Online Love and Relationships

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2011-04-03T07:50:00.000-04:00

Hello Everyone,
Just an FYI that I have another blog that follows my journeys in Second Life. I decided to maintain both blogs. Since I have been doing social networking for a few years I have a new perspective on online love and relationships. It may be someone you meet online but does that make the feelings any different?
More to come later.!!

Hello Everyone!!

2011-03-24T17:51:00.001-04:00

It has been a very long time since I posted. I missed writing this blog with Apollo..but he is now happily married to someone else. We have maintained a friendship and I have moved on. Since breaking up with Apollo I have been involved 2 additional online long distant relationships and also a relationship that was not long distant.
I will share these experiences and all that I have learned. Hopefully my story can help others than are experiencing the same.

I have not given up on love and never will. ...Until next time..:-))

Hello to All that Have Followed My Blog

2010-08-19T08:47:00.000-04:00

It has been a long time that I have posted on this blog because Apollo told me he found a Greek girl that he started dating and I was devastated. Because of this I did not keep up the blog. I felt like my heart had been ripped to shreds.The feeling was undescribable and so much has happened. I have learned so much about love, especially online love.Also I feel wiser and know that it can be very difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. I wanted to post something because I still get so many wonderful comments so I wanted to update things.
And yes I did meet someone else again even though I vowed not to ever date anywone again that I meet over the internet. (More about my new guy on next post)
I am also a member of Secondlife.com now and keep a blog on that site now, but I have been inspired to continue this blog also.
More posts to follow soon. Also look above for the link to my new blog pertaining to my journeys in Secondlife.com
Thanks to everyone that has responded to my old posts and this is a great outlet to share our stories about our online love relationships.

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9 MONTHS and 9 MUSES

2008-02-09T12:25:00.000-05:00

Hello,
I am here again and i write in this blog.
Our blog.

First i call Calliope to help me,to write better speech here.
This is a gift for my Jade and for some friends that read and had posted comments here.
The gift for my Jade,as we celebrate our 9th anniversary on line relation.
Also i call Clio to write in her pages,our love story.
She needs many pages,as our love is so big and not endless.....wwwooooowww.....
Well.....When i read or hear the number nine,my mind runs to Muses.
You know,my nick-name is Apollo ...or maybe my real?
I don't know,what is real and what is not real.
I know only a real feeling ,a real love that we have ,9 months until now.
The pretty muse Erato protect us and our love.She is our guard !!!
Erato-Eros-Love...our EROS baby.
Euterpe also gave us more pleasure,positive thoughts,good energy, as I met with Jade,almost every day.
We have a better quality of life now.
Melpomene ignored us,as we never had a tragedy between us.
No big fights, not something to make us sad.
We could override our daily troubles,with our love.
Polyhymnia wrote hymns for our love.
But what more to write for our love?
We are the hymn my Jade. A good hymn must have the title Jade+Apollo's love.
But not only hymns but dances too...hahahaha...
Terpsichore had teach us the steps of our dance.
An erotic hot sexy dance,to make us feel much passion for eachohter.
A dance not on floor only...but in bed manytimes !!!
To have hot time and to feel happy...and to laugh.
Laughs like to watch a comedy...
But Thalia did not write a comedy for us as our relation is not a comedy...it's so serious !!!
And Urania took the arrow of our hearts and used it as pencils..
To write in stars our names and our love.
To watch it all the universe and to shine every night forever.
Baby all the muses are with us.
To help and protect us.
Whit their harmonious song-its like our love song- of bewitching Gods,kings and persons.
Filled with euphoria the souls of all human,of us,of all our friends. it charmed entire the nature which stood as stone ...each time the Muses were heard by the top of Olympus, in order to him she listens for: the sky, stars, the sea and the rivers, all hushed piously..

And now my baby?
What about next months,as muses are only 9?
Hahahaha...well now we are the muses.
YOU are my muse,and you include all the muses in your heart and soul.
You include all the characteristics of them.!!!

I LOVE YOU BABY !!!

ApolloGR

P.S. if you want to learn more about this text and names,click next link.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muse

Perfect Surprise

2007-12-11T21:28:00.000-05:00

I read this wonderful post from Apollo on the date that marked 7 months since we met. This was a wonderful surprise as he expressed his thoughts and feelings. It would be great for him to post more on this blog as it is good to get the male perspective of online relationships. I have met many friends all over the world online and hope to get input from some of them in the near future.
Each week I plan to address a different topic about the pros and/or cons of developing a relationship with someone online. And one person posted a comment about when is a good time to exchange pictures. Well I feel that it is up to the individuals involved as you never know if the person that you are communicating with is really the person in the picture..How about a little feedback on this!!!! How does one know if the picture is real or fake???

What 7th ?

2007-12-09T05:20:00.000-05:00

HI and WELCOME here,to our blog.

