An example of a popular casual dating site online.

Adult dating sites are of course huge business with millions of people around the world having a profile on them with them hoping to find that special something.

These sites range from just general dating to those that are more specific according to preferences, countries, and genres, but in order to get the sites to work for you it does pay you to understand more about the sites themselves as well as the key things to include in your profile to stand out from the crowd.

That being said, the information that follows may prove to be quite useful for a number of people.

Why adult dating sites work

Quite simply, adult dating sites work because we are often too busy to look at establishing a relationship with somebody in the more traditional way.

By going onto these websites we can actively look for people that fit the criteria that we have in our minds for somebody that we could get close to and this, in turn, saves us from wasting too much time with people that are just not suitable in any way.

These sites, therefore, eliminate a lot of the chase aspect because instead we can now exchange a few emails to see if there is any kind of a potential spark there before even meeting in person and when you have limited spare time it is clear why doing things this way is attractive to so many people.

How they work

The way these websites work is that they allow you to upload a profile where you include some information about yourself such as a description and your personal likes, dislikes, and what you are looking for in a person as well as your photograph, or photographs for some sites, to give people a glimpse of what to expect.

After uploading your profile, you are then able to do a search according to your own preferences in a partner with you only being shown the results that correspond to the information that you entered when doing that search.

This is the part that makes these sites stand out, and is also another reason why they work and are so popular because if you are looking for somebody of a certain height, build, likes sports, and loves pets, then the search will only show you people that have put that on their profile meaning there is a great chance that somewhere in that list is the perfect partner for you.

How to setup a magnetic profile

IMPORTANT NOTE: If you’re serious about creating a profile that rocks, then I strongly suggest that you check out this list of the best adult dating websites which were tested and proven to offer a very high percentage of women. That means no signing up to dozens of sites just to see which ones are the best.

Clearly the key is going to be setting up your profile to make sure that it stands out from all of the others on there and there are several things that you are advised to do in order to avoid just blending into the background.

Perhaps the main thing is to have a good photograph on there as it has been shown that profiles with photographs get more than double the response of those without and if possible try to have a couple on there rather than just the one.

Apart from this, you need to add as much information as you can, so enter your likes and dislikes, be honest in your description of yourself and what you are looking for and just make sure that the person that is viewing your profile can feel like they already know you before sending a message.

It is also worth pointing out that putting as much information on your profile as possible will also mean that you will show up in the correct search results and lower the chances of you simply being messaged by people who you would never be attracted to in any way whatsoever.

To conclude, it has to be said that adult dating sites do undoubtedly work for a lot of people and indeed there have been countless relationships formed as a result of people putting their profile on there and finding that perfect partner.

They help to cut down on the time you waste searching for that certain someone and they are certainly very easy to use, so if you would love to be in a relationship, then get your profile on there, add as much information as possible, and just wait on those messages hitting your inbox.

So today I want to take you through some simple steps that will enable you to tell whether a girl is ready to be kissed. Once you understand these steps, you’ll be able to go in for a kiss and not be hit with rejection.

1. Keep strong eye contact

Eye contact will help with making her feel comfortable and also show that you’re confident, so make sure you keep that eye contact whenever you’re talking to her. Don’t shy away from locking eyes, it’s incredibly important that you do this.

2. Look at her lips

You need to put the thought in her head that you want to kiss her, so keep looking at her lips, then back up to her eyes. Whether she notices this consciously or unconsciously, she will notice you looking and the thought will be planted in her mind.

3. Touch her softly and affectionately

Keep touching her throughout conversation, in the pickup community this is known as using “Kino” which stands for kinesthetic touch. The more you touch her in a warm and affectionate way, the more comfortable she will feel around you and thus be more willing to kiss you.

4. Slow down and be seductive

Kissing is a sensual and seductive thing, so you need to match that mood by being more seductive in the way that you speak. Slow everything down, your mannerisms, voice, eye contact and even the way you speak so that everything feels relaxing and passionate. This is the last step before the big one.

5. Go in for the kiss

Providing you’ve done everything above, you should be able to go in for the kiss, if you’re really good at the steps above then she’ll probably be the one kissing you first.

