On Sex and Night Skies

Changes!- S.

2013-01-09T21:15:00.002-08:00

A. and I have had a lot of changes going on recently. We are three months away from the wedding(April sixth!), and are completely overwhelmed with everything going on. We are signing the the lease to our apartment in two weeks, we've been dealing with tons of family stuff, ect... But we have great news!

We have been working on a podcast for all fifteen of you lovely followers. It will be all about sex ed, our sex life and all of the amazing things that go along with that! In just a few weeks, A. and I will have a much slower schedule, so we will be able to post more. I know you all miss us.

We have been gone for a long time, and we've missed this a lot. Just recently we re-read our posts, and reminisced about how much fun we had running our little blog. It was good for our intimacy and our communication, it gave us a place to share our most torrid fantasies with the added buffer of being an anonymous internet persona. It made us a better, happier, closer couple. We've been wanting more of what the blog gave us in our relationship, so the natural conclusion was that we should re-imagine, renovate, and renew. So yes, we're using you(don't pretend you don't like it).

Hopefully, in the next couple of weeks, we can get our podcast set up for you all! What are things you want us to talk about? Go into more detail? Revisit?

-S.

Bisexual Girls and Big News -S.

2012-11-17T15:26:00.000-08:00

Before I realized that I was bisexual, I didn't understand A.'s fascination with breasts! They're just squishy, and round. Like a balloon? Yeah, that's it. Like a balloon. So why is he so attracted to them? A. told me about how my boobs aren't just squishy and round. He told me mine were "like perfect teardrops" and "so incredibly soft..." I didn't understand! I gave up, and thought i would never be able to understand.... He actually told me that when he was little, he and his friends used to talk about what boobs felt like, and Austin had come to the conclusion that they felt like a water balloon filled with warm water. Now he says they're much more wonderful than that.

Then, I realized i was bisexual. And that I had been bisexual for a long time!!!! My first time I remember being really attracted to a girl, I was in the third grade. The first time i remember being turned on by a girl, I was in 5th grade. It was my best girl friend... She had long, gorgeous, straight dark brown hair. Bright green eyes. Cute freckles sprinkling her nose, and underneath her eyes. Beautiful 32 C cup breasts.
She was gorgeous. End of story.

I thought that it was a phase that I was attracted to her. You know, a lot of people have "crushes" on the same sex. So I ignored it, and tried to forget about it. It was just another part of growing up, right? Wrong. I noticed girls a lot more as a got older. I would think in the passing about how pretty that girl is, or how cute that girl is. It confused me.

When I actually recognized that I was bisexual, and I accepted it, I realized that breasts were beautiful! They really are soft, and supple, and so incredibly hot! I like girls! I like boobs, and girls butts, and their eyes, and how tender they are with each other! I love how they can be so rough, and sexy, and they have that attitude! They know just what to do to each other! Girls understand the emotional need much more than guys do, and they understand that intimacy doesn't just begin in the bedroom for a girl. This is new! How do I adjust? How does A. adjust? I knew that A. would eventually adjust, and that he would like it, and think it was hot. But i knew that he would never try and pressure me into doing things with another girl. But how would I adjust? I don't know...

Eventually, A. and I came up with ways... I would tell him what was attractive about girls to me. Show him pictures of girls I thought were attractive. We would add in girls to our daydreams(other than my "girls").

No matter how hard it was for me to believe, even I adjusted! It confused me... Why would A. accept this new part of me? We've been together for such a long time! How could he accept this random, new part of me? Why?

I finally asked him, one late night. He told me that it was beautiful. That it was part of me, so automatically he fell in love with it, because it was a defining thing about me. Of course, A. and I have kind of fallen out of having bisexual fantasies with one another as we've grown sexually. Our sex lives have taken a dip very recently because of stress in our lives, time and schedules. I want to bring it back. That has always been such an important thing to us. Soon, we will be starting a podcast to talk about sex and relationships, and we'll post it on our page. I'm so excited to share this awesome news, and I really hope all of our wonderful readers will like it! And now you'll get to put voices to the names.

Until next time...

-S.

Our BDSM Experiences: Spanking - A.

2012-11-13T16:23:00.002-08:00

S. and I are not hardcore by most sexual standards.

We might seem like we are very adventurous when compared to "vanilla" couples who played around a little bit before marriage, spent their years together having missionary sex, doggy style when they felt "crazy", and a blowjob for special occasions. But those couples seem sexually wild when compared with people who aren't having sex at all. It's all a matter of perspective.

We have tried to explore. Lately, with stress ruling my life, that exploration stalled. I'm in the process of learning how to be vulnerable, sexual, open, and willing to really get out there and do the crazy stuff. But we have explored. Our fantasies are rife with threesomes, lesbian sex, anal play, public sex, bondage, ect. Looking back over our eroticas is like looking into the deep, dark parts of sex. So I know the potential is always going to be there, I just want to make some of it happen more.

One of the ways we've tried to explore is through BDSM. BDSM, for those who don't know, stands for Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism. I'll have a discussion post on that later.

Early on in our relationship, during a particularly heavy dry humping session, S.'s ass was looking just too round and perfect. My hand found her curves to be a perfect fit, and I started to use my grip to direct her on how to move. To this day, I haven't found a better technique, and I get to grab my fiance. Win-win.

But while I was reveling in the amazing grab I had just made, S. whispered into my ear.

"Spank me."

After a bit of deliberation (hard to do with a hot girl straddling your cock, her bare breasts in your face, your hand on a lovely round butt) I went for it. My hand opened, I pulled back, and with everything inside of me....

I gave her the weakest spanking anyone has received in the history of time. Babies have hit people harder than I hit her. There was no lovely jiggle or sound, because that would have taken an impact greater than a ladybug accidentally running into a wall. It made a noise like a gentle breeze, or the tiniest bubble on a bit of bubble wrap being gingerly popped.

But it still did the trick. She moaned and arched and wanted more. A LOT more. Over the day I got harder and harder, until I was getting that nice thump that only a hand on an ass can give. I was getting to cut loose, and it was super hot. We felt dirty and intense, and it sparked something in us. I hadn't realized that it would feel so good to really let her body have it.

Over the following weeks we tried out some variations. I would spank her a lot more. Sometimes it was a surprise in the heat of the moment, sometimes it was a session that left my handprint on prominent display on her body. Once, I got her close to orgasm simply through rough spanking and play.

I've really not focused as much on this lately, so this post is partly show-and-tell, and partly a way to remind myself that I can be rough and make sex exciting!

I really want to outdo myself. Once I left a handprint that lasted an entire day, along with some finger marks on those lovely soft tits she has. But I don't want to bruise her. So I'm gonna have to find the perfect balance between throwing her around and gentle caresses. This should be fun. *wicked grin*

Something Wicked This Way Comes... - S.

2012-10-30T20:18:00.003-07:00

This is a lovely little story about how I hope my Halloween goes tomorrow night.

S. -

It's Halloween. A. and I don't normally celebrate Halloween except by going to work(exciting, right?), but I think this Halloween will be different. As I was cruising the Victoria's Secret website the other day, I was simultaneously awed by the costumes, and appalled by the prices(97 dollars for a police outfit? I don't think so!). But something caught my eye....

A.-
Another day, another dollar, right? At least, that's what they tell me, but I don't think so! All of my hard earned cash seems to be flying away. I guess that's the price of having a wedding, right? Ah, well. Speaking of, I had better make sure that S. has candy to give to the little demons tonight. She gets off before I do, so I guess that'll be her job for tonight.

After going to the store, I make my way home thinking about the past week. S. and I haven't even had a chance to have sex all week because we've been so busy with work. Retirement sounds lovelier and lovelier and lovelier by the minute...

S.-

I hear the keys...
Penetrate.
Click.
Spin.
Pull.
Open.

"Shea, I'm home!" I hear Austin's voice boom through our apartment. I must stay quiet... He'll find me soon enough...

A.-
Where is she? Hmmmm....

S.-
I know it'll be moments before A. walks through the door. I hear his footsteps already. My body shakes, already wanting to feel my husband pulse inside of me, but I need to keep my composure.... My nipples are hard, my breasts taut....

