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From Her Heart

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 09:05:00 +0000

This afternoon, my daughter asked me.... " Mama, why I did not see papa for two days already? " My husband is very busy. When my daughter has to go to school in the morning, my husband will probably still sleep in his bed. And when my husband start his day and go to work, my daughter will be still in her school. Then, when my daughter have to go to bed, Papa will still be in his work. It's been two days that my husband need to come home late in the night. So they don't see each other.

So the question that she asked me was really from the deepest of her heart. She miss her Papa. She was so closed to Papa before. That's why now she is missing him a lot. But today, Papa promise to come home on time to say give a goodnight kiss before the kids go to bed. Kids are so happy to hear that.

I can't do anything. I understand why my hubby need to go until late in the night, but in the other side I can also understand about my daughter's feeling.
So......??? What will you do?

Get Help From Professional

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:30:00 +0000

Nowadays, it is possible to get a help from some professional worker to manage your property. You can contact Real Property Management to get professional people that know what to do with your properties. When you want to rent your house to other party, you can ask their help to find the right renter. You will save a lot of time if you get their helps since they will be the one that will find the renter then do the process. I know that it is not so easy to do that. That's why I prefer to get a help from some professional if I need to rent my house to somebody else.

Feel Dizzy

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:24:00 +0000

Last night when I just finished putting my kids in bed, I went straight down stairs. I had to turn of the stove since I was cooking some meat. But when I came back upstairs, i suddenly felt very dizzy, I could hardly breath even I already lay down in my bed. My husband did not notice it until he turn his face to me and saw that I had a problem at that time. He asked me few times if I am ok, but I did not really give him answer. I still could hear him but I don't know why I did not answer him. I think I was busy to get some airs come inside my lung. I tried to breath. Then he came to me then help me a bit. After sometimes I finally could breath again. My hubby said I looked so white at that time. Maybe it has to do with walking down stairs to quick after lying down in my kid's bed.

Do You Need Better Translator?

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:44:00 +0000

For some people here, it is probably not so easy to write a blog post in English. We are living in the country which does not use English as our daily language. My English is also not so good. Especially when I have to use proper grammar on writing sentences. But I keep on trying. I am trying to do my best by learning and using translator if I don't know the words that I want to write on my blog.

And if you need a better translator, I suggest you to check about brand translation. Although this is quite new, this translation is better than the other translator than I used before. Of course, I was so happy when I found this translator. It means that I can find more English words that I don't know yet.

I am Trying Something New

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:41:00 +0000

I know that I don't really have much times at this moment, but I would like to try something new. I am addicted to Internet and I want to do something useful with this addiction. That's why now I am trying to make something.I hope it will work. It does not mean that I have to finish it soon, I will just do it step by step. I will let you know what it is.

Better Results on My Son

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 10:41:00 +0000

This week is an interesting week for me and my son. Why? Because I started to bring my son again to school. In Europe before, he was already starting to go to preschool which is located in the neighborhood where we lived. Then he was doing fine until we had to move here to another country.

He started to refuse to go to school. He was afraid if we said that we will go to school with him. I have no problem with my daughter. She already started her holiday program in the school just few weeks after we arrived here. But that's not happening with my son.
I don't know why he don't want to go to school again. He even looked like scared if we said that we will bring him to school.

So I decided to start again from scratch. For the first time since we moved here, I brought him to Tumble Tots. Some of you probably know what is Tumble Tots. It's a kind of play group where the children can do active learning and playing.

On Monday, I brought him there but he only stayed for 15 minutes in the program. First he was so happy because he saw lots of toys, but when the class started,he immediately changed his face then 15 minutes later he cried. And I know that something wrong there. I brought him back to the house. And since it was a trial class, of course I don't have to pay anything for that.

Second time, I tried again to bring him to another Tumble Tots. I followed him and went inside the class. First 15 minutes, he still did not want to join the friends and teachers. But after half hour trying to stimulate him to join the kids there, finally he started to answer the question from the teacher. I was so surprise and happy. The way how the teacher stimulated him to join the class was really different with the first Tumble Tots that we went on Monday. And in the end, he was so busy following the class. Yes.... I am so happy with this result.

I think I should bring him to this Tumble Tots again. When I asked him which Tumble Tots that he like, he said that he like the second one better than the first one.

