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		<title>“No, you may not use a crowbar as a baseball bat.”</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Nov 2010 00:11:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The boys are playing a game in the backyard which involves all of them getting hit by tennis balls repeatedly. When this happens, they almost always yell &#8220;Oh, my nuts!&#8221; whether or not there was a direct hit on the package. I finally went out there and told them that this wasn&#8217;t something the neighbors [...]]]></description>
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<p>The boys are playing a game in the backyard which involves all of them getting hit by tennis balls repeatedly. When this happens, they almost always yell &#8220;Oh, my nuts!&#8221; whether or not there was a direct hit on the package.</p>
<p>I finally went out there and told them that this wasn&#8217;t something the neighbors probably wanted to hear all afternoon, and I thought the matter was settled.</p>
<p>However, now they&#8217;re out there yelling &#8220;Oh, my testicles!&#8221; which, while making me laugh incredibly hard, is probably at about the same level annoying-the-neighbor-wise.</p>

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		<title>It Gets Better</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Oct 2010 17:02:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is such a powerful message for GLBT kids. I love Dan Savage for starting the It Gets Better Project. If you&#8217;re gay or lesbian or bi or trans and you&#8217;ve ever read about a kid like Billy Lucas and thought, &#8220;Fuck, I wish I could&#8217;ve told him that it gets better,&#8221; this is your [...]]]></description>
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<p>This is such a powerful message for GLBT kids. I love <a href="http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=4940874">Dan Savage</a> for starting the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/itgetsbetterproject">It Gets Better Project</a>.</p>
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<blockquote><p>If you&#8217;re gay or lesbian or bi or trans and you&#8217;ve ever read about a kid like Billy Lucas and thought, &#8220;Fuck, I wish I could&#8217;ve told him that it gets better,&#8221; this is your chance. We can&#8217;t help Billy, but there are lots of other Billys out there—other despairing LGBT kids who are being bullied and harassed, kids who don&#8217;t think they have a future—and we can help them.</p>
<p>They need to know that it gets better. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/itgetsbetterproject">Submit a video</a>. Give them hope.</p></blockquote>
<p>Beautiful.</p>
<p>[<a href="http://www.boingboing.net/2010/09/30/it-gets-better-video.html">boing boing</a>]</p>
<p><strong>UPDATE</strong>: here&#8217;s a video submitted by Tim Gunn describing his suicide attempt at age 17.</p>
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		<title>Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Oct 2010 05:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Craig has a thing about seeing where the emergency exits lead to after a movie. I&#8217;m here to tell you that sometimes they go nowhere. (oh, and also that you should see the A List &#8211; fantastic!)]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/photo-800x800.jpg" /><br />Craig has a thing about seeing where the emergency exits lead to after a movie. I&#8217;m here to tell you that sometimes they go nowhere. (oh, and also that you should see the A List &#8211; fantastic!)</p>

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		<title>Another Soccer Saturday</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Sep 2010 18:50:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At least the weather will be fantastic for all three games!]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/photo2-800x6001.jpg" alt="" title="photo2-800x600" width="800" height="600" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-8464" /><br />At least the weather will be fantastic for all three games!</p>

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		<title>Sunday wake up</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Sep 2010 16:42:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday we biked over to the Sunday farmer&#8217;s market and of course the boys needed a snack before heading home. Hey, at least it was *organic* fro-yo ;)]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/photo1-800x600.jpg" /><br />Yesterday we biked over to the Sunday farmer&#8217;s market and of course the boys needed a snack before heading home. Hey, at least it was *organic* fro-yo ;)</p>

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		<title>Question my sanity in 3… 2…1…</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Sep 2010 19:11:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately I&#8217;ve been helping at kindergarten recess and let me tell you, that&#8217;s one energetic pack of 88 kids. It is pretty fun but afterwards I go home and relish the absolute quiet. How in the world do teachers do this all day long?]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/photo-800x600.jpg" /><br />Lately I&#8217;ve been helping at kindergarten recess and let me tell you, that&#8217;s one energetic pack of 88 kids. It is pretty fun but afterwards I go home and relish the absolute quiet. How in the world do teachers do this all day long?</p>

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		<title>Week two</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Aug 2010 02:11:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After school today we biked over to Charlie&#8217;s glasses shop to see about getting his (new!) glasses repaired. Since everyone was well behaved we stopped for a snack as well. They wanted to sit in the sun, and there were three of them, three spaces, it all seemed very logical at the time.]]></description>
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<p>After school today we biked over to Charlie&#8217;s glasses shop to see about getting his (new!) glasses repaired. Since everyone was well behaved we stopped for a snack as well.</p>
<p>They wanted to sit in the sun, and there were three of them, three spaces, it all seemed very logical at the time.</p>

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		<title>9am</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Aug 2010 16:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The kids have had breakfast and are playing Wii, and I&#8217;m in bed procrastinating getting up. This week was a long one full of new schedules and crap. I think the dogs and I are going to stay in bed for a few more minutes :)]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/photo22-800x600.jpg" /><br />The kids have had breakfast and are playing Wii, and I&#8217;m in bed procrastinating getting up. This week was a long one full of new schedules and crap.</p>
<p>I think the dogs and I are going to stay in bed for a few more minutes :)</p>

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		<title>What have I done</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Aug 2010 16:40:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Erika Jurney</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I went to a little open house this morning at Charlie&#8217;s kindergarten and what did I see as I was wandering around? A sweet palm tree on the wall with all the smiling faces of the kids in the class. Everyone but Charlie was in a normal pose. I don&#8217;t know why this picture came [...]]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/charlie-palm-tree.jpg" alt="" title="charlie-palm-tree" width="800" height="653" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-8426" /></p>
<p>I went to a little open house this morning at Charlie&#8217;s kindergarten and what did I see as I was wandering around? A sweet palm tree on the wall with all the smiling faces of the kids in the class. Everyone but Charlie was in a normal pose. I don&#8217;t know why this picture came as such a surprise to me, but I almost fell off my bike on the way home because I was laughing so hard.</p>
<p>To reiterate: yes, he&#8217;s <a href="http://blog.erikajurney.com/charlie-loves-kindergarten-so-far/">enjoying school</a>.</p>

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		<title>Charlie loves Kindergarten so far</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Aug 2010 22:29:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And yes, he really is all that.]]></description>
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<p><img src="http://blog.erikajurney.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/photo21-800x600.jpg" /><br />And yes, he really is all that.</p>

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