.
2 Arrange bread on baking sheet and place under broiler for 1 to 2 minutes or until lightly golden.
3 Mix together apple, goat cheese, thyme, oregano, and pepper and spread evenly onto bread. Place under broiler for 1 more minute.

Enjoy your weekend, and enjoy the Super Bowl.

Super Week Continues

2011-02-02T11:15:00.000-08:00

The road to the Super Bowl is here this Sunday in Dallas the Steelers and Packers will go at it. Now I am a diehard Steelers fan, getting set for a Super Bowl feast while cheering my team on to victory. Anyone who knows me can tell you my mood will change with the ebb and flow of the game. Now I find out this is not good for you or me. A new report out saying too much stress on Super Sunday can lead to heart attacks. In 1980 when the Steelers beat the then Los Angeles Rams, the incidents in heart attacks went up, so chill out Packer fans when you lose.

The Steelers hit the Big D with a bang, going to a gentleman’s club dancing with the strippers there. I hope they got all of that out of their system, I do not think Big Ben was there thankfully. Hey guys one day of partying great but, concentrate on the game

Bill Maher had to check in on the Super Bowl, it appears he knows not much about the game or this country. Maher claims the NFL’s success is based on socialism because they share things like television revenues. Hey Bill stay away from sports, raising money through TV revenue is good ole’ capitalism.

According to a poll in the Hollywood Reporter, 78% of America will be tuned into the Super Bowl to watch the Steelers beat the Packers. The other 22% I guess will be watching anything but MSNBC.

Here in LALA Land Farmers Insurance bought the naming rights to an NFL Stadium, without a team and yet to be built. It is a 700 million dollar deal. Now, a Super Bowl would work in L.A. because it would be an event, however someone at Farmers should have really looked at past NFL teams that could not wait to leave Los Angeles, because Sunday’s were a no show by the people here.

It is off now to my favorite Fresh & Easy food store to plan my Super Feast for Sunday. I find this store one of the most Diabetic friendly around so here I go!!! And GO STEELERS!!!!

It Is A Super Week

2011-01-31T08:44:00.000-08:00

Some of my favorite times in my career are of covering the Super Bowl. Long hours, lots of parties and being on the field. I am already missing not being in Dallas this year. There is something very special about the Super Bowl. It touches sports fans and those mildly interested.

How many of you will throw a party this year? How many are more interested in the commercials than the game? Betty White’s commercial last year put her back to the top once again.

For me, my Super Bowl coverage went to a different level when I was the news director and senior anchor at Fox Sports Radio. FSR’s general manager, the late Andrew Ashwood decided to bring every show on the network to the Super Bowl. It was a daunting task manning radio row during Super Week, and he and the staff pulled it off. Producers lined up greats guests, editors back in Los Angeles got us outstanding sound bites to use in my updates, and the parties, well what goes on at the Super Bowl…

It was also reunion time for me, especially when the Steelers were in the game. I worked in Pittsburgh for ten years, so when the local Pittsburgh media came to town, it was like attending a reunion for me, seeing friends and former colleagues I had not seen for years.

Being on the field after the game brought chills to me, the feeling of standing there is indescribable, but I made sure I took pictures. The only other time I had this feeling was when I stepped onto the field at Yankee Stadium, a place my dad and I spent countless weekends while growing up.

This year, I will be watching the Super Bowl on TV, rooting for my Steelers, a team I had the privilege of doing the pre and post game shows live from all of the tailgate parties. It will not be like being there working 18 hour days (ok that includes the nightly parties), but I look forward to this Sunday.

I will have to rely on my Direct-TV service to watch the game. Sunday night while watching the SAG Awards my box went out. After trying to get through the maddening computer answering system I finally found a human to speak with after ten minutes. I told them I wanted a new box post haste!! After a small um debate they promised to get me a new box this week. Let us see if they are true to their word. I have found Direct-TV customer service to be maybe the worst in the business, but they have the best sports programming so I deal with it.

Time to end this, so I can figure out what food to plan for Super Sunday, and all to say now is GO STEELERS!!!!

