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2012-01-03T20:53:00.000-05:00

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One Word Monday...

2011-12-05T09:44:00.001-05:00

And today's one word Monday word is:

Knowledge..

One Word Mondays.....

2011-11-28T09:52:00.002-05:00

Happy Monday. I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday weekend...And with that today's Cyber Monday Word is:

NETWORKING......

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Wandering Eye...

2011-11-22T11:11:00.002-05:00

I had a reader ask me yesterday to pose a question to the group. So here goes:

She wants me to ask the family how a woman should take guys that are in serious relationships that say they love their significant other yet look at other females. Is this ok? Is it cheating? Does it mean they don't love you? How should we females handle that situation?

Here is my opinion..
My husband loves me. I do not doubt this for a second. Does he look at other females. YES. Is this ok..Sure is. Is it cheating? NOPE. Does this mean he doesn't love me? NOPE. How should we handle it. Nothing to handle.

He's human and has eyes. As long as he isn't disrespecting me by breaking his neck to check some other chick out while I am standing there it's all good. Heck there have been times I've told him that girl's boob is about to pop out of her shirt WATCH.. Can I be mad at him if he looked NO I just told him to. I'm secure enough in myself to know that if he looks at a random girl it doesn't mean anything. I'm also secure enough to know that if he ends up pursuing any other random chick he is NOT the man for me & it's time to move on.
Besides the question I must ask a woman before they get worked up over a man looking... Have you ever looked at another man. Even if it is just for a split second. Even if it meant nothing???

In my opinion if him looking at another woman bothers you this can mean one of two things. Either you the woman has some insecurities about yourself OR you don't trust him that it will end at just him looking at another female.You feel that for whatever reason he may one day take it further & disrespect. In which case you have no relationship...

Again this is just my opinion but I am curious to see what you all have to say about it...

GO

One Word Mondays

2011-11-21T09:25:00.001-05:00

Thankful....

Losing Your Virginity

2011-11-16T09:09:00.000-05:00

Does everyone remember their first time? When they were just ready (or not) to have sex for the first time? Maybe you were nervous, Maybe you wasn't.. Now sometimes your first is special & dear and sometimes they can be a nightmare that you want to forget. Sometimes it happened in the most romantic of places and sometimes it could have happened in the ghettoist of places... We as a society put so much importance on having sex that we've become a bit desensitized. Again with daily life and busy schedules sometimes you gotta just get it in, but imagine how the sex would be if once every few months you approached sex as if it was your first time. What would you do for each other? How would you dress? How would you want it? And what do you think this would do for your relationship?

Sound off people what do you think about doing that?? And if you have any funny/scary or crazy first time stories.. feel free to share.

Stand by your man...

2011-11-15T09:29:00.000-05:00

On the radio this morning they were talking about Herman Cain's wife who finally spoke out regarding allegations of her husbands alleged sexual harrassment. She basically said there was no way he could have done that blah blah blah blah blah. We've heard this all before. Powerful man... extramarital affair with a man, hooker, tranny, someone that works for him, etc etc... Then we see the press conference where the man either admits or denies his wrong doing and his wife is standing next to him pledging her commitment to him for the rest of her life as if they were renewing their wedding vows.
Now I took a vow for better or worse but if my husband gets caught in a hotel room butt naked in some Jello with a hooker... I think he knows he'll be going home to a pretty empty house. I digress...
I always wonder how these women feel, what they think, if they want to slap the man. Heck maybe that is why I am soo addicted to The Good Wife. I always just want to see one of these women punch their husbands in the throat. :-) but that is just me.. So sound off. Ladies what would it take for you to stand by your man? What would be the last straw or too much.. Men what do you think of these men OR these women? Do you think less of them or loose any respect?

One Word Mondays...

2011-11-14T09:07:00.002-05:00

Happy Monday everyone...

And today's word is......................... attraction..

Sexy Random Thoughts...

2011-11-11T08:00:00.001-05:00

Ok so today I will be sitting in my daughters preschool show but far be it for me to deprive you of my blog that I know you look forward to.. So Feel free to leave/list your sexy random thoughts/Facts.. or just bizarre stories.

I will start:

Did you know that sex is a natural antihistamine? It helps open clogged nasal passages & It can even help combat hay fever and asthma..

Have a Passionate Weekend!

Turn offs

2011-11-10T09:55:00.000-05:00

Thus far on this blog we have examined how to keep things spicy in relationships, things that keep us attracted, what we like, etc etc... But let's talk about the flip side..What are your biggest turn offs? What small minute thing can a member of the same/opposite sex do that will turn you off completely?

GO

BE INSPIRED...