So there you have it, that’s how you can tell if a girl is ready to be kissed or not.

Aside from the sex, there are MASSIVE advantages to having a girlfriend you love, so why is it so difficult for some guys to find a girl and move into a relationship?

Well it’s usually down to a series of things they are doing wrong.

Today I’m going to show you what you NEED to be doing right! Once you apply these simple steps, you’ll easily be able to get a girlfriend, I promise you, it’s very easy.

Here’s the steps…

1. Make sure you’re you have options

Having multiple women on the cards is the best thing you can ever do. It’s great for your confidence, the vibe you give off to other women (you’re not as needy) the energy you project (more positive and healthy) it’s just a great way to get comfortable around women.

What it also does is allows you to be the one in control, weighing up your options on who is the best girl.

2. Let girls think that you’re “a catch”

A very attractive quality to have as a man, is to be desirable by other women. Which means making them think that you’re a great “catch”. When they think this, you will always have women interested in you, wanting to tie you down into a relationship, so this again puts you into the driving seat.

How do you make women think you’re in demand? Simple… get more options, establish yourself in a career that pays well, live on your own, look after your body, become smarter and work on your confidence.

3. Don’t settle

Let’s say you come across a stunning girl, but you think her personality isn’t quite up to parr. You should never ever settle for a girl that isn’t 100% percent what you’re looking for. Only get into a relationship if you’re completely and utterly happy with her.

So that’s it player, just four steps to finding a girlfriend and settling into a cozy relationship.

Imagine being on your lunch break during work hours, finishing up and heading back to the office for the last part of the day. As you’re walking back you notice a beautiful woman coming towards you…

You stop her, get her laughing, chat for no more than a minute or two and get her number.

You head back to the office with a smile on your face, knowing you’ve just closed a hottie outside while the other guys are all complaining about how slow the week is going and how they can’t wait for a beer or Friday.

Sound like something that you’d be interested in? Awesome, let’s get a wiggle on and I’ll show you exactly what to do and say:

Ok, so using the example above, let’s break down the interaction…

1. The approach

As the girl is walking towards you in the situation, you don’t need to approach her. But you do need to have te correct body language, make sure you’re looking straight at her, with a slight smile on your face, a tilted head (as if your curious about something) and an open mind.

2. The open

Once she is in front of you, say the following:

YOU: Excuse me, can I ask you a question?
HER: Yeah, sure
YOU: I’m just on the way back to the office and I couldn’t help but notice how cute you look, if I didn’t come over and say something then I’d seriously be beating myself up about it for the rest of the day…
HER: Awwww, thanks

3. The close

Now before you go in for the kill, you need to build a little rapport and then close, always mentioning the time constraint so she is aware that you’re leaving and won’t feel nervous about talking to you for ages.

Say something like this:

YOU: Do you work around here? Because I’m on this street every day at this time and I’ve never seen you.
HER: No, I’m just meeting a friend
YOU: Oh right, cool… you look and sound like your Swedish (always assume, never ask, it keeps things interesting)
HER: Haha, I am. I just arrived a few days ago and I’m here for the summer
YOU: Awesome, well listen I need to get back to work but we should meet up sometime this week for a drink… (again assuming and leading)
HER: Yeah, that sounds great
YOU: Cool, what’s your number, I’ll call you now so you have mine (calling her phone on the spot, ensures you have a real number)

So you take the number, call it and then end the conversation with “Ok, I’ll text you later and we can arrange something…”

That whole interaction will take no more than 3 minutes in the real world. Trust me I’ve done it hundreds of times.

That’s how you pick up women fast!

A Pick Up Artist is somebody that concentrates a lot of his time and energy on approaching, attracting and picking up ladies of all ages and sorts, to ensure he can have strong game.

Once he’s savvy with how seduction works along with what females are looking for in a dude, his work is basically done. He can then confidently go out to a bar, nightclub or perhaps even a coffee shop in the day and pickup a woman he likes the look of.

This is exactly what a Pick Up Artist bootcamp will provide you. The opportunity to tread outside of your comfort zone, master the skills to seduce girls and subsequently get laid every so often, without relying on luck or liquor.