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My Mind Is Full

2011-01-28T13:44:00.000-08:00

Sitting in the hospital for ten days made a lot go into my head, very little went out. I was glad to get out of Cedars on Wednesday so Charlie Sheen could have my bed early Thursday morning. Amazing how ABC News makes this a huge news story. Charlie kicks their butt every Monday night, and they would love him to go away. In limited contact with the Sheen family, all I can say is they were good to me. My son did a movie with dad Martin, and Charlie and I met at the Charlie Sheen Room at a sports restaurant in New York City. Martin remembered my son years later and Charlie very gracious doing an interview when he had nothing to promote. My best to Charlie.

25 years ago was the explosion of the Challenger. I remember it well being at the news desk at WTAE in Pittsburgh, I was reminded how I was looking to buy a new TV in downtown Pittsburgh when the incident happened, an eerie quiet throughout the story and I was off to work. The same memories of Three Mile Island, looking for a TV when my station broke in with a special report, I was at WTPA (now WHTM) post haste.

To the Los Angeles School police officer who staged his shooting and kept thousands of kids locked down for hours, they cannot throw the key far enough away. They need to teach this joker a lesson.

My hats off to Fresh and Easy food stores for introducing no sugar added products. As a diabetic I thank you. It would be nice to see other food stores jump on this band wagon. Fresh and Easy also keeps the price down, so diabetics are not charged more because they have a disease and must limit sugar.

Finally today, my tongue is in my cheek, thanks to all of the law makers who shoved this healthcare bill into law. It was suppose to save me money. Due to my disability I was put on Medicare. So now my insurance premium is 270 more than I was paying for private insurance and my drug co-pays are now 47 dollars as oppose to 25 with my private insurance. Thank goodness for the pharmacy at Ralphs Grocery store who allow me not to pay7 dollars for a generic, but 10 bucks for three months. Now that’s a savings!!

I’m Back…..

2011-01-27T11:56:00.000-08:00

It has been a tough ten days for me; I spent it at Cedar Sinai Hospital in Beverly Hills California. It all began with a trip to my cardiologist’s office. I was suffering from chest discomfort for a few days, and I thought it was just a case of angina, but it became worse. So it was off to the ER. The place was jammed and the receptionist asked if I needed to see a doctor, I told her of my chest pain, and bang I was in a room.

I have an awesome team of doctors who made me feel as comfortable as possible with my chest pain. It was going to be a trip to the Cath Lab. I assumed I probably needed another stent. The pain was just like pre stent visits in the past, after my angiogram I was told everything looked great, the double by-pass was open and flowing as were my seven stents.

Ok, what was going on? Was this all in my head? My doc said no and ordered a CAT Scan of my aorta. That is when they found the culprit, a pulmonary embolism in my lung. So it was on meds and education on how to deal with my new meds for life. Not to let my nurses just have an easy time I also had a T.I.A., a minor stroke, which resolved itself in about 5 hours, but more education for me. A wonderful visit from the Stroke Team Nurse for a little class time to keep me stimulated.

Late Wednesday afternoon my doctor told me my medicine was therapeutic, in other words my blood was good and thin.

So now it is doctors’ visits, a change in life style, and a positive attitude.

Thank all of you who sent their prayers and well wishes, what could have been a disaster turned into something I will learn to deal with. All of your comments gave me the fight I needed to deal with this.

See everyone tomorrow on this blog where I am sure I will again upset someone.

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Even More Things I know I Think

2011-01-17T10:38:00.000-08:00

What a great time of the year, the NFL Playoffs. There were some great games this weekend. Last week I thought the Steelers, Packers, Seahawks, and Patriots would advance, saying the Jets did have the talent to win the game. They not only won, they got the QB Tom Brady so many times Brady probably thought he played in five games.

The Steelers Ravens game was a classic, and in the end the better team won. Yes I am a Steelers fan, but they were the better team in the second half, and got it done.

The Packers winning on the road again just embarrassed the Falcons, as did ‘Da Bears stopping the Seahawks. I cannot wait for this week’s action.

Reports out of the Arizona jail say the madman who went on a shooting spree shows no signs of remorse. I refuse to print his name; he got more than his 15 minutes of fame. He is in “the hole” 23 of 24 hours a day and has six guards around him for his hour out. My question, why waste the guards, keep him locked up 24 hours a day.

