Pondering Life !!!

Sharing frustration...

2013-06-21T17:12:00.000+05:30

Read a news today which says the CM of Andhra Pradesh, having impressed with the ‘hard-work’ of MLAs and MLCs has decided to gift gift a tab costing Rs 41,000 to each one of them. There are around 300 odd members and one can imagine the amount of money being spent on making all of them happy.

This shows how powerful our democracy has made these politicians. They can decide the amount of taxes, tolls we need to pay and the returns are for themselves in the form of corruption, gifts, luxury and comforts.

Salary for police, traffic police, postal department and other government agencies??? PEANUTS

North India has suffered one of the worst ever disasters with such a huge loss of life, property, livelihood. All say it is a natural calamity but don’t we agree that this is purely man-made specially designed and crafted. Indiscriminate and illegal constructions even after no clearances from environment departments – the government has played a blind face to everything.

Whose Loss ??? COMMON MAN.…

These are just two instances amongst so many which are enough to reflect the ignorance and rejection these politicians have for the common people. I know it is easy for me to sit in an air-conditioned office to write such things.

Many of you may ask – what is my contribution apart from paying tax (if at all I am not evading)

Well, I don’t have any answer like many of you, but yes I feel the frustration of it and hence sharing it with a hope that someday things would get better… will it… not sure…

Unanswered Questions

2013-05-24T17:27:00.001+05:30

Here I am, after exactly 2 years from my last post. I don't know what caused the delay - laziness, inconveniences etc etc. We humans have a list of reasons for anything... don't we? So yeah, if I start finding out the reason it would be a long list...

Time flies, life changes... Sounds cliched? but very true... Within these two years I am a changed person... Whether good or bad - leave it to the people around me.... Changes? Yes, I have gone through many of them... I ain't gonna bore you all stating what all changes I went through... Here I want to share my experience about life's unanswered questions... Do you come across such questions? I have many times...

But yes, there were couple of major events which have transformed me from the person I had been - little careless, bindaas, not much thinking of life and its future. These events have taken me to a point where you just have questions, loads of them but no answers...

To start with, I had someone close to me getting detected with a life threatning disease... I was around when it was diagnoised, treated, fought over.... Unanswered questions, uncertainty, lack of clarities - all leads you to a single question - What are we living for in life? Is money everything? What if I spend all the money, will I still get a resolution... You never get these answers and slowly you realize - life is all about a pursuit of answers of these questions...

Coming to second event - I met a girl around the chaos I mentioned above. We liked each other and I got married.. I had so many anxieties around this of how it will turn out to be.. fortunately for me I am lucky to have her as my wife... Its been a wonderful journey till then...

How does one person who you met and interacted for a very short while, becomes a key aspect of your life.. The person just revolves around your life and influences every action, decision of your life.. How does it happen ? Again no answers - may be just happens ....

See the travesties of life - you have happiness amidst sadness, serenity amidst chaos... these experiences teach you the nuances of life....

As I said life changes often, it changed last week... The person who was so close to me, facing the illness and seemed getting over, passed away one fine morning.. It all happened suddenly and the incident is yet to sink in... Its been exactly a week, I am still not over it. I knew this great fighter who has always fought odds will eventually come out of this... But she never came out... and she never will... leaving behind some amazingly sweet memories and time we have spent together...

As I said, life leaves you at junctures where you just have questions and no answers... I am back again at a similar juncture - where I just have questions and no answers.. May be during my life - I might get these answers, may be not, may be I would get similar questions.... no idea...

Fountainhead - Justification of perspectives

2011-05-18T22:42:00.001+05:30

We must have read so many books; which are beautiful work of fiction. How many times would an Author reiterate his/her perspective about the protagonist with series of incidents? How many times after reading a book you would wonder, who this story is about. Such is the prowess of Ayn Rand in presenting story of Roark, supposedly the protagonist.

The Fountainhead is a brazen criticism of people who follow patterns, conventions and have an outlook for a safe and secure journey. It also goes on to insult people who work/create to please the system or a sect compromising one's own thoughts and beliefs.

