While I in NO WAY feel that cheating on one’s spouse, common-law or girl/boyfriend is a positive way to have a relationship, I say GIVE ME A BREAK.

First of all, humans weren’t meant to be monogamous, many ions ago the church decided that’s how they would control their people, so they brainwashed everyone into behaving like they were told. Well you can’t squeeze a square peg into a round hole, so that’s the first thing. And, most men like variety in women.

That coupled with the commonly known fact that over time numerous relationships on both sides die down in the sex & excitement department, & it’s just a given that people are going to cheat.

AND, people think ONLY men cheat which is ridiculous. Do you know how many women cheat on their husbands online?

Do you know how many women have given birth to other men’s children over the last 3000 years & their husbands thought the children were theirs?

My point is, if humans weren’t meant to be monogamous, then they WILL seek out other partners. I say it’s better for them to see escorts where there is little to no emotional attachment, then a mistress that may go crazy on him & not just ruin his life, but hurt his family.

It just sickens me every single time I see the news media plastering famous people’s infidelity all over the Internet like they are now doing with Tiger Woods, AND then the people who respond to the articles by commenting giving shit to these people who cheated, as if they went out & murdered or raped someone.

I’m not saying it doesn’t hurt his wife or children, but it’s THAT family’s business, NOT the entire US of A’s, I don’t care how famous the guy is. That doesn’t give you guys the right to hound him, string him up by his heels & burn him at the stake like you have done for soooo many centuries. This is the year 2010 isn’t it??? Maybe I’m just imagining the year.

In many countries within Europe (especially France), men have mistresses, & their wives know about it & have no problem with it, but once again, North Americans are uncultured, judgmental & love to cast their wrath down upon others instead of minding their own business & working on their OWN relationships.

And then you wonder why there is so much violence, divorce & unhappiness within North America. Look in the mirror people!

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!

End of my rant

Michelle

Not all countries treat escorts & escort services the same, in this post I’m talking mainly about the US & Canada.

Here are some examples of how the escort industry is stuck in a rut & is being controlled by society’s closed mindedness.

1. It’s a commonly known fact that the police don’t care about escorts, they often laugh & think they are garbage, so if an escort is in trouble, who does she turn to?Escorts & escort agency owners are human beings just like anyone else. I of course don’t feel they are doing anything wrong. The only people who think they are doing something wrong are the closed minded, judgmental people who love to lump everyone into the same category instead of looking at each situation on its own merit. You also get religious fanatics that use religion to control others & then there are people who use one escort’s negative experience to making a sweeping statement that ALL escorts will have negative experiences. That’s just pure ignorance about life in general, not just about this particular topic.It’s unfortunate, but in the States & in some areas in Canada, the cops often threaten escorts and the owners of escort agencies. They force the girls to sleep with them (or I’ll arrest you), or they tell escort service owners they should get freebies otherwise they will close them down.In my opinion, this extortion is no different than what the mafia does.Note: NOT all cops are like this, but I’ve heard enough stories to know it’s not an isolated incident.

   I almost got ill when I first started to hear these stories.

   It was disgusting to me!