Unacceptable Behavior

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:32:00 +0000

I was doing some groceries this morning by my self. After I finished with the cashier, the staff from the store still need to do the cross check for the items that we bought. I was waiting quietly the someone from the back just pushed her car next to my car then she tried to go first with her groceries to get cross check by the staff from the store. What's wrong with this woman? That's what on my mind when I saw her doing strange thing like that. I guess every body know that they have to queue. That woman just tried to pretend that there was no body on the line waiting for the cross check. She even tried to look to other side so she could not see the face from other people who were waiting in the line. Don't you think that she has unacceptable behavior? She wanted to be the first then just neglected other people who follow the rule. I just hope one day she will get the punishment for her unacceptable behavior.Not from me but maybe from something or somebody else. I guess she never learn anything from her school neither from her parents that she should behave and act normal. Grrr....!!!

Time For New Glasses

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 23:07:00 +0000

It's time for new eyeglasses for me. I've been working in front of the computer for most of the time. And I think I need to change my eyeglasses very soon since the one that I am wearing right now does not have the right prescription for my eyes anymore. I just checked some new arrival models from ZenniOptical. Few of them are so cute models in my opinion.

I plan to go to the doctor first to get the right prescription for my eyeglasses. Once it's done, I will get my new eyeglasses. I choose a new model from ZenniOptical for my new eyeglasses. They called it as Holiday Fun Eyeglasses.

What make me happy is the price that they offer for their new eyeglasses. We can get $8 Prescription Zenni Glasses for few products from them. What a cheap eyeglasses! I will show you the model that I like from their collections. If you are interested to buy eyeglasses, maybe you should check their special offers for eyeglasses. I am sure you will like one of the eyeglasses that they offer.

It's Really A Mess Here

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 22:14:00 +0000

Just another complain about the house. I can see mess everywhere in this house. I don't know why. Is it because we have so many unused stuffs that are still lying around inside the house or is it because the people who are living in this house really don't care about it.

But I think I should make a chance sooner or later. Otherwise,it will become worst and worst. But what part should I start first?? Help me.....

He Is Home But Still Busy

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 12:51:00 +0000

Since my husband arrived back home, we did not really have a chance to have our quality time together. He is very busy at this moment with his new job. We hardly meet each other. In the night, I could no longer open my eyes when I lay my head on top of the pillow. Feel like I can not open my eyes anymore after I put the kids in bed.

I hope that we can have more time together in the weekend. I am not complaining about my husband. Caused I know that he is doing his best for our family.

Happy weekend every one, I hope you and me have a great wonderful weekend...

Interesting Trip

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 01:40:00 +0000

Hubby has quite interesting trip. First, the immigration in the airport stopped him because they said that he did not report to the immigration office when he was staying in the country, which was not correct at all. I was the one who processed the paperwork from my husband. And I believe there was a misunderstanding about the paperwork process with the immigration officer them self. They did not stamp my hubby's passport, that's why in the airport they tried to make a problem out of it. That was not my mistake, the officer in the immigration office where I processed the paperwork was supposed to be the one who give stamp.

Oke.. after I explained what really happenned by phone to the officer in the airport, my hubby could fly. In Singapore, he had hotel overbooking. So the hotel where he supposed to stay had to transfer him to another hotel. This was also not our mistakes. We did confirm the booking, and we even give our credit card as a guarantee. So my husband got another hotel room in Orchard with the same discount deal. I guess the normal price should be much more expensive compare to the one I booked for him. But he got it as the compensation from the hotel. Great... he can stay in Orchard for two nights, including free breakfast and got 15 dollar Singapore for the taxi, to transfer him from that hotel to another hotel.

Well... quite interesting trip, isn't it? I hope today everything will be fine with him. Just don't want him to get many trouble when he need to do his paperwork in the embassy.

Have A Save Trip

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 09:03:00 +0000

This post is specially for my hubby who has to fly to Singapore for few days. He will only stay for two nights there and he will fly back home on Tuesday. Don't worry, I will pick you at the airport.. And now, I just want to wish you a very happy and save trip. Although, there was already one problem that you had to face at the airport, I hope the rest of the trip will be fine for you.