My hope for the extreme left and right being ignored may just be happening. I do not think the tea party is the extreme right, I do believe the Jane Fonda followers are the extreme left. For those of you who still believe he is a tea party advocate, according to the New York Times, he became enraged at the sight of President Bush.

Finally, the Golden Globes. Host Ricky Gravis was nothing more than an ignorant person. His humor was not funny, it was hurtful. If he was trying to emulate people like Don Rickles, he missed the mark by miles. I was happy to see Colin Furth win best actor, I believe the voters missed the boat not making the movie Kings Speech as picture of the year. I guess to enjoy this picture it would be helpful to be a fan of history. I think they were not. Kudos to Jim Parsons, wining for best actor in a comedy for television. He was truly awed by the honor, and his character on The Big Bang Theory is just plain funny.

Good Sports, Bad Sports, and This is What Customer Service is All About

2011-01-14T11:50:00.000-08:00

The only bad sports are those who try and keep us from watching the NFL Playoffs this weekend. On Saturday it all begins with the Ravens at the Steelers. For years I have had to take the high road when analyzing a game and making my picks. I do not have to do that this time around, so I am pulling hard for my Pittsburgh Steelers. Go Down Baltimore. I cannot support any team with murderer Ray Lewis on board. Take away all of that, and the Steelers are the better team period.

Then on Saturday night it is the Pack at the Falcons. I know the game is in Atlanta, but I like the way Green Bay has been playing of late, and I think the Pack will come away from this with the W.

Wait it gets better!!!! Sunday’s early game is the Seahawks at da Bears (da Bears!!!!!!—I miss my sound effects I used on the air!!!). Pete Carrols team has much to prove. The Seahawks were 7-9 during the regular season and friends were posting they did not deserve to be on the same field with the defending Super Bowl champs the Saints last week. Well those posting that were very wrong, they are playing on Sunday and the Saints ain’t. I pick Seattle.

Then the late game is the Jets at the Pats. When you’re a Jet you’re a Jet all the way. Good luck to them. I stopped being a Jet fan years ago because they were always a disappointment. They in my humble opinion have the ability to beat New England, but I really believe they will come up short.

DO NOT BET THE HOUSE ON MY PICKS!!!!!!

Finally today I applaud Southwest Airlines. A man was waiting in the TSA line to make an emergency flight to see his dying grandson. The TSA did not give a damn about this and made him wait. Mark Dickinson wanted to get home before his grandson would be taken off life support. The L.A. TSA group told him to wait in line.

His grandson had been flung against a wall by his daughter’s boyfriend. He wanted to get to Denver. His wife called customer service at Southwest and asked the plane be held. When Dickinson got to the gate… running with just socks on his feet, he was met by the pilot who told him he held the plane for him. This was not for Southwest publicity; it was an act of kindness and customer service. Kudos to the pilot and customer service rep who are not identified yet. They did this so a grandfather could see his dying grandson after an inexcusable incident by a violent man. Let me say thank you for the decision to say to hell with on time statistics and allow Mark Dickinson to say goodbye to his grandson Caden.

I applaud Southwest Airlines for being so caring and thoughtful!!!

Prayers, Health and Service

2011-01-12T18:45:00.000-08:00

Three topics on my mind today. First and foremost my prayers to all of the victim of the tragedy in Tucson over the weekend. To those recovering and to those who passed may God be with you. I am praying for all of you.

To those who still insist on making this a political issue, SHAME ON YOU. This is no more political than deciding what you want for dinner. The lowlife who shot these people has no political agenda. According to those who know him he is a pot smoking skull worshiping sicko. So stop placing blame on any ideology or party or person. I have said this before and I will say this over and over, lets us pull together and be great Americans. Thos of you who cannot do this, know you are no better than the person (I refuse to state his name, no publicity for him) who pulled the trigger on Saturday. And to the students at the memorial service, to those cheering, this was not a pep rally. What are you thinking?

