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Raya PKP 2020

2020-06-12T10:45:00.001+08:00

Lamanyaaaa dah tak update blog ni masya allah.

And now i have 5 children hehe.

Just wanna update gambar raya PKP this year.

very special raya and ramadhan sbb semua orang tak boleh keluar and had to puasa and raya kat rumah sendiri je.

Will update the pic soon sbb tak jumpa in my lappy.

Plus Aspa bising sbb kata nak buat assignment...tapi pi update blog haha.

baiklah

Will update laterr naaa

stay tune!

Arissa is 2 years 1 month!

2016-02-10T10:08:00.001+08:00

Alhamdullillah.
Lama tak update blog ni.
Just wanna record Arissa's milestones.

Alhamdullillah now she can make 3 word sentence.
But at times, well most of the time mmg tak faham apa dia ckp muehehehe.
But we keep on encouraging her to talk ..most of the time trying to translate and understand what she is saying hehe.

She can now sort.Alhamdullillah.
Next will teach her how to do patterning.

trying to do flash card with her for numbers and HFW but most of the time kelaut.
Mak yg tak konsisten.
And she really hates flash card...adeh.

Need to find ways ..some of my friends suggested to try to flash the cards while she's breastfeed.
Yes at 2 years old she is still nursing..adui...but keep hypnotizing her to wean off hehe.
Dah berapa bulan dah ini..huhu sabar ye mak.

Arissa suka menari.Some day i will take some video and post it here.
Mmg lawak le

oh and her favorite word is..'Lawak ah'...huhu sabo je le macik.

Ok that's all for now.
Ini je yg teringat buat masa sekarang hehe

Arissa is 19 months

2015-07-30T15:38:00.002+08:00

Sekejap je masa berlalu.

Sekarang arissa sudah 1 tahun 7 bln.

Makin cheeky dan byk akal huhu.Penat mak nak melayan.Ramai kawan2 kata saya makin Nampak skinny selepas cuti beraya 2 minggu.Ok patut jadi gemuk le skit sbb lepas raya kan?Melantak tak hingatnya hehe.

Tapi apekan daya, sentiasa makan dgn keadaan menjaga anak..manaaaa le nak kenyang hehe.

Time cuti2 le nak berehat…kalau time budak da mula sekolah dan kita da mula kerja…mmg tak cukup kaki tangan le.

Bangun jam 5am sudah pasti ..masak lunch box for the kids and also for aspa and jam 11pm selalu le dpt tido.

So now with bibikless, i'm sure the hours gonna take longer.

So tell me how am i gonna jadi gemuk ni...makin cekeding le macik lepas ni muehehehe.

Anyway post ni bukan nak cite pasal mak ye.So let’s talk about si Arissa.

At this age she has quite a number of vocab and she can easily say or get new words.So jgn le nak ckp benda merapik2 kat depan dia ye.Cepat je die tangkap.

Alhamdullillah Arissa tak pelat.Boleh sebut dengan penuh.

Sudah boleh disuruh dan faham dgn instruction kita.Contoh suruh ambilkan beg ke, I mean benda yg mudah2 le hehe.Tapi selalu dia akan cakap, “Berat, berat” Al maklumle kekdg maknya pun main suruh anak tu tlg ambilkan benda2 yg berat…sian anak hehe

Arissa suka buat expression muka.Nanti le bebila dpt snap I will upload some here.

Dan suka mencubit dan makan rambut org.Tension macik.

Habis rambut macik di makannya sebelum die tido.Haih.

Bab mencubit tu kekadang rasa nak cubit je balik si kecik tu..tapi sbb pikir dia budak …aku sabarkan je agi.Cubit pakai kuku tu..mana tak sakit oi huhu.

Arissa is so clingy nowadays. At times aku rasa nak membuang air besar pun nak kena bawa si kecil ni masuk toilet muehehehe.

Rasa mcm penat gak le…tapi terpikir gak le …time2 ni je le die nak ngan kita.Nanti da besar…da ada kawan..da ade boifren..mak pun tak pandang…huhu..minta jauh le…harap die akan melekat dgn mak forever and ever ye…Aminn..:)

Banyak lagi nak cerita..but no idea le right now.

Will update soon with more story.

Arissa is now 16 months!

2015-04-27T14:57:00.001+08:00

Alhamdullillah arissa is now 16 months.

What she can do at this age?

What really amaze me is she can actually put on her shoes on her own. Not only on her own but the right shoes.

Meaning, she can actually put on left shoes for her left foot and right shoes for her right foot.To me it is something new for me.

Sbb anak2 yg lain …at the age 2-3 years old…masih lagi pakai kasut tunggang terbalik.

Especially alesya, lambat skit die punya shoes orientation dia tu hehe.

Sekarang ni arissa sukaaaaa sangat buat mimic muka.

And sooo funny ok.I wish I could capture all the moment she makes faces.

Seriously sooo expressive and funny.Mcm tak sangka at this age she can make a lot of expression and funny faces.

She can now sebut the word bibik, pah, tok abah, and baru2 ini kakak.

SO funny ok when she said kakak..mcm org bangla cakap kakak pun ada haha.

Alhamdullillah tak pelat pun…unlike alesya hehe.

Hopefully she can talk faster than her other siblings.

Aisy…she can only speak English and we do not understand her until she is 4 years plus kot.

Arissa pula pelat until umur dia 5 tahun rasanya.

Arissa so far can say out loud a few words..with correct pronunciation.

Let see how it goes.

Anyway looking forward to see her other developments.

Will update more soon, insya allah!

Arissa 15 months

2015-04-08T18:59:00.002+08:00

Alhamdullilah arissa is now 15 months.
no updates on her developments huhu.
mak yg malas.
Will update from now on ...I mean on her development.
anak ke 3 mcm da tade excitement utk update hehe tp sebenarnye the excitement of seeing arissa's new development sama mcm masa kami tgk development aisy.meaning we are still excited cuma tak excited utk mengdokumenkannya lagi due to loads of things to be done plus kemalasan melampau yg melanda diri ini muehehe.
insya allah lepas ini will update more frequent.

So at this age,she can drink in any cups on her own.which I think a very good accomplishment! Arissa boleh budget byk mana nk teguk supaya x tumpah...which I think this skills agak lmbt developed kt aisy n alesya.
well i cant really say sbb i didnt record when exactly aisy n alesya can drink in any cups without tumpahkn air tu heh.

By d way, nk update on our genting n padang,indonesia trip sbnrnya.
insya allah will update soon.

So stay tune!

Hari Tahrim

2015-04-08T18:50:00.000+08:00

Alhamdullillah

habis sudah hari graduasi dan penyampaian hadiah utk Alesya dan Aisy.

Penat..2 hari berturut2

MH17

2014-08-22T14:55:00.000+08:00

Today is the day of mourning for MH17.

Images related to the event flying in from various whatsapp groups in my phone.

A young mother with little child wept over her husband , a father solat jenazah with his child in his hand crying while praying for her wife and loads more.A mother wept over her son’s sealed coffin and others.

It really touched my heart.

Death is inevitable and it can happen to anyone, anytime.

This makes me think about my family.

What if my husband(God forbids) goes first before me?

What if my children(God forbids) go first?

I don’t think I can handle it.

Because I’m just too dependent to my husband.

I don’t think I can live without aspa.

I don’t think I can live with my children asking about their father.

I don’t think I am able to raise my children alone be it financially, physically or emotionally.

Since lots of things happening around us, I mean death can happen to anyone and at any time, we(aspa and I) keep telling our children that mak and abah will not be around forever.

Especially to Aisy.

We keep telling Aisy to become strong as she will be the one to take care of her other sisters if we were not around anymore.