A.-
I walk into our bedroom to find S. on our bed in an outfit that every man fantasizes about, but no man ever receives. S. is my little bunny, and I'm ready to ravage her...

S.-
A. walked over to me in what felt like slow motion. He brushed the hair from my neck to bring his mouth closer to my ear. I felt his warm calloused fingers trace down my arm as he pressed himself into my back. I could feel how hard he was already getting just from seeing me in my black bunny suit. My ass instinctively pressed back against his erection... He's so hard... I notice A.'s cock straining against his jeans. Those need to go....

Before I realized what was happening, A. began to kiss me wildly, biting my lips while I clawed at his back.

A.-
My hands hook the sides of that thin piece of fabric called underwear, and slide them down where they now lay at my feet.

Where's my shirt?
My jeans?
Does it matter?
No.

S.-
In an instant, he was in me. I'm so wet that he slid his thick length inside of me easily. He pushed in and out while working my clit with one hand, and moved his other hand over my now naked breasts. When did that happen? No matter. A. pulls at my nipples, rolling them between his dexterous fingers as he pushes his hard cock deeper inside of me. Each thrust of his cock sends me deeper and deeper into ecstasy.

I feel his hard muscles form around my soft curves. My breasts are taut with pleasure, my nipples peak out begging to be sucked on.

My boobs ripple with the bouncing motion as A. pushes his cock into my wet pussy. I grab at them, desperate to feel their suppleness.

Love.
Lust.
Sweet ecstasy.
It's ours.

Before I knew it, I was cumming. I felt A. begin to orgasm quickly after me, clawing at my breasts, yelling my name. I yelled his too. We're one. I am his, and he is definitely mine. Our bodies are tangled, sweat, love, tears, it's ours.

-S.

Cold Night Erotica - A.

2012-10-30T16:50:00.001-07:00

The following erotica takes place tomorrow October 31st, 2012. It portrays what I expect to be doing, feeling, and thinking down to the letter.

It's a cold day. And I'm outside. And I'm cold.

Its the kind of cold that feels like it seeps past my skin. My bones feel cold.

I'm wearing fingerless gloves, a grey jacket, jeans, and warm boots. The jacket smells like wood and metal, a result of working outside for a few hours. I opted for the gloves knowing it would be cold and I would be running cables all night, a job my palms don't enjoy. They make me feel like I can still work, even in this
bitter.
crisp.
cold.

I kneel and wrap another cable up. Over, under, over, under, to preserve the life and prevent breakages. Over, under, over, under.... My life for the last hour of my workday. All the kids are gone by this point. It's just the rest of the staff and me, cleaning up our gear, putting it away. No one says much, except for the chatterboxes who never shut up. The moon is nearly full, and large. I wonder why it's so low on the horizon at this hour.

I tramp across the parking lot, deposit the cable next to a dis-assembled carmel apple stand, and walk back to the tent to continue wrapping. The lighted "Fall Festival" sign came down a long time ago, and the yellow lamp lights keep us moving. Over, under, over, under....

I start the car and sigh. After 50 cables, 4 miles of walking, 3 screw-ups to cover up, and 2 cups of cider, I can head home. My hands and feet feel like they're holding onto the cold. I pull out and spend the next ten minutes driving quietly. My phone vibrates when I'm pulling up to my door, my headlights casting stark shadows.

"Come over. I feel like some company."

I sigh with more emphasis and put the car in drive. S. can be high-maintenance sometimes, and I know better than to ignore the request. I'll still be able to grab a hot shower to get rid of the cold inside of me, and maybe some food. I guess it's not all bad....

I pull up, grab my back, and heave my aching bones out of the car. I shuffle up to the door and push it open. I figured it wouldn't be locked.

I slowly walk up the stairs. The house is quiet, and the lights are off. The family S. is staying with took a vacation, but I expected her to be up and coming to greet me. I walk to the end of the hall, my cold-filled feet moving slower than usual. I open the door and am greeted by....

Glitter.

The moment makes me stop in shock. I just went from working hard and steadily in the cold to walking into a cloud of glitter. S.'s laugh brings me back, and I dust off my eyes to see a surreal scene.

S. is standing in the middle of her room. To the right, her bed is covered in pillows and devoid of the usual blankets. To the left, a few warm battery-powered lanterns hang, bathing the room in a warm glow. The floor is a mess of glitter and all manner of stuff. Panties, bras, and pajamas litter the entire room. A set of speakers normally on her bedside table is sitting on the floor. And in the middle of it all, there is one folding chair facing a floor-to-ceiling pole.

S. is standing to one side of the pole, her leg wrapped around it. Her hair is wild and tangled. Her eyes are done in super-dark, bold colors. She is wearing a sheer black lace tank top, one that clings to her like a second skin. Underneath are some red panties that make her ass... pop. As far as I can tell, there isn't a bra holding back her large breasts from moving. I look her up and down, a smile growing. The chill in my bones is still there, but my skin is feeling flushed. She glares and smiles at the same time, a grand wicked look.

"Sit down, dear."

I see no reason to protest.
I sit, and she starts a song. A s sultry tune with a female lead. It seems to be more of a female porn star lead, since the track is loud with thumping bass and punctuated by the singer moaning and gasping phrases like "Oh, yeah!"

S. spins and bends over slowly, letting her butt wriggle a circle in the air. She looks over her shoulder with that same wicked look and runs a finger over her crotch and down her leg. She straightens just as slowly, and walks a slow circle, letting long heels punch the ground. The song bursts into a chorus, a cacophony of sensual guitars and screaming from the girl.

S. grabs her breasts and squats down in front of me, her legs splayed. Just as slowly as before, she stands and walks to the pole. A grab, a pull, and she's swung around the entire thing to come resting her back on it, in front of me.

Her face changes, her legs bend and spread, she leans back on the pole more as her legs come further from it. She pulses her body up and down in rhythm, rubbing herself and contorting her face in pleasure to turn me on. It's working fairly well.

My cock has grown hard and strains against the jeans. I've grown slightly thicker in the past months, and it's made hiding an erection next to impossible. S. sees, and smiles. Before I know what's happened, she's walked over and ripped most of my clothes off. My black boxers do a horrible job of hiding my dick, and S. isn't blind. Her eyes widen a little at the bulge, but she quickly recovers. She bends forward, letting her breasts ripple with the movements. I am pushed back by my shoulders, and she rubs her body up mine. The song begins to build more heat, the singer clearly in ecstasy the musicians helping her.

S. spins, and does a pseudo-belly dance in front of my. My cock jumps and grows, and she notices. Before her next revolution, she sits low and pushes her ass right onto my rock-hard dick. She gasps as the width spreads her open, her panties stretched and tearing slightly. She moves in sensual circles, moaning as I begin to make grunts and groans of pleasure. My cock is being caressed by her softness, and I love every second of it.

She strips her shirt off, and my hands find her breasts immediately They are warm and free-moving today, letting me create ripples and waves. I fondle them as she moves harder, her body less graceful and more instinctively hungry at this point. Her pussy throbs against me when it passes over my cock, making me harder. I moan and pull her around just the way I like, letting every body part get a chance. I'm so desperate to fuck this bitch....

She gets up and makes a move for the pole. I spring up and grab her, throwing her onto the bed of pillows face first. She gasps, my cock is out, her panties slide down over her ass and legs, I line up, and I push with all my might to give my fat, throbbing cock to her wet pussy, and JUST as I pass through her deliciously full lips...

I wake with a gasp in my car, blinking and sweating. I sit up and frantically whip my head around before coming back to the real world. I'm in my car, the engine running, alone in the parking lot by the venue I worked that night. I sit up and take a deep breath. I must have dozed off from the fatigue...

I put the car in drive, sit up and stretch my neck, and pull out onto the dark highway. I share it with one or two other cars, the drivers equally sleepy. The radio remains off. I'd prefer to listen to the sound the cool air makes over my windshield, the whispers of the day.

I pull up to my house, the headlights casting stark shadows. I sigh, same as before, and look at my phone. No messages wait for me. My beautiful partner went to sleep well over an hour ago, and is warm and dreaming. I hope it's about me tonight.

My backpack goes over my shoulder, my car beeps, and I'm walking up to my front door. I turn the lock quietly and make straight for my bathroom. Food can wait, but the cold in my bones is feeling heavier by the second.