The story begins with a comparative portrait of two architects Howard Roark and Peter Keating on choice of ways to achieve creativity. Roark believes in his own methods and reasoning about his creative instincts. He is ready to traverse an arduous path for proving his perspective to the world which believes only in conventions. Peter on the other hand prefers to have a secure approach by pleasing the critics as well as the people by following usual conventions.

There are some other interesting characters like Dominique who is madly in love with Roark but works hard to defeat him in his endeavors. Elsworth Toohey, a columnist who moves with the tide and writes columns on buildings and architectures. The most intimidating character would be a newspaper baron Gail Wynand who goes to extremes to catalyze changes in the society. His acceptance of Roark as an invaluable jewel walks him through various troubles and challenges.

Ayn succeeds in keeping the interest of the readers by making the characters behave in a ceratin way. These behaviours and actions take you to a point where you start relating to typical human natures. One gets confused occasionally with certain turn of events.

The book slows its pace at places where there are dialogue between characters but Ayn ensures that there are key take-aways for the readers. This book is a perfect blend of fictitious essence with cream of enticing nuggets guiding readers to do what they believe in.

Well reviews are too small a place to describe a book like Fountainhead. For me, it was not a book but an experience and Ayn will ensure that it doesn't seem like a book rather a motion picture running.

Happy Reading !!!

Terrorist is in your backyard... Just Kill Him...

2011-05-03T00:47:00.000+05:30

This morning woke I woke up with a news "Osama Bin Laden killed". And then the videos / images validating his death flashed across news channels. How can we Indians be behind in reporting such an event, dramatizing every angle and thought around it.

Then a thought came, US is non-civilized, barbaric, cruel to have killed a terrorist. They could have rather arrested him, and after taking permission from Pakistani government, they could have taken him to US. Then kept him in a prison and ran a case for more than 3-4 years. Proved his conviction using key witnesses and a govt. lawyer fighting hard to defend him stating Laden is innocent and was brain-washed to carry out 09/11. This would have helped them build a global reputation and might have won Obama a Nobel again...

Then I thought, it is UNITED STATES OF AMERICA a global goon which knows how to find their way.

Then I quickly thought, some country has been doing such a benevolent act. Yes, it is our very own country India. It has been treating Kasab like a guest, providing him with food, security which he never would have got in Pakistan. Now Kasab will be fighting a case in Supreme Court which many of our own countrymen are never able to reach if wrongly convicted.

So why are we waiting for, what are we waiting for. When our Govt. will realize that keeping Kasab is not going to get us any inputs. We need not have to travel to some other country to kill him. He is a sinner who has killed many innocent people just for pleasure. Isn't this govt. answerable to their own country? Can we as a country afford his expenses when we have a lot to take care of? Execution of such a monster don't require anybody's permission or acceptance. Terrorist is in your back yard.. just kill him...

I am not a great fan of US as a country but will surely take this opportunity to appreciate them of what they have done. They worked hard to nail Laden and their forces must be proud. This is a strong commitment of political leaders towards their people, their pain and sufferings. US commands respect by such acts and they shall continue to. Hope countries like us take some inspiration and at least don't waste their time to kill a criminal residing in your own backyard.

Kudos US.. Wake up India...

Deceiving Development: A Harsh Truth

2011-04-30T01:54:00.000+05:30

Here I go .. After ages motivating myself to write something.

The other day I was going to South Mumbai taking the Harbor Line. As the train started chugging through the harbor suburbs, we entered a series of stations which depicted a very sad face of this city. The train passed through some interior parts crossing slum areas. I probably can't put it in words the condition of people living in these areas. It was horrible to say the least. The chals in those places looked so weird, whose facade were extremely opposite to the skyscrapers this city is known for. There were garbage dumps all over the place and drains with stagnated water. There were vegetable shops, tea stalls between two track lines. I was wondering how can people live in such a filthy place. But then thought, this is one of the crude faces of life and this city which is termed as the Financial Capital of this Country.

