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The Questions game

2011-09-16T19:07:00.002+03:00

again I'm sorry for my English..

hi guys, have you ever had a stucking point with a woman? have you ever had a situation when you felt the conversation isn't going anywhere? i bet you do.. well here is one optional solution, the Questuins game, (got it from my unc).

Game rules:

You point out to the girl that she should ask you 10 questions, on any subject, questions about family, secrets, relationships, sex, life, on everything, including really personal and intrusive, explain the rules in these words that so you actually route the conversation you want, sex, invasion of privacy and intrusive comments unconsciousness bypass Rules.

You must specify that you promise to answer honestly (and indeed you do, but politically), and then you ask her 10 questions.

You must emphasized that these are not superficial questions like what is your favorite color and so on. But deep questions.

* She must ask first

* Do not agree for less questions (only if she really, really insists then no less than 5)

* Do not agree taking turns (1-1)

* Be attentive to her questions, her questions are really her answers, explanation below.

Overt goal of the game:

to know each other (that's what she thinks ... lol)

Hidden objective and benefits:

+ To know the girl

+ To know her interests

+ Direct her to our directions

+ DHV: quality and listener

+ Let her talk (because they LOVE it, and more then that they psychologically feel (subconsciously ) that as they talk more about themselves so they're more connected to the person they choose to speak with)

+ Create an emotional connection

+ Show value

+ Excellent game for framing

+ excellent game to get close Physical

+ a chance to test your game

+ An excellent opportunity to practice a coversation to a girl.

+ A good solution to the conversation stucking point.

+ + + +, Etc.

Gameplay:

Well as you figured, the girl starts asking you questions, then you.

lets say, for that matter that these are the questions asked by her in the order (in brackets i note theme question):

1. What's your favorite pose in sex? (Sex)

2. When was your last relationship and why it ended? (relationship)

3. What's the strangest place you had sex? (Sex)

4. What is your ambition in life? (The life)

5. Do you believe in love at first sight? (relationship)

6. If you could get a job that you work for free, assuming you have shelter, food and basic things, what was it? (Career)

7. What's the saddest situation you've been in your life? (Intimacy)

8. What do you like / look for a girl? (relationship)

9. How many children do you want? (family)

10. If your girlfriend was cheating on you would you forgive her? (relationship)

Well a few ways to realize the benefits and realize the goals I mentioned above (not an exact science but hits at least 90% of the cases):

Order of questions:

Order of questions is crucial, in our example watch what she said at the beginning, sex, relationships and sex again. In most cases the girl asks at first the important things in her life. in our example the girl with high sex drive must have a good match for sex with her BF. Note that another issue at the end of the fifth questions family and relationships, now is not thinking about a family even though she also was interested in exploring that with you.

Featured Topics

Another possibility to find out what interests this girl with the main areas of choice.

4 for relationship, 2 for sex, a question about life, a question about a career, 1 of intimacy and 1 for family.

These data can already figure out what interests her in the big picture, she is looking for a relationship, maybe just sex, less interested in serious topics like family, intimacy, etc..

Tone and manner of speech

The way she asks the questions is the most important key, cause you understand if the woman in front of you is smart, funny, bitch etc. Way of speaking and toning will also provide you with answers on the girl's confidence, her shyness, her openness about her maturity and so on.

Tools you can use :

+ touch

+ acting skills

+ High self-esteem

+ framing (you should use when she finishes the questions and then share your own conclusions from it, only if you feel like)

+ looks

+Sex appeal

peace,

EuQiNu

Rape & The Dark Side Of Seduction

2011-09-16T00:02:00.001+03:00

Imagine a man’s eyeballs catching a glimpse of a gorgeous vixen. Her boobies, butted together and pushed up by an over-the-shoulder-boulder-holder. Each carefully painted foot hooked into a black stiletto.

He can hear the hum of blood chugging into his dong, leaving him with an uncontrollable puberty-erection.

His jagged and stubby fingernails, a keepsake of the fear and nervousness he feels when approaching beautiful babies.

His heart thumping like a mallet struck against a gong.

His skin turns from healthy-tan to the color of regular computer paper.

He careens up to her and babbles something unintelligible.

You know the feeling when your stomach throws back all the food you swallowed and there’s nothing left but it still wants to play catch with the toilet bowl? That’s the look she gives him.

He feels he has crashed head-on into a concrete wall graffitied with the words “I’m not attracted to you, loser.”

A deep misunderstanding about attraction is handcuffing this man from getting the women he deserves…

He thinks attraction is a set of visual qualities that sexually arouse women. Think bulging muscles, chiseled face, and a package so big the mailman would get a hernia delivering it.

Why do so many men fall into this attraction myth?

Because us guys are visually aroused. We see an outline of a breast and our down-below parts stand at full attention.

