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		<title>Why cloning is a psychic moral issue</title>
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Most would say cloning has nothing to do with the art of psychics. But look again, this is not just a religious issue keeping the government in check and holding the scientists at bay, no this is a human issue at the roots of creation and the soul.
Does that cloned person have a soul? Or will the cloned person be soulless and hollow? Perhaps the cloned human will be able to answer all the questions that science has, for the act of creation.
Let’s look at the “Dolly the cloned sheep” ...


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<p>Most would say cloning has nothing to do with the art of <a href="http://www.psychictarotreadings.net/">psychics</a>. But look again, this is not just a religious issue keeping the government in check and holding the scientists at bay, no this is a human issue at the roots of creation and the soul.</p>
<p>Does that cloned person have a soul? Or will the cloned person be soulless and hollow? Perhaps the cloned human will be able to answer all the questions that science has, for the act of creation.</p>
<p>Let’s look at the “Dolly the cloned sheep” It is a great show of science ability to create out of a single cell and embryo a living breathing replica of a sheep. But they did make just a few mistakes that posse some real questions that science is not willing to discus.</p>
<p>Dolly has a short life expectancy. It is do to the fact that she has shorter connectors to the cells much like an older sheep (Like the one she was cloned from) the cell had memory; it knew it was supposed to be an older sheep. It is already proven that other cells in the body know what they are supposed to be. Even cancer cells know they are cancer.</p>
<p>But what else does that cell know, remember. We are taught in spiritualism that every cell in the body is you. Every single cell is part of your soul, there for every cell has soul. We have to ask what else we are recreating when we clone a cell. Will that cloned human remember the things that the parent remembers and in that way BE THE PARENT?</p>
<p>Identical twins have a “psychic connection” that normal siblings have due to there similarities and blood.  Science in all of there faithless “knowledge” would say it is the way they are raised but ask any parent of twins it is impossible to treat two children even twins that same. It is deeper then upbringing it is “metaphysical”</p>
<p>If a heart transplant recipient can start to crave the things that the donor of that heart used to like, or want to start to do things that the donor used to love to do, even find the people in the donors life familiar, then perhaps all will be answered that day that science take that next step and clones a speaking, feeling human that can in turn tell us all the secrets.</p>


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		<title>Interracial Relationships – Biracial, multicultural, makes for a perfect world</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:07:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
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I do not pretend to be among the great keen psychics or to know all there is to know in life, I still learn from those around me.
We will all have our time of knowledge when we die but I have noticed when I used to take care of the elderly that they are the ones we should be listening to and learning from. So many years of trials has made them just a little wiser.
I was about 20 when I brought my first born son to my grandmother. ...


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I do not pretend to be among the great keen psychics or to know all there is to know in life, I still learn from those around me.</p>
<p>We will all have our time of knowledge when we die but I have noticed when I used to take care of the elderly that they are the ones we should be listening to and learning from. So many years of trials has made them just a little wiser.</p>
<p>I was about 20 when I brought my first born son to my grandmother. My son is biracial and she held him tight and kissed him, my other family members and friends were not as welcoming to my interracial relationships views nor the first “black” child into our circle.</p>
<p>But grandmother just looked at me and out of no where said “You know I see a world where we are all one color a mixture of all races and all cultures you are just the beginning of that perfect world.</p>
<p>The US is a melting pot, there are no pure races, but this child has a pure soul” I was told that Grandma “knew things” but whether she had a psychic connection she never said.</p>
<p>I wonder if in their wisdom they can see things a little clearer being so close to the time they will see God and all his answers. Makes you want to listen a little closer to the elderly rambling of grandpa now doesn’t it? <a href="http://www.psychictarotreadings.net/how-to-develop-psychic-abilities-and-test-improvement/">Psychic abilities can be learned</a>, and Time is the best teacher.</p>
<p>Many People have tried to promote the pure race theory and failed, not because of an opposition, but because the thought never worked.</p>
<p>Things weren’t heaven when there were separations between races and oceans between cultures. Many problems arose from the mixing of races at first but only because of those that fought change.</p>
<p>No look around, dark people trying to be light while whites try to be tan…. But biracial people have a year long tan and with no price of skin cancer. Mixing lessened the chance of racial inbreeding disease like German being weak gallbladder, Indian heart disease, Or Blacks prone to stroke… every race has their own.</p>
<p>All interracial relationships produces such beautiful children: Indian, black, white, Hispanic, Arabic, Asian, and Native, And yes America is a good example where we mix German, Polish, Irish, English Whites with Native Indian, African, Hispanic, Greek, Italian, Asian and Middle Eastern.</p>
<p>I will state that inter racial dating is difficult and cultural differences can also add to the problems. Infatuation with ones differences is a great way to start a relationship but you have to be a strong and understanding person to deal with this strange new world you find yourself connected with.</p>
<p>Communication is a must. I mean really be able to talk with each other on what you expect and want out of life, out of raising children and even the way you will grow together. One cultures thoughts on old age even is different then another. Managing cultural differences may be the thing that gets in the way the most in a marriage.</p>
<p>Religion is also an obstacle so make sure that is talked about example: “what religion with our children be?” really look at the (-,+) to each.</p>
<p>I can never tell someone that is the cross for you. But I see those beautiful bright eyed children that have the best of both worlds and I can not help but hear my Grandmothers prediction come to life, one wondrous, child at a time. Be blessed.</p>


