Positivity – Positive Persistence

Positive Persistence When Being Iced

Deborah — Sat, 27 Jul 2024 18:30:09 +0000

No, I am not talking about the type of “Iced” as in dead. Though, ironically, that is actually a part of this story, but we will save that for another time (or not… you may have to ask me privately 🤫🤫). But, at the time of the writing of this Birthday Letter to my husband, […]

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Deborah is a #1 Jazz Singer, as well as a lifelong musician, songwriter, and sound engineer. She is also a writer who pursues a love of positive psychology. She is a thesis short of having her doctorate in psychology.

Motivational Quotes >> Loving, Letting Go, and Moving On in Life

Deborah — Mon, 20 Aug 2018 13:00:31 +0000

Quotes like this one >> “If you love somebody, let them go… If they return, they were always yours… If they don’t, they never were…” Kahlil Gibran This video producer has done a nice job of combining motivational quotes and music for your enjoyment and we are honored to promote their video. Please show some […]

Resolutions with Tested Goal-Setting Is the Key to Long-Term Success

Deborah — Mon, 29 Jan 2018 14:00:00 +0000

So you have come up with your resolutions. You are pretty sure that you are balanced in your approach. You are also sure you have not overloaded yourself, your loved ones, or any other area of your life. Ok, you are all set. But, there is this twinge of fear that remains. Can you really […]

How to Succeed with Resolutions in Spite of Formidable Failure Rates

Deborah — Mon, 22 Jan 2018 14:00:00 +0000

In success, one of the most important things is understanding how to succeed with resolutions. Otherwise, why would we bother with them, right?

You've done it before and you will likely repeat history. Or, will you? Those silly resolutions. But, in the past, when you have gotten all excited about them, you have failed (or forgotten) at resolution-keeping. So, what is going to make this year different? And, is that even possible? We have gone through some of the reasons why resolutions fail.

Learning About Goals and Resolutions for Measurable Success

Deborah — Mon, 15 Jan 2018 14:00:00 +0000

You are the type who approaches life with passion. When you decide to do something, you approach it full force. The problem is, if you find a hiccup or something that is too complicated, you sometimes lose interest and then decide to do something different. That is sometimes how resolutions fall by the wayside. But, […]

Deborah’s Goal Hacking (and Goal Setting Without the Triviality)

Deborah — Mon, 08 Jan 2018 14:00:00 +0000

It is not unusual to hear people talk about how important it is to set goals. Sure, that is true, isn’t it? But, goal setting can really become elusive. It may even seem like it is impossible for us to achieve our goals, no matter how simplified. Issues with Goals (including Frivolous Triviality) It is […]

Approaching New Year Resolutions Without the Overwhelming Toxicity

Deborah — Mon, 01 Jan 2018 14:00:00 +0000

You know that the New Year is approaching. It is right around the corner. It doesn’t really matter what year it is, does it? It is about that gnawing feeling that you should come up with those New Year Resolutions, but that pit in the stomach feeling that you may not be able to reach […]

Breastfeeding Mums are Valued (with a Cup of Tea) at this Sydney Cafe

News Spotter — Wed, 20 Apr 2016 11:00:53 +0000

Motherhood is not for the faint of heart. A cafe in Sydney, Australia, realizes that! They realize how difficult it is and how demanding it can be to be a mother. So what have they done about it? This wondrful cafe is offering a free cupt of tea to breastfeeding mothers! Is that sweet […]

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As Simple As A Child’s Love

Deborah — Thu, 26 Nov 2015 16:00:36 +0000

"Hi I love u mommy"

The text came in, gently jolting me from my daily "work." A welcome jolt of love, like a soothing breeze touching my cheeks while experiencing the joy of a rushing ocean wave.

It is the voice of this child that brings tears to my eyes. Tears because I love her. Tears because she loves me. Tears because she KNOWS that I love her!

These are the good sort of tears.

There is something so precious about a child's love. It is able to permeate the deepest areas of the heart. It is able to soothe the roughest spots. It is able to stop us, as adults, in our tracks and realize the simplicity and joy of living. But, that is only IF we allow it to touch and bless us.

Miracles Happen In The Tiniest Packages

Deborah — Wed, 25 Nov 2015 16:00:30 +0000

When You Need It Most and Least Expect It

When most new mothers would expect help to come from capable, adult family members, there was a time when help came from a more unlikely, seemingly less-capable source. A family member that should be the recipient of nurturing and caring, and yet, in this time of need, became the nurturer.

Oh, he doesn't remember it now, since he was very tiny at the time, but this little boy came through for his mama that day, in a way that was not only life-sustaining but joy-giving, for years to come.

His mother had just awoken from an unconscious state, due to low blood sugar, and was very disoriented and needed caring. He toddled around, appearing to be blissful and carefree. He had an inquisitive nature, attempting, daily, to find out what makes the world go 'round. And, yet, on this day, his roaming curiosity was put aside and he became "in-tune" with his mama, somehow, in his newly developing mind, becoming aware of his mama's need and that of a newborn, as well.