Are females visually aroused? Can “good looks” turn a woman on? Yes. Absolutely. But visual arousal is only one of many means for pumping a woman’s groin full of lust.

What I’m about to tell you may shock your senses, convince you to question everything you thought you knew about women, or twist your mind into viewing me as the devil himself.

But I promise you this: I’m a good guy. I always leave women better off than when I found them. So bear with me.

What I’m going to share with you is the truth… and your future success with women rides on understanding it.

Rape can sexually arouse well-adjusted women.

But it gets worse…

In some cases, rapists have induced full blown orgasms in their victims.

I’m not talkin’ about a woman being make-believe raped by her boyfriend or husband.

What I have in mind is a male stranger violently raping a woman.

As the great Hunter S. Thompson said in his book Hell’s Angels:

“Women are terrified of rape, but somewhere in the back of every womb there is one rebellious nerve end that tingles with curiosity whenever the word is mentioned.”

You might be wondering, “Why in the world would a woman become aroused by a man forcing her to do something against her will?”

Good question.

One of the issues many rape victims deal with is getting turned on and having orgasms triggered by their perpetrator.

Sometimes these women are married. They love their husbands dearly. They find their perpetrator grotesque and despicable. Nonetheless, he triggers arousal – and sometimes orgasms – inside them. As a result, they feel their bodies have betrayed them.

They have to face up to the truth: Arousal is not a choice. Instead, it’s an unconscious response to a class of stimuli.

Here’s how it works…

The same part of a woman’s brain responsible for fight-or-flight triggers arousal and orgasm.

More often than you might think, this part of the brain cannot distinguish the difference between fear and arousal. (It’s one of many evolutionary quirks our brain is fraught with.)

As a result, the threatening circumstances induce arousal and/or orgasm in her.

Bad guy warning: In no way, shape, or form am I condoning rape. Rape is a despicable act only the most sordid and pathetic men commit. Do it and you risk some very bad things happening to you.

But… this doesn’t take away from the reality that fear can trigger sexual arousal inside women.

I’ve discovered techniques for using fear to induce arousal in women without causing them any harm. In fact, they’ll love you for it.

Plus, fear is one of five primitive emotions that trigger arousal inside women. (More on these five primitive emotions later on.)

But first…

Let’s return to the age old question: What is attraction?

Is it arousal? That’s only part of it.

Specific neurological structures in a woman’s brain either process the arousal or stop it dead in its tracks. These are what I call “brain filters.”

Similar to how a water dam either blocks or allows water to flow through, brain filters either close up and block arousal or open up and allow it to flow through the body. When they’re opened up, they emotionally and rationally justify the arousal in her body, compelling her to act on the arousal in the direction you choose.

One brain filter is Prizability; the other is Comfort.

The Prizability filter opens when she perceives you as having enough value that if you walked away, she’d take it as a loss.

Her comfort filter opens up when she feels comfortable with the idea of having sex with you. Having a connection and a rapport are only a few of the ways to open up this filter.

Just to recap: sexual arousal + opened up Prizability & Comfort filters = attraction.

This whole attraction process happens below her conscious awareness. In other words, it’s not something she has conscious control over.

If you’re a serious student of seduction, I suggest you check out my Sexual Connections audio course.

Inside you’ll discover all five primitive emotions and learn how to use each one to generate colossal sexual arousal in women seconds after meeting them.

And this barely grazes the surface… you’ll also get your hands on dozens of other secrets for bypassing a woman's critical factor and taping into primitive parts of her brain that are responsible for raw sexual arousal.

In addition, you’ll learn step-by-step how to quickly pry open her Prizability & Comfort filters.

Plus, you’ll discover dozens of compliance triggers: Neurological structures in her brain that unconsciously compel her to go along with whatever you want her to do. Master them and you can write your own destiny with women.

In fact, I'm so confident my course is going to transform your dating life style, I'm going to let you test-drive it for 7 days for a single dollar. .

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Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Swinggcat

Special Super-Success Issue

2011-09-15T11:14:00.001+03:00

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I am interrupting the normal flow of Speed Seduction® newsletters to bring you a very important message that I feel simply CANNOT wait.

You see, from time to time, I get incredible testimonials from students who are using the SS material to truly.....

...Change Their Lives And KICK BUTT WITH WOMEN!

Yesterday, I got the following email from Ryan D, and I feel I had to share it with you because his results are not only dramatic, but more importantly...

.....He Goes Into Which Specific Techniques Got What Specific Results With The Women He Really Wanted!

So, here, unedited, is the testimonial from Ryan.