I turn on the hot water and sit on the tiled floor, letting it pour over me. I don't think I want to get out. My head falls against the wall, and I close my eyes.

New Erotica- S.

2012-08-19T11:27:00.000-07:00

This is a new erotica I've thought up in my evening slumbers, and it's in A.'s point of view! Tell me what you think

Sounds. I hear sounds, but not just any sound: Giggling. After a long day of work, that was something to get used to. I heard not just S., but a new girl... It sounded like C., a mutual friend of ours that S. has just recently gotten to know. C. has short blonde hair, green eyes, and a gorgeous body much like the one S. has.

Sure enough, walking around the corner to our bedroom, I see two blonde heads instead of one. I also see two sets of breasts. S. has this point in her cycle where her boobs are especially amazing, and today was one of those days. Her rosey nipples pointed upward just begging to be sucked into someone's warm, waiting mouth(I just hoped that mouth was mine!). S. was wearing her favorite boyshorts-this white and silver lacy number that I so enjoyed- and C. was wearing this bright red thong that showed off her cute, perky ass. They didn't notice me so I decided to stay quiet just looking through the crack in the door as they played with each other.

Currently, S. had C. in her lap and was receiving a lap dance of sorts. I could tell from the look on her face that she enjoyed having a C's boobs at eye level. S. pulled one of C's nipples into her mouth and began to moan. The sound was low and primal- Animal instincts have kicked in. More than anything, I wanted to be in that bed with them, but I knew that this was S.'s time to have fun. As long as she's out there having fun, I could watch, right? Right.

Watching S. suck on another girls' breasts' was probably one of the more erotic things I've seen in my life. The way S. would pull her nipple in between her teeth and run her tongue along her areola... *shivers*

S. and C. spent the majority of their night entwined in each other. The two girls swapped off on giving massages ALL over, sucking licking, pulling on body parts, and fingering each other. S. even pulled out her favorite vibrator from our nightstand(which she never does). and using it on C.! I can't help but pulse just watching the two of them together.

Later that night, I tell S. what all I saw. She becomes flushed as though she's embarrassed, as she whispers "I'm sorry..."
"Sorry about what?! I enjoyed it as much as you did! Now, one of the things C. did to you- I think I want to try it...."

THE END.

Titty-Fucking Simulate for Masturbation? - A.

2012-08-17T18:19:00.000-07:00

This is going to be a post with both information and instructions. Tonight S. and I are going to try a little experiment. I'm writing this first portion of the post at 3 P.M. my time, and I'll be writing up the rest after the experiment has been conducted.

I LOVE do-it-yourself sex toys. I love the idea of using a regular winter scarf for a blindfold, for using twisted bedsheets as a restraint system, or for using pillows, ottomans, or garden furniture as sex furniture. S. has already had quite a lot of fun grinding on an arm of her couch for masturbation.

For guys, there aren't as many at-home remedies for masturbation. I've heard stories of girls using any phallic-shaped vegetable they can find, mini-broom handles, humping something like the corner of a bed or door, using streams of water from jets in the shower or pool, ect. For guys, there isn't as much since most of the more common masturbation techniques involve rubbing the penis with the hand. And while I've had much fun with this method, I want to find something that could be used by any boy with access to basic at-home materials.
So I got to thinking about the masturbation sleeves already on the market. Those cater to a wide variety of men and (at least, with the Fleshlight) have success with giving them pretty good orgasms. But I ran into a problem. Nothing that's available at-home can REALLY replicate that skin texture, the tube shape, and the tightness a lot of guys prefer. At least, not with the materials and skills available to most fifteen-year-olds who are just starting to experiment with their sexuality through masturbation.

So I didn't really act on it. But today, stemming from a little joke I had going with S., I came up with an idea. Last time I was in town, S. titty-fucked me A LOT. It was SOOOO HOT. OMG.
We found some good positions, and she would rub her breasts on my cock. The visual was so amazing, and the sensation was so unique. It was a lighter, wider rubbing motion than her hand, my hand, or dry-humping. Her boobs are big enough to totally envelop my cock and keep it in this warm, soft place. Then, once my pre-cum lubes it up a little bit, it feels INCREDIBLE. The pressure is really light, but it's so amazing! And that gave me this idea:
Why not replicate the breasts instead of the vagina? I know most guys are used to more pressure than what's given in titty-fucking, but learning to masturbate with less pressure can be good for guys who want to gain some sensitivity and/or make their masturbation a longer experience. And replicating two big orbs is easier than making a little tube-y skin-like masturbation sleeve.

So I have two ideas that may or may not work, both designed from objects I have around the house. I did not buy any of these. My list of materials I'm going to play around with are:

Zip Ties
Large Plastic Bags
Large Balloons
Lotion
Duct Tape and Electrical Tape
String
Flour
Washcloth

and maybe a few others. I probably wont use all these. I just gathered up a bunch of stuff from my garage and bathroom. I know I'll be using the lotion for lube and the balloons and bags for the actual breasts. I have some better silicone lubes and I could probably use some stuff in my kitchen to come up with a bouncy, rubbery flesh simulate to fill said balloons or bags with. And I could probably find some better things than balloons or bags. But I'm limiting myself to COMMON household items. So lotion for lube, and water or other common liquids for filling. Filling? Stuffing? Whatever.

My plan is to make two separate titty-fuck masturbators. Just for fun! =D

One will use the balloons, the other the large plastic bags (like Zip-lock or food bags). This is because I believe the balloons will feel better on my cock once lubed up a lil, but plastic bags will be less prone to breaking, as balloons are prone to. Now, this might not be a problem, since I'm designing this around being disposable. But if the balloons break after some thrusting or rubbing, that might kill the mood. I have a trash bag layed out with a towel on top of it in the room I'm using as my "lab", just in case of any breakage.

I will fill the baloons and bags with water, then tie them at the top. I'm gonna be sure not to overfill either one. Then I will attatch them to each other using zip ties. Then I will put some tape on there (yay backup plan!). Then there's the problem of rotation. Breasts don't rotate around your cock when you thrust. The stay put and move back and forth. I plan on using some zip ties around the wider parts of the water vessels or some carefully placed tape. Then give 'em some lube. I'll also be attaching the sting to the zip ties to ensure it stays put. I'm going to experiment with how to hang it. maybe a doorway or fan...

I may try it around my neck. But I'll do it so it's not going all the way around. I will tie both ends of the string to the zip ties, so it's a LARGE loop that can't tighten. Even if something comes loose it will fall rather than strangle you. And it shouldn't be too heavy, and around the neck might be good! But I suspect having it hanging from something will yield better results.

An Off-Topic Rant on Marital Bliss and Stress - S.

2012-08-16T11:49:00.000-07:00

I am thoroughly enjoying being engaged to A. Like, I'm loving every second of it! But there's one thing we've been struggling with through the beginning of our engagement: stress.

Now obviously we've struggled with that before, but we especially have now. And stress harms our intimacy.
A. and I have missed our sex life immensely, but currently, we couldn't boost it regardless of our desires to "go at it". A. has a cyst in one of his testicles. He may have to have surgery if it gets any worse. He is in pain when he drives, sits, bends over, etcetera... it kills me to see him in so much pain. It hurts him to be aroused sometimes.
Before this happened, I was on my period, and it's very difficult for us to get into it when I'm menstruating. Now, when I am on my period, I love to be groped by A. and to hear him talk dirty to me.

But, as A. and I are planning our legal marriage.. our wedding.. we have been trying to arouse (so to speak) our intimate life, and to regain our open communication. We are going to go to premarital counseling, and we are reading up on so many different ways to help our relationship pre-marriage.

Our wedding is just a year away, and we have so much to get done between now and then, but the most important thing is our relationship. If I were to wear jeans and a ratty tshirt, and A. sweat pants and a PJ shirt to our wedding, none of that would matter so long as our relationship were in a good place.

Now fear not, my sweet little readers, we have never EVER come even close to breaking up. That would never, and will never happen. But, I want to tell all of you in a serious relationship, don't let stress get in the way of your sex life with your partner. No matter what, continue to have sex, cuddle, hug each other, KISS. For goodness sakes, TOUCH EACH OTHER. It's one of the best ways to bond after a fight. My favorite thing to do after a fight: have wild, rough intimate time. Pound into each other, have crazy, wild sex.
More later,

S.

