Danny and I’s wedding in Capri, Italy. Yes it was beautiful but was it worth the stress? I don’t think so.

Weddings, weddings, weddings. Whether you’ve always dreamed of a small, intimate wedding, or a cinderella-style fiasco, many people consider their wedding day to be one of the most important days of their lives. Unfortunately, with this belief, usually comes a pressure that one can rarely prepare for. That’s why I’ve compiled a list of 5 things I’ve learned from planning my own wedding day that hopefully you can learn something from.

1. The marriage is more important than the wedding day.

Remember, the wedding day is just that, one day. The marriage is for life! “Der” I hear some of you muttering but trust me it’s easier than you think, when planning your dream wedding, to forget the whole point of it in the first place. It’s not worth stressing out yourself and those around you emotionally and financially for your wedding day as it’s supposed to be a happy occassion and a good memory, not one that leaves you in debt or makes you cringe every time you even hear the word “wedding”.

2. Have a Gift Registry Option

Some people don’t like the idea of a gift registry, as one girl explained to me, “I don’t like choosing for people what gifts they should get me, it’s so impersonal.” That’s of course a valid point and some guests may prefer to pick out a gift for you as they consider it more sentimental. However, some guests actually prefer gift registries as it makes picking a gift that much easier and at least they know they’re buying you something you want/need. We had a gift registry for those guests who wished to use it and I’m so glad we did as who needs three toasters anyway?

3. Guests don’t give a shit about the details.

Sure the “details” are nice and one or two over-eager, anal guests might notice but put simply, most people don’t give a shit enough to notice or even remember the tiny details of your wedding day so there’s no point stressing about any of it. Guests only care about and remember how much fun they had! So discipline yourself to learn when you need to stop.

4. Delegate Tasks.

It’s easy to become a control-freak when it comes to planning your dream day. In some ways it’s fair enough because it is an important day and you just want everything to go smoothly but at some point you have to learn to allow others to help. I made the mistake of trying to do everything myself and it left me burnt out and bitter. Learn to loosen the reigns a bit and include others as you’ll be surprised at how much people will be happy to help.

5. Wedding people suck.

At least in my experience, I found most people in the wedding planning industry money-hungry, incompetent, and frankly, quite bitchy. There are a hand-full of people that are “good” but generally expect the worst as that’s just how the industry works. My theory is that they are aware that most brides are vulnerable both emotionally and financially so just be weary as a lot of businesses will try to take advantage of that. Ultimately however it’s just something we have to accept, just don’t take it personally.

I’d love to hear about any of your experiences related to weddings. And feel free to ask me any questions as I’m convinced I’ve become an expert

Click through for 7 Spring/Summer 2011 Fashion Trends we’re actually drooling over!

1. Stripes

Can you say “stripe mayhem”!? Not only are stripes hot this season but the more you wear in one outfit, the better! Seriously, if you love stripes there’s no better time to indulge in them – different colors, opposite directions, you name it, it’s all good for this spring/summer season.

Tip: To pull off a stripe-crazy outfit you must wear it with confidence!

2. Nude

The COLOR nude is hot hot hot this season. In particular, head-to-toe nude outfits can be very sexy.

Tip: Make sure you get a shade that suits you (i.e. doesn’t wash you out).

3. Wide-Leg Trousers

I’m usually a skinny-leg kinda gal but wide-leg is definitely over-taking that trend this season. Cut is key when it comes to wide-leg trousers as they can either be extremely flattering or extremely unforgiving on girls with a little “junk in the trunk” (i.e. me!).

Tip: If you have a pear-shaped figure, go for a low-rise, hipster cut with a flare that starts around the hips (like in the middle image above) to avoid a key-hole shape.

4. Denim

Denim is no exception to “the more the merrier” theme this season. All-out, head-to-toe, we’re encouraged to wear as much of it as we can in one outfit. I’m just gonna say that it’s tricky to pull that off.

Tip: Mix different shades of denim or break it up with prints or other fabrics.

5. Mixing Prints

I love love loooove this “mix and DON’T match” trend! It’s almost liberating as it allows us to throw on literally any print with any print and be on trend. Magic!

Tip: Enjoy it while it lasts!

6. Crochet, Fringe, Etc.

My heart melts when it comes to crochets and other intricate fabrics. This trend is perfect for the boho-chic gal who loves to be comfortable in her fringes, tassels, and crochet dress!

Tip: See our 7 step post on How To Dress Boho-Chic for tips!

7. Long Transparent Skirts

Feminine, sexy, elegant, glamorous…This trend has it all!

Tip: Showing a glimpse of your legs is sexy, revealing your underwear is not.

Kourtney Kardashian loves Chinese Laundry boots and SO DO I! The 31 year-old TV personality wore Chinese Laundry over-the-knee boots with jeans, a vintage belt, a grey top, and a camel-colored cardigan, while out and about in Beverly Hills. Chinese Laundry boots are stylish, affordable, and most importantly comfortable (I just bought a pair – trust me!) so if you’re looking for fabulous boots and don’t know where to start, look no further!

Chinese Laundry Turbo Leather Boots, $71

1. Gem Fur Jacket, $88

2. Oasis Metal Bangle Set, $18

3. Ecote Tiedye Maxi Dress, $49

4. Bebe Oval Fringe Earring, $24

5. Steve Madden Sydney Laser Cut Day Clutch, $48

6. Mia Duke, $30

This is how leopard print should be worn! Olivia Palermo looked stunning at the Mango Show on Wednesday (March 16, 2011) in Moscow. The 25 year-old beauty wore what looked like a leopard print dress but was infact a Mango leopard print skirt and top. She also wore shoes by Kurt Geiger and accessorized with a cream leather bag. You can check out her gorgeous outfit by clicking the links below. Happy weekend!

Mango Skirt Leo, $90; Mango Blousen Leo, $70