Why blame only this city when there are several such cities in this country which have such pathetic face at its disposal. Now the question which struck me hard is .. Where are we heading as a country? We are at such an uneven platform where some haven't seen a bulb lighted in their house but "someone" in this country pays monthly electricity bill of INR 70 lacs. There are people who have no money to buy basic essentials and there are people who have together laundered crores of money. Lets not forget the fortunes hidden in European banks.

Then who are we? Are we a poor country or we are richer than many of the Asian countries? Governments come and go claiming that we are developing and developing.. I guess we shall be the only country which will be developing till eternity.

Many might criticize me for bringing such saddening thoughts, but I think in some point of our busy schedule we need to sit and think about this.

I have just tried to speak about the problem but the solution to this is the biggest challenge and I wonder how we will be achieving this. But then it was great to see one man showing us the way for solving such issues. Let us hope that more people like Anna Hazare start taking reins and then we can see India in the course of actual development.

Bollywood 2010 .. Glimpses...

2011-01-02T23:31:00.000+05:30

The year 2010 has left but for movie lovers like me it wasn't a great year like the previous ones. I will try and bring out my personal fav movies.

Ishqiya: When we see Vishal Bharadwaj directing a movie with fantastic actors like Nasserudin, Arshad and Vidya Balan, the movie is bound to be a real good one. The script of Vishal for Ishqiya was little weak but he pulled it off with very good direction. Brilliant acting performances and situational music helped the movie score.

Udaan: A beautiful movie about degrading relationship between a father and a son. A well directed movie with a simple script and powerful performance. People who have missed this should really watch if they prefer a simple, slow movie with an impact.

Peepli Live: This movie directed by Anusha Rizvi was actually an effort to show the sufferings of farmers in our country. Very few directors can convey significant issues in a satirical canvass and Anusha was successful in that. The movie lacked editing and hasty climax couldn't provide the movie is much deserved accolade. Still a great effort by a first timer.

Rakhta Charitra: Ram Gopal Verma back again with a compelling story. This movie like his previous ones portrays the connection between politics and crime. This movie revels in bloodshed but still a good effort and direction. Not many might agree with me. Vivek Oberoi gives a convincing performance.

Apart from these there were some movies which were partially good like Fas Gaye re Obama, Road Movie.

My views are completely personal and I will be happy to get a viewpoints on the movies mentioned above.

Guzaarish: Sanjay Leela Bhansali with his sets and scripts shows why he is such an eccentric director. The movie was an intense story of a magician fighting for euthanasia. Hrithik came off with his best performance till date and Aishwarya also gave a tremendous performance. The movie was good but a hasty ending screwed the essence. Still better than many of the releases in 2010.

Eventful Year..

2011-01-02T23:08:00.000+05:30

Wish you all a Happy New Year. With this new year I have convinced myself to write more blogs. Mind you ! it is not a resolution. Coz I feel resolutions break very easily.

Its rightly said 'Time runs fast' and yes, it really does and the Year 2010 has shown its pace and left us. Well for me year 2010 has been eventful. In my previous job I could perform well and helped the company achieve some very good business accounts. It re-ensured a confidence in me that I am capable of doing some.

As time progressed I was really desperate to move on to a new company for better prospects. And finally in December I got a very significant break; a new job with eClerx. Hence, I can say that 2010 for me was significant and hope the lovely journey continues in 2011 as well.

The Most Awaited Verdict

2010-09-28T16:53:00.001+05:30

India has always been known for its uniqueness in the secular status it possesses. There have been small threats in the form of some unwanted riots but then it has just strengthened our commitment towards secularism.

But this country with such powerful values is sweating a lot as the D Date is closing in. This is the date which is scheduled for the historic Babri Masjid demolition verdict. We can see the impact of this date with the followings happening:

1. So many unwanted Deferments
2. Irrelevant petitions
3. Govt. making a plead to maintain law and order

4. The Controversial Place is like a fortress with various arms of forces being deployed

5. Movie Releases being postponed.

6. High Alerts in states which have experienced riots like Gujrat, Maharashtra, MP, Bihar etc.

So the government is very nervous and is leaving no stone unturned to control such a situation. But this is what is making me wonder. What has happened to the resilience of we Indians who have faced so many adversities and have still emerged united. One awaited verdict has put us on tenterhooks and we are worried.