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		<title>Just Can’t Win?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 19:05:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Ever wonder why things just keep going wrong and that the more you struggle to succeed something keeps knocking you back on your assets?
I mean you climb one step up the ladder and you loose your footing and fall back down 3 steps, never really ever gaining ground.  
A lot of times people use the excuse that they just have bad luck or that they are cursed, perhaps even fate biting them in the butt for something they did in their past. “Didn’t I give enough tithes?”
I beg ...


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> Ever wonder why things just keep going wrong and that the more you struggle to succeed something keeps knocking you back on your assets?</p>
<p>I mean you climb one step up the ladder and you loose your footing and fall back down 3 steps, never really ever gaining ground.  </p>
<p>A lot of times people use the excuse that they just have bad luck or that they are cursed, perhaps even fate biting them in the butt for something they did in their past. “Didn’t I give enough tithes?”</p>
<p>I beg to differ. I have a different way of looking at what you are going through and then you will understand a little better the grand design.</p>
<p>Lets say you are so close to getting that job you have been waiting for, you have had all the interviews and your references have all came through for you (special thanks to Uncle Mike in the police department) and they ask you to come in one day to get some formalities out of the way. </p>
<p>On the way there you get a flat tire, it is raining, cell went dead and you are 3 miles to the nearest phone. OMG!</p>
<p>Yeah you can picture that rant and rave.</p>
<p>Why would God do that? Doesn’t he want you to succeed at anything, where is your reward for all the work and effort?</p>
<p>Well… While God was watching and being proud of you’re ever step the <a href="http://www.psychictarotreadings.net/devils-satan/">devil</a> was watching too and doing some sweating. Your success would trigger hope and justice not to mention happiness, finally a little more money which means a little less stress, family would be in a better situations and God forbid if you were a religious person! That might tell others to do the same and get rewarded.</p>
<p>Nope… evil cant let you win. And Oh… How HE will fight the closer you get to greatness. Teeth and Nail screaming “NOOOO!” when you got that diploma, and try as he may stirring up all kinds of difficulties right before your wedding. Nope things always get worse the closer you are to the finish line.</p>
<p>But have faith; as much as the devil struggles to win, if you keep your eyes on the prize and do not falter, the devil gives up when he has no glimpse of winning. </p>


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		<title>Dealing With Loss and Trauma</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 19:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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It is hard to look back on ones life and not wonder why me? Dealing with loss and trauma feels unbearable. 
Often the world seems a little one-sided; so many have so little while other struggle for nothing in life only to have success fall in their laps.
It almost feels like someone is tipping the scales. Why are some born into greatness while others have to work so hard to achieve what little they do have? 
It is ok to wonder why? Many religions say they have the ...