I Admit It… Now, Have Compassion on Those Around You

Deborah — Mon, 26 Oct 2015 02:50:55 +0000

I admit it. I’m listening to “My Savior My God” by Aaron Shust. Somehow I clicked on that instead of “The Essential Heart,” for that body-curing comforting classic rock. I feel the warm tears on my cheeks. Sometimes that happens, when you least expect it. Yes, when you most need it. Ok, if you question […]

Stop to Smell the Flowers

Deborah — Sun, 26 Apr 2015 15:00:26 +0000

Appreciate what you have access to today. You never know when things will change on you. So, go out and stop and smell those flowers, be it roses, daisies, or the perfume of your significant other.

De-Stress Your Life!

Deborah — Thu, 19 Mar 2015 21:03:16 +0000

Here is a list of quickies on minimizing the stress in your life. First of all, define your “relaxing task.” What is it that really helps you to breathe deeper and relax? Is it a hot tub (if you don’t have one, what about a hot tub bath or hot shower)? Is it listening to […]

I Am My Grandmother’s Granddaughter

Deborah — Sun, 26 Oct 2014 04:47:44 +0000

Even as I write this, I tear up at the memory of how much I took my grandmother for granted. As a child, I would walk, no, run, into her house and go straight back to the rocking chair where my grandpa was sitting and climb up in his lap. My grandpa was my hero. […]

Memory Lane and the Validation Vacuum

Deborah — Thu, 26 Jun 2014 15:00:51 +0000

As I watched the elevator door close, my mind raced through memories of days gone by.. days that one may want to forget, and yet days that have molded me into who I am today. For some, the walk down memory lane brings up a past that one may not want to recall. It is […]

When Misunderstanding Creates The Foundation of Strength

Deborah — Mon, 09 Jun 2014 12:00:36 +0000

It is a difficult process. Probably unbearable at times, possibly impossible. And, yet, it is a road or path that is presented and may be viewed as required. It is so much easier to have a temper tantrum and demand attention. It is so much easier to focus on oneself and demand that one be […]

Dummies’ Guide To Hosting The Perfect 50s Themed Party

guestblogger — Thu, 31 Oct 2013 18:50:07 +0000

The fifties were probably the most interesting times in history. What with the world just recovering from the devastating aftermath of the Second World War. This is the era whose music still makes even the most heavily left-footed dancers to break into a jig. This is the era that was a perfect mix of post-war optimism and pre-modern innocence.

But above all else, the people back then knew how to have fun, how to go wild and shake off all that stress. This probably explains this generation's fixation with that long gone time. If you're one those too (and we don't blame you for that), and intend to host a 50s themed party, our simple and snazzy little guide should help you best.

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3 Memorable Ideas, For A More Memorable Day

guestblogger — Mon, 07 Oct 2013 20:02:11 +0000

Everybody who plans a wedding wants it to be that little bit special. We want to buy the special gown, book a special venue, order the nicest cake, and arrive in the most luxurious or unusual transportation. However, these items are expensive, and the more select the choices the more the cost goes up. However, it is possible to impress your guests without spending an absolute fortune. Although we all want our wedding to be perfect, and not have to worry about the expense, sometimes the little things become the most memorable. Below are a few ways that you can make your wedding memorable, with a more subtle approach.

Wedding Invitations

The whole wedding ceremony starts with the invitations, and what better time than this to start to make the impression you want? Invitations come in all shapes and sizes, and can be beautiful to touch as well as to look at. But if you want your invitation to become memorable, you need to stop it slipping from memory. One way to do this is to make your wedding invitation a countdown to the big day. You can have your invitation made to your design, but also have it made to be a countdown until the morning of the ceremony. Another idea is to have reminders on the calendar such as “Don’t forget to buy your shoes, only 1 week to go”. This turns the traditional into a bit of fun that people will enjoy.

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Only You Can Decide When It’s Time To Turn Your Life Around

guestblogger — Tue, 03 Sep 2013 06:07:09 +0000

For many of us, there comes a time in our lives when we start to reflect on the past and think about deciding about our future. Some call it a ‘crossroads’ and that description usually fits the bill. You may be in your mid 20’s or perhaps late 40’s, it doesn’t really matter. What is […]

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Keep Moving Fun, Call Movers For The Hard Stuff

guestblogger — Tue, 16 Apr 2013 14:29:17 +0000

Thinking of all the new possibilities when moving is half the fun. Imagining the way you can decorate, the color palettes you can use, the way you will organize your kitchen. Planning to add a deck or a fire pit can be so exciting. Checking out the local restaurants and shops is a great way to meet new people. Expanding your horizons, learning about the new neighborhood, it is all