2. While this isn’t the same situation, nothing irks me more, than powerful politicians or men who affect the laws hire escorts, & then go around arresting escorts & escort agency owners. I’m not stupid, clearly they can’t advertise to the public that they are seeing escorts, but if they choose to see escorts, occupying that position that negatively affects the escort industry is just plain wrong & of course hypocritical. Once again, I see nothing wrong with them hiring escorts, this is their personal choice as a human being, what I have a problem with is them continuing to skirt the issue that should have been made legalized years ago.While Canada is way more open minded about escorts & escort services, we all know that the most close minded of ALL the countries worldwide (besides the Muslim countries) is the US.They use the “it’s bad for you” moralistic judgments to tell you as a human being what is right or wrong for you. Guess what, they have no right or place to do that. Every human being is different, & every human being gets to choose what is right or wrong for themselves because they know better what is right & wrong for them.Even if it was wrong in some situations, we as human beings are allowed to even make mistakes in order to learn & grow. That’s why we are “supposed” to be FREE SPIRITS.
3. North American society essentially drives the escort industry underground so that it is sometimes FORCED to deal with the criminals of society. When I ran my 2 escort agencies, I was naive at first & didn’t realize I’d be up against not only the police & society, but also trying to keep bad seeds away from my escort business. Drivers who threaten because they don’t like being fired, escorts’ boyfriends or husbands (some are pimps, some are pimp like) causing a whole bunch of problems, psycho escorts tearing the hair out of your head because they didn’t understand pay day was one day delayed because of the long weekend, or escorts stealing your money.An aside: I must pause for a second about the stealing. While we may thing & assume that stealing ONLY goes on in these types of industries, I just learned the other day that 75% of ALL employees steal from their employers, so don’t get on your high horse & say “you get what you deserve“. Difference is, the police will care when an employee steals from a mainstream business, but generally won’t care when it happens to an escort service owner. Back to the post: As I got smarter it was easier for me, but I can tell you now that you need to be strong, & not let bullies try & take you over.Escort Agencies can be robbed (it’s usually an inside job) & the people in the office can be beaten or held at gun point & do you think the police care? No, they expect this kind of thing to happen & they feel the owners deserve it.

   Those are the people who are supposed to be protecting ALL citizens.

   My point is, if you lump everyone together as criminals, you will get criminal behavior. It’s that simple & if drivers, escorts & phone people think they can get away with this behavior, there will be these problems.

   I wasn’t a criminal, didn’t want to be one & I was proud to be running a professional ethical escort service. I just happened to be a VERY open minded entrepreneur. Nothing wrong with that.

   So I say TAKE A STAND!

   Don’t let others tell you what you can & can’t do. Don’t let society’s views of the escort industry bring down the industry altogether.

   These people in society are just bullies trying to get you to conform to their view of the world. They spend all their waking hours trying to get people to be “moral” when they themselves are usually the most immoral of them all because there’s nothing loving about judging other humans.

   When law enforcement acts stupid & doesn’t protect the escort service like they would protect any other business, you end up dealing with people who have to fight by any means necessary, & that produces more crime. It’s COMMON SENSE. That’s how it was with prohibition, that’s how it is with the drug industry. It will never get better so long as you outlaw it, but hey, if tax payers want to waste their money on trying to fight a losing battle, well then…

   The other day on TV someone said, “the US has a really hard time learning from History”, & I agree. Instead of expanding & growing to accommodate change, the US has a tendency to bend over backwards to keep everyone the same way they were years ago. I feel it’s mainly because of the dogmatic religious people who think they are better than everyone else & have the right to point that so called “moral finger” at everyone else.

   Even the people who aren’t religious think they know & preach how others should behave. This is usually because they have no life, so they are constantly trying to butt their nose into everyone else’s business.

   Well guess what…

   That’s not how the world works, & one day escorts & escort agencies WILL be allowed to operate in peace & run an ethical professional business just like any other.

If you are one of the many who is open minded, you are a leader (NOT A FOLLOWER), & you wish to make change in the escort industry, please sign up here. Once my escort association is up & running, you will be notified.

Even if you help in the background, that’s better than ignoring the issues.

And of course, discretion is my middle name!

Thank you

Michelle

I would like to give you a gift. The Gift of 15% off

• either the “How to Start & Run Your own Successful Escort Agency” Platinum Mentorship Package business kit located at www.exoticpublishing.com or
• the “How to Become a Successful Escort” business kit located at www.becomeanescort.com

This is my Gift to you for the Holiday Season of 2009 & will expire January 1st, 2010.

I can feel that 2010 is going to be an exciting fruitful Year!

I wish you & your friends & family a VERY VERY Happy & Peaceful Holiday Season!

Love

Michelle
Exotic Publishing

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While yes we all have issues we have to contend with here in North America and overseas, they don’t quite match up with what Darfur has to deal with.

Can you imagine kids 8-15 years old going around shooting people just because they are brainwashed or scared and want to protect their family?

I won’t even go into the rapes and slaughter for no reason other than one side wants to get rid of the other.

