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		<title>Santa Fe Has a Birth Center!</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2014/07/11/santa-fe-has-a-birth-center/</link>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2014 22:33:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lori Pearson Kramer]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Changing Health Care]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[In April 2014, The Birth Center at Southwest CARE opened their doors!  The birth center is part of the Southwest Care Center non-profit organization that has historically served the HIV and Hepatitis C population and has more recently expanded to include family medicine and women&#8217;s health.  The company is pleased to offer another birthing option <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2014/07/11/santa-fe-has-a-birth-center/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In April 2014, The Birth Center at Southwest CARE opened their doors!  The birth center is part of the Southwest Care Center non-profit organization that has historically served the HIV and Hepatitis C population and has more recently expanded to include family medicine and women&#8217;s health.  The company is pleased to offer another birthing option to Santa Fe women in a community that up until now has had only hospital and home birth as available choices for birth.</p>
<p>The center is staffed by two Certified Nurse-Midwives (CNM),  Maite Redondo Cladera and Lori Pearson Kramer.  Maite was formerly employed as a Nurse Practitioner and CNM at La Familia Medical Center in Santa Fe, and was the first midwife to secure privileges at St. Vincent Hospita back in 2008.  She is now the Associate Director of the birth center and has been instrumental in creating and implementing the vision.  Lori was working as a CNM in Las Vegas, NM and had a small home-birth practice prior to the center&#8217;s opening.</p>
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<p>The birth center is a free-standing facility with a home-like setting.  It features two birthing suites, birth tubs for labor and water birth, a kitchenette, a lending library and a comfortable living space where orientations and child birth classes are offered.  &#8220;It is an excellent option for healthy women who are committed to a natural birth but may not necessarily be comfortable giving birth in their own home&#8221;, says Maite.</p>
<p>In addition to comprehensive prenatal care, natural birth and postpartum care, the midwives also offer women&#8217;s health care, including pap&#8217;s, birth control, prescriptions, and sexual health screenings.  The goal is to provide safe, empowering, holistic health care for any woman in the community during any stage of her life, and to make birth center services available to all women and their families.</p>
<p>They are currently and happily accepting new patients.  You can visit the <a title="Santa Fe Birth Center" href="http://www.southwestcare.org/medical-clinic/birth-center">website</a> or give the midwives a call at 505-395-2311 to schedule an appointment or an orientation.</p>
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		<title>CRAZY doctor!</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/09/15/crazy-doctor/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Sep 2010 16:56:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Doctors]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Wacky and Weird]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[hysterectomy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is just appalling. I think I will need to create another blog category called &#8220;bizarro&#8221;. Apparently one Dr. Alinson, of Orange County, California used a cauterizer to etch the name of a patient on her uterus during a hysterectomy so as not to get it confused with others. The patient wanted pictures of the <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/09/15/crazy-doctor/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is just appalling.  I think I will need to create another   blog category called &#8220;bizarro&#8221;.  Apparently one Dr. Alinson, of Orange County, California used a <a href="http://news.blogs.cnn.com/2010/09/14/doctor-sued-for-branding-patients-uterus/?iref=NS1">cauterizer   to etch the name of a patient on her uterus</a> during a hysterectomy so as not to get it confused with others.  The patient wanted pictures of the operation because she suffered burns on her legs during the procedure (also bizarre).  I am literally at a loss for words.  Needless to say, he is being sued.</p>
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		<title>Just Say No to Kegels</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/25/just-say-no-to-kegels/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 15:10:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Changing Health Care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Education]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Revolutionary news from a leading biomechanical scientist on pelvic floor integrity, and how to keep it. It&#8217;s not about Kegels (they&#8217;re actually bad) and it&#8217;s all about glutes and alignment. Another reason to say HELLO YOGA! Thanks to Kara from Mamasweat for this interview! Pelvic Floor Exercises]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Revolutionary news from a leading biomechanical scientist   on pelvic floor integrity, and how to keep it.  It&#8217;s not about Kegels (they&#8217;re actually bad) and it&#8217;s all about glutes and alignment.    Another reason to say HELLO YOGA!  Thanks to Kara from Mamasweat for this interview!</p>