Precisely why a PUA bootcamp might be the greatest thing for you

If you’ve ever been out with a few guys or with a few work mates, spotted a woman at the bar and said to yourself …” Argh, I wish I had the balls to approach her”.

Or you have actually been strolling down the street on your journey to work and a cute girl has walked right near you, but you’ve realised that you have absolutely no game, therefore there’s no point in trying to talk with her as you don’t know exactly what to say.

A bootcamp can easily help you get over this…

When you show up at a PUA bootcamp, you are asked to speak with a number of women over the session of a weekend or evening. Tutors are contracted to help tutor you through the process and tell you exactly where you went wrong, like trusted wingman practically.

If you’re simply an ordinary man who wishes to get laid more, or perhaps even uncover that one special woman, a bootcamp may just be the greatest thing you can ever do for your game.

How much does a PUA bootcamp cost?

Now there are bundles of PUA bootcamps available on the marketplace right now, one of the most preferred is from a company known as PUA Training, who are just one of the biggest seduction and pickup companies around.

You’d be looking at around $600 to $2,500 depending on the course length, strategies covered and coach teaching on the day. That price range can come as a surprise to you, but just imagine the skills you’re likely to get from it.

Today I want to give you a rundown of 3 proven personality types that once used will almost guarantee you get laid… every single time.

But here’s the thing, they are completely different to each other and don’t always attract the same type of women. So you need to either adopt one that suits your current personality or start using attractive characteristics at certain times.

Right, here we go:

1. The dick

Every girl at some point in their life will come across, date and sleep with a bad boy. These guys are the alpha males of human race and go around like they own the place.

You need to be careful if you’re this type of personality, because you’re relationships with women are usually short lived. Yes you will be sleeping with smoking hot chicks and get more action than most men can dream of, but it will be very short lived.

You see, women will get tired of your games and they will one day just settle for the nicer guy… he may be boring, but at least he offers one of the other attractive qualities all men should have – Security.

The dick usually says things like “Come on let’s go back to mine, it’s crap here” or “That body is fine girl, come here and let me get a closer look”.

2. The shy guy

Women like the shy guy on occasion. Think of him as the “romantic comedy” guy, someone like Hugh Grant. Let’s say you’re in a club or bar and you say something like “Excuse me, I just wanted to come over and say I think you’re incredibly cute and I’ve been plucking the nerves up to come over for a while now… I’m quite shy”.

She’ll treat you like a cute puppy, it will melt her heart a little because it shows sincerity. Make sure you follow the shyness up with some manly character traits though, otherwise she’ll get bored pretty damn quickly.

3. The go getter

The go getter is neither a dick or a shy person, he’s usually a little bit of both. The reason being is because he’s ambitious and strives to be successful.

Women love a guy who is ambitious and knows exactly what they want, it shows that you can offer security, be a leader and decision maker, also provide for your family.

So now you know the types of men that get laid, you need to start being one of those guys. Do you want to sleep with multiple women? Then the dick might be the best bet, do you want a long term relationship with one woman? Then the shy guy is the one for you.

Maybe you want to sleep with a variety of women but still be on good terms with each of them and be in demand, the go getter is definitely the guy for that.

Choose wisely!

What type of guy are you naturally?

Understanding whether a woman is ready to have sex with you, can sometimes be a very tricky question as a lot of women throw out random sexual signals followed by illogical pre-wired responses, that counteract her sexual advances.

Today I want to show you which sexual signals you need to watch out for, that once read will allow you to take a girl to bed very quickly and completely demolish any type of last minute resistance.

Ready? Cool, here’s what you need to ask yourself during the evening…

1. Does she move away when you touch her?

If a girl responds negatively when you touch her, then this usually means that you haven’t built up enough rapport and trust, therefore she’s not ready to have sex with you. It’s important to not react to her moving away or giving you the cold shoulder, brush it off and keep trying to win her over throughout the night.