Frozen movie is a very good movie to show about how the 2 sisters just have each other to hold on after their parents’ death.

So after the movie, I told Aisy and Alesya that if abah and mak not around anymore, you only have each other and you need to take care of Arissa.

So they just nod and I hope they understand the message.

Every time Aisy is scared of something, for example when she wakes up at night and does not see me or her abah at their room, she will quickly go to our room and ask one of us to teman and tepuk her until she goes to sleep again.

And we always say to her that, what if abah and mak no longer around?

Who will tepuk Aisy until Aisy goes to sleep?

So we tell her that she need to be strong as she is the eldest and she is responsible to take care of her others sisters.

Sometimes she nods, sometimes she insists us to tepuk her jugak …haih.

Yes, at the end of it, everyone will die and leave this world.

We live in this world temporary and as a hadith goes”dwell this dunya as if we are strangers”.

Meaning we cannot put our love, too much of our love for dunya.For our children, for your husband, for our wife, family, money, house, cats, cars etc.

Cakap mmg senang, but if the tragedy MH17 happened to me, I don’t think I can handle it.Losing your loved ones and not able to see their faces before dikebumikan….I dread the thought.

Every day I pray to Allah so that my family and I will die as a muslim and end in a good way.I always pray to Allah so that Allah will not give tests that I am not able to handle.But again, it is stated clearly in Al Quran that, Allah will only test us according to our strength.
Surah Al baqarah ayat 286
"
Allah does not charge a soul except [with that within] its capacity. It will have [the consequence of] what [good] it has gained, and it will bear [the consequence of] what [evil] it has earned. "Our Lord, do not impose blame upon us if we have forgotten or erred. Our Lord, and lay not upon us a burden like that which You laid upon those before us. Our Lord, and burden us not with that which we have no ability to bear. And pardon us; and forgive us; and have mercy upon us. You are our protector, so give us victory over the disbelieving people."

And I hope we all strong enough to take His test and successful in it.

I hope that we can all be reunited in Jannah.

So my duty now as a mother and wife is to teach my children the same and keep them steadfast in doing their ibadah and to become among the muttaqeen.By doing this, I always pray that Aspa and I and the children will be reunited in Jannah smiling to each other and that at point of time, I know I have done my job.

May Allah accept all our prayers and ibadah.

Al fatihah to the muslim passengers and crew of MH17.

To Aspa, Aisy, Alesya and Arissa, I love all of you so much.

Azam

2014-04-19T13:12:00.000+08:00

This is a draft i drafted in January this year.
Now only had the chance to publish it.Huhu
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Alhamdullillah we are now in the new year.
Today is the 10th day of year 2014.
A lot of things happened last year, be it happy moments or bad moments.
But all in all, a lot of things that I wanted to do or want for last year, have been accomplished last year.
1. to have an early child education business to run
2. to have another child(bersungguh2 ni.saat2 akhir alhamdullillah juge.tried so many times but it was really difficult.Alhamdullillah, Allah heard our prayers.Tu dapat baby december tu hehe..nak fulfill azam punya pasal :D)
3. to move to another department and try new things.Well now the job is completely different from what i did before.But the new task is really interesting.
4. Bought another house.
5. Bought another car.For daily use car.
6.Confirmed to new post just right before I gave birth.So I got new medical benefit yay!
7. 3 months maternity leave!Ok this is not my azam.But my wish le sbb non exec at my office da dapat this benefit earlier ok.Takkan le exec tak dapat.Alhamdullillah they announced it in November and I delivered in December and entitled for the new maternity leave muehehehe.
8. Went to Melbourne and let the children had fun in snow!Well not my azam, even Melbourne trip was not in our plan.Tapi ticket da murah, jadi TERmasuk le dlm plan 2013.Though mengganggau juge nak mencari duit utk dibelanjakan di sana hehe.Melbourne is one of our oversea destination goals.

Azam tahun ini ada le a few things.
Let see how it goes.
Insya allah will share it here when i have the time :)

May all our doa be answered by Him.
Insya Allah.

Finally she's here

2014-04-13T09:51:00.000+08:00

Eh i did write something on my delivery...tgk ada draft je hehe.So just publish je le ye
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Alhamdullillah this is our newborn, Aisy Arissa.She was borned on 13.12.13 on blessed Friday.
I was admitted to the labour room a day before and by that time i'm already 4cm.It was around 10pm.
It was a prolong labour and tiring.
Lepas bersalin terus knocked out for a few hours hehe.
Alhamdullillah this time round no induce, no pain killer or anything.Just as natural as we could be.
At the very end when there was no progress(you see your cervix need to be dilated to 10cm then only the baby can be pushed out), doctor wanted to induce me to speed things up.But the induction will cause more pain than i already had at that point of time.
I refused and alhamdullillah there were some progress though not that much.
But finally it was time to push and alhamdullillah it went well, though banyak kali gak le try to push out because at that point of time i was so tired due to the long hours.
Bayangkan 10pm 4cm, 6.45am the next morning baru ready to push.
But the midwife was really helpful and helped me out.
Aspa saw Arissa's head came out and he said die hampir pengsan...haha.And this is the picture.
Doktor yg beria suruh ambil gambar...hehe lawak betul time tu.Padahal masa tu mmg da tak tahan sakit dan nak get everything over je.Ni siap nak amik2 gambar lagi...sabo je le eden.

Anyway alhamdullillah, everything went well.
And now tgh pantang le.
When people ask, so when is the next baby?i told them maybe no more.
But again looking into the trend...i mean..since aisy, alesya and now arissa, the delivery is getting tougher...not simpler.More pain and more long hours.
Perhaps because everytime after the delivery and when people ask when is the next child, i always said...never...or perhaps in 10 years time..or something like that...so it's like tulah or something.
Mcm konon kalau kite panjat gunung pastu lepas tu kite cakap, "sumpah aku takkan naik gunung ni lagi"...mmg kita tak digalakkan utk naik gunung lagi...as something bad will happen heh.
So the same goes here.
I think the theory applies here too.Perhaps because I already conditioned myself masa aku ckp benda ni...and when the time comes for the next baby, it becomes more difficult than the previous one.

Mcm aisy hari tu, mmg sakit...but bearable ...siap masa sakit contraction i can still sleep in between heh.
And pushed only twice..yg 1st tu pun sbb salah push...siap doktor gelakan lagi.So the second push Aisy terus keluar..alhamdullillah.It was easy though mmg sakit sgt gak le.
So I remember i said perhaps 10 tahun lagi kot baru next child...but less than a couple of years later i was pushing out Alesya pula.Maybe tak cukup haul le kot 10 tahun tu...and the delivery was difficult and painful.

Tent

2014-04-13T09:37:00.002+08:00

Lamanyeee tak post dlm blog ni.
Arissa da masuk 4 bln.
Eh hari le arissa masuk 4 bulan hehe.
ALhamdullillah.

Saje nak post gambar...which I think cam cantik...haha.
We bought a tent and a tunnel from Ikea...sbb the kids keep pestering the father to buy them a tent so that they can camp...erkk..outside the house?
hehe...kalau tak sebelum ni they will make their own tent which good for their creativity...
they used tilam yg boleh lipat tu..bedsheet...kerusi...etc etc...so that it will look like a tent.
I dun have the so called tent now..but will post soon.

So since we bought this tent from Ikea...they do practically everything in there.
Not only sleep(oh well they had to sleep sit in there hehe), watch movie and also eat...and oh yeh read as well.
Though it's a bit dark in there.
Perhaps i can suggest them put their bed lamp in there :D

Then there's a tunnel.Actually I bought that for Alimkids but i can't possibly hide it.They will find it anyway huhu.
So tape le...bagi dorang main je le...make full use of it kan?tade le main on weekends je.