<p><a href="http://mamasweat.blogspot.com/2010/05/pelvic-floor-party-kegels-are-not.html">Pelvic Floor Exercises</a></p>
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		<title>Great Expose on Public Breastfeeding</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/20/attitudes-about-breastfeeding/</link>
		<comments>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/20/attitudes-about-breastfeeding/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 16:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Official, I&#8217;m on my Path to Being a Midwife!</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/14/its-official-im-on-my-path-to-being-a-midwife/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 May 2010 00:47:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Changing Health Care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Deep Thoughts]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[YAY! I started yesterday-three classes online, plus a TA position with a level 4 undergraduate class entitled Clinical Instruction for the Rural and Underserved. I started that class today and was glad to meet all the great men and women who are interested in serving rural populations in New Mexico and around the world. I <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/14/its-official-im-on-my-path-to-being-a-midwife/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>YAY!  I started yesterday-three classes online, plus a TA position with a level 4 undergraduate class entitled Clinical Instruction for the Rural and Underserved.  I started that class today and was glad to meet all the great men and women who are interested in serving rural populations in New Mexico and around the world.  I will be assisting in facilitating their class while the professor takes some of the students to Bolivia for clinical training.  I wish we had such a class when I was an undergrad (although I wasn&#8217;t in a BSN program) as these students are being given a great opportunity to apply their skills in an international setting.  I know that participating in this class will give me the &#8216;refresher&#8217; that I need (having been out of nursing   for five years) and get my brain rolling again.  Our professor really seems to have her finger on the pulse of learning opportunities that are available throughout New Mexico and I hope to be able to participate in some of these clinical experiences in the coming months.</p>
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<p>I began reading about Nursing Theory yesterday and today- a subject I am very interested in.  For many years, nurses have attempted to legitimize the profession by trying to come to some consensus on how we should be thinking, and presenting ourselves to the health profession and the general public.  I have my own theories about how we should do this, as I have outlined here-especially in my <a href="http://www.onbirthing.com/2009/11/08/evidence_based_healthcare/">critique of evidenced-based practice and how it relates to nursing</a>.  I have been really pleased with the reading so far, although I haven&#8217;t agreed with all the concepts.  One that I do agree with however is &#8220;The Rhetoric of Rupture: Nursing as a Practice With a History?&#8221;  I wish I could share, but you need to subscribe to a medical journal to get the full article.  The basic premise states that nurses and those that represent them have done a great disservice to the profession by continually trying to redefine the profession to appeal to young people, while   discounting the accomplishments of the nurses before them.  Anyone who has practiced as a nurse knows that our jobs do and always have required  high levels of expertise and critical thinking that would be interesting to any contemporary woman (or man) but that the institutions within which we must practice preclude us from realizing our full potential and seek to undermine our accomplishments (and essentially give MD&#8217;s all the credit for them).  </p>
<p>Historically, we haven&#8217;t been in a position of power or influence as a predominately female-centered profession, nor do we (mostly) sing the praises of our profession to others.  The truth is, that we are trained for, and have the brain power to perform tasks that require a wide range of diverse and challenging skills and often DO perform these skills.  The problem is that when we do, it&#8217;s usually in a clandestine way as it&#8217;s often &#8220;technically&#8221; &#8216;against doctors orders&#8217;, or we have called the MD to tell them what needs to be done, and they say &#8220;sure, go ahead&#8221;.   My feeling is that the supposed &#8216;autonomy&#8217; of practicing as a nurse is basically non-existant (in a corporate hospital environment anyway), and that makes nurses who were told they would have all this power to influence the health of their patients and be able to practice somewhat autonomously are being sold a bill of goods.  