2011-11-09T09:00:00.001-05:00

Yesterday the world lost a great pioneer in the Hip Hop game at the tender age of 44. Dwight Errington Myers better known as Heavy D. He was the original overweight lover and made big dudes cool. He was a pioneer and if you followed him on twitter a very inspirational person. He is another prime example of you never know when your time is going to come so enjoy each day as if it was your last. And like he said we should try to be inspired every day...
Feel free to share your thoughts, feelings, or inspirations...

I do....

2011-11-08T11:04:00.000-05:00

Good Morning Everyone,

Although it's my day off and I have something that I need to get done I'm taking a break to write my blog. Yesterday we had one work Mondays and the word was marriage. A few of your gave your opinions of what marriage meant to you. Now normally I give my input but I just stepped back for a minute. Kim K decided (whether consciously or not) to make a mockary of the institution of marriage. My opinion couldn't be described in one or two words.
Til death do you part..
This is the vow you take when you get married. Better or worse. Sickness and health. Richer or Poorer... Unfortunately people get caught up in the dress, party and fun of the whole event they ignore or don't really think about these vows. When you marry you not only vow to be with that person ONLY for the rest of your life. You are both taking a commitment to be there for each other at all times, and to support & love each other at all times. It's not easy. There are going to be days when you disagree and there are going to be days when you fight. You may love each other forever but there are sure going to be days you don't like each other. Heck I've only been married for less than 4 months and even I know this. No matter how life was before you said I do things do change when you get married and especially when you have kids & there is an adjustment period and you learn as you go along. The point of marriage is to promise to learn & grow together. At the end of the day I feel that this decision should not be entered into lightly. You need to think about it carefully. And work together. Talk as much as you can about everything and if you are having problems take a step back, a deep breath & seek the help of a marriage counselor or therapist.

I'm back with ONE WORD MONDAYS

2011-11-07T09:20:00.000-05:00

Good Monday Morning Peoples...

I took a brief break... Mental health time because sometimes you gotta just put yourself first. :-)

But now I am back & ready to get down to business. And with that here is one word Mondays....

Todays word is Marriage.... (thank you Kim Kardashian...)

R.I.P. STEVE JOBS...

2011-10-06T10:13:00.000-04:00

So I guess we can all agree that a very brilliant & successful businessman passed away last night. A man that had essentially everything.. Money, Power, Success, all the latest toys from Apple.. :-)
Yet none of this mattered because he couldn't buy health. He caught one of the worst diseases and in the worst form. Cancer. And at the young age of 56 his life is over but his legacy remains.
That's why although we must work, pay bills and do things we may not want to do. It is also very important to enjoy life. Enjoy and appreciate the ones you love. Spend time with them as much as possible. Don't take every business call. Put your kids to bed 5 minutes later & give them hugs & kisses. Heck stay in and seduce your mate. Because once it's all over you won't ever get to do it again. And your friends & family will be wishing they could.

R.I.P. Mr. Steve Jobs. Thank you for your contributions to the world and may your family & friends find peace.

REPOST... Donate while you still can!!!

2011-10-05T14:06:00.002-04:00

On October 6, 2011 I along with a few of my girlfriends will join 1,000 other supporters to climb the steps of 1411 Broadway—a 42-story skyscraper in the heart of Manhattan's Fashion District and Times Square. Why are we doing this? To raise funds to support inMotion, a nonprofit that provides free legal services to battered women and their children. This is our attempt to help battered women & children get the help they need and put us a step in the direction to end domestic violence. The timing of this is perfect as it coincides with our book club book. This month we are reading The End of November by Nicole Sharpe. This is a TRAGIC tale of a women growing up seeing her father abuse her mother & ultimately murdering her and how her life was affected after that. This story hit my hard because it wasn't just a story I was reading. I met her. I stood in her living room and talked to her. And at the time I would have NEVER known everything she had been through.
In my blog and in my business as a passion party consultant I discuss how to keep the romance alive. How to keep things spicy. How to help make a relationship work. BUT none of this is important or necessary if you aren't treated the way you deserve to be treated. NO ONE. Male or female deserves to be physically, mentally or verbally abused. Abuse can take many different forms & no matter how it's packaged it is NEVER ok.
If your mate is physically hurting you please for your own life. End it IMMEDIATELY. Know your worth and never let anyone talk down to you or treat you with any level of disrespect. Because even in the smallest form it's not ok. Let's be strong enough not to fall for the excuse of I was angry. Sorry doesn't make it any better. If you are that mad then you should shut up & walk away. That way you won't have to say I'm sorry later.
As a wife and a mother I am more aware of certain things. And it's no longer about me. It's about my daughter. How I want her to grow up & be treated by whatever man god chooses for her. And although I love my husband very much I will walk away before I allow my child to even THINK it's ok for a man to put his hands on a woman OR speak to her in a disrespectful manner. At this stage in the game it's not something I feel I should discuss. He should just know this. And so should your partner.