2. Have you kissed her?

Kissing is obviously a logical step before moving onto other bedroom related activities. When you’re in a club or bar, you need to make sure that you kiss her pretty early on in the evening, so you can set the tone. If she lets you kiss her, this is a very big indication that she’s into you and highly likely she’ll be sleeping with you, either that night or pretty soon.

3. Is she showing signs of sexual attraction?

Look for the basic signs of sexual attraction… dilated pupils, nervous and coy body language, slow breathing, playing with her hair or another part of her body nervously. If she displays any of these signs, then it’s another strong indicator that she’s ready to have sex with you.

4. What does she say when you ask her to come back to yours?

The biggest hurdle guys face when truly knowing if a girl wants to sleep with you, is asking whether she wants to come back to yours or not. The best way to do this is to keep hinting that you should go back to yours, to watch a DVD or to chill out with some quiet drinks, never ask her… always assume and hope that she’ll follow.

If she comes back with you, it’s game on and you can take that as a sure fire signal she’ll sleep with you that night.

5. Is she displaying any resistance?

Now that she’s back at yours, she may give you some level of resistance and say things like “I don’t usually do this you know” or “I don’t just sleep with random guys, I’m a good girl”. These are just her logical mind trying to make her justify the situation and letting both her and you know that she’s not a slut, which is obviously a terrible thing to be branded as if you’re a girl.

All you need to do to move past these barriers is throw the same things back at her, things like “I’m actually not that type of guy either, I don’t ever do this, but it just feels right” or “Yeah I’m the same, but I think we’ve got a good energy together”. Sounds cheesy but it does work, if you say it in the right way.

So there you have it dude! That’s how you tell if a girl is ready to have sex. Obviously if she says no and means it, don’t ever try and push her to have sex with you, that’s just wrong. But it’s totally fine to push past the predicated verbal barriers she will come out with.

As a result of this community going from strength to strength, certain personalities have become well known and written ”how to” style books on the subject of picking up women.

Below are the top 5 books on how to pick up girls, based on our own personal likes and dislikes:

The Game – Neil Strauss

Released in late 2007, ‘The Game‘ quickly became a NY Times best seller and resonated in the pickup community as the ultimate PUA book. Neil Strauss is a fantastic author and wrote about his experiences he had within the secret world of pick up artists. The bok itself is written like a story, but also gives you basic tips for pulling women and techniques which he used himself.

The only issue with this book is that it does cover some techniques which are considered by some as being strange and a little geeky. Still a great read, but should definitely be taken lightly when it comes to meeting and attracting women.

The Natural – Richard La Ruina

Richard (AKA Gambler) is a rising start in the pickup world, his skills are far beyond what most guys could ever achieve and have allowed him to attract some of the most beautiful women in the world.

His book ‘The Natural‘ is his second book and is said to offer techniques and methods that he uses himself on a daily basis to meet women. Things like “forcing an IOI” which means getting attention from women in a club or busy bar, when she’s standing across the room. The techniques are definitely considered advanced though.

The Mystery Method - Erik Von Markovik

Mystery has been in the community from the beginning and is pretty much the guy who started it all. His success came when Neil Strauss wrote about him in The Game. Although his methods are seen to be a little funky, they do work for a certain kind of character, like a magician for example.

The mystery method book details a lot of Mysteries theories which he believes work very well in the real world. Our view is that they aren’t as effective as some others.

Secrets of the A Game - Logan Edwards

Secrets of the A game is a fun read and really goes in-depth on how you project a confident charismatic you. A little on the pricey side of things, but if you’re eager to give off a vibe like James Bond or a Rock Star then this is the book for you, fantastic.

Where other books focus on things like “peacocking” and “negging” this book focuses on the attributes a successful, charismatic and cool alpha male portrays naturally. If you apply everything you read in this book then you’ll most certainly become better with women.

The Art of Seduction - Robert Greene

This is an incredibly good read. The art of seduction, goes into detail on the male and female psychology which other books rarely touch on.

Where this book really shines is it goes into detail on the different types of characters that get women, like a famous guy or a comedian etc and shows you what types of qualities you need to adopt.

Las Vegas is known for partying and wild nights, women understand this and actually go their just to hook up with guys.