Frustration among nurses, when they have to perform tasks against their better judgement at the direction of doctors, runs rampant.  Are we willing to tell our friends and family that the only way we practice autonomy is by breaking the rules or lying?  It&#8217;s no wonder that most nurses don&#8217;t encourage their daughters, sons and other family to enter in to the profession.  The whole medical model needs to change.  It won&#8217;t change until medicine and nursing (and perhaps other health disciplines) are taught to honor and respect one another&#8217;s knowledge base.  But, nursing can&#8217;t seem to get to the first step- explaining exactly what that knowledge base is and why it&#8217;s important (Nursing Theory).  How do you quantify advocacy, ethics, morals, intuition in the face of a &#8216;scientific&#8217; profession that won&#8217;t even acknowledge qualitative research?  I simply don&#8217;t know.</p>
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		<title>Excellent Article on Midwives in New Mexico</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/06/excellent-article-on-midwives-in-new-mexico/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 23:39:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s nothing to add. She said it all. Thanks Whitny! The Art of Baby Catching]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s nothing to add.    She said it all.    Thanks Whitny!</p>
<p><a href="http://alibi.com/index.php?story=32018&#038;scn=feature">The Art of Baby Catching</a></p>
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		<title>International Day of the Midwife</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/04/international-day-of-the-midwife/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 20:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tomorrow, May 5th is Cinco de Mayo, but more importantly it&#8217;s International Day of the Midwife. The International Day of the Midwife is an occasion for every midwife to think about the many others in the profession, to make new contacts within and outside midwifery, and to raise awareness of what midwives do for the <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/04/international-day-of-the-midwife/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tomorrow, May   5th is Cinco de Mayo, but more importantly it&#8217;s International Day of the Midwife.  The International Day of the Midwife is an occasion for every midwife to think about the many others in the profession, to make new contacts within and outside midwifery, and to   raise awareness of what midwives do for the world.  There&#8217;s a <a href="http://www.facebook.com/notes/american-college-of-nurse-midwives/get-ready-to-party-like-a-midwife/391194854825">bunch of stuff going on online</a> to commemorate the day.<br />
<a href="http://www.onbirthing.com/2010/05/04/international-day-of-the-midwife/idm2010-jpg-2/" rel="attachment wp-att-447"><img src="http://www.onbirthing.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IDM2010.JPG1-212x300.jpg" alt="IDM2010.JPG" title="IDM2010.JPG" width="212" height="300" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-447" srcset="https://www.onbirthing.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IDM2010.JPG1-212x300.jpg 212w, https://www.onbirthing.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IDM2010.JPG1-723x1024.jpg 723w, https://www.onbirthing.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/IDM2010.JPG1.jpeg 842w" sizes="(max-width: 212px) 100vw, 212px" /></a>  If you know or love a midwife, or midwifery, tomorrow is the chance to spread the word, and spread the love.</p>
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		<title>Sorry it&#8217;s Been Awhile</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/04/30/sorry-its-been-awhile/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 23:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m finding it hard to find the inspiration to write about news related to midwifery right now. It seems that it&#8217;s all the same old stories. Clinics closing, midwives fighting for their rights, and endless articles about what the hell midwifery is, and why midwives are different. Really? After all these years, it seems we <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/04/30/sorry-its-been-awhile/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m finding it hard to find the inspiration to write about news related to midwifery right now.  It seems that it&#8217;s all the same old stories.  Clinics closing, midwives fighting for their rights, and endless articles about what the hell midwifery is, and why midwives are different.  Really?  After all these years, it seems we are still in the business of educating the public, and fighting the misconceptions about the safety of midwifery   as doled out by our lovely friends at the AMA- and the fear mongerers.  (Hey, that would be a great band name!  AMA and the Fear Mongerers)  </p>
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<p>Pretty soon, I will be starting school- and it can&#8217;t happen a moment too soon as far as this blog is concerned.  I can&#8217;t wait to have other things to write about.  Positive things.  Interesting things.  Thought provoking things.  Sure, I&#8217;m sure   I&#8217;ll write about stress, and how I am fairing with school, a job, a TA position, and three kids (one of whom is a full-fledged teenager). But, that&#8217;s what makes blogs interesting.  Right?</p>