Here it is:

I have been using Ross's material since 1997, after a woman whom I thought I had loved totally rejected me. I was 20 at the time. Sitting in a pool of rejection and self-doubt, I did what my parents had taught me to do in any type of failure: learn as much as you can about the subject and re-attack. I started to read anything and everything I could on meeting and dating women. Unfortunately, most of the material out there is written by touchy-feely types (mostly women or emasculated men) and fails to get down to a REAL way to bridge the communication gap between men and women. In one such article, I did read something that one of the authors said that modern men need to learn more about the art of "seduction".
That word struck a chord somewhere in one of my subconscious harmonics, and I became very interested in the idea o f seduction. Up until then, everyone had been telling me "just be yourself", "it has to just happen", "it happens when you are not looking", and "just be patient". This idea of "seduction" implied to me that a process and techniques actually existed to get the things I wanted and at!
the same time give the things women wanted to them. It wasn't long before I simply typed www.speedseduction.biz into my web-browser, and I was opened up to the world of Speed Seduction. When the student is ready, the master appears.

I bought the first book "How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed", and simply using techniques to elicit deeper structures in a person's thought processes during conversation, I met a wonderful young lady on the my flight home for Christmas Break. We lived in totally different parts of the world, but that didn't stop her from driving four hours from New Jersey to see me when a trip brought me to Washington, D.C., and this is just from a plane conversation, and a few emails. I was hooked. I bought all the products; I listened to the home-study courses again and again. I became known as "the pick-up artist" in my circle of friends.

Which is not to say that learning how to meet and seduce women was not a difficult process, even with Ross's tools, it requires a commitment. You get through one layer of your difficult issues (like approaching women), and you find another challenge behind that one. If you find the persistence to get through them all, there are spectacular rewards waiting for you. In the SS-community, though, there are so many others (Ross included) who have been where you are at, and they have gotten through the labyrinth. The path is thoroughly known, and the maps for navigation do exist.

I eventually went to a seminar, and my success just sky-rocketed. One night during the seminar, just for fun, I decided to try and use the SS-tools to have the singer at a blues club invite me to come up on stage to sing. I started off by getting into a very good rapport with her, and she approached me after the first set was done. I eventually said to her, "if you were to ask me nicely, I might be convinced to come up and sing." She quickly convinced the rest of the band. While on stage, I focused all my energy on connecting with the room. I had folks telling me that it was the best version they had ever heard of the song I did (Mustang Sally), people were buying me beer, women were grabbing me and pulling me out on the dance floor. It was incredible.

I could go and brag about all the successes with women I have had, (which have been amazing), like the 20-year-old Japanese cutie that I met at Thanksgiving Dinner at my new boss's house that ended up blowing me in my boss's kitchen about an 2 hour s after I met her, or the bi-sexual actress I met on Internet that forced me into the back of my 4X4 in the parking lot at Starbucks after our first coffee date, or the amazing-legged Lithuanian girl who would shower me with both gifts and her affection, but the more important thing has been the cascading effects that this has had on all of my life. These tools of Ross teach you how to look at the world through eyes of possibility. You see how many people are stuck in life, just drifting, and while you may feel sorry for them, you have confidence that will never be you.

I have used this in so many other areas. I was trying to help a girl run faster so she could pass a fitness test for the Air Force, and I got her to create a state for things she really loves doing
and then link that state to running. She took three minutes off her time. At one point I was a suspect in a criminal investigation (I didn't do it), and I used rapport strategies and
eye accessing techniques to get a good rapport with the agents interviewing me.
It was so successful that not only were they thoroughly convinced I didn't commit the crime, but the female agent wanted to set me up on a date with her supervisor.

The biggest mistake people make about judging Ross's students is to say that they are a bunch of sleaze balls that want to learn how to manipulate and psychologically subdue women. Based on the two seminars I have attended, I would say that nothing is farther from
the truth. The people that I meet at the seminars are a big factor in why I keep going to them (and will continue to into the future). These people are the type of people seriously invested in becoming the best that they can become. Sex and seduction may bring them to this material, but there is so much more to it than that. Most of these men truly love women, but are baffled on how to communicate with them, so that both the men and women involved get the things they want and need (guess what women like sex too!).

Another thing I want to comment on about Ross is that he does have a great deal of heart, and that is so evident in the way he teaches in person. He doesn't set up a grand stage and liken himself to a god or religious figure (like some other people in this field might do). He sets things up on a very personal level. He holds his seminars in modest meeting halls in hotels. He has stools in front, not a stage. He'll go to lunch one-on-one with students, and is infinitely curious about their lives and who they are. He doesn't do this out of ego. He does it because he has a gift, and he loves to teach and give it to others.

There is so much more I can say about the profound effect Ross have had on my life (and I know they will continue to up into the future), but you really have to sit down and make the choice for yourself. Are you going to pre-disqualify something that you haven't even tried, or are you going to take a chance and try something different that could just change your life? How many of us do the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result? What if there was another way?

Ryan David,
Albuquerque, NM