Saving for Happiness
May 14th, 2012 Posted in Uamdao Ben Noikorn | No Comments »
Muang, Pattani _ Timah was a lively, talkative, and very funny woman. Her willpower and sunny demeanor shone through her niqab which covered her from top to toe except her eyes. There was so much positive energy I had to go over my notes to check whether this was the same person whose husband and daughter were killed in a drive-by shooting almost two years ago.
My colleague from partner organization, Deep South Coordination Center (DSCC), was also surprised. Timah he met last year always looked depressed, lifeless, and on the verge of tearful breakdown upon hearing anything even remotely about the conflict between Muslim insurgency and authorities in this restive Muslim-dominated South.
The sudden death of her husband and daughter in early 2010 has torn Timah in pieces. Nothing could bring her out of grievances until last year, thanks to strong, unwavering support from family and friends in the community.
I was warned not to ask Timah about them as she was still traumatized so our talk focused on her work and income which has increased since November last year after she had received a 5,000-baht ($161.29) grant from Oxfam through DSCC.
But it was Timah who started talking about them, recounting how they were killed and what they were like, the conversation between her and her husband, their faith in Islam, God, and life. The list went on.