To health, and again mine. I have been suffering from angina attacks over the past few days. I have been reading a great deal about angina and I do not mind telling you I am quite concerned. Is this a warning sign of something which may happen? I hope not. In 2009 I spent some time in the hospital in ten months of the year, in 2010 visited the hospital just twice, once because I broke my thumb, giving me the klutz of the year award. 2011 health wise has not started well, high blood sugars, angina and eye problems. Imagine if I was not taking care of myself. So if any of my friends get panic calls during the night, I apologize ahead of time.

Finally today, Service. I am a volunteer Docent at the Getty Museum. I man the family room, sketching gallery and give an architecture tour. I Iove giving of my time for this. I have met wonderful people from all over the world, I have learned so much about architecture and art, and now am preparing my garden tour of the Getty. I smile from the time I get to the museum, until the time I leave anticipating my next tour of duty.

Just this week I have started being of service to Wheels of Humanity. This organization restores wheel chairs and ships them all over the world. They do not however provide these chairs to Americans, because of the chance of lawsuits. What a sorry commentary on the people of our great country.

I have learned to take the wheel chairs apart, grease the bearings, and shine them up so they can be shipped out. It is a detail job, something I have gotten far away from since I have had health issues. Again, like the Getty I am getting more out of it than I am giving. Let me suggest that all of us find a way to be of service. Whether it be one day a week, a month, or more, I promise you it will make your heart smile.

The Blame Game

2011-01-10T10:16:00.000-08:00

I knew I would write about the terrible acts of violence this weekend. There is so much to be said. First and foremost, Jane Fonda is at it again. You all remember Jane, the woman who supported Hanoi during the Vietnam War. Now she has gone from Hanoi Jane to Blame Jane. According to her tweets Sarah Palin and Glen Beck are responsible for the shootings in Tucson this past weekend. I would say shame on you Jane, but why waste my time.

We, as a nation need to unite during this time of tragedy. We need to pray for the victims of this senseless crime and for their families. I pray for the full recovery of Gabrielle Giffords, and my heart goes out to the family of the 9 year old child, a victim of this senseless violence. Shame on the sheriff who blames talk show hosts for causing this shooting. He used the incident to further his political agenda. I put him in the low life category.

As a nation we need to come together and support each others right to speak our minds. I will not use the sheriff’s name or the name of the shooter; they have received enough attention from the American Public. I will say no political party activity has been found yet as far as the shooter goes.

Shame on a former boss who “reports” the news saying “f” the governor of Arizona. This is not reporting, and the use of the “f” word has no place in a journalistic piece.

Let us all as Americans act like the responsible people we should be. I do not agree with some, but I will fight for their right to express their opinions, and I will fight for the right to continue to express mine. Our political leaders need to grow up and stop playing the blame game as well, not in this incident but in the way they conduct themselves as representatives of you and me.

As for this deviant who took the lives of many, injured more; throw away the key. There is no doubt he did it. He is innocent until proven guilty, but the eyewitness accounts and his assassination plan found in his belongings say it all.

We must all fight to stop the needless violence which has become prevalent in our country. And we need it to stop now.

A Wrap On A Wonderful Week

2011-01-07T08:55:00.000-08:00

The best gift I received was after Christmas. My son and daughter-in-law came to visit with my two grandkids Ava and Gavin. You know I do not like the in-law tag, she is just like a daughter!! When we met, Ava, who turns four on Monday, ran and gave her G-Pa (that is me!!) a big hug and a kiss. As for 17 month old Gavin, I got a big smile from him while in his stroller. My health issues kept me from visiting them at their home in Memphis, so this was my first meeting with Gavin, and except for Skype, I had not seen Ava in two years.

I give my son and his wife a great deal of credit, traveling with the two young ones. Their flight here gave them a three hour layover in Detroit. So after dinner Ava was looking forward to a sleep over at her G-Pa’s; so was I. She got in my car with her child seat and by the time we got home she was sound asleep. Not for long, because she wanted to help me get her ready for bed, and brushed her teeth, and then we turned the television on for some good night cartoons.

The next day it was off to Starbucks for a baby donut and hot chocolate, then to the mall before it opened to play on the climbing toys there, and then I took her to a place called Creation Station, a great place in Studio City Ca. for a ballet and tap class. We had a ball. Back home to rest and then out to dinner, where the chips and fried ice cream were her favorites.