Prostate Stimulation for Dummies - A.

2012-08-07T14:15:00.003-07:00

This is the first full revised post since the update. We would love feedback on how this is received, and please refer your friends to these new posts. They will often contain safety and health informations about hidden dangers, and tips for hidden pleasures. The more people that hear about it, the more fun everyone will have!

Today, let's talk about the Male Prostate Gland.

I first heard about the prostate gland on The Sex is Fun Show. When we are in the womb, there is a gland that is formed in the pelvic area. In women it becomes the G-Spot, and in men it becomes the Prostate Gland. Both of these glands have functions that apply to sex and reproduction. In fact, these glands are just as responsible for orgasms as our nerves and minds, and produce most of the body fluids related to sex. This post will focus on the prostate, and in a later one we will address the infamous G-spot.

The prostate is located in the pelvic area, right above the taint, between the rectum and base of the penis. Its size and shape vary between people, and vary with levels of arousal. When someone with a prostate is aroused, the prostate will get much, much bigger.
The testes produce only sperm. Now, when you ejaculate, there's a lot more than just a few thousand tiny cells. The prostate produces the fluid that carries the sperm. In fact, most of ejaculate is prostate fluids, and a tiny amount of the actual volume is sperm. The fluid is not urine, or fluid from the testes.

The prostate is also a hidden gem. It is a big part of the physical sensation of orgasm, and due to that, stimulating the prostate leads to a new pleasure, much like stroking a cock in a different way. Stimulation will also lead to more powerful, longer, more pleasurable orgasms with increased sensitivity of the penis and a greater volume of ejaculate. In some cases, it can lead to multiple "full" orgasms. It can be compared to a woman having orgasms by clitoral stimulation alone, then adding in her G-spot to the equation. But above all, the prostate feels good to play with.

There is also talk that stimulating the prostate intentionally for pleasure could lead to a decrease in your risk for prostate issues later in life. Please, seek these studies and decide for yourself what you think of them.

My experience with prostate play was limited before listening to Sex is Fun. I had heard in passing Cosmopolitan Magazine talking about ways to stimulate the prostate, but this was mainly through massaging the Perineum. I read into it, and mainly saw tips like "Men, ball up a pair of socks, and sit with it below your taint. Then, rock back and forth while you masturbate" or "Ladies, massage his taint firmly during intercourse to really make the sparks fly".

I tried a few, but found that stimulation through the taint was not my cup of tea. For one thing, my perineum seems to be very hard, and seems even harder when I am aroused. This made those massages feel bad and uncomfortable, like sitting on a tennis ball. I also seem to have a taint that is not very flat, so that could possibly impact how much pressure is comfortable for me. For some people, this will be just the ticket. For people like me, you might need a more... direct route.

This may make some guys uncomfortable, because this approach involves anal penetration of a sort. Please, let me enlighten you: Putting anything up your butt is not "Gay" or "Homo" unless that object is a penis attached to another biological male. If it is indeed said penis, then yeah, that activity is a little gay.

*SAFETY RANT*
When doing anal penetration of any kind, follow some basic safety. Use a plain lube, preferably silicone. Make sure it contains no additives for tastes, sensations, spermicides, ect. Plain. Here is an example of an anal-safe lube. Also, if you put anything up your ass that is not attached to your body or your partner's body, make sure it has a flared base or a base that is wider than your anus. Make sure the base is too wide for the object to slip inside of you and lead to an emergency room trip.

I prefer anal penetration for prostate stim. It's much more targeted, strong, and leaves me with a much better result. The first time I tried it was after researching it using the Sex is Fun Podcast and select portions of The Guide To Getting it On. I got some lube, and next time I was showering after the gym, I just kind of went for it.

It was awkward at first. Learning to relax the anal muscles is a key skill to enjoying any anal experience, and I was not good at it. I had to do some pushing, grunting, and re-lubing a few times. I didn't use nearly enough slippery, and wasn't familiar with the angles I needed to take.

Once I was in, I noticed that I already had an erection. As it turns out, I like stimulation of the anus. It has been my go-to move if I'm having trouble getting aroused. Hop into a hot shower, do a little rubbing and a tiny bit of penetration, and I'm good to go for round two.

My technique for finding my prostate was kind of trial and error. I really just used my fingertip and felt around. As soon as I felt a sensation that was kind of good, kind of uncomfortable, kind of intense, I went with it. I used circular motions, a "come hither" move, and generally just tried to massage it. I really couldn't get more than my fingertips to reach, so I was a little limited. But WOW, was it good. I was in this strange limbo of ecstasy and discomfort. My body wasn't used to this new feeling, and it was almost too much.

I kept this up for three or four minutes, then pulled out and washed off. I had a thick, veiny, huge boner that was standing up all on it's own. I felt a throbbing from my pelvis, and could feel my heart pound as my cock grew more and more. I measured and found that between not orgasming for two days and the prostate massage, I had grown a full half inch in length and tons in girth. Naturally, there was only one thing to do.

I laid down a towel, got on it, closed my eyes, and immediately moaned. My hand had found my lubed cock, and each stroke made me gasp and writhe. It had more than doubled the pleasure and sensitivity of my penis, and having a larger erection gave me more to do with it. I used both hands and tried all sorts of soft strokes, long ones, massaging, ect.

I was using a pretty go-to fantasy at the time, one that may have spawned an erotica: S. and I having shower sex while a lesbian couple went at it next to us, and maybe having fun with S. occasionally. Having just been in the shower, it was especially vivid. I rubbed faster, but not harder, massaging my cock's head, and went harder and harder until...

I exploded. I shot a good ten times, soaking my chest, stomach, and the towel with cum. It was almost clear, and sweeter to the taste. I kept cumming for a minute more, and finally came down.

I can't recommend prostate stimulation enough. Go out, and try something new tonight!

-A.

Summer Skin, Summer Lovin' - A.

2012-07-25T13:37:00.004-07:00

"...In the cool of the evening light, the girls in their summer clothes pass me by..."

Katie's hand lazily drifted to the dial of the radio, turning the Bruce Springsteen track up a few clicks. A few bursts of static did nothing to the heavy, hot, calm mood of the July night. Her fingers slid up the radio, sauntered over the arm of her chair, and came to rest on her hipbone. A sigh escaped her moist lips, and she pulled the sunglasses over her dark eyes. The sunset was best enjoyed without squinting.

The radio spat out another burst of static before the song was over. When the sound rang through clear again, it was some muffled talk show. She muted the station, preferring the ocean surf and rusty creak of the rocking chair to lull her into a trance. Her ebony skin was exposed, and her left hand flitted occasionally to her nipples. They felt a little hot, but she didn't feel like getting up to fetch the sunscreen.

Crickets chirped away, a bird sang, the ocean settled, and Katie sank deeper into a relaxed state, toying with her bikini bottom's strings....

(20 minutes earlier)

CRASH! BOOM!

She gasped, panting, struggling to get up. "DAMN IT! FUCK ME!"

He lunged at her, tackling her over the destroyed bed to the ground again. He moaned and grabbed at every inch of skin he could. She gasped at his strength, half-struggling to get her footing.

He pulled her by her legs, over her stomach, then grasped her hips. She clung to the bedsheets strewn, and shards of her lingerie thrown around, and screamed.

"You like that? YOU LIKE THAT?!"

"YES!!!" She howled, almost fainting from the heat. His cock pounded harder with each thrust. "FASTER," She demanded, "FASTER! NOW!"

"Little bitch..." He growled. With effort, he hoisted her to her feet, and rammed her into the wall. Paintings smashed like cymbals, the door flew open with the force, and she growled right back at him, teeth bared.

He bit her nipple hard, so hard she saw white, so hard her pussy spasmed and made her convulse. His cock found her labia, slipped inside, and resumed the assault.

"GOD! YES!" She clawed his shoulders, leaving deep scratches. In return, he picked her up, still thrusting, and lunged into the next doorway, shoving her into the shower. She stumbled, but quickly pressed her breasts into the wall and poked her round ass out like the good little bitch that she was. The game was over. Now he would fuck her until they both came. He stepped to her, grabbed her ass hard enough to leave marks. Time slowed down.