A lot of things i wanna tell.
Especially on bandung trip and also arissa development.
Oh didn't I tell you?
Arissa is our 3rd daughter hehe.
Sorry lama tak update...i think the last update when I was at 39th week of my pregnancy.
Alhamdullillah everything went well during the delivery and Arissa is growing healthily :).

So stay tune for the next story ye :)

At 39th week

2013-12-19T15:15:00.000+08:00

Ok, anytime now I can deliver my 3rd child.
Alhamdullillah baby is active and the heart beat is ok.
Itu yg penting.
Hairan juga kali ini, kaki tak bengkak2.Sbb org tua2 kata, kaki akan mula membengkak bila nak akhir2 pregnancy tu dan apabila kaki mula surut itu tandanya mmg sudah tiba masa utk melahirkan anak.Tapi sampai sekarang kaki tak bengkak2.
Dulu masa Aisy dan Alesya mmg betul le.Mmg bengkak a few weeks before I delivered them.
Bila cakap kat Aspa pasal benda ini, biasa le reply dari lelaki, haa ok la tu?nape nak suruh kaki bengkak pule?hehe..adui la.

Jadi sekarang saya sudah berada dlm minggu ke 39.
Alhamdullillah sekarang ini pun cuti sekolah.Jadi semenjak Aisy dan Alesya bercuti, kami bawa kereta.
Mmg tak larat nak naik komuter dan lrt.
Tapi kena keluar seawal 6.30am le.
Walaupun cuti sekolah, tapi dekat sesetengah tempat masih jem dan saya perlu sampai sebelum 7.30am di pejabat.Kalau idak tak dapat le parking free huhu.

So just waiting for the time to come.
Hope everything goes well :)
Pray for us

At 35 weeks

2013-11-12T16:13:00.000+08:00

At 35^th week I feel so heavy.

My knees start aching.I think because of the weight I’m putting on myself.

Ok not that I purposely putting more weight.

It’s the pregnancy process ok.

Don’t blame on the food I take muehehehe.

But seriously, I don’t eat much nowadays.Yesterday, I went to see the gynae and there’s no additional weight.55kg since last 2 weeks.

But the doctor didn’t say anything, so I don’t think it’s a bad thing le.Heh.

Anyway, I got the Fetal Movement chart.Tak pernah le pule isi benda alah ini with the last 2 pregnancies kan?tetiba doctor suruh isi ini utk monitor the movement of the baby from 9am to 9pm for the next 2 weeks.Oh yeh sekarang ni saya da jumpa gynae every 2 weeks.

So I have to monitor the movement and make sure there’s at least 10 movements within that period of time.If it’s less than 10, then I have to go to the hospital to have a check up.Huhu.

So I’m starting the chart today.So far so good.Alhamdullillah.

Anyway, I usually have my lunch quite late.Therefore I will not have dinner because kinda full kan?

So if you see me now, you can only see the tummy bulging but other part of the body remain the same.

I remember from my last pregnancy, I can put on my wedding ring.

You see my wedding ring is big and I have to put a clipper on my wedding day.I like the ring very much that’s why beli juga though it is quite big for me.

But at the end of the day, I can’t wear it all the time because it is too big.

But everytime I am pregnant, I have the opportunity to wear it which in 8 years, I get to wear it in our first year of marriage and 3^rd year.The years I am pregnant with the children hehe.

Why?Because during the pregnancy, everything will be blown up and that including my fingers.

But this time round, I cannot put the wedding ring on sbb the fingers are still small huhu.

Anyway, 4 more weeks to go.

Cuak pun da ada ni.

Hopefully everything will go well.

This time, the pregnancy is very tiring.Probably because now I have 2 children and without maid at home.

Mcm dulu masa 1^st pregnancy, kami duk puchong.Tak terasa sangat sbb maybe duk apartment je dan kami selalu makan luar dan tiada anak to look after.

Second pregnancy we live with my nenek and kami gilirr2 buat kerja rumah and the house is small.Though at that point of time da ada Aisy, but I don’t think the kepenatan is as penat as now.

Dulu lagi le masa mengandungkan Alesya I need to jln jauh dari LRT station ke ofis.

Now it is much nearer and yet rasa mcm nak putus nafas juga le bila berjalan dari LRT station nak sampai ke ofis tu hehe.

Every pregnancy is different.We have to treasure each of them J

Anyway let's

hope everything will go well.

Please pray for us.

Thank you

This picture is taken while we were on the city circle in Melbourne.It was a free ride.City circle can be used to visit a lot of place of interest in Melbourne.Highly recommend this to visitors going to Melbourne who want to travel in budget and yet can see all the place of interest in Melbourne :)

Thor

2013-11-12T15:39:00.001+08:00

Lama tak dating tgk movie sambil berpegangan tangan ngan Aspa..cewah hehe.
Sabtu lepas, anak2 kami hang out dgn opah dan atuk dan lepas kelas kami terus ke Alamanda utk tgk cite Thor.
Ramaaai sgt review kata best.
Aspa pula hari Jumaat tu tetiba je kata "Org kata cerita Thor tu best". Jadi apa lagi, saya pun membuahkan fikiran supaya kami pergi tgk movie tersebut di wayang sbb ianya action movie kan?Tgk kat CD and kat rumah tak best le kan?Hehe.
Tiket RM13,.terkejut juge...mmg mahal camtu ke?Mmg lamaaaaaaaaaaa sangat tak tgk wayang ni.Bukan dulu mcm bawah RM10 ke tiket wayang ni?Muehehe i know i know...zaman tok kaduk bilee le tu agaknye :P.
Nasib baik tak ramai org masa kami beli tiket tu.Tapi by the time kami nak masuk mmg penuh le org.
Kami gi lunch dulu di Nando's.Lamanyee tak makan Nandos.We really love Nandos though they a bit expensive.
Lepas tu solat...dan kami masuk pun nak dekat 2.45pm rasanya.Tu pun tak start lagi.The show should start at 2.30pm tapi biasa le...iklan2 merapu sampai 15 minit tak mula2 agi heh.
We had upper seat and it was great.So we get to see the full view without straining our necks.
Then after the movie we had ice cream.
What a lovely day to date.
Next time we can do this again ye by?

Got this article from a good friend of mine.
I agree with point number 3.
Of course, God is our main priority.
Then next is of course our spouse.And then only the kids.
Because at the end of the day, when the kids already all grown up, and they will leave the nest, we only left with our spouse and we should have keep the relationship healthy from the beginning.

http://eighthrising.wordpress.com/2013/10/28/10-marriage-tips-every-wife-needs-to-hear/

Bukan nak cakap apa, but I believe that in marriage we have to work it out.It's not just go with the flow.We have to put a lot of effort to make it works.It doesn't mean once you're married to your spouse, we will always be happily married. We have to do something to make the marriage functioning.
It is not easy tasks we have to admit.It is easier to be a single rather than to get married.The burden is less and we have less commitment.
Totally different.
So to those who are still single and haven't been in marriage life, please mind your own business and jgn masuk campo urusan org yg sudah kawin ye.
You don't know what's going on and don't make assumptions.
When you're married, have your own family and children and especially the in laws, then you can come to me and tell me about it.But before that, just keep your mouth shut and mind your own business.Period.

One thing I learn is that we take care of our own family.
Do not listen too much from others.
I mean yes of course they will give us advice.We can take their advice, if we think that it would be beneficial to the family.
I believe their intention is good,to see everyone lives happily but again we must not allow anasir2 luar especially yg jenis suka cucuk2..be it from parents ke, in laws ke, relatives ke friends ke to have influence in our decision making for our family.
Aspa dan saya akan dgr apa org2 ini cakap, but by the end of the day, we know what is best for our family and most of the time kami tak ikut pun apa dorg cakap hehe.
Afterall, only we understand our family and children best.So don't let anyone else decide for us :).