It takes 5 minutes out of your day to sign up for their list.

Please do and help save Darfur…

http://action.savedarfur.org/savedarfur/join.tcl

Thank you

Michelle

While many hookers pose as escorts online, and even many hookers try to get jobs in escort services, for me the line between an escort and a hooker is pretty clear.

A hooker usually provides just sex, and it’s cheap, often degrading to herself.

She usually has a trashy mouth, doesn’t respect herself, and has put herself through a lot of pain in her life. A hooker usually does drugs, is an alcoholic, she lets guys treat her like garbage, she usually doesn’t care about herself physical or emotionally, etc.

Hookers may work on the streets, or like I said, try to find a warm place to work, at an escort agency. If she has a pimp, he will force her to work either on the streets, or in an escort service.

I’m not saying that all escorts are emotionally very well functioning, but the good ones usually are. They are offering total companionship to their clients, they care about their clients, they would never ever let a client verbally or emotionally abuse them.

Escorts pick their clients very carefully. They pick the escort service they work for very carefully.

Escorts don’t think there is anything wrong with being an escort and they respect their choices in life. Yes they are open minded, but so what, that just shows they see nothing wrong with a human’s sexuality. Just because a lot of North Americans STILL have HUGE controlling issues regarding their sexuality doesn’t mean we all have to be like them. Being open minded (so long as it’s not hurting anyone) is our choice as human beings.

Just because I may not like something you do doesn’t mean I have the right to judge you because you are comfortable with your choices in life.

Escorts don’t do drugs, they rarely drink (especially on calls), and they are constantly trying to improve themselves both physically and emotionally. In fact you will see a trend with the great escorts - they improve who they are as a person way more than your average mainstream female out there. In fact people within the escort industry who have worked on their issues have a tendency to be more honest and more moral than your average human.

I’m not saying all escorts are like that, there are way too many out there who are emotionally very immature, angry, vindictive, have a very low IQ, and still act like little children even into their 30’s and 40’s. I’m talking about the great escorts here, not the ones who are on the low end of the spectrum, or the hooker types.

Escorts don’t talk trash, aren’t crude, and would never allow anyone to talk to them in that way.

So I just want to be clear here about escorts vs. hookers, because these short form acronyms  I always see online on website review boards and on escort industry forums really make me cringe. YUCK!

I would NEVER talk that way, I wouldn’t ever allow my escorts to talk this way, and if I were still running an escort agency, I would never allow customers to talk to me that way or about the escorts in that way. It’s very very disrespectful and it’s clearly HOOKER talk!

Michelle

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Well people who aren’t very smart do tend to get themselves into trouble, & David from Lots of Jobs is just that in my opinion.

Here is what happened.

I found his site that allows companies to post ads searching for independent contractors or employees.

I tried to sign up to post some of my job openings for Exotic Publishing (yes, we hire real life staff - AMAZING, & we DON’T hire escorts, why would we???? We AREN’T an escort agency)

Anyway, this site kept saying that I was signing up as a job seeker instead of a company or employee, so I finally gave up & contacted them via their contact form. That was my first sign they didn’t know what they were doing.

I got no response, so a few weeks later I filled it out again asking them to PLEASE respond to their e-mails.

This is when I receive this RUDE judgmental e-mail which didn’t even have a subject line to it LOL. Just goes to show you how inept this guy really is. If you are a real online company, you should know that the subject line is one of THE most important areas you must address when writing e-mails.

Then he tells me he doesn’t post escort ads LOL WHO in the world ever said we were going to post escort ads????

He also said he didn’t want sales ads. Ummm, here we go again with sheer stupidity. Not ONCE did I give him any indication that we were planning on posting anything but an opening for a mainstream job.

Here is what he said… “We will answer the emails we want to answer, we don’t want escort jobs on our site, or product sales on our site, try Craiglist, thanks”

Well, you know what they say about assuming.

Job seekers, I’d be careful about searching on this site, you have a judgmental, ignorant, mean spirited person at the helm of it all. Think about the types of companies he allows to post on there.

Michelle