Second.

By agonizing second.

She knew that this was it.

This was the fucking they both wanted. They were so bad. She was so naughty, wanting the abuse...

Her thoughts blurred, her mind reeled as his dick slipped into her...

Katie slowly stood from her relaxation, feeling a bead of sweat on her forehead. Her body was a dark brown, silhouetted by the last rays of sunlight.

Her curves were much more bottom heavy, but that's the way her boyfriend liked it. She grabbed her water glass, sipped, and slinked down to the beach. The lightest of breezes cooled her, the ocean calmed her, and the heat inside drove her.

The chirping birds were calling, the waves were crashing, the moon was rising as she strode in full view along the water's edge.

Rules be damned. This was summer, a time for her to have her fun.
The sun left, the sand cooled, and Katie walked.

-A.

Hope your summer is going well!

A Few Videos to Intrest -A.

2012-06-28T13:49:00.005-07:00

I am going to be doing my first wave of pulling posts down and beginning the editing process over the next three days, as S. will be leaving for a trip and I will be working a job that does not require my full attention. Expect some posts to disappear, and others to re-surface renewed.

Today, I wanted to start a new type of post: videos. I like to link good videos, but they always felt out of place in normal posts. I will often read blogs and NOT click the singular video link. I was reading a long post so I was in the mood to stay on that page, I was in the middle of reading and would rather not stop and come back to it, ect, ect.

We have been guilty of this in the past, so a new format is needed. Video-oriented posts will let the reader know exactly what they are getting into, letting them decide to read it when they are in the mood to open up some cool vids.

Today, I'm gonna spice it up even more by playing video roulette. The rules are simple:
You must blindly click on every link and watch them (or don't, you are your own person). Most are educational and informative. BUT... One is a gallery of an amateur sexy model, and one is a behind-the-scenes clip from the new movie "Magic Mike", centered around a male stripper. Others include how to actually examine your testicles for cancer (something most men are not taught) and free STD testing available in your area. Enjoy.

All these links are meant to benefit you in some way. Note that most are NSFW.

Link #1
Link #2
Link #3
Link #4
Link #5
Link #6

-A.

Making Time - A.

2012-06-26T18:10:00.004-07:00

I've been a busy man.

I have a lot of work that has come to me recently. This is great, as I've had many awesome late nights running sound for cool people and my coming paychecks will be large. This is also coinciding with the height of summer, and gas prices dropping. I couldn't be happier financially, and I've been running around enjoying freedom with my happy wallet. All this has happened without crimping our time together. I still see S. four or five days out of the week, same as always, and we get the same amount of time on average.

But we have been slacking on intimacy.

So once again, we are at a point where we must make a conscious effort to hold intimacy as a priority. We are both in agreement on this, which is the only reason this is working. If we were not in agreement about this, it would easily fail. We will avoid going out if it means some intimate time, we lounge shirtless to get the sexy mood flowing, we swim and stay close to one another, shower together if possible... Basically try and bring a sexual atmosphere into our lives more and more.

My main point is not the individual ways we are ushering in intimacy. I am not posting to try and tell you all that showering together is sexy, or that leaving little hot notes for one another is a great libido boost. If you are creative at all, you can figure these things out*.

My main point is that if you feel your spark waning, you need to sit down and lay out the fact that you need to consciously make intimacy an important part of your lives again. You may not want to, you may not feel like it, but sit down and say it.
With your words.
Out loud.
Say what you've been feeling without accusing, and remind your significant other that you are both on the same team. Use that term too. Actually say "We are on the same team". It's such a simple statement that reminds people in conflict that your partner is someone you chose out of your own free will, and is your friend. Work together.

Then, try and talk out some ways to attain what you want. Talk it out, write it down, set it as your alarm title on your phone so it'll remind you. Just talk to each other and stay calm, and soon your intimate life will blossom again.

The worst thing you could do is not say anything. Expecting the other person to pick up on the vibes you're feeling and change it will lead you to conflict, guaranteed. Trying to work it out on unspoken agreements and terms will leave it ambiguous and not get you results. And resenting one another while making no effort to change the situation will make you both miserable losers who could soon be single with some new baggage to lump onto your next partner. Take your pick.

Sometimes, plain old diplomacy is the sexiest choice. Sexy, sexy politics.
-A.

*For those who aren't feeling so creative, a post with ideas for sex, dates, and fun with others will be in the works soon.

More Updates - A.

2012-06-26T10:01:00.000-07:00

Hello all. We have a few new updates for you all on this blogs formatting.

Note: fret not, minions, there are plenty of regular posts in the works, and we are working on tagging more posts.

We now have a search function! This may be temporary, I do not like how inaccurate it is, but it will allow you to search for old posts while we sort out tags and archiving.

Our new page loads extremely fast on all devices, including devices on 3G networks and weak WiFi. I like having one consistent page layout for all devices, but on smartphones the background image was shoved over the text, making it difficult to read. So I have enabled a very simple mobile site that will load up on your mobile devices and allow you to read our posts with ease. I am going to work on bringing it more in line with our regular site, but it may be the best option for allowing you people to view our posts.

Other small changes include a higher quality backdrop, tweaks to colors and qualities to make the text easy to read, optimizing performance, and adding a dash of love.

More later,
-A.

2012-06-24T19:05:00.000-07:00

Today, I'm gonna talk about me and S.'s experience with some of the most effective and least sexy sex toys. In the same way that the largest sex organ we have as humans isn't our genitals, but our minds, the sex toys that get the most return aren't the ones on the shelf at SexWorld, Smitten Kitten, or Extreme Restraints. So without any more rambling, here's my top ten picks for the best unsexy sex toys! We've used a majority of these, but not all of them since we are long-distance.

#5 - A pen and paper

Those of you who actually have read back on our posts will know that S. gave me an incredibly hot scavenger hunt around her apartment by leaving clues on scraps of paper that led me to all her clothing hanging up on doors or on the floor, and ending with her wearing boyshorts and a silk robe and lying on a big bed. Okay, so maybe it was texts and not paper, but still! We've also drawn hot little drawings for each other, written sexy notes, and had a ton of fun with it! A pad of paper and a mechanical pencil or pen has a ton of possibilities. Have you ever thought about hiding sexy notes in your partner's lunch, clothing, bag, or on their computer? You'll drive them crazy by tantalizing them all day, and bonus points if you include some sexy drawings. That's why a pen and some paper gets the number five spot.

#4 - A list of chores/responsibilities

Do you have a partner who doesn't seem to have any time for intimacy? Do they seem distracted or anxious about getting things done after they're done with having pleasure with you? Then get off your butt and fix it! Do their chores, or do something that they usually take on. Take on some of their responsibilities for once, and try to shoulder some of their work. If you do it before they get home, you are so set for some action. Call that friend and schedule some stuff! Pick them up that stuff from the store they need! You'll find that not only do they have more time, but they will be more relaxed since they're not worrying about what they have to do after sex/intimacy.

#3 - Dress shirt

Every guy has some dress shirts. They're usually the same old button down shirt that everyone wears. Not too sexy, right? WRONG!!!!!
Men - ZZ Top had it right: Ladies go crazy for a sharp dressed man. I know plenty of people have different tastes in fashion, but a majority of men and women like a man who doesn't dress completely formally, but looks nice. Try getting up, shaving, showering, and dressing in something pretty nice, complete with a well-fitting dress shirt for your next date instead of just jeans and a t-shirt. Also, some partners like you to pull a Hasselhoff and unbotton it like halfway down. Try leaving the shirt on during intimacy and just unbottoning it. It'll feel new and exciting and makes a convinent wrist restraint or blindfold.

Women - WEAR HIS SHIRT. Do it with nothing else on. Do it with some cute lingerie or some shorts or even pajamas. Unbotton it. Leave it bottoned. Wear it out with friends. Wear it at home just for him. Put it on and go take a shower. Leave it on during sex. It's a total turn on, it's cute, and guys and girls just LOVE it! No matter what you do with it, without it, or in it, almost everyone loves a little girl in a men's button down.

