Pedestrian Polyamory

PP 17: Male Anal Stimulation – Butt-Fuckery, Pegging, and Prostate Milking

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 16 Feb 2012 16:43:53 +0000

Shira and Gavin go off the rails in this episode and start talking buttsex with boys! Shira gives you the low-down on prostate health and pleasure, getting into all the details on how to prepare for anal play, what's you can do, and what her favorite moves are. Before bringing the bottom's up, Shira and Gavin address some standing issues from the previous show including: What's a PINO, do they exist? Is Gavin a cuckhold? Is Shira an unempathetic whore? Listen to find out! <3

PP 16: Rules and Hearts are Meant to be Broken

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:42:13 +0000

Rules and boundaries! So much fun, right? In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory Gavin and Shira talk about Gavin's recent struggles with jealousy before charging into a discussion on rules, boundaries, and how they effect polyamorous relationships. It seems like most people in non-monogamous prescribe to a set of rules in their relationship, but could there be a better way? Get some tips on when the Katz' think that rules are good and when they are time-bombs.

PP 15: Newt Gingrich and Poly Media Attention

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 00:46:59 +0000

In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory, we talk about the recent media hype surrounding Newt Gingrich and open marriage. This episode is slightly more political and topical than usual, so we fully accept all of the hate-mail that will transpire as a result. That said! Before we get into the nitty gritty with Mr. Grinch, Gavin got a SONNET from a listener which we read in our new segment - HepKatz Sonnet Corner. Then.. big news about Gavin's dating life! Listen to hear more <3

PP 14: Poly Tech Tips for Dirty Nerdies

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 16:31:19 +0000

In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory, Shira and Gavin talk about all sorts of great web sites and techie tools that poly folk can use to improve their lives. You'll find suggestions for scheduling and coordination tools, dating sites, and apps and tools to improve your sexytimes. How do you turn sex into data geekery? How do you coordinate all your sweetie's schedules? How do you get down and dirty with a sweetie that you can barely ever see in person? You're the pedestrian, we got the suggestion. Listen to hear more!

PP 13: Listener Mail – Ain’t Nothing But a Poly Thing

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 12 Jan 2012 16:35:18 +0000

Gavin and Shira hit the mailbag to help keep the listeners pedestrian. First, Gavin talks about progress in his 257 step patented plan to asking a girl out on a date. Shira discusses her new toy from http://www.bndpodcast.com and shares why she think it might be her new favorite. On to listener mail, the Katz Crew answers questions from 'When do I come out to my date?' to 'How does a poly girl find a date who doesn't just think she is an easy lay?". Find out their answers to these questions and many more! <3

PP 12: Breaking Up – When Love is Not Enough

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 05 Jan 2012 00:13:41 +0000

Shira and Gavin talk about breaking up.. don't worry, not with each other. Not yet, anyways. Whether you've gone against Shira's advice and broken some hearts, or if you have a broken heart and want to get over it, give this show a listen because Shira talks about what different types of poly break-ups look like and how to cope with them whether you're a breaker upper, break uppee or an innocent bystander. Before getting into that incredibly uplifting topic, Shira and Gavin talk about how spending the holidays with the in-laws went after having recently come out of the closet and slutty, slutty poly folks. Can the Katz' make it through this episode without breaking up themselves? Listen and find out! <3

PP 11: All Business; Wishing Our Listeners a Very Pedestrian New Year

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 07:01:21 +0000

In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory the Katz' are all business. Wrapping up 2011, Shira and Gavin discuss their big plans and resolutions for the new year. This episode is a shortie and comes before a holiday break.. but the Katz will be back in the first week of January! Until then, Happy Holidays and Merry New Year!

PP 10: Postulant Polyamory – A Roadmap for the Newbs Part 1

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Fri, 16 Dec 2011 01:05:15 +0000

Gavin is taking a stand in this episode of POSTULANT Polyamory. It's time to welcome the newbs.. apparently. First, Shira talks about dating a swinger and Gavin talks about going to a kinky BDSM rope party and learning about Japanese rope bondage and other fun knotty origami ropey things. Then shit gets basic: What is polyamory? Who is polyamorous and who isn't? How do you prepare yourself for entering the world of polyamory? Where do you find a community of poly peeps to get you started? How much does communication help in a relationship? How do you set boundaries? How do you convince your partner to go on this trip with you? What are the pros and cons of polyamory? Should you have veto power? What about tokens? Find out by listening to this episode of POSTULANT polyamory.