Ok sambung balik cite Thor.The ending is confusing.
So I read some Thor ending analysis.Mcm2 le yg keluarnya.
But what I can conclude is, mmg akan ada the sequel le.
Jadi tunggu je le the sequel ye which....dunno when.

Anywayyyy, i really love Natalie Portman jadi the heroin.She fits the character very well.Teringat Amidala hehe.

Malas nak tulis review of the story but I would recommend it to anyone who would like to see action and fiction.
Why fiction?Sbb of course byk scene dia yg mengarut and to good to be true.Ala just to make sure the flow of the movie cantik.
Contoh yg paling tak tahan tu tetiba masuk dlm 1 gua dan boleh gi planet earth.But what really a nice coincidence!Mcm terlalu bernasib baik jumpa gua yg boleh terus pi planet earth dan menghalang Malaketh dari jadi super duper powerful :)
Anyway, have fun watching.Don't want to spoil by telling all the whole story.
Watch it yourself.
So enjoy!

Questions from children

2013-11-06T16:02:00.001+08:00

Bila da ada anak2, pastu yg sudah boleh berfikir, mula la akan keluar soalan2 bombastic yg kekadang tu kelu juga lidah nak menjawabnya hehehe.
Jadi sejak akhir2 ini, aisy dan alesya banyak bertanya berkenaan pregnancy dan delivery sbb saya pun da tak lama lagi je nak deliver kan?
"kenapa perut mak makin lama makin besar?""bukan baby tu kecik je ke?""nanti baby keluar ikut mana?""mcm mana baby boleh ada dlm perut?" dan bermcm lagi.
Aduh pening juga nak menjawabnya.

Selain dari soalan2 di atas, banyak lagi soalan2 lain yang di tanyanya.
"Mak baju yg kita pakai ni shrink ke kita yg besar?".Wow this is the same question i have asked myself dulu masa kecik2...but never asked anyone about this before hehe.
"Mak org Kedah mmg tak sembahyang ke?"Mungkin dia pernah tgk org tak pernah solat pun dan org tu org kedah haha.Lawak betul.Saya suh Aisy tanya direct je pada org tersebut kenapa dia tak pernah solat.Bagi kesedaran skit pada org tersebut muehehe.But i'm not sure whether she did ask or not.I hope she did :D.
"Mak kenapa ada org tak solat?""Boleh ke kalau tak solat?"
"Kita boleh percaya ke kata2 org yg tak solat?""mana satu nak percaya, org yg solat atau org yg tak solat?"
"Mak kenapa ada org islam tak pakai tudung?""Sbb dia duduk kat Australia ke?"

dan bermacam2 lagi soalan lagi yg kekadang tu membuat saya terdiam.

Memang seronok dgn soalan2 ini tetapi bab nak menjawabnya menggaru kepala juga la kami hehe.
Bagus sbb at the same time, we will look for the answer.Half of the time we couldn't answer immediately and need to look for the answers.I mean suitable answer so that a 7 year old and a 5 year old children can digest.Yeh at their own level.
Something that they can relate to.

Kesimpulannya, i need to learn more and read more so that i can tackle such questions in the future :D

Cover for our Melbourne Photobook

2013-11-06T13:47:00.002+08:00

I really2 love these 2 pictures and they have become our Melbourne Photobook cover.
Banyak sgt gambar sampai kena buat 2 volumes.Cewah.
Tgk le if sempat I will snap some picture from the photobook and upload them here.
Here are the cover photo
:)

This is for the 1st book

This is for the 2nd book

Feeling low

2013-10-31T19:10:00.000+08:00

Sometimes I feel low and insecure.

And now is the moment.

I hate the feeling.

May Allah make me stronger

Hari Ahad buat apa?

2013-10-07T13:49:00.002+08:00

Yesterday I had a meeting with ALIMKids HQ and other operators.
To get the new updates on the programme.
Yes we going to have a new progamme next year and I am so excited about it.
But not too sure whether to take the upgrade pack or not.Few thousands are involved.Let see how it goes.
But the new upgrade and programme are much better than the current but a tiny bit expensive but better content.
Anyway I will story mory that later ye.
So went to ALIMKids HQ at USJ arrived around 11am.
We had a portluck yesterday and I ordered cream puff from this akak. Her cream puff and other stuff are sooo yummy.She even bakes Ginger bread man.
Kewl kan?I ordered the Gingerbread man for our previous ALIMkids graduation day and the kids love it to the bits!:)

Then around 1-ish pm, I went to Mydin USJ to do some shopping.Mainly for our playgroup materials and some stuff for my children.
Seriously tak larat beb!
Jalan 15 minutes then I have to sit for the next 15 minutes.Jalan lagi 15 minutes, rest another 15minutes.
Mmg penat.
At the end of the day, shopping yg patutnya could take less than an hour drag jadi nearly 2 and a half hours!!
Next time, i should bring Aspa along huhu.
The belly is getting heavier and I couldn't move as swiftly as before :(.
Owh just to mention here, I like Mydin USJ.Walaupun ramai sangat org tak hingat dunianya kat situ, tapi the cashiers were efficient dan banyaaaaaaak sgt.Beratur teramat kejap walaupun mmg ramai sangat org.They even buka additional counters.
Kalau kat Tesco jgn harap le dpt mcm ni hehe.

Anyway, I bought new pencil colors, crayon and some other stationaries for my children.
So when I got home, the children were so excited.Muka berseri2 sbb dapat new stuff.I mean new colors as they are crazy about colors.Regardless what kind of color, magic color, pencil color, crayons ke.And I bought everything for them heh.

Anyway, lepas belek2 barang2 tu, tetiba Aisy tanya, "Mak kenapa mak belikan color baru mak?"
Belum sempat aku jawab apa2, dia da jawab,"ooooo sbb mak tanak kakak dan adik pakai barang2 Alimkids mak ehhh?"
Well aku tak terpikir pun nak berikan jawapan tu.Tapi bagus juge le die jawab sendiri.Jadi dia takkan kacau my stuff again after this mueheheheh.
Not that I don't want them to kacau my Alimkids material, I don't mind they use it sbb banyak sgt pun.They can have it if they want but they just need to tell me first le.
The thing I'm not keen of whenever they take the stuff, they will sepah2 kan the stuff and never put them back to its place.So when I want to use them, they are not at the place where I put it in the first place.Lepas tu mula le aku jadi singa muehehehhe.

So it's a good thing Aisy dah jawab mcm gitu.So hopefully they won't mess up with my things ever again la...haha!
But...I doubt that will ever happen*grin*

Oh did I tell you that we bought airfryer?All the way from UK.
Bought it from online shopping.
This lady resides in UK.She is a malaysian.Buat bisness ni la konon.
But cheaper le compared to harga kat mesia.Malaysia ini, airfryer RM1200 rasanya.
Gile.
I bought RM699 with her.Ok le kan?
Though she bought the item less than RM400.
How did I know that?Sbb ada resit amazon kat kotak tu...ada price le kan?hahaha..tapi tak kisah le sbb nak antar ke mesia kalau beli dr amazon, i'm not sure kesampaian ke tak.Kalau sampai pun the delivery charge gonnna cost a bomb gak kot.
Tah le, i didn't bother to survey.