#2 - A chaise

This little piece of furniture has offerend us so many positions it's almost unbelievable. Really, look up a picture of the avergage chaise and just picture all the things you can do. Liberator needs to make a sex chaise. For now, if you own one, go try it out. It's seriously versatile to the extreme.

#1 - Gym membership or workout program.

This is the number one sex toy. Why? No other sexy toy can promise all the following:
More energy
Make you more attractive to people, not the least of which your partner
An increase in testosterone, and indirectly libido
To make you feel sexier and more attractive
Help you live longer so you can have more sex

It also gives you the excuse to go and spend some time together moving, gets some good-feeling endorpins, and gives you an excuse to have some sweaty intimate time, as well as some shower fun.
I know even 30 minutes a day seems like too much time for some people, but it's good for you, necessary for good health, and will truly boost your sex life.

-A.

Quick Fantasy Log - A.

2012-03-07T18:33:00.000-08:00

This is a surprise post for S.! She's always wanting to know my current fantasies, so here you go my love!
I'll make some notes by some of them. They range from the simple to the extreme *wink*.

-Long blowjob late at night after a bath.
-Striptease with a lap dance ending.
-Some grinding in reverse cowgirl, then you leaning back so your back is on my chest and we grind some more like that.
-Anal in the shower... *shiver*
-Titty fucking, titty fucking, titty fucking... Titty fucking all day long with tons of lube...
-Being watched by a girl while we have fun. Still a huge one for me, but it's expanded a little. I'd want the person to be doing it for their pleasure OR just for fun OR to help us fulfill our fantasy.
-Doggy style with you moving your hips in alternating circles.
-Sucking, licking, and massaging your breasts for a long, long time.
-Me giving you instructions on how to please me, then laying back and having you carry them out.
-More dirty dancing with me in charge.
-You laying flat on the ground with your legs almost in the splits, your arms out in front, and me grinding and touching you however I want.
-Me watching you watch some hot striptease or lesbian scene online, then having some hot fun afterwords with you in the shower.
-Me cumming in you (mouth, vagina, ass... I'm not picky!)
-You sending me a surprise, super dirty quick fantasy. In fact, I may do this for you soon!
-Me playing with my prostate and you jacking and sucking me off.
-More videography with my favorite porn star... YOU! Maybe I'll join in the next scene...
-Double girl blowjob (a mental only fantasy, but still a niiiice one, and one you gave me in the first place. Muchas Gracias!).

That's just the start... You should give me a list!
I love you :)

-A.

All About Breasts - Visual - Personal Opinions - A.

2012-03-06T09:10:00.001-08:00

Hey all!

Yesterday was a lot of facts, statistics, boring boring boring for some of you. So I decided today to continue my thoughts on yesterday's post, but more from my own opinions.

DISCLAIMER: I dearly hope to not offend any of you dear readers. If you feel bad because of what I say I like/ don't like, please know that not only am I just one male in this whole wide world, I'm engaged. That means that I do not know you and your wonderful personalities, your stunning looks, or whatever other assets your future partner or partners will find endearing, beautiful, or sexy about you, and I will never be that partner. I am also coming at this with a complete disregard for anything other than skin deep beauty, since that's the topic of this little series. Remember that it's the person you are, not the person you look like, that defines you.

To start off, I'm a boob guy. I do love the ass and abs and hips and neck and all the rest (except legs. Legs are nice but not as big of a turn on for me), but the boobs edge the rest out a little bit. If my attraction to the other parts of the female body is a 9/10, my attraction to the breasts is a 10/10. Me and S. play with her breasts, look at breasts, give them names, talk about them... I love it!

From a visual standpoint, I do prefer a C cup size and up, with some exceptions for notable B cupped pairs. For me, it's far more about shape than size. I like rounded or teardrop shaped ones with forward or upward turned nipples. There's also just undefinable criteria that I look for. I'll like one pair and not another of identical size and shape because of subtle differences.

I go for the bustier girls, sure. But I've found that size is less of an issue when it comes to touching them. I've had the pleasure of knowing S. for a long time, and during that time her breast size has fluctuated. It was a B cup when I first touched them, went up to a C cup along our relationship, spent some time flipping between a C and a D cup, and has now decided to settle for the moment on a solid D cup. This means that I've gotten to experience the same set of boobs in many sizes (Great fodder for fantasies, by the way. I can vividly remember the feel of each size and choose what I like that day). And my conclusion:

There's not much of a difference in how they feel.

At a B cup they were just as soft and perky as a C cup. And there was even less difference between the feel of a C cup and a D cup! At a C, I couldn't fit the breast all the way in one hand, so every size up after that was just increasing the degree to which I couldn't fit the breast in one hand. Visually it was stunning to see the difference, but in touch there was a more subtle change.

Now, I prefer her D cup rack, it gives me more to play with and makes titty fucking the best thing ever, and lets me give her more pleasure. I address the fact that they felt very similar to ease up any anxiety any of you may be feeling about your breasts or your partner's breasts. Know that visually and in physical intimacy, all breasts are similar in very important and erotic ways.

Later tonight or early tommorow I will be posting on breast augmentation, enhancement, and reconstruction. Look forward to seeing you there!

-A.

All About Breasts Part 1 - Breast Size: Visual - A.

2012-03-05T10:42:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone! After much delay, research, and a lack of coffee, here is the first part of our small series on secondary sexual characteristics. (Click the link for definition or a refresher course on what these are). Today we will be discussing breast sizes, and how men perceive them.

I am a male, giving a male perspective. I've done some research into why men like breasts (boobs, knockers, sweater puppies, tits, jugs, ect.) and what they like about them. I'm writing this with two tabs open, full of the info that I've gathered, and will be adding in my own insight to the current information about the average American/European male. I've also found a strong correlation between females and attraction to breasts, so I'm using their information as well.

First, let's address breast size from a visual standpoint. Breasts are a very obvious sexual characteristic, and are the more playful sexual body part for most. This produces a lot of pressure on women, as this is a sexual characteristic mostly out of their control (we will discuss breast enhancements, augmentations, and reconstructions later). The attraction to breasts seems to stem from many things. I'll list them out below to make it easy:

They are one of the first sources of comfort, bonding, and sustenance we encounter after we are born. Many people find this unnerving to think about, but it's not in a sexual way at all. You were a baby, and all you knew was sleeping and feeding yourself, and breasts were one of the first body parts you were taught to recognize as "good". Seems to be true across most genders.
They are a "Forbidden Fruit", a body part not suitable for public display according to society. Just making them something off limits makes it enticing, seductive. Nowadays it's less about the breasts, and more about the nipples, which makes it even more enticing. Now we can see this previously private body part, the cleavage, the skin, imagine how it feels, AND there's a hyper-erotic, hyper-sexualized, and VERY off limits part of that breast that we want to see even more badly! It's the off-limits body part on the off-limits body part.
Women are taught to look forward to their breasts developing during puberty, much like a boy is taught to look forward to muscles and a larger penis. This makes it a common part of every female's development, and often something exciting and new, and these feelings can carry over to adulthood. There's also a study showing that if one female see's a peer develop breasts before her, she instinctual gets a bit of jealousy and desire for those breasts to be hers, most likely brought on by genetic drives to be a desirable partner for the purposes of procreation. That same study showed that young women with earlier breast development were more likely to sexualize their breasts as something others desired.
Men first encounter these growing, budding breasts when they are young, hormone-ridden, and still developing in their minds. Breasts are very obvious, and hard to hide, and were probably some of the first impressions of female sexuality young men encountered in daily life (not counting internet, television, books, magazines, ect.)
They are seen as a pre-cursor to intercourse; i.e. "First Base" is making out, "Second base" is touching the breasts and sometimes the butt, "Third Base" is usually some escalation of the previous actions like oral sex or dry humping, and "Home" or a "Home Run" is full intercourse. Men and women are taught that before sex, the bra comes off, making it a part of one's sexual experience. There seems to be little influence from size or shape on people's desires to make it to "Second Base", showing that it's breasts in general and not a certain set of attributes that make them desirable.
They are fun! They're a fun, feminine, soft, warm, cute, sexy body part. All those attributes are good things, and make them something that men and women want to feel, even in non-sexual ways. There's not much about breasts to make them unappealing, unless you are genuinely not attracted to them. And most people are up for a grab or feel! I'll discuss that fact later... *wink*

So now we know why people like the boobies, now let's talk about sizes and shapes from a visual standpoint. Men and women, across all studies, have different results. Let's talk about the two biggest questions people have first.