Yesterday I told her it was time to drive back to her mama, but I had a huge surprise for her and her brother Gavin. We took another car ride, then on a tram. She looked at me and asked, “Are we going to Disneyland?” When I said yes, it was an ear to ear smile. We met up with her mom and Gavin, and thanks to a very dear friend Jayne, who had passes, we spent the day at the happiest place on earth, riding rides and she even got to walk hand in hand with Sleeping Beauty and Ariel!!! Gavin loved the rides too; especially all of the lights in It’s A Small World.

Very tough when it was time to leave, back to the hotel for them, then Memphis today, and G-Pa shed some tears. G-Pa also learned some important lessons. One how much I miss my family, and two my health issues, Diabetes and Coronary Artery Disease have taken their toll. It was difficult keeping up with the kids. I was happy I was able to do it. I do however have to keep up the fight and keep the progression of these two diseases in check. Walking is one thing I must do more. Oh look a New Year’s Resolution handed to me on a platter. One easy to keep for the next round with Ava and Gavin. I must watch what goes into my mouth, is a piece of candy worth the consequences? That is easy to answer. No!

I have my work cut out for me, but it is a task very much worth it, so I can keep up with these two precious ones. I cannot wait for the next Skype and visit. A huge THANK YOU to Joe and Brandie, you have put just like Ava, an ear to ear smile on your father’s face!! Love you both!!

Good Start For Me In 2011

2011-01-05T17:46:00.000-08:00

What a great day January 5^th is! Today I spent the day with my 4 year granddaughter visiting from Memphis.

Because of my health problems, I have not seen her since she was 2. What a difference 2 years makes in a young life!

I am doing things like going to dance class, the mall to play on their toys and a play date. When my kids were little there were no such things as play dates!”

It amazes me how smart she is. No this is not a proud g-pa talking. On the way home she took her I-Pad, dialed up “Dora The Explorer” and watched it all of the way home. She will be four on the 11^th; I would not know how to turn it on.

We had a blast, walking the dog, getting dressed, going to ballet class, and even spending some time at the Getty Museum, where she went to the family room to play, and the sketching gallery to draw. Then it was home to have some strawberry ice cream. No doubt I am a proud g-pa. My grandson stayed with his mom and dad, they did not think I could handle two!!! Hey who handled my two when they were growing up?

If I ever needed a reason the keep my diabetes in check yesterday and today say it all. I need to be around for my grandkids. They need the advice, and spoiling from their ole g-pa, especially the spoiling!!!! I now must triple my effort to keep my health in control so I am around for the important things in life.

I also worry about what our leaders have done to our country, knowing the debt will be the problem of my grandchildren. I am tired of providing money for illegal aliens who demand money and health care; why, because they are entitled to it. Let us take a good look at what our leaders are doing to future generations of Americans, and if they continue to put their hands in their pockets, fire them!!

OK enough of that, I need to dwell on my grandkids, and continue to spoil them while I can. So this blog is over, my granddaughter wants to play a game!!

Watching this little girl enjoy her carefree life makes me pause and wonder what will she see and experience as she grows up.

From Governor Moonbeam to Ignoring The Diabetic Market and More

2011-01-03T09:29:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year Everyone!!! We have our challenges ahead of us, and it will be interesting to see how we handle them.

First my challenge with diabetes. It will not be an easy journey for those of us who have this devastating disease, however if we are diligent in watching what we eat, our weight, and our exercising we can help ourselves. I would like to say shame on you Kraft Foods. The good people at Albertson’s Grocery Store were trying to order sugar free Tang for me. I was told this item is no longer available from Kraft. Albertson’s and Fresh and Easy have told me they are trying to be more diabetic friendly in their food choices. We must continue to keep diabetes in the forefront so we can find a cure.

Is it just me or are pro athletes represented by the dregs of the earth? More and more are being arrested for violent acts, fined for breaking the rules, and acting out by ignoring their coaches. I believe the leagues MUST make sure their players follow rules on and off the field, or kick their butts to the curb, just like you and I would be kicked to the curb if we acted this way in our lives.