I think India is at a critical juncture of progress and development. At such a modern era where we are heading towards an eventful future, is it worth worrying, fighting for such issues. We need to focus more on curbing corruption (Biggest example seen in the form of CWG), poverty, illiteracy etc.

Over the time all the political parties seem to be equivocal in accepting the outcome of verdict. Hope better sense prevail in both quarters of religious polity and let us avoid any kind of violent way of nonacceptance. The other day I was listening to one of the members of our generation stating that the Young India doesn't care for such issues. This is really encouraging and hope that all of us have a similar opinion and move ahead with things.

Such an India heralds the future of this country and will help us in building an India which is free from Religious Discord, Corruption, Illiteracy, Poverty etc.

With Sept. 30 3:30 pm, when the verdict will be pronounced I hope India shows the patience and accepts the verdict with grace.

A Tryst that Made me Wonder !!!

2010-09-02T17:36:00.001+05:30

When life is at its monotonous best, something unusual happens which takes you by surprise. Ok, not surprise but then such incidents make you wonder and ponder.

On a usual day after the office, I and my roomie struggled to find a rick who would be kind enough to commute us to Goregaon from Andheri. And we were fortunate as we got one soon. As the journey progressed the curious Auto guy spoke about the MNS issues etc. and he mentioned he was from South India rather Chennai. I started interacting in Tamil and then we came to know about his past and present which made us wonder.

He came down to Mumbai when he was 16 years old and has been plying Auto-rickshaw since then. Looking at his present age he would have completed 40 years in this city. His eldest son works for Godrej (which I thought would be a menial job) but his salary is around 35k/month. His second son has set up a business and earns 40K/month and owns a Maruti Zen. His 3rd son is also working for some company after completing his education. He has a daughter who is studying. He owns 4 auto-rickshaws and he still drives one himself because he doesn't want to sit idle. He has brought a shop in Chennai worth 15 lacs and has a house in Andheri East, Mumbai.
He proudly states that every morning his eldest son cleans the rickshaw and then goes to office and also plies rickshaw on sundays.
His monthly earnings by plying auto-rickshaw is above 30K/Month and also runs a vegetable shop in Andheri.

You all must be thinking why have I shared this whole story.

Mumbai is called 'City of Dreams' and many come here to fulfill theirs. Such stories could be very common in this city where people have moved from rags to riches, but this person seemed different. He continues to ply the rickshaw. He has educated 4 of his children who are all set to reach various heights in their respective field.

He could fulfill the dreams because of the relentless effort he has put in and he still continues to do so. Such people are True Heroes of this Nation. They are the Face of this Nation; a nation which survives in minimals making adjustments everywhere. People like this who have defied Adversities and are standing strong as a banyan tree with the hanging roots getting even stronger.

Hats off to his resilience !!!

A Great Inspiration.....

Conflict of Reasons

2010-06-29T17:51:00.000+05:30

As days in a city progresses, life hits its height of monotony. And then various thoughts hover around and one introspects of various events thus far. Hence, one of my Facebook status read:

Happiness, Sadness, Curiosity, Confusion, Love, Hatred, Frustration, Relief... All at once.. how do one manage this..

Well yes, I was pondering through all these things and was confused about different events happening in my life. My closest of friends know it. And then I was trying to understand the course in which I am flowing. The success notes I hit, the denials I got, the arguments I had all took me to state of confusion. And then I can't resist pondering on the different aspects of life and the causes for such confusion. I then understood that the main cause of such denials and refusals are the conflicts between different people.
Such conflicts lead to some unstable and uncomfortable situations. Well, then what is the cause of such conflicts ? After a lot of thinking I feel conflicts are not between people but between reasons. Every person has a reason for an action or a behavior. Any action of denial/refusal thus is dominance of one reason over the other. So the issue is not with person but reasons which make him take such stands. The reasons could be situational or circumstantial. It could be inherent attitude or characteristic of a person to dominate.
If one starts comparing, every one would be having a stronger reason for an action. How can we evaluate the superiority of one reason over the other? How can anyone while refusing/denying feel that their reason pertaining to such an action is justifiable?
So it is all just a situational stand motivated by some gut feeling or a perception that makes one person dominate over the other. And then we tend to get depressed and sad over such things. Do we need to do that ? Failure of a reason doesn't mean its failure of a person.Its all how one can make his reason dominant over other. It doesn't mean that the person is incapable. It just gives him an opportunity to understand why he was denied/refused of what he probably deserved.
Its well said .. "Whatever happens; happens for a reason"