"Are my breasts too small visually?"
No! While males seemed to prefer a B sized cup and up, there were Google search results in the millions for pictures of females with A cups or smaller (I am talking about search reports on how many people search terms, not how many web-pages of small breasted women available). It's a small drop-off, but with millions of men searching for those small chests, you are certainly not going to be rejected. Women took an equal interest in A-cups on up, to an extent.
We also live in a society were there are many ideas of beautiful female bodies, and one of these is the skinny, angular, and flat-chested girl. This idea has made small breasts an asset to posses and be proud of. It's all about finding the people who like your body type and think you're the hottest thing to walk this earth!

"Are my breasts too big visually?"
No, but with some qualifiers. Men preferred a C sized cup and up more than the B sized cup and below overall, but with qualifications. There was more desire for natural breasts, and far FAR less for surgically enhanced breasts. But as far as the natural girls are concerned, there seems to be no such thing as too big. Males were shown photos and drawings of females with C-cups on up, and didn't even stop saying that they thought those breasts were attractive even when they got disproportionately large. They were even shown Anime drawings of girls who's breasts were larger than their entire body and the males still rated them sexy. With fake breasts there was a dramatic fall-off, but this is likely due to the "unnatural" appearance of extreme breast implants.
Females took an interest in both natural and surgically enhanced breasts, but there was a steady fall-off from sized G breasts and up. HOWEVER, those same women said that in real life, they would find those breasts equally desirable, just not in pictures. So take heart, busty ladies! You're damn sexy to all genders, no matter your size.

Breast shape is also a needless source of anxiety for those blessed to posses them. Most men and women preffered a few shapes. There was equal response for the "teardrop" shape, where (if the person was standing sideways) the top line of the breasts would be straight or even concave, and the bottom line was rounded and full, the "oval" shape, where the top and bottom lines are curved outwards, the "flatter" shape where the breasts hang lower and sit more flat to the body, and any variation of how far apart the breasts are.

Both men and women preffered upward-pointed nipples, but still liked downward facing ones. Nipple size, shape, and color made no difference whatsoever.

HOMEWORK:
Touch a new pair of breasts (If acceptable in your relationship). See how easy or hard it is to get permission, observe the feel and look, and take careful note of your body's reaction. Try to pay attention to the person you're touching. Do they like it, or are they indifferent? This exercise is especially helpful with females to not only bond with their friends, but to feel better about themselves as shown in a 2009 study.

Ta Ta for now!
-A.

A Retraction - A.

2012-02-27T10:42:00.000-08:00

Yesterday I posted that there would be posts today and tomorrow on the topics of breast size and breasts in popular culture, but there will be delays. But fret not!

As I've delved into this topic, others have arisen: general body image related to secondary sexual characteristics, breasts and the internet, and more in-depth studies into a largely defining factor of feminism. So expect some long posts this week, starting tomorrow. S. and I will be going at our own pace, and covering this topic better than we would have before. Also expect a few posts on male secondary sexual characteristics, as these are not as widely examined but still closely tied to the female ones.

Have a great day, and remember to drive safely!

-A.

P.S. Support the Trevor project if you can! Link on the right!

Two Parts: Health and Balls, Married Life Spark, and Breasts in Reality - A.

2012-02-26T18:10:00.000-08:00

This post is a two part post of ramblings from me. It's been too long since our last update, and we are really trying to make this a habit we keep. So without further ado, let's get to the sharing!

S. and I have been trying to further re-kindle our intimacy. Lately, I've had health problems that really prevent any arousal on my part. I've got a small cyst and a bit of inflammation on one of my testicles. If that seems like too much information, know that the only reason I share is to say this to any men and women out there: please do not be embarrassed if you start to have pain in any private part of your body. If you have any sort of pain, discomfort, or if anything seems out of sorts, I am BEGGING you to immediately set aside your self-consciousness, religious beliefs, or any other reasons you have for just ignoring the feelings and contact a health care professional. There are serious risks out there, and almost all have effective treatment options if caught soon enough.

On a related note, a little while ago S. and I discovered something fun. I came up with an activity for us to help our intimacy more. Our execution of it was a bit of a dud and didn't really happen, but it's an idea that would probably work for anyone.
I told her that if I wrote a long erotica, I would send it to her in exchange for a sexy video of herself. After I told her, we both realized it was one of those activities where both parties are getting some base, carnal desires fulfilled: her's for emotional intimacy and his for physical beauty. Not to say that all orientations and genders enjoy both of those things, but in straight men and straight women there is definitely an instinctual desire. So I dare someone out there to do this with their partner. I DARE YOU. Get out of your comfort zone! Life is short! Live it up, and enjoy.

That's today's message. Tommorow and Tuesday, S. and I will be posting on a popular topic: Breast Sizes and Breasts in Popular Culture! (Suprise, honey! Get to thinking of boobies!)

-A.

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Mini Eye Candy: Alaina and Lucas Bernardini -A.

2012-02-16T16:06:00.000-08:00

So this is a concept I'll be trying out. S. and I will post links to pictures, erotica, and other arousing things online. This is to give all of you a reason to sit back for a minute or to and let your imagination and sexuality take over in your busy days. A sort of sexy coffee break, if you will. And yes, because I'm an avid reader of The Berry and The Chive, and these sites have readily available galleries of amateur hotties, I'll probably link to them often. But do not fear, I will try and diversify and maybe even include some videos too. These posts can also come more often during the week since they take so little time to put together. So men, rub your bulge! Ladies, fondle your breasts! It's time for a quick shot of sexy! And you all should always click on both links, no matter your sexual preference. Let's all learn about how amazing the human body is together!

A Gallery of Alaina to start off. This girl is an average semi-curvy college student, with a twist: some beautiful macro shots of the female body that really highlight curves and lingerie in a fresh way. Well worth your time, and great for a small heart rate boost. And ladies, she highlights her body wonderfully. Try some of those shots out next time you feel a sext coming on!

A Gallery of Lucas Bernardini to finish. He's not quite my type but I liked the sensual variety in this gallery (my personal pick is the shot of him in the tank and flip flops). Men, take some fashion tips as well.

There's your little shot for now! Maybe I'll even do another one tonight or tomorrow ;) I'm feeling like surfing the internets today.

-A.

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And, we're back! -S.

2012-02-16T05:32:00.001-08:00

Hello, my sweet, little readers!! How I've missed you all! I have much to catch you up on!

I have moved to be closer to A. now, and we now live about 15 minutes from each other. I adore being so close to my fiancé. Oh yeah, WE'RE ENGAGED!!! I know, wonderful, right?? then all you guys will get even more wonderful stories, eroticas, and tips!

We have tried so many different positions, tricks, and tips, it is unbelievable! So all of you will get so many new articles.

I have a new found love for lacey boyshort panties. Oh, and knee high socks. LOTS of knee high socks.

A. and I will be going on our first overnight trip together in a couple of weeks(a late Valentine's Day/early birthday present for A.). Just a little something to keep his thoughts lively for the next few weeks, of course...

A. and I will be moving in together this Fall!

We are also rediscovering fantasizing! Just last night, we relived a delectable favorite fantasy of me taking control for the night. It was absolutely spectacular.

There is much more to catch you up on, but I will save that for many more posts to come!! -S.

A New Era For Sex and Night Skies - A.

2012-02-15T14:21:00.000-08:00

Hello readers. Hello friends. Hello critics, supporters, and our wonderful worldwide audience. S. and I have missed you all dearly.

We are starting again. On Sex And Night Skies is coming back in full force. Our break was necessary, but eventful. A few trivial things to get out of the way:

-We will NOT be posting on a regular basis. We will be posting whenever the whim hits us and we are able to. This means more content on some weeks and less on others, but you will simply have to deal with it. Life is unpredictable. But the free-form style will mean more content overall than a structured release day, so no whining!

-I threw around the idea of us alternating (One post by me, one by S.) but that won't always work out. S. will be posting more than she was at our blog's last stint, since she now has more regular access to computers.