OK, I have saved the best for last. Jerry Brown was elected as governor by the voters of California. This will be his second time around. During the campaign, he admitted Politian’s lie. So when he said no new taxes unless voted on by the people, he was lying. He has been going around talking about tightening belts, and has hinted more than once he wants to repeal proposition13 here in California, which would greatly raise real estate taxes. Brown has never found a tax he did not like. Those of you who voted for him, you get what you vote for. Then again I have three words for the man serving hot dogs and chips at his inauguration. (Hey can I get a dog? I am a taxpayer!!!) The three words; Grey Davis Recall.

Yes 2011 will bring challenges for all of us. Are we up to the task to keep up the fight and good work? I know we are.

I Am So Confused!!!

2010-12-28T11:35:00.000-08:00

I understand the President is a sports fan, so am I. Was it necessary for him to call the Philadelphia Eagles and congratulate the team for giving Michael Vick a second chance? Vick is nothing more than a thug who destroyed dogs for his pleasure. It is easy to say I am sorry and go on with ones multimillion dollar lifestyle. I am sure there are other convicted felons who would love to get a second chance and get the President’s support.

Is is just me or are there other things a president who wants to get his approval rating up should be doing. One thing he can do is tell us why gas prices have raised so much. I guess it does not make any difference who is in the White House. Big oil just pours money into their campaigns and coffers and is protected from any sort of investigation. Fact: BP’s donations went to Obama. He got more than any other Politian. So why are we not hearing the cries of Big Oil in the White House as we have in the past. I personally do not see much of a difference between the Bush and Obama administration to the treatment of the oil companies. The only difference no criticism from his party. The other part very quiet too.

Now for something very important!!! Are the New York Yankees trying to alienate their fans? I think yes. According to the YES television network, owned by the afore mentioned Yankees, (phrase stolen from Michael Kaye… a great guy) they are thinking about bringing Manny Ramirez to the Bronx. WHY? He came to the Dodgers, and played like the old Manny, only if he felt like it. I felt so sorry for Joe Torre having to deal with his attitude and his use of performance enhancing drugs. Manny is nothing more than an overgrown child who wants to do things his way only!!!! The Mannywood promotions by the Dodgers really did not work; Manny took his money and ran. So now the Yankees are thinking of bringing this cancer to New York. Hey if you feel like you need a bat bring Johnny Damon back. I have been a Yankee fan all of my life during the good and bad times but the Steinbrenner child led Yankees are turning me off. They finally got it right with Jeter but learned nothing from the fiasco, and the way it was handled.

If the Yankees do bring Manny in they better put a rest room in the outfield, he needs to take “bathroom” breaks duing games. Once again the Boss is turning in his grave.

Spin

2010-12-22T10:53:00.000-08:00

We are always getting spin. Things to make one look good. Today we get spin from the media, on how President Obama is ending the year on a win streak, but is he? He is smiling as he signs the DADT bill. Is it a win? There are already plans to stop the implementation of the bill. Another item pointed out, any military person who said they were not gay and now say they are will be discharged for lying on their paperwork.

The media keeps on pointing out the tax cut compromise. It is not a tax cut as I have mentioned many times, it is keeping taxes right where they are.

Obama care. Some courts are already saying the federal government has no legal right to force citizens to purchase a anything from the private sector, not cars, not food, not health insurance.

Senator Arlen Specter, voted out of office was a Republican then Democrat is complaining about how his loss was nothing more than political catabolism. Spin, spin, and more spin. So tired of people feeling the need to spin a loss into a win. The only losers will be the taxpayer who in the end gets hit in their pocketbook.

So stop trying to push through laws so you can go on Christmas vacation. Some are going to Hawaii, I can afford this year a porch view vaca. Wait until the new year and the new congress people and senators voters have asked to lead this country.

It is time for our leaders to grow up, or accept the coal from Santa they deserve.

Like most people I am going to take a little time for myself, so I will see you all on Monday. It is my sincere wish that all have a wonderful Christmas. Enjoy your gifts, your parties and your families. The bottom line, without family we have nothing. Without memories and traditions we have less.

So everyone enjoy, sing and smile, show lots of love, which will be the best gift of all.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!