I would say, "Whatever happens; happens for a conflict of reason"

Hence, in my perspective.. Conflict of Reasons play a significant role and we can alter various situations just by analyzing our situations and carving out such reasons which would strengthen our position.

And my only wish, let the right, relevant and just reason win the Conflict.

Media - Pillar of Support.. Is it ?

2010-06-22T19:20:00.000+05:30

Thanks for the comments on my previous blog, I think my subject empathized with many of my friends.

Couple of weeks back I was working and I received a mail. It had a link (http://stupidindiatv.blogspot.com/
) which took me to another blog depicting news clips of the very famous India TV. You all would understand the amusement I went through when you visit this link.

This reminded me of a heated discussion between me and my friends about the relevance of such contents. One section of the group was supporting the contents and one section was vehemently opposing it.

Well, after having a look at the news channels off late a thought struck me. I was trying to understand the role of Media. I was wondering whether media's role is to bring out the reality happening around or aggravate a situation further. I believe the latter role is quite prevalent these days. I would take up situations which would justify my stand on this.

Few days back there a very big agitation for a separate state Telengana. I think the way media reported the situation, it got aggravated. According to a friend of mine (and many others) there was just a minor agitation which was reported with sensationalism and this further aggravated it.

When MNIK was about to be released, a political party's threat was given very high importance. Actually the popularity of such parties is more because of Media. Once the media stops bringing them to the news; they would have no value and things won't get so serious.

There are many areas where such things happen. I feel there should be a Regulator for News Channels like the Censor Board for Movies. I and my friend were trying to evaluate such options, but freedom of speech is such a right that kills many a argument. I am not against the freedom given or used but then some sanity should be there.

Now I would appreciate media for its role played off late in trying to get into the Bhopal Gas Tragedy. Its just the lack of media in 1984, things got worse and the accused ran away. If media would have been in the strongest of state at that point of time things would have been certainly different.

Hence, Media is termed as the 4th pillar of the democracy and it should certainly act like a responsible body. Its good to investigate and prod but then everything has a limit. Let us look forward to a day where media is not about a TRP fight but it is more about the constructive stand it has taken.

We have some eminent media personnels who have been known for their candid opinions and any change would be brought out by them only.

Confusing Belongingness !!!

2010-02-13T16:11:00.000+05:30

Writing a blog again.. After a long time though coz of my hectic sched. for the past one month. Amidst all the noises about one's origin and belongingness to a state or a city, I was contemplating about my roots. By origin I am a Palakkad Iyer, which is a Tamil community residing in north Malabar region of Kerala. So by virtue of that I speak a Tamil with a flavor of Malayalam words. So the food habits etc. are a confluence of Tamil Nadu and Kerala. Kerala never objected to our belonging and never criticized our roots to Kerala. So I am related to Tamil Nadu & Kerala. I was born in Jamshedpur, presently Jharkhand but was Bihar in 1984. So by that I belong to two more states. I was brought up in a small town Chakradharpur, an hour away frm Jamshedpur. Soon we shifted to Bilaspur, a town in Madhya Pradesh which is now part of Chattissgarh. So again I claim my belongingness to two more states. I did my Master's degree from Pune, MAHARASHTRA, did my internship in Bangalore, Karnataka and I am working in Mumbai, MAHARASHTRA. But I am not able to validate my belongingness to this place due to the Goonernance (Goons' Governance).
I am proud of my belongingness to all the states mentioned and would certainly be proud of this state which leveraged one of my important stages of eduction and also supporting my livelihood.
The point which I am trying to make is there is a serious lack of identity about the people in this country but one Identity ECLIPSES all the other ones and i.e. we all are INDIANS. This is the biggest IDENTITY for anyone and one must be proud of that. So lets hope that better sense prevails on the Goons of this city who are deliberating some irrelevant issues and digressing from many important issues like price rise, law n order problem etc.
I conclude this by saying that I AM PROUD TO BE INDIAN AND ALSO PROUD OF EVERY STATE WHICH HAS CONTRIBUTED IN MAKING ME WHAT I AM TODAY.....