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<p>It is hard to look back on ones life and not wonder why me? Dealing with loss and trauma feels unbearable. </p>
<p>Often the world seems a little one-sided; so many have so little while other struggle for nothing in life only to have success fall in their laps.</p>
<p>It almost feels like someone is tipping the scales. Why are some born into greatness while others have to work so hard to achieve what little they do have? </p>
<p>It is ok to wonder why? Many religions say they have the answers to why but not many have the solution to how it is to be dealt with.</p>
<p>A psychic answer to this question is easy. And no I will not say have a faith, bare your cross or it is the fate or karma. But a simple phrase of “Everything happens for a reason” starts the explanation.</p>
<p>When I pondered my life it was difficult to accept all of its hardships and trials as having a reason or knowing that it was good for me. How could anyone profit from <a href="http://www.psychictarotreadings.net/abusive-relationships/">abusive relationships</a> or being homeless?  </p>
<p>But when I started looking at life in a different light, I stepped back, I could see that all those hardships straightened me in ways that others remained weak.</p>
<p>I am like a sword a polished, decorated and sharpened, ready to be called into battle. At first I was rough and was forged, thrown into the fire and then beaten, over and over, every blow to my being, compacts metal until I am the strongest I can be.  </p>
<p>I hear the hammer on the anvil still and see the sparks that the  dramas produced. And still more flames, as the fires are stoked glowing red I am plunged into the waters as the steam rises, the blacksmith admires his work and begins to drag me across the stone till the once dull blade is sharp. </p>
<p>I am tested to make sure I will not fail. I am straight, strong and smooth, a cold hard blade worthy of my task and placed in a case of reverence, until the day when I shall be a tool of righteousness in my Gods hands.</p>
<p>Those that are strong blades can withstand almost any pressure, while the ones that we spoke of earlier, the ones that had things so easy, will break and fail with even the slightest stress. </p>
<p>I once asked a friend, after she lost her job, what will you do? She simple said, “I will find another”. My friend was a single mother working and going to school. She had little but was proud what she had she earned. </p>
<p>That same week I read in the news about an executive in a large corporation jumping to his death because he was fired. I knew then that my friend was a sword that was strong and was able to cut through those difficulties because of her life being full of struggles. </p>
<p>Without the struggles she would have been week and broken like the businessman. From that day on I looked at life and my struggles with different eyes of appreciation for those horrid hard times. </p>
<p>Knowing that each trauma I live through is one more thing I know I need not fear…. This blade can take it.</p>
<p>So the next time you are frustrated with your life and feel depressed when things go wrong, try looking at a distance the true reality of the situation, you will live, and come out better than before, you will be that strong smooth glistening sword…</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 16:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abuse has no excuses, and other than the life lesson learned from being taught to stand up for your self.  I really have no tolerance for it.
I read in peoples eyes before they speak.. Almost screaming to me “Help”, but most battered women and men are so good at hiding their embarrassment from the outside world, they often can not even admit to a friend or family member let alone a psychic that they are being beaten by the very person that says they love them.
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<p>I read in peoples eyes before they speak.. Almost screaming to me “Help”, but most battered women and men are so good at hiding their embarrassment from the outside world, they often can not even admit to a friend or family member let alone a <a href="http://www.psychictarotreadings.net/">psychic</a> that they are being beaten by the very person that says they love them.</p>
<p>The signs of abuse are covered so well.</p>
<p>Abuse comes in so many different phases and levels, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual. Physical said to be the most damaging because of fatalities.</p>
<p>I beg to different, mental abuse is far more damaging, and while the outward signs of being battered will heal and fade in time (if you live), emotional abuse can last a lifetime and spread through generations.</p>
<p>I see too often people coming to me for advice on “how to better my relationship”, thinking that in some way they are responsible for being abused and I will say time and time again there is never an excuse to hit anyone. No matter what a person does or says. No matter who raised you.</p>
<p><strong>Example:</strong> A wife cheats… then she wasn’t a good wife and more than likely will never be a good wife with or without a beating (time to move on)</p>
<p>Are you angry? Yes. Does it suck that you are out all this time and effort spent on a woman that is not worth it? Yes.</p>
<p>Will it help if you showed her your anger? No. She just doesn’t fit in your puzzle and that doesn’t make her any less a person just not what you need.</p>
<p><strong>Another example:</strong> A woman works everyday because her husband has been laid off. She is angry because he will not find another job or at least do something around the house, perhaps he even suffers from depression and just mopes, it is still no reason that this will be solved through physical assault.</p>
<p>No amount of kick in the butt is going to help a person out of depression or be assertive. Confront and tell him your feelings and you may even give an ultimatum. But never raise your hands or voice.</p>
<p><strong>Note to the abusive:</strong> Understand that the decisions you make today will follow you throughout your life. Karma is a wonderful thing or a true bite in the butt.</p>
<p>And if you are one of those people that did or are considered abusive, start by apologizing. It may not remove the pain from the past but maybe if you can ask for forgiveness they can learn to forgive, and really that is what they need to do to heal.</p>
<p>And “she pushes my buttons” is not an excuse it is merely a show of weakness that you are so easily manipulated.</p>
<p>I once told an abuser “Nothing will be right with you in all your life, until you make things right by her” She left and he beat his next girlfriend into the hospital and he went to jail. Maybe Karma didn’t see he had buttons?</p>
<p><strong>Note to the abused:</strong> You have made all the excuses; you have taken in all the blame. How well has that worked for you?  Now it is time to see the reality.</p>
<p>You are worth it; they are just the one that doesn’t value you. You are a good person; they just do not want to admit they were wrong.</p>
<p>To get away is not failure; it is cutting your losses. This is the first day of a new plan… tell yourself “I love you” and “It is not my fault their heart is so blackened by their own lack of self value to see mine”.</p>
<p>Get educated, acquire a new skill, reach out to your network of close friends and get OUT! …….</p>


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