Good luck and be back home soon... ( I know I will miss him... :P)

Singapore Trip

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 00:04:00 +0000

This is not about me. But this is about my husband. He will fly to Singapore this afternoon. He need to fly there for business. I though I can also come with him but I was wrong. Of course he need to be there in the weekdays for his work and if I want to come there as well, I need to go there in the weekend since my daughter need to go to school. She is not having holiday time yet. That's why I can not come with my hubby to Singapore this time. Although I was about to get ticket as well when I booked his ticket.

But never mind. My hubby will only go for two days. Tuesday night, he will be here again. And I plan to pick him up at the airport as well. I just wish him a very good trip today.

Old Songs

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 02:05:00 +0000

Few weeks ago, I finally met many old friends from high school in my Facebook account. It was so nice that we can keep in contact again. One of my old friend reminded me about some songs that we used to sing together while he was playing guitar. So interesting to listen to that old songs again. Just bring back some high school's memories on my head when I listen to those old songs. Oh boy... what a memory.. I miss you guys.... wish we can meet for reunion one day.. :)

Facebook Maintenance

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 01:35:00 +0000

It's been two days since I could not log in to my Facebook account. When I tried to log in, this message is pop up :

Account Temporarily Unavailable.

Your account is currently unavailable due to a site issue. We expect this to be resolved shortly. Please try again in a few minutes.

I saw this message since yesterday already, means that it's been more than few minutes since the first time I saw it. But I still can not log in to my account. I wonder how long that Facebook will take time to do their maintenance. I hope it will not be too long again since I am already addicted to facebook too.

Another Earthquake In Jakarta

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 01:37:00 +0000

Friday afternoon ( Oct 16th 2009), I supposed to pick up my husband in his office. He asked me and the kids to pick him up since he wanted to show his office room to the kids as well and he planned to bring us to the Pizza restaurant on the way back home. I was driving the car, passing some office buildings when I saw many people on the streets just standing there outside their office building. There were so many traffic jams on my way to my husband's office. I was wondering what was happening before. Why those people sit outside the office, is there another bomb attack again or what's wrong?

Then I arrived in my husband's office and I saw the same things. People were outside the buildings. I could not enter the parking area so I asked the security guy there about the situation. And he said that there was an earthquake before, that's why those people came out from the building.

I called my husband few times but I could not reach him. Maybe the traffic for the cellular phone was very busy at that time. Many people were using their phone to call someone that they know. That's why I could not call my husband.

Finally I could reach him and asked him to came to the place where I parked my car. Then he explained that the earthquake was somewhat big because he could really feel the shakes, he was in the 6th floor and he felt it very strong. He was on the phone when it happened then he needed to hang up the phone because he had to run down the stairs in case something bad happening there.

This was not the first earthquake that we had since we were here. This time the epicenter of the earthquake was in Ujung Kulon, about 200 kilometers from Jakarta area. But the earthquake was only 6.3 or 6.5 ( did not really check it ...) meanwhile the first earthquake that we had was stronger. It was more than 7 , I guess.

But since few weeks ago, there was a big earthquake disaster in other place in Indonesia (the one in Padang, Sumatra Island), people are getting more afraid this time with the earthquake that happened on Friday afternoon.

3 BT : Friday, October 16th 2009

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:13:00 +0000

1. Went shopping with my mother. Although I had to carry my son for most of the time, I was quite happy since he did not nag too much during the shopping time.

2. Picked up my hubby from his new office then had early dinner with kids. Pizza and spaghetti always the best for us.

3. Lying down next to my hubby and watched movie together after putting the kids in bed. We don't really have plenty of time to do like this anymore in the last few weeks. So I was so happy that we finally could watch movie together.

Unfinished Project

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 01:21:00 +0000

I am trying to make a new chance with this blog. And now I am having unfinished project at this moment. I thought I can do it in one time, but i was wrong. There are other things that I need to do as well. That's why I am having a break now. I will continue again later.

Thanks To God Almighty

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 11:35:00 +0000

Again and again, I have to say Thank You to God Almighty... I know God is there, and I know that He always be there. No matter what, He will not forget us...

We just heard a good news which I can not describe the detail in my blog. Well the most important thing is that we believe that God will help us whenever we need. And I know that He always be there for us.

Praise the Lord... Hallelujah....!!!