Please if you are a victim of domestic violence contact an agency like inMotion and get the help that you & your family need before it's too late.
And for anyone that wants to support our team make it to the top.. Here is the link:
http://storybystory.kintera.org/faf/donorReg/donorPledge.asp?ievent=488542&supid=336095016

What would you do if.....

2011-10-04T09:41:00.000-04:00

So I am addicted to TV. I love reality tv, sitcoms, drama, food shows & medical shows. There is a new show on the investigation discovery channel called Strange Sex. It showcases different sexual ailments that have happened to real people and give you the treatment (if available) and tell you how the person lived & dealt with the problem. Soo of course I will highlight a bunch of them in this blog.
Here is the problem tackled in the first episode I saw...

In this episode they spoke to a woman that was born without a VAGINA.. She basically was born with the vaginal lips & clitoris but she had no vaginal opening for intercourse, childbirth etc. She did not have a uterus or ovaries,etc either. She lived like this for most of her life until the age of 17 when she underwent a procedure to open her up and carve out a canal. They then insert a device that looks like a hollow dildo but it has to remain inside her for a year in order to preserve the opening. She stated that it was sooo painful she couldn't keep it inside & therefore had it removed & the opening closed. Two years later she met a man, they fell in love & she had to inform him of her ailment. He decided surprisingly enough to stick by her & be with her. For her sake & the sake of their relationship she underwent the procedure to give her a vaginal opening again & this time it took. They got married and now enjoy a healthy sex life. They are unable to have children & will probably adopt in order to fulfill that dream.

Now men... Would you be able to date/marry a women that had no vaginal opening? Which caused her not to be able to have sex? Women how would you feel in this situation..

One word Mondays...

2011-10-03T08:50:00.001-04:00

FALL....

Reflections....

2011-09-30T09:48:00.000-04:00

Today is the last day of September. It's a Friday... My head is about to explode with everything that I want to accomplish before the year ends. I'm excited about the new possibilities. I'm excited that I have a few parties coming up. I'm proud of the things my daughter has accomplished especially in the past month. I'm proud of the way my husband has been hustling working two full time jobs.
I'm proud of my other lil babies Lady C & Diva who are blossoming and joining my Soso and forming Triple Trouble.
I'm proud of my friends who recently had babies & are wonderful mommies. And I'm proud of my sister wife Aisha who is going to change the world with her publishing company. And yea I guess I can be proud of Hayden & his photography too.. LOL And Michel who is one day going to put H&R Block out of business.

I don't know if it's because it's sunny, or Friday or what..but I'm extremely happy & positive & thankful for what I have & the people that I have in my life. So I'd like to say I hope you are too & have a sexy, happy & fun weekend!

XOXOXO

FACTOID THURSDAY

2011-09-29T08:52:00.000-04:00

As always please feel free to share your own facts:

Did you know that Vibrators were original used to treat Hysteria in women? Orginal treatment for Hysteria was digital manipulation (fingering) but doctors felt that took to long & came up with a vibrator to make the proceess go faster...

The first vibrators were steam powered...

Orignally condoms were made from chemically treated linen and animal tissue (usually intestine or bladder)

GO....

A lil bit of Inspiration on Hump Day...

2011-09-28T09:39:00.000-04:00

I had no idea what to blog about today but then I got an email from one of my sister-wives (I'll blog about that topic soon) and it was really nice. So I figured I would just post that and give you all a bit of inspiration to get you through the rest of the week...Thank you Michel

I woke up early today, excited over all I get to do before the clock strikes midnight. I have responsibilities to fulfill today. I am important.

My job is to choose what kind of day I am going to have.

Today I can complain because the weather is rainy or I can be thankful that the grass is getting watered for free.

Today I can feel sad that I don't have more money or I can be glad that my finances encourage me to plan my purchases wisely and guide me away from waste.

Today I can grumble about my health or I can rejoice that I am alive.

Today I can lament over all that my parents didn't give me when I was growing up or I can feel grateful that they allowed me to be born.

Today I can cry because roses have thorns or I can celebrate that thorns have roses.

Today I can mourn my lack of friends or I can excitedly embark upon a quest to discover new relationships.

Today I can whine because I have to go to work or I can shout for joy because I have a job to do.

Today I can complain because I have to go to school or eagerly open my mind and fill it with rich new tidbits of knowledge.

Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework or I can feel honored because the Lord has provided shelter for my mind, body and soul.

Today stretches ahead of me, waiting to be shaped. And here I am, the sculptor who gets to do the shaping.

What today will be like is up to me. I get to choose what kind of day I will have!