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		<title>A Sad Day in New York</title>
		<link>https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/04/16/new-york-women-want-midwives/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Apr 2010 22:14:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[St. Vincent Hospital, in Greenwich Village, Manhattan closed its doors, and had it&#8217;s last mom deliver her baby yesterday morning. Very happy for her, very sad for the staff and the moms of NY. St. Vincent had been serving New York women for 160 years (!) but had to file for Chapter 11 bankruptcy, finally <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/04/16/new-york-women-want-midwives/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local-beat/Last-Baby-Born-In-St-Vincents-91055354.html">St. Vincent Hospital, in Greenwich Village, Manhattan closed its doors</a>, and had it&#8217;s last mom deliver her baby yesterday morning.  Very happy for her, very sad for the staff and the moms of NY.  St. Vincent had been serving New York women for 160 years (!) but had to file for Chapter 11 bankruptcy, finally closing its doors late Thursday.  </p>
<p>St. Vincent Hospital was &#8216;<a href="http://topnews.us/content/216157-closing-st-vincent-s-shrinks-women-s-delivery-options">extremely midwife friendly</a>&#8216; and had an overall philosophy of &#8216;minimally invasive obstetrics.&#8217; &#8220;The array of alternatives at St. Vincent’s, in Greenwich Village, was about as extensive as any pregnant women could want, whether you require a planned Caesarean or you want to give birth at home on your couch, it was geared for everything.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Now   Manhattan women are left scrambling to find a place to have babies where natural birth is accepted, nurtured and encouraged.  It was also the &#8216;transfer&#8217; hospital of choice for midwives who assist with home births.  It&#8217;s closing might also put home birth midwives back-up plans   in jeopardy.</p>
<p>As a former New Yorker I am deeply saddened by this news. What a very terrible state of affairs for the future moms of New York. I hope someone, somewhere will step up to the plate and provide similar services to what were available at St. Vincent&#8217;s.</p>
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		<title>Parenting-It Ain&#8217;t Easy</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[chris kramer]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great article in the Huffington Post in response to a story about a seven year old Russian boy, adopted by a single mom from the US and then returned to Russia after she found him to be too difficult to parent. Wow. In the article she suggests that all parents get a &#8216;parenting permit&#8217; so <a href="https://www.onbirthing.com/2010/04/14/parenting-it-aint-easy/">Continue reading &#8594;</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article in the <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-cara-barker/licensing-to-love-for-par_b_534738.html">Huffington Post</a> in response to a story about a <a href="http://news.blogs.cnn.com/2010/04/13/officials-head-to-russia-after-adopted-boys-return/">seven year   old Russian boy</a>, adopted by a single mom from the US and then returned to Russia after she found him to be too difficult to parent.  Wow.</p>
<p>In the article she suggests that all parents get a &#8216;parenting permit&#8217; so they can have a few tools at their disposal for those tough times.</p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s the Parenting Permit Pledge:</p>
<p>&#8220;1.	Are you prepared to feel ignorant some of the time?<br />
2.	Are you willing to accept that, on &#8220;bad hair days,&#8221; you might want to &#8220;throw in the towel?&#8221;<br />
3.	Are you willing to get help, as needed, knowing your challenge is not about personal failure, be you a newborn mom or an aging mom?<br />
4.	Are you willing to open your heart to more joy, even if this joy is preceded by growing pains for you and your child?<br />
5.	Are you willing to open your mind, and let this child teach you?<br />
6.	 Are you willing to discover who this child is, support their blooming, letting go of who you&#8217;d prefer them to be to meet your standards?<br />
7.	Are you willing to cultivate a bigger sense of humor? (You&#8217;ll need it!)<br />
8.	Are you prepared to give up taking things personally, even if it&#8217;s inconvenient?<br />
9.	Do you accept that this child is not YOUR child, but a person on loan, from a mysterious Source called Love, who you are to raise, cherish,<br />
and support their transition into a world needing their gifts?<br />
10. Are you willing to &#8220;light up,&#8221; when your child comes into the room, letting them know, in good times and bad, that you are behind them 100 percent, even if you don&#8217;t always understand, or don&#8217;t know how to best express this love?</p>
<p>My heart breaks for that little boy from Russia.</p>
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