Back in February in response to Black Saturday and the bushfires that attacked so many places and people in our state (Victoria Australia), Pink Apple and two friends decided to run a fundraiser.  (Yes we DID say "how hard could it be?" and learned the REALLY hard way!)

Apart from the fundraising, the event was such a social and networking success that we've been pressured by our Melbourne businesswomen colleagues to repeat (and repeat) the process!

Another Phoenix Lunch

So the latest Phoenix Lunch is now on sale.  Most of you who've expressed interest, are now on our database and received personal information about the Lunch.  But just in case we've missed anybody, I thought I'd let you know how to register and book for the lunch.

If you'd just like to know about the Lunch so you can make a decision, then click through to The Phoenix Lunch website and have a read. 

If you already know enough and you'd like to book, here is the direct link to the registration page, don't forget to complete your registration with your payment via PayPal which will allow you to pay by credit card, debit card and EFT.

Of course, fundraising is still our objective (as well as fun and networking) and this Lunch is supporting Post and Ante Natal Depression Association (PANDA).  There's a poll on our website and everyone who's read it and taken the poll has had personal experience or knows someone close who's walked through this terrifying illness!  That's how significant this is to women!

One More Thing ...

There's a bonus for those who take out Super Early Bird priced tickets. There's a draw for several free seats at a workshop that we three are unning in February.  Yes Pink Apple, Angela Esnouf from Creating Order from Chaos and Janet Powell the Parenting Coach from Mentor Maestro are presenting a new program called Keys to a Calmer HomeLife.  But more details of that later ...

Also We're Looking for Sponsors

 If you're interested in pampering our attendees then why not become a sponsor.  More information about our Jade, Ruby, and Pearl Sponsors here.

If you'd just like to find out the background story, then feel free to have aread here!

I've always struggled with my role as a mother.

Even with sons in their 30s and a grandchild, I still struggle to believe I measured up as a mother!  I know that impacted on how I parented and how I related with my husband.

One of the most common triggers for conflict in a relationship will be persistent differences in parenting styles.  Those differences can leave one or other parent feeling like they are a "bad" mother or a "bad" father! 

We all need to support couples as they parent. It's a bloody hard job.  Sometimes It can seem like a thankless task. And how a couple parents their children impacts on us all as those children become adults in our communities!

In general, when you feel good about yourself and love yourself, it helps you bring positive vibes to your relationship.

So I was really interested to hear from Amanda Cox (aka Mad Cow over at Real Mums) who's been doing some research.  Here's what she shared with me.  It's very TELLING reading!

We recently conducted a survey on Mums and found (although we already knew!) that most Mums experience feelings of isolation, inadequacy and lack of support, and would really like a little bit of time out for themselves.

(Interestingly, all these issues are also the main contributing factors for postnatal depression)

Mums have expressed concerns that they feel like they’re doing a bad job at mothering, that they can’t do things “right”, that sometimes they yell or swear at their kids. And sometimes they don’t even like their kids!

They tell us they do things like finding finger painting, playing with trains/Barbie and listening to their kids really boring, they use the TV as a babysitter, and have messy houses. And they feel bad about it.

They tell us they want a break, to know that they’re not the only ones doing these sorts of things, and to feel “normal”. They tell us they need some non-judgemental, emotional support, tactics for dealing with kids that work in the REAL world, friendships and to feel less stressed and less guilty.

They tell us they want wine and chocolate.

They said lots of other things too.

And we listened!

We know that Mumming is hard, because we’re Mums, too. We also know that there’s far too much information out there, all focussed on how to deal with the kids, but nothing for us, and most of it is really hard to replicate in the real world without massive amounts of support. We know it’s hard to get out, catch up with friends, and connect in safe, supportive environments.

We know and understand what is missing … or is it?

Not anymore!

Bad Mother’s Club is launching on November 6th in Ascot Vale, Melbourne.

The Club will address ALL of these issues and more – lots more.

So in light of all that telling information, I'm going to be joining Amanda and other Mums at the dinner to launch Bad Mothers Club. 

Here's the details and here's the flyer!

Download Bmc flyer. 

Please join me in getting the word out to help mohers and our community at large?

It's a 3-course meal, wine, tea and coffee, giveaways, guest speakers and the chance to be the first to find out about the Bad Mother’s Club. And there WILL be wine and chocolate!

So give yourself permission to be fantastic just the way you are, kick back, connect with other Mum’s, have a few drinks and just have fun. BECAUSE YOU CAN!!! 

You will also have the opportunity to become a member of this very unique, yet supportive, inclusive and empowering Club.

Tickets are $87 per person – or you can grab yours for $67 (all inclusive) by booking your tickets NOW at http://badmothersclub.eventbee.com and entering code madcow-bmcl. These tickets are extremely limited, so be quick.

Bad Mother’s Club Launch -  7.30pm Friday November 6th at Prevale, 236 Union Road Ascot Vale

Bookings Are Essential … Book now http://badmothersclub.eventbee.com (or phone 0414 548 103)

Pass it on!