urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:spyral_path spyral_path spyral_path 2011-02-20T15:51:57Z urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:spyral_path:311309 2009-04-24T19:41:34Z 2011-02-20T15:51:57Z <br /><br /><img alt="" src="https://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y180/selenitia/f-o-kitty.jpg" fetchpriority="high" /><br /><br />&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;I liked having an open journal because I had no idea who I was writing too, and somehow that made it easier.&nbsp;I also liked the idea of people being able to wander through and check me out, hang out and comment whether they wanted to friend me or not. I liked that they had the option of getting to know me first. I liked being open to everyone. I still am, you just have to knock first before&nbsp;I let you in.<br /><br />Comment&nbsp;if you'd like to be added.&nbsp;(And add me back when I do because I'm sensitive about rejection like that)&nbsp;<br /><br />I don't have a strict policy about not adding people who don't comment here first, but if you just add me out of the blue without commenting here first, at least send me a message saying who you are and why you added me. I'm not that secretive or paranoid. It's just hard for me to believe anyone would find me that interesting.<br /><br />If I've dropped you from my friends list it's because you&nbsp;haven't updated your journal in a long time and I feel uncomfortable sharing intimate details from my life with someone whose not doing the same. If you are sincerely bothered by this comment and I'll add you back.<br />