Anyway, we got the item last 2 weeks rasanya but until now tak gunakan lagi pun huhu.
Semalam baru keluarkan dari kotak.Keluarkan je le.Tak sempat nak guna.
Semalam sampai rumah da jam 5pm.
layan budak2 ni lepas tu dorang pi jogging dgn abah dorang, so i have around 40 minutes to mandi and baring sekejap.
Lepas tu, lepas dorang balik, Aspa mandikan diorang and I cooked dinner.
Ok dinner tak sedap.Tried to use the homemade garlic butter i bought from ALIMkids Kinrara operator, Effa tapi tak jadi sangat so kureng sedap.I should have put garam.Though adik said tak sedap, dia habiskan juga nasi dia.Sedih juga tgk sbb maybe dia da lapar sgt huhu.
Tape lenkali mak masak sedap2 ye.
But I used the garlic butter to make garlic bread.Serious sedap.I should have bought lebih tadi from Effa huhu.
So after solat maghrib semua, mula le marathon gosok baju sekolah dan baju kerja.Habis nak dekat kul 11pm!!!
Saiko.
Lepas tu jahit batch Aisy yg tertanggal dan juga name tag die yg da berapa kali Aisy complain asyik tercabut je, baru sekarang aku dapat jawab.Haih, I know I'm a bad mother.
Pong pang pong pang, siap everything (their school bags etc), i went to bed at 12am!
Seriously, flat big time.
So pagi tadi bangun lambat sbb penat beb.
I showed to Aisy her baju with sewn batch and name tag, and she said "wow mak da jahit?cepatnya mak jahit".Walhal da berbulan dia komplen benda tu tak berjahit.Ish Ish Ish heh.
The words really made my day hehe.Any praises from the kids would really lighten up my day hehe.

And so the week begins.
and alhamdullillah this weekend gonna be a long weekend due to Raya Haji.
yay!
Can clean the house and do the neccesaries.
Aspa tanya nak berjalan ke mana2 ke raya ni?
and i told him kalau nak sleep over kat hotel2 mana, by now da fully booked kot.
Tapi tah le tgk le how it goes.
Perhaps another adhoc plan...hehe.
Tgk le camne.

Ini le airfryer yg dibeli :D

This is the gingerbread man and apam polkadot i bought from the kakak i mentioned above.Sedap!Those are some of the goody bag for my ALIMkids student for their graduation day :).Simple je.

This time

2013-10-03T11:45:00.001+08:00

Ok I got my first cramp early this week though I am taking various supplement huhu.

Since last week i had severe pain near the belly and it happened quite frequent lately.

Went to see the doctor but the doctor said it was nothing.

But if there were regular contraction, then I need to go to the hospital.

It might be early labour.

I never had pain like this before.I mean for my previous 2 pregnancies.

And the baby is very active and moving around the uterus actively.Even masa doctor scan aritu, jap kepala kat tepi, jap kat bawah, and we couldn’t see the gender up until now.

The baby wants to surprise the mommy :D

So now at 29 weeks, I can no longer sleep comfortably. I remember with my 2 other pregnancies, rasa nak dekat 9 bulan kot baru susah nak tido sbb perut besar sgt and dunno how to position the belly hehe.

This time round I try to reduce my food intake and eat healthily.Tapi bila tgk chocolate ke ice cream ke..abis juge le…owh and donuts!!

Ok not that healthy.

Did I tell you that I have moved to a new office?

And it is nearer to LRT station.Alhamdullillah.I moved to the new office in June and now I don’t have to walk nearly 1km++(return) from the LRT station to my office.

I am really thankful to Allah for making it easier this time.

I mean I do not have to walk that far anymore.

But still I am commuting the KTM and LRT perhaps until I give birth la kot.

I dun think it’s a good option to drive all the way from semenyih.

Pukul berapa le nak bangun dan kesian the kids had to be at the school very2 early.Takut pintu sekolah pun tak buka lagi le kan kalau sampai sekolah kul 6.30am!huhu.

So someone had to sacrifice le heh.

Anyway, I think it’s good for the labour kalau jalan banyak2 ni.Hopefully :D

So now I’m in my final trimester.Rasa mcm da tak larat pun ada gak ni.I think the belly is too big.Nak tunduk pun susah and now I can’t even see my toes heh.So the other day Aspa offered to cut my nails.Nasib baik ada suami yg mithali.But to tell you the truth, I just couldn’t care less about my nails haha.Aspa yg bising panjang le…nanti cekam le..and so on.So since he is so concerned about my nails and volunteered to cut the nails, so be it.I’m just one happy pregnant lady mueheheh.

Nak basuh baju pakai tangan pun susah ok.Yes blame the belly again.

Nak duduk kat stool kecik susah sbb the belly menghalang.Hmm u get what I mean if u have a big belly hehe.

Therefore, I bought 2 more baju sekolah aisy and 1 more baju sekolah alesya so that they have new baju everyday and I only have to wash and iron all of them on weekends and use the washing machine.So tayah le nak basuh tgh2 mlm on weekdays and iron them early in the morning kan?

And we also bought a new washing machine.Nak dekat Rm1k beb!But again, it helps a lot.So aku bule campak je baju2 dlm tu, I mean banyaaaaak baju in 1 go and just let it washed and rinse on its own.Prior to this, we had semi auto washing machine and had to monitor closely sbb kena rinse separate, spin separate, very very troublesome :D

We mop and vacuum the house once a week.Tak sanggup nya duk dlm habuk2!

Tapi kadang2 tak sempat juga nak mop dan vacuum so kena buat on weekdays.Aduih penat.Nak basuh bilik air lagi.I just cannot stand dirty toilet.Yucks!

But thanks again to dearest husband for taking the responsibility to washed the toilet and mop and vacuum the house.

You’re my superhero muehehhee.

Rupa2nya household chore kena ada system to make things easier for you.I mean when do you want to do the laundry, ironing, mop even to wash toilets.

And do simultaneous work which dearest husband are not able to do.Men are not meant to multitask.

For example, to save time, while doing your laundry, you can cook breakfast and lunch.And we have to make sure finish all the laundry before noon so that the cloth can dry up and we can start ironing in the evening.

Seorang baju 5 helai…so 20 helai baju aku iron in 1 go.For a week punye supply.Itu belum masuk tudung2 aisy and alesya.Tudung aku mmg tak perlu gosok.I just wear practical tudung dan yg tidak menyusahkan termasuk le nak kena iron2 ni.Membazir masa dan juge electric kat umah je :D

Ada juga terpikir juge nak antar dobi.So that they can wash and do the ironing.Let see how it goes le.Da invest beli washing machine rasa mcm tak berbaloi pule nak antar pi dobi.Maybe antar for iron je kot.

Maybe bila da nak dekat2 deliver nanti le.

Ok all of the above can only be done on Sundays.Sbb Sabtu usually full with activities.You know le, Alimkids then the kids swimming class.We are thinking to enroll aisy to Math class, but Aspa said maybe we can start in November.

Sometimes ada seminar or some social gathering we have to attend on Saturday and Sunday, so benda2 kat atas ni pun had to be postponed le.Dan bila postpone to..adui…then we will be sleeping late on weekdays nights L.

Anyway, whatever happens, happens for a reason.

It’s a good thing we don’t have maids.We figure out things together and do the house chore together.The kids are so rajin and this gives us opportunity to teach them on how to do housework at early stage.

Our relationship become closer as we do the chore together and of course have fun!:D

We learn to appreciate the time we have and manage our time properly.

Our time is fully occupied and not much time utk buat benda2 lagha muehehehhe.

We become more practical as we need to find the best ways to do our household work and at the same time other task as well.

I am able to wash my children and husband cloth and iron them and that really give a sense of accomplishment hehe.I even asked aisy the other day”Best tak baju ni sbb mak yg basuh and iron”and she just replied a short “A ah” and that’s enough for me.