-We will be keeping some things about our love life a partial secret. We want to be able to share this blog with our friends and social groups, which means some private details will not be obvious. Now, that doesn't mean we won't post them on here! We may post them inside of an erotica, or use a guest-writer pen name. So you'll read of all our torrid activities, but you may not know which are us and which aren't. And speaking of guests...

-Guests will be here! Our guest-written erotica was fun to produce and got great reception, so we will be bringing on more guest writers and guest interviews. I have a very interesting interview planned for later this week, so stick around and you might see it... (I'm already teasing. You know you all like it!)

Now that the trivial is out of the way, onto the big stuff: What has changed since our last go-around?

S. and I are now legally engaged! I say legally because we are big proponents of separation of spiritual and legal partnerships. I proposed to her almost three weeks ago, and it has been a wonderful, enlightening journey. It hasn't been this easy the whole time though...

We did go through a period of fighting. We both have let stress rule us for some time, and it was taking its toll on our communication and relationship. It was difficult, but we both still loved each other and kept through it. Now we are working our way back to happiness. It's a long journey but one that's getting easier every day. It's left us further from peaceful equilibrium, but better people for it. There will be days of stress, but we want to make the good days shine brighter and do everything we can to make the bad days better!

This did affect our sexuality some. We didn't explore as much, talk about it as much, or even personally indulge it as much. I felt like my libido, inspiration, and sexuality were at zero for a while there. But that side of us has been re-emerging over the past two months, and is really starting to soar to new heights! What we post will hopefully reflect these new discoveries (and re-discoveries!). I'll go into more details about my own struggles in later posts to help anyone feeling the same way.

I can't wait to see what happens next. And yes, I'm leaving up most of our old posts, no matter how embarrassing. I'll try and cut out some of the clutter to make it more readable though.

-A.

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Review - Wet Platinum Premium - A.

2011-05-13T14:56:00.000-07:00

So here's my review for the Wet Premium Platinum Lubricant.

Don't get it. I'm a silicone lube user, and I've sampled a lot. I'll break this down into a Pros and Cons list, since it is a decent product, it simply didn't measure up to my standards.

Pros:

It's available in Target, Walmart, and a lot of Pharmacies. I really like products that are easy to acquire. We all have that moment where we forget something on vacation, and in those moments a product available at a Target or Walmart for cheap and fast. It's pure silicone as far as I know, so it's sanitary and safe for most activities. Good price compared to other lubes.

Cons:

It lacks ALL the usual advantages of silicone lubrication. It comes off almost instantly with water, which is exactly what silicone brags that it won't do. It also has the evil clumping problem. After a while, it forms clumps of something, which is normally a water-based lube issue. It also lasts for a short amount of time. It's not a quality product at all.

All in all, this would probably be alright for people on a budget or for giving massages. But I can't reccomend it for any kind of sexual play. For that, get a lubricant that sticks around for longer, or you will run the risk of tearing and/or chafing.

News and Letters - A.

2011-05-04T16:44:00.000-07:00

So first, some news! You might have missed us. Well, we've been a little busy. S. will finally be in town! It's been months and months, so we've been planning for that. She may also be staying for an extended period later on this summer, which is AMAZING!!!!

We are also planning a summer trip to a place. With sun. And beaches. And friends. We may share where later on, right now we're keeping it private. But we will be sharing details later on this week, including an interesting situation with the other couple we're going with.

Now, I've been witnessing some general idiocy among people, so this is a letter for you all. This is mainly addressed to monogamous MF couples, but can be read for all variations thereof.

Dear girls,

Learn to take a compliment. If your friend or significant other gives you a compliment, chances are they mean it. Now, if you continually reject compliments while wanting them more and more, YOU will make them start to give empty compliments. Learn to take it an say thank you and smile. Also, give guys compliments. Find an attractive quality and compliment them. In fact, next time you all are out, try to give him as many compliments as he gives you. We want those little kudos just as much as you do, we just don't admit it.
Freaking experiment. Try a new routine, a new food, a new position, a new restaurant, a new anything! We like to feel adventurous, and we want you to be a pat of those adventures. Don't shoot them down because you're nervous, or it's not something girls normally do. I've watched a girl do 150 push ups for a contest, and she wasn't buff at all. Girls can do anything a guy can do and vice versa. Don't let stereotypes hold you down.
Wear some modest clothing every once in a while. You don't have to use your body to get people to treat you well. You can also use your intelligence, humor, wit, and wisdom. It'll get you further. And it'll make your significant other feel a little better.
Everyone likes a girl who can be independent. But the ones who try to be super independent often suffer and become self-sacrificers. Take help. Do it today. Your happiness is worth asking for help. And people enjoy helping the ones they care about.

Dear guys,

Buy her things for normal dates, and do special handmade items or special outing-type things, or just generally things you don't buy for holidays. That little switch will not only save you money (since you'll be buying smaller things for your dates than for holidays), it will make both dates and holidays more special. This doesn't have to be a permanent change. Just try switching it up for a little while. A little change can make things special.
Let her be dominant every now and then, whether that's in the bedroom or out. Pick one area of your life where you totally take charge: sex, driving, paying the bill, planning outings with friends, cooking, ect., and let her do it every now and then. Being dominant and submissive switches can make you both better, more understanding lovers in whatever area you choose to switch.
Lube. Use it. Every time.
If you have feelings for other men, and you are beginning to identify as bisexual, tell your partner. It may be awkward, but there is such a thing as being monogamous and bisexual. There's also such a thing as setting boundaries that allow you to explore it a little and satisfy your cravings without going all the way.

Thank you!
-A.

New Rules for Powers of Three - A.

2011-04-16T16:54:00.000-07:00

So lately S. and I have been talking about threesome rules and regulations. And generally rules for what to do about bringing people into our love life, no matter how small. Let's start with something simpler: Exhibitionism.

We like to be watched during intimacy. It's kind of hot for us! We also like to watch. We are both switches, but we prefer to be watched a little more than to watch. But they are both fun.

But to be safe, we have to set our boundaries now before we try to do it in the heat of the moment, where everything is hot and sweaty and covered in lube. We have decided that if anyone is going to watch us, it will have to be a trusted friend (or friends). We would both prefer it be a female, but I'm sure a male would be okay. We've just found that the idea of being watched by a girl appeals to us more. And no online stuff! The only way we would show other people our intimacy online would be through secure video calling with someone we trust not to record it, or pictures sent to someone that we again trust not to distribute the media at all. As far as watching other people, they would have to have expressed a desire to be watched or hinted at it before it happens and we are again in the heat of the moment. We don't want to be part of anyone's impulsive mistakes that could hurt them or their partner or their relationships.

Another thing we want is someone who truly wants to watch us, and who will give us some little cues that they think watching us is arousing or hot. We don't need them to be stripping off clothing and masturbating loudly in the corner. Even just a little verbal confirmation that they are having fun and a good time would be plenty for us.

Now onto the biggie: Threesomes. And here's the main rule: No actual Threesomes.

See, we don't like the idea of ACTUALLY having sex with other people. We like soft playing. Not sex, and not even hand jobs. In fact, I'm not even interested in kissing another girl (and S. doesn't like it either). We enjoy the idea of soft, fun playing around with a third girl. Things like racy truth or dare and strip poker and maybe some little fondling. In fact, the ideal scenario for all this would be to have a friend who wanted to play with us, we played briefly with her and gave S. a chance to have some fun with boobs, and then let her watch us do stuff together. Or have some of me and S.'s friends over and have a fun day of toplessness. We seem to encourage bisexuality wherever we go, so we already know we'll have opportunities to try one or both of these things in the future. We've agreed that for any interaction with another girl we're waiting until we've been married for a while. Being watched would be something we would be up for today, it's just a wait for the right trustworthy friend to want to watch us (any takers???). They wouldn't get a full on sex show, but some grinding and generally hot stuff.

So to sum up: We want to have another girl int he bedroom sometime, and we wanna be watched. We just don't want to fuck them. Sure, we have plenty of other rules about what we would and would not do, and those change a lot. These rules I have here are just our set-in-stone boundaries for this kinda stuff.

Have a great day everyone!

-A.