I ask myself today...what is number seven?
What does it mean to you? Is this a number only?
Well as i know,number 7 , it's synonym with word status.
At the Pythagorean number seven is "motherless" one and is not product factors.
It is also the symbol of perfection because it is the sum the three (3) and the four (4) that they express two perfect forms,the equilateral triangle and the square.
Number seven for all almost the populations was holy and closed inside a force mystic.
The Greeks connected number seven with the adoration of Apollo and moon.
They observed that seven days lasts each phase of moon.
The Homer the father of epic poetry,wrote for the seven herds of oxen of Apollo, and seven strings has his ''lyra'' (his music instrument).
Seven lads and seven girls were sent in Crete for food in the Minotaur .
The seventh day gave the name in the newborn and each seventh day sacrificed the Spartans in the Apollo.
Also 7 there are the days of Creation.
7 there are the marvels of world.
7 there are the Wise men of Antiquity.
7 colors of iris and rainbow.
7 the notes of music ,and 7 the days of week.
In many languages exist a lot of words with the first synthetic seven, example:
seven sisters,seven heavens ,seven seas, seven pieces,seven dwarfs etc.
i don't like to say more for number 7 ...if you like more, better to look at encyclopedia.

And i ask myself again: what is number 7 for me?
As my name is Apollo it's a holy number for me too.
And i wrote before for the 7 marvels.
Well -maybe- this is my 8th marvel.
Jade and me, celebrate our 7th anniversary.
7 months together as couple.
7 months full of love,and hot passion.
7 months day and night together...more time, than a real couple always.
7 month close to each other. We are one body,one heart,one soul,one mind.
All started 7 months before ,as Jade wrote here.
We met online and we fell in love.
So much talk,so much time together,to explore ourselves.
Sometimes it's like dreaming...but how a dream brings to me,so real feelings?
And i feel so perfect when i met her online !
Someone told me: ''are you crazy? I don't believe you''
And i don't believe the couples that say : ''we have fights...''
Why?...it's so good and it's better,
to meet your pair -male or female- just to say to him-her I LOVE YOU !!!
Nothing else ,only to extract out your feeling.
Your warm part of your heart.
Every heart -warm or cold-looking for another.
Your positive part of your mind.
Every mind -clever or silly...positive or negative-looking for another.
Your half part of your soul.
Every soul -white or black....human or not human- looking for another.
As Jade and me.
7 months full of love,full of hot moments.
I don't care if we are online and not in real life.
Somebody say us ''cyber couple'', but ok ,i accept it.
Because i see that sometimes the ''cyber relations'' are much better !!!
As the relationship that we have now , Jade and me.
I want to say a great THANK YOU JADE for all.
I wish the best for our next life.
And i like to enjoy both,our moments,our lives.
As much as we can.
And maybe ,after many years,when some scientists, as they will search,
to find old files in internet,...-(lol...i laugh now in real-i'm so happy...)-... they will find our blog...
maybe to say :
'' WOW LOOK...WE JUST FOUND THE 8th MARVEL ...THE LOVE-FEELINGS OF JADE AND APOLLO''

She said, He said

2007-11-25T07:32:00.000-05:00

Well I invited Apollo to make his comments about the blog and share his insights on our relation..It will be nice to hear his point of view on the subject. Looking forward to seeing his post soon.
I wonder if men and women think differently about finding love online. After all, women are from Venus and men are from Mars. It would be nice to get more comments from men on this subject.

Why Online Love?

2007-11-16T19:42:00.000-05:00

Do you ever ask yourself what are the benefits of meeting someone online? In my opinion one of the most important benefits of developing an online relationship is the mental and spirtual connection. When u talk to someone, chat with them, you get to know them on a deeper level. It is better than a physical connection as you get to see inside their soul. Not to say that the physical is not great....but imagine really getting to connect with someone mentally and emotionally.

I have become a better communicator since I met Apollo. I open up my heart to him and express my innermost feelings and thoughts. This is something that I have never done in any of my past relationships. I always had problems communicating and expressing how I felt.. My heart could be as cold as ice sometimes, but now it is warm like fire.

Well lets here some comments about the benefits of meeting and falling in love with someone online...C'mon...don't be shy!

Wow...6 Months

2007-11-09T21:31:00.000-05:00

Today marks the big 6 months since me and my guy met online. 6 wonderful glorious beautiful months. I would have never thought 6 months ago that I would be sitting here writing about my relationship, but this is something that I am passionate about. Okay people, lets hear some comments from others that have met someone in a non traditional way and fallen in love. I am floating on cloud 15 right now...wowwwwwwwwwww!!!!

Online Love

2007-11-06T20:23:00.000-05:00

Is it really possible to meet someone online and fall in love? This is the question that I asked myself many months ago when I met that special someone online in a chat board.

I was surfing the internet one day in May of 2007 and decided that i would register with a chat site to meet and chat with new people all over the world. I was off work on medical leave so I had extra time to surf the net while I recuperated. One day I met someone in a chat room by the name of Apollo..wowwww...he had the same name of the Greek god and this sparked my interest. We began to chat and I learned that he lived in Greece and he was interesting in meeting new people too. We began to chat and I was so intrigued by him that I could have chatted with him for hours. He was such a gentleman and so polite and we had a lot of the same interests. Well it was very late in Greece as we had 7 hour time difference. We chatted for aproximately 2 hours that first time and little did I know that we both would begin to fall in love over the next few months.
Ok, I still ask myself if I am dreaming and some of my friends think that I am crazy. How could I possibly fall in love with someone that lives in Greece. Someone that I have never met in person or touched...Hmmmmmmm...well it is possible and we have developed a strong and loving bond over the past 6 months. This blog will serve as my diary as to how our relationship developed. I will share my innermost thoughts and feelings each day as our relationship continues to grow..
For those people that think it is impossible to meet and fall in love online, then you will have the opportunity to continue this journey with me. Through my words, thoughts and feelings.