Heh I know, I am such a Saiko mother :D

All this while, I never realized that aisy’s and alesya school uniforms actually are not as clean as I thought.Mmg hitam kat lengan dan black spots all over.Biasa la, maid punye kerja.Dorang pikir asalkan basuh tak peduli pun samada betul2 bersih ke ape ke.Janji kerja siap.

Mmg terkilan tgk anak pakai baju kotor.So when now I am able to wash the cloth and make sure the cloths are clean, I feel like it’s one of my biggest accomplishment as a mother.Hehe probably you don’t understand this.Nevermind.

Anyway, though the house macam tongkang pecah, but I think we all grow closer to each other and I love every bit of it.

Ok will update more.

Sebenarnya nak bercerita pasal preganancy experience je.Tapi ini da melalut sampai ke kerja rumah pula.

Hehe.

ok will tell you about the aussie trip soon.

I'm photobooking the pics sbb da nak deadline ni huhu.

Will update soon.

So stay tune!

Our 2013 trip (August 2013)

2013-09-02T11:55:00.002+08:00

Alhamdullillah,

Just came back from our trip.

Penat tak hingat dunia plus with no maid, mmg penat tahap gaban.

Owh did I tell you our bibik da tak nak balik umah kami lepas kami antar die balik raya umah anak die the other day?

Yep so now we are maidless and looking for one.

If anyone knew contact on how to get a maid, do let me know ye.Thanks!

So balik2 semalam sampai umah dlm kul 11 pagi.

Aku kemas skit2 pastu terus tido sbb tak larat sgt.

Aspa le yg kemas dan mandikan the kids dan masak nasi dan goreng telur utk makan tgh hari kami.Alhamdullillah jiran pule bagi laksa…so tak perlu masak sgt le for that day.

Kami da tak mandi 3 hari haha.

Balik mesia mmg berlengas tak hingat dunia.Kat sana sejuk big time.Mmg tadenya le nak mandi pagi2 tu.Lepas tu balik pule da malam.So mmg lagi sejuk le kan?

Kat sana 5.50pm da maghrib.So by the time kami sampai umah/homestay kami kul 6pm tu da gelap le.Tetapi amatlah jarang kami sampai kul 6.Paling awal kami balik dlm kul 8pm le hehe walaupun kebykan kedai sudah tutup pada pukul 6pm.

Loads of things aku nak cite about this trip.

I think so far this is the best trip ever!

We get to do many things and buy the things we want.Well my stuff le byk haha.

We went to snowy mountain, we went to sandy beach, we went to see island, we got to play golf for free and of course visit the zoo and parks.And not to forget DFOs.

Kat city je siap ada 3 DFO!!!

Mana le mana tau rambang haha.

We spend nearly RM6k just for the trip.Tatau kat mana yg abis duit sgt.Tu tak termasuk tiket flight.

Yeh but inclusive the accommodation and also the logistics lain such as transport and bla bla.Accommodation je da RM1k!!

Belum masuk car rental, public transport and minyak.mmg half of the money goes to logistics je huhu.

Anyway, will post more on this trip and upload some pics.

So stay tune!

At the age of 33

2013-07-28T06:40:00.000+08:00

The best birthday present ever from both of my children Hehe.

but i'm a little bit confuse here.Selamat hari jadi mak abah?So hari jadi mak ke abah ni?hehe.

Alhamdullillah,Allah has given me the chance to live to at least 33 years old.

Thank you for all the rezki and the easiness of life.

Thank you for giving me wonderful family,a husband who is really caring and understanding, healthy and beautiful daughters,mother and father who are always there when i need them, siblings that are always there, friends who are always there, the house we live in, the jobs that I still have, the rezeki He gives every now and then and especially the easiness and comfortable life.

Though kami ni bukan jenis kaya, but alhamdullillah Allah makes it easy for us to live our lives, ahamdulillah.

I feel so blessed with what I received and I wouldn't want anything more than this.

Alhamdullillah, most of the things I dreamed of(yes of course not all), I got it.

We didn't celebrate my birthday pun.I got home very late that day and we managed to break our fast at the mosque nearbyThat was my first time to break fast at Mosque.The dish was simple je.Then we solat maghrib and went home.But my mom promised to cook laksa for me today and we gonna have a cake baked by my sister who lives in JB.She came back to KL for a few days utk uruskan a few things here.

All in all, i'm so grateful to Allah that he gives me the chance to breath in this beautiful world up until now.

May Allah ease my way to raise my children so that they become good muslimah and serve they purpose to become khalifah of Allah in this world.

Ameen.

Telekung baru

2013-07-28T06:27:00.001+08:00

After procrastinating for quite some time, finally i bought new telekung for Aisy and Alesya. I bought the normal white telekung last year and the telekungs are at their opah's house sbb on weekdays they will stay there sampai le nak dekat isya.So most of the solat will be performed there.
And if tak sempat solat kat umah Opah, baru le they solat at our house.But at our house, there was no kids telekung hence, whenever they solat, they will put on their long tshirt, long trousers,tudung and also socks.So everything was everywhere.
Tension aku.
Selepas setiap kali solat, all the garments tercampak sana sini and everytime i need to "mengaum" then only they will kemas.itu pun selepas beberapa kali ngauman huh!.
So early Ramadhan this year, Aisy requested for new telekung.Nak juga mlm tu sbb dia nak solat terawih.
I promised to buy new telekung for her but keep forgetting and procrastination set in.
Anyhoo, last wednesday I finally google for online shops sbb malas nak berjln2 semasa bulan pose ni, and i found this website and the telekung was quite cheap.Selalu tgk usuallay price mesti Rm80 and above kekadang tu more than rm100!
So I wanted to buy 2 and if it was rm100 each, i have to spend Rm200!!Erk.Mak punya telekung pun tak sampai Rm100 ok.
Then I found this website, the telekung picture was quite buruk seriously.But when I emailed the seller, he said that the telekung is made of cotton.So i thought it should be ok kot.
So i bought 2 le.Very fast service.On friday, I received the items.
Alhamdullillah, the material jenis yg tak panas, sbb ada some cotton pun mcm kureng kualiti die.But this one is OK.I mean at least OK for Aisy yg ada eczema tu le kan?

So here are some picture with their telekung.
Alesya yg amat jarang solat, tetiba menjadi rajin utk bersolat dgn kakak...hehe.
Hope this will last.I mean they performing solat.
I'm not really worried about aisy sbb kalau kami tade kat umah pun, insya Allah die akan solat eventhough kekadang tu solat belalang, i mean ujung2 waktu.
Alhamdullillah.

May Allah protects my children and made them steadfast in Islam.May they become a good muslimah.

Ameen!

GIGI Aisy

2013-07-28T06:01:00.001+08:00

This is Aisy.
Her second tooth just came out masa die tgh berbuka dgn cekodok last week.I think it was on Thursday, 25/7/13.
Alesya immediately call me to report on the event hehe.
Aisy was sooo happy as finally the tooth came out on its own.
Da byk kali aku(walaupun sebenarnya pengecut) dan aspa offer utk cabut,tapi aisy tak bagi.Takut sakit le tu hehe.
Opah offer utk cabut pun die tanak.Walhal dia mmg lagi rapat dan mendengar kata2 opahnya dari kami berdua huhu.

Anyway she looks really funny.Mcm dracula pun ada hehe. When I told her that she looks funny, dia marah.When I told her she looks cute, then she asked, "Nape mak cakap aisy cute?" and I replied, "Ye le sbb Aisy kan anak mak, takkan mak nak cakap Aisy looks ugly.So aisy looks cute le".She just smiled.Perhaps satisfied with the answer...mueheheh

Anyway,Aisy you always look beautiful to me regardless how you look or what others say about you.Well just simply because i'm your mother and you're my daughter :)

Love you kakak!