PP 9: Out With It, Already! Living Out of the Closet

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 16:45:41 +0000

Shira interviews Franklin Veaux, a poly based activist who describes himself as a tattooed, polyamorous, kinky transhumanist. Before that, Gavin and Shira discuss their trip to Portland and the continuation of the dreaded DROUGHT. So what's a transhumanist? How does a poly relationship sans hierarchy work? How do I make sex toys at home? Where do I go find awesome sex games online? What about the singularity?! Stick around as Shira asks Franklin Veaux all this and more!

PP 8: Meeting Franklin Veaux – From DIY Sex Toys to Transhumanism to Poly Hierarchy

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 05:04:22 +0000

PP 7: Meeting Watson – A study in Virgins and Labels

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Wed, 23 Nov 2011 17:33:18 +0000

Hey, look! Shira found a virgin to interview, but before that starts listen as Shira and Gavin discuss some hate mail they received. Find out where the Katz' stand on the issue of dating people with STI's and figure out what is causing the SEX DROUGHT. (One hint, parents: co-sleeping!) Then off to virgin land. How does one handle themselves before they have the labels of straight, gay, monogamous, or polyamorous? What can we do to facilitate our virginal friend?

PP 6: Dating, Sex, Herpes and HPV

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 05:38:38 +0000

Today, boys and girls, Shira B. Katz cites her sources and teaches you all about the ins and outs of herpes and HPV but first Gavin shares his first public dancing experience and Shira tells us about meeting the inspirational and infamous Kapers from Sex is Fun. Find out why Gavin wants a bowl full of herpes. Listen to Shira whimper about all the lovely, amazing, STI riddled people she's met recently. What will the Katz' do to stay safe from STI's but still make the most of the connections they've made with people who have them? And, most importantly, when will Shira get a freakin' intro jingle for Shira B. Katz cites her sources?

PP 5: Polyamorous Transitive Property Fallacy

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 22:31:18 +0000

Do you judge yourself based on your partner's partners? If you're A=B and C=B does A=C in the land of polyamory? Shira and Gavin discuss their experiences with the Polyamorous Transitive Property Fallacy but first they share some thoughts on personal friends listening to the show, try to figure out how they ended up on an astrology website, and take a bit more time to talk about dick. Shira talks about her self-image issues after being with a guy who had only been with BBW's prior to her. Gavin reveals to the listeners that he had some jealousy issues surrounding a partner Shira had whom he called Gavin 2.0. How do you avoid the Polyamorous Transitive Property Fallacy? What do you do when your partner starts dating a jerk? Listen and find out!

PP 4: All About The Penis – Size DOES Matter

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 02:12:32 +0000

It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean... right? Shira calls bullshit! Listen to Shira and Gavin talk about why penis size most certainly matters, but first Gavin talks about his first cuddle-pile and Shira talks about meeting Boris and Doris on her trip to Texas. (Check their show out: The Boris and Doris Podcast!) Shira cites her sources and delves into some studies that gives some facts on the average lengths and girths of the human penis. And guess who's a size queen? Shira B. Katz is! And she feels quite guilty about it, it would seem. Can she deal with a small dick? What's an aerodynamic stunt cock? How does Gavin feel about having a big dick? Find out in the show.

PP 3: Listener Mail – Mo’ Poly, Mo’ Problems

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Wed, 26 Oct 2011 04:04:33 +0000

Before getting to the listener mail, Shira and Gavin talk about Gavin's introduction to the SF Bay poly community and Shira takes a vow of travel-based celibacy. Listeners ask: What's the difference between open relationships and polyamory and polyfidelity? What's in this for Gavin? Why does Shira have a filthy whore mouth? Do the Katz have religious guilt? How do you flirt with someone when their partner is around? Is Shira using up all her sex on other people? Listen as the Katz Crew answers these questions and more!

PP 2: Talking Polyamory with Pepper Mint

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 23:26:33 +0000

Shira sits down with the second-generation polyamorous Pepper Mint. Pepper is a polyamorous activist and educator who is a staple in the San Francisco Bay Area polyamorous community. In this interview they discuss how Pepper's upbringing with non-monogamous parents shaped his views on relationships, his struggles with dating in college at MIT, his goals of bringing Polyamorous people together, tips on making long- term relationships (and short-term) with multiple partners work, and Shira also gets Pepper to share his fascination with Sadomasochism.

PP 1: Meeting Gavin Katz: The Truth about Polyamory for Boys

contact@lifeontheswingset.com (Life On The Swingset) — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 05:01:28 +0000

Shira introduces the world to Gavin Katz. Shira interviews Gavin as he reveals his personal and completely honest views about polyamory and the polyamorous lifestyle. In this introductory episode they reveal: turning vanillas to polyamory, dealing with a partner who dates more than you, gender inadequacies in online dating, and being an introvert in an extroverted lifestyle.