Avatar - The Ultimate Incarnation

2009-12-30T15:23:00.001+05:30

Avatar - Creation at it best from the God of Wonder - James Cameron. This movie reflects the fact that why James Cameron is recognized as a Genius in Movie Making. There are very few people who redefine the art of movie making and James leads the league of greats like David Lean, Steven Spielberg, Quentin Tarantino. His movies are larger than life and the audience always come out imagining the facets which they would have never thought of.

I would not waste space in mentioning the complete story line rather take an opportunity to bring about the interesting aspects of movie making. This movie is a dream which James lived for so many years. A man who thinks so ahead of his time and delivers his thoughts with absolute perfection.

James has used technology to the maximum to create the unimaginable. The 'Avatar' creatures created look so REAL and the 3D viewing makes the audience feel that the planet Pandora is in the vicinity. Never ever would have the audience been immersed deep into somebody's imagination. There are moments where you sympathize with the creatures and planet which never exists. This is the art of story telling which very few people possess.

James also brings out his extra-ordinary capability of depicting emotions at the time of absolute disaster. The conversation between Neytiri and Sully reflect the bonding/romance amidst the war which leaves a deep impact.

For years to come movie-lovers would be be thirsty to to see such a marvel again. There are rarest of the times when audience try to ponder beyond the purview of story. But Avatar makes sure that the audience effortlessly flow with the course of movie without any resistance. Hence, I call this movie as a Magical Spell which the MAGICIAN casts on his viewers for around 150 odd mins.

People who haven't seen this, must go and watch the magical creation of James Cameron.

Movies of the Month !!!

2009-12-29T10:52:00.001+05:30

This month was a gala time for Movie Lovers especially for them, who love the art involved in movie making. I was fortunate to take out time to watch 4 movies reflecting different genre viz. Rocket Singh, Paa, Avatar and 3 idiots. These movies were very different and attracted audiences of various sects.

Rocket Singh was a very simple movie made with heart but had some exaggerated sequences. This movie though could bring out the persisting issue of corporate ethics in a subtle manner. With a script writer like Jaideep Sahni with marvel like Chak De and Shimit Amin with movies like Ab Tak Chappan, things could have been better.

Paa was a fantastic movie made by one of the Czars of Advertising, Balki. There are very few directors who can bring out the best in actors and Balki is one such. I think Amitabh has delivered the Masterpiece. With heavy make up all over the face, Amitabh couldn't be explicit in facial expression but brought out his acting marvel in Body language and voice. Amitabh continues to astonish. With impressive performances by Abhishek and Vidya, this movie was fabulous and very expressive. A true delight for Art lovers.

I would post my views about Avatar in a separate blog as it deserves a larger space.

My Christmas got merrier because of the hilarious commercial flick 3 idiots. The movie is quite different from Chetan's Five Point Someone. The movie is about bonding, fun, enjoyment and ego clashes. The movie reminded me about Engineering Days of fun, enjoyment, challenging authorities and tension during RESULTS !!!

Raju Hirani make sure that he brings out the Munna Bhai effect by sending a message about the monotonous and stressful educational system. Though some sequences were quite dramatic; but the actors like Aamir (Perfection Unlimited), Sherman (I wonder why he is under-rated) and Maddy (expressive) have stunned with youthful performance. Even Kareena blossoms as a fresh flower in the movie.

So, this month was month of movies for me and was indeed an enlightening experience.