Tidak puasa ini hari

2013-07-22T16:44:00.000+08:00

Hari ini bangun dikejutkan oleh azan subuh dari telefon Aspa.

Memang terkejut beruk.Tgk2 sudah pukul 5.50am.

Alamat mmg tak sahur le.

Punya la pasrah tuhan shj yg tahu.

Awal Ramadhan haritu, berplan2 utk berpuasa selang sehari sbb takut tak larat.

Tapi Alhamdulillah belum miss lagi.Mcm2 supplement saya makan ye so that I can have the energy to last until berbuka huhu.

Tapi hari ini teramatlah pasrah bila bangun pukul 5.50am and I decided not to fast today.So miss 1 day.Sedih tapi I don’t want to take a risk by fasting without sahur.

Kalau tak fikir pasal the little one, ok je nak puasa tanpa sahur hehe.

Dan yg paling tak best sekali bila nak bagitau Aisy yg die pun tak sahur sbb maknya pun tak bangun sahur.That was the first thing came to my mind,camne aisy nak puasa tanpa sahur?Dgn sahur pun banyak kali dia request utk berbuka.What more without sahur.

So I slowly woke her up and told her that I didn’t wake her up for sahur.I said sorry.

Pastu ckp ngan die Aisy tayah pose le.The next question she asked, “Aisy kena gi sekolah ke?”

And I replied,”Aisy boleh mkn kat sekolah ke?”And she said no.

So I let her to decide whether she want to go to school or not and of course le die tanak pi ..muehehehe.

Tape le, I felt so guilty so I just let her stayed at home.

Jadi masuk hari ini, aisy sudah 2 hari tak pose.1 hari lagi tu masa first day pose.Mmg die tak tahan sgt.Lepas balik dari sekolah terus dia minta opah dia belikan air sbb tak larat sgt.So tape le.First day dia nak cuba utk puasa.Tetapi lepas tu Alhamdulillah die dapat pose penuh, walaupun kerap kali die minta utk minum air, tapi kami cakap le lagi skit je aisy lagi skit je dan alhamdullillah dia dapat pose full walaupun nampak mmg lembik le hehe.

Salah satu perkara yg memotivasikan aisy utk terus berpuasa dan buat ibadah lain seperti baca al quran, solat tarawih dan witir adalah kerana adanya check list yg diberikan oleh pihak sekolah dan di situ ada scoring.Tapi I’m not sure le by the end of Ramadhan she needs to submit it to her mualimah or not but she diligently fill in the checklist everyday.In a way, the checklist is very good as probably she compares it with her friends at school, ye le bebudak ni kan suka compete with each other and they are competing who can tick the most columns hehe.Alhamdullillah.Though Nampak mcm tak ikhlas, but in a way, it teaches them to fast and do other ibadah.They learn about keikhlasan perhaps later.We just need to get them to start doing it regardless whatever the reason is.

Sama juga mcm solat and other ibadah. They are only children.Perhaps we can explain the importance of it later when they begin to understand the concept.

Just get them started and we can explain the importance of it along the way.

Tapi yg paling kelakar pagi tadi,lepas aisy tau dia tak perlu puasa,lepas solat subuh dia terus ajak adiknya turun Dan minta dgn bibik nasi lemak yg masak semlm Dan ayam goreng Dan roti Dan nutella Dan Milo.Bila aku Dan aspa turun,terkejut Kami.Macam tak pernah mkn seminggu lagaknya!haha aisy aisy mungkin dia terlebih excited bole breakfast spt biasa bukan time sebelum subuh yang selalu mmg tade nafsu mkn Dan slow je le mkn hehe.

Anyway, harap2 perkara yg sama tidak berulang lagi le sehingga habis Ramadhan tahun ini.

Gambatte ne!!

Alesya's 5th birthday

2013-07-19T15:25:00.001+08:00

Alhamdullillah, Aisy Alesya turned 5 last week on ,12/7/13.She already grown so much and sometimes we think she acts more mature than her age.

She can talk in correct sentences.Why I say this?Because at the age of 5, Aisy still stumbled in her words and couldn’t speak fluently.

Alesya talks a lot and she likes to tell stories.I mean to tell us what happen.I think she’s auditory.She just love to talk heh.

But if we were to compare with Aisy,Aisy is more quicker in understanding things and can learn new things faster than Alesya.But Alesya is still a good learner.

And Aisy is still her idola. But now they seem to quarrel a lot more than before.Maybe because Alesya already have her own mind and she already started school and have her own say.I mean her own experience.I mean, well you know what I mean.

Her life is exposed to a bigger circle and experiences, hence she can make comparison and do more thinking.

Alesya jenis yg suka mengadu.She likes to do the right way.Kena ikut jalan dan cara yg betul walaupun it means ia akan melambatkan kerja ataupun meyusahkan dirinya.

I think she is more like me in that sense.

I want it to be right the first time.

And Alesya is an honest girl and very manja.Aspa can never raise his voice to Alesya but to Aisy ok je heh.Kekadang tu boleh dgr ton suara aspa lain with Aisy and Alesya.Dia akan lebih lembut dgn Alesya but more stern with Aisy.

Sometimes I remind Aspa to be fair with his children.If you want to be lembut with the other, you have to be lembut with all of them and cannot be selective.

Takut anak2 terasa.

Anyway at the age of 5, alesya da boleh baca BM dan English skit2.Tapi biasa le dia masih malas nak baca sendiri sebab lambat katanya but she really loves books.And also arts and crafts.Well sbb ikut akak die le yg suka juge crafts hehe.

Alesya eats loads more than Aisy.Sometimes she can be very selective.Sometimes she’s ok.

But the main character of Alesya is, dia adalah seorg yg ketegak bak kata org Kedah.Kalau dia kata tu, tu le jgn le cuba nak nego ngan dia.Dan agak garang tapi lembut.Hmm how do I put it in words?

You can see that Alesya talk softly compared to Aisy yg talk quite harsh but she can be very garang if you ticked her.As for Aisy, dia jenis tak kisah punya org.As long as people can get along with her, she’s ok.Alesya is not that friendly as compared to Aisy.And I can see that Alesya doesn’t have much friends as compared to Aisy.Well maybe not yet.

But if we went to majlis keramaian mana2, we can see that Alesya is more reserved compared to Aisy yg very outgoing and peramah le kan?Hehe.
One more thing, Alesya is very caring.Sebagai contoh kalau kita sakit ke ape ke, dia lah yg akan bertanya khabar kita, ambilkan ubat and etc.
Nak harapkan Aisy...hmmm...dream on je le...muehehhehe.

Anyway, I just love the way Alesya is.

She always requested a birthday party.Not to invite her friends but just to have a cake, balloons and presents.Well must-have-item in a birthday party le kan?

So since this is Alesya’s first year to enroll in a school, so we decided to have a party for her at her school.

But unfortunately her birthday was on the 3^rd day of Ramadhan hence the teacher didn’t allow any celebration at school.We were not allowed to bring any cakes just goody bags.

So we bought a few items and made goody bags to be given out to her classmates and also teachers.

And we celebrated her birthday on Sunday during Iftar.Just a small gathering of families and some friends.Friends to pun last minit ajak.
Well the whole thing was actually adhoc as we didn’t plan to have any celebration as we thought we can just celebrated it at her school.But change of plan at the very last minute.Yang aku ni pun tak tanya cikgu die awal2 kan.Making assumptions je huhu.

This is alesya a day before her birthday.Didn't know that she was having a loose tooth.Tahu2 da tercabut je.Dia tunjuk mlm tu.Gigi die pun da ilang.Dia kata masa solat dhuha kat sekolah die huhu.So that was her first tooth.Thought we could get some money from the tooth fairy...muehehe kidding!