This means that you don’t need to put a lot of ground work in like you would anywhere else, simply talk to as many girls as you can, build rapport and then close.

Bets times to go to Vegas

There are several times throughout any given year, that make your job of pulling so easy it’s laughable.

You can quite honestly just show up, approach one or two girls and that’s it, either you’ll be making out with them, you’ll get their number and arrange to meet up later and on some rare occasions actually take them back to your hotel after just minutes.

Here are the best times to go to Las Vegas for girls…

Spring break

If you have half a brain, you’ll know what spring break is and just how easy it is to get laid during this time wherever you are in the states. Spring break in Las Vegas however is no exception, college girls flock their in the thousands and have two things on their mind… sex and partying.

Make sure you book two whole weeks at the end of March and start of April to take full advantage of this time.

New Years Eve

A new start is on the horizon, which means girls are feeling frisky and mischievous, so they can leave the last year behind them. This means that will be up for a little naughty business with any guy that takes their fancy.

You don’t need to stay long in Vegas to take advantage of New Years, just a couple of nights at most. But make sure you head out the best nightclubs which should be heaving with beautiful girls.

Convention season

Quite honestly, conventions happen all year round in Vegas, but it’s the conventions that attract horny women that you want to watch out for. Things that involve sports or anything girly will have tons of chicks just hanging around, granted some will be more mature, but you will still get a few younger women their too.

If you somehow manage to miss all of those, then you can just hit up the popular nightclubs that are scattered around all over the place. Vegas is full of stunning women of all different types, so you’ll always have options. That’s how you pick up women in vegas player.

Think about it, they buy these skimpy sports bras, tight running pants and still do their makeup… for what? To look their best for men, so they can be picked up.

Apart from it being a great place to meet women, it’s also a very hard environment for any guy to approach a girl. It’s intimidating and the thought of other people overhearing your conversation is quite daunting.

Today I want to walk you through a simple set of proven tips for approaching, attracting and closing any girl you want in the gym.

Ready? Cool, here’s how to pick up women at the gym…

1. Reduce your rejection rate

Rejection is on everyone’s mind and it’s certainly at the forefront when you’re approaching women in the gym. So with this frightful thought looming over us, it’s important to eliminate as much of the rejection as we possibly can before going over. To do this, simply run through the following check list in your mind:

• Is she wearing a ring? If yes, don’t approach, if no then move to the next point.
• Does she make eye contact with you? If no, then she’s more interested in working out, if yes then move onto the next point.
• Does she hover around the same areas as you? If no, then again she’s more interested in working out, if yes then she’s looking for you to speak to her.

2. Smile and force interest

You need to smile at her once you make eye contact and see what type of smile she gives back. If it’s forced and giving off a fake vibe, then she doesn’t want to be approached. If she smiles and looks a little excited or coy, then she’s very willing for you to approach her.

By smiling, you are forcing the interested from her which you might not have gotten if you just kept your head down and worked out.

3. Approach with advice or help

Now that you’ve initiated interest, you need to make a move. The best way to do this in a gym, is to either ask her for some advice or offer to help, that’s it.

So if you went down the advice route, you would say something like “Excuse me, sorry to bother you but do you know how to use this machine?”. It’s not considered very manly if you ask a girl for help, but hey it’s 2012 for christ sake, who cares!

If you went down the help route, you would say something like “Hey, sorry to but in on your workout but I noticed you’re using the machine incorrectly, if you do it like this, you’ll burn twice as many calories”. She’ll love you for this.

4. Use a time constraint

Make sure you don’t stay longer than 2 minutes max. The gym is like an airport, people are their to get the job done and move on, so you can’t stand around chatting with her for long.

5. Close quickly and continue working out

If you’re feeling confident, then you should ask for her number and either continue working out or head for the showers. Say something like “Listen, I need to get a shower on go but we should meet up if you fancy it?”.

That’s it dude. You don’t need incredible game to pick up girls in the gym, it’s very easy and quick. The next time you’re there, give these tips a go and you’ll easily get a date out of it.

One thing to remember though, if you screw up the date or give off a bad impression, you’ll likely be seeing that girl around the gym for many weeks or months to come, so choose wisely.