New Beginning...

2009-12-28T15:55:00.000+05:30

Its been a long long time I have written a Blog.... Life became very hectic and stressful after my internship (the time when I wrote the previous 3 blogs). The placements season came in and after a couple of rejections I could find shelter in a small Consulting firm. That was a relief for me as I was getting ready to bid farewell to the FASCINATING life of a student. I joined my job in April and Mumbai has been really hectic so is my job. I thought of continuing my Blogging but fell short of time/interest. But for quite sometime now, I thought I have so much to ponder and write about. Hence, I am trying to start Blogging again and so a New Beginning. I hope my friends and readers would acknowledge my blog and encourage (with their comments) me to write more.

With this year ending I would thank all those who have touched and influenced the flow of my life; ofcourse in a positive manner.

Thanks for Being There !!!

Lady....

2008-06-11T11:54:00.000+05:30

Hi... Nice comments buddies... Thanks

This morning I was coming to office. I have to cross "The Happening" Place of Bangalore - FORUM.
But in the morning... It bears a silence of graveyard. Well I was passing by the side of Forum... I saw a lady... This would have raised brows by now !!! relax....
I was well behind her... She was carrying a school bag on her back...
She had a ladies bag in her left hand and a heavy (it seemed to be ) shopping bag on her right. She was walking hurriedly with discomfort.
When you look or observe a lady... you usually tend to forget the surroundings....

Slowly my eyes shifted to a kid walking randomly, roughly 10 feet behind her in uniform.

The lady looked back and gave a stare (Hey not on me !!!) and the kid ran quickly to reach her.

I quickly realized that she was.....

a mother....
Hats off to the Resilience !!!

3 Mistakes or My Mistake...

2008-06-10T16:57:00.000+05:30

Hi Guys..

This blog is for those who have read 3 Mistakes by Chetan Bhagat...

Hey Don't worry me not discussing the Story here...

This book shows that an author can be called so only when he writes from the heart...
I considered Chetan to be an author in making when he wrote 5.Someone...
But this book disappointed me. I expected a lot from the book. The book does not have soul. The book is a random web of characters painted in an unrelated backdrop of events. This book could have been crafted well... Nevertheless it does showcase some critical mistakes... Quite generic for all.
But Chetan still needs to go a long way before any claims of being an author.

I had read "My Experiments with Truth" before this. My criticisms might be on account of a comparison. But still if I try to think without biases..... Chetan has to really prove something....

PS: Do read it... and post your views !!!

Is Paradox a Transient State !!!

2008-06-10T13:27:00.000+05:30

Hi

This is my 1st blog... Will start with talking about something which really fascinates me. It is the word Paradox ! My buddies at Symbi would attest it. I use it frequently...
Actually my gtalk message reads "Is Paradox a transient state". Well, no one gave me an apt answer. The reasons: It wouldn't have enticed anyone or some would have brushed it as a weird thought or some who thought were unable to observe the things existing around....

The dictionary defines it as "a statement or proposition that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth."
It says it all..... This is the reason behind me getting curious about Paradox...
Ponder on the meaning which says "A POSSIBLE TRUTH"

Now my question: "Is paradox a transient state ?"

Well, the state of paradox is a state of imbalance.... According to nature, imbalance is never sustained. Then why we see paradox existing around us which are not momentary...

You don't accept it....

Then think about the Human Behavior experienced. Humans are the biggest Hypocrites. There are two or more faces which contradict each other and thus he qualifies as a paradox...

This justifies my views that there are paradoxes around us which are sustained....

So paradox is a sustained phenomenon in Humans !!!

Humans have this inexplicable capability to survive in a state of imbalance.

The paradoxical situation makes our rendezvous with life and its miseries lot more enterprising.
It helps us to identify the correct guise we should dorn at different situations and still sustain the "Possible Truth"

I personally have been benefited by Paradoxical situation. I learned a lot from my wrong judgments.

Thus I am striving hard to be Paradoxically Correct......

PS: I hope my views have given some a food for thought.... Hope to expect views especially critical views about it.