Old Cellphone & Notebook Worth Nothing

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:37:00 +0000

Yesterday, I was trying to find the answer about my husband's question. It's been few months that he asked me to sell his old cellular phone and notebook. I already mentioned to him that it will not worth at all since everything are so cheap already. But he did not believe me. So I went to the second hand shopping center, brought his two old stuffs there. I walked around that shopping center and asked more than 10 stores about how much those old stuffs worth nowadays. Guess what? Nobody want to buy those things. They said the new products are so cheap nowadays, people will probably try to buy new stuff. Plus, they can also get those new electronics on credits, so the second hand stuffs are becoming cheaper and cheaper every day.

I wonder how does it work in your country? Is it the same like what happened with me yesterday?

Playground For My Son

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 02:25:00 +0000

I am trying to find a playground for my son. I thought I would like to bring him to school but he did not want to go to school. I don't know what was the problem. Half year ago, he still went to his school although sometime he also did not want to be there. But now, he really does not want to go to school anymore. So I have to try something else for him first before I finally bring him to the real school. Children playground with some friends would be a good idea for him, I guess. That's why I am trying to find one which is not really far from the place where I live now.

Watching Movie

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 15:01:00 +0000

Since my husband is not here at this moment, I am trying to watch movies on television while lying in my bed. Just want to feel sleepy after watching those movies on television. At least, that's what I had few years ago, felt asleep while watching tv.

Then I saw for the first time a movie about King Tristan Of Stormhold. You know what? I am so happy when I watched the movie. Tristan is the name of my youngest son, and I felt like I am watching movie about my son. So silly but it's really true. I guess every mother always feel that their son is the king.. Don't you think so?

Booking Ticket Process

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 16:17:00 +0000

Few hours ago, I just booked a flight ticket for my hubby. He will go to Bali to meet his old friend, and since he does not have credit card yet, he asked me to book a ticket for him with my credit card. So I did book a ticket for him. Since I was not so sure if the booking process is valid already or not, I contacted the airlines customer service to check about it. I saw that they ask the customer to show the valid credit card when they do their check-in at the airport. So I asked her if my husband need to bring my credit card when he will do check-in since I was using my credit card to buy a ticket with his name. But the customer service said that it's impossible. If I want to buy a ticket with my credit card, I also need to be in the same flight like my husband. I was so confused about it. I know that there is some kind of regulation like that, but last time when we bought an International fligh tickets, we did use other name to pay our tickets. I mean, it was not our credit card as well. But the credit card's holder need to sign a letter regarding to the booking ticket's process. And after the letter was provided, we were able to use the ticket. So we did not have any problem at all with it.

But today, I got an answer from their customer service that I need to cancel the ticket that I bought with credit card and book or buy another ticket by using cash or ATM as its payment method. I was so pissed but there was nothing that I can do. The only thing that I can do is going to their representative office and get a refund to my credit card balance and try to pay the ticket by using ATM or cash. But it can only be done 48 hours after credit card's transaction. Grrrr..... I wish I know that before....

Morning, Sunshine!

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 22:45:00 +0000

It's Monday again. It's time to start the new day of the week. I am still happy with what I have done in the weekend with my families and friends, a wonderful weekend.. I hope I can enjoy those kind of moments again soon. Now, it's time to prepare the kid to go to school. My husband also have to go to an important meeting as well today. I hope everything will be fine this week. Cheers, every one...!

Wonderful Weekend!

noreply@blogger.com (nyumix) — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 23:53:00 +0000

Thank you God for the wonderful weekend that You gave to me. There is no words that I can say except THANK YOU , MY LORD!.. I really have a great weekend with husband, kids and also friends. Started from Friday night, I had wonderful quality time with my husband by going out together, but only both of us. I asked my mom to babysit the kids in the house. Actually, they were in bed already when I leaved, my mom just needed to be alert if the kids wake up suddenly when I leaved them. Then Saturday, I was able to meet my friends and had quite a long chat with them meanwhile hubby were playing and sitting with kids there together with my best friend's hubby that also need to look after their kids while mommies talked.

Then today, we plan to visit my brother's house. They just bought a new house, and we will visit them for awhile. Although my hubby will not come because he need to prepare for his work tomorrow, I think we will still have fun today...

I'm really BLESSED!