At the very last minute, well actually on her birthday,12/7/13 jumaat tu, she requested for a rainbow cake after she knew that we gonna have a party for her.So meraban le aku mencari rainbow cake.

Posted in FB and get some feedback.Alhamdullillah on Saturday, we aunty came and brought a long a rainbow cake!From wondermilk.Sedap bangat.But just too sweet.

They were sooo happy.To see the colorful cake.Masa ini belum buka pose le.Alesya tak pose hehe

Here are some of the guest yg mai.Danial, edilya, sulaiman and alex.

Ok this is the rainbow cake i ordered from santai home bakeri.Nasib baik sempat buat.The cream puff i ordered from Kak maya.Tak ingat le her bakeri name.

Alesya is soo excited to cut the cake.I love her smile :)

Rainbow cake yg telah dipotong dan dimakan separuh :D

Alesya with atuk!

Alesya with Opah!

Alesya with abah and Aisy.

Aisy cuba utk tutup aurat but she wanted to put on a dress.Last2 die pakai legging.Hehe

We have to make sure the 3 items are there, cake, balloons and present.

Kami hampir lupa belon.Kena beli last minit dan tiup last minit di bulan2 pose ni..hehe.

All in all, alesya was very excited with the celebration.Walaupun kecil2an, tetapi that was her first birthday celebration secara besar2an skit as compared to previous years.

We are so happy to see her happy face.

Seriously, it was priceless :)

Selamat hari jadi Alesya.Semoga menjadi anak yg solehah dan tetap imannya.Mak, abah dan kakak sayang sangat adik tau!

Love you!:)

Report card day Aisy dan kenduri Mualim Aisy

2013-06-17T11:27:00.002+08:00

Last Saturday was report card day Aisy.

Last 2 weeks for alesya’s report card day.

As usual bila jumpa cikgu, selalu cikgu akan cakap ok.

BIla tanya apa yg kami sebagai ibu bapa kat rumah boleh bantu, cikgu tade kate apa2.

So somehow we are kinda frustrated with this kinda reply.

Sbb I know there must be something we can do to help at home and we need teacher’s feedback since the kid is with her every day for half a day and if she observed thoroughly, I’m sure there must be something that can be improved and we as parents can also help at home.

So the same goes with Aisy.She has 2 class teachers, a mualim and a mualimah.I didn’t go to see the teachers as I had class and aspa went alone.

Her class teacher is also her hafazan and English teacher.But not much feedback from her teacher as well.When asked about other subject, she said she didn’t know.She seems to know nothing about the students.Yes I understand that every subject has its own teacher.

Tak ingat le masa Zaman sekolah dulu masa mak kita jumpa cikgu2 sekolah kita, the class teacher ckp camne.I mean yes maybe die ajar BM shj, but I think she should know her other subjects performance gak kot.If not in detail, generally.I’m not sure whether she showed aspa aisy’s evaluation or whatever it is called since now they have no exams only evaluation from the teachers.

Apa nama die?KSSR?

Aisy got really low marks for her jawi related subjects.I.e Fiqah, Seerah, akidah, akhlak and jawi.

Akidah paling teruk.Dia dapat 66%.Seerah 70%.Yg lain above 85%.

Tapi seriously I’m quite disappointed with her marks.Especially those yg bawah 80%.

Yes salah mak die juge le…sbb tak tgk aisy belajar masa exam.Oh yeh she had her exam juge le a week before midterm school holiday.Tah le tak faham, kata da tade exam, but they still have term exams.

Anyway, Aisy mmg tak belajar pun before the exam.

Ok die belajar le skit, die belajar subjek apa yg nak exam, subjek tu le die belajar the night before.

Sigh, I know, I’m a bad mother.Patut kena buat schedule la ape benda utk aisy and we should be monitoring aisy’s performance.

We take things for granted.

As I mentioned before this, Aisy has 2 class teachers.It happens that her mualim got married on the report card day and of course he was not there during the meeting with parents.

Since aisy insisted on going to her mualim’s wedding reception, so we went to the reception and arrived very late in the evening, around 5.30pm.

Orang dah siap kemas2 meja dan khemah sume.Hehe

Dorang siap kena kuarkan meja utk kami mkn pule…haha..teruk betul le kami ni.

There we met Aisy’s mualim.Aisy told us that her mualim is very cengil.Suka marah orang, tapi apabila org tu buat salah je die akan marah.That’s what aisy told us.

So when we met her mualim, we congratulated him and straight away aspa tanye pasal aisy.Haha

aku dalam hati, ish ish..lek le..orang tu baru je kawin dan tgh seronok2 jumpa para tetamu.

Anyway the mualim was very sporting and he knows a lot of things about Aisy.Alhamdullillah.

His feedback was very good.I mean it was helpful.

I mean in a way, now we know Aisy weaknesses and where we can improve.

He said, dari segi sahsiah aisy mmg bagus.Mmg menurut kata cikgu.Cuma kalau nak compare dgn org lain, cikgu die kata aisy ni mcm slow skit.

Memula tu mcm tak percaya gak le bila cikgu Aisy ni cakap slow, tapi we realize that aisy mmg byk suka mengelamun.Tak focus.

Cikgu kata die diam dlm kelas tak macam kawan2 die…suka buat bising, cakap2.Cuma bila belajar tu..die mcm lambat skit nak tangkap.

Dan jawi die mmg lemah.

Tapi die byk tanya kalau tak faham.

This mualim ajar Seerah dan hafazan in Aisy’s class.

Hmmm.

Tapi tu le,I wonder, kalau Aisy slow, I mean susah nak tangkap apa yg cikgu ajar kat depan, how can her other subject yg dalam tulisan rumi, ok je.She even got 100% for her math!

So I think, it’s not about she couldn’t grasp the syllabus quickly, maybe she didn’t understand them in jawi.

Yes we have to admit that aisy’s jawi is still weak.And she seems to give up easily on any subjects that’s written in jawi.

*sigh*

Sometimes at home, I teach aisy.Especially on math and science.Yes she asks a lot of question when she doesn’t understand things.

And when we didn’t explain extensively or thoroughly and she didn’t get to see what she’s learning, she will keep asking and sometimes kita fed up nak terangkan.Heh.

So maybe, just maybe…I assume, the same thing happens in the class.Where she asks a lot of question, but the teachers didn’t have the time to entertain her until she fully understands the subject being discussed, hence at the end of the day, she didn’t get what she learns on that day.Sbb aisy ini selagi die tak faham, die mcm tak boleh terima facts yg kita bagi tu and later she’s just ignore the facts we just told her and forget about it.

So, our strategy now is to strengthen Aisy’s jawi, so that she can understand all her subjects that are written in Jawi.Banyak pula tu subjek yg dlm tulisan jawi.Huhu.

Next, since Aisy is having problem to understand something quickly and when she asks her teacher and her teacher can’t give answer mengikut kepuasan hati Aisy, then our solution is for aisy to tanda her books for that particular subject so that when she gets home she can show it to us and with Allah help, we will help to explain to her.

Except for her arab le..huhu.Mak dan abah kena belajar arab le lepas ni.

Anyway, let see in a month time how it goes.

Sbb cikgu kate once in a while dorang akan buat assessment.Written assessment.So we are keeping all aisy’s previous exam paper.So we can compare her performance with her previous performance.Not to compare it with her friends.That wouldn’t be fair if we were to compare her results with her other friends.

We didn’t really bother how her other friends fare, we just need to know whether Aisy’s making any progress with respect to her previous performance.

Let see how it goes.

Oh Allah please give me strength and the ilmu to teach my daughters with beneficial ilmu.

Amin