-- Author Unknown

It's NOT ok....

2011-09-27T09:19:00.000-04:00

One Word Mondays...

2011-09-26T09:34:00.000-04:00

PRIDE

Sexy Rainy Days

2011-09-23T14:49:00.001-04:00

POST COMES THANKS TO B.D OF BROOKEY'S CAFE BLOG..THANK YOU FOR ENABLING ME TO BE LAZY TODAY! :-)

TGIF!

I don't know what the weather is like where you are, but it's pouring here in the NYC. Sometimes there's nothing sexier than a rainy day....but not so sexy when you're at work.

If I were at home, I'd be bundled up on my sofa with fuzzy socks on, drinking hot chocolate and watching movies - that is....if I was alone. But if you've got a boo, here are some sexy rainy day ideas for you:

1. Make love all day. Even better if it's a thunderstorm. Nothing is sexier than that.

2. Cook together. We always want comfort food when it's cold and rainy outside, and cooking together creates an intimate experience. Hook up a steak and potatoes, feed each other...then work it off later if you know what I mean. Have each other for dessert :-)

3. Take a long, hot bath together. Light some candles, put on some Prince...Sade....Jill Scott - whoever does it for you on sexy days like today. Just relax, be a little romantic and wash each other. Dry each other off, and follow it up with an oil massage. Many sexy things can begin in the bathtub.

4. Make it a romantic movie night. Pop some popcorn, break out the candy, cuddle on the couch and watch Love Jones. ("I love you...that's urgent like a muthaphucka.") You might have to put it on pause for a nookie break ;-)

5. Dance together. Dim the lights, or turn them off completely, plug in your iPod to your stereo and hit the "slow jam" playlist. Hold each other close and let the music move you. I'm getting a little tingly just thinking about it ;-)

What are you favorite, sexy things to do on rainy days?

RIP Troy Davis....

2011-09-22T10:33:00.000-04:00

My blogs are usually prewritten on a weekly basis. I sit down write a few & then schedule them to post every day. As a mom with a ton of things to do I don't have the luxury of time to write every day. Today I'm going to make the time. Yes my regularly scheduled blog posted BUT I feel the need to write something I am PASSIONATE about. Troy Davis.
This man was executed last night at 11:08pm EST.

As a wife, mother, sister, friend I am appalled at this act. Because as much as we don't want to admit it this could have easily happened to my husband, dad, brothers or friends.
Now I'm not saying Mr. Davis was the model of perfection. Yes he had a record. BUT as with all trials his past could not be used against him. We are talking about THIS crime. The crime he was sentenced to death for. The killing of Police Officer Mark MacPhail. According to the laws of the land you are innocent until proven guilty. This guilt has to be proven without any doubt. Yes there are some cases that aren't that clear cut & in some ways this was one of them. Back when this case was originally tried there was "evidence" and witness testimony... But in the years since then witnesses have stated they were intimidated by police into their testimony. I would like to believe that our society is somewhat different that it was 20 years ago. Therefore it seems very logical to me that these people would come forward & admit that they lied & why. The same way it seems very logical that anyone in power to grant him a stay would do so. There is a LOT of doubt on this case & why would anyone want to be responsible for executing an possibly innocent man?? That's basically another MURDER. They interviewed Officer MacPhail's mother last night & she said she needed the execution to happen & that she was ready for justice. As a mother I get it. If god forbid anything ever happened to any of my children I would want the person responsible to pay. BUT only after I KNEW for a fact that they were the person that did it. I wouldn't want anyone imprisoned or killed that didn't commit the crime. Because then that means the guilty party is still out there free and able to do it to someone else's kid.
All in all this was just a way to vent about something that is thoroughly bothering me today. I really hope that they investigate this further & get to the bottom of this. And I hope everyone involved with Troy Davis's execution will be able to live with themselves if it's proven that he was innocent. We need to do better ladies & gentlemen. Raise our children better & fight for the changes that this country needs. Yes we have a black president, but he can't do everything & won't be able to. We all need to do something. Change will happen one person at a time.

Rest in Peace Troy Davis. And may god bless you & your family

Prostitution

2011-09-22T08:00:00.001-04:00

Every day it seems like a politician, sports figure, actor and any other famous people get caught with a "call girl". These women are paid thousands of dollars by men yet when you break it down there is not really a big difference between a call girl and the women that stand on the corner turning tricks.
Some men don't find anything wrong with paying for sex. Some men feel that it's less of a hassle than a real relationship. There is no commitment and you still get all the pleasure.

My question is how many of you would hire a prostitute/call girl/pay for sex? Or if you ever have under what circumstances did you pay for it. (feel free to answer anonymously if you don't want to offend anyone.